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Jeremy's on-screen romance turned IRL.

Photos of Jeremy and co-star Molly Gordon (who plays his love interest, Claire, in The Bear) obtained by People show things heating up between the two. The duo had their arms wrapped around each other as they embraced for a kiss. This is the first time we've seen them both linked romantically, and we're honestly shocked and left wondering what happened with Rosalía, who he was going steady with in fall 2023.

October 25, 2024: Jeremy Allen White & Molly Gordon Spark More Rumors

A month after Jeremy Allen White and Molly Gordon were seen locking lips in Los Angeles, Peoplesnagged more photos of the two as they enjoyed a nice walk in NYC. They look cozy in their casual fall outfits — complete with matching burgundy hats — and were all smiles. They've yet to confirm anything though, but they have all the makings of a budding romance that could be serious!

October 31, 2024: Jeremy Allen White & Molly Gordon Are Taking It Slow

And on Halloween, we learned just how much Jeremy and Molly are enjoying taking it slow with their relationship. "Jeremy and Molly have been seeing each other quietly for a few months and are happy together," a source told ET. “They are enjoying their relationship, but also trying to keep it private. They don’t like attention surrounding their personal lives and it has been an adjustment for Molly."⁠

Scroll on for a deeper look into all of Jeremy's recent romantic escapades!

Jeremy Allen White's Steamy Dating History

First, there were the Jeremy Allen White and Selena Gomez dating rumors.

An anonymous submission to DeuxMoi at the beginning of July 2023 set off speculation that the two A-listers were “in touch.” The tip noted that Selena and Jeremy had allegedly met at a Vanity Fair cover shoot and hit it off ever since.

The gossip was neither proved wrong *or* right, though in hindsight, it didn’t hold up too strongly. Not long after rumors began circulating, the Haim sisters posted on Instagram about "single summer," picturing Selena alongside a Taylor Swift-backed girl gang.

Then, a big PDA fest with Ashley Moore.

Things were steaming up on the streets of Los Angeles when Jeremy Allen White was spotted engaging in some serious PDA with model and actress, Ashley Moore in August 2023. How they met is a total mystery, but seeing them together via paparazzi pictures was jaw-dropping – especially considering Mr. White was seen with his estranged wife and kids the week prior. Yikes!

Next, Jeremy publicly thirsting over Alexa Demie.

He’s at it again! In August 2023, Jeremy Allen White scrolled past a video highlighting Alexa Demie’s new campaign with Calvin Klein and did what any fan would do – he left a comment (though minimal): “Wow.”

To publicly show his affection (or rather, attraction) via Instagram is a whole thing in itself. King.

In fall 2023, Jeremy Allen White and Rosalía were going steady.

“Rosalía and Jeremy Allen White have recently started dating,” a source told Us Weekly in November 2023. “They started out as just friends, but things have turned romantic recently.”

Alexa, play "That Should Be Me" by Justin Bieber!

The duo had been sighted side-by-side a few times. TMZ shared photos of them together at a late-October 2023 farmer's market and even sharing a smoke break in a parking lot. Romantic!

That budding romance came after what we call White’s hot boy summer – he was out and about on the streets of Los Angeles amidst his separation from actress Addison Timlin. Throughout their divorce, White was rumored to be involved with Selena Gomez, thirsting over Alexa Demi on Instagram, and was publicly spotted smooching Ashley Moore.

Despite all of this, Jeremy was spotted being friendly with his divorced ex.

In what TMZ was calling "the friendliest divorce ever," Jeremy Allen White and his now-ex Addison Timlin had been seen doing family activities together amid his romantic antics. The pair shares two young daughters, which is likely why they're still seeing each other from time to time. Where Jeremy's head is, we can't say for sure, but we do know he's out there acting young, wild, and free.

Taylor Swift And Selena Gomez Meet Thanks To The Jonas Brothers

Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez were both connected to the JoBros in 2008 (the year both Fearless and Camp Rock came out, and the year after Wizards of Waverly Place premiered).

"We actually dated the Jonas Brothers together, it was hysterical," Selena said in a 2017 interview with KISS FM UK. "We just clicked...It was the best thing we got out of those relationships."

(I will add that, as listeners, we got songs like "Last Kiss" and "Mr. Perfectly Fine" out of the relationships, which definitely comes as a close second to this friendship.)

Selena Gomez Brings Taylor Swift To The "Another Cinderella Story" Premiere

The BFF duo makes their red carpet debut at Selena Gomez' Another Cinderella Story premiere. Selena wore a slate gray dress with a capelet detail and Taylor rocked her country style with a sleeveless, white babydoll dress. Very 2008 and very cute.

Taylor Swift And Selena Gomez Attend The People's Choice Awards In 2011

At the 2011 People's Choice Awards, Selena Gomez performed her hit song "A Year Without Rain," and both Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez won awards: Favorite Breakout Artist for Selena Gomez & The Scene and Favorite Country Artist for Taylor Swift.

Selena Gomez Joins Taylor Swift On The Speak Now Tour In 2011

At Taylor's NYC stop of the Speak Now Tour, Selena Gomez came out onstage at Madison Square Garden to sing "Who Says," another one of her early hits. Taylor Swift was also joined by James Taylor (who she was actually named after) to sing his song "Fire and Rain."

Taylor Swift And Selena Gomez Match At The 2013 VMAs

The 2013 VMAs were huge for those of us who were deep in in fan culture at the time. Not only did Taylor and Selena both wear navy dresses, but Selena took home Best Pop Video for "Come & Get It," an award presented by One Direction.

Selena Gomez Celebrates Taylor Swift's "1989" in 2014

To celebrate the release of 1989 in October 2014, Selena Gomez posted a collage of images to her Instagram. "From hotel room album listening parties, kitchen dance floor album listening parties to driving on the pch, windows down album listening parties," she says in the caption. "The best part is we were the only ones there. Each time. So happy, honored and proud to know you and your diaries."

Selena Gomez Becomes A Part Of The 1989 Era

Taylor Swift released the "Bad Blood feat. Kendrick Lamar" music video starring Selena Gomez, Zendaya, Hailee Steinfeld, Gigi Hadid, Haley Williams, and Cara Delevingne. Selena then went on to join Taylor during the 1989 World Tour, where they sang Selena's "Good For You" at the Staples Center in L.A.

They also attended the 2015 VMAs, where Taylor Swift won the Best Video for "Bad Blood."

Taylor Swift Makes History At The 2016 Grammys

Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez made another red carpet appearance at the 2016 Grammys, where Taylor would go on to win Album of the Year — and become the first woman to do so twice.

Selena Gomez Shows Up At The Reputation Tour

During Taylor Swift's Reputation tour, Selena Gomez came onstage in Pasadena, California to sing "Hands to Myself" — which is one of my favorite Taylor Swift concert moments ever!

"To the person I could call at any time of day, who has been there no matter what," Taylor wrote on Instagram, "you absolutely KILLED IT tonight and everyone was so excited to see you. I love you, and 60,000 people at the Rose Bowl loved you too."

Selena also posted on Instagram in honor of the performance, saying, "I’m grateful for those I surround myself with. And this woman right here happens to be one of my favorites. Love our tradition and I love you."

Taylor Swift And Selena Gomez Talk About Their Friendship

In Selena Gomez' 2020 cover story for WSJ, both Selena and Taylor Swift open up about their friendship.

"There has always been this quality of sisterhood, and I don't say that in a basic way," Taylor says in the interview. "I knew from when I met her I would always have her back. In my life, I have the ability to forgive people who have hurt me. But I don't know if I can forgive someone who hurts her."

"She has showed up for me in ways that I would have never expected," Selena says. "Flown in because I was hurt and was going through something. Stuff that was going on with my family. It's been proven year after year and in every moment of my life that she is one of my best friends in the world. We don't agree on everything, but we respect each other with everything."

Selena Gomez FaceTimes Taylor Swift During "Selena + Chef"

During an episode of her Max show Selena + Chef, Selena Gomez FaceTimes Taylor Swift to show her the Korean barbeque Texas breakfast tacos she'd been making. "If you don't send me the recipe we're going to have words," Taylor says. "I want to be served that."

Taylor then goes on to say how jealous she is, and Selena comments that making food is Taylor's love language. Same!

Taylor Swift Supports Selena Gomez' "My Mind And Me" Documentary

After the trailer release for Selena Gomez' Apple TV+ documentary My Mind And Me, Taylor Swift shared the trailer with the note, "So proud of you. Love you forever."

Selena Gomez Attends The Eras Tour

Like so many celebrities, Selena Gomez attended the Eras Tour (and with her little sister Gracie in tow!). Selena wore a dress, cardigan, and mini buns to represent the folklore era, while Gracie wore a purple dress à la Speak Now.

Taylor Swift And Selena Gomez Spend Fourth Of July Together

In honor of the Fourth of July, Taylor Swift posted photos from a weekend with her friends. "Happy belated Independence Day from your local neighborhood independent girlies," Taylor captioned the post.

This might not seem like a huge deal, but it's a choice many Swifties consider a nod to her famous 1989-era Fourth of July parties. In addition to HAIM, Selena Gomez can also be seen relaxing with Taylor, eating popsicles, and overall having a patriotic time.

Taylor Swift And Selena Gomez Hang Out At The VMAs

Both Taylor Swift And Selena Gomez came home with some big wins from the VMAs — Taylor with Artist of the Year and Video of the Year for "Anti-Hero," and Selena with Best Afrobeats for her feature on Rema's "Calm Down." The duo snapped a few pics and had some of my favorite moments from the night. When Selena won, Taylor screamed her head off and blew kisses in Selena's direction. In short: she couldn't ~calm down~ and neither could I.

Selena Posts Some Selfies

On September 17, Selena posted a couple of super cute selfies of her with Taylor and an amazing background (the ocean and the food, TBH). "Thas my best frien — she a real bad," Selena captioned the post, referencing a Saweetie and Doja Cat song. The duo appear to be on the patio of a restaurant, and it totally makes me want to hang out with them, whether they're eating out or traveling the globe.

I love that I can be myself around my friends without worrying what they'll think — including being silly, wearing no makeup, and straight up kissing their faces — and I love that Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez can do the same!

Taylor Swift And Selena Gomez Hang Out In NYC

On December 8, Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez had a GNO in NYC. They were joined by Cara Delevingne, Anya Taylor-Joy, and Zoë Kravitz for one of Ramy Youssef's comedy shows (the proceeds of which will be donated to the American Near East Refugee Aid to help the crisis in Gaza).

Then they went to grab some pizza at Lucali in Brooklyn — can I get a slice?! The women both wore mini skirts — Selena's in a snakeskin print and Taylor's in plaid — and knee high boots — Selena's in black and Taylor's in red — and I will be adding these to my fall and winter capsule wardrobe STAT!

Selena Gomez Celebrates Taylor Swift's Birthday

Taylor Swift's birthday on December 13 was a very festive occasion — and to celebrate, Selena posted a new photo of the party they had together! The photo features Taylor basically sitting in Selena's lap (like the closest of friends do, ya know?), with a delicious cake, white wine, and plenty of friends around them. They're both wearing very cozy sweaters and tights for another matching moment! "New York, my favorite moments w you this week," Selena captioned the post.

Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift Exchange Whispers At The Golden Globes

The Golden Globe Awards was full of interesting moments, but nothing stood out quite like Selena making a beeline to Taylor's table to tell her something. Entertainment Tonight reports that the Only Murders in the Building star was seen whispering something in Taylor's ear that must've been juicy enough for her to visibly gasp. While no one knows for sure what they were talking about, it's clear that Taylor mouthed, "She what" to Selena Gomez.

One Xuser posted, "Oh I just know Selena Gomez was talking some *shit* with Taylor. She’s so me. Love them. #GoldenGlobes." Despite speculations that Kylie had an issue with boyfriend Timothée being near Selena, a source told People the latter, "...was absolutely not referencing anything about Timothée or Kylie."

Given their close-knit friendship, the world may never know what Taylor and Selena were whispering about...unless they want to tell us.

Selena Gomez Praises Taylor Swift In 'Vanity Fair' Cover Story

For Vanity Fair's October issue, Selena Gomez revealed Taylor Swift is only a phone call away when she needs her, offering industry advice or gossiping about Vanderpump Rules (just like the rest of us). “She is really like a big sister to me," Selena reveals.

2024 has had plenty of new music releases and concert tours to pick from, and Selena has been loving it! “I love female artists,” she says. “I’ve been to all the girls’ concerts—Billie, Dua….” Hopefully a Selena Gomez concert is in our future!

1. Women with a lot of friends value connection & community.

The one thing everyone with a solid group of friends can agree on is how it feels like you've built your own supportive community. Friends are often the first people we turn to with good or bad news, or the ones we simply want to go on adventures with. Osequeda says, "Women with strong friendship circles often value connection, community, and the power of vulnerability."

There's a realization that women in this unique position are able to "recognize that life is richer with a support system," says Osequeda. This involves "people who will listen, validate, and be there through both the highs and lows" she adds. From the friend who stayed up with you all night after a bad breakup to the one who cheered the loudest at your graduation, women who have a huge friend circle know that life feels better when we can connect with others.

Based on her experience as a therapist, she's "observed how women start friendships by gradually sharing layers of themselves." This can look like "having children at the same school or bonding over shared interests," she adds. This vulnerability is important because it creates a foundation that signals to women they've found their tribe.

2. Women with multiple friendships are open to vulnerability.

Like Osequeda mentioned, vulnerability can deepen our friendships. "These women are open to sharing the 'messy' parts of themselves which builds a deeper, more authentic bond." Also, she notes women with a lot of friends "aren't afraid to shed layers and be real" because "this vulnerability strengthens their sense of community." The more this happens over time, the more it "helps foster the connections" women with a lot of friends "cherish," according to Osequeda.

Honestly, she says "we’re all wired to seek out connection, and friendships provide that sense of community, validation, and belonging." She believes we truly "crave spaces where we can share our thoughts and feelings about what truly matters to us."

Asher believes women with lots of friends are "usually drawn towards one another in friendship" based on two levels:

• Level 1: Shared interests, appearance of confidence, a positive energy that they feel (smiling helps with this!)
• Level 2: (When in conversation) the safety they feel when speaking to another person, [emotional compatibility], how engaged the person is in conversation, and a desire to learn more about them, ultimately to find shared values.

This determines how women move forward in friendships. The approach is often led with "a deep sense of authenticity and care," according to Osequeda. "This is because women want relationships where they can be themselves, sharing hopes, dreams, and frustrations without judgment."

3. Women who have a lot of friends like other people they're friends with.

Again, the fact women with lots of friends actually like the people in their chosen circle is monumental. Asher says, "An interesting Yale study done in 2003 sought to look at 'popularity' in high schools to see if they could find something that all of the most liked and most popular kids had in common (outside of being a jock, etc.,)."

The common thread? "THEY liked the highest amount of people," Asher reveals. I talk about being a people pleaser a lot, but genuinely liking others isn't the same as that. IMO, it's actually admirable when people can respect others regardless of their race, religion, socioeconomic status, or sexuality.

She knows you're likely asking, "How does this apply to women having a lot of friends?" Her answer? "Across the board, the principle here is that women with the most friends are continuously on a hunt to find good and likable things about others."

However, this isn't based on a selfish need or want. "They've determined that the time invested in others is of mutual benefit," says Asher because "the biggest coast in adult female friendships is time — the most finite resource we all share in common."

4. These women also don't mind making new friends.

While making friends as adults shouldn't be hard, it definitely doesn't mean it comes easily. From overthinking to social anxiety, there's so many reasons why we struggle. Also, this idea we're doing fine without friends isn't exactly helpful or positive. Asher says, "The CDC has said that the impacts of loneliness on our bodies are more harmful than smoking 15 cigarettes A DAY! Making time for quality friendships (and the pursuit of it) is just as important for your physical state as working out is."

Where should you start if you want to forge new friendships? Osequeda says, "Start within communities that already resonate with you — whether it’s your child’s school, your workplace, a gym, dog park or a shared hobby. Places where you already belong create natural opportunities to connect." She even suggests giving "apps like Bumble BFF or local meet-up groups" a chance because they "can also help you find like-minded friends." But don't think you're limited to this!

Though Asher agrees that women tend to approach "friendships by trying to find commonalities right from the beginning," she says you don't have to confine yourself to this formula. "The reason I don't think this is best is because we are boxing ourselves in when we do this. The greatest friends could be on the other side of the stereotypes we're creating," she notes. Taking it a step further, Asher shared her own experience with this. "I watched all 3 of my best friends get married and have kids all before I ever got married. On the outside, most women would think 'They don’t have anything in common.' But on the inside, the character traits and values we each were looking for were mutual, and that became a more important compass for our friendship than the stage in life we were each in."

She was even surprised she'd become close to her best friends because of how things looked externally. "We had nothing in common, but I'm so glad I didn't box myself in," she says excitedly.

Here Are Even More Ways To Make New Friends!

Asher has three ways you can open yourself up to new adult friendships if you're interested.

1. The most important place to start is our mindset. We have to first decide “I don’t want to be lonely anymore, and I’m worth having meaningful friendships.” When we make that decision, then we give ourselves permission and the courage to step out and take action in that! Important note about this: there was a study done at Stanford that revealed that people are 1.5x MORE likely to accept us than we think they are! So don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back!
2. Go first. Make the ask, and then make the plans! Saying “We should hang out sometime” is ineffective because “sometime” isn’t a day on the calendar! We cannot wait for other people to want to pursue a friendship with us, because most of us are in this same boat — not knowing where to start! We can pursue connection, get plugged into a community (examples: book club, fitness class, church, etc), or create our own connections by just inviting someone over to our house/apartment. The biggest thing we need to remind ourselves of that is to stop making excuses, or pre-determining how we think people will respond!
3. Again, don’t box yourself in. Don’t let your preconceived notions of what you think your archetype of a friend will look like stop you from spending time with others who don't fit that label. As addressed above, the friendships we’ve been looking for our whole lives could be right behind the stereotypes we’ve created! It’s more about character traits than it is about the external compatibility of hobbies or stages of life.

Osequeda's last piece of advice? "If you already have a friend group, meeting friends of friends is another great way to grow your circle. They key is taking that first step with a little bit of vulnerability — start a conversation, ask a question, and show interest." She's sure "it's these small moments of openness that create lasting connections!"