15 A New Day Finds At Target That Look Totally "Bougie" – Without The Huge Price Tag

Clothing Finds

Faherty Stretch Terry Wide Leg Pants

These 35%-off wide-leg pants are such a steal. Inspired by workwear, they'll hold up extremely well through years of use. The material they're made of has a "touch" of stretch, so you're always comfy.

Topshop Cable Stitch Cardigan

I adore the retro look of this cardi, thanks to the multitude of buttons and textured cable knit. It makes the ultimate cold weather layer, plus it's 40% off right now!

Levi's Quilted Faux Fur Short Teddy Jacket

Originally $180, this paneled faux fur jacket is now only $80! Sounds like the perfect piece to get on sale right now if you live somewhere that's still super cold.

Topshop Oversize Rib Sweater Dress

When it comes to sweater dresses, I only want an oversized fit. This Topshop pick (25% off, BTW!) checks all the boxes since it also boasts a fuzzy feel and subtle ribbing details along the hems that don't feel overly distracting.

Reformation Haisley Ribbon Accent Organic Cotton Peplum Top

It's not every day you find a Reformation piece as cute as this top for a whopping 40% off. Yep, I'm obsessed.

Reformation Alistar Halter Vest

This spring- and summer-ready one is 55% off! It has a flirty open back detail that wears well with everything from jeans to maxi skirts.

Skims Stretch Cotton Jersey Long Sleeve T-Shirt

This "tried-and-true classic" long sleeve tee makes a cozy base layer for cooler days, plus this 30%-off pink color is simply too cute.

Mother The Dodger Sneak Wide Leg Jeans

Everything about these 40%-off jeans is perfect: the mid-ride, the wide legs, the loose fit, and the medium wash that pairs with anything! I'd easily rock these year-round.

BDG Tie Front Cardigan

This sweet sweater ties in the front so you can really get playful with your looks. It currently comes in 4 adorable colors – light blue, navy, red, and cream white – for up to 55% off.

Reformation Josefina Off The Shoulder Knit Dress

Though it has quite the sophisticated look, this off-the-shoulder number is made of a "super soft and stretchy" blend of lyocell and organic cotton to keep you feeling comfortable as ever. It originally sold for $198, but is now on sale for $109!

BP. Oversize Cozy Mock Neck Sweater

You can never have too many oversized sweaters in your closet. Snag this one for 25% off in so many different colors!

Zella Zelfit High Waist Wide Leg Pocket Pants

I love these wide-leg pants (40% off) because they can work for everything from a gym sesh to a chill movie night at home. They're fitted with pockets, too, which can be hard to find in good, stylish leggings.

Free People Movement Hit the Slopes Fleece Jacket

This iconic Free People fleece is an entire 30% off right now!

Shoe Finds

Nordstrom Miah Water Resistant Chelsea Lug Boots

New Balance 9060 Sneakers

There are limited sizes available for these 25%-off New Balance sneaks – run to see if they're still in stock!

Adidas Gazelle Indoor Sneakers

This unique color combo of fashion's current "It" girl shoe is on sale for 40% off. I am in love with the serene green!

Sam Edelman Michaela Mary Jane Flats

With 7 on-sale colors, these Mary Jane flats are unquestionably iconic, plus they won't break the bank since you'll literally save 50% off the OG price of $130.

UGG New Heights Lined Clogs

I'm a certified clog lover, which is why I was pumped to see these platform UGGs on sale for $90 (35% off the original price)!

Hoka Clifton 9 Running Shoes

Hokas are often in high-demand, meaning they're not on sale often. Luckily, I found this cream white pair for 24% off, so they now go for $110, not $145.

Naturalizer Edda Knee High Boots

Oh, these tall black boots are everything. The thick block heel and squared-off toe combo qualifies them as super trendy for 40% off!

1. The Pleated Skirt

Big sigh... I'm 5'2" with a short torso, long legs, and a curvier backside, so shopping can be tricky. But I somehow thought buying a mini pleated skirt was a great idea. Similar to one of the other fashion trends I'm not a fan of, my skirt gave me 50 shades of 'never again' when I attempted to wear it.

From the wind having a field day with it to feeling my butt on my car's seat every time I sat down, I quickly understood that this was a waste of money for me.

2. The Barrel Jean

Barrel jeans are another buy I wanted to love, but didn't because of how it fit on my body. I don't know if I should try something that's tailored for petite women, but I'm still scarred from being excited to try them on...only to face disappointment.

I looked like I'd purposely blown air in my jeans to achieve this trend which made me feel silly. However, I've seen content creators like Karen Goodbrand wearing them and they look amazing! However, I'm willing to table them for now and stick to my straight or traditional wide leg jeans.

3. Corset Belt

Let's have a long moment of silence for my lack of judgement with this purchase. I don't know what the goal was when I purchased a corset belt, but it swallowed my tiny torso.

I'm not even kidding. I looked like I stuffed myself into it which made me promptly return it for a refund. Sometimes I've been known to do an exchange for store credit, but I wanted this to go back to the sender so I'd never have to think about it again.

4. Colorful Tights

Before you question my sanity, I want to explain why this made my "overrated" list. I purchased a pair of burgundy tights at the last minute and wore them on Christmas Eve. They got a lot of positive attention, but I was so itchy in them lol. Also, they reminded me of a time when it was mandatory to wear them with dresses to church.

I literally couldn't wait to pull them off when I got home and haven't seen them since December 24, 2024.

5. The Faux Crocodile Print Vinyl Coat

I actually loved this coat, but what makes it overrated is how much noise it made whenever I wore it. It sounded like rubbing two water hoses together, meaning it was insufferable. It could be a personal thing, but I couldn't get past that sound no matter how cool I thought it made my outfits look.

The worst part about it is I spent more than I should've for it and haven't seen it since last summer, so all the rubber sounds were for nothing.

1. Start with questions that focus on you

• Who do I think I am?
• What are my favorite qualities about myself?
• Do I have any habits I want to change?
• Would I date myself if I were a different person?
• How do I pour love into myself?

2. More questions to ask yourself about who you are

Other questions you can ask yourself can have something to do with your morals or boundaries. It's a way for you to understand areas of your life that you may not always think about everyday.

• What do I value in life?
• What kind of boundaries have I set (or need to put in place)?
• Do I spend a lot of time focused on other people?
• Do I have religious beliefs?

3. Think about if you want to be single or in a serious relationship

Once you have a better understanding of who you are, think about the kind of romantic love you'd like to have in your life. There's a chance you're not even interested in a serious monogamous relationship right now and that's okay. The point is to get clear about what you do want.

Start asking:

• Am I okay with being single or do I feel pressured to settle down?
• Do I care more about dating several people or choosing one person to romantically connect with?
• Is there a reason I wouldn't want a long-term relationship?
• Is it hard to be vulnerable whether I'm looking for something short-term or long-term?

4. Revisit past flings and relationships

Though tempting, this isn't a confirmation that you should call the ex you've been thinking about. Rather, take the time to revisit what you think did or didn't work.

• What brought me joy about prior flings or relationships?
• Was there mutual respect between myself and former romantic partners?
• Did I or former partners feel possessive of each other?
• Did I ever feel afraid for my safety in prior relationships?

5. Allow yourself to be curious about the kind of partner you're attracted to

I'm not asking you to 'listen and judge' yourself for who you're typically attracted to. We all have our reasons why certain people make our hearts race even if said people aren't the greatest for us in the long run. This is the time to be curious about who you're drawn to and why.

• Am I drawn to people's physical appearance first or their personality?
• What kind of qualities am I attracted to overall?
• Have I ever ignored red flags because I thought someone was attractive?

6. Think about the kind of long-term relationship you'd like to have

Ready for something serious? There's still some questions you should ask yourself before jumping into something new.

• Am I capable of trusting someone new?
• How do I want to feel in a new romantic relationship?
• What are my goals if I decide to pursue a long-term relationship?
• How would I like to handle potential disagreements in my new relationships?
• What are my dealbreakers?