Beauty Products and Practices for Self Care

The day of love is upon us and what better excuse to share a few of my favorite self-care products and rituals with my fellow sisters? Whether you are staying in to indulge in some quality alone time, gathering with galentines or headed out with your lover, these satiable goodies will get you prepped to feel good and look good!

Let’s dive into this self-love edition of our Beauty Fix Series — a one-stop destination that will provide you with go-to solutions for all things beauty.

The Treat Yourself Edition

1. Soul Food: “She realized that vulnerability was easier to wear than vanity. So she stripped.” A girlfriend gave me this incredible book Stripped: A Collection of Inspired Writings for the Evolving Woman by Cara Alwill Leyba ($10) and I read it cover to cover in one sitting. It made me laugh, cry and I got all the feels. Every woman needs to own, read and re-read this book. You will be floating on a self-love high ready to take on the world!

2. Skin Cocktail: Mix, Match, Customize: If you’re anything like me, you get sucked into buying skin care products based on the invigorating scents, the beautiful packaging or your bestie tells you you have to have it! You are in the perfect place to customize your own intuitive skin care regime. This set up is my current obsession — and note that all of these gems are ingredient conscious green beauty picks!

  • Step 1: Derma-E Essentials Nourishing Rose Cleansing Oil ($18): Apply this rinse-free (divine smelling) cleansing oil gently with small circular motions.
  • Step 2: Whamisa Organic Flowers Deep Rich Essence Toner ($40): Talk about YUM! This toner is so lightweight and legit feels like you are swiping flower water onto your skin. Plus it leaves your face feeling nourished and fresh.
  • Step 3: Lavido Invigorating Facial Serum ($55): After all the rose calming this far, I take it up a notch and lather a small amount of this serum which immediately makes me feel alive!
  • Step 4: Amala Rejuvenating Eye Cream ($256): Listen, yes this product is on the higher end, but the investment in the most sensitive part of your sweet face is well worth it. I can feel the effects of this eye cream the second I gently tap it under my eyes and I could see a difference in my fine lines within a week of using. Also, a little goes a long way!
  • Step 5: OY-L Face Cream ($55): These ingredients OMG — sweet almond oil, avocado oil, hemp oil, jojoba oil, squalane, evening primrose, sea buckthorn oil, rosehip oil, carrot oil, apricot oil, lavender oil, frankincense oil, hemp seed butter, abyssinian oil, pomegranate oil and prickly pear. Need I say more?
  • Finishing Touch:Teadora Brazilian Glow Radiance + Renewal Oil ($40): Don’t forget about your body baby! Apply this sensory stimulating body oil with gentle, slow strokes — really breathe and take this time to relax (or you can have your lover help in this department for an extra win :)

3. Bathing Beauty: Candle-lit Soak Ritual: I don’t know about you, but a candle-lit bath is honestly one of my go-to rituals that without fail brings me to my happy place. I have been using my favorite items from A Wholesome Glow Luxury Classic Box Gift Set ($75) to bring an even deeper relaxation to my soak time. I love how this husband-wife duo brings a farm-to-family approach to their line of beauty products that truly feel like you were hand delivered mindfully made potions.

4. Clean Swap: Clean, Green, Healthy Makeup: This day and age it’s so easy to source quality pigmented makeup goods that are ingredient conscious and bring a mindful green approach behind their business. It’s so important to know what we put on our skin. One of the best gifts I have given myself is swapping out all my other brands for the products that I can feel good putting on my face daily. A few of my favorites are the following:

  • Well People Bio Tint Multi-Action Moisturiser SPF 30 ($29): The coverage I get from this is insane for how lightweight it feels on my face. If you’re a no-makeup makeup kind of chica, then this is your new best friend!
  • Juice Beauty Phyto-Pigments Flash Luminizer in Blush/Rose ($32): I love this double duo that can act as blush, highlighter, shadow and even a lip tint! I keep this little guy in my bag and can easily touch up any tired look throughout my day with a few strokes!
  • NU Evolution Pressed Powder Foundation ($45): You can use this as your foundation or layer over your tinted moisturizer like I do to set your makeup. I love how lightweight and silky it feels and it never looks cakey.
  • TreStique Define, Sculpt + Set Brow Pencil ($25): Best. Brow. Pencil. Ever. Seriously. I have been obsessed with this product for over a year. I love how natural it looks on every brow type. It’s easy to apply and lasts all day.
  • TreStique Matte Color + Shiny Balm Lip Crayon in Costa Rica Coral ($28): I haven’t seen this color look bad on anyone yet — and it feels so good on your pucker! This color will get you through any occasion and is a great staple piece to keep in your bag always. If you need to you can hack it and even use it as blush and eyeshadow!

5. Luscious Lips: Prep and Pucker Up: It’s always a good idea to prep your pucker with a little treatment whether you’re planning on having a sweet makeout sesh or just enjoying the feeling of baby soft lips for yourself. My go-to is Beauty For Real Perfect Pout ($46). After using this tip I feel like a teenager who just spent the night kissing my BF for hours! My lips immediately feel soft, plump and ready for endless smooching!

6. Mask Maven: Sheet Mask Diary: I am in love with sheet masks and this Biobelle My Diary of Beauty Secrets Facial Masks ($27) set makes me feel so happy! Why is it that packaging can have such a wild effect on our senses?! This little diary of sheet masks are great to keep on hand for those days or are great for sharing with your beauty babes. Not only is the packaging the cutest, the ingredients are eco-friendly, natural and uniquely innovative.

7. Sacred Sipper: Upgraded Matcha Latte: It took me awhile to get on the matcha train, but once I had this amazing Upgraded Matcha Latte recipe that my dear sister Erica Favela from My True Wellness shared with me, I have been addicted! I am a huge coffee drinker and haven’t had a cup in four days because this mix has me feeling so good! Trust me when I say this superfood sipper will bring you into a very happy state of mind!

8. Touchy Feely: Scrub, Sooth + Smooth: One way to drop into self-love is to close your eyes and just feel. I often practice allowing myself to fully be present and nurture the body I’m so blessed to be in. Having sensory stimulating products to throw into the mix makes this process even more stimulating and special. I am loving this Isola Vanilla + Coffee Body Scrub ($36) when I need to wash away my stress and layers of surface crap. I follow up with one of the most divine scented body oils — Isola Lavender + Vanilla Bean Perfume Body Oil ($44). I like to think of this oil as a serum for my body and then I follow up with the Isola Vanilla Bean + Anise Body Lotion ($26). The trick is to really take your time applying. Allow yourself to breathe in the yummy scent and feel the relaxation as you gently rub into your skin.

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The chokehold Trader Joe's has on me is atrocious. They truly can do no wrong with their wide array of snacks and sweet treats, and I really appreciate that my TJ's grocery hauls are typically way cheaper than if I did my shopping elsewhere. Trader Joe's is packed to the brim with delicious, life-changing finds under $10. So, if you're balling on a budget (but still want to make room for a lil' 'treat yourself' time), look no further than this list of my absolute favorite finds!

Let's dive into the best Trader Joe's buys you can add to your cart for under $10!

Trader Joe's

Organic Joe Medium Roast Ground Coffee

For just $6.99, Trader Joe's medium roast coffee tastes divine. No matter how you brew it, I promise you'll be thoroughly impressed.

Trader Joe's

Non-Dairy Oat Creamer Gingerbread

Trader Joe's collection of $1.99 non-dairy creamers are all delicious, but this limited-time seasonal offering is the literal cream of the crop.

Trader Joe's

Teeny Tiny Pecan Pies

Nothing says 'bougie' quite like finger foods do. Take the sweet route with this grouping of $4.99 tiny pecan pies!

Trader Joe's

Shaved Parmesan, Romano & Asiago Cheeses

I love topping salads, pastas, and soups with this $3.49 blend of shredded cheeses. Once it gets melty is where the fun really begins.

Trader Joe's

Cheesy Herby Biscuits

Biscuits are undoubtedly a considerably fancy thing to make yourself, but luckily you don't have to put in all that effort just to please a crowd, thanks to this $4.99 box o' biscuits!

Trader Joe's

Butter with Brown Sugar & Maple Syrup

This $2.99 butter infused with brown sugar and maple syrup will instantly elevate any piece of toast or baking project you've got going on.

Trader Joe's

Dark Chocolate Ganache Mini Sheet Cake

I'm simply obsessed with these $4.99 sheet cakes from Trader Joe's. They come in all kinds of flavors, but who can ever resist chocolate?! This is an easy (yet impressive) grab-and-go buy to bring to the office for your team or to share with the fam at home after a long week.

Trader Joe's

Truffle Dip

In my mind, truffle equates to some real fancy stuff. So, I was pleasantly surprised to see that this creamy dip was just $5.49!

Trader Joe's

Steamed Vegetable Soup Dumplings

I will live and die on the hill that Trader Joe's soup dumplings are some of the best ready-made options around. This $3.49 box is my go-to if I simply don't feel like cooking dinner (which happens more than I'd like to admit), but still want something warm that's gonna fill me up.

Trader Joe's

Sliced Black Truffle Monterey Jack Cheese

Another fun truffle find! Kick your grilled cheeses up a notch for just $4.99.

Trader Joe's

Creamy Spinach & Artichoke Dip

This is another one of my TJ's must-haves. If I don't buy this $3.79 box every single time I go, I at least buy it every other visit. Yummm.

Trader Joe's

Coffee Bean Blast Ice Cream

They are not kidding when they say this ice cream is a true coffee blast. It's so full on flavor, luxuriously creamy, and for just $4.49 a pint, I think that's pretty dang good.

Trader Joe's

Chocolate Brooklyn Babka

This rich babka bread is laced with lotsa chocolate. You can get the loaf for $5.99, but beware: it's gonna go fast.

Trader Joe's

Bourbon Vanilla Bean Paste

This bourbon-y vanilla bean paste is so fun to use for cookies, muffins, cupcakes, and the like. It has a perfect smoky, woody finish (but still sweet), plus a little goes a very long way. Snag it at your local TJ's for $4.99.

Trader Joe's

Speculoos Cookie Butter

I fear I could eat this entire jar of cookie butter in one sitting. It always tastes expertly crafted and undeniably sweet. I love putting it on toast, ice cream, and even in my morning coffee. The jar sells at $3.99!

Trader Joe's

Candy Cane Green Tea

This $2.79 green tea has become a wintertime staple for me since I discovered it at Trader Joe's last year. I've already bought 3 boxes to stock up for the season.

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When you connect with a fictional character, and that character dies within their story, it's actually very normal to experience real feelings of grief. Author Oscar Wilde wrote that one of his "greatest tragedies" was the death of the fictional Lucien de Rubempré. He was so upset about it, in fact, that "it haunts me in my moments of pleasure. I remember it when I laugh." And that was in 1899!

If you're a TV fan, you probably know this pain first hand because we've had to say goodbye to a ton of characters in the last few years. After Outer Banks lost one of its beloved characters on November 7, fans flooded social media, proclaiming they felt like they'd lost someone from their own real life. And based on this Reddit thread of the TV deaths that "totally destroyed you emotionally,"OBX fans are definitely not alone. Do you agree with these picks? (Spoilers ahead! But you knew that.)

Keep reading for the most upsetting TV deaths we're still recovering from.

JJ Maybank from 'Outer Banks'

Jackson Lee Davis/Netflix

Okay, considering this one's the most recent, I have to lead with it. Rudy Pankow's JJ died in the final episode of Outer Banks season 4, which was extra devastating for viewers hoping to see a happy ending with Madison Bailey's Kiara. One viewer told me "it feels almost like the show died along with him." Woof.

Marissa Cooper in 'The OC'

Warner Bros. TV

The OC's Marissa and Ryan are one of the ultimate 'ships of the early-2000s...so watching her die in his arms at the end of season 3 almost made me stop believing in love.

Sarah Miller on 'The Last of Us'

Shane Harvey/HBO

Sarah's future is literally so bright when we meet her in The Last of Us. She's spunky and clever, which makes her end one of the saddest TV deaths in recent history. And the fact Joel (Pedro Pascal) screaming "Tommy help me!" was improvised? I need 5-7 business days to process.

Glen Rhee from 'The Walking Dead'

Gene Page/AMC

Viewers of this zombie show will never forget Glen's (Steven Yeun) death-by-baseball-bat, which came in season 7, episode 1. "I couldn't watch that show anymore after that," one Reddit user admitted.

Charlie Pace from 'Lost'

ABC/Disney

The way Dominic Monaghan brought complexity to the character of Charlie — and made everyone fall in love with him — is a really beautiful thing. Even if his death marked the end of an era in the show. "A lot of the LOST deaths were sad, but that one was brutal," another Reddit user adds.

Joyce Summers in 'Buffy the Vampire Slayer'

Warner Bros. TV

The only thing worse than losing your favorite character is seeing them suffer a loss. Case in point: Buffy losing her mom in season 5, episode 16 of Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Despite the fact this episode aired 23 years ago, it's still "TOO SOON"for some.

Lydia James on 'One Tree Hill'

Warner Bros. TV

Speaking of moms, watching Haley deal with her mom's death throughout One Tree Hill season 7 is one of the most heartbreaking arcs on TV. I'm so glad she has Nathan to lean on, but it doesn't make it any easier to watch.

Hodor in 'Game of Thrones'

HBO

Game of Thrones is literally filled with tragedy, so when a character death leaves its fans speechless, that's how you know it was a bold choice! "I cry everytime :(," one Reddit user says.

Catelyn & Robb Stark from 'Game of Thrones'

HBO

Another GOT death we're still reeling from? Catelyn and Robb Stark at the Red Wedding. TBH, everyone from the Red Wedding #iykyk.

Bellamy Blake on 'The 100'

The CW

I'm pretty sure The 100 fans all thought the same thing when we got to the final episode of the show: "What?!" To spend 6 years of watching Bellamy and Clarke flirt (and actors Bob Morley and Eliza Taylor get married IRL) only to see her kill him in the end still infuriates me.

Lexa in 'The 100'

Cate Cameron/The CW

Not to mention the fact The 100 had already killed off Lexa, another one of Clarke's love interests, in season 3. One X user called it one of the "top saddest scenes" in the whole show.

Eddie Munson from 'Stranger Things'

Netflix

Outer Banks isn't the first time Netflix viewers have experienced a devastating TV death — Eddie Munson's sacrifice in the final episode of Stranger Things 4 will go down as one of the saddest deaths ever! "One of the few times that a TV show actually made me shed a tear," says another Redditer.

Michael Cordero Jr. on 'Jane the Virgin'

The CW/Warner Bros. TV

This is my most memorable TV death — and one of the first times I was really upset! When I reached the Jane the Virgin season 3 episode where Michael dies after his LSAT exam, I curled up on my roommate's carpet and cried so hard she thought I'd gotten denied from study abroad. Yes, I was that upset.

Amber Volakis  on 'House'

Fox

While TV deaths are already hard to cope with, they can feel like they affect us even more when they cause drama between other characters — like when Wilson's girlfriend passes away on House. One Reddit user points out how it "was a toughie. More so because of how it affected Wilson and caused a wedge in his friendship with House."

Fry's Dog Seymour Asses in 'Futurama'

Fox/Disney

Okay as painful as human deaths are, pet deaths are just as bad! After "Fry's dog in Futurama" died, one Reddit user "was never the same."

Sybil & Matthew Crawley on 'Downton Abbey'

Joss Barratt/Carnival Films

Downton Abbey proved it wasn't afraid to go there when fan favorite Sybil died after giving birth in season 3.

Matthew Crawley on 'Downton Abbey'

Carnival Films

Oh, did I mention the show also killed Matthew in a car accident during the Christmas special that year? Happy holidays, I guess.

Derek Shepherd on 'Grey's Anatomy'

Richard Cartwright/ABC/Disney

Even people who haven't seen an episode of Grey's Anatomy can tell you McDreamy's death changed the show forever!!

Dr. Green from 'ER'

NBC

And speaking of medical dramas, Anthony Edwards' devastating TV death absolutely wrecked one Reddit user, who says "I’ve never cried at a character death before. I stopped watching after he died." All too relatable.

Every Single Death On 'The Sopranos'

HBO

Y'all know we couldn't make a "Devastating TV Deaths" list and not include The Sopranos. Christopher, Johnny Sack, Cosette — you name it, we probably cried.

Jen Lindley on 'Dawson's Creek'

Warner Bros. TV

We fell in love with Michelle Williams on Dawson's Creek — which means when she died (during the series finale no less!!!) we were totally inconsolable.

Danny Matheson in 'Revolution'

NBC

I'll be honest. This is one devastating TV death that totally derailed my interest in the show. RIP Danny, RIP.

Allison Argent in 'Teen Wolf'

MTV

Allison (Crystal Reed) dying in Scott's arms while "Look Out" by James Vincent McMorrow plays in the background? I'm still not over it.

Enzo on 'The Vampire Diaries'

The CW

And finally, I can't NOT include Enzo's death on The Vampire Diaries both because of how difficult it is to watch, and because Bonnie deserved so much better — on every single front.

What do you think the most devastating TV death is? If you're still crying over your fave, check out 21 Feel-Good TV Shows To Watch For Pure Fun.

Who says your Christmas dinner needs to be fancy + formal? Have a little fun with your falalalala! These 23 whimsical serving dishes add a bit of charm to your holiday table. From playful platters and creative charcuterie boards to holiday-themed serving and punch bowls, these serving dishes bring on the festive cheer at all your gatherings, and are conversation starters to boot. Check out these holiday must-haves for your home and for great gift ideas!

Serving dishes and serving plates that'll make your holiday tablescape look amazing:

Terrain

Terrain Scalloped Rim Stoneware Round Serving Platter

Playful scalloped edges are going to make your holiday table feel fresh and trendy — and a little less stuffy.

Anthropologie

Anthropologie Benedita Bow Stoneware Platter

Bows are big this holiday season. Serve up your mains on this pretty bow platter with a bow-shaped serving set.

Casa Amarosa

Casa Amarosa Serving Platter

The color pink is also a holiday favorite this season. Lighten things up with a pretty in pink serving platter.

Wayfair

Hand-Painted Stoneware Footed Bowl

Hand-painted stripes with a bit of a circus vibe puts everyone in the festive holiday spirit.

Pink Antlers

Papa Noel Punch Bowl

Pour your favorite punch into this Santa head for a good jolly laugh.

Neiman Marcus

Nutcracker Stacking Mugs, Set of 4

Dress up dessert and coffee these adorable stacking mugs that make a fun gift for the coffee lover in your life.

Anthropologie

Holifaye Ceramic Stoneware Butter Dish

Can you please pass the butter in this festive holiday dish? So cute.

Mark & Graham

Flamingo Punch Bowl and Ladle Set

Get kitschy this holiday with a personalized flamingo punch bowl.

Amazon

Gold Christmas Tree Candy Dish

Put your favorite Christmas candy out for guests on this gold candy dish.

Amazon

Joy Christmas Charcuterie Board

Oh joy, this charcuterie board can be used to separate fruits, sweets, veggies and meats.

Amazon

Christmas Cardinal Candy Dish

Cardinals are bright addition to your holiday table.

Amazon

Mud Pie Snowflake Tree Chip & Dip Bowls

This snowflake serving dish is perfect for dipping.

Dillard's

Mud Pie Nutcracker Serving Platter

Get in the holiday spirit with this platter for meats and sides.

Madison's Niche

Dog Cracker Dish

Dog lovers will love this cracker dish, perfect for your charcuterie platter.

Target Wreath Cutting Board

Fill up this cutting board with fruits, nuts, and cheeses for a spectacular cheese dish.

Anthropologie

Anthropologie Fir Tree Cheeseboard

A cheeseboard that's also perfect for your holiday cookie party.

Uncommon Goods

Hungry Hedgehog Food Server

Poke your favorite appetizer on a stick in this oh-so-cute hedgehog server.

World Market

World Market Peppermint Serving Bowl

Serve candy, bread rolls, salad — or whatever you please! — on these sweet bowls.

Anthropologie

Terrain Scalloped Glass Serving Stand

Serve dessert and holiday cookies on this adorable stand.

Amazon

Creative Co-Op Stoneware Candy Shaped Plate

Here's another whimsical candy-shaped plate to serve dessert on your holiday table.

Pottery Barn Kids

PB Kids Gingerbread People Ceramic Divided Platter

This platter also works for dips, cut veggies, olives, and more.

Pottery Barn

Pottery Barn Ceramic Gingerbread Train

How fun is this train you'll want to bring out every season? Fill it with bread rolls, crackers, candy canes, greenery and more.

Maison Flâneur

“This Kitchen Is For Dancing” Scalloped Tray

Have a little extra fun in the kitchen with this tray. ;)

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