The Benziger Sisters Are the Latest Generation Slaying the Family Wine Biz

We’ve got a working theory that the only thing better than drinking wine is actually working in the wine industry. After learning about the careers of wine experts Laura Barrett, Jessica Altieri, and Chaylee Priete, it seems like wine is the latest industry that’s really giving women room to lead, express their creativity, and grow (sometimes literally!). Sisters Jill and Jamie Benziger of the Benziger Family Winery in Sonoma, CA are two more women in wine who are proving that case as they slay the family business. We chatted with the sisters to get the scoop on their individual career journeys, what wines they’re currently craving, and what it’s really like to work with your family.

B+C: Jamie, we read that you initially moved away to go to college and pursue a completely separate career but decided to come back to the family biz. Was there a defining moment that brought you back or was it a gradual process?

Jamie: Growing up, I always thought that I wanted to work in a big city doing some big-time marketing gig, so I decided to head to LA for college. During the summers, I’d work at the winery and realized how much I love the country and that the big city wasn’t for me. It wasn’t until after I graduated that I had my first job in the lab at Benziger for the 2009 harvest. I fell in love with the fast pace of production, getting to come to work on a beautiful property, and seeing my family every day. I knew I wanted to work for the family business. My dad, uncles, and I started to pave a path for me, which included getting outside experience in all areas of the winemaking process at different wineries and a vineyard management company.

B+C: Jill, on the flip side, you’ve said you always knew you wanted to work at the winery. Tell us more.

Jill: Yes, I always knew I was going to end up at the winery. My first job here was selling tickets for our winery tour when I was 14 years old. Over the years, I worked in every department to see which part of the industry I wanted to be in. I’ve loved every minute working at the winery and getting to know all the employees in every department. The passion that every employee and family member expressed was infectious. Why wouldn’t I want to be a part of something so special?!

B+C: Okay, aside from the obvious (hello, happy hour), what’s the best part of working in the wine industry? Do you think you would’ve found your way to the wine industry without your family?

Jamie: Seeing the fruit on the vine, harvesting, and then putting it into the finished bottle gives you a great sense of accomplishment, especially when you’ve had a hand in the making of it. I’m not sure I would’ve found my way to wine if it wasn’t for my family. A part of my love for wine came through because of the love I have for my family and wanting to be a part of the amazing story my grandparents, dad, and uncles have worked so hard to create. It helped too that my family is quite fun to be around and work with!

Jill: The people are the best part — coworkers, guests, distributors, growers, and winery owners. The Sonoma Valley wine industry is filled with so many amazing, passionate people — and we all like great wine! I’m lucky enough to work in customer service and hospitality, and I get to meet people from all over the country and the world every day. It’s pretty special when your guests not only make a connection with you, but also with the wines and the property.

B+C: Can you speak a little bit about what biodynamic wine is and why it’s an important process?

Jill: Biodynamics is the highest form of organic farming. It’s a holistic approach to farming your property and making very expressive wines. This farming practice is about becoming stewards of the land and working with nature to restore balance onto your property. We feel biodynamics is important for winemaking because we are trying to make wines that are authentic, less manipulated, and very expressive of the specific place it is coming from. We believe that all these variables are what make a high-quality wine and biodynamic farming is what helps achieve that quality.

B+C: From an outsider’s perspective, it seems like the wine industry is predominately male. Is that the case? If so, do you feel like women in the industry have a particular set of challenges to face?

Jamie: This industry is definitely perceived as predominately male; however, women are finally seeing the spotlight! I’ve had the pleasure of working under some spectacular women winemakers and I know that it didn’t come easy for them to acquire their titles. Women [in the industry] need to have a strong backbone and thick skin and need be prepared to receive criticism.

B+C: For those women who are relatively new to the wine industry, what’s the one piece of advice you’d impart before they get started on their oenophile journey?

Jamie: You’ll never know everything about wine. There’s always things to learn and it’s important to constantly be a student and keep educating yourself. Jill and I grew up in a wine family that taught us it was a work hard, play hard industry.

Jill: The wine industry is so fun but it’s always changing. Be open-minded to change and always be willing to learn. There’s so much to know about wine. Educate yourself but, most of all, have fun doing it.

B+C: What does a typical day look like for the Benziger wine sisters? Do you get to see much of each other on the regular?

Jamie: There’s no typical day for me — each day is different but filled with lots of planning and tasting to help ensure quality. I do always have a 10am visitor (my dad) that stops in my office to say hi, and I always see my sister at least once a day. We aren’t just a family that works together either. Most Sundays we’re all together enjoying wine and hanging with our favorite nephew, Ian.

Jill: My typical day at the winery starts out with a morning meeting with the hospitality, tour, and tasting room teams. The morning is a time for us all to get on the same page for that specific day, since we are usually pretty busy around the winery. Throughout the day I’ll host two or three trade groups (restaurateurs, distributor reps, etc.). I’ll give them a tour of our property and educate them on our farming practices and our wines so that they can go back to their restaurants or markets and teach their staff how to sell our wines.

B+C: We have to get some wine recs from you. What’s your current favorite Benziger bottle to open on the weekends with family and friends?

Jill and Jamie: We live together, so I think we can both agree that our vino of choice is Imagery Estate Riesling and Albarino for a Saturday afternoon and an Imagery Malbec or Benziger Tribute on a Sunday evening. The Riesling just won best of class in the San Francisco Chronicle, and the Malbec won a double gold!

Do you work with your family too? Tweet us @BritandCo and let us know what you love best about it!

(Photos via Jill and Jamie Benziger, Benziger Family Winery)

When it comes to New Year's Eve celebrations, the first thought that probably springs to mind is boozing it up with an NYE cocktail. And while there's nothing wrong with sipping some bubbly (if that's your inclination), those of us who prefer to keep thingsnon-alc may feel like there are no New Year's-appropriate activities for our preferences. We say that nothing could be further from the truth! Whether you're pregnant, abstaining, or just taking a break from the booze, here are 10 fun ideas for ringing in 2025, the sober way.

Attend A Silent Disco

A few years ago, just as the sober-curious movement was gaining steam, companies like Daybreaker brought 6 a.m. sober dance parties to the masses. In a similar vein are remote silent discos – events where you put your headphones on and dance it out to the music of world-class DJs right in the comfort of your own home (or in person, if you feel like venturing out).

A quick Google search will reveal that there are tons of options to shake it off on New Year's Eve, whether remotely or in-person in your city. Because silent discos have an alternative vibe, they're much more sober-friendly than traditional clubs and dance parties.

Make A Tea Bar

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If you've ever been to a party where they had aProsecco bar or something similar, you know how fun themed bars can be. Why not make a NA equivalent with a tea bar? We're not just talking about hot water and tea bags... include exciting staples like bubble tea, kombucha, Southern-style sweet iced tea, and more!

Do A Goal-Setting Ritual

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Not in the mood to party this year? Celebrate the New Year with some introspection by doing a goal-setting ritual. You can design the ritual in whatever manner you like, but we recommend something along the lines of:

  • Light a candle and sit quietly for a few minutes.
  • Whip out your journal and take inventory of the last year: What were your best memories? What are you grateful for? Where do you think you could've improved?
  • In your journal (we have some killer prompts to start you off), mindfully list out your goals for 2025. They don't have to be New Year's resolutions, exactly, but include small steps you can take in the new year to help you achieve your goals!

Make A 2025 Scrapbook

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Before New Year's Eve, head to your local craft store and pick up some supplies for making an old-fashioned scrapbook. Print out some photos from your most treasured memories of the year (we like printing with Walgreens), and gather any magazines you purchased or journal entries you wrote.

You can also look up some news headlines that made an impact on you, and print out the article as well as photos of any notable celebs or politicians who made the news. On New Year's eve, put together a scrapbook of what made 2024, 2024.

Good, bad, or otherwise, the year was one to remember — so create a momento that will help you re-live the past year in the years to come.

Plan A Costume Party

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Believe it or not, masquerade balls, dressing up in costumes, and concealing one's identity have a long history in the historical celebrations of Christmastime. So we think a New Year's costume party is a fully appropriate idea for a sober New Year's Eve.

Who needs booze to have fun when you can dress up as whoever you want for a night of merriment and mystery?

Karaoke It Up

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Another fun party pastime that's fun with or without booze? Singing! Grab some friends for a sober karaoke night either at your house or a private karaoke room. The singing's bound to be better than it would be if you were imbibing... who knows, maybe you'll steal the show with your rendition of "I'm Just Ken."

Cook A Fancy Meal

Whether you're spending the evening with your S/O or your BFF, cook a fancydinner for two. New Year's Eve is the perfect time to get fancy with food, so use this opportunity to ring in 2025 with only the finest cuisine. Don't forget to make a mocktail to go with!

Host A Game Night

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Bring all your besties over and host a board game night that's sure to be one for the books. Have everyone bring their favorite game – from Cards Against Humanity to Codenames – for a riotous evening that will remind you that you absolutely don't need booze to have a rowdy night of laughter!

Play 2024 Trivia

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Before New Year's Eve, compile a long list of trivia questions about 2024. Alternatively, have a friend do it for you, or do a quick Google search... there are a lot of trivia quizzes out there. On the big night, gather your squad together to see how much you remember about 2024. The results may surprise you!

Host A Murder-Mystery Dinner

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Murder-mystery dinners are still one of the best ways to facilitate a heart-racing and mind-boggling party. Pick up one of the many murder mystery dinner kits out there and have your besties over for a night of thinking on your toes — to be fair, it's probably best to skip the booze for this idea anyway, for the sake of your mental acuity.

Are you planning a sober New Year's Eve party this year? Tweet us @BritandCo to share your plans, and don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter for more booze-free hacks and party ideas!

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As fun as Trader Joe’s snacks and desserts are, there’s one aisle you definitely should not skip – and that’s their plant section. Trader Joe’s is constantly stocking up on blooms like orchids and monsteras, all of which are easy to take care of once they make it home from the store.

Any houseplant lover knows the easiest of all easy houseplants is the famed pothos. I can water mine (I have about 5 pothos plants) once every two weeks, and they will. not. die. Right now, Trader Joe’s is selling pothos for cheap – but not just any pothos. They currently come along with a stunning hanging pot that you’ll instantly want to put up in your home.

Scroll on to discover more about this unique Trader Joe’s plant find!

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That’s right – Trader Joe’s shelves now include disco ball hanging planters. I repeat: disco ball hanging planters! The sphere-shaped pot is covered in reflective disco tiles that’ll certainly make your living room feel like a dance club. The best part is that pothos plants naturally look amazing when they’re grown hanging, so you can watch this baby flourish all year long.

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TJ’s fan account @traderjoesobsessed recently spotted the disco ball hanging planters at their local Trader Joe’s and shared the new find with their Instagram followers. Tons of them chimed in about their excitement for the product in the comments!

“I need this now😍,” one person commented.

“The way I gasped when I saw this 😍🪩,” another said.

“I bought one today and totally love it👍,” someone else commented.

“I suddenly need to buy more plants,” one more person wrote.

Several shoppers in the comment section noted that they were able to track down the disco ball hanging planters pretty easily, while others reported that they haven’t seen them in their stores quite yet. This is your sign to keep an eye out on your next TJ’s trip!

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@traderjoesobsessed reports that the disco ball hanging planters go for $12.99 in stores. Their affordable price makes them such a great gift for yourself or a loved one, plus the sparkles on the disco ball are perfect for livening up your space for a New Year’s refresh.

Run to TJ’s soon – I know I will!

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By now, you may be able to recognize signs of gaslighting or other toxicbehaviors, but do you know how to take everything you've learned and become a super compatible couple? According to experts, there are a few key things super compatible couples rarely argue about — even with whatever faults each person brings to the relationship table. While the topics these couples avoid may not surprise you, the reason why they're able to avoid them might. But first, let's talk about what makes couples more compatible than others.

Dr. Brooke Keels, Ph.D., LPC-MHSP, LPC-Supervisor, Chief Clinical Officer at Lighthouse Recovery, has this to say: "Couples are compatible when they share similar values, goals, and know the best way to communicate with each other." Notice she didn't say these couples are just alike.

More so, she explains that "it's about how well they handle differences, whether they can support each other through tough times, and how they connect emotionally." Dr. Keels adds, "when there’s respect, trust, and a good balance of give-and-take between them?" Dr. Keels believes this gives couples a better chance "to be in sync."

Scroll down to see the topics you'll rarely hear compatible couples arguing about!

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1. Long-term goals like marriage aren't often a cause for concern.

Have you ever dated someone that made you wonder what you saw in them once you pay attention to certain red flags? You may have found yourself arguing with them about everything from religion to reproductive health, leaving you feeling dizzy afterwards. But Dr. Keels says compatible couples are more likely to be aligned on "whether they want the same things out of life."

Her examples include:

  • Relocating for careers
  • Family planning
  • Finding somewhere to settle down in general (i.e. apartment, condo, different state, close to family, etc.,)

"This common ground lessens the chance of fighting over these big topics," Dr. Keels reiterates.

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2. There's a lesser chance arguments about weekend activities occur.

We're no strangers to indecisive moments where we couldn't agree about what to do on the weekends with our partners, but Dr. Keels says compatible couples don't always run into this issue. "When you enjoy similar activities or have overlapping hobbies, you're more like to find ways to unwind together, rather than feeling disconnected or frustrated by each other's choices," she adds.

While it varies from couple to couple, you and your partner may enjoy the following:

  • Buying tickets to watch the latest college basketball or football game
  • Going to a 'Paint and Sip' class for fun
  • Having a mini outdoor picnic
  • Visiting a national park if it's on your couple's bucket list
  • Spending a day at a local arcade

The possibilities are endless, but all that matters is that "this mutual understanding makes spending time together feel natural and fun," according to Dr. Keels.

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3. Communication styles aren't causing a daily disruption.

Some people have a more direct way of communicating while others may be passive or even passive-aggressive. Less arguments aren't happening because compatible couples communicate the same however. "When they both understand each other's communication style — whether it's direct or more subtle — it helps avoid misunderstandings and frustration."

Here's a couple of examples:

  • If you're having a bad day that has nothing to do with your partner, they don't take it personal when you prefer some alone time.
  • If your partner says something they perceived to be a joke, but you didn't, you're less likely to immediately accuse them of being insensitive. Instead, there's a higher chance of asking what they mean by something and expressing why you didn't like it instead of arguing.

Compatible couples "know how to express their feelings and needs in a way that the other person can easily understand" which makes "it easier to resolve issues calmly," according to Dr. Keels.

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Are couples better (or more compatible) because they don't have a lot of arguments?

Well, no. That's actually a stretch because everyone has arguments. "Even compatible couples can argue about everyday things like chores or schedules. No matter how well they get along or how "in sync" they are, little annoyances can still pop up here and there, and cause some tension between them," Dr. Keels shares. "The difference," she points out, "is that they're usually better at handling these moments and keeping them from turning into bigger problems."

The other thing she's seen couples argue about is money. "It's such a common stress point because everyone has different habits and priorities when it comes to spending or saving," she says. But, guess what? "Compatible couples tend to approach the conversation with more understanding and a willingness to find a compromise," she continues.

If you feel like you and your partner aren't on the same page, it may not be time to break up just yet. We've learned that that it can take time to effectively communicate with a romantic partner or understand them. Compatibility is great, but it's not an indicator that a relationship will be smooth sailing!

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How can I have healthier disagreements with my partner?

Like we said, getting to a point where you and your partner aren't consistently hurting each other's feelings during disagreements takes time as well as skill. No one's born knowing all the answers so don't think your relationship is over because you're still figuring things out.

Dr. Keels says one way you and your partner can work on the kind of disagreements you're having is by "knowing how to communicate/compromise." Look, we heard your sigh and know it's probably the antithesis of how you feel. We struggled with compromising, but you don't get far in life thinking that everyone else has to bend to your will all the time.

"Even if they don’t see eye to eye all the time, healthy couples listen to each other's perspectives, and look for solutions that work for both of them. It’s not about 'winning' the argument and getting to say who's right, but finding common ground so they can move forward together," adds Dr. Keels.

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Also, "staying respectful event when things get heated or when you're upset" is a way to have a productive arguments, according to Dr. Keels. What happens is that "healthy couples avoid yelling or saying hurting things during disagreements," she says. This means no cursing or raising voices to the point your next door neighbors feel they have to call the police to do a wellness check on you.

"Instead, they just focus on the real problem and stay calm, which helps them work through the issue without hurting each other and the relationship," Dr. Keels says. And in the event you and your partner can't find common ground in a given moment? She highly suggests you "take breaks or pause when things get too heated."

Couples who do this "know when to step away and cool off before continuing the conversation," she adds. There are times where it's difficult to have a proper conversation when you're anxious or angry, so it's always better to revisit the topic.

Dr. Keels agrees and says, "This gives them a chance to cool down first so they can properly think things through, and think of a solution that works for both of them without saying anything they might regret."

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