How to Transition Your College Fling into a Real-World Thing

In addition to the four years of studying it took to get you there, preparing for graduation day and (perhaps more importantly) post-grad life takes a lot of work. There are DIY grad caps to be made, post-grad vacations to plan and thoughtful DIY graduation gifts to create for your friends. And, of course, the stressful entry-level job hunt. However, in the flurry of preparations, there’s one important aspect of their lives that many grads don’t know how to tackle: their relationship with their college S.O. Laura Heck, a marriage and family therapist, knows better than anyone how to help couples through this transition, because she lived through it with her college sweetheart (and current husband!).

Despite the success of shifting her relationship to the real world, Laura’s advice is rooted in prioritizing YOUR dreams and independence. The biggest general shift that most college couples experience in post-grad life is a transition from short-term to long-term thinking. Albeit scary, this change of mindset can actually benefit not only your personal happiness, but your relationship. Read on for five tips for making the transition from college cuties to an adorbs young adult couple.

1. Know that change is inevitable. Multiple studies point to the fact that proximity greatly contributes to how attractive you find someone. Often, graduation means that this component of your relationship will be taken away, along with the lifestyle you shared with your S.O. while in college. “When people leave this unique little world they’ve created, their interests start to diverge,” Laura says. Be prepared for the reality that you’ll continue to grow separately.

2. Don’t sacrifice your dreams. “People should leave themselves available to their dreams,” Laura says. “You just spent the last four years working towards them, so sacrificing them doesn’t seem worth it.” However, this doesn’t mean you have to choose between your relationship and career. It simply means that if you want both, you have to balance the two.

3. Communicate your priorities. Prioritizing doesn’t necessarily have to mean that you put your relationship first. In fact, Laura says that even if you and your partner agree to put your careers and families first, your relationship can still be successful, because you’re both placing the same amount of importance on each other. The key here is that your priorities are equal and that you’re both open about them.

4. Create a long-distance contract. If you and your partner are moving to different cities after graduation, Laura recommends creating a long-distance contract. These expectations — such as limiting alcohol consumption or promising to FaceTime before you go to bed — can ease the shock of suddenly having a lot of physical distance between the two of you.

5. Live alone, or at least not with your S.O. Most of us spend our college years in dorms, sororities, fraternities or apartments with our college besties as roommates. And although communal living is a great way to make friends in college, Laura says that living alone will build your independence and move your relationship forward by fostering your growth as a whole person — not someone who’s dependent on their S.O.

In this housing market, living alone may not be an option. You can still grow in an adult-filled group house, though. Consider living with non-college friends so that you aren’t tempted to keep up your college habits and consequently have room to explore who you want to be in the real world.

Have any advice for growing with your college boo after graduation? Tweet us @BritandCo!

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Let’s be honest, while happily ever afters are great in fairytales, we all love a little drama (or a lot of drama) when it comes to what we watch on TV. Reality dating shows have gotten more and more popular for that very reason — and that means there’s plenty for audiences to choose from when it comes to their next guilty pleasure. Here are our picks for the best dating shows to stream right now for that perfect mix of love and pure chaos!

Love Island USA — 6 seasons

Jocelyn Prescod/Peacock

Not only does Love Island USA have everything you want from a dating show, it’s also a reality competition series! Viewers can even vote for their favorite couples to determine which of the island’s singles continue to stay in the villa and who will leave heartbroken.

Where to watch: Peacock, Netflix, and Hulu.

​Love Is Blind — 7 seasons

Netflix

If you’re looking for love, do looks play a factor in who you decide to connect with? Well, for these single men and women, love is completely blind, and an engagement comes before their first face-to-face meeting.

Where to watch: Netflix.

The Bachelorette — 21 seasons

Disney/Richard Middlesworth

This series serves as a spin-off to The Bachelor, which is one of the most iconic and well known dating shows in TV history. It follows the journey of a woman looking for love. Eliminations and roses are (hopefully) the key to each season's bachelorette finding one perfect match and a lifetime of happiness.

Where to watch: Tubi and Hulu.

​Married at First Sight — 17 seasons

Lifetime

Love at first sight might sound like the ultimate dream but what about marriage at first sight? That’s right, six singles agree to get married the moment they meet with the goal of finding their partner for life. Watch season 18 on Lifetime now!

Where to watch: Sling TV, Prime Video, Lifetime, Freevee, Netflix, Hulu, Discovery Plus, and Philo.

​The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On — 2 seasons

Netflix

Ultimatum can make or break any relationship, so if you’re faced with the decision to marry or move on, what will you do? With love on the line and other potential matches entering the picture to make things even more complicated, it’s time to make your choice once and for all.

What to watch: Netflix.

​Perfect Match — 2 seasons

Netflix

Comparability is everything in a relationship, and it’s also everything in this series. Those couples who can prove that they work well together are able to get the ultimate power of controlling the fate of other pairs. Juicy!!

Where to watch: Netflix

​Are You the One? — 9 seasons

Gerardo Valido/MTV Entertainment

10 single men and 10 single women are assessed by a team of professional matchmakers and psychologists in order to discover their perfect match. The matchmakers choose their pairings based on those results at the beginning of the season and then the contestants must figure out who their match is based on dates and competitions.

Where to watch: Pluto TV, Hulu, and Paramount+.

Check out the The Best Reality TV Shows To Watch Next for more weekend binge inspiration!

I can't always make it out to the salon when it comes to my nails — and I definitely don't have the time to give myself a full-blown manicure at home — so I'm always looking for cute press-on options to wear. From almond-shaped to abstract designs, there are so many sets I can't get enough of.

But I have a secret: I've also figured out how to make them last a little longer. I mean, that's always everyone's gripe with them, so why not share what I know? So scroll on to find all my favorite press-on nails you can find right now — plus the best glue to use to make them stay!

Find all the best press-on nails that'll save you a trip to the salon!

Olive and June

Olive and June Pink Checker Party Press-On Nails

This one's for the girls who love a little mix-and-match nail art and don't want to wear anything unless it's festive or bold. These easy-to-apply nails are the quickest way to achieve nails you'll be proud of without sitting for hours at the salon.

SALT

SALT French - Merlot

Content Editor Haley Sprankle says these nails are the realest looking press-ons she's ever used. Honestly, she feels like they look more real than some full sets she's had done at the salon! And with clear glue, you don't have to worry about having a bunch of white glue all over your fingers once you're done applying them.

Lilac St.

Lilac St. Seeing Stars Press-On Nails

These short and sweet almond nails are the classic French manicure we love to see, but there's also a bit of sparkle to them. They'll take you from your 9-5 to dinner with your friends without feeling like they're making too much of a statement.

Olive and June

Olive and June Linear Hearts Press-On Nails

Valentine's Day has come early with these short and sweet press-on nails. They have a minimal feel that'll also work with all of your winter outfits. I love the cute little hearts because they're not overly stated, but still manage to hold their own!

Amazon

KISS imPRESS No Glue Mani Press-On Nails

If you've finally sifted through Christmas dresses to find the perfect one to wear to that holiday party you've been waiting on, wear these cute press-on nails to complete your look.

P.S. Wear the sparkle design on your ring finger if you suspect you may get a surprise proposal.

Ulta

OPI Feelin' Capricorn-y xPRESS/On Big Zodiac

These press-on nails are strictly for Capricorns who are patiently waiting for their birthdays. Everyone you know will be green with envy when they see you wearing them, but that won't be your problem.

Amazon

Chillhouse Sea Siren Press-On Nails Kit

Are you waiting for the day you'll be able to take a dip in your pool or the ocean during vacation? I hear ya and know just what you need to hold you over until summer: reflective sea-inspired press-on nails.They may not completely cure your longing, but they'll look cool against your skin and outfits.

SALT

SALT Butterfly Press-On Nails - Red

Isn't this design so adorable? Content Editor Haley Sprankle wore these for her birthday this year, and she'd never gotten more compliments on her nails before! Definitely grab these to make a darling statement!

Amazon

Glamnetic Press-On Nails

No one ever needs a reason to wear super girly nails, but I'll give you one anyway: you deserve to wear something that feels carefree and quirky every once in a while.

Amazon

PaintLab Press-On Nails Manicure Kit

Tortoiseshell nails are such a vibe in my eyes. They're the moody accessory you'll fall in love with and can apply at home in no time!

Amazon

Chillhouse Fruit Hoops Press-On Nails

Ah, more fun abstract nails! They also remind me of summers in the sun so I'm sure I'll personally be stashing them in my beauty draw until the beginning of spring.

Walmart

Salon Perfect Glazed Press-On Nails

Give yourself the gift of metallic press-on nails that feel on par with the holidays. They're short enough to allow you to do everyday tasks, but have the right amount of shimmer for date nights.

Walmart

KISS imPRESS Holiday Press-On Nails

Need more Christmas inspo? These press-on nails are going to give you that and then some. They remind me of the sweet treats I see at my local bakery, but I don't suggest anyone try to see if they taste good.

Walmart

Paintlab Reusable Gel Press-On Nails

Sometimes you just want to wear nails that feel like your niece or young cousin could've designed them. Actually, I'm sure my niece drew something similar this year.

Ulta

OPI Nail Heart xPRESS/On Nail Art Press-On Nails

These nails have a hint of color that'll match your rosy cheeks this winter. The more I think about it, the more I feel it's a great idea to use them as beauty inspo for your next makeup look.

Amazon

Here's what to use if you want your press-on nails to stay put

Most press-on nail kits include a standard nail file/buffer and nail glue, but I've recently discovered something that makes sure nails don't budge: brush-on nail glue.It's easier to make sure the glue doesn't spill over the sides of the nails when you press down on them and it seems like they're made of the strongest ingredients that makes your temporary manicure last longer!

Glamnetic Super Strong Brush-On Nail Glue

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The writer's room — and queen Shonda Rhimes herself — didn't hold back when it came to giving us every memorable Bridgerton quote after quote. But before Netflix, author Julia Quinn crafted the regency era books to tell these beautiful, romantic stories we know and love. Without them, we wouldn't even have the Ton in all their well-spoken (and sometimes petty) glory!

And while I've been a fan of the show since day one, it wasn't until I watched Bridgerton season 2 that I realized just how special the characters are. Their individual, unique styles not only translate to their own whimsical, cottagecorelooks — they trickle down into the words they use, too. I mean, admit it: you definitely say, "Daphne, you must make haste," in Eloise Bridgerton's voice on a regular basis, too.

As much as that quote sticks out to me, there are oh-so many more that deserve the spotlight. Don't believe me? Keep scrolling to see which romantic musings and quippy moments made to our Bridgerton quotes list!

"I have loved. I have lost. I have earned the right to do whatever I please, whenever I please, and however I please to do it." —Lady Danbury

"To meet a beautiful woman is one thing, but to meet your best friend in the most beautiful of women is something entirely apart." —Simon Basset

"The lady is quite the treasure. Do try not to bungle it up." —Lady Danbury

"I happen to believe a lady's business is her own." —Madame Delacroix

"There are perhaps darker turns in these woods than we've been taught to expect. There is light to be found at their end." —Daphne Bridgerton

"You are the bane of my existence and the object of all my desires." —Lady Anthony Bridgerton

"True love is something else entirely. It is when the rest of the world goes quiet. It is not eyes that meet, but souls that dance." —Kate Sharma

"However difficult forgiving someone may be, it is necessary to move forward." —Lady Violet Bridgerton

"Pen, living for the estimation of others is a trap. Once you break free, the world opens up." —Colin Bridgerton

"I am certain you will find your purpose one day. Everyone must eventually." —Penelope Featherington

"You are wise or perhaps unusually lucky to understand friendship to be the best possible foundation a marriage can have." —Queen Charlotte

"All Is Fair In Love And War But Some Battles Leave No Victor, Only A Trail Of Broken Hearts That Makes Us Wonder If The Price We Pay Is Ever Worth The Fight." —Lady Whistledown

"If you desire the sun and the moon all you have to do is go out and shoot at the sky. Some of us cannot." —Eloise Bridgerton

"Why must our only options be to squawk and settle or to never leave the nest? What if I want to fly?" —Eloise Bridgerton

"And when one chooses the heart over the head, often all reason goes out of the window. But the body has a way, indeed, of knowing most what it needs." —Lady Whistledown

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It's the most wonderful time of the year: awards show season! We're getting closer to seeing the Oscars, the Grammys, and the Golden Globes celebrate the best movies, music, and TV shows of 2024, and we finally know who's up for the Golden Globes. The program will air on CBS and Paramount+ January 5 at 8 pm EST.

Even though this awards show is usually an indicator of what the Oscar nominations will look like, my group chats aren't so sure — some of these nominations (and snubs) are such wild cards!

Keep reading to see all the 2025 Golden Globe nominations — and snubs.

The Most Shocking Snubs & Surprises Of The 2025 Golden Globes Nominations

Netflix

To no one's surprise, The Bear led amongst its competition with 5 nominations, followed closely by four nominations for both Shōgun and Only Murders in the Building. And Selena Gomez's Emilia Pérez got 10 nominations!

Some notable snubs of this year's Golden Globes include leaving Wicked's Jon M. Chu and Dune 2's Denis Villeneuve out of the director category (which baffles me even more after Greta Gerwig's Barbie snub at the Oscars), Sing Sing in the screenplay category, and Saoirse Ronan in the acting categories even though the Oscar-nominated actress was in both The Outrun and Blitz!

As far as surprises go, September 5 is nominated for Best Picture, despite the fact it hasn't been released yet. And, okay I know Wicked already announced they'd be submitting Cynthia Erivo for a lead actress and Ariana Grande for supporting, but my group chats STILL can't believe it! Also Zendaya being nominated in lead actress in a comedy/musical for Challengers...since when is Challengers a comedy?!

Golden Globe Nominations For Movies

Searchlight Pictures

Best Motion Picture – Drama

  • The Brutalist
  • A Complete Unknown
  • Conclave
  • Dune: Part Two
  • Nickel Boys
  • September 5

Best Motion Picture – Musical or Comedy

  • Anora
  • Challengers
  • Emilia Pérez
  • A Real Pain
  • The Substance
  • Wicked

Best Motion Picture – Animated

  • Flow
  • Inside Out 2
  • Memoir of a Snail
  • Moana 2
  • Wallace & Gromit: Vengeance Most Fowl
  • The Wild Robot

Cinematic and Box Office Achievement

  • Alien: Romulus
  • Beetlejuice Beetlejuice
  • Deadpool & Wolverine
  • Gladiator II
  • Inside Out 2
  • Twisters
  • Wicked
  • The Wild Robot

Best Motion Picture – Non-English Language

  • All We Imagine as Light (India)
  • Emilia Pérez (France)
  • The Girl with the Needle (Denmark)
  • I’m Still Here (Brazil)
  • The Seed of the Sacred Fig (Germany)
  • Vermiglio (Italy)

Universal Pictures

Best Performance by a Female Actor in a Motion Picture – Drama

  • Pamela Anderson for The Last Showgirl
  • Angelina Jolie for Maria
  • Nicole Kidman for Babygirl
  • Tilda Swinton for The Room Next Door
  • Fernanda Torres for I’m Still Here
  • Kate Winslet for Lee

Best Performance by a Male Actor in a Motion Picture – Drama

  • Adrien Brody for The Brutalist
  • Timothée Chalamet for A Complete Unknown
  • Daniel Craig for Queer
  • Colman Domingo for Sing Sing
  • Ralph Fiennes for Conclave
  • Sebastian Stan for The Apprentice

Best Performance by a Female Actor in a Motion Picture – Musical or Comedy

  • Amy Adams for Nightbitch
  • Cynthia Erivo for Wicked
  • Karla Sofía Gascón for Emilia Pérez
  • Mikey Madison for Anora
  • Demi Moore for The Substance
  • Zendaya for Challengers

Best Performance by a Male Actor in a Motion Picture – Musical or Comedy

  • Jesse Eisenberg for A Real Pain
  • Hugh Grant for Heretic
  • Gabriel LaBelle for Saturday Night
  • Jesse Plemons for Kinds of Kindness
  • Glen Powell for Hit Man
  • Sebastian Stan for A Different Man

Best Performance by a Female Actor in a Supporting Role

Selena Gomez for Emilia Pérez
Ariana Grande for Wicked
Felicity Jones for The Brutalist
Margaret Qualley for The Substance
Isabella Rossellini for Conclave
Zoe Saldaña for Emilia Pérez

Best Performance by a Male Actor in a Supporting Role

Yura Borisov for Anora
Kieran Culkin for A Real Pain
Edward Norton for A Complete Unknown
Guy Pearce for The Brutalist
Jeremy Strong for The Apprentice
Denzel Washington for Gladiator II

Amazon MGM Studios

Best Director

  • Jacques Audiard for Emilia Pérez
  • Sean Baker for Anora
  • Edward Berger for Conclave
  • Brady Corbet for The Brutalist
  • Coralie Fargeat for The Substance
  • Payal Kapadia for All We Imagine as Light

Best Screenplay

  • Emilia Pérez
  • Anora
  • The Brutalist
  • A Real Pain
  • The Substance
  • Conclave

Best Original Score

  • Conclave
  • The Brutalist
  • The Wild Robot
  • Emilia Pérez
  • Challengers
  • Dune: Part Two

Best Original Song

“Beautiful That Way” forThe Last Showgirl
“Compress / Repress” for Challengers
“El Mal” for Emilia Pérez
“Forbidden Road” for Better Man
“Kiss The Sky” for The Wild Robot
“Mi Camino" for Emilia Pérez

TV Show Golden Globe Nominations For 2025

Patrick Harbron/Disney

Best Television Series – Drama

  • The Day of the Jackal
  • The Diplomat
  • Mr. and Mrs. Smith
  • Shōgun
  • Slow Horses
  • Squid Game

Best Television Series – Musical or Comedy

  • Abbott Elementary
  • The Bear
  • The Gentlemen
  • Hacks
  • Nobody Wants This
  • Only Murders in the Building

Best Television Limited Series, Anthology Series, or Motion Picture Made for Television

  • Baby Reindeer
  • Disclaimer
  • Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story
  • The Penguin
  • Ripley
  • True Detective: Night Country

FX/Hulu

Best Performance by a Female Actor in a Television Series – Drama

  • Kathy Bates for Matlock
  • Emma D’Arcy for House of the Dragon
  • Maya Erskine for Mr. and Mrs. Smith
  • Keira Knightley for Black Doves
  • Keri Russell for The Diplomat
  • Anna Sawai for Shōgun

Best Performance by a Male Actor in a Television Series – Drama

  • Donald Glover for Mr. and Mrs. Smith
  • Jake Gyllenhaal for Presumed Innocent
  • Gary Oldman for Slow Horses
  • Eddie Redmayne for The Day of the Jackal
  • Hiroyuki Sanada for Shōgun
  • Billy Bob Thornton for Landman

Best Performance by a Female Actor in a Television Series – Musical or Comedy

  • Kristen Bell for Nobody Wants This
  • Quinta Brunson for Abbott Elementary
  • Ayo Edebiri for The Bear
  • Selena Gomez for Only Murders in the Building
  • Kathryn Hahn for Agatha All Along
  • Jean Smart for Hacks

Best Performance by a Male Actor in a Television Series – Musical or Comedy

  • Adam Brody for Nobody Wants This
  • Ted Danson for A Man on the Inside
  • Steve Martin for Only Murders in the Building
  • Jason Segel for Shrinking
  • Martin Short for Only Murders in the Building
  • Jeremy Allen White for The Bear

Miya Mizuno/HBO

Best Performance by a Female Actor in a Limited Series, Anthology Series, or a Motion Picture Made for Television

  • Cate Blanchett for Disclaimer
  • Jodie Foster for True Detective: Night Country
  • Cristin Milioti for The Penguin
  • Sofía Vergara for Griselda
  • Naomi Watts for Feud: Capote vs. the Swans
  • Kate Winslet for The Regime

Best Performance by a Male Actor in a Limited Series, Anthology Series or a Motion Picture Made for Television

  • Colin Farrell for The Penguin
  • Richard Gadd for Baby Reindeer
  • Kevin Kline for Disclaimer
  • Cooper Koch for Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story
  • Ewan Mcgregor for A Gentleman in Moscow
  • Andrew Scott for Ripley

Best Performance by a Female Actor in a Supporting Role

  • Liza Colón-Zayas for The Bear
  • Hannah Einbinder for Hacks
  • Dakota Fanning for Ripley
  • Jessica Gunning for Baby Reindeer
  • Allison Janney for The Diplomat
  • Kali Reis for True Detective: Night Country

Best Performance by a Male Actor in a Supporting Role

  • Tadanobu Asano for Shōgun
  • Javier Bardem for Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story
  • Harrison Ford for Shrinking
  • Jack Lowden for Slow Horses
  • Diego Luna for La Máquina
  • Ebon Moss-Bachrach for The Bear

Best Performance in Stand-Up Comedy on Television

  • Jamie Foxx for Jamie Foxx: What Had Happened Was
  • Nikki Glaser for Nikki Glaser: Someday You’ll Die
  • Seth Meyers for Seth Meyers: Dad Man Walking
  • Adam Sandler for Adam Sandler: Love You
  • Ali Wong for Ali Wong: Single Lady
  • Ramy Youssef for Ramy Youssef: More Feelings

Did any 2025 Golden Globe nomination (or snub) surprise you? Let us know in the comments!

I've always loved a pop of blue, red, or yellow in an otherwise neutral space. And while I admire anyone who can masterfully combine all three, blue has always been my clear favorite. Now, IKEA has officially crowned 'Electric Blue' as their 2025 Color of the Year. Inspired by the seas and skies, Electric Blue is a hue that IKEA describes as “contemplative and calm, yet versatile enough for modern and traditional spaces.”

Whether you’re looking to refresh a bedroom, energize a living room, or add a cool pop to your kitchen, this happy, bold shade delivers in the form of wall art, plush throws, or statement-making furniture. The best part? It plays well with others. Pair it with sunny yellows, vibrant oranges, soft lavenders, or even a daring hot pink. Will you be embracing this blue wave in 2025? From rugs and pillows to accessories and more, here are our top picks to embrace the new year with a splash of blue.

Wayfair

Iryanna Upholstered Armchair

This playful elephant trunk design calls for a color that doesn't take itself too seriously, creating a look that's minimalist and modern yet anything but boring.

IKEA

IKEA KLIPPOXEL Throw

This yarn-dyed throw feels just like mohair and it's made from recycled materials. It's a great way to commit to this bright color while on a budget.

West Elm

WE Checkered Shag Washable Rug

This 100% wool rug is actually washable and adds a bit of play and pop of blue to any space.

IKEA

IKEA KYRRE Stool

These stacking stools are so versatile and can be added to the corner of any room for extra seating or tables.

Urban Outfitters

UO Lola Nightstand

This cylindrical side table is perfect for holding your best reads, phone, other bedside essentials.

Amazon

Knot Pillow

Go blue on this iconic pillow for a whimsical and cozy addition to any room.

IKEA

IKEA SLATTUM Upholstered Bed Frame

This affordable bed frame will brighten up your bedroom and day.

Amazon

AllBlue Modern Eclectic Wall Art, Set of 12

For just $10, you can channel your own Blue Period with this striking and eclectic gallery wall.

Etsy

Twist Candles By Lex Pott

Designer Lex Pott combined both base and candle so you don't need a candle holder. Brilliant idea and color!

IKEA

IKEA KRYLBO Chair

Pull up a chair in Electric Blue with this upholstered piece that works in dining rooms, kitchens, and offices.

All Modern

Gemmell Hand Tufted Wool Rug

This 100% hand-tufted New Zealand wool rug makes a bold statement with simple geometric shapes.

IKEA

IKEA PRUNKHALLON Mirror

This wavy mirror in Electric Blue pairs perfectly with the IKEA BLÅSVERK Table Lamp in the same color.

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