3 Key Things Super Compatible Couples Never Argue About, According To Experts

Jasmine Williams
Dec 27, 2024
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By now, you may be able to recognize signs of gaslighting or other toxicbehaviors, but do you know how to take everything you've learned and become a super compatible couple? According to experts, there are a few key things super compatible couples rarely argue about — even with whatever faults each person brings to the relationship table. While the topics these couples avoid may not surprise you, the reason why they're able to avoid them might. But first, let's talk about what makes couples more compatible than others.

Dr. Brooke Keels, Ph.D., LPC-MHSP, LPC-Supervisor, Chief Clinical Officer at Lighthouse Recovery, has this to say: "Couples are compatible when they share similar values, goals, and know the best way to communicate with each other." Notice she didn't say these couples are just alike.

More so, she explains that "it's about how well they handle differences, whether they can support each other through tough times, and how they connect emotionally." Dr. Keels adds, "when there’s respect, trust, and a good balance of give-and-take between them?" Dr. Keels believes this gives couples a better chance "to be in sync."

Scroll down to see the topics you'll rarely hear compatible couples arguing about!

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1. Long-term goals like marriage aren't often a cause for concern.

Have you ever dated someone that made you wonder what you saw in them once you pay attention to certain red flags? You may have found yourself arguing with them about everything from religion to reproductive health, leaving you feeling dizzy afterwards. But Dr. Keels says compatible couples are more likely to be aligned on "whether they want the same things out of life."

Her examples include:

  • Relocating for careers
  • Family planning
  • Finding somewhere to settle down in general (i.e. apartment, condo, different state, close to family, etc.,)

"This common ground lessens the chance of fighting over these big topics," Dr. Keels reiterates.

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2. There's a lesser chance arguments about weekend activities occur.

We're no strangers to indecisive moments where we couldn't agree about what to do on the weekends with our partners, but Dr. Keels says compatible couples don't always run into this issue. "When you enjoy similar activities or have overlapping hobbies, you're more like to find ways to unwind together, rather than feeling disconnected or frustrated by each other's choices," she adds.

While it varies from couple to couple, you and your partner may enjoy the following:

  • Buying tickets to watch the latest college basketball or football game
  • Going to a 'Paint and Sip' class for fun
  • Having a mini outdoor picnic
  • Visiting a national park if it's on your couple's bucket list
  • Spending a day at a local arcade

The possibilities are endless, but all that matters is that "this mutual understanding makes spending time together feel natural and fun," according to Dr. Keels.

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3. Communication styles aren't causing a daily disruption.

Some people have a more direct way of communicating while others may be passive or even passive-aggressive. Less arguments aren't happening because compatible couples communicate the same however. "When they both understand each other's communication style — whether it's direct or more subtle — it helps avoid misunderstandings and frustration."

Here's a couple of examples:

  • If you're having a bad day that has nothing to do with your partner, they don't take it personal when you prefer some alone time.
  • If your partner says something they perceived to be a joke, but you didn't, you're less likely to immediately accuse them of being insensitive. Instead, there's a higher chance of asking what they mean by something and expressing why you didn't like it instead of arguing.

Compatible couples "know how to express their feelings and needs in a way that the other person can easily understand" which makes "it easier to resolve issues calmly," according to Dr. Keels.

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Are couples better (or more compatible) because they don't have a lot of arguments?

Well, no. That's actually a stretch because everyone has arguments. "Even compatible couples can argue about everyday things like chores or schedules. No matter how well they get along or how "in sync" they are, little annoyances can still pop up here and there, and cause some tension between them," Dr. Keels shares. "The difference," she points out, "is that they're usually better at handling these moments and keeping them from turning into bigger problems."

The other thing she's seen couples argue about is money. "It's such a common stress point because everyone has different habits and priorities when it comes to spending or saving," she says. But, guess what? "Compatible couples tend to approach the conversation with more understanding and a willingness to find a compromise," she continues.

If you feel like you and your partner aren't on the same page, it may not be time to break up just yet. We've learned that that it can take time to effectively communicate with a romantic partner or understand them. Compatibility is great, but it's not an indicator that a relationship will be smooth sailing!

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How can I have healthier disagreements with my partner?

Like we said, getting to a point where you and your partner aren't consistently hurting each other's feelings during disagreements takes time as well as skill. No one's born knowing all the answers so don't think your relationship is over because you're still figuring things out.

Dr. Keels says one way you and your partner can work on the kind of disagreements you're having is by "knowing how to communicate/compromise." Look, we heard your sigh and know it's probably the antithesis of how you feel. We struggled with compromising, but you don't get far in life thinking that everyone else has to bend to your will all the time.

"Even if they don’t see eye to eye all the time, healthy couples listen to each other's perspectives, and look for solutions that work for both of them. It’s not about 'winning' the argument and getting to say who's right, but finding common ground so they can move forward together," adds Dr. Keels.

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Also, "staying respectful event when things get heated or when you're upset" is a way to have a productive arguments, according to Dr. Keels. What happens is that "healthy couples avoid yelling or saying hurting things during disagreements," she says. This means no cursing or raising voices to the point your next door neighbors feel they have to call the police to do a wellness check on you.

"Instead, they just focus on the real problem and stay calm, which helps them work through the issue without hurting each other and the relationship," Dr. Keels says. And in the event you and your partner can't find common ground in a given moment? She highly suggests you "take breaks or pause when things get too heated."

Couples who do this "know when to step away and cool off before continuing the conversation," she adds. There are times where it's difficult to have a proper conversation when you're anxious or angry, so it's always better to revisit the topic.

Dr. Keels agrees and says, "This gives them a chance to cool down first so they can properly think things through, and think of a solution that works for both of them without saying anything they might regret."

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14 “Deep” Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend That Will Actually Make You Closer

Valentine's Day is next month, so it's time for a little tough love. Are you ready? Deep breath... You're not going to get far in your relationship by wondering, "What are we doing?" anymore. For such a simple question, it carries the weight of being vague and loaded. It's not that you shouldn't want to know where your relationship is headed, but there are better questions to ask your boyfriend.

From my first relationship to being engaged with an energetic toddler, I know a thing or two about how to broach certain topics. But, I'm no one's expert so I turned to Sean O'Neill, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Director at Maple Moon Recovery, to help you figure out how to get to the heart of your relationship.

Scroll to see which deep questions to ask your boyfriend for a better, healthier relationship!

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1. Questions To Ask If You're In The 'Honeymoon' Stage

Whenever we finally move from flirting with our crushes to being in a relationship with them, it's typically followed by a period of euphoria. You and your boyfriend likely can't get enough of each other right now which is probably making your friends playfully roll their eyes. Since everything is brand new, you can still keep it light though.

O'Neill suggests asking "open-ending questions that prompt curiosity and connection:"

  • What's one dream you've never let me in on?
  • What's one little gesture that can make you feel valued?

"These couple of queries facilitate bonding while generating enthusiasm for the goals and interests of each other," he says.

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2. Questions To Ask After Your First Big Fight

Even if you and your boyfriend are super tuned in to each other, a disagreement or argument is bound to happen. In case you're worried, your relationship isn't on thin ice because you're not seeing eye-to-eye on something. O'Neill says you can ask:

  • How do you think we handled the argument?
  • What could we do differently next time to make our future fights more productive?

His reasoning is that these questions "promote growth and empathy" so "disagreements are transformed into stronger communication opportunities."

Note: Disagreements should never turn physical. It's not okay for you and your boyfriend to become physically aggressive with each other. If you're concerned about domestic violence, dial the National Domestic Hotline at 1(800) 799-7233.

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3. Questions To Ask Before Introducing Your Boyfriend To Your Parents

Introducing your boyfriend to your parents is a huge step that can be scary and exciting. I was terrified when my parents first met my fiancé because they couldn't stand my ex. But, the conversation between them flowed and everyone always looks for him to be at family events.

If you're ready for introductions to be made, O'Neill wants you to "encourage the normality of preplanned talks" by asking:

  • What is something about me that you think my parents would really love to hear about?

By doing this, he says it'll "help alleviate anxiety and ensure both spouses feel comfortable and attuned before meeting the parents."

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4. Questions To Ask If You Or Your Boyfriend Have An Illness

It's never easy to experience illnesses or health scares, but it can be terrifying if you don't know how to help your partner manage if something unexpected happens. O'Neill says to "nurture insights with queries such as:"

  • What is one thing I could to assist you better when ill?
  • Are there any aspects concerning your healthy that haven't been discussed which make you anxious?

"The conversations provide a safe space for airing concerns while building up mutual support through health difficulties," he adds.

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5. Questions To Ask If You're Worried About Boyfriend's Spending Habits

Financial red flags are always a cause for concern when dating someone — especially when it seems like your boyfriend doesn't care about his spending habits may affect your household if you live together. O'Neill suggests asking:

  • What are your financial goals?
  • How do you see us working towards them together?
  • How do you feel about budgeting as a team?

This will "make goal alignment stronger" because "effective communication about finances can prevent misunderstandings," he says. Also, this helps "lay the foundation for a shared vision of the future."

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6. Questions To Ask To Deepen Vulnerability With Each Other

Being vulnerable isn't easy for everyone, let alone two people in a relationship. It took me years to feel comfortable expressing my sadness or fears to my fiancé because I was afraid he'd think I was 'weak.' However, this can cause more harm than good because it becomes difficult for our partners to know what's going on with us if we don't open up.

O'Neill says you can ask:

  • What's one fear or concern you've hesitated to share with anyone before?
  • How can I help you feel safe sharing with me?
These questions "create room for openness and trust between partners" which aids in "helping them connect emotionally," according to him.

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7. Questions To Help Move The Relationship Forward

If you're still wondering "what are we doing" after asking some of the above questions, you focus on asking the following "future-oriented questions," according to O'Neill:

  • Where do you see us in 5 years?
  • What's something you envision us doing together as a couple in the future?
"Thinking about what is ahead strengthens commitment to the relationship and brings both partners' goals into line," he says.
Even though my fiancé and I have been together for a while, we still have conversations about our goals, health, raising our son, and more. It helps us to either stay aligned or see what needs to be addressed as opposed to letting physical attraction guide the way we feel 95% of the time.

But that's not all! We have more advice about relationships if you're looking to build a deeper connection yourself, friends, or family in 2025!

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Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce Just Said "I Love You" — On Live Television

Siri, play "So High School" by Taylor Swift because on January 26, the Chiefs officially became one of two teams to play in the 2025 Super Bowl and Taylor joined Travis Kelce on the field! There were laughs, hugs, and plenty of smooches, and I felt like I was witnessing the end of a rom-com play out in front of me — all on live TV. This couple makes plenty of appearances together, but I love the joy and chaos of something like a championship win because their interactions feel so authentic. Keep reading to see what Travis and Taylor said to each other after the game!

Here's everything that happened between Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce at the AFC Championship.

Taylor Swift was all smiles during Travis Kelce's post-win interview.

When the Kansas City Chiefs beat the Buffalo Bills on January 26 for the AFC Championship, Taylor Swift looked on as Travis Kelce hopped onstage with Patrick Mahomes and their coach Andy Reid. And not only did Travis give a great speech, but he broke out into a song of his own when he started singing "Get Down Tonight." We love a couple who can do it all!

"Never satisfied baby," Travis said when asked about how it felt to potentially win a third consecutive Super Bowl and break the NFL record. "When you play in front of Arrowhead Stadium like this every single AFC Championship, you kidding me?! Kansas City!"

And on the field, you can see Taylor Swift and Travis' mom Donna Kelce standing and laughing at his excitement.

And this couple just keeps proving how much they love each other.

But as exciting as the speech was, there's a moment that had fans more excited than anything: it looks like Taylor and Travis said "I love you" on the field.

While embracing and sharing a kiss after that win, Travis appears to say, "I love you so much," and Taylor seems to reply with, "I love you. I'm so proud of you" (which you can see in the video, and per People's report.)

All I can think about is Taylor talking at the end of "Daylight" about how she wants to be defined by the things she loves, not the things that she's afraid of, and the way she radiates life, love, and joy in her relationship with Travis Kelce really proves how much light he's brought into her life. To the Super Bowl we go!!!

Are you excited to see this Travis Kelce & Taylor Swift moment? Here's hoping we get another Super Bowl smooch too! Read up on Um, Travis Kelce Just Spilled On His Dream Wedding Amid Taylor Swift Engagement Rumors for more.

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8 Simple Ways To Keep The "Spark" In Your Marriage, According To A Relationship Therapist

Life comes at you fast when you're in love, while you're juggling career goals, pets, babies, friends, family, and whatever else folded in to your very, very filled cup. One minute you and your spouse can't enough of each other, but then time passes and you might start to feel like you're roommates. "Ugh, what is that about," is a question I used to ask when my own relationship's spark felt like tiny embers amongst our ever-growing responsibilities. Licensed psychotherapist Lucas Saiter, LMHC, owner and director of Manhattan Therapy NYC, says, "It's crucial for couples to acknowledge periods of disconnection without judgement."

According to him, you can start "by having an open conversation about feeling disconnected" which is a "positive step" in the desired direction. But, he wants this to happen during "a calm moment" instead of "during a conflict or when there are distractions."

The ultimate goal is for "each partner" to feel like they have "the opportunity to express their feelings openly and honestly, using 'I' statements to avoid blaming, while the other partner actively listens without interrupting or getting defensive," according to him.

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Your marriage isn't doomed because you feel like it's gotten off track. Saiter says, "Rekindling the spark in a marriage goes beyond physical intimacy; it's about creating emotional closeness and shared experiences. Couples can focus on deep, meaningful conversations that go beyond the day-to-day logistics."

1. If you don't cook often, surprise your spouse with their favorite dinner recipe.

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Saiter says you or your spouse "can make time for small gestures of kindness and thoughtfulness, like cooking" each other's "favorite meal." We don't know everything, but we're aware that home-cooked meals mean a lot to some people. Eating out is fun, but seeing someone put time and effort into a meal for you feels more personal.

2. Allow your partner to sleep in while you handle bank runs, grocery shopping, and other chores.

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One of the other ways to each other's heart is "...running errands to show love and appreciation," according to Saiter. This can look like letting your partner rest while you handle early morning visits to the bank or grocery store before traffic picks up on the weekend.

Setting aside time for shared hobbies or interests can also be incredibly rejuvenating. For instance, taking a class together, whether it’s cooking, dancing, or photography, can help in discovering new aspects of each other and create fun, shared memories.

3. Sign up for a dance or photography class together.

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If you've been thinking about taking a cooking, wine, dance, or photography class together, now's the time to do so! Saiter says, "Setting aside time for shared hobbies or interests can also be incredibly rejuvenating." Before you roll your eyes because you think you and your spouse don't have anything in common anymore, take a step back to remember what it was like when you were dating.

You probably went on different dates like going to the bowling alley, visiting a pumpkin patch, or even taking a candle class together for fun. Doing this again "can help in discovering new aspects of each other and create fun, shared memories," according to Saiter.

4. Verbally share why you're grateful for each other.

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Yes, it's time for you and your spouse to remember why you chose to exchange vows. "...practicing gratitude by regularly expressing appreciation for each other's qualities and contributions can strengthen the emotional bond and bring back the warmth and closeness," Saiter says.

You can tell your partner you appreciate the times they've sensed something was wrong and knew just what to say to cheer you up. Also, you could simply thank them for remembering to take out the trash without you having to ask.

There's no rulebook that says expressing thanks for each other has to be elaborate and drawn out. It's just something to help you remember how much you see each other.

5. Set aside time to hold hands or cuddle everyday.

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If you or your spouse are experiencing a drop in your libido, physical intimacy be hard to navigate. Saiter says, "Overcoming a 'dry spell' requires open communication and a willingness to explore underlying issues." As difficult as it may be, don't be afraid to express concerns because "there are many feelings and unsaid wants underneath the 'dry spell,'" he adds.

Doing something as simple as "prioritizing physical, non-sexual touch" is one way way Saiter believes can help you and your spouse become close again. You do things like "holding hands, cuddling, or sharing a long hug," to add a little spark back to what you had.

6. Pencil in date nights.

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How many times have your or spouse asked, "Who has time for date night?" Wait, we don't want to know because chances are one of you have said it one too many times to count. Saiter says, "Planning regular date nights or weekends away can also help break the routine and create a sense of adventure in the relationship."

Communicating and being open to trying new things in the bedroom, like role-playing, using toys, or trying new positions, can also reignite the spark and make things exciting again.

You can also try revisiting places or activities that were significant earlier in your relationship to evoke nostalgic, passionate feelings and remind you both of your deep connection.

7. Let your adventurous side show in the bedroom.

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If one of you are comfortable initiating sex again, let your fun side call the shots. However, Saiter wants to make sure you're "communicating" before surprising your spouse. "...being open to trying new things in the bedroom, like role-playing, using toys, or trying new positions" is one of the ways he thinks you can reconnect behind closed doors. It's all about finding safe ways to "reignite the spark and make things exciting again," he shares!

8. Revisit the place you fell in love with your spouse.

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If you remember the exact time and place you knew your spouse was the one, Saiter suggests revisiting it to "evoke nostalgic, passionate feelings and remind you both of your deep connection." Whether it was at your local pizza parlor, the park, or even at a place like Disney World, find your why again.

My spouse and I are doing great after incorporating these tips, but how can we stay consistent?

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Saiter says, "Life gets busy, but it’s crucial to carve out time for each other. Treat it like any other important appointment—block off time in your schedule for date nights, family dinners, or just time relaxing together." Maybe you think it should sound so simple, but it is. Like Saiter says, you have to prioritize your marriage just like you do everything and everyone else.

Ways to help you do so are limiting "distractions by putting away phones and other devices" to "talk about your dreams, unwind together or simply enjoy each other's company," he adds. Still struggling?

"It might also be helpful to look over your daily responsibilities together to make sure the workload at home is shared fairly. Building a strong and fulfilling relationship takes effort and commitment. By prioritizing your partner, communicating openly, and making time for each other, you can strengthen your bond and reignite the spark," Saiter suggests.

All in all, Saiter believes "seeking couples counseling can be a great step toward getting the conversation flowing," if you and your spouse are still having trouble finding the spark in your marriage.

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Starbucks’ 2025 Spring Menu Includes A New Chai Latte That Looks Insanely Good

Starbucks fans, listen up: the chain just let us know that their spring menu may be coming sooner than you’d think.

If you've also been shelled up inside due to the frigid winter temperatures and find yourself craving everything spring, Starbucks is set to deliver in the coming months with two new menu items plus the return of a certain famed floral flavor.

Scroll on for everything we know about the Starbucks spring menu, plus the exact items to come!

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NEW! Iced Cherry Chai

First up on the Starbucks spring menu is the all-new Iced Cherry Chai. We were huge fans of the chain's Iced Pumpkin Cream Chai over the fall, so anything that has to do with chai has our attention. Based on the same, we assume this iced chai beverage will include a cherry-flavored syrup to sweeten up the sip.

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NEW! Jalapeño Chicken Pocket

A little birdy (AKA Starbucks!) also told us that there’s a new snack to join the 2025 spring menu. Meet the Jalapeño Chicken Pocket. The chain just dropped a similar-sounding item with their latest winter menu, the Spicy Falafel Pocket, which is essentially a savory pastry stuffed with falafel, creamy hummus, roasted red bell peppers, pickled onions, and a spicy herb sauce. Based on the Jalapeño Chicken Pocket name, it’s likely to be spicy and protein-packed. Yum!

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Return of lavender

That’s right – Starbucks is reviving their lavender drinks for spring 2025. Last year, they launched three lavender-tinged bevs: the Lavender Oatmilk Latte (hot or iced), the Iced Lavender Oatmilk Matcha, and the Lavender Creme Frappuccino. We’re crossing our fingers all of them come back to menus, plus perhaps a new lavender offering!

When will the 2025 Starbucks spring menu drop?

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The Starbucks spring menu is coming in March 2025. We’ll keep you posted with more official details on the menu items and exact release date!

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Your February Horoscope Is In — Including 6 Very Lucky Zodiac Signs!

Welcome to February 2025, the month of love. Mars, the planet that rules physical intimacy, remains retrograde for the rest of this month, resulting in professional delays or feelings of disconnect in relationships. However, on the plus side, the love planet, Venus, moves into spicy Aries, which will fuel our motivation and hope. Want to dive deeply and learn more about what is in store for you this February? Keep reading and see what is in store for your zodiac sign in your February horoscope for 2025!

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What to Expect in Your February Horoscope for 2025

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While Mars retrograde continues, this month proves to be lovely and filled with possibilities. Now that the action planet is still in its backspin motion, it doesn’t mean you should be holding back from visualizing your dreams. Appreciate the stillness and explore different possibilities before deciding what’s right for you. Although you may feel like a sitting duck, I beg to differ. This Mars retrograde proves to be a test of our will by not being impulsive. Luckily, Mars goes direct later this month, so hang on tight before losing momentum.

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February is off to a fiery start as Venus moves into Aries on Tuesday, February 4. Love and relationships will take on a new tempo, either sultry or temperamental. It's a period to experience excitement or realize what needs to be refined in your connection. On the same day, Jupiter, the planet of luck, goes direct! You will begin to see the silver lining in your journey and even the solution in how you can proceed. It's also a time to see how fate has played out in your story. If you're discontent, this is your chance to turn your life around. Having a little faith will take you much further than lowering your vibration with negativity. Listen to a mentor or take on a new sacred practice that elevates your well-being. Follow through with your promises and brighten someone’s day. Pay it forward to turn the tides.

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The Full Moon in Leo illuminates the sky and infuses us with optimism and renewal on Wednesday, February 12. Full Moons denote the need to let go and move on from what no longer serves your highest good. The great news is that this celestial event leaves us with a glimmer of hope and the willingness to close the chapter. On Friday, February 14, our communication ability will be poetic and ethereal as Mercury moves into Pisces. If you plan to go out on Valentine’s Day this year, expect this day to be more romantic than in past years. Speaking from the heart and through feeling will result better than pride or logic. Be playful and in the moment. Cherish your love.

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The mist begins to thicken, and our intuition heightens as the Sun moves into Pisces on Tuesday, February 18. This season is all about fine-tuning our empathy and interconnectedness with life. Inner reflection and exploring your artistic side will help you stay centered. Honor your sensitivity and be unconditional. On Sunday, February 23, the motivation planet Mars goes direct. It’s not time to push through with an agreement or project. Recalibrate and pick up from where you left off last October 2024. This is your time to decide whether an idea or concept stays or goes. Expect traction and things to pick up speed in the next several weeks.

In closing, the New Moon in emotive Pisces happens on Thursday, February 27. It’s time to start a new chapter involving your subconscious beliefs. This lunation will imbue you with the ability to trust the Universe and dream bigger. Hold onto the faith and set small steps to cultivate your vision.

The 6 Zodiac Signs That Will Experience Luck in Love in February 2025

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February 2025 is a month filled with romantic potential, and these six signs are in for a wave of love and connection. Aries, with Venus in your first house, your natural magnetism is at an all-time high, making it the perfect time for new romantic opportunities or reigniting the passion in existing relationships. Gemini, Venus in your eleventh house enhances your social life, bringing you closer to potential partners through shared interests and group activities. Cancer, Venus shining in your tenth house makes you irresistible to others, especially in professional or public settings, paving the way for admiration and romantic recognition. Sagittarius, Venus in your fifth house brings love, fun, and creative expression to the forefront, encouraging you to dive into romantic adventures or spice up your current relationship. Virgo, with Venus in your eighth house, expect deep emotional connections and intimacy to take center stage, creating powerful moments with your significant other. Lastly, Pisces, Mars in your fifth house adds extra spice to your love life, increasing passion and desire. Whether you’re single or coupled, expect a surge of fiery energy that ignites your romantic connections. February is your month for love, so let the stars guide you toward the connections you deserve. Keep reading for extended astrological insight into your sun, moon, and rising sign.

Key Dates for Your February Horoscope and Aquarius Season 2025

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  • 2/4 Venus enters Aries, Jupiter Direct
  • 2/12 Full Moon in Leo
  • 2/14 Mercury enters Pisces
  • 2/18 Sun enters Pisces
  • 2/23 Mars Direct
  • 2/27 New Moon in Pisces

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Aries (March 21 – April 20)

It's time to power through past obstacles this month, Aries. Remember that to get what you want, you must let go of self-limiting beliefs. Expect your confidence to level up as the love planet Venus graces your first house of identity and appearance. If you feel burnt out and less motivated lately, Venus moving into your sign will give you a boost — even with manifestation. Be careful what you wish for because your magnetism will attract results in the first half of February. This is a time for self-expression and embracing your desires with a bold, unapologetic flair. Meanwhile, Jupiter turning direct in your third house offers fresh opportunities for communication, learning, and connecting with others—be open to conversations that can expand your perspective. As the Full Moon on February 12 illuminates your fifth house of romance and creativity, you're called to release old habits in love or self-expression, making room for new, more authentic experiences.Mid-month, your life grows quiet as Mercury and the Sun move into your twelfth house. Your intuition heightens, and your dreams will become more lucid — keep a dream journal handy. As Mars finally goes direct in your fourth house on February 23 you're ready to take action on home, family, and your emotional foundation matters. Get organized, declutter your home, or begin focusing on what you want regarding domestic affairs. The last half of the month directs your focus on your inner life with the New Moon in Pisces and your twelfth house on February 27; it pushes you to reflect on your subconscious desires and healing, urging you to establish new beliefs and trust in the Universe. Magic will unfold once you establish a better mindset and understanding of how your energy works. By the end of the month, you're emerging from a period of internal growth, ready to build a more secure and fulfilling future.

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Taurus (April 21 – May 21)

Have you been paying attention to your energy levels lately, Taurus? Something may not be clicking or in flow. The great news is that February invites you to step back and focus on inner reflection and long-term goals. Appreciate the quiet moments, and incorporate self-care as Venus enters your twelfth house. This will reveal what you need regarding your inner world. Healing and releasing old emotional baggage will create movement. Do the work and let go. At the same time, Jupiter, direct in your second house of finances and self-worth, will shed light on matters involving your wealth and long-term responsibilities. Avoid being frivolous with spending, and be strategic with your money. Research and learn how to budget accordingly. On February 12, the Full Moon in your fourth house brings clarity to home and family matters, urging you to release any emotional ties or situations holding you back from feeling secure. Ask for feedback or have an honest heart-to-heart with loved ones to rebuild security. The lines of communication open on February 23 when Mars direct in your third house picks up speed, and you’ll find it easier to express your thoughts and ideas with clarity and confidence.

Big win! Your paradigm lightens up mid-month with Mercury and the Sun moving into your eleventh house, and your social life and goals come into focus. Connect with friends, network, and surround yourself with like-minded individuals who share your hopes and dreams for the future. Life will be extra dreamy and hopeful when the New Moon in Pisces on February 27 powers up your eleventh house, making it a potent time to set intentions about your social circles and long-term vision.

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Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

Prepare to make big moves and slay this month, Gemini. If life has been lackluster lately, your luck is about to change, involving social networks, career, or finances. Venus blazing its way into your eleventh house, you will find yourself attracting new friends and connections in places you didn't expect. Joining groups and connecting with those who support your beliefs this month will turn the tides in your favor and potentially lead to incredible opportunities. Relationships, love, and professionalism become the source of your joy and expect more harmonious exchanges. That's not all. Jupiter Direct in your first house levels up your charisma. It will be a powerful time to take on new endeavors and even take a chance on your dreams. When the Full Moon enters your third house, you may feel in a frenzy with inner thoughts, communication habits, or incomplete tasks on February 12. This lunar event prompts you to let go of old ideas and thought patterns and work on your task management.

Mid-month, Mercury and the Sun move into your tenth house of career and public matters. Focus on your professional goals and ambition, and it's time to make a mark and trust yourself. Expect to feel motivated and inclined to take charge of finances and material resources as Mars turns direct in your second house on February 23. Invest in yourself, find solidity in your financial plans, and remember you can get what you want. The month concludes by bringing fresh energy to your career path — the New Moon in Pisces on February 27 invites you to set new intentions and move forward with clarity in your professional life.

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Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

Ready to be on cloud nine, Cancer? February presents a regenerative and positive month filled with opportunities for professional growth and spiritual insight. To start with the beauty planet Venus, gracing your tenth house of career early this month — your efforts will be recognized. Your public image will be well received, and exchanges with superiors (or audience) will be more positive and rewarding. Jupiter’s direct motion in your twelfth house invites deep spiritual growth and healing, inspiring you to trust your intuition and have faith in the Universe. Allow optimism to attract a better flow in your life — this will show a more precise path filled with serendipitous experiences. The Full Moon in your second house on February 12 focuses on financial matters and enables you to reflect on future payment plans or revise future spending. Review your process and build a stronger sense of self by letting go of past fears or unsettling feelings around money.

Mid-month, as Mercury and the Sun move into your ninth house of higher learning, travel, and philosophy, your trust or connectedness in the Universe will strengthen! Explore new approaches to spirituality — become the student and explore all angles of life and your role in it. Celebrate as Mars goes direct in your first house on February 23! Expect to feel more energized and prepared to cross off your checklist of goals and assert yourself with greater confidence and endless determination. Take measured steps. By month's end, the New Moon in Pisces on February 27 will infuse you with hope and inspiration. It offers a fresh start involving endeavors or spiritual journeys.

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Leo (July 23 – August 22)

How often do you reflect, Leo? February sets the stage for you to engage more with your heart and to pinpoint what truly fulfills you. The month begins with Venus in your ninth house, allowing you to explore your passions and revitalize your perspective on the world. Book a solo trip, or revive that project left behind. Jupiter’s direct motion in your eleventh house ignites your social life while giving you cosmic support to begin a harmonious collaboration. Surround yourself with those who allow you to shine and appreciate your transparency. On February 12, the Full Moon in your first house shines its light on you and all your shades. Give thanks for your past self, and release any aspects that don't align with who you want to be.

By mid-month, when Mercury and the Sun enter your eighth house of sex, secrets, and shared resources, it will be revelatory. This is a period for you to do inner work while also getting to the bottom of any unanswered questions involving your intimate relationships, dealings with resources, and Self. Be reflective and trust your intuition. On February 23, Mars turns direct in your twelfth house, and your inner world becomes more active, guiding you toward spiritual growth and the courage to release hidden fears. The New Moon in Pisces on February 27 further illuminates these findings while offering a fresh start in these areas of your life—whether through healing, letting go of past baggage, or creating more meaningful connections. Begin a new era that aligns with your well-being — but it's crucial to factor in your true feelings for the best results.

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Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

If you're wondering where your soul tribe is, Virgo, February will be a month to observe your connections. The goal is to learn how to be comfortable with letting down your guard. Starting with the love planet Venus, blazing in your eighth house of vulnerable and intimate connections, you will learn how to deepen your bonds. Clear the air by arranging a sit down with those who need to hear you out. Lucky Jupiter Direct happening in your tenth house ignites your presence in the public eye while giving you the green light to make big moves in your career. Expect to feel more withdrawn or reflective with the Full Moon on February 12 in your twelfth house. Rest and release past baggage that may have been holding you back from your full potential.

Mid-month, expect your communication to improve in your personal and professional relationships as Mercury and the Sun move into your seventh house. The best support for this shift is Mars Direct in your eleventh house beginning February 23. You will pick up speed with your aspirations and reignite your group collaborations. Begin your passion project or create an impact with those who support your vision. This month concludes with the New Moon in Pisces on February 27, energizing your seventh house of partnerships. It offers a new beginning in your closest connections and inspires you to manifest harmonious and balanced relationships.

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Libra (September 23 – October 22)

Feeling burnt out lately, Libra? This month, it's all about recalibrating relationships and self-care. February kickstarts with your ruler planet, Venus, energizing your seventh house of commitment and relationships. If you need more spice in your love life, this is your moment to make it happen and to change your paradigm. Go on date night or go out with your friends. Speaking of changes, Jupiter Direct in your ninth house shifts your focus regarding your perception of life, traveling, or personal beliefs. Be playful in your approach, and consider this an opportunity to believe in yourself and your limitless possibilities. Then, on February 12, the Full Moon in Pisces in your eleventh house closes the chapter on your connections and past aspirations. If it feels right, letting go of old friendships or groups may be in the stars, but remember that your memories shaped you into who you are now. There is a part of you that is ready to evolve.

Mid-month, review your approaches to work and daily routines as Mercury and the Sun illuminate your sixth house — focus on self-care and set your work goals to optimize your energy. Begin a fitness regimen or detox to fine-tune your mind, body, and spirit. If you have been feeling like a wallflower at work lately, that is all about to change, with Mars Direct happening on February 23 in your tenth house of career. Name your terms and get ready to see your hard work paying off. Finally, a new chapter begins with the New Moon on February 27, adding sparkle to your well-being and work environment. Set new intentions for creating balance in your daily life. We believe in you!

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Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Expect a change in the wind, Scorpio. Refocus your mindset and prioritize work, creativity, and joy to revamp your energy this February. It begins with Venus entering your sixth house. Expect pleasant exchanges in your work environment while energizing yourself through an exercise regimen. Be organized in your approach and make it happen. Jupiter Direct in your eighth house gives you a dose of magic to see how your energy works. As a Scorpio, you naturally emit emotion and be mindful that whatever you project inside reflects the outcome. Clear out from emotional or financial attachments that could block you from experiencing a better flow. On February 12, the Full Moon in your tenth house brings clarity and potential endings to your career goals or public image, helping you explore new avenues professionally.

By mid-February, Mercury and the Sun enter your fifth house of creativity, romance, and self-expression. Focus on joy, whether through creative endeavors or spending time with loved ones. There will be stars in your eyes on February 23 as Mars Direct in your ninth house revives your personal beliefs and expands your reach. It's time to pick up where you left off on your bucket list. Make it happen! Then, on February 27, the New Moon in Pisces opens doors for you in romance, creative endeavors, or simply joie de vivre. Set your intentions and pin down what fulfills you.

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Sagittarius (November 21 – December 21)

Love is in the air, Sagittarius. February supports your passion projects, romance, and domestic life. This month checks off on what you set your heart on. The love planet Venus in your fifth house will make you feel like you're in a fantasy — if you're single, go out and start to mingle. If in a partnership, book a getaway or date night. Love, fun, and creative expression take the spotlight. Play, you deserve it! Your ruler planet, Jupiter Direct in your seventh house, shifts your focus on your relationship and commitment. Expect a resurgence of optimism and growth in your partnership — love and business included. Have faith and allow positivity to flow through you to find the solution for any past conflicts. The Full Moon in your ninth house on February 12 encourages you to release outdated beliefs or expand your understanding of the world while bridging closure or clarity to your long-term goals and aspirations. Revision is necessary for success.

Mid-February, Mercury and the Sun powers up your fourth house of home and family, shedding light on your emotional security, family matters, and the home. Assess your living situation or adjust based on mutual understanding with loved ones. Inner peace is key. On February 23, Mars Direct, in your eighth house of intimacy and shared resources, equips you to make a move on future decisions that align with your emotional well-being. The New Moon in Pisces on February 27 concludes this month by revitalizing your home life, bringing security and comfort to long-term plans.

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Capricorn (December 21 – January 19)

It’s not just what you say but how you say it that makes all the difference, Capricorn. February is all about fine-tuning the context of your messages. Becoming heart-centered will bring progress in your home life as Venus graces your fourth house of family and emotional security this month. Nurturing your loved ones or living space will ensure harmony and inner peace. Jupiter Direct in your sixth house of work and health brings a second wind of positive interactions and your well-being. Effort and kindness will advance you sooner than expected. The Full Moon on February 12 in your eighth house signals the end of past emotional burdens, fears, or financial constraints. It’s time to release and heal—whether by settling debts or making amends, even energetically.

Mid-month, Mercury and the Sun move into your third house, refining your communication and connection with others. Expect a better flow of discussions, new learning experiences, and perhaps even a short trip to refresh your perspective. When Mars goes direct in your seventh house of relationships on February 23, momentum builds in partnerships. Whether personal or professional, you’ll feel ready to take decisive action and strengthen those connections. February concludes with the New Moon on February 27, offering a fresh start involving your ideas for long-term projects. Set intentions around learning, networking, and expanding your connections. This month, focus on balancing your inner world and outer interactions.

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Aquarius (January 20 – February 19)

Happy Birthday, Aquarius! You were born to be an innovator. February brings a month filled with opportunities to build what you set your mind on. It's all in the details. With Venus entering your third house of ideas and communication, you will be equipped with bravado and a sharp focus. This month, get involved in localized group settings and exchange ideas to help you gain confidence in the long run. Jupiter Direct in your fifth house encourages you to revive your dream projects, find joy, and connect with children. Then, the Full Moon on February 12 in your seventh house of partnerships brings clarity to your relationships, helping you to release any patterns or connections that no longer align with your goals.

Mid-month, as Mercury and the Sun move into your second house of finances, you’ll feel a push to reassess your financial situation, values, and material resources. It's a perfect opportunity to reflect on your self-worth and set new intentions for increasing your stability and self-sufficiency. As Mars Direct on February 23 in your 6th house, expect to feel more motivated to take action toward your work goals and establish better routines that support your long-term well-being. The New Moon in Pisces on February 27 offers an opportunity to start fresh in your approach to money and personal resources.

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Pisces (February 20 – March 21)

Pisces, what role are you playing in your own story? February extends a stream of personal growth and the importance of self-worth. If you have been feeling faded lately, expect a resurgence of vitality as Venus powers up your second house this month. This is a period for you to rebuild your esteem and take steps toward financial security. Wait, there's more stardust coming your way! Jupiter Direct in your fourth house supports your domestic life, opening new discussions with loved ones (like family planning/expansion) and igniting changes in your living environment. The Full Moon in your sixth house on February 12 encourages you to release any habits or work-related stress that no longer serve your well-being, offering you a chance to make room for healthier routines.Expect to feel even more awake mid-month as Mercury and the Sun move into your first house. The focus shifts to personal goals and self-image, giving you the energy to communicate clearly and welcome new beginnings. Expect momentum and creative flow, spicy interactions, and overall happiness in love when Mars goes direct in your fifth house on February 23. The New Moon in Pisces on February 27 offers a powerful reset for you to set new intentions for the future, whether it’s about how you present yourself to the world or what new goals you wish to pursue. Cheers to you!

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