Being single can be pretty great, But when the temps drop and the pressure of cuffing season rises, it can be hard to keep perspective. Add in a slew of parties and potential date opportunities and it can feel you’re missing out — but who said that cute, festive dates are reserved for couples? Grab your gal pals, make your reservations, and kiss first date nerves goodbye with these eight date ideas just for friends.
Here’s two questions for you to think about. One is probably quite straightforward to the answer, the other… maybe not so much. Here you go:
- Question 1: Did you celebrate National Best Friends Day on June 8th?
- Question 2: How good of a friend are you?
National Best Friends Day is a celebration to honor those who hold the title of best friend in our lives. Of course, if you didn’t celebrate the day, or didn’t know about it, that doesn't mean you aren’t a good friend. But perhaps Best Friends Day is a good moment to stop and think about our friends, and especially our best friend. Do we give them what they need? We tend to see the world through the lens of our own personality, our likes and dislikes, and it can be difficult to put ourselves in other people’s shoes. That’s when knowing something about our personality, and how it differs from that of other people, can help.
One really useful framework in building and maintaining relationships goes by the name of “FIRO”, code for “Fundamental Interpersonal Relationships Orientation”. That’s a bit of a mouthful, but it describes what the FIRO does. It measures what you need, and what you show, in your interpersonal relationships. This can help explain why sometimes other people, including our friends, don’t seem to understand us, or give us what we need from them – and why sometimes we don’t understand our friends.
KoolShooters/Pexels
The FIRO framework looks at three different types of interpersonal needs:
- Inclusion, our need to belong. How much do you need to be part of a group? How much do you want to be included by other people in their groups, and how much do you want to include others in your group?
- Control, our need for influence. How much to you need to have clear direction and structure in your relationships, both on a one-to-one level and in groups
- Affection, our need for intimacy. How important is it for you to have close personal relationships with other people at a one-to-one level?
The FIRO looks at two different aspects for each of these areas. First, how much of that need is expressed to others, how much of that behavior we initiate to others. For Inclusion, for example, how much do we try to include other people in our activities – your FIRO Expressed Inclusion score. It also looks at how much we want from others.
Karolina Kaboompics/Pexels
- For Inclusion: How much do we need other people to include us in their group and involve us in their activities? Wanted Inclusion.
- For Control: The extent to which we try to influence and control others, and how much we want to be in an environment that provides us with structure and clarity. Expressed Control and Wanted Control.
- For Affection: How much we try to be warm and friendly to others, and how much we want others to be warm and friendly to us. Expressed and Wanted Affection.
That gives scores; Expressed and Wanted Inclusion,Expressed and Wanted Control,Expressed and Wanted Affection. And we can have a high, medium, or low score for each of these six areas.
Helena Lopes/Pexels
So how can this explain why someone might be misunderstood? Well, this can happen when someone’s expressed and wanted scores are different. Let’s look at an example. Joe has high Expressed Inclusion, but low Wanted Inclusion. He wants to involve lots of people in his activities but doesn’t want them to include him in their activities. He’s likely seen by others as outgoing and sociable, but he also has a real need for privacy.
Because people see his high Expressed Inclusion, his friends are likely to invite or include him more than he wants to be, and he’ll refuse some of those invitations – which might leave them feeling hurt or otherwise harm the friendship. But knowing his FIRO profile will give Joe the language to describe his behavior and keep the friendship alive.
Pavel Danilyuk/Pexels
Of course, our interpersonal needs involve other people too. Let’s look at Joe alongside his friend Joan. Joe has high Expressed Inclusion and low Wanted Inclusion. Joan has low Expressed Inclusion and high Wanted Inclusion. This might make for a good relationship. Joe wants to include Joan (high Expressed Inclusion), and she wants to be included (high Wanted Inclusion). Joan doesn’t much want to include other people in her activities (low Expressed Inclusion), and that’s fine with Joe, who doesn’t much want to be included (low Wanted Inclusion).
However, things might be a little different on Affection. Joe has high Expressed Affection and high Wanted Affection. Joan is low on both. Joe wants to be warm and friendly with Joan, to get a connection, but Joan, with low Wanted Affection, doesn’t want that. And Joe is looking for warm and friendly behavior from Joan, which she probably doesn’t want to express. This may be an area where understanding their FIRO results helps them to understand why their relationship may sometimes be strained, and gives them the knowledge they need to make that relationship work.
Karolina Kaboompics/Pexels
So take a moment to think about your relationships, your friendships. Are there places where your best friend doesn’t seem to understand you, or you them? Are there times when they don’t quite seem to give you what you need, or vice versa? Maybe understanding your interpersonal needs, or knowing your FIRO profile, could help.
Subscribe to our newsletter for more relationship tips!
Header image via KoolShooters/Pexels
Whether you're celebrating Thanksgiving with your family or having a cozy dinner for two, you want some time to sit back and relax on Turkey Day – even to enjoy some fun holiday games and activities while you wait for the turkey to brown. Make the day way easier by whipping up any of these easy make-aheadThanksgivingappetizer recipes and give yourself an actual Thanksgiving break.
Brit + Co
Bread Cornucopia and Cheese
Nothing says Thanksgiving like a cornucopia, so a bread cornucopia is the perfect appetizer centerpiece for your pre-feast party. (via Brit + Co)
Half Baked Harvest
Make-Ahead Mashed Potatoes
Mashed potatoes are a classic Thanksgiving appetizer. With this recipe, you can prep a creamy, buttery batch ahead of the big day and have it ready to go when your guests gather together. (via Half Baked Harvest for Brit + Co)
Brit + Co
Mac + Cheese Donuts
Not every appetizer has to be high rent. Whether you're prepping for Friendsgiving or an Turkey Day with your closest family, these delicious edibles will be a crowd pleaser. (via Brit + Co)
The Cafe Sucre Farine
Rosemary Pecan Goat Cheese Truffles
These babies are actually pretty darn classy, and they showcase all the flavors of the spectrum. There's rosemary for herb lovers, pecan to add some nuttiness, and even Sriracha for a bit of heat. Pro tip: Serve with a basic crispy wafer so as not to detract from the spread. (via The Cafe Sucre Farine)
Nerds With Knives
Crostini With Bleu Cheese and Roasted Grapes
This recipe takes almost no time to make. Slice up some blue cheese and add grapes to your favorite baguette. (via Nerds With Knives)
Little Spice Jar
Gruyere, Mushroom, and Caramelized Onion Bites
Add Gruyere, mushrooms, and caramelized onions to puffed pastry for a simple and delicious appetizer. And the best part is, you can make this up to 48 hours ahead of time, giving you plenty of wiggle room for your Turkey Day prep. (via Little Spice Jar)
Better Homes & Gardens
Cran-Sage Rolls
Not only is there nothing wrong with using frozen dough once in a while, but it's actually kind of a perfect Thanksgiving treat. These rolls are flavored with cranberries and sage for an elegant holiday version of trust crescent rolls. (via Better Homes & Gardens)
Hello Little Home
Ranch Pumpkin Seeds
These pumpkin seeds are both salty and tangy, plus you get a nice crunch from baking them for a bit. (via Hello Little Home)
I Will Not Eat Oysters
Kabocha and Havarti Pockets
Prepare these hearty pockets a few days before Thanksgiving, stick them in the fridge, and bake on the day of. (via I Will Not Eat Oysters)
Real Housemoms
Onion, Cranberry, and Pecan Cheese Ball
Cheese balls are a classic appetizer. Add onion, cranberries, and pecans to make yours next-level. (via Real Housemoms)
Well Plated
Cranberry Baked Brie Puff Pastry Bites
Brie can get super messy. Make bites instead and pop some cranberry in them to Thanksgiving-ify. Serve with fresh cranberries or — our personal favorite — sweet cranberry sauce. (via Well Plated)
How Sweet Eats
Pomegranate Jeweled White Cheddar, Toasted Almond, and Crispy Sage Cheeseball
This big bundle of flavor is so cheesy. It's coated in pomegranate seeds, which makes it super festive and sweet. (via How Sweet Eats)
The Suburban Soapbox
Tomato Jam and Cheddar Palmiers
TBH the thought of tomato jam is a little scary. But, once you try this recipe, you and your fam will be totally hooked. Add a little cheddar to make these extra flavorful. (via The Suburban Soapbox)
Recipe Rebel
Cranberry Bacon Jam Crostini
These tiny crostinis take the idea of bruschetta and turn it on its head. Instead of light, summery toppings, you'll be treated to festive cranberries, savory bacon, and gooey cheese. (via Recipe Rebel)
Home Is Where the Boat Is
Cha-Cha Chicken Salad
There's an unexpected sweetness to this chicken salad, and it comes from pineapples and cranberries. Top with a fresh sprig of rosemary. (via Home Is Where the Boat Is)
Chew Out Loud
Pumpkin Bacon Dip
Nothing says Thanksgiving more than pumpkin-flavored everything, and that doesn't stop at chips and dip. Top this dip with bacon and green onions for extra flavor. (via Chew Out Loud)
Gimme Some Oven
5-Ingredient Caprese Phyllo Cups
Caprese is one of those crowd-pleasing dishes that you really can't go wrong with. Drizzle these with pesto or balsamic vinaigrette for extra flavor, but wait to do that part until you're ready to serve — otherwise they may get soggy. (via Gimme Some Oven)
Deliciously Sprinkled
Pumpkin Dip
When it comes to dips, what could be more Thanksgiving-y than a concoction made with pumpkin? Serve with crackers, apples, or lightly sweetened cookies to tide your guests over until the big meal. (via Deliciously Sprinkled)
Food & Wine
Prosciutto-Fontina Pinwheels
Thinly sliced prosciutto, Fontina cheese, and puff pastry are just about all you need to make these pinwheels. The best part is that they totally make you into the best ever Turkey Day hostess. (via Food & Wine)
The Suburban Soapbox
Sweet and Spicy Sausage Stuffed Mushrooms
Go for a not-so-traditional Thanksgiving food and cook up a batch of stuffed mushrooms. The sweet and spicy flavors of this app will make it go fast. (via The Suburban Soapbox)
Pip and Ebby
Antipasto Skewers
Assemble these skewers a day ahead of schedule. Put them on a tray and cover tightly with plastic wrap, then refrigerate until ready to serve. (via Pip and Ebby)
Amy in the Kitchen
Garlic Butter Tuscan Shrimp Dip
Dip toast points, pita chips, and breadsticks into this indulgent dip, which you can make a day before Thanksgiving and pop in the oven to warm up when you're ready to eat. We won't judge if you decide to toss the leftovers with some warm pasta and call it a meal. (via Amy in the Kitchen)
My Gorgeous Recipes
Quick Chicken Liver Pâté
Go old school this Thanksgiving, serving chicken liver pâté and toast points as an appetizer. The pâté will keep for a few days in the fridge; just let it sit for 20 minutes at room temperature before you dig in. (via My Gorgeous Recipes)
Tara's Multicultural Table
Bavarian Cheese and Beer Spread
A robust cheese spread, made with beer, is an appropriately hearty start to your Thanksgiving feast. (via Tara's Multicultural Table)
Savory Tooth
Bacon-Wrapped Brussels Sprouts
We all have that family member who claims they don't like Brussels sprouts. Change their mind with these bacon-wrapped versions, which you can make ahead and heat in the oven just before serving (though they're delish at room temperature too). (via Savory Tooth)
The Home Cook's Kitchen
Mushroom Goat Cheese Bruschetta
Earthy mushrooms and tangy goat cheese create a balanced bite with this bruschetta recipe. Make sure your bread is extra toasty, so you can prep it without worrying about it getting soggy. (via The Home Cook's Kitchen)
No Spoon Necessary
Roasted Sweet Potato Harissa Hummus
Ditch the candied sweet potatoes and serve up this creamy hummus instead. It'll keep for at least a couple of days in the fridge, freeing up time for you to work on the rest of your seasonal cooking. (via No Spoon Necessary)
Sweet Peas and Saffron
Lasagna Stuffed Portobello Mushrooms
Make these stuffed mushrooms, freeze them, then pop 'em into the oven on Thanksgiving. Just try to resist eating so many you lose your appetite before the big meal. (via Sweet Peas and Saffron)
Spicy Southern Kitchen
Spicy Marinated Cheese
The cheese is marinated in a mixture of oil, vinegar, and spices, and gets better if you make it a day or two in advance. (via Spicy Southern Kitchen)
Lisa's Dinnertime Dish
Italian Sausage and Bean Bruschetta
Loaded with Italian sausage and white beans, this take on bruschetta is hearty enough for colder weather. Warm it up slightly before serving with toasted baguette slices. (via Lisa's Dinnertime Dish)
Cathy's Gluten Free
Sweet Potato Salad with Bacon
A little sweet, a little salty, this paleo salad is a satisfying but healthy starter. Top it with toasted pecans to add some crunch to each bite. (via Cathy's Gluten Free)
Garlic & Zest
Prosciutto and Date Palmiers
Flaky, cheesy, and sweet, palmiers will definitely stimulate your tastebuds. (via Garlic & Zest)
Food Meanderings
Caesar Twice-Baked Potatoes
Mini potatoes seasoned with Caesar dressing are twice-baked for this recipe. You can assemble them ahead of time, then bake them for the second time right before they're served! (via Food Meanderings)
Half Baked Harvest
Baked French Onion Meatballs
Talk about yum. Beef up your classic French onion soup recipe with a few meatballs to add a hearty touch, and top them off with a bit of gruyere. Trust us: your guests are going to thank you. (via Half Baked Harvest)Barley & Sage
Goat Cheese Risotto with Cherry Tomato Confit
This easy-peasy recipe is actually pretty darn classy and showcases all the flavors on the spectrum. There's basil for herb lovers, plump cherry tomatoes for a burst of flavor, and a mix-in of goat cheese for an elevated flavor. (via Barley & Sage)Whole and Heavenly Oven
Caprese Bruschetta with Basil Pesto
This recipe takes almost no time to make. Slice up some mozzarellaslices, tomatoes, and drizzle some vinaigrette and pesto to your favorite baguette. (via Whole and Heavenly Oven)Where is My Spoon?
Puff Pastry Nibbles
Add sliced tomatoes, pesto (store-bought or homemade!), and sprinkle on some hard cheese to puff pastry pieces for a simple and delicious Thanksgiving appetizer. And the best part is, you can make this up to 48 hours ahead of time, giving you plenty of wiggle room for your Turkey Day prep. (via Where is My Spoon?)
Two Peas & Their Pod
Stuffed Mushrooms
We get it: either you love mushrooms or you hate them with a passion, but this recipe is bound to convert any hater. These mushrooms are jam-packed with parmesan cheese and panko breadcrumbs for a delectable Thanksgiving finger food. (via Two Peas & Their Pod)
Culinary Hill
2-Ingredient Italian Sausage Rolls
These 2-ingredient rolls are sure to please both the kids and adults tables this year. Make them ahead of time, then easily heat them back up once Thanksgiving Day rolls around. (via Culinary Hill)A Spicy Perspective
Bacon Kalamata Cheese Puffs
For those who don't already know, kalamata is a type of olive… which makes these appetizers perfect for your vegetarian guests. Prepare these pockets a few days before Thanksgiving, stick them in the fridge, and bake the day of. (via A Spicy Perspective)The Fast Recipe
Spicy Cajun Deviled Eggs
What *doesn't* sound good about these deviled eggs? Cajun seasoning and hot sauce give these otherwise totally traditionalfinger foods a savory, rich layer of flavor. (via The Fast Recipe)The Bossy Kitchen
Cheese Straws with Feta and Poppy Seeds
To make these cheese straws, twist together some feta and a homemade dough, then bake. These taste ahh-mazing all on their own, but you can get creative with the toppings if you're feeling frisky. (via The Bossy Kitchen)
Takes Two Eggs
Korean Cream Cheese Garlic Bread
Cheese bread is a classic appetizer. The cream cheese and honey butter in this recipe takes this to the next level. (via Takes Two Eggs)Half Baked Harvest
Mini Pastry Wrapped Cranberry Baked Brie Bites
Brie can get super messy. Make some tiny bites instead, and pop some cranberry in them to Thanksgiving-ify. Serve with fresh cranberries or — our personal favorite — sweet cranberry sauce. (via Half Baked Harvest)
Averie Cooks
Dill Pickle Cheese Ball
While the term “cheese ball" might not sound particularly refined, this big bundle of flavor actually kinda is. It's coated in cheddar cheese, for one thing, which makes it a total crowd-pleaser. We recommend adding pickle slices to this bad boy for extra oomph. (via Averie Cooks)The Endless Meal
Crispy Boursin Arancini
Crispy Boursin arancinis the perfect make-ahead appetizer that you can reheat in the oven. Once you try this recipe, you and your fam will be totally hooked. The Boursin center make these extra flavorful! (via The Endless Meal)Cozy Cravings
Spinach and Ricotta Puff Pastry Pinwheels
These spinach and ricotta pinwheels take pre-dinner bread to a whole other level. Enjoy a swirl of buttery puff pastry, salty parmesan, and gooey ricotta for the ultimate savory treat. (via Cozy Cravings)
The Bossy Kitchen
Cranberry Cream Cheese Dip
Nothing says Thanksgiving more than cranberry-infused everything, and that doesn't stop at chips and dip! Top this dip with slivered almonds and green onions for extra flavor. (via The Bossy Kitchen)
Hello Little Home
Baked Brie with Cranberries & Pecans
There's an unexpected sweetness to this baked brie, and it comes from the cranberries. Prep ahead then bake to experience the ooey-gooey center. (via Hello Little Home)
The First Mess
Roasted Carrot & Harissa Chickpea Dip
When it comes to prepping ahead, dips of any kind are a crowd-pleasing dish that you really can't go wrong with. Top this spread with pine nuts and pomegranate pearls for extra flavor, but wait to do that part until you're ready to serve it — otherwise, it may all get mixed in. (via The First Mess)Live Eat Learn
Leek Quiche Recipe with Goat Cheese
One of the best things about a quiche is that you can eat it at any time of year. Full of leeks and cheesy goodness, this recipe is a great way to sneak in some vegetables ahead of the big feast. (via Live Eat Learn)
The Endless Meal
Hot Spinach Artichoke Dip
This Thanksgiving, indulge in the traditional decadence that is a spinach and artichoke dip. The best part about a tried and true favorite like this is that it'll totally make you the best-ever Turkey Day hostess! (via The Endless Meal)
Rachel Mansfield
Spinach Artichoke Dip Cups
Speaking of spinach artichoke dip, opt for these lil' cups to avoid the mess. You definitely won't have to worry about forgetting the chips! (via Rachel Mansfield)
Two Peas & Their Pod
Cherry Arugula Farro Salad
Go for a not-so-traditional Thanksgiving food and whip up a light, yet filling salad. The sweet and crunchy texture of this appetizer will make it go fast. (via Two Peas & Their Pod)
Salt & Lavender
Easy Antipasto Skewers
Assemble these skewers a day ahead of schedule. Put them on a tray and cover tightly with plastic wrap, then refrigerate until you're ready to serve them. (via Salt & Lavender)Join our newsletter for more make-ahead Thanksgiving appetizers and other delicious recipe ideas!
This article has been updated with additional reporting by Maggie McCracken, Justina Huddleston, and Meredith Holser.
Making friends as an adult can be hard, and if you ask me, nothing is harder than having to wade through small talk. Asking about work or how someone's day went makes every interaction feel like a first date. Of course, I want to know about work and how someone's day went — I just want to know more.
The key to making small talk more fun is figuring out what someone likes to talk about. Are they into pop culture? History or sports? Their faith? Once you crack the code on what they love to talk about, your conversation will instantly flow. Here are 11 questions you can ask a new friendthat make small talk feel bigger.
What are your hobbies?
My favorite thing to do when talking to a new friend is to ask them how they spend their time. Because while school and work can have elements of responsibility or obligation, hobbies are pure fun! This is a good question to open your small talk with because it'll help you both loosen up and think about something you love to do. Plus, if you end up learning you share a hobby, you have even more to talk about! (As I discovered during my conversation with author Yulin Kuang!)
What's your favorite way to unwind?
If you want your conversation to feel more relaxed, well, ask about relaxation! Whether your new friend does yoga, they spend a half hour doing skincare, or they read a book chapter every night, this question is sure to get a positive response. Speaking of books...
What are you watching or reading right now?
Netflix
There are so many movies, TV shows, and books out right now that you're both bound to be in the middle of one title or another. I can (and do) spend hours upon hours talking about my favorite TV shows. This is one small talk question that can make even the most awkward convo enjoyable.
What fictional character is closest to your personality?
Netflix
And if the TV conversation goes well, take it a step farther by asking which fictional character your new friend relates to the most. It'll give you a little more insight into their personality, and it's just plain fun.
Which Taylor Swift era are you in?
If you and your acquaintance are both Taylor Swift fans, dive deep into your current eras. Whether you're in your Lover era or you're embracing the carefree chaos of 1989, this is the perfect excuse to queue up your Taylor Swift playlist.
Are you a morning person or a night person?
If you're both morning people, you can bond over how nice it is to be the early birds, while two night people will have plenty to talk about when it comes to nightlife or the best places to look at the stars. And if you're opposites, you can give each other tips!
Are you a chocolate person, vanilla person, or neither?
I don't know about y'all, but I refuse to order ice cream unless it's chocolate. I love consistently knowing what to expect. Maybe your new friend feels the same way, or they prefer the spontaneity of ordering a new flavor every single time. Either way, it'll give you a look at their personality AND lead you to the ice cream store. It's a win-win.
What fruit are you?
My current go-to question was born out of my interview with The Outsiders cast (in honor of character Cherry Valance). My current answer is strawberry for a few simple reasons: you know what you're in for, it can be super sweet, and on a good day, it's the same on the inside at the outside.
What's something you're proud of this year?
It's crazy that we're halfway through 2024! Let the conversation take an exciting turn by remembering something fun, memorable, and beautiful.
What's one thing you want to check off your bucket list this year?
But don't spend all your time talking about the past! Think ahead to the second half of the year and talk about a dream or goal you have. It can be as small as finally ordering frames for your gallery wall or as big as scoring a promotion.
Where do you want to travel?
Summer's not over yet! Daydream about somewhere you'd like to see one day, like Italy or Seoul. And in the meantime, plan a day trip somewhere close by :).
Read up on 10 Thought-Provoking Questions To Know Close Friends More Intimately for more!
Lead image via Laura Du Vé/Refinery29 Australia for Getty Images
So long, pumpkin spice season: Starbucks’ holiday menu has officially returned, and it brings back a ton of seasonal favorites!
In addition to the classic Peppermint Mocha to the beloved Caramel Brûlée Latte, a new Refresher flavor, 6 unique cold foams, and 4 new bakery items are now available at Starbucks locations as the holidays draw near – including many items we predicted! The lineup is honestly wild. The Starbucks holiday menu hit stores on November 7.
If you just can’t wait to order off the Starbucks holiday menu, here’s every offering available at your closest cafe!
When will the Starbucks holiday drinks for 2024 come out?
Starbucks
The new holiday drinks and snacks from Starbucks came out on November 7, 2024.
Will there be holiday cups?
Starbucks
Yes, the Starbucks holiday menu includes some new holiday cup designs! You can peek at all the new designs for 2024 here.
What's missing from this year's rumored Starbucks holiday menu?
Starbucks
The Eggnog Latte, Toasted White Chocolate Mocha, Irish Cream Cold Brew, and Gingerbread Loaf won't be returning to cafes for 2024. We're especially sad to see the Toasted White Chocolate Mocha not included, though the official menu lineup has yet to be released!
When is Starbucks Red Cup Day 2024?
Starbucks
Though there's no official word out about Red Cup Day for 2024, our best guess – based on the Red Cup Days of years past – is it'll return mid-November. In 2023, Red Cup Day fell on November 16. In 2022, the coffee chain held the event on November 17. Both dates landed on the third Thursday of November, so we predict it to hit on November 21 for 2024. Red Cup Day is when Starbucks customers can get a free reusable red cup when they order a seasonal drink off the holiday menu!
Drinks On The Starbucks Holiday Menu 2024
Starbucks
NEW! Cran-Merry Orange Refresher
This brand-new Refresher is packed with sweet orange, tart cranberry, and warm spice. It also has cranberry inclusions and is order-able mixed with water, lemonade or coconut milk.
Starbucks
Iced Gingerbread Oatmilk Chai
Chai is a totally underrated holiday flavor in our opinion. This iced drink is crafted with warm chai spices and creamy oat milk, then gets topped with even more frothed oat milk infused with gingerbread-flavored syrup and a sprinkling of spice.
Starbucks
Peppermint Mocha
You know it, and you love it! The Peppermint Mocha has hit Starbucks menus year after year, making it a total statement sip for the holiday season. This drink (available hot or iced) combines peppermint syrup, mocha sauce, and your milk of choice with espresso for a festive feel. It's traditionally topped with whipped cream and tasty chocolate curls.
Starbucks
Peppermint White Chocolate Mocha
Similar to the classic Peppermint Mocha, this bev swaps chocolate for white chocolate sauce.
Starbucks
Caramel Brûlée Latte
This Starbucks holiday menu drink is very rich. The sweet caramel brûlée sauce totally completes the sip, along with plenty of whipped cream and crunchy lil' brûlée bits for textural variety.
Starbucks
Sugar Cookie Almondmilk Latte
Literally like a sugar cookie in liquid form, this super-sweet latte is handcrafted with blonde espresso (it's sweeter and lighter than Starbucks' traditional espresso shots), sugar cookie syrup, and almond milk for a little bit of a lighter effect. It's finished off with red and green sprinkles to up the seasonal vibes even more!
Starbucks
Chestnut Praline Latte
This nutty latte brings on notes of chestnut and praline, which is a nice, flavorful departure from the very expected peppermint you'll see everywhere come holiday time.
Starbucks
Salted Pecan Crunch Cold Brew
Initially introduced for fall 2024, it appears as though the Salted Pecan Crunch Cold Brew will stay on the Starbucks menu well into winter. The salted, pecan-flavored cold foam offers that classic sweet n' salty twist you'd enjoy on fall snacks like trail mix or dipped pretzels. The best part is you can now also order the cold foam in non-dairy form!
Starbucks
Holiday Cold Foams
Starbs will also be bringing back four beloved holiday-flavored cold foamsand two new options for 2024. They're the perfect drink customization to add to your iced coffees and cold brews if you don't want to order an all-out holiday drink. See all the flavors below:
- NEW! Gingerbread
- NEW! Salted Pecan
- Peppermint Chocolate
- Sugar Cookie
- Chestnut Praline
- Caramel Brûlée
Snacks On The Starbucks Holiday Menu 2024
Starbucks
NEW! Dark Toffee Bundt
This sweet toffee-flavored bundt is topped with holly- and berry-shaped sprinkles. How perfect for the holiday season!
Starbucks
NEW! Turkey Sage Danish
This savory snack reportedly includes "turkey sausage with creamy béchamel sauce in a pastry." It sounds like Thanksgiving in a single treat, and we can't wait to try it!
Starbucks
NEW! Penguin Cookie
This cutie sugar cookie is decorated like a lil' penguin bundled up for the cold.
Starbucks
Snowman Cake Pop
Starbucks' classic vanilla cake pop gets a wintry twist with an adorable snowman face – this sweet really makes us crave the holiday season!
Starbucks
Sugar Plum Cheese Danish
This cream cheese-filled danish is topped with a slightly-spiced sugar plum jam. It's been one of our go-to's over the past few holiday seasons at Starbucks!
Starbucks
Cranberry Bliss Bar
The Cranberry Bliss Bar has become an absolute staple on the Starbucks holiday menu, and for good reason! This blondie treat is smothered in a delicious cream cheese frosting and sprinkled with orange zest and dried cranberries for added seasonal enjoyment.
What People Are Saying About The Leaked Starbucks Holiday Menu
Famed foodie account @markie_devo was the first to leak the Starbucks holiday menu earlier this year. Though most commenters on @markie_devo's Starbucks holiday menu leak post seemed to be excited for the upcoming rumored menu items, some Starbs fans noticed a few things missing from the leaked lineup.
"Still missing eggnog 😢," someone noted.
"Where is the toasted white chocolate mocha 😢😢😢😢," another questioned.
"ALLLLLL these cold foams, and not the one people want: Irish Cream," one more commenter said.
"Ugh still no gingerbread loaf 😭," a disappointed user wrote. "Everything else looks bomb though!"
Despite the Eggnog Latte, Toasted White Chocolate Mocha, Irish Cream Cold Brew, and Gingerbread loaf not being part of this year's menu predictions, the holiday season is our favorite time of year at Starbucks. Many more users shared the same sentiment:
"So excited for all chestnut praline shaken espressos & cranberry bliss bars 🎄🎄🎄🎄," someone wrote.
"Oh hell yess all the chestnut praline offerings," another rejoiced.
Subscribe to our newsletter to stay posted on the latest Starbucks news, including when the official holiday menu lineup drops!
This post has been updated.
Before you start emptying your bank account to purchase a great gift, it’s important to be aware that there are so many affordable luxe gifts on Amazon, and we’re here to prove it. From cotton robes to UGG slippers, rose quartz coasters to a gooseneck kettle, and more everyday items, numerous high-end options can fall well within your budget — all while still giving off that luxe, high-end vibe. Scroll on to discover the best bougie gifts you can score for under-$100.
Thanks for reading about our favorite finds from across the internet! FYI: We participate in affiliate programs and may get a share of the revenue from your purchase.This Jewelry Organizer Stand To Give Their Accessories a Home
Amazon
You can’t go wrong with an aesthetically pleasing jewelry organizer stand, especially one that’s as useful and stylish as this two-tiered wooden option. Take it from Cairo: “My husband was really happy with this gift for all his leather and paracord bracelets.”
See it on AmazonA Candle To Evoke Treasured Memories
Amazon
We have a soft spot for Homesick Candles. Every option's distinctive scent makes it an even more thoughtful gift. This 13.75 oz scented candle is great for bringing back memories to your giftee for a long time, thanks to its 60-80-hour burn time.
See it on AmazonA Coffee Grinder for a Fresh Cup Every Day
Amazon
Get your morning java after the beans are freshly ground on the coffee grinder like in a café. The flavor and smell are lovely, and this little device looks cute in the small corner.
See it on AmazonThis Swivel Cheese Board Makes a Stylish Presentation
Amazon
There’s a reason this showstopper cheese board is a staple on Pinterest: its round bamboo design makes it both sturdy and durable and won’t stain or absorb odors. The set includes four knives. It’s a top-notch gift for the hostess of the season.
See it on AmazonRelax With a Bathtub Caddy
Amazon
Elevate bath-time indulgence with a bathtub caddy. This elegant addition to their self-care routine keeps everything within arm's reach, from their book or tablet to their favorite glass of wine.
See it on AmazonA Hemp Cream To Reduce Their Pain
Amazon
We know all too well that nothing beats a thoughtful gift. This muscle cream features a powerful hemp formula designed for multiple uses: soothing irritated skin, moisturizing dry patches, and relieving soreness, thanks to cooling peppermint that helps reduce inflammation.
See it on AmazonA Camping Blanket Made From Merino Wool
Amazon
Shopping for someone who loves a lazy Sunday? This blanket is something they’ll cherish. It’s a stylish, lightweight blanket made from a blend of merino wool, giving it warmth, durability, and weather resistance — perfect for a camping trip or draping over their bed or couch for a subtle pop of color.
See it on AmazonThese Aloe vera Face Masks Are the Ideal Pampering Treat
Amazon
Pick up these firming sheet masks to complete your giftee’s spa nights. These masks are designed to revitalize and rejuvenate the skin, thanks to their natural formula of organic aloe vera and a blend of amino acids, hyaluronic acid, and arginine. Each pack comes with five pieces.
See it on AmazonThis Robe Is Made of 100% Turkish Cotton
Amazon
This ultra-soft Turkish cotton robe will help streamline your giftee’s night routine. The plush robe has an adjustable fitting that lets them put their comfort above everything else. Choose from 24 colors for the next big thing to a trip to the spa.
See it on AmazonThis Mini Fridge Can Fit So Many Goodies
Amazon
What beauty lover wouldn’t want their own mini fridge for skincare products? This four-liter model can fit many serums and creams to enhance their properties. Of course, it can be used for their drinks or snacks. Plus, it is very lightweight, making it portable.
See it on AmazonThis Truffle Set To Infuse Their Meal With a Unique Taste
Amazon
The TRUFF Starter Pack is always a great idea. The foodie in your life will surely be thrilled. It’s Amazon’s Choice because it includes truffle hot sauce, oil, and sea salt, which you’ll want to put on everything to elevate any dish.
See it on AmazonThis Easy-To-Use Coffee Maker Makes Delicious Coffee
Amazon
Upgrade your giftee’s mornings with this coffee maker, a low-cost version of Keurig’s brewers. Take it from Michael: “Easy to set up and simple to use, and it makes great coffee quickly. My spouse got it for me as a gift, and I couldn’t be happier with its performance and design. I would recommend this over a Keurig because it’s the same quality and does the exact same thing.”
See it on AmazonThis Retro Turntable Features Bluetooth Connectivity
Amazon
This retro audio system is a little bit of luxury that your giftee can use every day. Featuring a vintage design, it has all the perks of a modern device, like Bluetooth connectivity and a three-speed belt-driven turntable. Your giftee can listen to their way — vinyl records, CDs, cassettes, radio, and more.
See it on AmazonThese Expensive-Looking Coasters Are 1-of-a-Kind
Amazon
Rose quartz coasters have been shown to elevate a table, but you don’t need to invest a lot. Anyone on your list will love to use these four coasters with a gold edge. You can choose the desired shape, though we think the square is great for most décor.
See it on AmazonThis Cashmere Sweater Is Great for Comfort-Obsessed People
Amazon
This is one turtleneck sweater they won’t mind wearing. Treat your loved ones to this cashmere sweater that’s available in a wide range of sizes and seven colors. “I never expected to order a sweater on Amazon and receive such a high-quality item! The fabric (Merino wool) is fantastic, and the fit is perfect,” one wrote.
See it on AmazonThese Slippers Are Perfect for Cold Weather
Amazon
These UGG Slippers are made from ultra-cozy dyed sheep fur and feature a cushiony insole and rubber outsoles. They will keep your giftee’s feet warm inside but are also a total delight to look at.
See it on AmazonThis Beanie Is Available in an Endless Array of Colors
Amazon
They’ll want to wear this stylish Carhartt Beanie all the time. It goes with any style or aesthetic, and while it’s high-quality, it’s actually pretty affordable; you’ll want to get one for yourself, too. Plus, it makes such a thoughtful stocking stuffer for anyone on your list.
See it on AmazonThis Storm-Predicting Device Doubles As Desk Décor
Amazon
If your friend loves keeping an eye on the weather, this device that can predict when a storm is rolling in makes a unique desk décor that anyone will be excited to display. Take it from Anastazia: “I got it for my godfather for Christmas; he has everything weather except for this. He loves it, and I’m glad I could give him something cute for his desk.”
See it on AmazonA Portable Photo Printer To Make Prints Anywhere
Amazon
Just when we thought we had enough photos on our phones, the HP Sprocket Photo Printer stepped in to display our shots physically. The portable photo printer boasts Bluetooth connectivity and can print images at 2 x 3in, roughly the size of a credit card. The best part? It can also apply effects, filters, and more.
See it on AmazonThese Earbuds Have Built-In Alexa
Amazon
Earbuds are having a moment right now, so these Amazon Echo Buds just had to make our list. They boast premium features like dynamic audio and excellent noise cancellation, delivering crisp, balanced sound that you can customize. Plus, they support hands-free Alexa.
See it on AmazonThis Heart-Shaped Dutch Oven Is a Piece Everyone Should Have
Amazon
Treat them to something that’s both stylish and practical with this heart-shaped Dutch oven — which will make them fall in love with it. Not only is it beautiful, but its study enamel fends off scratches and dings and has a broad searing.
See it on AmazonThis Self-Cleaning Bottle for Fresh Tasting Water
Amazon
Tumblers remain one of the trendiest products. But we love this self-cleaning bottle from LARQ because it keeps your water fresh and saves you from dealing with that annoying small mouth hole. It also cleans water in just a minute at the touch of a button and self-cleans by activating every two hours.
See it on AmazonThis Gooseneck Kettle With a Natural Cork Knob
Amazon
It’s safe to say that this kettle is one of the sleekest kitchen gadgets around. This stainless-steel model features an ergonomic design that gives you full control over the speed and consistency of the water flow. Not to mention the non-slip knob made from natural cork that makes it bougie.
See it on AmazonThis Cookbook Is “A Gift That Will Be Cherished”
Amazon
This #1 Best Seller Good Loookin’ Cookin’ Cookbook is one of the buzziest gifts of the moment, and reviewers agree that it’s worth the hype, especially because it contains one year of meals. One wrote: “I purchased this for my daughter-in-law because we both love Dolly, and she is such a great cook. I know this gift will be used and cherished!”
See it on AmazonThese Coupe Glasses With a Ribbed Detailing
Amazon
Sure, regular glassware is nice, but they’re a dime a dozen. These four cocktail glasses will ensure your giftee gets timeless pieces to host a classy party. Plus, reviewers attest that the ribbed detailing gives all the feels of a retro, luxurious piece.
See it on AmazonThis Waterproof Speaker That’s Dominating the Market
Amazon
The JBL Flip 5 offers everything and more anyone would want in a Bluetooth speaker: it has a 20-hour battery life, is water-resistant, and even features a party mode, meaning it can stream music on multiple speakers at once. Choose from 14 colors available.
See it on AmazonA Sistine Chapel Jigsaw Puzzle That’s Handcrafted
Amazon
This 5,000-piece Ravensburger Jigsaw Puzzle shows off the Sistine Chapel. The brand's puzzles are widely known for their exceptional image quality and anti-glare surface. Even better, they're handcrafted, so each piece fits together perfectly to save your giftee from frustration.
See it on AmazonA Hand Care Set That Nourishes and Fights Wrinkles
Amazon
After going viral, this L’OCCITANE hand care set emerged as a trendy find. Buyers love the duo: a serum-in-cream that fights the appearance of wrinkles and a shea hand cream to moisturize. It’s one of those luxe things they don’t want to buy themselves but are dying to have.
See it on AmazonThese Huggie Earrings With a Heart-Shaped Design
Amazon
As you scroll, you might not expect to find a gorgeous pair of 14k gold-plated earrings. Help your loved one stand out with these heart-shaped earrings that add something to their look. Plus, they come with a chic gift box and jewelry bag.
See it on AmazonThis Birthstone Ring “Will Catch Eyes”
Amazon
There’s a reason so many are obsessed with these birthstone rings — they’re vibrant! Giving color, style, and birthday love, this sterling silver ring is ideal for anyone because it is hypoallergenic and won’t fade or tarnish. “This ring is an eye-catcher for sure! I get so many compliments and have even been asked if it is a blue diamond!!! The ring is also very inexpensive but high quality,” wrote Tricia.
See it on AmazonThis Super Soft Pillow Features a Unique Down-Alternative Fill
Amazon
This soft pillow from Casper is the one everyone is raving about. The uniqueness lies in its down-alternative fill that makes it super fluffy and even responds to your movements to give you extra support — something down can’t do.
See it on AmazonA Luxurious Leather Wristlet for Traveling Light
Amazon
This Coach Wristlet is equal parts fashionable and functional, crafted with a polished pebble leather detail that makes it versatile and perfect for their small everyday essentials. If that wasn’t enough, it features two credit card slots, a zip-top closure, and a detachable wrist strap.
See it on AmazonA Crocodile Mini Bag To Complete Their Closet
Amazon
From trench coats to accessories, this mini bag is the ultimate style staple. If you’re shopping for someone who is obsessed with her fashion, you need to get them this option from The Drop. Not only does it have the sleekest crocodile design, but it’s also made out of faux leather.
See it on AmazonA Handcrafted Pitcher That’s a Pinterest-Favorite
Amazon
When you’re looking for something useful and eye-catching for your favorite hostess, consider this large pitcher for a home décor gift. With its emerald green rim design, it’s something that will make each glass stand out in any table setting.
See it on AmazonThis Digital Camera Is the Perfect Camera To Take Anywhere
Amazon
Few gadgets bring back the joy of memory-making quite like the Kodak Pixpro Digital Camera. Whether for vlogging (which this 1080p Full HD camera effortlessly does) or for high-quality photos, it keeps memories alive. Any true photography lover will understand the meaning behind this camera.
See it on AmazonThis Sweet Perfume With a Signature Bottle
Amazon
Gift the allure of Sabrina Carpenter’s Perfume magic with TikTok’s favorite, Sweet Tooth. It’s a lush blend with notes of marshmallow, chocolate, ginger, and bergamot, plus, of course, the iconic cute bottle design that resembles a pastel pink chocolate bar.
See it on AmazonThese Eye Patches Deliver an Instant Hydration Boost in Minutes
Amazon
These de-tox eye patches are a buyer favorite for a reason: they’re quick, effective, and the perfect solution for tired eyes. They’re infused with cucumber extract, chamomile, and niacinamide for a hydrated, de-puffed skin appearance and combat dark circles.
See it on AmazonThis Viral Tumbler That’s Worth Investing In
Amazon
If your friend wants to follow the latest trends, you need to get them a Stanley Tumbler. Not only is its lid much improved, it has a solid cold retention, and the silicone portions on its handle are nice to hold, but —somehow— it adds a stylish touch to their everyday outfit.
See it on AmazonA Foot Spa To Soften Hard Skin and Soothe Their Achy Feet
Amazon
If you’re looking for little luxuries, this foldable foot spa is an ideal way to start. It has six groups of 3D Tai Chi massage balls to relieve foot pressure and improve blood circulation. Plus, the temperature can be adjusted to maintain water temperature for up to an hour.
See it on AmazonThis Hair Straightener Brush for a Blowout Look in 5 Minutes
Amazon
If you’re shopping for someone who could use a pick-me-up, get them this hair straightener brush. It’s a compact, portable hair-styling tool that, unlike traditional flat irons, adds volume and smooths strands in minutes. It’s perfect for travel because it comes with a detangling brush, a glove, clips, and a storage bag.
See it on AmazonAn Air Fryer for Healthy Meals This Holiday Season
Amazon
This one from Ninja makes the perfect gift for anyone who still doesn’t know the absolute luxury of owning an air fryer. Its ability to fry, roast, bake, and dehydrate with little to no oil makes it the perfect blend of usefulness and thoughtfulness. It comes with a 20-recipe booklet filled with healthy treats.
See it on Amazon