Decoding the Homeland Security Plan for Reuniting Migrant Families

Sofia Casini was just leaving the T. Don Hutto detention facility in central Texas — where she had posted bond for a detained migrant mom — when she spoke to us about the government’s promise to reunite migrant families.

“Based on what I’ve heard from mothers, the government had no intention to reunite families in the first place,” Sofia Casini tells us.

Casini is a campaign organizer for Grassroots Leadership, a non-profit that fights against for-profit prisons and detention centers. She tells Brit + Co that there is “desperation” among mothers at Hutto who have been separated from their children.

Casini’s assessment that there is no official plan to reunite families comes after the Department of Homeland Security (which oversees ICE), released a thinly outlined plan to reunite families. Over the weekend, the DHS released a “Fact Sheet” regarding “zero tolerance prosecution and family reunification,” which came on the heels of a Friday report that the DHS created an “unaccompanied children reunification task force.

According to POLITICO, the task force was created by the Assistant Secretary for Preparedness and Response, a division that typically handles public health crises. The internal document that POLITICO obtained states that the task force will assist “the ACF Office of Refugee Resettlement with Unaccompanied Children Reunification.” But migrant parents and advocates say that it’s hard to tell what that process will actually look like, or whether a change is in motion yet at all.

The “fact sheet” states that the DHS and the Department of Health and Human Services “have a process established to ensure that family members know the location of their children and have regular communication after separation to ensure that those adults who are subject to removal are reunited with their children for the purposes of removal.” The fact sheet does not clarify what this “process” even is, or when families can expect to be reunited.

The sheet adds that Customs and Border Patrol has reunited 522 migrant children with their parents. Casini says that it’s true some families have been reunited, but that it’s important to understand the circumstances.

She explains, for example, that the mom she posted bond for on Tuesday morning will be reunited with her children, who are already with her husband. The mother and her family have lawyers and advocates working on their behalf, which is necessary given how complicated and unclear processes are at this time. But not all families will have the exact right circumstances or resources to be reunited the way things are currently operating.

Maria Hinojosa, a journalist and founder of the Futuro Media Group, has echoed Casini’s doubts about the administration’s intentions. Hinojosa tweeted Monday morning that she spoke with people at the “top level” of two shelters helping migrants, and there’s a general sense that the administration doesn’t actually have a plan for family reunification.

“Both said their orgs want to reunite the children,” Hinojosa tweeted, “Both said the administration has no plan. Both said the admin is dragging its feet and has no plan whatsoever on how to reunite these children.”

Even after 32 parents who were separated from their children were freed from detention on Monday in Texas, there is still a lack of understanding as to how they will end up back with their kids. The parents who have been released have said they do not know where their kids are being detained or if they will in fact be reunited with them, according to the Associated Press. The parents are currently receiving services from the Annunciation House in El Paso.

Casini says that at Hutto, where she has worked with a few dozen moms, most parents do not even know where their children are. “If they do know where [their kids] are,” she says, “they have no way of getting in contact with them.”

Further actions by the DHS and ICE indicate that family deportations and detention are still the top priority for this administration. The fact sheet states that parents who are ordered to be deported “may request that his or her minor child accompany them.” Some parents are already being told that they can get their detained children back, but only if they agree to leave the US via “voluntary deportation.” An asylum-seeker from Honduras who spoke to the Texas Tribune anonymously said that he gave up his case for asylum out of “desperation” to be with his child.

Casini says that this promise has proven to be a lie for migrants she has heard from.

“One caregiver, who raised her brother like a son, was told that if she agreed to voluntarily deport, she would be reunited with her brother,” Casini tells us. “She signed the papers, then was told she would not be able to see her brother.”

Casini adds that some parents were told that they could see their children if they confessed to criminal charges, only to later find out their children had already been taken away.

The same day that POLITICO obtained the document regarding the reunification task force, New York Times immigration reporter Caitlin Dickerson tweeted that ICE made a request for information “regarding potential facilities to accommodate up to 15,000 beds.” Dickerson added that “The current detention capacity is [around] 2,400.” This indicates that ICE could be seeking to incarcerate an additional 12,600 migrants who are members of families.

Asked what’s next, Casini says that the fight for migrants’ rights must continue, and that detention centers must close down. Noting that Williamson County commissioners voted today to end the contract they hold with ICE for the Hutto detention center, she says community members need to “keep speaking out loudly about what’s happening in these detention centers, and push counties to close centers.”

What do you think? Tell us on Twitter @BritandCo.

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Did you leave your family Thanksgiving dinner last year feeling like you were the one who got carved up and digested? You weren't alone. In an increasingly polarized sociological climate, family events where opinions differ can feel fraught with high stakes and conflicting moral obligations. And if you're already dreading Thanksgiving because all of the brawlin' that's sure to go down, you might be considering opting out of the festivities entirely.

In our Teach Me Something New podcast, Alexandra Carter, Columbia law professor and mediation expert, talks to Brit and Anj about the powers of persuasion to get the results you want in a conversation. The key to the Thanksgiving political discussion? Listening, asking open questions, and finding some common ground.

Here's what you can do to make it through Thanksgiving when your relatives just keep being problematic and things get awkward...

"I might say something like, 'I hear that you're concerned about national security and that's what led me to have this viewpoint.' So sometimes using a little bit of focusing on what you have in common can help you to have a civil conversation and not have anybody throwing mashed potatoes across the table," says Carter.

Here are more expert-backed tips for navigating the holiday awkwardness, even if it's just via Zoom. Make stuffing your face great again this Thanksgiving by implementing our seven-step plan.

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1. Choose your battles ahead of time.

You're not going to change everyone's opinion about all of the things over the course of a meal and a football game. You might want to show up ready for a duel of words with your Facebook-meme-king cousin, but that's just going to put your opinionated family member on the offensive from the moment you walk in. Decide ahead of time if there's one issue that you really cannot keep your mouth shut about if it comes up, and have two or three talking points ready that clarify your position on that topic. If your hot button does get pushed, your talking points will help you keep from making things personal.

2. Confer with the host.

If you feel comfortable with the person that's organizing or hosting Thanksgiving, speak to him or her in advance about how you can be on Team Keep the Peace. Most people aren't keen on a political brouhaha breaking out around their dinner table, so they'll probably be relieved to hear that you're on board and willing to help make the day go smoothly for everyone. Brainstorm some ideas about seating arrangements or wholesome activities to fill the idle family time that can lead to trading barbs.

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3. Make it a game.

Caitlin Bergstein, a Boston-based matchmaker and relationship expert for Three Day Rule, suggests a fun twist on the swear jar concept. “If your family is up for the challenge, you can even make it a game. Each time someone mentions something political, they have to put a dollar in a jar (or take a drink, depending on how your family celebrates the holiday). At the end of the night, that cash can be put aside for the next family get together!"

4. Have a moment of silence.

Sometimes the idea of a quiet table can be intimidating (all those chewing noises!), but encouraging a moment of reflection among your holiday guests can actually be transformative. Whether you observe several seconds of silence in honor of relatives you've lost, as a way to silently acknowledge your individual blessings, or as an act of prayer or meditation, you've hopefully brought the room back to focus on each other's company and the gift that it is to be together.

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5. Be an active listener.

If your one doggedlypersistent aunt can't let go of her obsession with the latest political scandal, reconsider what she's actually trying to tell you. Chances are, it's not just about what she saw on the news. “Assume that your polarizing relative actually probably just wants to connect, feel respected, and reduce their own anxiety about holiday gatherings, and interpret even difficult behavior as such," advises Mary Fisher, a Salt Lake City psychotherapist who specializes in family relationships. “Express the desire to connect while redirecting the conversation," Fisher recommends. Emphasize the fact that you're interested in protecting the time your family spends together. That can help soften the blow when you ask to instead hear them share a family memory or talk about a hobby you both share.

6. Disengage.

Remember that if angry words or offensive language start flying at you across the sweet potato pie, you don't have to respond. Have a script in mind to use, something like, “While I hear where you're coming from, I don't share your opinion, and I'm done talking about it today." Convey the message that you're quite clear on the matter being discussed, and you're not going to take the bait. You may have to repeat yourself several times, or you may choose to remain silent until things cool down around you. Either one is okay.

7. Duck out early.

If you feel like you have to retreat from the situation entirely, do it. One of the best things about being an adult is leaving when you want to leave. You don't have to subject yourself, your spouse, or your family to any kind of dialogue that is insulting, bigoted, or aggressive. Fisher shares these words of advice: “While we might think that the holidays are the time to resolve differences, they are actually the time to affirm and nurture connection, which can be an uphill battle with politically polarizing relatives." If you don't feel like a connection is being nurtured and the environment is not good for you to be in, say goodbye and make a break for it.

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This article has been updated from a previous post.

TV is so back and this month, these new Max shows are here for all your binge watch evenings. I found the streamer's best April shows so you can spend more time watching and less time searching. And when you're done with these series, check out The 9 Best TV Shows To Watch On Netflix This Month!

Here are the 9 best shows on Max in April 2025.

1. Hacks Season 4 — Stream on Max April 10, 2025

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In Hacks season 4, Ava and Deborah are at odds — and to get what they want, they're threatening to spill some serious tea...even if it comes at a serious cost. That's showbiz, baby!

Hacks season 4 premieres April 10 and stars Jean Smart and Hannah Einbinder.

2. The Last of Us season 2 — Stream on HBO and Max April 13, 2025

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It's been 5 years since The Last of Us season 1 ended, and even though Ellie and Joel are safe in Jackson, secrets from their past threaten to upend their home. Throw in a ruthless new threat and all the infected and we're in for one heck of a show.

The Last of Us season 2 premieres April 13 and stars Pedro Pascal, Bella Ramsey, Gabriel Luna, Rutina Wesley, Kaitlyn Dever, Isabela Merced, Young Mazino, Ariela Barer, Tati Gabrielle, Spencer Lord, Danny Ramirez, Jeffrey Wright, and Catherine O’Hara.

3. The Rehearsal Season 2 — Stream on Max April 20, 2025

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What would you do if you could rehearse for life's biggest, unexpected moments? That's what The Rehearsal wants to explore.

The Rehearsal season 2 stars Nathan Fielder.

4. The White Lotus Season 3 — Stream on Max

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After The White Lotus season finale answers all our questions, it's time to immediately restart the whole season. Poisonous fruit, monkey, Thailand resorts, dramatic girls' trips...this is a season to remember.

The White Lotus season 3 stars Leslie Bibb, Jason Isaacs, Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, Parker Posey, Patrick Schwarzenegger and Blackpink’s Lisa Manobal.

5. The Pitt — Stream on Max

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This month's Max shows also include The Pitt season finale, which brings the most intense ER shift of all time to an end. Dr. Robbie needs a nap and a treat, for real.

The Pitt stars Noah Wyle, Tracey Ifeachor, Patrick Ball, Supriya Ganesh, Fiona Dourif, Taylor Dearden, Isa Briones, Gerran Howell, Shabana Azeez, and Katherine LaNasa.

6. The Righteous Gemstones Season 4 — Stream on Max

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The final season of this hit Max show, which follows the family as they gear up for the future, is exactly the kind of weekend pick-me-up we need.

The Righteous Gemstones stars Danny McBride, Adam Devine, John Goodman, Edi Patterson, Cassidy Freeman, Tim Baltz, Tony Cavalero, Greg Alan Williams, Skyler Gisondo, Walton Goggins, Jennifer Nettles, James DuMont, Jody Hill, Troy Hogan, Valyn Hall, Kelton DuMont, Gavin Munn, Megan Mullally, Arden Myrin, and Seann William Scott.

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Social media is full of trends that come and go — think loud budgeting or sleepmaxxing — but I have a feeling one may grow legs beyond TikTok or Instagram: the 4B Movement. TBH, it doesn't feel right to call it a 'trend' because its origins are rooted in something much deeper than saying or doing something controversial for likes.

If you're not familiar with this movement and are curious about it, we're going to take a deep dive into where it originated, it's purpose, and why women in the U.S. have started to abide by its principles. To understand the 4B Movement's sustainability and potential benefits, I spoke with Somatic Trauma Therapist and Founder of Freshwater Counseling & Consulting, Blessing Uchendu; Sex and Relationships Coach Leah Carey, host of the Good Girls Talk About Sex podcast; and Senior Statistician and Addictions Researcher at UCLA Nicole Prause

Here's what they had to say!

Scroll To Learn What The 4B Movement Is, How It Started, & What It Means For Women In America

  • The 4B Movement is all about abstaining from relationships with men, from dating to sex.
  • This movement started in South Korea after an atrocious act of gender-based violence.
  • Since the 2024 election, American women are exploring the idea of abstaining from relationships with men as well.
  • Ultimately, the 4B movement could lead to de-centering men from women's lives, eliminating some fears surrounding reproductive health and ultimately improving their mental health overall.

What is the 4B Movement?

According to The Washington Post, this is a "radical Korean feminist movement that swears off men to reclaim a sense of agency." It sounds similar to abstinence, but the trickle down effects are vastly different. Abstinence is taking a step back from anything that usually taps into your pleasure center — and that doesn't always mean sex. However, the 4B Movement is specifically rooted in 'de-centering men' completely.

CBSstates that researchers Jieun Lee and Euisol Jeong wrote a paper for Yonsei University about the movement, and deciphered that the "B" has four meanings:

  1. biyeonae — "refusal of dating men"
  2. bisekseu — "sexual relationships with men"
  3. bihon — "heterosexual marriage"
  4. bichulsan — "childbirth"

How did the 4B movement start?

In 2016, Hankyoreh reported that a man in his 30's chose to stab an unknown young woman in Seoul, Korea. When asked why he committed the crime, he gave this answer: "I did it because women have always ignored me." In response to the random attack, Hong Seong-su, a law professor at Sookmyung Women’s University, share a chilling message that the outlet recounted in the article. "The fact that [Kim] chose ‘some woman’ [as opposed to ‘some person’] as the target for his crime suggests it is not going too far to view this as a crime of hate against women."

This radical moment was an inception point for the movement overall, started in opposition to this gender-based violence, as well as gender-based discrimination as a whole. The Korean Herald noted that factors like pay inequality and a Donald Trump-like president of their own (Yoon Suk-yeol) were driving forces in 4B. Since his election in 2022, Yoon Suk-yeol has "promised to abolish the Ministry of Gender Equality and Family, which has been popular with his anti-feminist base," (via Korean Herald). Between all this and the global sensation of #MeToo, the 4B Movement gained major momentum throughout the last eight years.

The 4B Movement's Lasting Impact In South Korea

According to The Korean Herald, over 150 elementary schools aren't seeing first-graders walk through their doors and it has everything to do with the falling birth rate in South Korea. CNN reports that officials are so concerned, they're willing to do something to combat it. President Yoon Suk Yeol said, "We will mobilize all of the nation’s capabilities to overcome the low birth rate, which can be considered a national emergency."

But, this isn't the first time the birth rate has been addressed. Another CNN article reported that South Korea dished out $200 billion to "boost the population over the past 16 years." Still, things haven't worked in the government's favor. It's evident less women are having children and it seems to directly stem from women upholding the ideology they're not allowing their bodies to be used for motherhood anymore.

American Women's Response To The 4B Movement

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After the shocking results of the 2024 presidential election, many women began to rethink how they relate to the men in their lives, finding South Korea's 4B Movement in the process. Based on the current rhetoric about women who don't have children and the restrictive anti-abortion laws with hardly any policies in place to reduce the maternal mortality rate, it's understandable why some women are fearful or fed up — and why many women are now finding parallels to what sparked 4B in the first place.

When you see people like Nicholas J. Fuentes tweeting things like "Your body, my choice. Forever," on the same day Trump won a second term as president, it can leave a sickening taste in one's mouth. One user's response to this was, "Funny how the loudest champions of 'freedom' are often the first to undermine it for everyone else."

Alongside this are men's social movements that are clearly intertwined with the current political climate, too. While obviously not all men believe in these ideologies, there's been a stark rise in their prevalence.

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In 2020, ADL reported about the mindset of "Incels" and discovered that they feel emboldened by the 'manosphere.' So, what do they tend to believe? According to outlet, there's a belief "that the current sexual 'marketplace' gives women too much freedom to choose their own partners." Not only that, but the outlet says Incels tend to think women choose to ignore men unless they look a certain way or have a certain status, "leaving the remaining 80 percent of men (including incels) without a potential partner."

Nicole Prause, a UCLA Statistician and Academic, is well-versed in abstinence movements, and what they ultimately indicate based on statistics. "There are a number of similar men's movements already, especially Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW)," she says. According to her, MGTOW don't pursue marriage or relationships with women, but "seek sex when it is on their 'terms.'" She says, "They're often viewing it as a battle pitting sexes against one another. These movements tend to be separatist, often evolving into misogyny and violent speech, such as glorifying sexual coercion and rape."

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As a result of these growing men's movements and the incoming 47th President of the United States — a convicted felon with multiple allegations of sexual assault — there have been growing calls from women on social media to consider the 4B Movement for themselves. X user @jungsooyawning wrote, "american women it's time to learn from the koreans and adopt the 4b movement as a matter of fact women from all over the world should adopt the 4b movement i'm so serious," on the platform.

Freelance writer Daria Yasmiene also wrote about about why she's taking part in the movement for POPSUGAR. She said, "As a Black woman who has lived through three back-to-back elections with Trump as a focal point, I'm so far beyond tired that I need a lifestyle change." Ultimately, she wants to continue having the freedom to choose to live her life in a way that's not solely governed by men.

"With the little autonomy that I have left, I would rather be alone and safe from the consequences of male influence in my life than lie next to someone who doesn't see me as an equal. We deserve so much more than that."

Meanwhile, Sex and Relationships Coach, Leah Carey says that 4B "makes sense as a response to realizing that a majority of men valued the economy over a woman's right to self-determination." Depending on where you stand, she also says that it can be "seen as 'punishment' for men" or "as a choice of self-determination and self-protection for women." Somatic Trauma Therapist, Blessing Uchendu shares Carey's sentiments in that the movement is "a response to patriarchy and the centering of men and conversely the objectification of women, with the expectation that they fulfill roles as wives and mothers."

Potential Benefits Of The 4B Movement

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So with all that in mind, is a movement like 4B beneficial? And is it even sustainable? I'm not going to tell you that you should or shouldn't join the 4B Movement because it's a personal decision. It's always wise to examine where you are in life instead of relying on social media, news outlets, or even the government to determine what you're going to believe. Still, there may be some benefits to the 4B Movement that outweigh any potential fallouts.

Carey says that "not being refused care for reproductive matters" is a potential benefit of 4B, while also highlighting that "the mental health benefits can also be huge for people who deal with anxiety, depression, or anything else that might cause emotional hardship in the current climate."

This could also lead to women identifying and honoring their true desires instead of following society's scripts about who they should be. Somatic Trauma Therapist, Blessing Uchendu believes that 4B is about women de-centering men and re-centering themselves — about "being the 'stars of their own stories,' rather than supporting characters in a malde-dominated narrative." Uchendu says. "It can be incredibly empowering to step away from systems that have felt compulsory in order to reflect on whether you are making decisions centered on yourself and your desires or whether these decisions are centered on the expectations of the society around you."

The most important thing Carey wants to note is that women aren't unable to find love and joy ever again by participating in the 4B movement. "Just because a woman chooses not to date, have sex, get married, or have kids with a man doesn't mean she can't do those things: with other women. it's more and more common for adult women to explore their same-sex attractions after divorce or widowhood," she notes. "With a generation of young women growing up with the understanding that heterosexuality is not the only option, we may see a wave of younger women also exploring in this arena (in addition to all the younger women who already know themselves to be queer)."

I would also say that you can always go back to dating and engaging with men whenever you want — this movement doesn't have to be a permanent choice if you don't want it to be. The whole point is to take charge and embrace your own sense of agency.

Yet, Prause does pause to mention the downside to "separatist movements." She explains that without support from men, women could struggle financially given pay disparities and other gender-based work inequities. Still, she says this doesn't really affect much if women have been figuring things out for themselves with little help from men.

Ultimately Uchendu says women having the freedom to exist without the weight of society's patriarchal standards on their shoulders is the "ultimate freedom." She says, "In the words of Audre Lorde 'If I did not define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and be eaten alive."

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No woman should have to live in fear of having violence committed against her, but history continues repeating itself in terms of how society treats our bodies. "When a woman's right to make choices about her own body and health care are removed, she may decide to not put herself in a position where pregnancy can become an option," Carey says.

Prause chimes in with, "On average, women are more likely to experience mental health declines with marriage to a man (the opposite is true for men). While men also can experience domestic violence and sexual assault, the risks are exceptionally higher for women." Not only that, but she also points out that "women risk unwanted pregnancy, from which they now have fewer healthcare rights to address" and "are at much higher risk for sexually transmitted infections, even from their regular romantic partner."

As if that weren't a slap in the fact, Prause mentions that "childcare continues to fall disproportionately on women and does cause less income for women over time."

So, at the end of the day, I can't tell you what the right choice is, but I do know that patriarchy's long-lasting fixture in society has harmed everyone. From men who think women owe them something to women who believe they're not worth anything unless they're married or mothers, there's a lot to unpack.

What I do know is that no one should have the right to control the personal lives of other people nor should they try to make their personal beliefs and religious ideologies into laws that govern people who will be around long after they're not.

No matter where you stand on the matter, hatred and violence should never be tolerated or praised. Remember to take care of yourself by diving into more self-care stories we have on-site.

I've been floating in the pop cultural abyss because I was clueless about how amazing Netflix's latest comedy Survival of the Thickest is! I recently watched the first couple of episodes of Season 2 and it's the funniest and rawest TV series I've watched since being persuaded to binge The White Lotus. But, that's not the show it actually reminds me of.

No, Survival of the Thickest feels like Insecure and And Just Like That had a comedic baby we get to watch grow in real time. There's the familiar supportive friend group, burgeoning careers, and passionate love stories that make you want to call your bestie to complain or scream in excitement.

I genuinely can't stop watching it and can't wait to share why you should be watching it too!

Scroll to learn everything about Survival of the Thickest and why you should watch it this weekend!

What is 'Survival of the Thickest' about?

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What happens when you face the worst breakup ever? You cry and find a way to revamp your life, according to Mavis from Survival of the Thickest.

The series revolves around her getting acclimated with being single again while juggling her floundering stylist career. She's got a supportive village, but that doesn't mean she's not prone to making mistakes or facing situations worth cackling about outside of her group chat.

Where does filming take place?

The show is primarily filmed in New York, but parts of Season 2 take place in Italy (via IMDB)!

Who's a part of the cast?

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Survival of the Thickest has a sprawling cast that features some new and familiar faces. According to Marie Claire, here are the main characters who've appeared in Seasons 1 and 2:

1. Michelle Buteau as Mavis Beaumont

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Mavis Beaumont may have started off as a heartbroken stylist's assistant in Season 1 of Survival of the Thickest, but she's since gone on to build a name for herself in Season 2. She's also trying to figure out if she's going to stick with her new love interest Luca or go back to her familiar ex Jacque.

2. Taylor Selé as Jacque

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Jacque is a talented fashion photographer who seems to know what to say to uplift Mavis. Though he starts off saying and doing all the right things, Mavis catches him cheating on her and it leaves her devastated. Interestingly enough, Jacque appears to be remorseful over his huge transgression and tries to prove that he won't make the same mistake again.

3. Tasha Smith as Marley

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Marley's one of Mavis' no-nonsense besties who applies the same tenacity to her career as a finance executive. Her inspirational quips may come across as 'funny,' but she doesn't lie when she encourages those around her to move in excellence.

4. Tone Bell as Khalil

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Mavis is surrounded by even more love with the addition of the creative Khalil by her side. He has a softer approach than Marley, but he still wants the best for Mavis and has no problem helping redirect her when she's ready to throw pity parties. If only he could apply the same principles to his own love life...

5. Liza Treyger as Jade

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If you've ever had a roommate who triggered you at every turn, you probably had someone like Jade in your life. She's the kind of person who seems like she has good intentions, but always finds a way to do something that feels toxic. Whether it's ignoring boundaries or saying the wrong thing at the worst time, Jade's going to do it.

6. Garcelle Beauvais as Natasha Karina

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Garcelle Beauvais may have left The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, but you can watch her break necks and hurt feelings in Season 2 of Survival of the Thickest. She plays former '90s supermodel Natasha Karina who becomes Mavis' client after an initial period of misunderstandings.

7. Anthony Michael Lopez as Bruce

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Bruce has been on a mission to be the best assistant to Natasha Karina for as long as he can remember, so he takes it personally when Mavis doesn't seem to understand her new client in the beginning. Though he warms up to her too, his Type-A personality still follows closely behind.

8. Marouane Zotti as Luca

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Luca's all about Mavis and that's the I like it. Not only is he eye candy, but he's got enough passion stored in his body that makes me feel he's the obvious choice for our love-worn protagonist. However, only time will tell if Mavis thinks she and him are endgame or not.

9. Peppermint as Herself 

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Survival of the Thickest is all about making sure all voices, storylines and identities are championed. Having Peppermint as another close friend of Mavis rounds out her supportive village because she's big on bringing her fun-loving energy wherever she goes. And when Peppermint takes a brief break from performing to get married, Mavis is right there rooting for her.

10. Alecsys Proctor-Turner as Nala

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My, how the tables have turned! In Season 2 of Survival of the Thickest, Mavis gets her own assistant in the form of the fashion-obsessed Nala. Though she has moments where her naive nature shines through, she helps provide even more comedic relief and moments of clarity.

How many seasons does 'Survival of the Thickest' have?

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Right now, Survival of the Thickest has two hilarious seasons that are on my weekend binge-watch list.

Season 1's Episodes 

  1. Keep Your Plants Watered, Bitch.
  2. Be a Bad Boss Bitch, Bitch!
  3. You Did What in Public, Bitch?
  4. Are You Crying, Bitch?
  5. It's Any Given Sunday, Bitch!
  6. Do the Right Thang, Bitch.
  7. Let it Out, Bitch!
  8. For a Bigger Purpose, Bitch.

Season 2's Episodes

  1. When in Rome, Bitch!
  2. Dreams Do Come True at Afropunk, Bitch.
  3. You Can Heaux Your Own Way, Bitch.
  4. Mind Ya Business, Bitch!
  5. A Change Gon' Come, Bitch?
  6. The Category is Love, Bitch.
  7. You Best Come Correct, Bitch.
  8. It's Not a Mo'Ment, It's A Movement, Bitch!

Where can I watch it?

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You can watch Seasons 1 and 2 of Survival of the Thickest on Netflix. Unlike shows like Severanceor Paradise, you don't have to wait a full week to see a new episode!

Watch The Season 2 Trailer For 'Survival Of The Thickest' 

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The bottom line is that Survival of the Thickest is a relatable comedy that'll have you laughing, crying, punching the air, and kicking your feet in delight. So, get your charcuterie board and wine together because you won't want to budge once press play.

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The 'blush-draping' makeup trend is taking the internet by storm, and it's easy to see why. It creates a sculpted, lifted look with minimal effort, highlighting your best features and giving you a soft, natural glow. While typical blush application focuses on the apples of the cheeks, blush draping involves applying it in an upward motion to the temples, blending it toward the forehead, and even in the jaw area. It creates a high-cheekbone effect, adding warmth and a sun-kissed element that feels natural and not overdone. Convinced? We've curated a list of our favorite products to nail the look, from jelly blushes and dewy lip-stains to foundations that provide the perfect base.

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This Lip Set Comes With The Hottest Color Options

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Infuse your lips with a hydrating and luminous experience when you upgrade to this lip set. With six dewy colors to choose from, each shade promises to leave a long-lasting tint on your pout. The shimmering finish and velvet to matte options will leave a lasting glow.

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The Famous L'Oreal Lumi Glotion

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Summer is approaching fast, and there's nothing better than that dewy and glowy makeup look. The L'Oreal Lumi Glotion is a product that you can apply as a base layer for the rest of your makeup or wear alone to get a subtle tinted moisturizer that will highlight all of the high points of your face and add a touch of bronzer to the rest. It's truly an all-in-one product you need in your collection.

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This Foundation Can Do It All

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It's time to toss those makeup products that are drying and irritating for your skin and upgrade to K-beauty, which will make a difference in no time. This foundation not only hydrates your skin but leaves a natural, lightweight finish that will stay on all day and night. The cherry on top is the SPF 50+, which is a must-have for the warmer seasons ahead.

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A Lip Oil That Comes in Neutral and Deep Shades

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Keep your lips hydrated and glossy with this lip oil. This nourishing formula is packed with plant-based oils that deliver a high-shine finish while protecting your lips from the season’s chilly air.

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An Eyeshadow Pallet With Complimenting Colors

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This two-in-one eyeshadow palette is ideal for creating an autumn-themed sunset effect. It features a matte burnt orange shade that pairs beautifully with shimmery gold. With various color combinations available at an affordable price, you can easily pick up more than one.

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This Liquid Lipstick Won't Budge

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Feel prepared for every opportunity summer throws your way thanks to this liquid lipstick, which has up to sixteen hours of wear. This lip product creates a vibrant look on your lips and is finished off with a matte cover that ensures your look is both kiss-proof and smudge-proof.

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This Foundation for Your Dream Skin

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This foundation is the secret to flawless, dewy skin that everyone has been raving about. Its exclusive puff applicator ensures a smooth, long-lasting finish, promising the most flawless makeup look that can last the night.

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This Makeup Palette With All Your Beauty Essentials

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This Laura Geller New York palette includes a bronzer, two highlighters, blush, and three eyeshadows, all in stunning neutral tones to give you a pretty, glam finish in one compact package.

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A Lip Tint for Sipping on Summer Beverages

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Tint your lips in one simple step with this lip tint, which the internet is in a frenzy about. This weightless and moisturizing product keeps your lips looking vibrant and fresh, ensuring you can drink your favorite summer sips without any transfer or smudging.

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This Glow Skin Balm Is a 4-in-1 Wonder Cream

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The Missha Glow Skin Balm is a four-in-one skincare wonder. It works as a primer, moisturizer, morning mask, and illuminating cream, leaving a dewy, luminous finish that lasts all day.

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K-Beauty Brand Palace Identity Has Just Released This Blush and Highlighter Palette

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TikTokers are gushing over the packaging of this new K-Beauty Brand Palace Identity Blush Palette. This three-in-one palette is a gilded lotus-carved mirror box with jewelry-level craftmanship. Each palette includes a three-color selection of blush, eye shadow, and highlighter, intended to be used for layering and mixing.

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This Cushion Foundation Blurs Your Imperfections

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A satin finish is just one product away with this cushion foundation that has the internet in a frenzy. This foundation is infused with an anti-aging serum, bringing a radiant finish to your skin with each use. It's easy to apply and creates a timeless look that everyone will love.

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This CC Cream To Replace Your Foundation

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Name something that this CC Cream can't do. Its feather-light formula adjusts to your skin tone, reducing redness and imperfections for a complexion that will radiate all day and night. It is perfect for anyone who is looking for a lighter option than foundation without sacrificing the dewy finish.

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This Setting Powder Is Subtle Yet Chic

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Prepare for all of your summer Instagram pictures with this setting powder that will blur your imperfections like never before. This product allows you to even out your skin tone while creating a subtle luminous finish that you are going to fall in love with.

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These Floral Lipsticks Will Have You Channeling Spring

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These floral lipsticks are almost too pretty to use, but once you realize how hydrating they are, you'll want to use them every day! The color-changing formula gives you the perfect shade every time, and the beautiful packaging will make you buy them for all your friends, too.

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A Cinnamon Lipstick That Works as a Liner

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Dark and dramatic lip colors are a fall essential, and this lipstick is a perfect choice. Priced affordably at just $5, it comes in multiple stunning shades. Its non-tacky formula works as both a lipstick and liner, and you can easily layer gloss on top for added shine.

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This Face Blur Cream Protects Your Skin

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Prep your skin for a day of makeup, blur your imperfections and protect your skin from the sun all at the same time with this face blur cream. The SPF makes this product a must-have for the sunny season, ensuring your skin not only looks good but feels good, too.

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A Lip Stain That Lasts

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Using a lip stain is a guaranteed way to get a lasting lip look all day long. Beyond its role as a lip color, it can also be used as a liner, ensuring a smudge-free application. With over forty colors to choose from, this stain offers a versatile selection for every mood and occasion.

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This Foundation Powder Is Iconic

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There's no such thing as oily skin in the summertime when you have this foundation powder that allows you to minimize your pores and control your oil like never before. This product will leave a matte finish on your skin, ensuring you're always picture-perfect throughout the season.

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Maybelline Just Dropped These New Shadow Blocks in a Stacked Eye Shadow Trio

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These newly dropped Maybelline Shadow Blocks are great if you wear the same shadow look regularly, or if you need something compact for travel. Each block comes with three different shades which all work together for an overall look. They are really user-friendly and not overly pigmented, so great for everyday use.

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Keep Your Lips Hydrated With the Lip Glow Balm

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For lips that look as good as they feel, try this Lip Glowy Balm. This convenient balm provides powerful hydration, locking in moisture longer and leaving your lips feeling soft and silky.

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A Serum Skin Tint With SPF 40

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This soothing skin tint works like a serum, visibly hydrating and smoothing the skin's texture. Niacinamide helps smooth and tone, while hyaluronic acid plumps and hydrates. Plant-based squalane gives a moisturizing boost that improves elasticity without being comedogenic. The addition of SPF 40 protects your skin from UVA, UVB, and UVC rays as well as environmental pollution and blue light.

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This Face Primer to Look Picture-Perfect

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There's no better way to prepare your makeup than with this face primer. This skin-smoothing Amazon gem not only sets your skin for a flawless beauty look but also blurs imperfections while illuminating.

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Make 'Em Pop

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This under-eye highlighter stick was made just for this makeup trend! The peachy color goes tight on your waterline and makes your eyes pop in an absolutely wild way. You're going to wonder why it took you so long to realize a little bit of light coloring would look so fantastic under your eyes, and then you'll use it every day.

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This Eye Serum Is Worth Every Penny

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Name something that this eye serum can't do. Whether you're looking for a product that can hydrate your under-eye area or maybe reduce the dark circles or puffiness, this gem can do it all. It also doubles as a makeup concealer, providing you with everything you need and more.

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This Complexion Stick Can Cover Anything

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Conceal your blemishes while also correcting the color with this complexion stick infused with turmeric and hyaluronic acid. This medium-coverage tool creates a natural finish that will feel as good as your skin will look. It's a must-have for touching up throughout the day.

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You'll Obsess Over This One-Step Corrector

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You'll wonder how you ever lived without this one-step corrector after just one use. Green tea, peach, and lavender blends work together to prime, brighten, and moisturize skin while counteracting everything, from redness to dark circles. As this five-star reviewer shares, it's so low maintenance that you can use it on its own: "When I use this product, I don’t even need to wear foundation."

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This Eyeliner Pencil for Your Waterline

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Make your makeup last through the sweat and tears of summer thanks to this eyeliner pencil, which comes in a ton of different shades. This bold shade brings a dramatic effect to your makeup look, ensuring you stay flawless throughout your day.

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Go Subtle With This Cheek Tone Jelly Blusher

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Give just that perfect little bit of blush with this jelly blusher. It's a natural and buildable color perfect for a little bit of flush.

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This Lip Balm Responds to Your Skin's pH

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This great lip balm is all the rage right now! It reacts to your skin's pH to turn just the right shade for your lips. That means no more hunting for that elusive color that perfectly matches your skin tone. We all waste too much time on that hunt, and for no reason now that this lip balm exists.

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Everyone Needs a Good Lip Tint

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This moisturizing and non-sticky lip tint gives the perfect amount of color. The fresh hue lets lips shine through with that extra boost of color.

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This Foundation Is a Cult-Favorite

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When they say that this foundation keeps you covered, reviewers are not messing around. This affordable and long-lasting product blends into your skin seamlessly, creating a flawless finish that you are going to want to show off this season.

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An Award-Winning Finishing Powder With Light to Medium Coverage

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This powdered foundation comes in a wide range of shades and self-adjusts to your skin tone for a seamless match. Praised for its matte finish that resists caking or creasing, it’s a go-to for achieving a flawless look.

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Bright Eyes Even If You Overslept

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This full-coverage concealer diminishes the look of dark circles and fine lines while instantly brightening your eyes for a fully rested look every day.

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This Palette Set to Complete Your Look

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Stay prepared for all of the summer plans that might come your way with this palette set, which includes blush and face powder infused with a luscious blend of hydrating butter. These powders melt into your skin, leaving a radiant finish and timeless beauty.

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This Eye Brightener With Instant Results

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This eye cream combines the long-term benefits of hyaluronic acid and shea butter to soften and brighten your skin over time while also acting as a medium-coverage concealer for instant results. Its pink tint neutralizes the blue tones often visible under the eyes.

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This Serum Foundation to Replace Your Old Routine

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Achieve flawless coverage and a dewy finish with this serum foundation that will become a go-to in your everyday beauty routine. Not only is it lightweight and long-lasting, but this foundation also leaves a radiant complexion without the chemicals that are in traditional makeup.

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This Lip Stain for All-Day Beauty

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There's no need to reapply your lipstick throughout the day when this lip stain will last all day and night. Once you apply it, the color sets and stays in place, even through eating, drinking, and all your daily activities. You'll be amazed at how long-lasting and smudge-proof it is, giving you a hassle-free lip color experience.

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This Foundation Will Become a Go-to

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Not only does this foundation have a smooth and easy application process, but it also works to provide you with the coverage you need without sacrificing the luminosity. It's reliable for all skin types, offering a lightweight option that doesn't compromise perfection.

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Have Some Fun With This Tinted Mushroom Lip Gloss

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Makeup doesn't need to be so serious, and this tinted mushroom lip gloss proves it. The subtle tints are perfect for a minimalist look, and you really can't beat the mushroom-shaped containers.

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Get Buildable Color With This Jelly Tint

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This jelly tint has a moisturizing texture that produces a sheer, buildable color. The cooling gel gives long-lasting wear that is non-sticky and won't smudge.

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Hyaluronic Lip Balm for Intense Moisture

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This newly released Kosas Lipfuel Hyaluronic Active Lip Balm deeply hydrates and nourishes the lips with plant-based oils. Active ingredients, like hyaluronic acid, work to plump and smooth the lips, making the appearance look fuller and more youthful.

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A Lip Stain That Lasts All Day Long

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Eliminate the need for makeup touch-ups with this lip stain. You can use it on the border of your lips to act as a lip liner or cover them completely to replace the need for lipstick. It has a peel-off formula that will leave you with stunning results that last throughout the day. You can even top it off with some gloss for a shiny finish.

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This Eyeshadow Stick Stays in Place

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There's nothing worse than looking in the mirror just to see that your flawless eyeshadow look has smudged across your face. That's why this eyeshadow stick is a staple for the summer. With its creamy formula and subtle sparkle, you can easily shine from day to night.

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Get Addicted to the Sparkle With This Glitter Lipstick

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Ditch the neutral look, and go for something bolder with this glitter lipstick. It creates a bold dimension to the face with shimmering glitter that demands attention.

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A Tinted Moisturizer With SPF 35

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This tinted moisturizer provides sheer coverage with a dewy finish. The super-lightweight formula is full of nourishing ingredients, like hyaluronic acid and licorice root extract, for all-day hydration, while zinc oxide protects your skin from harmful UV rays.

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Eye Balm That Brightens Dark Circles

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Let's face it: Sometimes dark circles happen, whether or not we've had a great night of sleep. This eye balm contains peptides and collagen for a firming, brightening effect, and the ultra-hydrating formula gives our under-eyes a much-needed boost.

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Protect From the Sun's Rays

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This lightweight Korean balm is a must-have for skincare. It doesn't just protect your face from the sun's harsh rays, it also nourishes and hydrates your skin, helping to reduce those fine lines and wrinkles that sun exposure causes. It's a lightweight balm that goes on smoothly and feels fantastic.

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Use a Versatile Multi-Stick for an Easy Makeup Routine

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This multi-stick by e.l.f has almost 60,000 ratings and is super affordable. It can be used as a blush, lipstick, and eyeshadow. It's perfect for giving a beautiful sun-kissed glow.

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Transform Your Look With This Peel & Reveal Lip Stain

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Surprise them with a long-lasting lip color that’s a hit on TikTok. Ideal for teens and adults, this lip color changes from an indigo shade to reveal the final color, ensuring a fun and unique makeup experience. It's smudge-proof, making it a fantastic gift for those who love experimenting with their makeup.

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This Liquid Blush That Every Makeup Guru Recommends

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Makeup trends come and go, but we really hope that this one stays for a while. Every makeup guru on TikTok has been slowly introducing their secret hack for the most rosy cheeks! This liquid blush was their little secret to obtain the most gorgeous makeup look that adds the slightest touch of pink.

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