12 Hot Ways To Wear Denim – No Overalls Allowed!

Everyday denim as we know it has changed. ‘Cause it’s not just about having a great pair of jeans and a denim jacket at your disposal anymore. Denim has become a go-to textile (or color) for everything from skirts and dresses to tops and outerwear, and this bold leap has caught our eye. Check out these 12 Brit-approved ways to wear it.

1. Belted Denim Skirt With Lace Trim ($136): Soft chambray and a lacy trim make this denim skirt seem light and airy. We love it paired with cowboy booties like in this picture.

2. Kimono Trucker Jacket ($78): Would you take a fashion risk with this boxy kimono jacket? Its shape is highly editorial, but we applaud anyone who can make this work in the real world.

3. Denim Block Shirt ($65): We consider ourselves pros at all things color blocking. But denim blocking is entirely unexplored territory. This jean-colored button down makes a sensational first impression with it’s two-toned panels, pocket, and classic shape.

4. Spotty Denim Shirt Dress ($115): If a solid denim dress seems too daring, then try this polka dotted ditty on for size (but we suggest you finish reading this roundup before you totally make up your mind.) ;) It’s a conservative cover up that’s still tons of fun. We’d rock it with a colorful waist belt and smoking slippers.

5. Jabot Flutter Sleeve Shirt ($64): Light, jean-colored linen is given the ultimate girly treatment. Ruffled cap sleeves and a removable ruffled collar make this top effortlessly chic.

6. Denim Pinafore Dress in Dark Navy ($54): Yes, “pinafore,” may just be a fancier word for “apron,” but we’re too absorbed with this adorable this denim dress to care all that much! Try pairing this jumper with a chiffon blouse or drape a beautiful cardigan over its crossing back straps.

7. Trucker Denim Jacket ($205): We are swooning over this artfully amped up denim jacket. Tribal print sleeves add a cozy touch, which makes this a must-have jacket in our book.

8. Daydrifter Denim Tee ($78): It’s ironic that our favorite daring way to wear denim takes the form of the most basic wardrobe piece of all time: the t-shirt! But this slightly slouchy, roll sleeved tee is pleasantly surprising and ever so playful.

9. Auden Denim Jacket ($128): The classic denim jacket gets an almost unrecognizable makeover on this amazing, vintage-inspired coat. Curved seams, large buttons, and contrast polka dot trim make this feminine-cut piece a real head turner.

10. Chambray Box Pleat Skirt ($73): The thick pleats on this designer chambray skirt add both volume and visual interest below the waist. We love how it’s styled with a preppy striped boat neck.

11. Kimono Sleeve Sweater Dress ($88): Solid and patterned panels complete this minimal denim-colored sweater dress. Wide, kimono-inspired sleeves make it unlike any dress we’ve seen!

12. Denim Skater Dress With Lace Insert ($76): Honestly, we suggest dipping into the denim trend head first in this sweet ensamble. This denim skater dress is flirty, femme, and fun!

BONUS :

Denim Bowtie Dog Collar ($42): Bow-nus! We wouldn’t dare leave your pooch out of this trend! This denim bowtie dog collar will undoubtedly make any dog the most dapper yapper. ;)

Have you tried this daring denim trend? What pieces are your favorite? Tell us in the comments below.

When it comes to denim trends, skinny jeans are making a surprising comeback in 2025. Though I think they’re a bit far from my personal style (and way too constricting for my body), I totally admire how other fashion fans have been styling skinny jeans lately.

Skinny jeans look insanely chic when you wear ‘em tucked into some tall boots. I’ve also seen instances of a skinny jean-ballet flat combo, which feels undeniably twee, a whimsical aesthetic style that’s risen in popularity over the years. No matter how you style them, the skinny jeans trend is for you as long as it incites confidence in your outfits and attitude!

Here are 10 pairs of actually cute skinny jeans to convince you to hop on the bandwagon this year!

Anthropologie

Joe's Jeans Charlie High-Rise Skinny Jeans

Dark wash jeans will never not be cool. These skinny jeans hug the legs tight so you can layer up with boots if you please!

Madewell

Madewell 10" High-Rise Skinny Jeans

Sometimes a high rise is just what you need to feel put together. This skinny yet stretchy pair from Madewell has a whole 10 inches that hits high on your waistline.

Nordstrom

Paige Gemma Skinny Jeans

I adore how these "stretch-kissed" skinny jeans don't totally taper off at the ankle, which can be a little off-putting for your proportions. Instead, the cuffs leave ample room for a more natural styling.

Abercrombie & Fitch

Abercrombie & Fitch High Rise Skinny Jeans

Abercrombie & Fitch absolutely kills the jeans game, so it's not a huge surprise to me that their skinny jeans are speaking to my personal style! This pair's medium wash will easily wear with just about anything you want to put on, plus I love the look of 'em with some slingback flats as pictured!

Old Navy

Old Navy High-Waisted Wow Super-Skinny Jeans

You can never go wrong with a super skinny fit paired with a considerably high waistline. The higher waist on this fitted Old Navy pair will instantly flatter your figure!

Free People

We The Free Coco Slim Jeans

The more and more I see skinny jeans worn with tall black boots, the more and more I wanna wear 'em. This Free People pair even has some unique seam work at the front to help your looks stand out!

DUER

DUER Performance Denim Mid Rise Slim Straight Jeans

Impressively stretchy, these skinny jeans flaunt a "waist-hugging" mid-rise that helps sculpt your bod in only the best ways. These also have that looser fit around the ankle for a more natural effect.

Rag & Bone

Rag & Bone Cate Ankle Skinny Jeans

I'm in love with this dark wash – it'll work well with any and all neutral colors or brighter tones if you tend to wear those more.

Nordstrom

AG Mari Mid Rise Slim Straight Leg Jeans

Instead of fitting super tight like a literal glove (except... on your legs), these mid-rise jeans have more of a 'slim' silhouette. It still gives the look of skinny jeans without being overly restricting – score!

Banana Republic Factory

Banana Republic Mid-Rise Skinny Jeans

These full-length skinny jeans are crafted from a stretchy denim fabric that mimics 100% denim so stylishly. They've still got all the classic details you'd expect from some jeans, including a 5-pocket design and a zippered and buttoned front closure.

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Say it with me: being single isn't a crime, nor is still believing in love. It seems like the are so many conflicting rules about what people are supposed to want out of life — especially romantically — but guess what? No one can tell you what you should or shouldn't focus on. And if that involves reading romance books where the protagonist learns to choose what's best for their heart? I'm supporting your decision to read whatever you want based on your mood!

Scroll to find all the best romantic books that celebrate love in all its forms!

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1. Picking Daises on Sundays by Liana Cincotti

Daniella Daisy Maria still believes in love as evidenced by the rom-coms she keeps watching, but she's heartbroken when her best friend Levi doesn't reciprocate her deep feelings. Unfortunately, this severs their friendship and they stop speaking to each other for a few years.
When they do see each other again, they're at a West Village bar and Daniella can't believe how much Levi hasn't changed. She's even more shocked when he asks her to be in a fake relationship with him.
She knows she should say no, but Daniella can't help herself even if having something real with Levi isn't on the table.

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2. Call It What You Want by Alissa DeRogatis

Sloane Hart's living out the last wild days of college with her friends and their penchant for singing The Chainsmokers' songs. She's also thinking about the career she wants to have in New York.

Focusing on her goals is all she cares about until she meets Ethan Brady. His very presence scrambles her brain and she can't help but want to spend as much time with him as she can. But Ethan's hard shell makes it tough for them to truly connect the way she wants.

This alone may be the thing to derail Sloane's goals as she works to win Ethan's heart.

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3. Romantic Comedy by Curtis Sittenfeld

Sketch writer Sally Milz spends her nights working for The Night Owls and watching her less-than-eligible co-workers score relationships with women who are way out of their league. It doesn't help that she feels her love life is doomed. The final straw comes when her friend Danny Horst becomes the lucky partner of beautiful actress Annabel. This inspires Sally to write The Danny Horst Rule — a sketch that's meant to hilariously make fun of the oddity of this phenomenon.
But then Noah Brewster, a super attractive pop star, waltzes onset set as a guest host. Somehow he finds Sally funny and even starts flirting with her. Due to Sally's disappointments in the past, she doesn't think someone like him could possibly be interested in her. It's not like her life is one big rom-com.

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4. A Love Song for Ricki Wilde by Tia Williams

Ricki Wilde rejects the posh lifestyle of her family in Atlanta and ventures to New York to live her true dreams. Not only does she start creating a home for herself in Harlem, she also opens a gorgeous flower shop. It's here that becomes attracted to a beautiful stranger who's as passionate as he is mysterious.
Unbeknownst to her, their fates are tied in a way that'll have grave consequences should they decide to fall in love.

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5. Never Meant to Meet You by Ali Frank & Asha Youmans

Kindergarten teacher Marjette Lewis is getting ready for a new school year without her best friend Judy for the first time and she's overwhelmed. She's also dealing with the defiance that comes from having a growing son along with the irritable antics of her ex-husband. In her mind, she doesn't have time for anyone else.

But life surprises her in the form of a young student who has an attractive uncle. Together, they'll realize petty moments can give way to something greater if they let it.

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6. The Secret of You and Me by Melissa Lenhardt

Nora left Texas because she needed to escape her harsh father and the small town they lived in. Going back means she'll have to deal with things she doesn't want to.

Sophie's life looks perfect on the outside, but she can't stop thinking about the one woman who stole her heart so long ago — Nora. They found friendship and love in each other, but Sophie called herself putting that behind her. It's the very reason she can't wait for Nora to leave town so she doesn't have to remember how she felt about her.

But being near each other reminds them of everything that felt and lost. Even more, they'll have to decide if some truths are better lived out loud.

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7. The Things We Do for Love by Kristin Hannah

Angie DeSaria's infertility struggles and divorce caused her so much distress that she decides to move back home to West End. It's there she starts reconnecting with what feels familiar, but there's also something new waiting for her when she hires Lauren Ribido.
She and the teenager develop a mother-daughter relationship that's put under great stress by circumstances that are out of their hands.

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8. Big Chicas Don't Cry by Annette Chavez Macias

Mari, Erica, Selena, and Gracie have the ultimate cousin relationship. They're the best of friends who all know loving their grandmother is nonnegotiable. However, a divorce that affects one of them pulls them apart and they stop being close.
Years later, the cousins are dealing with the different hardships. Mari's unhappy with her life, Erica's newly single and having a hard time a work, Selena's in the midst of an identity crisis, and Gracie is afraid of falling in love.
Yet, their true test will come when they're in the same room again and have nothing but unspoken memories between them.

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9. The Burnout by Sophie Kinsella

Sasha's tired of being "on" at work and is looking for a reprieve from her busy life. It's to the point where her social life has taken a drastic hit, leaving her depleted on a soul level. Taking things into her own hands, she books a vacation to a resort in hopes of unwinding.
Sadly, her idea of paradise is shattered because there's nothing idyllic about her vacation at first. The resort looks like it's been all but abandoned and the only person there seems to be Finn, the last person she'd want to talk to. He's as grump as they come and that's putting a big damper on the plans that are already ruined.
Turns out, they're both burned out and unsure what to do about it. The answer to their puzzling question comes in the form of weird messages that force them to have a conversation about themselves.
The more they talk, the closer they get and soon there'll be a deeper burning sensation they feel.

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10. Evvie Drake Starts Over by Linda Holmes

Eveleth "Evvie" Drake is a widow who's so depressed that she'd rather stay home than venture out in the Maine town she lives in. She doesn't even bothering arguing with her best friend Andy about what's wrong with her.
Hours away in New York is Dean Tenney, a man who used to having a promising baseball career. However, his throwing game has been off and he doesn't understand what's wrong with him.
Looking to escape media speculations, Dean takes up his best friend's offer to unwind in Maine. Unbeknownst to him, Andy's very close to Evvie and arranges for Dean to say in the back of Evvie's house. The two don't pry into each other's life at first, but one conversation turns into more.
However, they'll have to get past their fears if they want to have something that lasts.

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11. Normal People by Sally Rooney

Connell and Marianne couldn't be more different, but they've never been able to ignore how drawn they are to each other. It doesn't matter if one used to be popular in school while the other wasn't.

In a strange twist of events, they seem to trade places in the social hierarchy at Trinity College. Marianne's gone on to have a busy social life while Connell doesn't seem sure of anything. Despite finding new people to cling to, they always seem to come back to each other.

It's only when Marianne begins making risky choices that the two will have to ask if they're willing to always be in each other's lives.

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12. Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fineby Gail Honeyman

Eleanor Oliphant is socially awkward and not in the "cute" way either. She truly can't seem to "read the room" and alternates between saying bold things or indulging in cheap comforts on the weekend. Then she meets Raymond at work.

When they help an elderly man named Sammy, the three of them strike up an unexpected friendship that has life-altering consequences.

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13. Queenie by Candice Carty-Williams

Queenie Jenkins is going through a lot. As a young woman in her mid-twenties, she's not sure which culture she should embrace. Also, she can't help but notice how awkward it is to navigate life at the newspaper she works at.

Once she and her boyfriend breakup, she begins spiraling in heartbreaking and relatable ways. From careless sex to unhinged behavior, Queenie can't help but feel she's lost the plot of her life.

Somehow, she'll find her self-worth and may discover the greatest love of all.

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I’m going to start this off by saying there’s a jeans trend out there for everyone, but I need to speak my truth: we do not need to bring back skinny jeans! The past is the past for a reason, so instead, look to 2025’s hottest denim trends – all of which put your utmost comfort at the forefront.

In place of restricting (and oftentimes unflattering) denim styles like the very aged skinny jean, you’ll find more roomy and billowy designs taking center stage in 2025. I’m talking about barrel jeans, baggy jeans, wide leg jeans – the whole shebang. Plus, as temps begin to warm up, loose-fitting jorts are sure to hit it big (who doesn’t love a divisive trend?).

Scroll on to shop the biggest denim trends of 2025!

1. Barrel Jeans

Abercrombie & Fitch

Abercrombie & Fitch Mid Rise Barrel Jean

The barrel jean hype is real. This unique shape took off in the fall of 2024, and I've been riding the bandwagon ever since.

Pistola

Pistola Wes High Rise Barrel Jeans

Barrel jeans (in my opinion) are flattering on every body type. Whether you're tall, short, petite, or plus-size, the convex silhouette makes ample room – meaning they're ultra-comfy, too.

Free People

We The Free Good Luck Mid-Rise Barrel Jeans

Barrel jeans look great with any sort of get-up you want to rock, from graphic tees to sweaters. As far as shoes go, I think the look of barrel jeans over cowgirl boots is iconic. Otherwise, low-profile shoes like ballet flats, boat shoes, or just some simple sneakers will complete the look!

2. Baggy + Wide Leg Jeans

Levi's

Levi's Cinch Baggy Jeans

This next denim trend for 2025 is also clearly comfy. Baggy and wide leg jeans are hot, and in fact, they're my favorite style of jeans. I wear low-rise, baggy jeans more often than not, and they're superior when it comes to comfort. Sweatpants, who?!

Urban Outfitters

BDG Jaya Baggy Boyfriend Jean

You can find baggy jeans in tons of different washes, but nothing will ever beat a reliable medium-wash like this.

Lee

Lee Legendary Wide Leg Crop Jeans

If you can't stand the though of your jeans sagging (totally understood), reaching for wide leg jeans like this pair from Lee might just be the perfect solution. While still relaxed, these jeans hug the booty and hips, well, better.

No matter if you go the baggy route or the wide leg route, either style of denim will work wonderfully across your wardrobe, whether you want to dress them up or down!

3. Jorts

Free People

Levi's 501 Mid Thigh Shorts

You heard it right, people: jorts are in for 2025. And I'm sopumped – in the way that baggy jeans are eclipsing skinny jeans, jorts are taking the place of way-too-short, way-too-tight denim shorts! It's all about comfort, my friends.

Abercrombie & Fitch

Abercrombie & Fitch Mid Rise 10" Loose Shorts

But just because jorts are comfortable doesn't mean they're not stylish! Though the fit and style may feel a bit unfamiliar to you at first, they're surprisingly easy to style. You can either embrace the loose fit by pairing jorts with an oversized sweater or contrast it with a fitted vest or tank. Easy!

Free People

We The Free Boomerang Long Shorts

Come spring and summer, you're really going to appreciate the flowy, breezy nature of this denim trend.

4. Bold Cuffs

Urban Outfitters

BDG Thea Cuffed Wide Leg Jean

If a bold barrel jean or wide leg isn't statement-making enough for you, you'll love to hear that cuffed jeans are another huge denim trend for 2025. The key here is finding a pair with good contrast between jean + cuff – like this dark-wash pair from BDG!

Gap

Gap Mid Rise Cuffed '90s Loose Jeans

Plus, the bigger the cuff, the better.

Banana Republic Factory

Banana Republic High-Rise Straight Jeans

I love rocking my cuffed jeans with boots of any kind especially during the wintertime, but come spring and summer, they'll still look amazing with flats or sandals.

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The '90s introduced decorating trends like neutral color palettes with beige, taupe, and white leading the way. Pops of color like hunter green, burgundy, and navy were always in the mix too. Floral prints were everywhere, from upholstery to wallpaper borders, and sponge-painted walls gave spaces a textured look. I remember helping my mom prep my sister’s nursery with a wallpaper border and sponge-painting our bathroom walls in a peachy hue. Oak cabinets and light wood furniture were staples, often paired with brass or gold accents (sound familiar?). There were also glass block walls, track lighting, and oversized sectional sofas. Southwestern motifs and geometric patterns were also popular, while inflatable furniture and lava lamps gave tween rooms a playful vibe. While some of these trends are being reimagined by designers today, others are best left within the confines of our '90s nostalgia.

Here are all the '90s decorating trends we still love today.

1. Stencils

Etsy

Etsy Nadia Indian Block Print Allover Stencil

Wall stencils were huge in the '90s, offering an easy way to add decorative patterns and borders to any room. From floral designs to geometric shapes, stencils were the O.G. approach to DIY-ing walls. Modern stenciling techniques are making a stylish and more subtle comeback. I especially love this block print look for an elevated rustic vibe.

2. Wallpaper Borders

Etsy

Etsy Classic Scallop Border Wall Sticker

Unlike my mom's wallpaper border that needed to be scraped and sanded off, modern varieties are stick on and removable and so much easier to deal with. Plus, they come in fun prints and shapes like this scallop border.

3. Textured Walls

Gavin Cater

I don't know that I'll ever love sponge-painting again, but rustic home decor is making a solid comeback with Pinterest searches for Spanish Mediterranean kitchens and Mexican farmhouse on the rise (think earthy patterns and textures like plaster). This bathroom designed by Los Angeles design firm Bungalowe uses microcement on the walls for an imperfect and natural look that's so gorgeous.

4. Hunter Green

DeVOL Kitchens

Hunter green is back. Find it in kitchen cabinet colors, wall color, and furnishings. This project by DeVOL Kitchens, a renowned design-led manufacturer of bespoke kitchens, uses the color in one of its iconic UK-based kitchen designs.

5. Ruffles

Anthropologie

Anthropologie Lorelei Irena Accent Chair

Pleated skirts on sofas and chairs are making their way back as a response to a new romantic trend.

6. Burgundy

CB2

CB2 Monte Oak Wood and Rose Velvet Dining Chair

NYC-based designer Nicholas Obeid designed this dining chair with FSC-certified American red oak and a plush velvet in a deep, rich burgundy color that I want for my dining room ASAP. It's giving '90s but in a sophisticated way.

7. Floral Everything

Cari Field

The '90s embraced all the florals. Fast forward to today, James and Christine of Stewart-Schafer thoughtfully renovated their clients' 200-year-old home in Connecticut with a stunning floral wallpaper and I'm obsessed!

8. Pastels

Urban Outfitters

UO Roma Sofa

I will never not love pastels, especially in the Danish variety.

9. Wicker Furniture

Greenrow

Greenrow Seagrass Occasional Loveseat

Word on the street is that wicker is making a comeback, but in an elevated way. Gone are the bulky porch furniture sets in stark white. This natural seagrass chair is the modern version of your '90s wicker.

10. Bedskirts

Greenrow

Greenrow Vintage Bedskirt

Sleek platform beds are making way for the return of the bedskirt and I'm not sad about it.

11. Tassels

Wayfair

Hadiqa Upholstered Barrel Chair

Tassels were everywhere in '90s decor, often used as embellishments on curtain tiebacks, lampshades, and throw pillows. Think heavy drapes in jewel tones held back with gold tasseled cords, a fringed lampshade, bedspreads and furniture skirts, adding texture and movement. Well, they're back and pretty beautiful IMO.

12. Oak Cabinets

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Oak cabinets you'll find today are clean and minimal compared to the ones back then, but they are just as popular. Alice Arterberry of Austin-based design firm Arterberry Cooke and Danny Spears of Captex Construction designed this stunning Austin kitchen in oak, from cabinets to floors.

13. Tropical

PB Teen

PB Teen Palm Chandelier

Tropical decor has become timeless, blending playful charm with laid-back elegance. From bold, exotic wallpapers to whimsical chandeliers like this one, it’s the perfect way to bring relaxed, vacation-inspired vibes to your home.

14. Neutral Color Palettes

Image courtesy of Arterberry Cooke

The quiet luxury aesthetic of neutral color palettes will always bring a soothing and serene feeling to spaces and I'm ok with still loving it, even as color starts to take over our spaces. There's always space for warm minimalism!

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We've all heard of "roommate syndrome." The buzzword refers to when once-infatuated partners start living together, fall into a familiar rhythm, and begin to act more like platonic roommates than two people in a romantic relationship. But whether you actually live with your significant other or not, this phenomenon can still unfold. For some, busy schedules and demanding jobs threaten to come between their partnership; for others, personal stresses, mounting pet peeves, or differing goals can start to dismantle the unconditional love and connection you once felt.

Regardless of the cause (and despite what certain people may tell you), it's natural to drift apart from your significant other sometimes. Life isn't linear, and neither are our relationships. With that being said, once you recognize the signs, you can always work to undo the damage and reconnect with your partner, too. So, here are some of the telltale indicators that you're growing apart.

Scroll to find out the subtle signs you're growing apart from your partner!

1. Physical Affection Is Nonexistent

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Practically everyone can think back to a time when they were in a brand-new relationship, and the "honeymoon phase" seemed to be filled with never-ending hand-holding and kissing. Those of us in long-term relationships know that this behavior tends to fade over time.

However, there should still be a balance, and no physical affection at all could signal something is wrong beneath the surface. Before jumping to a conclusion, talk to your partner and determine if something exterior is making them not want to be affectionate. Or, if you've noticed a consistent pattern, have an honest conversation to express your needs.

2. Communication Is Limited

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Aside from remaining physically connected, talking to one another is how relationships survive. Without this glue, it's easy for partnerships to fall apart.

We'd like to call attention to a common misconception, though. More specifically, the quantity of conversation is not as important as the quality. For instance, if your partner suddenly isn't texting back immediately or engaging in super long conversations over dinner, it's not an immediate cause for concern.

Again, it's natural for previously endless conversations to shorten as relationships become more long-term. Rather, quality is what you should assess. If you feel as though your talks with your partner have become surface-level or like you can't truly express your feelings anymore, that's an indicator you may be drifting.

3. You're Stuck In The Blame Game

Liza Summer

It's completely normal to have disagreements with your partner or just get frustrated by some of their usual habits. However, when you try to communicate your feelings, do either of you ever jump to criticize or throw blame?

When someone is tired or under stress, an occasional outburst like that may be understandable. But repeatedly criticizing or blaming your partner for issues that you should be tackling together is a recipe for disaster.

Not only will the person being criticized or blamed get their feelings hurt, but it will also reduce trust and lead to perceived disrespect. All of this can make you and your partner feel as if you're growing apart.

4. You No Longer Talk About Future Plans

Alex Green

When you enter a relationship, decision-making becomes a two-person endeavor. It can also be really motivating and thrilling to discuss future plans together, whether that be moving to a new city, starting a business, or growing a family.

Yet, if these conversations randomly come to a halt or seem more like fantasies than realistic, that's a red flag. It can suggest that either you or your partner don't feel like you're on the same page or there's no longer excitement about your future life together.

5. Conflict Avoidance

Timur Weber

Relationships take serious work, and problems can't be fixed without effort from both parties. That's mainly why communication is so critical; it keeps things from feeling one-sided and facilitates conflict resolution.

So, if you or your partner actively tries to avoid discussing things that need to be addressed, it could mean you're drifting. Either you are afraid to open up a can of worms, perhaps because you've been blamed or criticized in the past, or you just don't feel like dealing with the problem is worth it.

6. Less Appearance Effort

Polina Zimmerman

After being in a relationship for a while, people tend to get comfortable. And that's actually a good thing. It signals that you feel safe, secure, and accepted for who you really are.

Still, there is a line that distinguishes natural comfort from complacency. If you or your partner don't try to look nice on special occasions anymore, it could suggest that you're taking each other for granted.

Of course, lounging around in athleisure wear at home or wearing no makeup is totally natural and acceptable. But if outfits and hygiene for date nights, anniversaries, birthdays, or other outings are becoming increasingly disheveled, it's a red flag.

7. You No Longer Participate In Shared Interests

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One of the best parts about having a significant other is discovering what interests you both share and participating in them together. Active couples might enjoy hiking, playing pickleball, or golfing, while more creative types may love concerts, visiting museums, and traveling.

Not only are these activities more fun when done with someone you love, but they also allow you to create new memories and spend quality time together. So, if you and your partner previously loved trying new things together, but the frequency has fallen off, it could mean something is wrong.

Your relationship suddenly lacks the closeness you both once felt through your hobbies, and the reduced connection can make you feel separated from your partner.

8. Even When You're Together, You Feel Alone

Antoni Shkraba

Finally, those who remain in love for decades generally share similar views of their significant others: their partners are their best friends.

But if you find yourself feeling alone while sitting next to your partner on the couch at the end of each night, that's a problem. Yes, friends and other relatives are important for maintaining separate platonic relationships and your own sense of identity, yet you shouldn't feel like you have to seek out companionship entirely from other people.

Even couples with completely different backgrounds, jobs, and interests can still manage to operate as a caring and united entity. So, unfortunately, feeling alone while spending time with your partner may be a sign that you've lost a sense of connection and have drifted apart.

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