January 23 just happens to be National Pie Day, although to be honest, we treat most days like they were made for pie. Cutting ourselves just one more slice until we somehow finish the pie has happened more times than we care to admit. Whether you prefer them strawberry, cherry, raisin or chocolate cream-filled, and in cookie crusts or pie-pop form, we have the must-have list of gear every pie head needs in their life. Hurry up — National Pie Day won’t last forever. Set your oven timer and see below for tasty, gooey goodness.
For your friend who just can’t resist making a charcuterie board for every occasion to your cooking-crazy uncle, we’ve got the coolest edible gifts for 2024 right here. Gift something deliciously unforgettable – from decadent chocolate truffles to zesty spice mixes, these edible gifts bring joy to every bite. Edible gifts are also perfect for those who host you during the holidays and even coworkers! Get ready to spread some cheer with these edible gifts.
The 24 best edible gifts of 2024:
- Cornish Sea Salt Really Garlicky Seasoning
- Graza Olive Oil Variety Pack
- Coop's Original Hot Fudge
- Good Good Assorted No Added Sugar Jam Holiday Box
- Tate's Bake Shop Chocolate Chip Cookies
- Flamingo Estate Spicy Extra Virgin Olive Oil
- Hickory Farms Farmhouse Sausage & Cheese Food Gift Basket
- Brightland The Mini Artist Series
- Bonnie & Pop Chocolate Gift Basket
- Compartés Boozy Chocolate Gift Box
- Copper Cow Coffee Vietnamese Pour Over Coffee Variety Pack
- Blue Diamond Holiday Frosted Brownie Almonds
- Levain Bakery Holiday Cookie Assortment
- Pistachio Lover's Sweet Treat Gift Set
- Fly By Jing Sichuan Starter Gift Set
- Flamingo Estate California Native Mountain Wildflower Honey
- Jade Leaf Traditional Matcha Starter Set
- Jot Chocolate Hazelnut Ultra Coffee Concentrate
- Original Brownie Brittle Family Size Bag
- Kola Goodies Lilly's Maple Chai Box
- Fishwife The Starter Pack
- Hu Grass-Fed Milk Chocolate Sampler Pack
- Custom Message Shortbread Cookies
- Truff Original Black Truffle Hot Sauce
Below, find our top favorite edible gifts for everyone on your list!
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Graza Olive Oil Variety Pack
Any foodie will instantly recognize Graza's iconic squeezable olive oil bottles. This variety pack includes both their "Drizzle" and "Sizzle" oils that work wonderfully for a wide range of recipes.
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Coop's Original Hot Fudge
This hot fudge is crafted from super wholesome ingredients: pure chocolate, fresh cream, organic sugar cane, natural cocoa powder, and a touch of sea salt all come together for a heavenly (and very chocolatey) experience. Glob it on top of some ice cream to achieve pure dessert-y bliss.
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Tate's Bake Shop Chocolate Chip Cookies
These cookies may be light and crispy, but they're decadent as ever. Snag this 4-pack of bags (with 14 cookies each) to totally nail any sweet tooth's gift this year!
Flamingo Estate
Flamingo Estate Spicy Extra Virgin Olive Oil
This luxurious olive oil is infused with Guajillo chiles that bring an undeniable kick to whatever you cook with it.
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Hickory Farms Farmhouse Sausage & Cheese Food Gift Basket
Because who doesn't love snacking on meat and cheese? This loaded gift basket will keep them munching and satisfied during the in-between moments around the holidays.
Compartés
Compartés Boozy Chocolate Gift Box
This gift box's boozy chocolate flavors range from espresso martini to strawberry champagne. Gift them the entire box or split it up amongst friends for a fun (and alcoholic) stocking stuffer moment!
Fly By Jing
Fly By Jing Sichuan Starter Gift Set
This gift set from Fly By Jing includes four different chili crisps and sauces so your giftee can instantly spice up their dishes. We love using the OG Sichuan Chili Crisp on eggs, noodles, chicken, and more.
Kola Goodies
Kola Goodies Lilly's Maple Chai Box
This adorable book-shaped gift box is packed with a delicious maple chai drink mix for the perfect cozy beverage, which is simply a necessity around the holidays (and wintertime as a whole).
Fishwife
Fishwife The Starter Pack
Fishwife's variety of tinned fish can be used across a wide range of different dishes like sandwiches, wraps, salads, pastas, and more. Gift them this set of 7 tins so they can test out different recipes and find their absolute fave!
Uncommon Goods
Custom Message Shortbread Cookies
Let these sweet treats deliver your holiday wishes for you! You're able to customize the text on each piece of shortbread to bring even more cheer.
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If you're finding it hard to make friends as an adult, or maintain friendships from different life stages, you're definitely not alone. According to Dr. Deborah Gilboa, MD, Scientific Advisor for Azar, and a recent study from Azar and Talker, it's not abnormal to feel heightened levels of loneliness. In fact, that study suggests Gen Z feels lonely every day.
"Loneliness feels isolating because it goes beyond just lacking company; it’s a lack of meaningful connection," she says over email. "Social contact without meaning can worsen loneliness as it increases the individual’s perception of isolation and lack of belonging. The antidote is true social connection."
But how can we find that real social connection and community? I talked to Dr. Gilboa, JustAnswer Mental Health Expert Jennifer Kelman, and NYC Psychologist Dr. Alexandra Stratyner PhD, for some insight into behaviors that attract friends. Here are some behaviors that will simply make you irresistible — and will help you identify good friends in others!
Keep reading for some advice on how to attract friends — and easy ways to be a better friend to the people you love.
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There's no shame in realizing you're feeling lonely, but it's also important to identify when that loneliness morphs into isolation. "Even though many might be experiencing the same feelings, that doesn't mean they are reaching out for support," Kelman says. "Many are not feeling enough strength to reach out to others or feel like they are being a burden so they reason alone with their feelings."
"It's also become more evident as our reliance on digital communication has grown, sometimes leaving us more connected online but feeling less understood and less connected in more meaningful, in-person ways," Dr. Stratyner adds. And then there's the social expectation of it all. "Many people tend to hide their loneliness because they feel shame or embarrassment about it. This can make it even harder to open up and connect with others who might be feeling the same way. The more we keep these feelings to ourselves, the more it reinforces the isolation, even though we all experience it in varying forms."
"It is hard to see light when things feel dark, and many go inward to deal with their feelings," Kelman points out. "Many are so burdened by their feelings that they might not feel capable to care for those around them or to show up and be present for others."
And just like Dr. Gilboa says, we're looking for true connection, not just surface-level friendships. But how can we make true social connection? Here's what they suggest.
1. A good friend shows care and empathy for the people around them.
If you care for the people around you, there's a very good chance others will want to be your friend. "People that show empathy toward others are very attractive qualities as it shows that one has the capacity to care for others and be present for them," Kelman says. "Those that are gregarious and selfless can be quite appealing as well. Those that are self-involved tend to repel others rather than attract."
Focusing on others instead of yourself can be easier said than done, but the it's definitely worth it. "People are drawn to those who show genuine care and understanding," Dr. Stratyner agrees.
2. A good friend is reliable and trustworthy.
Our inner circle is going to be made up of people who know us inside and out, but it's unlikely someone will reach that level of emotional intimacy unless you really trust them. "In friendship people rate reliability, honesty and trustworthiness more highly [than romantic relationships]," Dr. Gilboa says.
3. People are attracted to humor.
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I'm sure we can all think of someone who never fails to make us laugh. And being the funny friend can mean a lot of things: you know how to poke fun at yourself or you don't take things too seriously (unless they need to be taken seriously, of course). But that doesn't mean making other people the butt of mean jokes.
"A good sense of humor helps foster a positive, lighthearted atmosphere, making interactions feel enjoyable and memorable," Stratyner says. "Plus, everyone loves to laugh."
4. You need to be a good listener.
No one wants to be talked at and never listened to. After all, we do have two ears and one mouth! But simply nodding your head and zoning out won't cut it. "People appreciate feeling truly heard," Dr. Stratyner says. "This demonstrates respect, interest, and a willingness to connect on a deeper level."
"Be a great listener without asserting your own views or agenda," Kelman adds. "Be available, vulnerable and present. Ask those around you how they are and truly listen to how they feel. Be open and direct and most of all, be a constant. Nothing better than knowing that you will be there for all things."
So engage with what your friends are saying and, even better, remember it later!
5. A good friend is generous.
Is there a better time to talk about generosity than Thanksgiving? Be generous with your time, resources, and your heart — but don't worry, that doesn't mean you have to let someone else steam roll you. After all, a good friend also won't take advantage of you!
"Giving to others and the community are wonderful traits and habits that are very attractive to others and may draw people in," Kelman says. "People want to be around people that give and are easy-going in their interactions with individuals and the world around them."
6. New friends are attracted to positivity.
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When things feel dark, new friends will be attracted to someone who can make the world feel a little lighter. "People are often attracted to those who can find the silver lining, stay hopeful, and spread good vibes, especially in challenging situations," Dr. Stratyner says.
That's not to say you can never have bad days or process things like disappointment and grief. It just means you aren't ruled by them. (Listen, as an Enneagram 4, I'm talking to myself!)
Ok, you might be thinking, this is great but what do I do with this information? Here are some easy, actionable steps to take if you want to make new friends.
1. Understand why you're feeling lonely will help you address the real problem.
"First is to get an understanding of the loneliness and where it is coming from...finding community too soon may cause an increase in loneliness even while being surrounded by others," Kelman recommends.
You can't reach a solution if you don't know what the real problem is. I realized since I work from home, I need to do better about leaving the apartment, and my favorite way to spend an afternoon is coworking with a friend at a coffee shop.
2. Finding new hobbies will connect you with similar people.
I met some of my best friends through a big movie group, which means when I have a meme or a piece of news to fangirl over, I know exactly who to contact. "Find activities that ignite you, find like minded individuals with whom to connect," Kelman adds. "Join a book club, pick up a new sport or hobby, but again, trying to immerse yourself too soon may not have any impact on the lonely feelings."
"The antidote to loneliness is social connection — true connection that paves the way for belonging," Dr. Gilboah says. "Talking to people to learn what interests and values are shared will open the door for the types of relationships that become community."
3. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there.
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Listen. If you only ever order takeout and watch Netflix, you'll simply never make new connections. You gotta get after it! "Look for community events, clubs, or hobby groups that align with your interests, whether book clubs, sports leagues, or volunteering opportunities," Dr. Stratyner says. "Being around people with shared passions makes it easier to start conversations and find common ground."
4. And don't be afraid to reach out first.
For some reason, we've decided that reaching out first (or double texting) means we're needy and insufferable. This is simply not the case because who doesn't want to know they were thought of!! Plus, there's a good chance that if you're overthinking every little detail, other people are too.
"Reach out, even in small ways, to those around us who may be feeling the same," says Dr. Gilboah. "Loneliness often leads to rumination - the act of dwelling on or spiraling downward through negative thoughts. Ruminating can cause further isolation and distracts us from the people and stimuli around us."
5. Be present when you're finally with people.
When you do make special connections, it's super important to make sure you're offering your full attention. "Showing up emotionally and physically makes them feel valued and heard, strengthening your bond," Dr. Stratyner says. She also recommends checking in to remind them you're there, and genuinely celebrating their wins (which, separately, is definitely a sign of being a girls' girl). "If a friend is going through a tough time, offer to help in any way you can," she adds. "Sometimes, simply acknowledging their struggle and offering your time can make all the difference."
"The best news about friendship is that Gen Z values authenticity above just about any other factor in friendship," Dr. Gilboah says. "Gathering the courage to be your true self and [mixing] that with empathetic listening will make you a sought after friend."
What's your favorite way to get to know new friends? Here are 10 Thought-Provoking Questions To Know Close Friends More Intimately!
Amazon is back at it again with another massive deals event just in time for the holidays: their Black Friday and Cyber Monday events will run from November 21 to December 2! You’ll be able to save on products across virtually all categories, from beauty and fashion to toys and home appliances. Amazon said they’ll be dropping new deals every day throughout the events, but we’ve uncovered the best early Amazon Black Friday deals you can shop right this second.
Peek at some of our fave deals in this post:
- Carote Non Stick Pots & Pans Set54% off
- Levi's Women's 94 Baggy Jeans53% off
- KitchenAid Artisan Mini 3.5 Quart Tilt-Head Stand Mixer26% off
- Oura Ring Gen 3 Heritage Fitness Tracker22% off
- Squishmallows 5-Inch 10-Pack Plushies38% off
- Cuisinart Indoor 12-Inch Pizza Oven68% off
We’re so pumped for Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and gifting season in general. Here are the best deals from Amazon to help you prep for the holidays! We’ve gathered gifts for everyone on your list.
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Carote Non Stick Pots & Pans Set
Entirely outfit (or just upgrade) their cookware setup with this convenient set of non-stick pots and pans! The 11-piece is currently down to $55 from $120.
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Levi's Women's 94 Baggy Jeans
Baggy jeans are where it's at. Your fashion-loving family member will adore these Levi's as a gift!
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Sony WH-CH520 Bluetooth Wireless Headphones
These sleek headphones (now 37% off) are perfect for music lovers on the go.
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Echo Dot with GE Smart Lightbulb
Play music, command Alexa, write lists, and control your space's mood lighting all with this Echo Dot. It's $12 off right now!
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Dream Pairs Platform Mini Boots
We love these UGG boot dupes. They make the ideal gift for the teenage girl(s) in your life!
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KitchenAid Artisan Mini 3.5 Quart Tilt-Head Stand Mixer
Anyone who considers themselves a home baker will appreciate the art that is this KitchenAid stand mixer. It's normally $380, but right now, it's going for $280.
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Levi's Men's Sherpa Lined Trucker Jacket
Keep him lookin' fresh with this structured jacket that wears well with any (and all) winter layers!
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Oura Ring Gen3 Heritage Fitness Tracker
This sleek fitness- and sleep-tracking ring stylishly blends in with any lifestyle. It's 22% off right now, saving you $100!
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Amazon Basics Expandable Hardside Suitcase
Luggage always seems to be one of those things that needs an upgrade. This Amazon Basics one protects its contents with a durable hard shell. Plus, it's easy to take anywhere, thanks to the spinning wheels.
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Bissell Little Green Cordless Multi-Purpose Portable Deep Carpet & Upholstery Cleaner
Step up your cleaning game with this easy-to-use machine from Bissell. It can work out dirt and grime from the toughest carpets and upholstery – even your car!
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Squishmallows 5-Inch 10-Pack Plushies
Looking for cute stocking stuffers? Amazon's your one-stop shop!
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Cosori 9-in-1 Air Fryer
If you have an air fryer, you already get the hype. If you don't, this model is great for beginners!
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Hasbro Gaming Taboo Board Game
We adore having this classic game on-hand for every family gathering. The holidays are about to get lit!
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Braun IPL Long-Lasting Hair Removal Tool
This 15% off tool would be perfect for anyone who is curious about beauty tools and at-home hair removal.
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Keurig K-Supreme Single Serve K-Cup Pod Coffee Maker
Coffee is a must. Save 42% on a brand-new coffee maker with this deal!
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InfinitiPro by Conair FloMotion Pro Hair Dryer
This pro-level hair dryer is sleek, easy, and gets the job done flawlessly.
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Cuisinart Indoor Pizza Oven
This pizza oven was $400, but it's only $130 right now ahead of Amazon Black Friday! Pies all around!
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I've officially entered my flannel pajamas era because these 30+ year-old bones get cold. If it's below 63 degrees at home, my teeth start chattering...much to minor annoyance of my very warm-blooded fiancé. Usually I snuggle next to him like he's a bear when I'm that cold, but I can't have my way all the time. So, cute and cozy pajamas it is!
As luck would have it, I have the deets on the best winter options that may find their way to your front door. Let's go down the list, shall we?
The Best Winter Flannel Pajamas To Buy ASAP
- The Best Plaid Flannel Pajamas: Wondershop Plaid PJs
- The Best Christmas Flannel Pajamas: Koality Holiday PJs
- The Best Flannel Shirtdress: Flannel Nightgown
- The Best Kids Flannel Pajamas: Pretty Pink PJs
L.L. Bean
L.L. Bean Scotch Plaid Flannel Pajamas
Plaid and the holidays are the first thing that comes to mind when I think about flannel pajamas. This top and pants set set is super soft because of its Portuguese cotton fabric. It''ll almost feel like you're enveloping yourself in a cozy blanket sans any potential mishaps when you need to use the restroom.
Hanna Andersson
Hanna Andersson Holiday Flannel Nightshirt
I love ditching pants when it gets too warm under my weighted blanket, but I think it'll be 10x easier to button up a flannel nightshirt. This lightweight beauty is still going to give you the cozy feel without restricting your legs AND you'll be able to iron it on cool (opposite side only).
Old Navy
Old Navy Flannel Pajama Shirt Dress
Again with the flannel shirt dress option? Um, yes. This option is for anyone who loves an orange and purple moment instead of green. Also, the hemline is just a tad longer than the prior one so you won't be as likely to flash anyone when you're putting the finishing touches on your Christmas tree's skirt.
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Wondershop Plaid Flannel Pajamas
I just had to include a pair of red and white flannel pajamas because they scream "Christmas" without any of the obvious decor designs. I love that they're a part of a matching family set so you can schedule a pajama-themed sleepover on Christmas Eve.
The best flannel pajamas for the person who's already started decorating for Christmas
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P.J. Salvage Koality Holiday Flannel PJ Set
Have you ever seen a bunch of koalas get ready for Christmas? Not to worry because this flannel pajamas set is ready to change that for you. They're literally all over the top and tie-waist bottoms in all their festive glory. There's a koala climbing a decorated Christmas tree and a mom plus her baby hanging out in a cute wreath! What's not to love?
Bed Head
Bed Head PJs Hit The Slopes Portuguese Flannel Pajamas
Keep it traditional and celebrate the evergreen vibes of the holidays. These pajamas are especially for those who usually hit the slopes but can't this year. You'll feel like you're close to the holiday activity you love the most without completely having any FOMO feelings.
Pajamagram
Pajamagram Apres Ski Flannel Pajamas
If you do plan to go skiing this year outside of The Sims 4 Seasons Expansion Pack — yes, I know you're still binging that game — here's a cute pair of flannel pajamas you have to wear at least once. Just look at the cute gondola lifts!
The best flannel pajamas if you're a cat mom who loves Christmas
PrintFresh
PrintFresh Flannel Nightgown
I have a special appreciation for the cat distribution system and the lucky moms who find their feline matches because I know how personalized it is. If you and your fur baby are locked in, you absolutely deserve to walk around your space in this jolly big cat nightgown.
The best flannel pajamas for the "I'm just a girl" crowd
P.J. Salvage
P.J. Salvage Ribbons & Bows Flannel PJ Set
If you've memorized No Doubt's "Just a Girl," and love belting it during karaoke night, you'll appreciate this cute ribbons & bows PJ set. The labels are and bows are outlined in red to offset the Pepto-Bismol pink base.
The best flannel pajamas for leopard print lovers
Victoria's Secret
Victoria's Secret Flannel Long Pajama Set
You don't have to wear leopard print in public if you won't want to, but don't be shy about wearing this set at home. You'll feel sultry with your glass of wine, charcuterie board, and remote in your hand.
Aerie
Aerie Off-Duty Flannel Trouser PJ Pants
You could also skip the matching moment and wear your favorite oversized t-shirt with these flannel pants. They're equally cozy and won't feel overpowering if you don't like that much pattern.
The best flannel pajamas to wear if pants make you feel itchy at night
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Adore Me Plus Size PJ Set
If you're not a fan of pants or nightgowns, these plus size pajamas will get you right! The shorts have an elastic waist so you'll have plenty of breathing room. Also, the entire set is made of cotton and satin which sounds like a great time if you ask me.
The best flannel pajamas if you crave the simple things in life
J.Crew
J.Crew Flannel Pajamas
It's not fair for my minimalist girls to not have a pair of flannel pajamas to choose from so this is for you. They're 100% cotton, have an elastic waist, and are machine-washable! Did I mention they're also loose-fitting if you're uninterested in your pajamas hugging your body? Oh yeah, these are for you.
The best flannel pajamas for kids
GAP Factory
babyGAP 100% Recycled Flannel Pajamas
Call it my mom instincts, but I can't forget kids! These cute plaid flannel pajamas are a great option for them to wear on Christmas Eve and the morning they get to open their presents. They're made of a soft jersey knit that'll keep up with a kid's moves, including bounding down the stairs or doing somersaults off the couch because they're excited for the holidays.
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Petite Plume Kid's Flannel Pajama Set
There's at least one princess in the family and it may be your little sister, niece, or daughter. No matter who she is, she'll appreciate these pretty pink flannel pajamas. They're free of harsh chemicals and are flame-resistant in case little one likes to sit close to the fireplace.
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With the holidays now approaching almost eerily quickly, you might already be feeling slightly uneasy about the family stresses that are bound to be on your plate (along with delicious Christmas cookies, of course). Spending a lot of time face-to-face with family can dig up old arguments or squabbles that everyone may have forgotten during the rest of the year.
Learn the 8 best ways to support your friend while they're in the middle of family drama
You’re not the only one dealing with the drama, though, and while your own family issues might feel somewhat out of your control, there might be more you can do to take the edge off the stress that your friends are feeling in anticipation of holiday gatherings. Keep scrolling for eight expert tips for how to best offer support to your most stress-ridden BFFs.
1. Listen without judging if your friend reveals an ongoing argument about a family will
Being a good listener is one of the most basic — and yet most important — things you can do as a friend 365 days of the year, but when tensions run high near the holidays, those listening skills become all the more crucial. You might even consider resisting the urge to speak, like, at all. “Be a good listener and don’t give advice,” licensed marriage and family therapist Katie Ziskind says. “Supporting someone doesn’t mean that you have to fix their problem. Instead, truly being supportive means giving a hug when someone is crying and being a caring friend.”
2. Prep your pal to expect drama if your uncle's invited his new girlfriend and ex to dinner
Rather than reassuring your friend that things at family celebrations may not be as bad as they fear, trust what they know about the situation and help them wrap their head around what’s to come. This should minimize the stress for them in the long run. “If you expect it and it happens, situation normal,” certified life coach Susan Golicic tells us. “If you expect it and it doesn’t, well, then, a bonus!”
3. Help your bestie make a plan in case their fight-or-flight mode gets triggered
Going into any situation with a plan almost always feels better than going in unprepared. Per writer, speaker, and healing expert Alisa Zipursky, a helpful plan might include specific check-in times, a code word that indicates your friend needs extra support, and ideas for creating healthy boundaries with family members who make them feel especially triggered. “The idea is to make asking for help as easy as possible,” Zipursky says. “Making sure a proactive plan is in place well before someone enters the stressful situation can help relieve some of the anticipatory anxiety.”
4. Check in often by sending your friend periodic texts
Licensed counselor Maria Inoa recommends that you prioritize regular touch-base texts over the course of whatever event is causing your friend the most stress. It’s not about solving the conflicts or taking away their pain. Instead, you can focus on offering gentle reminders that you are thinking of them and are available if they need you.
5. Create a new tradition that revolves around you and and your bestie's favorite Christmas movies
If your friend’s family holiday celebrations don’t exactly inspire positive feelings about the occasion, why not help them establish some better associations? Licensed clinical professional counselor Anna Poss suggests planning a “low-stress, fun way to celebrate with each other before or after the actual holiday.” Get a seasonal movie night or cookie swap on the calendar before everyone leaves town to hang with family. Those cozy vibes may help dull the negative, anxious feelings.
6. Write down words of affirmations for them to look at
Grab some pretty stationery and put your love and support on paper for your BFF. “In the note, remind her how strong, courageous, and capable she is,” licensed psychotherapist and life coach Diane Petrella says. “Let her know how much you love and admire her and how grateful you are for her friendship. Write whatever you think your friend needs to hear to feel supported, grounded, and loved.” Remind her to hide the note in her pocket or bag so she can read it whenever she needs a little extra TLC over the course of the holidays. You can even go one step further and send them home with a care package, per therapistShannon Thomas.
7. Invite your friend to your family celebration
If things have gotten so bad with your bestie’s family that she wants to steer clear of their celebrations entirely, you may want to invite her to join you and your crew instead. Even if she opts to decline your invitation, it will mean a lot to her to know that she has choices. If your friend does take you up on the offer, Mountainside Treatment Center‘s family wellness manager Tina Muller recommends that you try to incorporate some of her favorite traditions into your holiday schedule.
8. Keep your phone nearby if your friend needs to talk about everything that happened
“Before an event with possible family issues even happens, schedule a time not long after to see the friend,” marriage and family therapist Sarah Epstein suggests. “Now you’ve become the light at the end of the tunnel for them.” Be prepared to be a listening ear over dinner or a workout session so your pal can vent about everything that’s gone on and (hopefully) be ready to move on from there.
How do you and your pals support each other through the not-so-fun parts of the holidays? Tweet us @BritandCo.
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