A Woman's Place: Females in Farming


“A Woman’s Place” is a new series spotlighting the women making bold moves in male-dominated industries.

“‘You don’t look like a farmer,’” Katie Morich recalls being told recently by a 10-year-old girl who she met while on vacation. When Morich asked the girl what she thought farmers look like, she replied: “‘A boy.’”

Morich is a 5’ 2”, 25-year-old woman. Showing us around Bowery Farming, the indoor farm in New Jersey where she works, she tells us, “She doesn't see me as a farmer. But it felt really powerful for me to be like, ‘Hey, I do this. You could do it too.’’’

Morich and her 27-year-old colleague Tara O’Heir are two of 35 full-time employees at Bowery Farming (14 of whom are women), a tech-savvy operation that uses a heavily-controlled environment to produce fresh greens all year-round. Tucked away inside a nondescript industrial park, the space doesn’t look like your average farm, but then again O’Heir and Morich aren’t your average farmers. They aren’t spending their days under the blazing sun, dressed in overalls and operating tractors. Instead, you’ll find them wearing sterilized uniforms, using electronic tablets under LEDs.

O’Heir, an agricultural scientist, is focused on boosting production and maintaining crop quality, while Morich, a modern farmer, is responsible for day-to-day farm operations.

Neither of the women grew up with dreams of becoming a farmer. Morich went to school for psychology. After graduation, she was on the hunt for a job she was passionate about and “fell in love in love with the bigger picture of how [farmers] can help change the world and how [they] can change the food issues that we’ve been having.”

O’Heir has a similar story. She was studying to become a doctor until she stumbled upon a hydroponic greenhouse course in college and “completely fell in love.”

Even though they both strayed from their original paths, neither seems to have any regrets about diving into a notoriously difficult industry.
















“I really do love being a woman farmer. I think it’s super cool and that’s why I got into agriculture,” Morich says proudly. “I think we’ve just been told for so long that we couldn’t do it that it’s ingrained in our heads. We think, ‘I can’t do this job because it’s labor-intensive,’ but that’s not the case.”

O’Heir and Morich make a point to say how empowered and constantly encouraged they are by their all-male bosses to experiment with new farming practices, but their situation isn’t exactly reflective of the state of the agriculture industry overall.

OLD MACDONALD'S INDUSTRY


For decades, American farmers have had the reputation of being old white dudes – and in this instance, the “Old MacDonald” stereotype actually isn’t far off from the reality.


According to the 2012 Census of Agriculture (the USDA’s most recent report on the industry), more than 92 percent of the country’s 2.1 million farm owners are non-Hispanic whites with an average age of 58 years old.


Women own a dismal 13 percent of the farms that make up the agriculture industry, though the exact number of women working within those farms is unknown. What we do know is that the few women-owned farms tend to be close to 50 percent smaller than male-run operations. And with lower acreage comes a smaller profit. Only five percent of farms run by women break $100,000 in sales. In fact, 91 percent of their farms make less than $50,000 in annually


Most of the women we spoke to for this story weren’t even aware of the notable size difference between male and female-run farms. Some figured that gender-biased financial restrictions like who does and doesn’t get approved for loans play a role in the disparity, while others suspect it may point to a fundamental difference in the way women prefer to farm.

DOING THINGS DIFFERENTLY

Is there a difference in the way men and women farm? Documentarian Audra Mulkern thinks so.

For the past five years, Mulkern has been traveling around the country, interviewing and photographing female farmers as part of her Female Farmer Project. Through her work, the Washingtonian has become a narrative proxy for women in agriculture, pushing for more representation in the industry and collecting an oral history along the way.

Mulkern describes women farmers she’s met as “incredible problem solvers” who “tend to cooperate with nature as opposed to figuring out how to grow something where it isn’t meant to be growing.” She recalls one woman farmer from her home state of Washington who purchased farmland with the intention of raising sheep for wool and meat. But as she started up her operation, she went through hell trying to maintain the meadow-like environment sheep need in a place that’s naturally more of a forest.

Mulkern says, “She realized at some point that she was fighting nature to have sheep where they don’t belong.” Rather than attempting to beat Mother Nature into submission, the farmer decided to shift her initial plan to accommodate what would work best with the land in question. She sold the sheep and instead invested in pigs, which thrive in the forest.

“It’s an interesting relationship that women have with nature,” Mulkern tells us, which she says informs women’s approach to agriculture.

Despite women’s intuitive relationship with nature, Mulkern believes there are a handful of reasons why women remain underrepresented in farming. Echoing Katie Morich’s interaction with the 10-year-old, Mulkern says, “When there are no pictures or stories of women who have done [farming], you don’t know that you can. I really felt that if I could flood Google Images with photos of female farmers, then women would believe that they could farm.”

Mulkern started The Female Farmer Project after a trip to the farmers' market, where she noticed there was a woman behind almost every stall. “‘Why did I have a preconceived idea that men are farmers?’” she remembers asking herself. After that, she left her job in tech, had a friend teach her how to use a camera, and got to work.

As the project evolved, her mission grew beyond just establishing visibility. “[Now] the whole goal is to get stakeholders and people in policy to pay attention and see what was going on, because for the most part, women have been left out of consideration when policy is written.”

“When there are no pictures or stories of women who have done [farming], you don’t know that you can."

Interestingly, for a lot of the women she meets, farming is an encore career. “These are often highly educated professional women who are now farming because they have a desire to feed their community,” she explains — a trajectory that almost exactly describes the journeys of Bowery’s Morich and O’Heir.

“These are first-generation farmers. They’re not inheriting these huge pieces of land and farm operations,” she adds. “They’re starting from scratch.” And so – perhaps for financial reasons – they typically tend to lease land as opposed to buying it outright.

“For a long time there were no loans available for that kind of [first-generation] farming,” Mulkern says.“They’re leasing the land and they need a loan to get processing facilities or an affordable refrigerator – something they can take if they end a lease and move to a new piece of land.”

Slowly but surely, Mulkern is noticing incremental, progressive shifts in the industry. Loan policies are beginning to reflect this kind of practice. She also notes that the upcoming 2017 USDA Census of Agriculture (not yet published) even changed some of the language to be more inclusive toward the ways women are farming.

Previous censuses only recorded a farm’s primary operator, which was (and is) typically a man. This time around, the questionnaires have opened up to include as many as six different primary operators. “That’s how women are farming today. They’re creating partnerships,” Mulkern says.

A SEAT AT THE (COMMUNAL) TABLE

Whether because of systemic setbacks or fundamental differences, the smaller size of female-owned farms often results in a close connection between farmers and their local communities, since most end up interacting directly with their clients. Their produce is likely to be found in the neighborhood co-op, in nearby restaurants, or at the local farmers' market.

That’s exactly where you’ll find Jenny Hauf on weekends. The eastern Massachusetts-based farmer runs Muddy River Herbals, a one-acre patch of land where botanicals are transformed into tinctures, oils, and dried blends.

For Hauf, building community and a connection to her land are both vital to the way she farms and a leading reason why she got into farming in the first place.

“I strongly believe that a large part of the reason women make such great farmers is because we tend to be such good nurturers,” she says. “I prefer [to farm small] because of how deeply intimate it is. It is so fulfilling to know individual plants and to get my hands deep in soil on a daily basis.”

Hauf’s business partner is also her life partner, so her farming community is quite literally her family. But even the workers she’s not married to are considered more than colleagues.

“On our farm, it really does feel like a little bit of a family,” she says. “I really craved having relationships with people that loved our herbs. I wanted them to be a part of it in a really natural way.”

At Bowery’s farm, when we ask Tara O'Heir what she values most about the profession, she echoed a similar sentiment. “I like thinking about how [our greens] are going to end up on someone’s table and how someone’s going to love it. We’re touching the community. We’re bettering someone or a family’s life. I find that really powerful.”

THE FUTURE OF FARMING

Two hundred miles from Hauf’s slice of botanical paradise, Liz Dowd tends to crops at Brooklyn Grange Farm on the roof of an office building in New York’s Long Island City. With her 10-month-old, Jude, strapped to her chest, Dowd gives us a tour of a balmy greenhouse where most of the farm’s plants are enjoying a cushy start to life.

In a few weeks, all that’s in here will be planted outdoors. It’s her favorite and most challenging time of year. “Tomatoes are the divas,” she says with a smile. Then she points to the budding tray of greens and tells me those are the most likely to thrive when they’re moved into an open-air environment.

Dowd is the farm manager at Brooklyn Grange Farm, New York City’s largest, soil-based rooftop farm. From the moment we meet, it’s clear that Dowd is at home on this one-acre oasis above Long Island City. But as comfortable as she is farming in part of the country’s largest city, her occupation is still a bit of a foreign concept to the rest of New York.

“[People’s] initial reaction is that [they’re] confused [by my job]. People are perplexed about what it means. They think I work in a community garden or plant flowers. And then I think it’s a lot of excitement. People have a lot of questions and want to see pictures and their minds are a little blown that we’re up on a roof.”

Maybe they’re confused, but surely in a progressive city like New York they’re supportive of her profession, right? “You’d think that,” she says. “I’m always surprised at how that’s not the case. There are a lot of preconceptions and microaggressions.”

She explains that before she began managing the farm, a man held her position. Dowd says that nowadays, she’ll walk through the office building of which the farm sits atop, and some of the neighbors will stop to tell her that – while she’s doing a great job – her predecessor cultivated more produce.

“They’re not quite realizing what they’re saying,” Dowd says. “But the undertone is ‘You’re doing a great job, but that guy, he was growing tons more.’ When, statistically, the yields of this farm have increased over 25 percent [since he left].”

The general public may still be slow on the draw, but Dowd only sings praises about her colleagues at the farm. “I have not forgotten that it’s a very unique experience to be working with another male who will give me the power drill and asks me to do the carpentry job or load the heavier things. We as women are really treated as equals here.”

Sitting with Dowd in her rustic, wooden office (okay, it’s really more of a shack with wifi), looking out over the Manhattan skyline, it feels like we’re witnessing the future of farming. Dowd’s baby is nestled in her arms, sipping on a bottle, while we talk about how to get more women involved in the industry.

Close the wage gap. Adapt old policies to modern practices. Eliminate tired gender stigmas. But then Dowd looks down at her son and offers up the purest suggestion there is: “Really, we just need to raise feminist men.”

Written by: Cortney Clift

Sexis often considered taboo...even though it's a natural human need and desire. But — thanks in part to the entertainment industry — it's slowly becoming normalized in the many different shapes and sizes it comes. From quickies in random places to passionate lovemaking, the actors in shows like Bridgerton and Sex and the City show us the sides of sex we're remiss to talk about. And while Phoebe Dynevor is no stranger to a sex scene (literally HOW did she get through filming with Regé Jean?!), she took this "taboo" subject matter to another level in the opening scenes for her new movie Fair Play.

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Emily (Phoebe Dynevor) is seen getting busy with her fiancé Luke (Alden Ehrenreich) at a wedding. While that's not necessarily gag-worthy, there's one determining factor that could be — she's on her period. Not only that, but there's oral sex involved that Luke happily engages in. It's a highly erotic and graphic scene that has the potential to leave viewers reeling, but Emily and Luke aren't grossed out by what they're doing. They're too caught up in bliss to think there's something wrong about being pleasured during one's period.

I'll be honest — younger me would have immediately ran for the heels at this description because...ew. I'm not personally comfortable with the oral aspect of the scene, but I'm familiar with putting down a towel during period sex. It's all about preference, and no matter where you stand on the period sex issue, it's nice to have a partner that doesn't treat you like a walking science experiment during your period.

What did Phoebe Dynevor say about filming the sex scene in "Fair Play"?

She's actually happy the scene was filmed, and thinks director Chloe Domont did an excellent job showing that sex doesn't have to be skipped the week of someone's period. She told Ellethat male directors would've questioned the necessity of it. "We as women know these things happen all the time, but why are we not seeing it on our screens," she asked.

When does the period sex scene appear in "Fair Play"?

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Trigger warning — this sex scene appears at the very beginning of Fair Play. Talk about starting off with a bang!

What is the plot of "Fair Play?"

Fair Play centers around the work culture of a hedge fund company that begins to take a toll on a couple. In a deeper plot analysis, Ellereports that Dynevor's character Emily has a secret engagement to her coworker, but "she gets a surprise promotion, which causes issues in their relationship outside of work." It takes a deep dive into the gender norms that can begin to stifle a relationship if both people have different views of how things are supposed to fall in place in and outside of the home.

What else has Dynevor said about "Fair Play"?

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She pointed out that it's an excellent marker for how far society has to go in terms of respecting women. She also told Elle, "We have this idea that world is so progressive...but there's still so much progress to be made and so many things that haven't been done or still taboo." To drive this point further home, Dynevor said, "The thing that was really interesting to me is how modern feminism is clashing with traditional masculinity...Emily is really trying to make herself small to make him [Luke] feel masculine."

This is true because we're seeing the effects of attacks on reproductive and maternal health. Not only that, but there's still an expectation for how women are supposed to carry themselves whether they're mothers or not. As far as we've come, the work to fully recognize that women aren't monolithic and deserve to have our voices, time, and efforts respected is ongoing. That we shouldn't have to shrink so that men don't feel threatened or emasculated. That us asking to be appreciated and respected has nothing to do with attacking men's self esteem.

Until we get to that point, films like Fair Play will continue to exist to push the conversation forward.

When can you watch "Fair Play"?

Fair Play will premiere in theaters September 29, 2023 and will be available to stream on Netflix beginning October 13, 2023.

Watch The Trailer For "Fair Play"

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Last night I realized I was pregnant during the height of the pandemic and the 2020 election cycle, but I didn't have any self-care practices in sight. I was chronically stressed and spent way too much time on social media when I should've been finding ways to ground myself. After a tough four years of navigating everything from motherhood to starting my career, I've finally started utilizing gratitude journaling as a tool to get through tough days.

I don't know how you may be feeling today, but I've created journal prompts you can refer to when you're scared, anxious, unsure of the future, and more. They're not meant to replace meditation or seeking therapy, but they are here for moments you need to check in with yourself.

A Gratitude Journaling Idea For When You're Worried About The Future

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Write Down 5 Things You're Grateful You Can See, Touch, Hear, And Smell

This is actually a practice I picked up in therapy to help redirect my anxious thoughts. It's something I often refer to when I'm fixated on the future and things that might happen. Any time you feel yourself not being present because you're worried about what's next, focus on things that are immediately in front of you or around you.

For example, here's what's reminding me to be present:

  • I can hear one of my favorite gospel songs playing and the subtle humming I'm doing.
  • I can see two lime green books on my desk.
  • I can smell the clean laundry my fiancé took out of the dryer.
  • I'm touching the keys on my keyboard as I type this.
Although they seem small, I'm grateful they're helping to keep me rooted in the present moment. So, what are you grateful you can see, touch, hear, and smell today?

Gratitude Journaling Idea For When You're Experiencing Sadness

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Write Down 3 Things You're Grateful For Today

Practicing gratitude when you're sad isn't so you can pretend the sadness doesn't exist. It's a very real emotion that calls for us to be curious about why we're feeling that way. However, if you feel like you're 'stuck' in your sadness, you can try writing down 3 things you're grateful for right now. Again, they don't have to be grandiose. They just have to make sense to you.

You could be grateful for:

  • Eating a delicious meal
  • Having a good night's sleep
  • Hearing your favorite song at the right moment
  • Morning snuggles with your pet or toddler
  • Having access to binge watch your favorite TV show when you need to escape reality for a bit

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Write Down The People You're Grateful You Can Rely On

My hope is that everyone has at least one person they can rely on during difficult moments in life. I know everyone doesn't have huge villages for different reasons, but I'd rather focus on who is there.

This gratitude journaling idea doesn't require you to go in depth about why you're grateful for the people in your corner unless you want to. You can simply write their names down if that's all you have the bandwidth for.

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Recount A Memory That Always Makes You Smile

When in doubt, think about a moment that was hilarious or filled you with joy. It can be from your childhood, first year in college, or even your wedding day! The one memory that always makes me smile is from an interesting moment I told one of my uncles he looked like Santa Claus. I was around 5 or 6 years old, so it was a super innocent comment, but still it was hilarious nonetheless. No one in my family has let my uncle or me forget that moment. It's small, but it's one of the memories I'm grateful I can remember when I'm feeling sad.

A Gratitude Journaling Idea For When You Feel You're Not Doing Enough

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Write Down 1 Thing You've Grateful You've Accomplished

I know some journal prompts ask you to list multiple things you've recently accomplished, but I've found that makes me a little more anxious that necessary. If this sounds like you, I see you and think it's just as impactful to be grateful for one thing you've done that you're proud of. It could be as simple as:

  • "I had the strength to get out of bed today after wanting to do nothing more than hide under the covers."
  • "I did laundry and put everything away."
  • "I made myself a meal instead of ordering lunch like I usually do."
  • "I stuck to my budget this week."
  • "My presentation at work or school went really well."
  • "I made that scary phone call I've been putting off."
  • "I went for a walk around my neighborhood or local park."

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I think we can all agree that the Netflix sensation To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before has firmly cemented itself as a classic teen movie (and one of the best rom-coms) that will continue to get better the more we watch it. Needless to say, Peter Kavinsky (Noah Centineo) captured our hearts with his swagger, his symphony of “whoa”s, and that back pocket spin. But truth be told, 16-year-old Lara Jean (Lana Condor) and the Covey sisters became our #WCWs with their solidarity, healthy family dynamic, and emphases on self-love and self-confidence. That goes hand-in-hand with how proud they are about their Korean heritage and how it’s become such an integral part of their identities. That sense of confidence and deep pride emanates from their characters throughout the film and is manifested in everything they do.

Despite their high school and middle school settings and accompanying cliques, rumors, and Instagram posts, the Covey sisters are lacking in teenage angst or sisterly rivalry, quite comfortable in driving each other to school and spending the night watching reruns of The Golden Girls without lamenting about their — er, Lara Jean’s — lack of a social life.



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(L-R) Janel Parrish as Margot and Anna Cathcart as Kitty in To All The Boys I've Loved Before.

“I love The Golden Girls and I love hanging out with you,” Lara Jean tells 11-year-old Kitty, who canceled her own plans so her sister wouldn’t be alone. But boyfriend or not, these sisters put themselves and each other first. They are more content with loving each other and themselves than finding love — or at least needing it for validation.

Before oldest sister Margot leaves for college in Scotland, she [SPOILER ALERT!] breaks up with her longtime boyfriend Josh. She doesn't want to be tied down to a relationship and she's unwavering in her decision. This decision goes some way in dismantling the pattern that we’ve seen so many times in pop culture where the girl often gets left in the dust for greener pastures. Don’t get me wrong: Every time I watch To All The Boys I've Loved Before, my heart still hurts for Josh and I want the boy next door to have his own happy ending. But Margot’s decision to be selfish about her college experience is not cold or harsh; it’s a power move, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

And while Margot jets off for a new adventure, Kitty deliberately sends out the love letters Lara Jean wrote to all her former crushes, including Josh. She gives Lara Jean the push she needs to get out of her shell and act on her feelings, thereby jumpstarting the premise of the movie. Not only does Lara Jean start a fake relationship with Peter to throw off Josh so Margot doesn’t get upset, but she unequivocally shuts down all conversations with him. She refuses to give even the tiniest thought to any lingering feelings she may have. It’s less of an adherence to an arbitrary girl code and more of a natural decision that her love for Margot trumps any adolescent feelings she’s had for Josh.

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(L-R) Anna Cathcart as Kitty, Janel Parrish as Margot, and Lana Condor as Lara Jean in To All The Boys I've Loved Before.

What the movie so powerfully captures here is Covey girls’ sense of camaraderie — the proverbial “sisters before misters”— that invites viewers to understand that this story, at its core, is a celebration of sisterhood. It’s a rom-com of sisterly love (and the extents the Coveys will go for one another) more than it is of romantic love with cute teen boys.

To All The Boys I've Loved Before doesn’t use gimmicky storylines of sibling rivalry or slut-shaming (Peter is quick to shut that down) to turn this into a caricature version of high school, nor does it perpetuate Lara Jean’s seemingly invisible persona to maintain the shy vs. popular girl dichotomy. In fact, she’s stronger and bolder than Genevieve and Peter — two of the most popular people in school — combined. Lara Jean might not be very experienced, but from the beginning, she’s sure of herself, comfortable in her own skin, and does not ever feel the need to conform to a high school status quo to make a place for herself. When Genevieve makes a snarky remark about her platform boots, Lara Jean is quick to remind her they're vintage. As Peter says, she doesn’t let Gen steamroll over her.

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(L-R) Lana Condor as Lara Jean, Anna Cathcart as Kitty, and Noah Centineo as Peter in To All The Boys I've Loved Before.

Lara Jean is scared of getting hurt, but she makes Peter work for her trust because she knows her worth. She’s insecure about his feelings for her, but not about whether or not she’s good enough for him. As far as she’s concerned, they’re on equal footing; she makes that quite clear when she suggests that if he’s only dated one girl, he’s not quite the expert he thinks he is. Though the fake romance is his idea, the ball has been in her court since the beginning. She’s delineated her boundaries and decided when to give him a chance and express her true feelings to him. Both scenes of her strutting through the lacrosse field to talk to Peter — when she’s good and ready, mind you, with her back ramrod straight and her head held high — are proof of how self-assured and in control she chooses to be; her popularity or lack thereof has no bearing on that.

Lara Jean’s character may have moments of peak embarrassment in this movie, but she carries herself with confidence and owns her actions, unapologetic about who she is. Much to our chagrin, this movie is fictional, but Lara Jean’s confidence is contagious and all-too-real. While there aren’t enough Peter Kavinskys in the world for all of us, To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before sets a wonderful standard of self-love and confidence that are not bound by social hierarchy. As much as we love falling in love, our love stories start with ourselves.

What's your favorite part of To All The Boys I've Loved Before? Let us know in the comments!

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In all honestly, all I look forward to during the holidays (other than my fam) is the pie. There's pumpkin pie. Apple pie. Chocolate pie. Sweet potato pie. But more than any other dessert, pecan piejust gets me. I'm salivating as I'm thinking about it!

Anywho... making an entire pecan pie can become a whole ordeal very quickly. That's where these delicious pecan pie bars from Chahinez with Lifestyle of a Foodiestep in. They're simple to make, plus provide the ideal eating experience – pecan pie bars easily qualify under finger foods, and they are downright addictive.

Let's get into the recipe!

Ingredients For Easy Pecan Pie Bars

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For the shortbread crust:

  • ½ cup butter
  • ¼ cup granulated sugar
  • ¼ teaspoon salt
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 1 cup all-purpose flour
  • 2 tablespoon cornstarch

For the pecan pie filling:

  • 2 eggs
  • ¾ cup brown sugar
  • ½ cup light corn syrup
  • ¼ cup heavy cream
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • 1 teaspoon cornstarch
  • 1 & ½ cup pecans chopped

How To Make Easy Pecan Pie Bars

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  1. Preheat the oven to 325 F, then line an 8x8 pan with parchment paper and set aside.
  2. In a large bowl, add in the flour, salt, cornstarch, and mix. Add in the cold butter and work it into the dough with your hand or a pastry cutter until cookie dough forms. Press it onto the prepared baking pan and bake for 20 minutes.
  3. In a separate large bowl, mix the eggs, brown sugar, light corn syrup, heavy cream, salt, vanilla extract, and cornstarch until combined. Stir in the pecan pieces.
  4. Once the crust is done baking, pour the pecan pie filling on top of the crust and bake for 30-35 minutes. The edges will brown a little, and the center will be barely jiggly.
  5. Remove from the oven, and let cool completely before transferring to chill in the fridge for at least 30 minutes. Slice the bars and serve.

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The rush of the holidays and planning the perfect holiday feast is no joke — finding the best Thanksgiving cocktails, roasting a delicious turkey and, of course, getting creative with leftovers — it all makes it hard to kick back and relax. We think you should find a moment for yourself (or with a few pals) and celebrate the wonderful flavors we love so much this time of year.

Instead of going for the tired pumpkin spice latte, think more along the lines of a boozyfall cocktail. Picture bourbon cocktails with cinnamon, caramel, apple… you know, all the autumn classics. We don't recommend sampling these Thanksgiving cocktails all in one night, but let's just say it'll be difficult to only choose one. We can't wait to try these Thanksgiving cocktails!

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Nespresso White Russian

Combining booze with coffee makes it somewhat more acceptable to knock one back during that late-morning, gathering-before-dinner time period, no? We love any excuse to get cozy with Nespresso, and this White Russian concoction will have you feeling all the warm, Thanksgiving-y vibes.

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S'moretini

Whether it's too cold to sit outside and snack on some s'mores, or you don't have a fire pit to roast marshmallows (although Gilmore Girlsdid show us how to use our stovetops...), this Thanksgiving cocktail is a great alternative to the sticky dessert. The chocolate andgraham cracker coating on the rim is just the cherry on top!

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Rum Toddy

This cocktail recipe is great because there's a good chance you already have the majority of the ingredients in your kitchen! Just put everything you need in a thermos, stir it up, and you're good to go. Not only will toddies keep you warm on cold days, but they're good for sore throats and fighting the chills if you're feeling a lil' under the weather.

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Cranberry Pear Ginger Fizz

Swap your cranberry sauce for a cranberry cocktail complete with ginger beer, pears, and limes. Make sure you keep some whole cranberries and rosemary sprigs for the finishing touch. Even if you've never made cocktails before, this drink is so easy that anyone can make it!

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Clementine Whiskey Smash

Sweet clementine juice and rich whiskey are the perfect match in this fun Thanksgiving drink, plus you can adjust the amount of whiskey that goes in depending on how strong you'd like the drink. Go easy for a fresh taste or add a bit more if you want something warmer.

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Wild Turkey Cocktails

Now, we know what you're thinking: "there is no way I'm drinking a cocktail that has turkey in it." But you don't have to worry because the 'wild turkey' in this recipe actually comes from Wild Turkey American Honey! Make one for an afternoon apéritif or an evening drink once the kids have gone to bed. Now the only question is, who let the (wild) turkeys out?!

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Pumpkin Spice Hot Chocolate

We're suckers for all things pumpkin spice, and Thanksgiving is the perfect time to indulge in a little PSL-inspired boozy bevvy. This Pumpkin Spice Hot Chocolate is super easy to make — and even easier to devour.

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Cranberry Is The New Black Cocktail

From cranberry sauce to cranberry garlands, this red berry is definitely a holiday season staple – and now you can add it to yourbar cart! Think of this drink as an upgraded vodka cranberry, with a more sophisticated look. If you're not able to get black vodka, just sub black food coloring to achieve the same finished product.

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Chai Hot Toddy

If you're not a huge pumpkin person, then you have to try this spiced, creamy Thanksgiving cocktail while you wait for eggnog season. Your classic chai gets a makeover with some spiced rum and cinnamon-infused milk (YUM!) that give it a whole new holiday edge. You can also experiment with different spices and adding in a shot of espresso to change things up.

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Apple Cide-car Cocktail

As far as we're concerned, apple cider season should last all winter long. This easy cocktail only has four ingredients (apple cider, brandy, Cointreau, and lemon juice) which means there's no excuse to not have this on your Thanksgiving menu! Need a simple alternative for the under-21 crew? Nix the alcohol, but keep the glasses for an upscale apple cider mocktail.

Brit + Co

Convergent Opera Cake Cocktail

This cold brew concoction is perfect for getting you buzzed in more than one way. It's the perfect after-dinner dose of caffeine you need to avoid a food coma, but it'll also give you all the Thanksgiving feels.

Brit + Co

Cranberry Zinger Jam Jar Cocktail

We love jam and we love cocktails, so why not put them together? This cranberry zinger (which is basically the queen of mixed Thanksgiving cocktails) will certainly make you feel all kinds of bubbly. All you gotta do is pour your favorite gin and cranberry juice over ice, and then top with a spoonful of your go-to jam. Top it off with ginger ale, and you're done!

Brit + Co

Pomegranate Ginger Beer Cocktail

Ginger has just the right amount of warmth to keep you toasty during holiday gatherings. This delicious ginger beer concoction will be a total crowd pleaser at all your Thanksgiving and Friendsgiving gatherings.

Wholefully

Two Ingredient Apple Cider Mimosas

If mimosas (especially apple cider mimosas) don't scream fall brunch, we don't know what does. Since it's only two ingredients, you don't have to worry about trying to put together a complex Thanksgiving cocktail recipe while also preparing dinner. Sounds like a win-win.

Dos Hombres Mezcal

Dos Hombres Hot Cider

Add 1 gallon apple cider, 1 tbsp whole allspice, 1 tbsp whole cloves, 1 sliced orange, 1-inch sliced fresh ginger, 3 cinnamon sticks, and 4 star anise to a pot, and simmer for about 30 minutes before adding 1.5 cups of Dos Hombres Mezcal to spike the sip!

Home & Plate

Salted Caramel Apple Martini

Martinis make us feel sophisticated and mysterious, but there's one thing that's no mystery: cocktail hour will never be the same after you serve this sweet, tart drink to your family and friends. All you *really* need is a little caramel vodka and apple cider, and you're good to go. Don't forget to chill your martini glasses beforehand to keep things cool.

JoLynn Shane

Apple Cider Mojito Recipe

Mojitos might usually be a summer drink for you, but the addition of apple cider makes this one of the best Thanksgiving cocktails you could sip on. The cinnamon simple syrup in this recipe is totally worth the extra prep time. This drink is also loaded with fresh mint and cinnamon sticks for a fall flavor combo you can't miss.

Joyful Healthy Eats

Apple Cider Moscow Mule

Everyone knows that what makes a Moscow mule a true mule is the ginger beer. Well, with this easy Thanksgiving cocktail, what makes it is the hard apple cider instead of the regular kind.

Inspired by Charm

Apple Pie Sangria

Apple desserts are a must-have during the holiday season, and this apple pie-inspired sangria might just become our top pick. This is the *perfect* Thanksgiving cocktail to put out in a big pitcher and sip on during dinner, while watching the football game, or even when you're stuck cleaning up dishes.

Baked by Rachel

Apple Cider Whiskey Smash

This is an ahh-mazing seasonal twist on a traditional whiskey drink. With just three quick ingredients (whiskey, lemon juice, and apple cider) you can even make a big batch of this Thanksgiving-y drink *before* the holiday whirlwind begins.

Cookie + Kate

Cinnamon Maple Whiskey Sour

We consider November 1 to be the official start of maple season. Even if whiskey isn't your thing, it might be after sampling this cup of Thanksgiving goodness. A little maple syrup goes a long way when you're working with this recipe!

Dos Hombres Mezcal

Dos Hombres Naughty Toddy

Mix together 1 oz Dos Hombres Mezcal, .5 oz fresh lemon juice, .25 oz honey, 1 oz whiskey, and 2 oz natural apple juice together before heating it up on the stove to make this Thanksgiving cocktail. Garnsih with a lemon wheel, and prepare to be warm AF.

Gimme Some Oven

Cranberry Margaritas

Cranberries might be reminiscent of Christmas, but cranberry sauce is basically a Thanksgiving delicacy… which is why we had to give this seasonal margarita our stamp of approval. The squeeze of lime and the salted rim puts this cocktail over the (very delicious) edge, and if you want to get extra fancy with it, there's also a recipe to make your own homemade cranberry juice.

Holly & Flora

Bourbon + Spiced Pear Cocktail

With herbs like sage and thyme topped off with allspice and cinnamon, we're totally in love with this unique Thanksgiving cocktail. Not only does the ginger liqueur give this drink a little kick, but including agave means that it's totally sugar-free.

Baker by Nature

Cranberry + Cinnamon Whiskey Sour

If you're really craving some sweetness, this is the exact drink you should go for. It calls for two cups of cranberries on top of two cups of sugar to yield four cocktails. It's safe to say you'll be perked up after just a few sips.

The Sweetest Occasion

Salted Caramel White Russian

This cocktail is creamy, sweet, and totally dessert-like, which makes it a great addition to post-dinner conversation. You could literally forget the pies and cobblers (but what's Thanksgiving without some pie?) and just drink this instead. Don't worry if you're dairy-free – just swap the caramel sauce for a coconut-based caramel instead.

Slow Cooker Spiced Wine

Okayyy – this warm drink gives us all the fall feels. Red wine and brandy warmed in a crockpot with spices and orange sounds like total heaven to us. Not to mention that you can leave this to simmer throughout the day, so your guests can help themselves and you don't have to worry about it! (viaWell Plated)

Domesticate Me

Spiced Cider Margaritas

For many, the lime margarita is a staple on Taco Tuesday, but maybe it's time to mix it up? We think YES. Cozy up by the fire with a glass of this spiced cider that's spiked with tequila and garnished with cinnamon sticks and apples. That — and the cinnamon sugar rim — sounds right up our alley.

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This post has been updated with additional reporting by Meredith Holser.