12 Perfect Gifts for the New Moms in Your Life

1. Remy

This French name may remind you of the lovable cartoon rat from the movie "Ratatouille," but its popularity has still taken a hit.

From 2023 to 2024, Remy, which means "rower" and was historically used to honor St. Remigius, dropped a whopping 277 spots.

2. Guy

Despite the charm of this lighthearted yet masculine name, Guy is on the verge of extinction.

It was most popular during the 1950s, with usage steadily declining ever since then. Guy fell 990 spots from 2023 to 2024, landing at number 2,718 last year.

3. Liv

Short for Olivia, which means "olive tree," this name is Latin in origin and reached its height in 2016.

However, its short length and elegance seemingly haven't been enough to keep it relevant. Liv tumbled 257 spots from 2023 to 2024, landing at number 970.

4. Randall

With Old English roots meaning "wolf shield," Randall was once a beloved boy's name. But ever since peaking in 1960, this baby name has continued on a downward trend.

There appeared to be some hope in 2023 when Randall saw a rise of 63 spots. Nonetheless, it was still number 1,753 in 2024.

5. Belle

You may associate the name Belle with the classic film "Beauty and the Beast." However, this French name, which means "beautiful," has witnessed a pretty consistent downturn since 1880.

It has dropped 242 spots since 2023 and sat at number 984 in popularity in 2024.

6. Danny

Stemming from the more formal name of Daniel, which means "God is my judge," Danny is a classic and friendly name. Even so, it's faded in recent years.

Danny was most popular during the late 1940s and early 1950s. As of 2024, it sat at number 558.

7. Carolyn

Taking inspiration from the names Carol and Linda, which mean "joyous song" and "pretty," respectively, Carolyn was most popular in 1942. A total of 14,794 baby girls per million were given this name that year.

This figure fell to 140 baby girls per million in 2023, landing Carolyn at number 1,568.

8. Arnold

Last but not least is Arnold, a name with Germanic roots that means "eagle power."

According to BabyCenter, it was most used in 1916, but in 2024, it ranked number 3,328 in terms of baby boy name popularity.

1. Lack Of Visits

We all know that life moves at lightning speed nowadays. Between romantic relationships, work, and starting a family, it's easy to let weeks or months fly by without visiting home.

Past generations viewed visits as a cornerstone of family life. Phone calls can suffice, but nothing really compares to seeing your relatives face-to-face.

Even though it can be tough to prioritize visits against your busy schedule, remember that showing up for your parents means a lot, even if it's just a weekly or monthly Sunday dinner.

2. Moving Away

Moving out is one of the biggest milestones that all young adults look forward to. However, moving out is one thing, and moving away to a brand-new city or state is another.

It can be extremely tough for parents to cope with the sudden distance. They may feel more disconnected from your life than ever before and suffer a sense of loss.

That's why it's important to stay in touch with updates and make your parents feel involved in your journey. Call more, send photos, and even have a weekly video chat. Your bond can stay just as strong with the help of today's technology as long as you hold up your end of the bargain.

3. Prioritizing Your Career

Millennials (and now Gen Zers) have been taught to hustle. In the wake of a more competitive job market than ever, professionals have to chase career advancement to stay relevant.

Unfortunately, though, the drive to succeed can sometimes come at the cost of family time. This is a tough pill to swallow for many parents, who might've been raised with the belief that family gatherings are non-negotiable.

Plus, if you frequently miss get-togethers or one-on-one visits in favor of your work, your parents may feel unimportant and disappointed in your choices.

We'd be lying if we said that striking a balance between career and family is easy. Nonetheless, the first step is acknowledging your parents' feelings and working to carve out space for them, whether that's meeting up for lunch or squeezing in an after-work phone call.

4. Only Calling When You Need Something

Speaking of calling home, it's natural to turn to your parents for advice. After all, they've been there for you in the past and will always be your parents.

Yet, if they only hear from you when you need something, that's not fair. Your parents might start to think they're just your safety net as opposed to a priority.

Transactional communication will only make your parents feel as if your love for them is conditional. So, try to reach out for other reasons, like sharing good news or simply checking in on how they're doing.

5. Ignoring Family Traditions

Family traditions are more than just routines. They foster connection and continuity across generations, creating experiences and stories that you and all of your relatives can share.

If you opt out of these traditions, it may seem like you're stepping away from the memories and history that your parents worked hard to create.

I get it: we all have a certain holiday tradition that maybe drives us nuts. Still, as frustrating as it might be, it's sometimes best to just go along with it. Your parents, sadly, won't be here forever, and you may look back on the tradition fondly once it officially comes to an end.

6. Putting Friends Over Family

When you truly bond with a great friend group, they can become like your chosen family. Even so, consistently choosing to spend time with your friends over your parents can be really hurtful for them, especially if it becomes a noticeable pattern.

You may inadvertently send the message that your parents aren't a priority but rather something you fit into your schedule when it's convenient. Keep this in mind and try to show up for them, even in small ways.

7. Not Being Financially Independent

Everyone has the goal of becoming financially independent. Regardless, many people find themselves still relying on their parents for help, and it can create a sense of guilt or frustration that goes unspoken.

Each time you ask for financial assistance, your parents might be reminded of their own challenges and the sacrifices they've made to support you.

Your parents want to see you succeed and become self-sufficient, not because they want to quit lending you a hand, but because they hope you can stand on your own two feet.

In today's economy, it's understandable why so many adults are struggling, so have open conversations about finances with your parents and make it known that you're grateful for their help.

8. Sharing So Much On Social Media

Finally, do you chronicle your every move and achievement on social media? After sharing all your milestones online, you may forget to tell your parents about your life.

Technology can create a divide between you and your parents, especially if they aren't avid users or able to keep up with your life on their feed.

Don't forget to reach out and update them on your relationship status, career changes, travel plans, and any other major developments before you tell your followers. It'll help your parents feel much more involved.

1. Beaded Jewelry

Universal Thread Seed Bead Necklace Set

Once upon a time beaded jewelry was a popular status symbol among the "it girls" in middle or high school. It was a nostalgic trend that's come been recycled over the years, but it's finally time to put it rest. Why?

It's time to wear jewelry that doesn't feel so juvenile.

2. Excessive Charm Braclets

Anthropologie Western Monogram Charm Bracelet

Sometimes we fondly remember the days we used to wear chunky charm bracelets that featured our initials, hearts, stars, seashells, and more. You usually could hear us before you saw us because our favorite accessories made a lot of clinking noises. Maybe we're traumatized by how loud our bracelets each time we moved our arm during tests, but we're finally over wearing excess charms. That's not to say this style is 100% "outdated" though!

We're all in favor of this trend, but we'd rather see you choose 1-3 meaningful charms instead of squeezing 10+ on a chain link.

3. Cuban Link Bracelets

Pandora Timeless Pavé Cuban Chain Bracelet

Jewelry trends are supposed to be fun and cute, but this one is giving us "Mob wife" energy...you know, the trend from 2023? We know it's been a popular style that some people gravitate towards, but we prefer to see you wearing bracelets that indicate you're in your "soft girl era."

4. Chunky Gold Earrings

Alexis Bittar Molten Gold Puffy Teardrop Earrings

The quickest way to age yourself is by making makeup mistakeswhile wearing the heaviest chunky gold earrings you own. Unless your goal is to walk around like you're auditioning to be an extra in a spoof of an '80s or '90s comedy, don't ever pair the two together.

As a matter of fact, give your ears a break from the heaviness of this trend.

5. Thin Rings

Gorjana G Ring Set

Thin rings seem like they're perfect for the set of Severance, but how practical are they in real life? We're afraid you'll spend your hard earned money on a cute ring set only to lose one or two of them while doing your daily activities.

Then again, we're a little biased because chunkier rings are taking center stage for their ability to infuse personality in your everyday casual outfits.

6. Seashells

Ettika Private Island Assorted Shell Necklace

Shell necklaces remind us of that one tongue twister that we just couldn't ever get right: "She sells seashells by the seashore."

For obvious reasons, this jewelry trend gets a hard NO from us — it's gaudy and doesn't really complement many personal styles. Even if you swear it does, we'd rather see you wear a pair of shell earrings instead of a statement necklace like this.