Here’s Where We Are With the President’s Transgender Military Ban

After President Trump tweeted in late July that the military would ban transgender people from service, the Pentagon waited for official word from the President on how to implement the request, since direct orders generally don’t come by way of social media. As of last Friday, however, President Trump issued a memo to Secretary of Defense General James Mattis to sort out the best plan of action to removing trans service people from the military, leading many to believe that their time had come.

Late Tuesday night, however, Mattis announced that for the time being, trans folks in the military would not be removed from active duty. However, his announcement is more complicated than it may seem, as he has not clarified whether the ban is only temporarily on hold, or permanently finished.

As Slatepoints out, Mattis is not going out of his way to discredit or disobey the President’s memo from last week; what he is doing, in fact, is following the memo. In section 1(b), the President requests that both Mattis and the Department of Homeland Security complete a thorough study to determine whether “terminating that policy [allowing trans folk to serve in the military] and practice would not have the negative effects,” which some have pointed out may follow from removing people from active duty.

What the President is essentially asking the DOD to do is investigate how effective trans service people are, what the outcomes might be if they are removed from active duty and the overall cost to the government for this ban. According to one report from The Palm Center, removing trans folk from the military could actually cost over $960 million dollars, which calls into question exactly why the President issued the request in the first place.

Back when the initial tweet storm happened, the President argued that the cost of trans military members was far too high for the government to continue to support. However, a quick scan of the numbers (and a study by the RAND group) shows that at most trans service people cost the military $8.4 million dollars a year in medical costs. If the Palm Center study is accurate, it would take more than 114 years at $8.4 million dollars to meet the cost of removing trans folk in one fell swoop.

Slate also clarifies that the memo’s language is designed in a way to create a sense of legitimacy for the President’s initial tweets and request. Though the memo technically asks the DOD and Homeland Security to “study” whether or not to uphold the request, academic and author Nathaniel Frank explained that the DOD has no ability to stop any final decisions from the Oval Office.

It remains to be seen exactly how Mattis will be studying the effects of trans service members out side of reports that have already been done, but he may very well come back to the President by saying the ban will not be beneficial to the military. Until that happens, however, we will have to wait until Mattis compiles his findings for the President.

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Listen up, chefs: we thought Jeremy Allen White was officially off the market after months of dating the iconic Spanish pop star, Rosalía, but it looks like they're no longer an item! Jeremy was just spotted kissing one of this co-stars from The Bear, bringing their on-screen romance to real life.

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Jeremy's on-screen romance turned IRL.

Photos of Jeremy and co-star Molly Gordon (who plays his love interest, Claire, in The Bear) obtained by People show things heating up between the two. The duo had their arms wrapped around each other as they embraced for a kiss. This is the first time we've seen them both linked romantically, and we're honestly shocked and left wondering what happened with Rosalía, who he was going steady with in fall 2023.

Scroll on for a deeper look into all of Jeremy's recent romantic escapades!

Jeremy Allen White's Steamy Dating History

First, there were the Jeremy Allen White and Selena Gomez dating rumors.

An anonymous submission to DeuxMoi at the beginning of July 2023 set off speculation that the two A-listers were “in touch.” The tip noted that Selena and Jeremy had allegedly met at a Vanity Fair cover shoot and hit it off ever since.

The gossip was neither proved wrong *or* right, though in hindsight, it didn’t hold up too strongly. Not long after rumors began circulating, the Haim sisters posted on Instagram about "single summer," picturing Selena alongside a Taylor Swift-backed girl gang.

Then, a big PDA fest with Ashley Moore.

Things were steaming up on the streets of Los Angeles when Jeremy Allen White was spotted engaging in some serious PDA with model and actress, Ashley Moore in August 2023. How they met is a total mystery, but seeing them together via paparazzi pictures was jaw-dropping – especially considering Mr. White was seen with his estranged wife and kids the week prior. Yikes!

Next, Jeremy publicly thirsting over Alexa Demie.

He’s at it again! In August 2023, Jeremy Allen White scrolled past a video highlighting Alexa Demie’s new campaign with Calvin Klein and did what any fan would do – he left a comment (though minimal): “Wow.”

To publicly show his affection (or rather, attraction) via Instagram is a whole thing in itself. King.

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In fall 2023, Jeremy Allen White and Rosalía were going steady.

“Rosalía and Jeremy Allen White have recently started dating,” a source told Us Weekly in November 2023. “They started out as just friends, but things have turned romantic recently.”

Alexa, play "That Should Be Me" by Justin Bieber!

The duo had been sighted side-by-side a few times. TMZ shared photos of them together at a late-October 2023 farmer's market and even sharing a smoke break in a parking lot. Romantic!

That budding romance came after what we call White’s hot boy summer – he was out and about on the streets of Los Angeles amidst his separation from actress Addison Timlin. Throughout their divorce, White was rumored to be involved with Selena Gomez, thirsting over Alexa Demi on Instagram, and was publicly spotted smooching Ashley Moore.

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Despite all of this, Jeremy was spotted being friendly with his divorced ex.

In what TMZ was calling "the friendliest divorce ever," Jeremy Allen White and his now-ex Addison Timlin had been seen doing family activities together amid his romantic antics. The pair shares two young daughters, which is likely why they're still seeing each other from time to time. Where Jeremy's head is, we can't say for sure, but we do know he's out there acting young, wild, and free.

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There are so many plot lines in Gilmore Girls season 1 through A Year In The Life, that it's hard to imagine adding anything to the story. But every time I think about a prequel about Emily Gilmore, or the spinoff about Jess Mariano we never got, I can't help but think about what could have been. I mean a story about a 16-year-old Lorelai running off to Stars Hollow and raising Rory as a teenager? That is absolutely the kind of TV I'd eat up (alongside any one of these delicious Gilmore Girls recipes). Well, the latest Gilmore Girls spinoff idea has me spiraling just because of how good it is. And the fact it centers two completely underrated characters: Paris Geller and Lane Kim.

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"Ok who would’ve wanted to see this show [about Paris and Lane?]," one Reddit user asks. "Two intelligent beautiful girls making their way in the big city? Just getting out of college? Roommates? Girlfriends?"

Liza Weil as Paris has always been a standout Gilmore Girls character for me, especially after learning she originally auditioned for Rory and the writers liked her so much, they created Paris just for her. And Keiko Agena gives such a heartfelt and emotional performance as Lane Kim that she's widely regarded as one of the most beloved Gilmore Girls characters, period.

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"I honestly think GG would’ve been so much better had the three girls—Rory, Lane, and Paris—hung out more with each other," another user adds, while a third says, "I wish Lane could have gone to a community college in New Haven or something (idk if new haven has a cc, but tv magic ✨). They could have shared an apartment and we could have the wacky adventures of them."

Running around the city, going to parties, and going through the woes of dating and career life? That's the life Lane deserved!

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Gilmore Girls fans have never quite loved the way Lane's arc from repressed teen to wife and mother played out (neither did creator Amy Sherman-Palladino for that matter), and it's even more heartbreaking when Lane admits that "all of a sudden I'm this over-burdened mother. I barely got to do it Zack, I barely got the chance to be a person."

Brit + Co writer Aleena Malik questions, "Given how difficult [Lane's] upbringing was, couldn't the show have given her a win by having her be the one who gets to follow her dreams?" I, for one, would have loved to see Lane actually, permanently move in with Rory and Paris instead of just staying with them for a few weeks.

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And if Paris and Lane reached their mid-20s, realized how selfish and out-of-touch Rory can be, and moved to Hartford? More power to them. Both women are so smart and passionate about topics like music and writing that they'd never run out of things to talk about. Plus, Paris would encourage and drive Lane forward in her goals, while Lane would help Paris loosen up.

Because who are we kidding? Rory is always off in her own world, thinking about boys, books, or college. And Paris and Lane definitely deserve someone who will give them as much care, love, and intention as they offer their own relationships.

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We have a serious appreciation for all things creative, like these plus-size Halloween costumes, and we have a hunch you’ll love some of our newest finds, too. Afterward, if you still haven’t decided on which costume to wear this Halloween, gather your group of besties and get their opinion — or, better yet, pick out a group Halloween costume, and you can all dress up together! Here are 40 of the most curve-lovin’ (and seriously hot) plus-size Halloween costumes you’ll find out there this season.

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Cruella de Vil

Cruella de Vil will always hold a special place among our most-feared villains, right alongside Voldemort and Ursula. After all, she’s going after puppies! But on Halloween, the celebration of the gruesome and morbid, this evilness equates to fabulousness, and we’ll more than forgive you for dressing up like her… just this once.

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Maleficent

Channel your deepest, darkest powers and channel your inner Maleficent this Halloween. “So you see, the story is not quite as you were told.”

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Cozy Deer

Wait, so we can look cute *and* be toasty-warm?! We’re sayin’ yes to this fuzzy zip-up.

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Sexy Stewardess

Get ready for liftoff in this flight attendant costume. If you’re a travel-lover, this is the perfect way to bring your passion into your costume.

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DIY Jessica Rabbit Costume

This has to be the ultimate curvy bombshell character to channel on Halloween. The dress, gloves, hair, and makeup are bold and will definitely put your bangin’ bod front and center. (via Brit + Co)

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Sexy Kitty

Frisky attitude not included. This plus size Halloween costume might look simple, but it’s anything but basic.

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Flapper Girl

There’s nothing as fun — and a little dangerous — as the glitz and glamour of the ’20s. Throw on a long string of pearls or do your makeup to look like a ghostly flapper for that extra creative edge.

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DIY Ursula Costume

We’ll always be a sucker for classic Disney costumes. And if you want to give Ursula that extra-special take, you can follow this relatively simple DIY for the costume contest win! (via Brit + Co)

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Sea Siren Mermaid

This is — hands down — one of the best mermaid costumes we’ve ever seen. From the form-fitting metallic mermaid “tail” to the bustier top, this is for sure a look to emulate if you want to flaunt your curves.

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Storybook Alice

Down the rabbit hole you go this Halloween. You never know what’s going to happen when you channel this fairytale classic!

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Sea Siren

You had us at gold, sequins, and tulle. Oh, and we’re always down to rule the sea!

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Ninja

Pop off this Halloween in a comfortable disguise that’s both sleek and sexy.

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Beauty And The Beast Belle

We’ll always love our classic Disney princesses, especially this beauty.

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Minnie Mouse

You don’t need a Mickey to look fly as heck in a retro-inspired Minnie Mouse getup.

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Empress Divine

One of the best reasons to dress up as an ancient Egyptian is obviously the cat-eye makeup.

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Goth Red Riding Hood

Pay homage to one of your favorite fairy tales with a sexy twist. Plus, if you haven’t worn a cape before, you truly haven’t lived.

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Flirty Cop

It may be illegal to impersonate a police officer, but no one ever said a flirty cop was off-limits!

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Cinderella Fairy Godmother

We could all use a fairy godmother, albeit notthis scheming one from Shrek. Still, this is a hilarious costume, and we’re definitely eyeing that wand and wig combo.

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Commando Cutie

Serve your country by wearing this retro army green uniform.

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Harley Quinn

We’re impressed with the mismatched thigh-highs and color-coordinated armbands on this plus-size Halloween costume.

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Cozy Bat Costume

The name of this costume says it all. If you’re in the mood to prioritize comfort, you’ll feel extra-snuggly in this cozy bat costume.

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Ghostbuster

If you loved the all-female Ghostbusters as much as we did, grab your friends and go as the whole crew. The best part? On Halloween, there will be plenty of monsters to bust, which makes a great conversation-starter!

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Queen Bee

Everyone at this year's Halloween party will be buzzing about you in this flattering bee costume. You are the queen, after all!

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Poison Ivy

Wow, here’s a sexy take on the evil Poison Ivy.

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Oktoberfest Fraulein

The beer maid costume is always a safe choice. It’s cute and classic, and you get to wear pigtails.

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Sexy Nurse

They’ll need a nurse after you knock ’em out with this costume!

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Snow White

If you’re going to wear this outfit out on the town, you’ll definitely have at least seven admirers following you wherever you go.

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Pinup Sailor

Sail the open seas with this cute and comfy sailor costume. This retro getup is all about the accessories!

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Miss Muerte

Another way to celebrate Halloween is to celebrate the dead. Do it in style with this awesome costume.

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Cozy Skeleton

If you’re into traditional bones, this comfy number will surely scare the living dead out of you.

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Grease Pink Lady

This is the perfect Halloween costume for when you don’t really want to dress up. Flats? Check! Awesome jacket to keep you warm? Double check!

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Supergirl

No one is going to mess with you in this costume, and you just might feel faster than a speeding bullet.

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Spanish Senorita

With plenty of sass and a whole lot of ruffles, this costume will have you dancing for joy.

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Mrs. Incredible

Be your own superhero with this sleek Elastigirl costume. You would look totally incredible in it.

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Dark Alice

We wouldn’t drink the tea that this Alice serves. While we do love the original blue that Disney’s Alice wears, we are really digging this all-black dress too.

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Batgirl

Trick-or-treat in the name of justice! Grab Superman and bring him along too, because you two are friends now, remember?

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Hippie

Keep this Halloween totally tubular by donning this adorable retro dress with go-go boots and a fun '70s eye makeup look!

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Friday The 13th Miss Voorhees

If you’re team Jason, then you need to buy this sexy number. While we’re not sure who would ultimately win this fight, we’re sure this outfit is already winning our hearts.

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Justice League Wonder Woman

While Superman is cool and all, we are particularly fond of Wonder Woman. She’s a badass chick that we are ready to represent. Flying an invisible jet doesn’t hurt, either.

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Cat Burglar

Feeling feisty? Go classic cat with a twist. Meeeow.

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Norman Mailer, I'm pregnant! This might be a memorable line from an equally memorable Gilmore Girls episode, but it's now also a reality for one of the show's stars because Milo Ventimiglia is expecting his first child! The actor married model and entrepreneur Jarah Mariano in the fall of 2023 at a tiny, private ceremony (a move that was very Jess Mariano of him), and on September 29, Jarah announced she's pregnant!

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Jarah Mariano announced her pregnancy with an Instagram post featuring a surf session with Milo Ventimiglia. In the photos, Jarah is sitting on a surfboard wearing a brown bikini top, polka dot bikini bottoms, and a pink lei. "Baby on board!" she says in the caption.

After his time on Gilmore Girls, Milo played patriarch Jack Pearson on NBC's This Is Us, and told US Weekly in 2017 that "I think I’m built to want a strong family unit. “It will happen when it happens. I’m not out seeking it. It’s just kind of, I’m present in the space in my life that when it presents itself and it’s right, I’m sure it will work out.”

And it looks like it worked out at the exact right time.

Does Milo Ventimiglia have a wife?

Yes, Milo Ventimiglia & wife Jarah Mariano got married in the fall of 2023, and Jarah recently posted some new photos from the special day. "Last year I married my best friend," she says. "There aren’t enough words that exist to describe all the special qualities that make him who he is. AlI can say is that I am grateful for the life that we have together and the happiness that we have created🤍 Aloha wau iā 'oe my husband Milo."

"Things are good," Milo told Extra in February 2024. "We've had relationships that have come and have gone and then you get to a point where you kind of meet your match and meet someone that inspires you in a way different than anybody else...I'm grateful for her and I’m happy to have arrived in this moment, so married life is nice."

If you're loving the celeb baby news as much as we are, check out the latest news on Hilary Duff's Baby #4!

Happy October! It's officially Halloween season, bringing a bit of magic to the air as the crisp autumn leaves fall. Whether you're already decorating your home for the upcoming holiday, sipping on a fall beverage, or just enjoying a book in the cool breeze, now is a great time to dig into what makes you feel excited and alive! To understand how you can harness this energy, your weekly horoscope is officially in, bringing plenty of insights for how to make the most out of this lovely era. Read on for your sun and rising signs!

Astrology Overview For Your Weekly Horoscope

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This week features a Solar Eclipse on October 2 in the sign of Libra. Solar Eclipses signify change and growth, offering a powerful opportunity to let go of what no longer serves you. Since this eclipse occurs at 9 degrees of Libra, now is the time to seek balance and harmony in your life. Embrace Libra qualities — who doesn’t need more balance, harmony, justice, or fairness?

Mercury has entered Libra and will remain there until October 12. With Mercury involved in this eclipse, our communication styles can benefit from the harmonious, fair-minded nature of Libra. Look for ways to compromise, ensuring that everyone wins. Be mindful of giving too much and communicate with kindness and grace. I hope this energy is prevalent in the world as well — I’m a bit of a dreamer.

Venus is in Scorpio until October 18. This is a time to deepen your commitments to your passions. Superficial relationships will feel unfulfilling, so seek connections on a deep, soulful level. Be open to transformative interactions of all kinds.

Key Dates For Your Weekly Horoscope

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  • October 2 — Solar Eclipse in Libra
  • September 26 - October 12 — Mercury in Libra
  • September 22 - October 18 — Venus in Scorpio

Read Your Weekly Horoscope For Your Sun & Rising Sign

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Aries (March 21 – April 20)

This is a good time to go inward, Aries. Listen to your intuition and ask your spirit companions for guidance. Something you’ve been carrying from a past life can be set free. You can identify and heal past wounds, allowing you to move forward authentically. Look for ways to share what you’ve learned with others.

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Taurus (April 21 – May 21)

How is your health, Taurus? Connect with your body and listen to its signals. Get back to basics — there’s no need for elaborate measures to achieve your health goals. Your relationships may be intense, but they're also profoundly rewarding. Pay attention to sacred connections and transformative conversations.

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Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

Allow yourself to shine and get creative in the boldest, most joyful way possible, Gemini. Aim high with your dreams. Communication is highlighted this week, so leverage your considerable skills. If you have a project in mind, this is a good time to plan and start. While financial success is possible, take your time and have fun in the process.

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Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

Focus on family, home, and self-nurturing, Cancer. If you tend to prioritize others over yourself, this week offers a chance to find balance and harmony. Self-care is essential for you to be the nurturer you want to be. If you’re athletic, consider restarting your exercise routine or rededicate yourself to your sport; a physical outlet will help you better handle impatience or frustration.

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Leo (July 23 – August 23)

If you have siblings, this is a great time to communicate with them, Leo. Resolve any past difficulties directly — don’t sweep issues under the rug. While face-to-face conversations are ideal, consider writing a letter or scheduling a virtual meeting. I'd remind you to practice Non-Violent Communication in case things get tense, and be sure to use words that promote harmony and equanimity. View the situation with compassion — compromise is key, and this Libra energy can help you find it.

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Virgo (August 24 – September 23)

Your mind will be sharp and able to process information quickly, Virgo. However, resist the urge to act hastily if you need to make corrections. Take your time with decisions and consult a lawyer if signing contracts. Look for growth opportunities in your career. If you’ve been acquiring new skills, it’s an excellent time to present them to your superiors. If you haven’t expanded your skill base, take that class or seminar.

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Libra (September 23 – October 22)

With the solar eclipse in your sign, you have the opportunity to embrace balance and harmony in your relationships. Engage in difficult conversations you may been avoiding. Clear misunderstandings and foster deep, meaningful discussions. Use your natural ability to create a calm and beautiful environment where everyone feels safe. Be sure to listen actively to others for profound healing. I hope this energy prevails in the world – I can't help but dream big about it.

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Scorpio (October 22 – November 21)

This week, seek allies in your community to navigate the intense energies surrounding the solar eclipse, Scorpio. You may feel comfortable with this intensity but be cautious not to use your power destructively. Avoid drastic actions; consider new approaches to resolve relationship issues. Trusted friends may provide valuable perspectives during this transformative time.

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Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

This week, your focus is on your career. Ensure you’re operating from a stable foundation by prioritizing self-care — nourish your body, stay active, and meditate. A calm nervous system will help you seize unexpected opportunities. Clear communication will provide clarity and purpose in your professional interactions. It’s an excellent week to broaden your horizons.

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Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

Your hard work and focus on your goals will begin to pay off this week, Capricorn. Stay committed and avoid drama, as financial rewards are on the horizon. Channel your ambitions and work steadily but remember to up hold high ethical standards; underhanded actions could backfire. Embrace a philosophical outlook — an open mind will be well received. In love, expect passion, but be wary of potential conflicts. Remember the old saying, it’s better to make love than war!

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Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

Are you planning any travel, Aquarius? Freedom and adventure are themes for this week. While you might feel restless for escapades, remember that you don’t need to travel far to expand your consciousness. Adventures of the mind can take you where you need to go. Take time to learn and broaden your understanding before pursuing new adventures. Gaining skills will give you the tools you need for your upcoming transformations.

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Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

You may have experienced a dreamy or illusory time recently, Pisces. Use what you’ve learned to create something beautiful. Dig deep to uncover profound lessons, and transform these insights into your art. Remember, art takes many forms — don’t limit your expression. Allow your creative process to be a catalyst for you to live on a more profound level. Keep your art private if you want but sharing it with loved ones might have a healing impact for everyone.

Looking for a more thorough reading? Reach out to Tina at SevenSistersAstrology.com!

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