How To Annotate A Book, And Why It's Good For Your Mental Health

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Learning how to annotate a book is way more fun than it sounds, I promise! While annotating was a requirement in many schools, choosing to do it on your own (and with plenty of colorful supplies, of course) turns it into a fun project, rather than a chore. Whether you've read Colleen Hoover's It Ends With Us a dozen times or you're trying out the newest viral rom-com (hello You, Again!), annotating lets you engage with your favorite fictional characters in a whole new way. That's why I talked to two readers — Li Bing (@lislibrary on YouTube) and Kathrin Hennigan (@abitbooked on Instagram) — about why you should learn how to annotate a book and why it's actually super good for your mental health.

    "Reading allows me to experience new worlds and perspectives," Hennigan says. "Growing up as an only child, I found reading especially meaningful for times when I was alone. This has translated into adulthood, making reading both something that pushes me to grow while also providing comfort."

    "I read [for] entertainment, an intellectual challenge, to connect with others, or to learn," Bing agrees. "Sometimes in this era of everything digital, reading can seem antiquated. But I strongly believe that the written word can capture and create stories in a way that something audio/visual cannot. There is something to be said about the physical experience of sitting down with a book, turning the pages, and savoring a story over the course of weeks."

    If you're a book lover who's always looking to expand your reading experience, then you've come to the right place! Similar to the way Powerpoint Parties, theories, and author interviews help us get to know stories more intimately, annotating gets into the nitty gritty of understanding the internal workings of a character. And it might just teach you something new about yourself, too.

    How do you annotate a book?

    Images via Li Bing/@lislibrary on Instagram

    "I annotate as I read by always making sure I have a pen/pencil/highlighter in my hand," Bing says. The only books she doesn't write in are special editions, books that belong to other people, or library books. "I’m so glad to have certain passages from my favorite books easily accessible. I do a lot of self-reflection."

    Hennigan starts by choosing her tools, annotating plan, and the categories she's looking for. "Some people like to create categories as they read, which is so fun!" she says. "I like a bit more structure (as a type-A girly), so, I typically annotate for Quotes, Impactful Passages, Romantic Moments, and Details because these are my favorite parts of books. Finally, I start annotating! I will highlight, underline, notate, and doodle throughout the book for passages that speak to me in my preferred categories. I love the balance of creativity and structure that my annotation process provides, and I love how everyone who annotates can create their own process (or just go with the flow!)."

    Bing also uses post-it notes, plastic tabs, or even takes pictures of pages she wants to revisit. The kind of book she's reading and why she's reading it will determine how she annotates: "Sometimes I’ll write down quotes and page numbers in my notes app or a physical notebook. Unless I'm annotating for a book club or class, I'll just use whatever is most convenient; there is no system."

    The best thing about annotating is that since the experience is totally determined by the way your brain works, what you're looking for, and how you enjoy reading, there's no right or wrong process. If you love internal monologues, underline every time the main character processes new information. Is romance your favorite aspect of a book? Make notes about how the love interests talk about each other, and what that tells you about their personalities. You can also highlight the imagery or motifs the author repeats throughout a book.

    What do you need to annotate a book?

    You can choose one tool to annotate a book, or use multiple! To get started, here's what you need:

    "Some books just have a few underlined passages, while others are covered in pens of all colors and dozens of sticky tabs," Bing says. "Annotating feels creative in the sense that I am coming up with my own responses to the text, in a way curating the parts that I want to hold on to, or make my own, either by writing about them, discussing them, or just rereading them. I also find color coding by theme to be somewhat creative."

    Hennigan also loves to color code, and prefers to choose tools that match the cover of the book she's annotating. The aesthetic you create is one of the most fun parts, and picking colorful supplies will make it as fun to look at in the future as it is to annotate in the moment.

    "Although I tend to just use one colored highlighter throughout the book, I will assign a uniquely colored tab and pen to each category," Hennigan says. She recommends theShuttle Art Gel Pens and Zebra Pen Mildliner Double Ended Highlighter Set to mark up your books without ripping the pages, or bleeding through them (a very important thing to avoid!)

    Is it a good idea to annotate books?

    Image via Kathrin Hennigan/@abitbooked on Instagram.

    "I annotate because it makes reading feel more purposeful, meaningful, and fun!" Hennigan says. While hustle culture has made it more difficult for Hennigan to just sit down and read, annotating lets her rest while also giving her free time more purpose: "It has helped me to slow down and reflect more than I otherwise would, which I love. I see the biggest impacts from annotation on my creative fulfillment and mindfulness."

    "I might choose to annotate books that I predict to be meaningful or impactful," she continues. "I may also annotate books written by my favorite authors (hello, Emily Henry!) or that I predict to be 5 stars. Annotating helps me feel creative because it helps me connect more deeply with the book I’m reading [and] gives me the opportunity to write, color, doodle, and draw in a way that adulthood and my career does not provide. Annotating also helps me dive deeper into my emotions."

    Bing loves to annotate because it helps open up her favorite worlds in a way she wouldn't experience otherwise. "I annotate to understand what I read better and to remember what I read," she says. "I like to engage in a conversation with the author and the text by writing directly on it. It's impossible to remember everything I read, but I'm satisfied if I can easily revisit the passages of a book that affected me most."

    While annotating is a fun pastime in the moment, it's had lasting impact on Bing's life.

    "I've found that the words and ideas I read find their way into my life at some point. Something will happen to me and it will remind me of some passage from One Hundred Years of Solitude or Norwegian Wood, and I'll go grab my book, flip through it, and find the relevant quote I underlined months ago. There’s no way I would remember so much or be able to locate what I was looking for if I didn’t annotate."

    Have you been learning how to annotate a book? What's your go-to read right now? Let us know in the comments and check out our 16 Standout Reads From Jenna Bush Hager's Book Club and 14 Must-Reads From The Oprah Winfrey Book Club.

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    Lead image via Kathrin Hennigan/@abitbooked on Instagram

    While the '90s offered so many wonderful things, and I really do mean so many (y'all remember those iconic '90s toys?!), the decade also offered some major film flops. Considering I was born in ‘98, it may seem like I don’t have a leg to stand on here, but trust me on this one.

    Here are the 10 worst 90s movies that, simply, should not have been made.

    1. ​The Waterboy (1998)

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    I have so much, yet simultaneously nothing, to say about Adam Sandler’s The Waterboy. Sandler unwittingly (as far as I know) mocks a stutter and it seems as though they wanted that to be the film’s funny bone, and when that didn’t succeed, there wasn’t much else holding this movie up. That’s probably why it has a 34 percent on Rotten Tomatoes.

    2. ​Ace Ventura: Pet Detective (1994)

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    Jim Carrey notoriously has a few poorly-rated films under his belt, but Ace Ventura: Pet Detective may take the cake. One of the reasons fans love Carrey is certainly for his range of facial expressions, but it has a time and place, and this film needed more than some quirky facial expressions to save it. The dialogue simply couldn’t be saved by a big Carrey grin, and for that reason, Ace Ventura: Pet Detective is one of the worst films to come out of the 90s. And the movie’s 47 percent RT score isn’t doing it any favors.

    3. ​Major Payne (1995)

    Universal Pictures

    Probably one of the most infamously bad movies of the decade, Major Payne (which has a 29 percent Rotten Tomatoes score) released in 1995 and we’ve never looked back… literally. I don’t know much about comedy, but I do know that delivery is everything, and Damon Wayans did not deliver.

    4. ​Batman Forever (1995)

    Warner Bros. Pictures

    If there’s one thing the 2000s got right, it's the Batman franchise and universe. Unfortunately, the 90s missed the mark. Batman Forever leaned too heavily on over-the-top humor and campiness that it lacked any ounce of character development – something that is very needed in Batman movies, to say the least — which explains its 41 percent Rotten Tomatoes score.

    5. ​Wild Wild West (1999)

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    A diminished homage to the 1965 Wild Wild West show, the 1999 version failed to live up to the original’s tongue-in-cheek dialogue, developed characters, and the western of it all. Its campy tone didn’t win over new audiences and betrayed fans of the original series. All in all, Wild Wild West was a huge misfire, and only earned a 16 percent Rotten Tomatoes score.

    6. ​Hook (1991)

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    I remember being so excited to watch this when I was a young lass, only to have my young self be very disappointed. Hook played far too much on creating a sentimental and nostalgic film that it neglected a plot line. It relied too heavily on honing in on references to the original tale that resulted in a messy plot that was, at the end of the day, confusing. Hook was sadly anything but magical, as is its 29 percent RT score.

    7. ​RoboCop 3 (1993)

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    RoboCop 3 completely deviated from what fans loved best in its original iteration. As most third installments do, RoboCop 3 was as much of a failure as it was a cash grab. It could’ve had something to do with swapping out and replacing the main actor for the protagonist, RoboCop, but what do I know? (The 9 percent Rotten Tomatoes score. That’s what I know.)

    8. ​Mr. Wrong (1996)

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    Bill Pullman’s character isn’t the only thing wrong in Mr. Wrong, which has a 7 percent score on Rotten Tomatoes. While rom coms usually, and obviously, consist of romance and comedy, this film’s plot points appeared manufactured and entirely unrealistic.It’s historically bad, so much so that Ellen DeGeneres (who stars in the movie) has joked about it being a “horrible flop that should have a sequel.” I get the joke, Ellen, I really do, but let’s hope there’s not a shred of seriousness in there.

    9. ​Speed 2: Cruise Control (1997)

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    You’d think Speed 2: Cruise Control would set an example as to why sequels of great, standalone films should not be made, but alas we’re going to be plagued by them for years to come. This second installment lacked everything the first had to offer; the high-octane intensity, the action, the non-stop suspense, none of it was there in the sequel, leading to a film that lacked a real premise and any substance — and that got a 4 percent Rotten Tomatoes score.

    10. ​Barb Wire (1996)

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    I really didn’t want to put this one on the list because I love Pamela Anderson, but it’s only fair, and I cannot be biased. Barb Wire was, and remains, a hot mess with only a 28 percent RT score. There was no real trajectory of any aspects in this film, but particularly the aimless script. Thankfully, Anderson is having a redemption arc with her newest and upcoming film, The Last Showgirl and I’m loving it.

    Did we miss one of your worst 90s movies? Check out our list of The Worst Movies of 2024 — and The Best Movies Of 2024!

    Trader Joe’s, though very tempting with their vast array of sweet treats, is truly a secret weapon for eating healthy and sustaining a healthy diet. TJ’s aisles are packed full of nutritious (yet delicious) options, all of which are often easy to prepare and even easier to devour. Whether you’re focusing on fueling your workouts with protein, cutting back on sugar, or simply eating more whole foods in 2025, Trader Joe’s has plenty of affordable, wholesome finds to keep your diet inspired.

    Below, find the best Trader Joe’s products that make sticking to your 2025 resolutions a breeze!

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    Creamy Dreamy Hummus

    Hummus is an instant snack hack if you're trying to eat a high-protein diet – this $3 one from TJ's boasts a "thick, rich, and exquisitely creamy" texture. Slap it on a wrap or dip in some veggie sticks to give your meal a nice boost.

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    Vegetable Root Chips

    These veggie root chips make a deliciously healthy swap for your traditional potato chips as they're packed with fiber and plenty of color to enjoy!

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    Organic Super Bread

    Though you might not guess it at first glance, this loaf contains whole wheat flour, organic rye flour, organic rolled oats, organic millet, organic pumpkin seeds, organic flax seeds, organic sunflower seeds, organic carrots, organic dried apple, and organic dried banana – that's a mouthful! If your 2025 goal is to eat more whole foods without sacrificing a ton of familiar foods, this is the bread for you!

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    Cut Sweet Potatoes

    These 'taters come already cut, so all you gotta do is toss 'em in some olive oil and spices, bake on a sheet pan, pair it with a protein, and voila! Dinner is served.

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    Organic Dried Ataulfo Mango Slices

    These mango slices make a great healthy snack to enjoy on the go. They taste just like candy, except without all the excess processed sugar.

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    Solid White Albacore Tuna

    Protein fiends already know what's up with canned tuna. It's the perfect base for tuna salads, wraps, and bakes. Plus, one can goes for just $2 at TJ's – stock up!

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    Caesar Broccoli Bake Kit

    This pre-made kit makes getting a side dish on the table super easy and healthy. It comes with all the fixings, like Caesar dressing, crouton crumbs, and Parmesan cheese.

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    10 Minute Farro

    Traditionally, farro takes anywhere from 30 to 45 minutes to fully cook. This bag of Trader Joe's farro defies all tradition and is ready in just 10 minutes! The whole grain is really rich in protein and fiber, so you know you'll be eating healthy when you choose to chow down.

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    Vanilla Bean Whole Milk Greek Yogurt

    Greek yogurt is *the* breakfast hack to rule all breakfast hacks. It's high in protein, plus is typically packed with plenty of probiotics to keep your gut real healthy. Enjoy a heaping scoop with some fresh (or frozen) fruit, granola, and honey to get a tasty start to the day.

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    Rainbow's End Trail Mix Bars

    Healthy snacks can be really hard to track down at TJ's, especially since they have so many sinful goodies on their shelves. Luckily, these trail mix bars exist, bringing a yummy medley of oats, nuts, raisins, and chocolatey bits to satisfy that sweet tooth without weighing you down during the day!

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    Carb Savvy Tortillas

    If you're set on watching your intake of carbs, these tortillas are a must-have. They contain 21% of your daily recommended value of fiber (6 grams each) according to TJ's, and make an excellent addition to wraps, quesadillas, or just as a snack.

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    Organic Brown Rice Cake Thins

    These rice cakes may be thinner than most, but they still boast an enjoyably dense texture, perfect for layering on some peanut butter and banana for an easy, fulfilling snack.

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    Pulled Chicken Salsa Verde

    This fully-cooked chicken is ideal for people seeking a convenient, time-saving meal. The salsa verde flavoring instantly qualifies them for delicious tacos, quesadillas, burritos, burrito bowls, nachos – the list goes on! Just pop it in the microwave for 4 minutes, and boom – time to eat!

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    Perfect Bar Peanut Butter Protein Bar

    This protein bar is called the Perfect Bar because it's literally perfect. The sweetness is at just the right level, the texture is so satisfying, and the high protein content (17 grams) fills you up easily if you're seeking a substantial mid-day snack.

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    Classic Greek Salad

    With this ready-made salad kit, you won't have to think too hard at all about what you're having for a healthy lunch. Feel free to grab 5 at a time, because you will be hooked. Add some chicken or salmon on top to bulk it up with extra protein!

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    Stir Fry Veggie Blend

    Why pick up 5 or more individual ingredients for stir fry when you can just grab this $3 bag, cook it, and call it a day? We highly recommend cheffing this up with TJ's Soyaki sauce and your protein of choice.

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    High Protein Organic Tofu

    One serving of this tofu contains 14 grams of protein, which is higher than what you can typically find elsewhere. Plus, it's certifiably organic, so it's always gonna be clean eating-friendly.

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    Organic Tricolor Quinoa

    Quinoa makes an impressive grain base for bowls and salads. This one boasts a healthy mix of white, red, and black quinoa for some good variety!

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    Crunchy Curls

    These 100% vegan bites are the ultimate movie snack and are way healthier than your average bag of theater popcorn. They're made with lentil flour and potato starch for a superb texture every time.

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    Organic Brown Rice & Quinoa Fusilli Pasta

    This organic, gluten-free pasta delivers 4 grams of protein and 2 grams of fiber per serving, making each meal nutritious as ever.

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    When you're in between episodes of your favorite January TV shows, then there's nothing better than watching new January movies. (Also, I can't believe it's almost a new year already!! Where did the time go?!). Whether you're a tried-and-true movie theater goer, or you love nothing more than a movie night from the comfort of your own couch, these rom-coms, action movies, and horror flicks coming in 2025 are exactly what you need to add to your New Year's Resolutions.

    Here are all the new January movies you can watch in 2025.

    1. Wallace & Gromit: Vengeance Most Fowl — On Netflix January 3, 2025

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    Wallace and Gromit are back! Thank goodness, because there's no other way I would want to start a brand new year. This January movie sees Wallace's new "smart" gnome become way too smart — and a dangerous certain someone might be behind everything. Now Gromit has to battle the most sinister of forces to save the day.

    Wallace & Gromit: Vengeance Most Fowl premieres January 3 and stars Ben Whitehead, Peter Kay, Lauren Patel, Reece Shearsmith, Diane Morgan, Adjoa Andoh, Muzz Khan, and Lenny Henry.

    2. Better Man — In Theaters January 10, 2025

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    This new movie is based on the true story of British popstar Robbie Williams. While examining his rise to fame and his time with boyband Take That, the movie also dives into the highs and lows of fame...all while presenting as a monkey. I'm going to be honest, this movie really confuses me. It's definitely a creative and unique concept, which I've been craving more of, but I'll have to see this movie before I can figure out how I feel!

    Better Man premieres January 10 and stars Robbie Williams, Jonno Davies, Steve Pemberton, Damon Herriman, Raechelle Banno, Alison Steadman, Kate Mulvaney, Frazer Hadfield, Tom Budge, and Anthony Hayes.

    3. The Last Showgirl — In Theaters January 10, 2025

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    Pamela Anderson stars as Shelly, a showgirl who has to figure out what the rest of her life looks like when her show suddenly closes after 30 years. With an incredible cast, a award-worthy performance from Pamela, and music by Miley Cyrus, this is one January movie I literally can't stop thinking about.

    The Last Showgirl premieres January 10 and stars Jamie Lee Curtis, Dave Bautista, Brenda Song, Kiernan Shipka, and Billie Lourd.

    4. Wolf Man — In Theaters January 17, 2025

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    Scary movie fans rejoice! Wolf Man is exactly the kind of movie that'll send shivers down your spine, unrelated to the winter weather. When Blake (Christopher Abbott), Charlotte (Julia Garner), and their daughter Ginger (Matilda Firth) come across a dangerous and mysterious animal, they barricade themselves inside a farmhouse to stay safe. Unfortunately, Blake begins a strange transformation of his own — and puts Charlotte and Ginger in a whole new kind of danger.

    Wolf Man premieres January 17 and stars Christopher Abbott, Julia Garner and Sam Jaeger, Matilda Firth, Benedict Hardie, Ben Prendergast, Zac Chandler, Beatriz Romilly, and Milo Cawthorne.

    5. Paddington in Peru — In Theaters January 17, 2025

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    If you're already dreaming about a summer vacation, you're not alone — even Paddington Bear is headed somewhere warm! In Paddington in Peru, our favorite cuddly teddy is on a quest to find Aunt Lucy...and brings the whole family along for the ride.

    Paddington in Peru premieres January 17 and stars Hugh Bonneville, Emily Mortimer, Julie Walters, Jim Broadbent, Imelda Staunton, Carla Tous, Ben Whishaw, Olivia Colman, and Madeleine Harris.

    6. One of Them Days — In Theaters January 24, 2025

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    Keke Palmer and SZA are reviving the BFF comedy in 2025 and I am MORE THAN READY. When Dreux and Alyssa learn Alyssa's BF has spent their rent money, they have to go on a totally unexpected adventure to keep themselves from getting evicted.

    One of Them Days premieres January 24 and stars Keke Palmer, SZA, Maude Apatow, and Janelle James.

    7. Flight Risk — In Theaters January 24, 2025

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    In this new January movie, Downton Abbey's Michelle Dockery stars as a U.S. Marshall who must bring a witness to court and deal with the fact the pilot's really a hitman. (I can't help but wonder what Lady Mary would do in this scenario).

    Flight Risk premieres January 24 and stars Michelle Dockery, Mark Walberg, and Topher Grace.

    8. Inheritance — In Theaters January 24, 2025

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    Maya's life turns upside down when she learns her father used to be a spy...and then finds herself in the middle of an international conspiracy. No big deal!! Now Maya must evade dangerous hunters and stay alive long enough to find the answers to her questions.

    Inheritance premieres January 24 and stars Phoebe Dynevor and Rhys Ifans.

    9. You're Cordially Invited — On Prime Video January 30, 2025

    Prime Video

    Reese Witherspoon and Will Ferrell are starting 2025 with a bang! This hilarious R-rated rom-com follows Reese's character as she plans her sister's destination wedding...then realizes the venue has double booked them with Will Ferrell, a father who's determined that his daughter's (Geraldine Viswanathan) wedding go perfectly. When I say chaos ensues, I'm talking alligator wrestling, a zebra knocking over the cake, and strippers.

    You're Cordially Invited premieres January 30 and stars Will Ferrell, Reese Witherspoon, Geraldine Viswanathan, Meredith Hagner, Jimmy Tatro, Stony Blyden, Leanne Morgan, Rory Scovel, Keyla Monterroso Mejia, Ramona Young, Jack McBrayer, and Celia Weston.

    10. Valiant One — In Theaters January 31, 2025

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    When a captain and his unit get trapped behind enemy lines — and their equipment goes out — they have to band together and figure out how to get to safety. This January movie has some familiar faces like Chase Stokes and Lana Condor, and it'll keep you on the edge of your seat until the very end.

    Valiant One premieres January 31 and stars Chase Stokes, Lana Condor, Desmin Borges, Callan Mulvey, Jonathan Whitesell, and Daniel Jun.

    11. Mickey 17 — In Theaters January 31, 2025

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    Mickey Barnes goes on countless life-ending missions after he signs up to be an Expendable. On his quest to colonize the ice world of Niflheim, he's cloned countless times — but, shockingly, nothing really goes wrong until two Mickeys wind up surviving at the same time.

    Mickey 17 premieres January 31 and stars Robert Pattinson, Naomi Ackie, Steven Yeun, Toni Collette, and Mark Ruffalo.

    Don't forget to watch this year's best New December Movies and New December TV Shows before you ring in the new year!

    So, you've found your 2025 word of the year and are ready for the biggest reset of your life. Now all you have to do is map out how you're going to get there. You could opt for vague ideas that live only in your head, but when has that motivated you to achieve your goals in the past?

    If you think we're putting you on the spot, we're not! We're here to encourage you to dream boldly by being detailed about what you actually want. Of course, we have the perfect list of deep questions and journal prompts so you can tap into the life you want to live.

    Here are 25 deep questions to ask yourself and journal about to guide you toward your 2025 vision of personal growth and self-improvement:

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    Questions About Your Daily Routine

    Please don't throw eggs at us! We know you don't want to feel governed by a schedule like you're in grade school, but there are benefits to having something to guide you daily. According to Northwestern Medicine, you can "reduce stress" and even "get better rest" by having a routine.

    If you've been promising yourself to improve in these areas, here are 5 questions to ask yourself:

    • How many of hours of sleep do I typically get per night?
    • What distractions can I eliminate before bed so I'm not groggy in the morning? (i.e., no more binge watching my favorite TV shows or scrolling mindlessly on TikTok)?
    • Do I have a morning routine or do I rush through taking a shower, brushing my teeth, and eating breakfast?
    • How do I usually feel when I get to work?
    • Am I okay with setting a reminder for myself to take a break during the work day so I can stretch my legs, eat lunch, or go for a quick walk?

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    Questions About Your Self-Care

    Making time for your self-care is a part of your daily routine, but we want to dig deeper by sharing questions that'll help you reflect on how you treat yourself.

    • How do I want to feel about myself in 2025?
    • Did I have moments I looked in the mirror and didn't like the way my skin or body looked this year?
    • Have I been prioritizing my mental health?
    • Did I make space for exercising (i.e. walking, yoga, running, etc.)?
    • Did I create healthy boundaries with family, friends, or someone I'm dating?

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    Questions About Your Career

    We almost said, "Here comes the fun part," but that would be unfair for people who consider other areas of their lives more important to chasing a career. If you are focused on pursuing something you're passionate about or simply want to earn a new promotion, here's what you can ask yourself:

    • What are my biggest career accomplishments this year?
    • What skills do I need to sharpen that align with the position I want?
    • How do I respond to constructive criticism?
    • What is my usual response to change or tight deadlines?
    • Do I ask for help when I don't understand a project or concept?

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    Questions About Your Home

    Your home is anywhere that you live even if you're renting or living with your parents for the time being.

    • How did the energy in my home feel?
    • Did I do anything to make it feel like me?
    • How can I create a relaxing environment in my room that promotes rest and relaxation?
    • Do I want to have a certain aesthetic for my living room, office, etc.?
    • What does having a clean and organized home mean to me?

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    Questions About Your Relationships

    Have you been making excuses for toxic friends or ignoring red flags? If it's okay, we're going to sit by you and gently suggest it's time for a change. The kind of life you want to live can't be weighed down by old habits of yours or some of the people you've been spending time with, especially if you've been feeling uncomfortable.

    • What kind of friendships do I want to have in 2025?
    • Do I have a reliable support system?
    • What did I love about my romantic relationship this year?
    • Are there certain conversations I need to have with family members, friends, or my partner that I've been avoiding?
    • Do I need to change the way I show up in my platonic or romantic relationships?

    Get a jumpstart on transforming your space for 2025 with easy feng shui tips!

    The '90s were a great time, according to millennials. It was a time of rollerblading, listening to cassette players, playing Super Mario Bros. on Nintendos, having birthday parties at Chuck E. Cheese, and more. Besides this and other pop culture moments that went viral before social media existed, the '90s gave us classic stores we used to frequent as kids.

    Despite meeting their demise as the Y2K age took over, we'll never forget the fun memories (and maximalist vibes) these stores gave us!

    Take a walk down memory lane by revisiting our favorite '90s stores that will take you back in time (and make you feel old):

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    1. Party City

    Our hearts are hurting because we don't understand why one of the most popular decor stores is closing. The brand was apparently facing "financial challenges," according to it's CEO Barry Litwin (via CNN). There were other issues behind the scenes, but everything trickled down to money, or a lack thereof.

    It's so shocking because some of us just picked up a few holiday items from Party City this month! It was one of the stores that seemed to have everything we needed before Amazon became the mega wholesaler that it is today.

    I guess this means we should've cherished Party City a little more because it's officially gone.

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    2. Blockbuster

    Long before streaming platforms like Netflix and Peacock existed, people used to spend Friday nights looking at rows of VHS movies to rent. If you were lucky, your parents would stop by Blockbuster before picking up pizza for dinner. It was the ultimate '90s treat…until it wasn’t.

    When we want to remember what it felt like visiting Blockbuster, we fast forward to that one scene in I Am Legend where Dr. Robert Neville is going to 'rent' movies. It's a little cringe now that we think about it, but it's the closet memory we have of spending at least 30 minutes picking out the VHS or DVD to watch.

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    3. Circuit City

    Raise your hand if you remember getting your first CD player or computer from Circuit City. The name alone conjures fun memories of running up and down the aisles pretending we could afford all the fun electronics. We watched desktop computers slowly morph into laptops, which seemed like an exciting time. Also, some of us watched our parents lament the cost of the required Texas Instrument calculators we needed for math class.

    Although Circuit City isn't around like it used to be, we'll never forget watching the world change through its eyes.

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    4. Virgin Music Store

    If you wanted to be a part of the cool crowd, you visited the Virgin music store. We aptly remember the neon sign and memorable displays that beckoned to us. Although we could find some of the same CDs at Circuit City, the store’s design didn’t feel stuffy.

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    5. Radio Shack

    This one’s personal because we stood in lines with our parents when they bought their first cell phones and DVD players. Also, one of our parents may or may not have purchased a very coveted Bratz convertible that played music from Radio Shack.

    Even though it wasn’t the biggest store, it gave us a taste of what the future had for us. Little did we know we’d lose this sweet store though.

    6. Border's

    As much as we love recommending books from Amazon and local bookshops, we miss when Border’s was around. There’s not much to say about this store besides how grown-up we felt when our parents would let us spend time there while they shopped at their favorite stores in the mall.

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    7. KB Toys

    Aside from Toys ‘R’ Us, we also remember when K.B. Toys was popular. Not unlike today, there wasn’t such a thing as having too many toy stores. Sometimes we found things at K.B.s that felt like a treat. The cluttered aisles probably annoyed our parents, but we were always happy when we were allowed to pick something out.

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    8. Wet Seal

    Yes, Wet Seal made the list of stores we loved in the '90s. Unlike Goody’s, it was specifically geared towards pre-teens and teens who wanted to wear the latest fashions. It was one of the the places to discover your style at the time even if it meant leaving piles of clothes for weary store associates to put back (sorry!)

    Though we miss it, we hope no one tries to revive it because we’re sure we’d see a few outdated fashion trends.

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    9. Esprit

    This was another store that screamed 'All American Teen Store.' Unlike Wet Seal, the store's layout and clothing were a little more 'sophisticated.' It spoke to teens who are now adults with a sleeker preppy style. It sounds like a reach, but it's not if you think about it. This store could give you logomania, tenniscore, or something that resembled the outfits from Saved By the Bell at the same time.

    10. Goody's

    Were you really a '90s kid if your mom didn’t drag you to Goody’s? Shockingly enough, we hardly ever complained because it felt like a huge store we could play in. Plus, it had clothes for everyone.

    And if there were a sale during BTS season? You could always count on our moms to leave the store with stuffed shopping bags.

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