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1. Not everyone's parents can put them through college. 

"My parents are wealthy, but I grew up in a place where many of my peers' parents were super, duper, crazy wealthy, so I had a skewed understanding of wealth," shared one user.

"It was really eye-opening for me when I went to college. I didn't have to take out student loans; my parents were able to just pay for it. But I had friends who, even with financial aid, had to work their [behinds] off year-round to cover the cost of school. I realized pretty quickly just how privileged I was and that I did, in fact, grow up with wealth."

2. Country clubs aren't the only kind of "clubs" out there. 

"When I was confused about people on Maury complaining their spouse was at 'the club,' and I couldn't figure out what type of country club would let people like that through the front security gate," admitted another user.

3. Not everyone views their parents as good role models. 

"Becoming an adult and realizing that I have extremely good role models as parents because when they have disagreements, they talk them out, and I have never, ever, heard them argue or badmouth each other," one user revealed.

"I also realized that as a kid, my parents got me mental health help that I needed even though it was expensive and continued that care for as long as I have needed it," they added.

"A third [wake-up call] that doesn't seem like much but has had a huge impact was being taught financial literacy from a young age; to budget my money and only buy the things I really, really want."

4. Many people have never left the country.  

"My parents loved to travel. By the time I was 16, I had been to every continent aside from Antarctica. I didn't realize that this was privileged behavior until I went to university, and most of the guys I met had never left the country," a user shared.

"In fact, I grew up thinking I was less privileged because everyone at my school was just obscenely rich. Like, all their stuff was high-end designer stuff while I was in Converse."

5. Some families cannot afford to have pets. 

"My dad was an engineer, so professional wealth, but... probably hearing about a kid whose family had to give his dog away due to the cost in elementary school," another user remembered.

"Giving away our dog wasn't on the radar or even on the table. But it was only out of the question because my parents had the money for it to be out of the question."

6. Owning multiple properties is not the norm. 

"When I learned that not everyone has a summer cottage or trust fund, and not all grandparents have weekend and summer homes," a user noted.

7. Exposure to cultural education isn't a given. 

"I didn't think I grew up in a wealthy family, but when I started high school, I was part of a group of girls who became close friends with me. Apparently, they thought it was very weird that I knew things that I considered cultural knowledge, like the history of some important building in the city or the fact that I actually knew about art and went to museums quite often," detailed a user.

"All this because my parents made me go to museums and theaters my whole life growing up. Apparently, that's not a normal thing for normal parents to do with their kids, and asking your parents if they can take you to the ballet is not something a teenager would normally ask."

8. Some people have never been able to fill up their tanks at the gas station. 

"In college, I went on a road trip with friends, and one asked how much money he should put in the gas tank. I told him to fill it up," recalled a user.

"He kept asking, 'Okay, how much should I pay?' and I kept saying, 'Fill it up!' It turned out he had only ever put $10 to $15 at a time, and it had never occurred to me that some people never fill their gas tanks to the top."

9. Seeing how families abroad make do.

"I realized how privileged I was when I spent a summer with my great-grandmother in a small village in rural Hungary. No indoor running water, the only phone was at the church, and everyone came out to touch the rental car we drove there in. This was in the late 1980s," recalled a user.

10. Learning that not everyone takes their first flight as a child.

"I have been flying around the world since I was 4 months old. When I was 16, my friend told me she'd fly for the first time in an airplane, and I was shocked," said another user.

"I told my dad that I couldn't believe it took her 16 years to fly! I got a stern talk after; my dad is very humble despite it all."

Two of Wands: Mapping Out Your Direction

If you've been dreaming big, now is the time to get organized. The Two of Wands highlights the importance of clarifying your goals and planning the steps to achieve them.

It's time to get strategic. Take those dreams and break them down into smaller, manageable steps. Think of it like planning a trip – you need to book transportation and accommodation. Similarly, take action to map out the steps to your goals. Use a planner or notebook to jot down actionable steps you can take this week. You don't need to have everything figured out, but having a plan will boost your confidence.

Four of Cups: Staying Open to the Unexpected

Even with a plan, life often throws curveballs. The Four of Cups reminds you to remain open to unexpected opportunities and avoid becoming too rigid in your thinking.

Consider your plan a flexible guide, not a strict rule. The universe might have something even better in store for you, something you haven't considered. Be open to unexpected opportunities or intuitive nudges. You might encounter a new connection or a different path. Don't be afraid to adjust your plan if it feels right. It's about balancing intention with flexibility. If things get chaotic, remember you can choose your response. Take a deep breath and stay positive!

Seven of Wands: Setting Healthy Boundaries

This week, it's important to protect your energy and establish healthy boundaries. Think of this as creating a personal shield.

It's time to clarify your "yeses" and "nos." Are you overcommitting or allowing distractions to drain you? Identify areas where you need to set stronger boundaries. This could involve setting limits on work hours or muting distracting notifications. Remember, setting boundaries is essential for your well-being. If things get challenging, remember your self-care practices to maintain your energy.

Your Week Ahead: Plan, Adapt, and Prioritize Yourself

So, bottom line for the week ahead? Make sure you're taking care of yourself, get a bit of a plan going (but don't be afraid to ditch it if something cool pops up!), and definitely set some boundaries. Seriously, lean into these insights – they're gonna help you have a great week!

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