The Pride of Africa: Why Now Is The Time to “Come Home” to Kenya

I’ve wanted to visit Kenya my entire life. And yes, there are other nations just as known for their wildlife or their endless plains. Yet, for reasons I can’t quite identify, I knew Kenya was the one place I needed to visit before I died. It was my ultimate bucket list adventure — one I (wrongfully) assumed required a honeymoon to experience. But unlike so many of the things in life that we imbue with hope and expectation — that first kiss, first job, first anything — the reality of my trip to Kenya exceeded my wildest dreams. And I knew it would from the moment I landed in Nairobi and the Deputy President shook my hand. “Welcome home,” he said.

Maasai Mara

(Maasai Mara)

It was ‪the last Monday of October when I arrived in Kenya, a passenger on the first nonstop flight from New York City. The cabin erupted in applause when the Kenya Airways aircraft touched down in Nairobi. It was a historic moment, especially fitting from an airline known as “The Pride of Africa.”

There had been a celebration at the departures gate at JFK, with balloons, streamers, and an air of eager anticipation swirling around the Kenyan and American passengers. I boarded the aircraft behind an intimidating crowd of journalists and reporters, chief executives, and “influencers,”

Onboard, I’d been too excited to sleep. I spent the majority of the maiden voyage drinking Baileys, an activity which culminated in midnight Swahili lessons from the patient, amused airline staff. (Thank you, Peggy, or should I say: Asante).

(Inaugural Flight Kenya Airways)

My sleep-deprived (and semi-intoxicated) condition rendered the sight of the drummers and dancers greeting us on the tarmac at Jomo Kenyatta International Airport 15 hours later even more surreal. Kenyan politicians welcomed us with speeches commemorating the inaugural flight’s significance, not just for trade and tourism between Kenya and the US, but as a symbol of connectivity between Africa and the rest of the world.

Deputy President William Ruto spoke of Elizabeth II becoming Queen while in Kenya (as fans of The Crown well know) and of Barack Obama being the son of a Kenyan man, before concluding: “It doesn’t matter where you come from.”

“Whether you come from Asia, whether you come from Europe, whether you come from Australia, whether you come from wherever: Kenya is the capital of mankind. This is the place where humanity began. When you come to Kenya, you are coming home.”

(Fairmont the Norfolk)

Nairobi

I planned on spending a few days in the Kenyan capital before venturing northwest to Nanyuki, in the foothills of Mount Kenya. Then I would finish my trip by heading southeast to the tented luxury of the Maasai Mara, a game reserve in the Great Rift Valley so emblematic of Kenyan history and culture that its name was painted upon the Boeing 787-8 Dreamliner I flew in on.

My well-planned itinerary was quickly thwarted, however, when the drive from the airport took longer than expected — hours longer. But “precise,” I quickly learned, was beside the point in Kenya, a land where mornings become afternoons and afternoons stretch into evenings without much restriction or fanfare.

I was introduced to the concept of “Kenyan time” that first day when I watched my taxi driver turn off the engine at a red light. Punctuality was not only unexpected but discouraged. Three hours late to the party? Come as you are, when you feel like it. Now, this was a wavelength I could get in on. Finally, I thought, a place where I felt fully understood.

(Ol Pejeta Conservancy)

When we arrived at our destination, the iconic Fairmont The Norfolk hotel, it did not disappoint. The hotel’s pastel architecture and tropical gardens resemble a glamorous, turn-of-the-century fever dream — and it is. An urban oasis in the heart of Nairobi, the private courtyard has long provided a lush hideaway for infamous lushes (one of the hotel’s famed regulars was none other than Ernest Hemingway), the staff serving Sundowner cocktails each evening until far past sunrise.

Another manicured destination for literary lovers is found only 20 miles from downtown Nairobi at the formal gardens and restaurant of the Karen Blixen Coffee Garden, where the Out of Africa author’s original farmhouse once stood. (The Karen Blixen Museum is half a mile down the road).

I made the journey to utter the iconic opening words of Blixen’s memoir, in the spot where she once stood: “I had a farm in Africa, at the foot of the Ngong Hills.”

You also don’t need to leave Nairobi to see (and help protect) Kenyan wildlife. I saw my first glimpse of the country’s passionate conservation efforts when I visited the Giraffe Centre and The David Sheldrick Wildlife Trust, where I adopted an elephant named Kaisa.

(Giraffe Centre)

At the Giraffe Centre, I purchased a child’s drawing of two birds. The sale of each drawing provides a bus ticket for one underprivileged child from Nairobi to visit the center to see a giraffe for the first time. I felt immense satisfaction knowing my tourist dollars supported wildlife preservation and helped to provide the funds for these efforts to continue.

The problem is never with the wildlife, it’s the human beings that make this challenge,” Stanley Kosgey of the Giraffe Centre shared with me. Nevertheless, he remained hopeful: “If you want to make a better tomorrow, it’s about changing the mindset of the next generation. Suggestions from little kids are always brilliant; it shows they want to save the world.”

(Maasai Mara)

Many travelers skip Nairobi in favor of seeing more big animals. But there’s more to Kenya than just game drives. To catch a connecting flight immediately upon landing in the Kenyan airport is to miss the other exchanges that occur while traveling, person to person, not person to elephant.

The second night, I attended an event at the Kenyan International Convention Centre and spent the evening watching the sunset with an events department intern, John Mutai, who was roughly my age. He, too, loved to write. He read his articles to me and I gave feedback, while he critiqued my Swahili. Obviously, we took a selfie. When I checked my phone later that night, I saw he’d shared our photo it to Instagram.

“Born in different cultures but united by the same passion,” he wrote.

(Ol Pejeta Conservancy, Photo via Kate McCulley)

Mount Kenya

I was staying at the Mount Kenya Safari Club, a luxurious resort originally founded as a hunting club by A-List Hollywood glitterati in the 1960s and frequented by the likes of (who else?) Hemingway. The hallowed walls are adorned with taxidermy, representing an extravagant fantasy of Hemingway’s big game memoir, Green Hills of Africa.

Today, the club exists as a conservancy — and it is a remarkable one at that, despite its misleading interiors. The Mount Kenya Wildlife Conservancy is working to save the Mountain Bongo from extinction under the watchful eye of Donald Bunge, a man who managed to turn one chicken at age eight into a herd of sheep by age 10, and a dozen cows by high school.

As if that weren’t a strong enough omen on its own, there’s no more auspicious a place to begin such a resurrection than beneath the shadows of Mount Kenya, where the nearby Ol Pejeta Conservancy is literally overflowing with animals.

(Mount Kenya Safari Club)

The second-highest peak in Africa after Mount Kilimanjaro, Mount Kenya was considered to be a holy place by the area’s indigenous tribes. Kenya means “God’s resting place” in the three native languages spoken in the area, and is believed to be the source of the country’s name. The Gikuyu and Embu believed God lived in the mountain, while the Masai believed it was the home of their ancestors. The doors in the village were built to face the mountain.

Mount Kenya is now a World Heritage Site, and the ancient volcano last erupted millions of years ago, but its power is felt to this day. When I visited Nanyuki I couldn’t argue with their logic — there was something spiritual about the place, something otherworldly.

(Bush breakfast at the Mount Kenya Safari Club)

A group of elephants, aptly, is called a memory. And one particular memory I’ll never forget was while I was horseback riding to breakfast one morning. (Another heavenly element of safari life? The bush breakfasts and Sundowners.) Mount Kenya was barely visible in the misty morning fog.

When I heard a low roar from the rainforest ahead, I looked up to see bushes shaking with the grunts and trumpets of a large animal, hidden behind the trees. When a pair of elephants emerged from between the brush, I was so in awe, it literally took my breath away. (Not to mention my iPhone — which says something, considering the triple-digit likes safari Instagrams garner.)

I was transfixed in place. Though the elephants were so close to me, I felt calm and still. Not panicked, but transported, the Talking Heads lyrics come to life: Feet on the ground, head in the sky. It’s okay, I know nothing’s wrong. Hakuna Matata.

It made sense to me that God would want to vacation here, that he would leave heaven for this place instead.

(Members of the Maasai Tribe)

Maasai Mara

The Maasai Mara is magic. You feel it the moment you step onto the plains. There’s something about the air, and even the sky. Flying aboard the Safarilink prop plane to the Maasai Mara, we passed through towering clouds floating like sandcastles above the African bush. The sun streaming through these clouds casts beams of light across the plains. Green and lush in the summertime, the Mara turns a burnt gold in the fall.

When I visited in October, it looked like heaven brought down to earth. Similar to the eternal turquoise of the Caribbean Sea in stormy weather, the savannah retains its golden luster even if the sky is gray. I suppose I always assumed it would be the safari that spoke to me the most, and its charms cannot be overstated.

(Fairmont Mara Safari Club)

In the words of Out of Africa: “There is something about safari life that makes you forget all your sorrows and feel as if you had drunk half a bottle of champagne — bubbling over with heartfelt gratitude for being alive.”

For me, this manifested in tears of joy, particularly when I spotted “the common zebra,” in the words of the witty (and wise) Kepha Ongere, my guide at Fairmont Mara Safari Club. Yet I maintain there is no sight more moving in all the savannahs of Kenya (or grasslands of East Africa, for that matter) than a dazzle of zebra running across the golden plains. Yes, a group of zebra are known as a dazzle, and dazzle they do when flash across the yellow grass of the Masai Mara in early November.

Home is where I want to be, but I guess I’m already there.

(The author with Kepha Ongere)

Though Kenya is legendary for its natural beauty, I found I was most moved by the nation’s rich culture and the people I encountered on my journey. I was overwhelmed by the kindness and hospitality I received throughout my stay, and I was delighted to discover that the place I’d longed to visit was eager to receive me as well.

It was then that I realized all you have to do to make friends is to be three things: curious, kind, and vulnerable. It seems so easy, but for so many people, it’s too difficult. Radical sincerity. Radical self-deprecation.

Safari means “journey” in Swahili, and my travels throughout Kenya felt like a retracing of my own long-forgotten steps, each moment a revelation. By fulfilling my greatest dreams of escape, I was on a homecoming back to myself.

(Maasai Mara)

When I later marveled to my cousin Jason McLachlan, about the weather in Kenya — never too hot, never too cold, almost like heaven — he said, of course, it was perfect.

But the need to protect those spaces is real. The East African grasslands socialized us, forcing us to work together and coexist (like the warthog and the zebra I spotted napping beneath an acacia tree), resulting, quite literally, in growing our brains, expanding our ego, our intellect: The very things that make us human.

Kenya is where we first became human. Maybe it’s where we need to return to feel human again.

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(Photos via @katherineparkermagyar)

It's probably safe to say that most fans of The White Lotus were heartbroken over how Tanya McQuoid, played by the iconic Jennifer Coolidge (A Cinderella Story), met her end in Season 2. After delivering a riveting performance as an insecure and arguably unstable rich heiress, Jennifer's character was killed off, and no one saw the murder coming.

And now that Season 3 is underway, most people have understandably shrugged off the possibility that Tanya may make a comeback because, well, she's dead. However, fans online may have found a workaround for this problem.

Here's how some fans think Tanya could return for The White Lotusseason 3...

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One TikTok user posted a shocking yet potentially plausible The White Lotustheory on their account @longmirelp. They call attention to the monitor lizard that keeps showing up in Belinda's storyline and suggest it could be the reincarnation of Tanya trying to protect her.

"The lizard is not random; it's not just some throwaway thing. It keeps popping up and following specifically Belinda," the TikToker said.

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Remember, Belinda is one of the only two characters who returned from Season 2 for the series' latest season, along with Greg/Gary. It's also worth underscoring how both Belinda and Greg/Gary played critical roles in relation to Tanya's Season 2 storyline.

Then, following Tanya's tragic death, Natasha Rothwell reprises her role as Belinda and travels to Thailand for a wellness training exchange. It was during her tour of the latest The White Lotus hotel that she first saw a monitor lizard and got startled, to which her tour guide responded, "In time, the lizards will become your friend."

Later, Belinda calls her son, Zion, who will soon be arriving at the hotel, and during their conversation, she hears the trees rustling. She thought it could be snakes, but it actually could've been a lizard, given they're excellent climbers.

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Another clue surfaced more recently after Belinda called Greg/Gary out for knowing Tanya, and he initially denied it. Following that interaction, Belinda was in her bedroom when, again, she heard rustling.

Pornchai, who'd previously given Belinda her tour when she encountered a lizard for the first time, proceeded to move a dresser and (shocker) reveal a lizard inside her bedroom. Is it just a coincidence that the camera then showed Belinda's laptop, and she'd been researching Tanya's murder the night prior? Some fans don't think so.

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And even though Belinda is in Thailand for the wellness training exchange, it's no secret that she is a spiritual character. This has led many to speculate that Tanya's spirit might've been reincarnated as the lizard and is attempting to protect Belinda as she navigates the Greg/Gary situation.

Finally, since Tanya dreamt of being on an Asian mountain with a cyanide pill back in Season 2, fans think that could've been foreshadowing, and Tanya in lizard form may help Belinda in her showdown with Greg/Gary.

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If this theory seems totally out there, we get it. But the first episode of Season 3 was entitled "Same spirits, new forms" — and prior to the season's premiere, HBO's EVP Francesca Orsi even noted it was "an exploration about spirituality versus the ego, and it's set against the Eastern religion."

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The TikToker's video has amassed more than 884,000 views and over 64,000 likes, with plenty of commenters commending their detective work.

"This is actually the best fan theory I've ever seen. Even if it's wrong, it's insane," one user wrote.

"I'm gonna try, this is such an amazing take," echoed another.

What do you think about Tanya making a possible comeback as a lizard? Is it too out there, even for The White Lotus, or an idea that's worth considering?

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Jennifer Lopez may be all over our FYPs, but she's also about to be all over the big screen as well. As some of you may know, she's producing the amazing Emily Henry adaptation Happy Place,and now she's set to work on a new romance with Ted Lasso star and writer Brett Goldstein. And guess what? The two will star in the film as well! Keep reading for all the latest information on the new movie — and Brett Goldstein's IRL crush on J-Lo ;).

What do we know about Office Romance so far?

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According to Deadline, there was a huge bidding war over the Office Romance rom-com, and Netflix ended up winning. Jennifer Lopez's production company, Nuyorican Films, is going to be working on it, thanks to Jennifer's multi-movie deal with Netflix.

As to who will star in it? Jennifer Lopez and Brett Goldstein themselves! Both are playing dual roles of writer/actor and producer/actress. We've all seen Brett Goldstein's incredible writing at play with Ted Lasso, and now we can't wait to see how it translates in this office romance with J-Lo. Brett will be writing the film alongside writer Joe Kelly.

Has cast information been shared? 

Yes! One of Netflix Film shared news about the cast today on Instagram and we're in disbelief over how good it is. Just Jared also shared who everyone will be playing which makes us even more eager to watch Office Romance. Here's the full cast list:

  • Jennifer Lopez as Jackie Cruz
  • Brett Goldstein as Daniel Blanchflower
  • Betty Giplin as Sydney
  • Edward James Olmos as Captain Jack Cruz, Jackie's father
  • Bradley Whitford as Peter Vance
  • Amy Sedaris as Julie Schatz
  • Jodie Whittaker as Lizzy
  • Mary Wiseman as Clair
  • Roger Bart as William Butten
  • Tony Hale as George Zein
  • Rick Hoffman as Carl Gunderson
  • Natalie Ortega as Heather
  • Jackie Sandler as Caroline
  • Tony Plana as Francisco Alberto
  • Michelle Hurd as Rachel Goldberg
  • Mo Welch as Debbie
  • Donald Elise Watkins as Henry
  • Brian Gallivan as Frederick
  • Ali Stroker as Maggie
  • Scott Seiss as Dave
  • Lisa Gilroy as Tanya
  • Will Sasso as Larry

How does Brett Goldstein feel about J-Lo?

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Immediately after news was released about the two co-starring together, fans were so quick to find a clip on X from an interview in 2018 where Brett is talking about J-Lo's movie, Hustlers. He says in the interview, "She's 50! 50! I love her." He then goes on to say, in regards to a scene where Jennifer cuddles another actress in the movie, "I've never wanted to be cuddled more. That is one of the best cuddles. Give me one of your special cuddles." Based on this reaction, we just know their chemistry is about to be off the charts!

What else is Jennifer Lopez working on?

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Office Romance isn't the only rom-com J.Lo is working on! She's also working on adapting the EmHen book Happy Place for Netflix, which we all know and love (Hi, Emily. We love you!). It will be a multiple-part series on the platform with Leila Cohan from Bridgerton co-Executive producing it.

According to Deadline, Cohan will be the showrunner and co-writer for the series, which we are so excited for as Bridgerton-lovers! As for other future projects, we can't wait to see more news of projects J.Lo is working on, because if these two are any signifiers, then we know it must be good! You can also stream The Mother and Atlas on Netflix now.

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Spring has officially bloomed because Target & Kate Spade New York are dropping a refreshing collection that will be all over TikTok and Instagram soon. We haven't been this excited for a fashion collab since J. Crew & Christopher John Rogers, so we're aching to share all the fascinating news about it. Ready to see what's in store?

Keep scrolling to learn everything about the Target & Kate Spade New York collection!

What can I expect from the Target & Kate Spade New York collection?

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This limited edition collection will feature the brightest, boldest colors and prints you can think of. From fuchsia to polka dots, shoppers will can get a taste of luxury without spending an exuberant amount of money. Plus, the pieces are functional and work for an array of situations.

Hosting a spring soirée at home or plan on lounging by the pool The White Lotus-style? The Target & Kate Spade New York collection has everything you need.

Will it only have women's apparel?

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It brings us great pleasure to say no! Everyone will be able to find something they love in this collection because it features women's & kids apparel, home decor, chic accessories, and party decor.

How big is the collection overall?

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It seems like Target & Kate Spade New York are anticipating people having a ton of fun this spring because they have over 300 items shoppers can choose from. There's even games you'll be able to buy and put out for guests at the next barbecue you're invited to!

When can I shop the Target & Kate Spade New York collection?

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Get your carts and wallets ready because the Target & Kate Spade New York collection will be available to shop on Target.com Saturday, April 12.

Stay tuned to see our favorite pieces from the collection once it launches.

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