12 Things Late Bloomers Will TOTALLY Understand

It’s always felt like someone arbitrarily came up with a general timeline of when we’re all supposed to reach certain milestones in life.

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: The list is endless. But if you fall outside the relegated time period for these “firsts” for some reason, you’re considered late to the party. Behind the curve. And it’s time to toss aside this archaic timetable, but also time for us all to reach out to everyone who has felt like they’re not keeping up with some so-called “norm,” and say, “Hey, we’re all doing what we need to do when we need to do it.” That being said, here are the 12 situations you totally understand if you’ve been lumped into the late bloomer category.

1. Being told to be patient for “your time” is annoying yet true. The problem with this fairly wise assessment is that when you hear it, it feels like a brush off. Like your yearning for certain things to happen in your life is being dismissed by someone who doesn’t understand how you feel. (Image via via GIPHY)

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Sometimes you’re more appreciative after waiting.

After college, I felt like I was the last person to find a full-time job. I was frustrated that my life wasn’t “beginning” in a professional sense like all of my friends. I didn’t have a commute, a spot for happy hour, co-workers who would become friends. But when I did accept a position months and months after most of my friends did, all the previous lackluster interviews made me feel very confident signing my contract. And many of my peers were starting to second guess positions they had been raving about in the very recent past. (Image

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3. College isn’t necessarily “the best years of your life.” Before I left for school, all I heard was, “You’re about to embark on the four best years of your life!” I heard it over and over again, and I believed it, because so many people had said it, it seemed like it HAD to be true. But if it were true, what would be the point of life past age 22? If those four years are the best you’ll ever have, that’s actually a really depressing statement. I loved college, but I would never call it the best years of my life. Good news: You don’t have to either! (Image via GIPHY)

4. You form strong friendships faster because you know yourself better. It took me a long time to figure out how to put myself first without feeling like I was being selfish. Doing so takes a learned confidence that comes from growing into yourself and, once you do, it makes it easier to weed out what friends you want in your life. You’ll have the kind of friends who accept you as you are and as you evolve, not solely because you lived in the same town. (Image via GIPHY)

5. You feel like you’re the last person in the world to do ______. Travel abroad, have sex, get a drastic haircut, find the job that makes you feel fulfilled. Whatever fills the blank for you that makes you feel like you’re behind the curve is something all of us late bloomers understand. You are not the last person, I promise. And even if you are, you’re doing whatever it is at the right time for YOU. Don’t live your life on anyone else’s timeline but your own. (Image via GIPHY )

6. There’s a nagging insecurity in the back of your mind about your lack of life experience. Again, this is something we all have felt. How lagging behind other people might be detrimental to us in our pursuit of experiencing life to the fullest. Just because someone else snagged a job you didn’t feel ready to apply for, or your friends are dating tons more than you, just means you’re experiencing life at a different level. It can be so hard to remind yourself that your life is not lacking when you compare yourself to your friends, but it’s important that you do. (Image via GIPHY)

7. Certain things are not the big deal you believed they were. I felt like I kissed a boy years later than my friends. And… I found it to be kind of gross. While I was relieved to have finally done it, I was also disappointed that it wasn’t the life-altering occurrence I had hoped it would be. This is something that would repeat in my life in various ways. So many things are not as heart stopping as your fevered imagination hopes. However, side-note, I did end up enjoying kissing boys a little later on and that was a big deal. (Image via GIPHY)

8. You get to learn from your friends’ mistakes… sometimes. Watching my friends job-hop or date people who weren’t right for them initially gave me a sense of “well I’m going to be smarter than that!” Little did my Judgy McJudgerson self know, we all make our own mistakes in all aspects of our life — and whether we make them sooner or later, we will make them on our own time. But that also means we get to commiserate with our friends about shared experiences. (Image via GIPHY)

9. There’s a lot to be said for the “good for her, not for me” Amy Poehler mantra. Sometimes watching things happen to everyone around you can inspire a little (ok, a lot) bit of envy. It’s natural to wonder why, when you’re working hard in your job, opportunities seem to pass you over and go to others, and you feel like you’re not moving forward and upward. But follow Amy Poehler’s advice and keep doing your thing, because the right next step will come along when you’re ready for it. (Image via GIPHY)

10. Risks feel bigger. There are two sides to this: rewarding and frightening. When you’re a teenager and in your twenties, you constantly have the excuse of youthful inexperience when you try something new. As you get older, there’s more weight to your decisions, and if it’s your first time attempting something, there tends to be more at stake. (Image via GIPHY)

11. Your accomplishments or milestones can get glossed over by those who’ve already reached them. Falling in love for the first time was met with a chorus of “finally,” and finding a job I loved came years after everyone else, barely making a ripple to those who had been moving up within their dream jobs while I searched for mine. It’s okay to tell your friends and family, “Hey, this is a big deal for me,” because it’s likely they don’t even know that you’ve been trying to confidently not compare yourself to everyone else’s achievements. (Image via GIPHY)

12. Late bloomer is kind of a ridiculous terminology designed to make us feel inadequate. I’ve always referred to myself as a late bloomer with a smirk, but it really is a label that perpetuates inadequacy. And late bloomers are not inadequate. No one cool ever shows up to a party on time, so maybe we should call ourselves Fashionably Late Bloomers. (Image via GIPHY)

Calling all Fashionably Late Bloomers to tweet at us @BritandCo in solidarity!

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Emily in Paris season 4 was the buzziest season yet, and for good reason. Emily's in Rome, Camille was never pregnant, and Gabriel's hair went from très hot to tragique. In addition to the viral response to Gabriel's new hair, season 4 left me pretty sad because after four years of waiting for Emily and Gabriel to get together, they almost immediately break up — and actor Lucas Bravo is just as confused as we are.

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“The ‘sexy chef’ was very much part of me in Season 1 and we grew apart season after season because of the choices he makes and because of the direction they make him take,” Lucas Bravo told IndieWire while promoting Mélanie Laurent’s Freedom. “As they made him kind of unaware of his surroundings, of the dynamic, always victimizing and always being completely lost in translation and oblivious to anything that is happening around him and being manipulated by everyone, it kind of became not fun for me to shoot or to see a character I love so much and brought me so much, being slowly turned into guacamole. I really grew apart from him.”

Honestly it makes me really sad that a character we all love so much is becoming unrecognizable. But at the same time, it makes me feel a little bit better, because we're not the only ones who feel like Gabriel has changed. And while Lucas has done what he can to bring those early-series aspects of Gabriel back, he says "there is only so much I can do in the limits of a script.”

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“I tried for seasons to bring nuances but we don’t have much liberty on set," he continues. “It makes me question if I want to be part of Season 5…because my contract ends at Season 4. I really want to see if Gabriel gets back to his fun, cheeky, playful, alive self. Because three seasons playing melancholic, sad, depressed, and lost is not fun anymore. It’s a comedy, everybody is having fun around me, everybody is jumping around, and I’m just slowly sinking into god knows what.”

Say what now?! If Lucas Bravo leaves Emily in Paris, I truly don't know what I'd do. Gabriel is my favorite character on the show! (Or at least, early Gabriel was.) Seeing him move from 30, flirty, and thriving to someone who's consistently in the middle of an existential crisis doesn't make sense within the world of the show. And even though Lucas thinks the show has a "lack of risk," he still loves everyone involved.

“I love the show. It started everything for me. I love the show and the people in it," he says. "With saying that, I feel like I am not being nice or grateful, but when you love something you want it to be…you want the best version of it. I’m not going to lie, I’ve been frustrated with the direction by character is taking. But we’ll see where it goes. The show is not over.”

Just like the show's iconic costumes are all about expression and fun, here's hoping Emily in Paris is able to bring some life back into our favorite chef. Because if not, it sounds like we could be nearing the end of the show's most popular would-they-won't-they relationship. Fix this Netflix, I beg you!

What do you think of Lucas Bravo's dilemma? Do you miss season 1 Gabriel? Let us know in the comments and check out the latest Emily in Paris season 5 news.

Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie created reality TV gold when The Simple Life debuted in 2003. Their antics were outlandish, but we couldn't help repeating their iconic phrases like "That's hot" or "Sanasa" during random moments in our own lives.

It's no secret the two didn't really act that way, but their 'characters' left a huge mark on a generation of millennials. "I knew what I was doing but the whole world didn’t, so it was kind of frustrating to me to be perceived in that way because it’s not who I am at all," Paris told People.

Even though she may have felt judged, it seems that Paris Hilton realizes how many people actually loved The Simple Life because she and Nicole Richie are teaming up to film a reunion special that'll debut on Peacock as we speak! Here's everything we know so far!

When did speculations about 'The Simple Life' reboot begin?

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Peacock first shared a video clip on Instagram that hinted something special involving Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie is coming in May. A nostalgic TV set with a black and white screen can be seen while our favorite duo's voices can be hearing saying, "Sanasa, Sanasa."

Peacock captioned the post, "New Era. Same Besties. Coming soon to Peacock," and fans could barely contain their excitement. Even celebs like Naomi Campbell and Katy Perry commented on these hot vibes.

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Then Paris Hilton took to her own Instagram to share more about what fans could expect. She said, "As some of you may know, we are doing a reunion special to celebrate 20 years of our show The Simple Life and it's been so much fun."

Actress Selma Blair shared how much she's looking forward to this by commenting that she's "living for this."

So are we!

What was 'The Simple Life' about?

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The Simple Life showed Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie as they basically traded their wealthy lifestyles for 'everyday' living. Cameras followed them from fast food jobs to dealing with getting out of sticky situations they'd supposedly never experienced. Needless to say, it was hilarious, iconic, and instant reality TV gold.

How long was 'The Simple Life' on air?

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The Simple Life was on air from 2003 to 2007 with five successful seasons. It seemed like it wasn't going to be hit at first, but it defied expectations. By how much you ask?

According to reporting from The Cut, somewhere around 13 million viewers tuned in to watch Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie's oddball take on daily life. That's a pretty huge deal if you ask us!

When will 'Paris & Nicole: The Encore' debut?

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Paris & Nicole: The Encore will premiere on Peacock December 12! The two were previously seen at a Sonic drive-thru yesterday so it can be assumed filming is underway (via People)!

Sporting partial Sonic uniforms, Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie added accent pieces that match their signature flairs. Paris wore a pair of reflective sunglasses, silver sequin heels, and added a pink flip phone to front of her blue apron. Nicole wore gold hoops and a pair of slingback pumps alongside her hotdog mascot costume. That's hot (dog).

How does Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie feel about reuniting for a reunion special?

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Paris Hilton has expressed how much she loves to be sharing the screen with Nicole Richie again. "I'm so excited to be doing this with Nicole on Peacock. Nicole has been my best friend since we're 2 years old, every memory that I have is with her," (via E! News).

Nicole also posted a few throwback moments from The Simple Life on her Instagram, but the most notable one is the video mashup of them singing "Sanasa, Sanasa" over and over. "20 years ago, not only did we become television stars… we became song writers. Happy Anniversary Sill @parishilton#TheSimpleLife#sannnasaaaaa" she wrote in the caption.

What have Paris and Nicole said about their reunion special?

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Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie sat down with W Magazine to let the world know the Paris & Nicole: The Encore show is on its way! Not only that, but fans can expect to see an Opera version of the show they fell in love with two decades ago. Paris said, "The idea of the opera was unexpected" while Nicole chimed in with, "What people need, even though they don't know it yet, is for 'Sanasa' to be an opera.'"

The two besties came up with the idea via a series of texts that started off as ideas between them. Nicole said everything "came up organically" for the two and we can only imagine the memories this brought up for them. OG influencer Paris even talked about how The Simple Life was an "important show in pop culture history" and we couldn't agree more!

Nicole truly wants people to enjoy themselves while watching Paris & Nicole: The Encore and "find the same joy" she had while filming it. According to Paris, she feels what they have is "magic" because "there's just so much history behind it."

It's not every day that you can get to have fun with your best friend while coming up with long-lasting memories that contribute to pop culture, but Paris and Nicole have always danced to the beat of their own drums. Now we'll get to see them in action again!

Watch The Trailer For 'Paris & Nicole: The Encore'

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Friendsgiving season is coming folks! And if you have one on the books, but have no idea what to cook, we have you covered. From deliciously cheesy veggies to a healthy take on everyone's favorite spuds, we're rounding-up easy recipes to make that won't weigh heavy on your pocketbook. Take a look through to see the yummy ensembles you should be whipping up!

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Drop Biscuits

Because everyone needs a carb to soup all those juicy drippings on your plate. This 'The Final Table' winning recipe does the job.

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Smashed Brussel Sprouts

Not crazy about veggies? These greens will change your mind. Topped with cheese, chives, and a nice crisp topping, they're extra yummy (and keto-friendly!)

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Cacio e Pepe Chickpeas

Sure this one is a bit non-traditional, but your vegetarian friends will love it. Plus they make the perfect topping to nearly any dish (who needs croutons when you have these anyways?!).

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Roasted Broccoli

Puts some greens on your plate with this holy-grail recipe. Trust us: It's sooo easy!

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Instant Pot Butternut Squash Polenta

Dust off the ole' Instant Pot will this delectable fall polenta. Filled with butternut squash and lots of parmesan you (and your besties!) will quickly fall in *love*.

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Roasted Sweet Potato

Just when you thought you knew how to roast sweet potatoes, this recipe came along. And boy are we taking notes!

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Slow Cooker Mulled Wine

Be the friend that brings the booze. This autumn-themed mulled wine drink will warm everyone's spirits.

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Fall Quinoa Salad

If you're designated salad duty, take a twist on it by packing it full-on quinia, pomegranate, and a tangy dressing. Yum!

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Cheesy Pasta Bake

When the temperatures drop, your friends will be extra thankful for this soul-warming, cheesy pasta.

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Spinach + Mushroom Gnocchi Casserole

No time? No worries! This freezer-friendly pasta bake complete with pillowy gnocchi, creamy mushrooms and spinach is super easy to create ahead of time, without taking away from any day-of deliciousness.

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Cheddar, Jalapeno, and Chive Biscuits

Upgrade your biscuits with "addicting" flavors of cheddar, chives, and jalapeños. Pro tip: Double the batch to ensure you have more than one for everyone!

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Keto Cheese Ball

Your hostess will thank you extra for showing up with an app to tide guests over until the main meal is served. Packed with yummy baked potato fixings, it's got an extra "kick" to make it comparable to store bought options. Plus it's keto-friendly... you can't go wrong with that!

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Cheesy Keto Asparagus

Keep the keto ideas coming, am I right?! Make this popular Pinterest vegetable dish loaded with garlic and extra cheese. Yes please!

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Yogurt Slow Cooker Mashed Potatoes

Pack a 'lil extra protein into your mashed spuds (with the bonus of making them extra creamy!). Who knew yogurt would soon become your go-to secret ingredient?

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Pumpkin Spice Toffee

And let's not forget about the sweets! Make a batch of this pumpkin spice-flavored treat as a great take-home option for overstuffed guests! (Just be sure to save some extra for yourself!)

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