Lena Dunham Got a Public Talking-To from the Mom of the Woman Who Accused a Former ‘Girls’ Producer of Assault

Dec 05, 2018

A year after Lena Dunham and her former writing partner Jenni Konner defended former Girls producer Murray Miller against accusations that he assaulted actress Aurora Perrineau when she was just 17 years old, the Girls creator has publicly apologized to Perrineau, and her family, admitting that her defense was “a terrible mistake.”

In her guest editor’s letter forThe Hollywood Reporter‘s “Women in Entertainment” issue, published on Wednesday, December 5, Dunham says that in the year since former Hollywood heavyweight Harvey Weinstein’s alleged history of sexual violence came to light, many women have emerged as heroines in a new narrative, and that the changing face of Hollywood is a positive one. But she admits she made mistakes, and her defense of Miller is one of the biggest ones.

“There are few acts I could ever regret more in this life,” she said of her defense of Miller. “I didn’t have the ‘insider information’ I claimed but rather blind faith in a story that kept slipping and changing and revealed itself to mean nothing at all. I wanted to feel my workplace and my world were safe, untouched by the outside world (a privilege in and of itself, the privilege of ignoring what hasn’t hurt you) and I claimed that safety at cost to someone else, someone very special.”

To Perrineau, Dunham offered her love and support, promising to work at fixing herself so that she can be a better ally to other women.

“It’s painful to realize that, while I thought I was self-aware, I had actually internalized the dominant male agenda that asks us to defend it no matter what, protect it no matter what, baby it no matter what,” Dunham writes. “Something in me still feels compelled to do that job: to please, to tidy up, to shopkeep. My job now is to excavate that part of myself and to create a new cavern inside me where a candle stays lit, always safely lit, and illuminates the wall behind it where these words are written: I see you, Aurora. I hear you, Aurora. I believe you, Aurora.”

Ahead of the “Women in Entertainment” issue, Dunham was joined on stage at the THR Women in Entertainment gala on Wednesday morning, and brought Perrineau’s mother, Brittany, as her guest. During a moment in the program, Dunham brought the elder Perrineau on stage to issue her first apology, thanking both mother and daughter for their patience, acceptance, and friendship since the accusations against Miller came to light.

But Brittany Perrineau didn’t hold back in giving Dunham a piece of her mind.

“You hurt us. What you said was hurtful, denying survivors like you, me, Aurora, and millions of others,” she said. “It also showed how we are trained to blindly support perpetrators of terror because ‘they have to be right’…right?”

Perrineau then went on to explain why her family chose to forgive Dunham and move forward with their lives. “Forgiveness is a powerful thing and I think we need to redirect our anger at the perpetrators of these heinous assaults.”

In August, the LA County Sheriff’s Department declined to charge Miller, saying the California statute of limitations had passed.

(Photo by Jesse Grant/Getty Images for The Hollywood Reporter )

35 No-Bake Holiday Dessert Recipes That Are Insanely Good

Desserts make Christmas go around, but it can be hard to find time to bake with countless holiday parties to attend. If you're feeling a little oven-shy or wonder why those cookie recipes you try to bake come out looking gooey, maybe it's time for a different approach.

Because we've been there before, we put together a list of 35 stellar “no-bake" recipes that will satisfy everyone's preferences and dietary restrictions! If you're still craving something sweet after reading about these delectable treats try making our No-Bake Peanut Butter and Jelly Pie or our adorable No-Bake Grammy Bon Bons!

Half Baked Harvest

No Bake Mixed Berry Custard Tart

It's hard to believe this stunning dessert is no bake! Buttery Ritz crackers are the secret with homemade vanilla custard, mixed berries, and sweet honey. (via Half Baked Harvest)

Clean Cuisine

No Bake Key Lime Pie

Love the little something green on your holiday dessert table and this healthy twist on traditional key limes is sure to please! (via Clean Cuisine)

Vikalinka

No Bake Strawberry Meringue Cheesecake

It's all in the name and it's all absolutely delicious. (via Vikalinka)

Averie Cooks

No Bake Tiramisu

Not a lot of time? This no-bake dessert infused with espresso, Kahlua, a luscious creamy filling is decadent and so easy! (via Averie Cooks)

Hello Little Home

No Bake Pumpkin Cheesecake

Give your cheesecake a taste of fall with this delightful holiday dessert. (via Hello Little Home)

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No Bake Chocolate Peppermint Graham Crackers

These no bake bars are a crowd pleaser and make great last-minute gifts! (via Kathryn's Kitchen)

Woman Scribbles

No Bake Coffee Swirl Cheesecake

Add a hint of coffee flavor to your cheesecake dessert. (via Woman Scribbles)

Chocolate No-Bake Holiday Desserts

Chocolate Oatmeal Cookies

A staple around the holidays, these cookies require one pot and a stove top. These cookies contain dangerously delicious amounts of peanut butter and chocolate, and for a different texture, try making them with Crunchy peanut butter. (via Foodista)

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Vegan No Bake Brownies

Whip up these egg-free brownies in only 20 minutes! (via The Real Food Dietitians)

Vanilla and Bean

Chocolate Peanut Butter No Bake Cookies

These bite-size desserts are gluten free and incredible delicious. Bet you can't eat just one! (via Vanilla and Bean)

Completely Delicious

Chocolate Oreo Parfaits

This three-ingredient dessert is so simple and requires no oven! (via Completely Delicious)

Scotcheroo Bar

This classic from Buns in My Ovenis always welcome at large gatherings. Added bonus, you can make a whole pan of these treats in one batch making it a low stress contribution. (via Buns in My Oven)

Triple Chocolate Brownies

The name alone makes us hungry. Anything with that much chocolate has to be delicious. (via Food 52)

Peanut Butter Bar

Another large group friendly recipe, these Peanut Butter Bars from Our Best Bitesare sure to please even the pickiest of eaters, think a giant Reese’s cup. (via Our Best Bites)

Vegan Peanut Butter Cacao Fudge Bars

Yes these amazing looking fudge bars are vegan! That means none of your friends and family have to miss out on the holiday goodies. (via Lunch Box Bunch)

Oreo Truffles

How do dense and delicious little Oreo truffles sound to you? We’re certainly excited about this finger friendly truffle. (via Bakerella)

Chocolate Mousse

No no-bake list would be complete without a mention of mousse. So here is a fabulous chocolate mousse for your palate’s pleasure. (via Food Network)

Homemade Tootsie Rolls

Looking for a sweet gift for that candy lover in your life or maybe just trying to find an easy item to contribute to that holiday party? Look no further! (via Sprinkle Bakes)

Peppermint Fudge

This super simple fudge has color in all the right places. Not to mention the sweet crushed candy cane on top that makes this dessert undeniably festive. (via Shugary Sweets)

Girl Scout No-Bake Holiday Desserts

Thin Mint Cookies

Dreaming about Girl Scout Cookies? Satisfy your crunchy, minty craving by making your own thin mints and if you’re feeling generous, give some as gifts! (via Everyday Reading )

Thin Mint Puppy Chow

What makes the delectable powdered sugary goodness of puppy chow (or muddy buddies) even better? Some mint! (via Shugary Sweets)

Samoa Bars

Okay maybe we’re a little Girl Scout focused but if Thin Mints aren’t your thing why not make Samoa Bars! (via Babble)

No-Bake Holiday Cheesecakes

White Chocolate No-Bake Cheesecake

These very red and white little cheesecakes would add the perfect festive touch to any meal and will wow friends and family! (via Sprinkle Bakes)

Easy No-Bake Cheesecake

Ready to wow the folks at your Holiday table? Knock their socks off with this stunning and simple Cheesecake! (via Just a Taste)

Gingerbread Oreo No Bake Mini Cheesecakes

Oreos, cheesecake, and gingerbread all in one? I think I just died and went to no-bake dessert heaven. (via My Baking Addiction)

No-Bake Holiday Pies

No Bake Mini Grasshopper Pies

We can’t get over how sweet these little desserts are, both visually and to eat! These individual desserts would be a perfect addition to a small dinner party. (Image via A Pretty Life in the Suburbs)

S’More Pie

If you tried our S’More pie and loved it, you’ll love this version as well! It does take longer to make but maybe you could whip up both and have a blind tasting… (via Brown Eyed Baker)

Orange and Cream Pie

To satisfy, dare we say it, the non-chocoholics in the room. This classy pie will be refreshing and sweet. (via Joy the Baker)

Peanut Butter Pie

And the peanut butter just keeps coming! This light and fluffy peanut butter pie will keep Grandpa coming back for seconds. (via One Ordinary Day)

Vegan Walnut Pumpkin Pie

A vegan take on a Holiday classic. This pie is the best of both worlds! (via Lunch Box Bunch)

Miscellaneous No-Bake Holiday Desserts

Vanilla Panna Cotta and Pomegranate Jelly

This elegant dessert requires absolutely no oven and looks amazing in a delicate glass. Make sure the glasses allow easy access for large spoons! (via Inspired Edibles)

Candy Cane Bark

Chaos is key to a gorgeous candy cane bark. Throw everything together and voila! A dessert that’s ready to be gifted. (via Babble)

Oreo Layer Dessert

Cool whip and chocolate pudding, nothings better! This low maintenance dessert is perfect for the dessert maker that prefers to keep things simple. (via Brown Eyed Baker)

Banana Pudding with Homemade Salted Caramel

Just in case you’re looking for something a tiny bit old fashioned for a family dinner, give these a try! They are a delicious new take on a sweet classic. (via Just a Taste )

Peanut Butter Banana Granola Bites

If massive amounts of sugar and butter make you squirm, there’s no need to miss out on all the dessert fun. Try these slightly sweet and healthy granola bites! (via Joy the Baker)

Which no-bake holiday dessert recipe will you try before the end of 2024?

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What Is A Winter Arc? Everything You Need To Know About Setting These "Self-Improvement Goals" Before 2025

We're past the point where a mid-year reset has come and gone, but leave it to the internet to find another wellness trend to highlight. This time, a focus on zeroing in on your 'winter arc' has become an EOY focal point, ushering in more calls to essentially make the most of 2024. But, what does that mean and is it even worth stressing out about if trends feel triggering?

I asked psychologist Dr. Ilana Lane, Ph.D., founder of Wellness Lane Psychological Services, to help break down the meaning of the 'winter arc' trend. She said, "First, we as humans can often engage in a pattern of thinking called 'all-or-nothing thinking,' which can become even more prominent at this time of year due to all of the external messages about 'new year, new me,'" she says.

So, whether you're curious about what the winter arc challenge is, whether you should join it, or if there are other things you can focus on before 2025, here's everything you need to know about it.

Get clued in about what the winter arc challenge is — and what you can do if it's triggered your FOMO!

I keep hearing about the winter arc challenge, but what is it?

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According to TODAY, influencer Carly Bergesshared a viral video talking about the trend at the end of September. Her TikTok platform is all about taking steps to improve yourself, hence why she emphasized the winter arc's goal of inspiring people to not slack off their goals just because the year is ending. It's meant to cover the time between October 1 and January 1 — approximately 90 days, or the length of time it takes to form a habit.

Dr. Lane says the winter arc "encourages people to 'lock in' on self-improvement goals for the last few months of the year." That sounds like setting new years resolutions right? I thought so too, but she says this challenge or trend aims to help people "be their best selves." It feels more specific, which makes all the more it intriguing.

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"In terms of the winter arc, an example of this may be someone reflecting on their year thus far and thinking how they 'didn't accomplish anything' because they didn't lose the 20 pounds they had hoped to lose, and thus they may completely lose sight of the things that they DID accomplish over the year," she adds. The examples she gives are:

Successfully starting an exercise routine
Cooking more meals at home
Opting to order out less
Accomplishing things unrelated to goals

5 Ways You Can Embrace The Winter Arc In 2025!

1. Get An Adequate Amount Of Rest

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We've already dug into sleepmaxxing and it's benefits, so we think this is definitely one of the ways you can optimize your winter arc. Not only does it involve getting at least 7 hours of sleep each night, but there's an emphasis on making sure your bedtime routine and sleep environment are also promoting something positive. This means everything from limiting your screen time before bed to keeping your room cool at night.

Dr. Lane says, "Try to view rest as a choice that's aligned with your values rather than as a sign of laziness. Use this time of year as an opportunity to reconnect with whatever matters most to you, whether that's family, time for self-reflection, etc."

2. Eat A Balanced Breakfast

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If this sounds simple, it's because it is. How many times have you skipped breakfast this year only to find yourself with a raging migraine around lunch time? PIedmont Healthcaresuggests that foregoing meals can lead to "low blood sugar," causing us to eat more things that aren't healthy. Even if you're in a hurry, try to at least eat breakfast that includes fruit and fiber.

3. Practice Gratitude

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Gratitude journaling is one of the things we love talking about at Brit + Co. It's something we've been relying on when things get rough and it's a good thing because Dr. Lane suggests living in a state of gratitude. "Research shows that taking a few moments to reflect on specific things you are grateful for can have a profound impact on your overall mental health and well-being," she says.

When everyone's talking about everything they've achieved in 2024, she believes "it's easy to have FOMO and/or feel like we aren't doing 'enough,'" but "a daily gratitude practice can shift the focus to what IS going well in your life and help you to be more present with that." How does she suggest you practice gratitude?

"Write down 3 good things that happened at the end of the day everyday, as well as why those things happened (the WHY is important as it often allows you to give yourself credit for the meaningful/impactful things you've done). You can even extend this more broadly and reflect on good things that happened over the past year and why those things happened."

4. Find Something To Enjoy Everyday

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It doesn't take much to find something to be upset about everyday. It actually feels like our brains look for it. But, Dr. Lane wants you to try to retrain your mind so you're not focusing on everything that went went wrong in any given day. "Be mindful of savoring enjoyable parts of your day-to-day-routine. This could include things like savoring a warm cup of tea, walking in nature, or journaling at the start or end of the day." Even if someone cut you off in traffic, your favorite Starbucks order will likely make you forget about the small infraction

5. Set Small, Meaningful Goals

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Even though you may be looking to have your shot at having a winter arc, you don't have to set huge goals just because someone else is. "Instead of aiming for big year-end milestones, focus on small, purposeful actions that are aligned with your values, like 'spend 10 minutes in silence' or 'call someone who brings me joy,'" Dr. Lane encourages. As far as we see it, achieving goals that matter to you means you've probably already been having a winter arc without naming it.

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The official winter arc challenge timeline is almost over, and I have FOMO!

Okay, take a deep breath. You're not behind because you've never heard of this trend and feel like you're missing out on something. "As a psychologist who specializes in burnout, I have often seen firsthand the negative impacts that our self-improvement culture can have on people's overall well-being," states Dr. Lane.

From her POV, ignoring the winter arc trend may be better for you because it's a way of "protecting your energy." The call to move away from hustle culture is real with Dr. Lane saying the winter arc "can pressure people into unnecessary busyness, draining energy that could be better spent resting or connecting with loved ones."

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Also, it's possible that you're not 100% on board with the winter arc trend. "What works for others may not align with your personal priorities or values — and that's okay," she adds. In this day and age, she feels "it can be empowering to decide what truly serves you versus going along with a popular trend."

If you don't feel energized right now, you don't have to pretend you're in the mood to improve yourself weeks before the new year arrives. According to Dr. Lane, "Winter is a natural time for reflection, restoration, and stillness." While you shouldn't be telling yourself that you'll rest when you're dead, she's adamant about you getting as much rest as you need."Rest isn't just an option — it's essential for overall well-being and entering the new year with clarity."

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Should you feel anxious about missing the majority of the winter arc's timeline, here's what Dr. Lane says you can do:

Try Breathwork: Simple techniques like 4-7-8 breathing (inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7, exhale for 8) can calm the nervous system in just a few minutes.
Engage the Senses: Use grounding exercises like the 5-4-3-2-1 method (naming five things you see, four you can touch, three you hear, two you smell, and one you taste). These can bring you back to the present moment.
Prioritize Restorative Routines: Focus on activities that recharge your system, like consistent sleep, gentle movement, time outdoors, or unplugging from screens in the evening.
Set Boundaries: There are so many demands and expectations on our time, attention, and energy this time of year - both from the outside world and from ourselves. I recommend being intentional around your boundaries for this time of year and even writing them down. This could include things like the amount of time you'll stay at certain social events, events/requests that you will plan to say "no" to, etc. Planning these things in advance can help you feel more empowered to stick to the plan if/when these things come up
Reflect Without Judgment: Instead of dwelling on what didn’t go as planned this year, acknowledge the lessons learned and focus on what you did achieve or overcome.
Celebrate Small Wins: Recognize the small joys or successes from the year—whether it’s navigating a tough season, prioritizing self-care, or simply making it through.

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25 Nifty Gifts For Cocktail Lovers

With the holidays inching closer, it's time to start thinking about gifts for your nearest and dearest. Whether you want to get them something based on their MBTI type, their zodiac sign, or their favorite hobby, we've got you covered. For the cocktail enthusiast in your life, we’re sharing our list of incredible gifts within every budget, guaranteed to match any style! From swizzle sticks and cocktail napkins that add flair to mixers and infusions for some added flavor, here's what to look for.

You’ll be sure to stay long after the gifts are opened to toast these cocktail gifts!

Anecdote Candles

Anecdote Candles Cocktail Hour Candle

Happy hour starts with this delicious-smelling candle. It carries notes of sparkling champagne, lemon juice, cognac, juniper berries, and tarragon – which all sound like a great build for an actual glass. Cheers!

Amazon

PolyScience Breville Gun Pro Smoke Infuser

This super cool gun adds a delicious smoky flavor to boozy drinks with minimal effort.

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Angostura Aromatic Cocktail Bitters

Any cocktail lover will know exactly what to do with this.

Amazon

Thoughtfully Cocktails Mix & Match Mini Cocktail Mixer Set

This sampler set is the easiest way for cocktail connoisseurs to try a whole bunch of flavors and create endless yummy drinks right at home!

Anthropologie

Lina Wine Bottle Holder

Full of midcentury style, this wine bottle holder is super on-trend and will complement any oenophile's bar cart beautifully.

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Cheers Stir Stick Set

Every good cocktail deserves a snazzy swizzle stick, and every bartender deserves a classy set. You can go with the default option (cheers!), or even request a custom design for a personalized look.

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Edible Glitter

This edible glitter makes any cocktail look absolutely magical.

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The Art of Mixology

This classic go-to source for mixology wisdom is both useful and pretty to display on the bookshelf.

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YETI Rambler 20-Ounce Cocktail Shaker

This shaker features double-wall insulation to keep those cocktails nice and oh-so cold.

Seedlip

The Seedlip Trio

Seedlip's non-alcoholic spirits have earned widespread praise for their deliciousness and contribution to booze-free drink making.

Williams Sonoma

Williams Sonoma Signature Muddler

A serious bartender needs a serious muddler. The tool turns fresh herbs and produce into cocktail magic.

Uncommon Goods

Uncommon Goods On The Rocks Set

Once you’ve got everything to make the perfect whiskey cocktail, you’ll want these granite stones to keep your drink cold (without diluting it).

Amazon

Mocktail Party

If your drink lover in interesting in trying their hand at mocktails, this book is the perfect (and prettiest!) resource for new recipes.

Urban Outfitters

Urban Outfitters Marina Bar Cart

An aesthetic bar cart is where the magic begins. Upgrade their entire set-up with this sleek pick!

Anthropologie

Ramona Coupe Glasses Set

These gorgeous glasses are great for holding cocktails, mocktails, wines, and even sparkling waters. They're a must-have for anyone with a penchant for serving classy bevvies!

Amazon

The New York Times Essential Book of Cocktails

This informative guide has everything a person would want to know about the art of making cocktails. Plus, it looks so good on a coffee table!

Williams Sonoma

Williams Sonoma Signature Bar Spoon

Save your table flatware for ice cream and pudding — a real cocktail requires a stirrer spoon.

Urban Outfitters

Urban Outfitters Cocktail Icons 2025 Calendar Tapestry

This artsy tapestry would look so chic hung next to their bar cart.

Target

Blush Cocktail Shaker Set

This colorful set has everything they need to concoct the tastiest cocktails around!

Amazon

The Drunken Botanist

This intriguing book goes back in time to shed light on the plants that make your favorite varieties of booze.

Our Place

Our Place Party Coupes

Give their tablescape a little more pizazz with these funky glasses!

Uncommon Goods

Uncommon Goods Flavored Simple Syrup Set

This set of four simple syrups includes creative flavors like Cherry Almond and Cucumber Habanero to jazz up your favorite liquors with sophisticated notes.

Amazon

3-Tier Cocktail Seasoning Box

This 3-tier seasoning box keeps all of those cocktail-making essentials in one easy to access place.

Uncommon Goods

Uncommon Goods Personalized Whiskey Barrel

Personalize spirits for your favorite whiskeylover in a special barrel with their initials or name emblazoned on the front!

Anthropologie

Anthropologie Saluti Cocktail Napkins

These adorable reusable napkins will instantly cheer up happy hour!

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This post has been updated with additional reporting by Meredith Holser.

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28 Last-Minute Christmas Gifts That Will Arrive Before The Big Day

It's that time of year where everyone is shopping for last-minute Christmas gifts (ourselves included, eek). Time just gets away! Luckily, we live in an age where we can shop for things one day, and see them arrive at our doorsteps the next. That's the magic of modern day shipping, baby! These 28 last-minute Christmas gifts all will arrive before the 25th, so that you can finally cross everyone off your list.

From girlfriends to kiddos and grandpas to coworkers, our list of last-minute Christmas gifts has a little something for everybody!

Last-Minute Christmas Gifts For Her

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Bedsure Satin Pillowcase

This silky-soft pillowcase keeps her locks in-check, and will help smooth out those pesky flyaways she's always looking out for.

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Dearfoams Fireside Sydney Shearling Fur Scuff Slipper

These plush slippers are like a cozier version of this season's "It" shoe (looking at you, UGG). When you give this last-minute Christmas gift to her, she'll appreciate how tuned-in you are to today's trends!

Amazon

Blossom Rollerball Perfume Oil

When you're lost on the best scent for her, opt for this trio! These fragrance oils are infused with real flowers, so each application smells eau so fresh. She can keep these handy in her bathroom, in her purse, and even in the car.

Amazon

Kitsch Satin Heatless Curling Set

These heat-free satin curlers leave her with some gorgeous waves and curls, without all the damage that traditional curling tools bring. They're suitable for all hair types and lengths, too.

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COSRX Snail Mucin 96% Power Repairing Essence

This #1 best-selling serum has over 49,000 5-star reviews, and your giftee will definitely feel the same about this product when you give it to them for Christmas. This bottle makes an excellent stocking stuffer so that she can up her skincare game!

Amazon

Telena Belt Bag

Did someone say dupe? This belt bag plays at one of this year's most popular accessories with the same level of quality, except at a fraction of the OG price.

Amazon

Tatcha The Serum Stick

This serum stick was made for gals who are on-the-go. It can be used under makeup or alone as skincare to combat dryness and signs of aging. Get them ready to glow!

Amazon

Soft Touch Foot Peel Mask

Foot masks are absolutely amazing, so this pack of two will make for a good stocking stuffer and last-minute Christmas gift for the gal who just wants to unwind!

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Foreo Luna 3 Facial Cleansing Brush

This chargeable facial cleansing brush will make her skincare routine oh-so fancy! Thanks to its soft silicone material and powerful pulses, this device is capable of a super deep clean every time. She'll be on her way to youthful, rejuvenated skin in no time. It's also small, so it's easy to transport.

Amazon

White Silicone & Gold Cooking Utensils Set

This kitchen pick is functional and aesthetically-pleasing, perfect for the gal that's got her home decor together. These sleek gold utensils are lightweight, but still sturdy enough to use every day.

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The Silicone Kitchen Reusable Jumbo Silicone Baking Cups

These colorful, reusable baking cups will give their kitchen a sustainable flair. They arrive in a stylish cotton mesh bag, too, so they'll look stunning as a stocking stuffer for her.

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Bloom Nutrition Super Greens Powder Smoothie & Juice Mix

Bloom's greens powder is effective in releasing our bloating, so if you've got a hottie with tummy issues to shop for, let your last-minute Christmas gift be this. It comes in a handful of other flavors, too!

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Redken Bonding Hair Mask

Same thing goes for her hair – this thick, salon-tested repairing hair mask will combat the dryness that the holiday season typically brings!

Last-Minute Christmas Gifts For Him

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ThisWorx Car Vacuum Cleaner

If your guy can't get enough of his car, gift him a tool like this small vacuum to take care of it! This last-minute Christmas gift will arrive before the big day, and he'll be using it from there on out.

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Tozo T10 Bluetooth 5.3 Wireless Earbuds

Does he hit the gym? Then these wireless earbuds are going to totally change his workout game. They're inconspicuous yet stylish in the ears, plus can play music for up to 10 hours on a single charge.

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Hanes Men's Ecosmart Fleece Sweatshirt

It's cozy season, so why not help him settle in comfortably with this sturdy cotton pullover? Basic clothing is always your bet best for last-minute Christmas gifts, and this piece comes in tons of different colors to suit your man's style.

Amazon

Echo Dot (5th Gen, 2022 Release)

The Echo Dot is the perfect companion for handling anything life throws at him. He can verbally command Alexa to ask for the weather, make to-do lists, shop for forgetting grocery items, and control his smart devices.

Amazon

Flancci Over The Door Hat Rack Organizer

This space-saving door organizer is meant to serve his hat collection! It conveniently holds up to 18 caps, all while keeping them out of the way elsewhere. Our most favorite part is that the organizer is 100% adjustable, so it can fit a variety of different sized doors, if he decides he wants to relocate his hats.

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Belkin MagSafe 3-in-1 Wireless Charging Stand

The tech-y dad or boyfriend who also has a knack for design will love this sleek stand. It'll look show-stopping on his nightstand, especially once he leaves his phone, earbuds, and watch to rest on it.

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Renpho Active Massage Gun

This massage tool will impress and destress any guy with sore muscles or tense shoulders. It has a convenient charging port for power-ups, operates under 5 different speeds, and has numerous attachments to target specific problems throughout the body.

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Modern Mixology Bartender Kit

For the guy that loves a good cocktail, this all-in-one bar kit will make the perfect last-minute Christmas gift. It'll help him whip up yummy drinks in no time! Plus, you'll probably get to be the #1 taste-tester. So, win-win.

Last-Minute Christmas Gifts For Kids

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Hasbro Gaming Connect 4

Connect 4 is a classic, so if they haven't been introduced yet, this is a genius gift idea.

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Let Loose Moose Hover Soccer Ball

This "floating" ball will keep those kiddos occupied, indoors or out. It features a soft, durable outer shell that protects the toy itself and the surroundings it's bound to hit. The colorful LED lights inside keep things interesting, especially when the lights go out.

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Marvel Legends Series Ultron, Comics Collectible 6-Inch Action Figures

Action figures are *not* out of style! Gift the Marvel lover this sturdy lil' dude for maximum happiness.

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Looikoos Kids' Walkie Talkies

We had walkie talkies as a kid, and they definitely elevated each and every play date. Now, they can communicate playfully among schoolmates, friends, and other family members.

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Mini Magical Unicorn Terrarium Kit

For the one with their head in the clouds, this dreamy terrarium kit is gonna knock it out of the park for a last-minute Christmas gift. It's a perfect gift to spark creativity in the duller winter months!

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Wearable Blanket Hoodie

The real gift will be watching your little one wobble adorably around the house in this darling oversized hoodie! It comes in an array of different colors and patterns to suit your kiddo.

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Lite-Brite Classic

Another classic toy, the Lite Brite has been a monumental part of playtime for years and years. This is another great last-minute Christmas gift that doesn't cost a ton, and doesn't take up too much room at home.

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40 Hosting Essentials That'll Make Your Home the Most Inviting Place Ever

Transform your home into the ultimate gathering spot with our curated list of essential home items for the most prepared host. Discover everything you need to create a warm and welcoming environment, from plush seating and ambient lighting to elegant tableware and smart home gadgets. Whether hosting a cozy family dinner or a lively weekend bash, these essentials will ensure your guests feel right at home. Dive into our guide and elevate your hosting game to make your space the most inviting place ever.

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Seat More Guests With This Extendable Table

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This rustic oak extendable table offers versatility and style, seating 6 to 8 people. Measuring 47 to 79 inches with extensions, it features a space-saving design with stored leaves and a durable melamine finish. Perfect for kitchens or living rooms, it includes assembly tools and instructions.

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Add Farmhouse Charm With This Spindle Back Dining Chair Set

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This dining chair set combines the classic spindle-back design with modern versatility, making it a perfect addition to kitchens and dining spaces. Each chair is made from solid wood for durability and is available in various sizes and finishes.

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Cheers With Stemless Wine Glasses

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Elevate your dining and entertaining experiences with this set of 12 stemless wine glasses. Crafted from premium clear glass, these versatile stemless wine glasses are perfect for serving red and white wines, cocktails, water, and more. The sleek, modern design enhances your beverage presentation and offers a comfortable grip.

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Upgrade Your Environment With a Stone Serving Platter

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Crafted from high-quality stoneware, each serving platter features a delightful vanilla white finish that complements any décor. Microwave-safe and designed for convenience, this hosting must-have is where functionality and style go hand-in-hand at your next party.

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Elevate Your Tablescape With Golden Brass Flatware

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This brass flatware set is designed to serve eight, which includes all the essentials for daily meals and special occasions. Each piece features a unique hexagon handle that adds a modern touch to the table, making this set a standout choice for any home kitchen. The elegant gold finish elevates your table setting and complements any dinnerware for a cohesive look.

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A Moody Wooden Bar Cart for Any Occasion

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Enhance your home with this stunning bar cart, a versatile piece that combines elegance and functionality. This stylish serving trolley, featuring a rich walnut finish complemented by sleek black accents, seamlessly blends with any décor. It is designed to serve multiple purposes and can be used as a bar cart for hosting, a convenient side table, or a mobile serving station.

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Mix Like a True Host With a Cocktail Shaker Set

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This cocktail shaker kit features everything you need to create stunning mixed drinks, including a professional-grade martini cocktail shaker. The tools are stylishly arranged on a chic bamboo stand and finished in a sophisticated gold tone, adding a touch of luxury to your mixology practice.

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Keep the Cocktails Flowing With This Glass Drink Dispenser

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Serve your favorite beverages in style with this elegant glass drink dispenser designed to elevate any gathering. Ideal for dispensing iced tea, lemonade, cocktails, and more, this dispenser allows you to cater to a crowd easily. The clear glass construction not only showcases the vibrant colors of your drinks but also ensures durability for frequent use.

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Host Sustainably With These Reusable Ice Cubes

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This 100-pack of reusable ice cubes will keep your drinks perfectly chilled without dilution. Made from BPA-free plastic, these clear, round ice cubes are designed for repeated use. Freeze and add to your coffee, wine, whiskey, or cocktails for a cold drink that maintains flavor and strength.

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Set Your Table With Reusable Napkins

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Crafted from a premium flax linen and cotton blend, these reusable napkins offer softness and durability. Ideal for both casual and formal settings, their natural texture and sophisticated appeal enhance any table decor.

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Gold Taper Candlesticks to Set the Scene

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Crafted to add a touch of glamour to any setting, these taper candlesticks holders are perfect for weddings, dining events, or parties. Each holder is designed to fit traditional 3/4 inch thick taper candles and LED alternatives, offering versatility. The elegant gold finish complements any decor, creating a warm, inviting atmosphere.

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You Need a Rewashable Linen Tablecloth

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This rectangle linen tablecloth fits various table sizes and is ideal for kitchen dining, buffet parties, holiday gatherings, picnics, weddings, and restaurant settings. Its washable material ensures easy care and repeated use, making it a practical yet stylish choice for any occasion.

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Host in Style With This Natural Stoneware Set

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This chic stoneware set includes all the essentials for a complete dining experience: four dinner plates, four salad plates, and four bowls. Each piece is crafted from durable stoneware, ensuring both beauty and longevity. Ideal for everyday meals or special occasions, this set seamlessly blends functionality with a modern, minimalist aesthetic.

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Avoid Damaged Furniture With Stone Coasters

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Travertine is a natural stone that contrasts nicely with natural wood materials, and these stone coasters make it easy to style your side tables and coffee tables with something that will prevent discoloration or glass marks on your surfaces.

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Danish Dining Chairs are a Mood

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These trending dining chairs rival popular Danish designs with their simplicity and modern leg and arm designs. The all-natural hemp seat makes this piece of furniture an essential part of a well-dressed mid-century modern dining space and pairs well with a solid oak table.

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Punctuate Your Dining Room With a New Chandelier

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This large, rustic candle-shaped metal chandelier in antique brass features a round wagon wheel design that adds a touch of timeless elegance to your gathering space. This 8-light fixture is ideal for creating a warm, inviting ambiance in entryways, dining rooms, or living areas.

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Let More Light in With Semi-Sheer Curtains

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Refresh your home with new linens this season for a truly renewed space at home. With these semi-sheer curtains, available in a range of colors, you can let in ample natural light while also creating a bit of coverage in areas where you feel you may need more privacy.

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Layer Your Treatments With Bamboo Window Screens

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Homeowners and renters often overlook window treatments because it might seem like they aren’t all that important to a space’s overall design. You’ll be pleasantly surprised with the cozy vibe of these easy-to-install bamboo window screens.

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Protect Your Surfaces With a Burlap Table Runner

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Create a rustic foundation for your fall tablescape with this burlap table runner. The natural texture will add depth and dimension to your seasonal centerpiece and make your dining experience feel like one out of a movie.

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Customize the Ambiance With a Light Dimmer

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Ideal for creating the perfect ambiance in any setting, this easy-to-operate light dimmer offers convenient adjustability of your home's ambiance, making it an essential accessory for your next dinner party.

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Serve in Style With This Charcuterie Board

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Crafted from rich acacia wood, this charcuterie board set includes a generously sized cheese plate and four specialized cheese knives, perfect for assembling an impressive charcuterie platter. The durable, aesthetically pleasing wood tray is ideal for showcasing a variety of cheese appetizers, making it a must-have for any social gathering or intimate dining experience.

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Guests Need a Wooden Coat Rack

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Add this freestanding wooden coat rack to your entryway for a functional element of decor that can hold your coat and keys until you’re ready to dash out the door again.

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Dont Forget Your Tea Towels

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Caraway linen tea towels in cream are made from 100% organic cotton, offering superior absorbency and a lint-free finish. Perfect for your curated table settings, these extra-large towels combine practicality with style, making them essential for your next dinner party.

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Stick This Wine Chiller in Your Wine

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Keep your white wine cold longer and a lot easier than in and out of the fridge or in an ice bucket that eventually melts. Even at room temperature, this wine chiller chills immediately.

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Write Your Own Dinner Menu With This Craft Paper Roll

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Like a wall-mounted chalkboard, this craft paper roll is the perfect place to detail your grocery list, meal plan, or elaborate dinner menu.

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A Bowl For the Big Stuff

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This oversized bowl is big enough to serve up an entire batch of pasta or a large salad for you and your guests to share.

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You Can't Go Wrong With a Wood Serving Tray

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Set out some finger foods while your guests are waiting on their dinner with this sturdy wood serving tray that displays all of your tapas where people can grab it and go as they mingle with each other.

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Warm Your Dinner Ambiance With Flameless Votives

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Everyone loves candlelight, but sometimes, when you have an extravagant tablescape, the risk of something catching fire is not worth it. Instead, use these flameless votives to achieve the same illuminating impact without the fire hazard.

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Sleep More Comfortably With This Sofa Bed

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Explore the versatility and comfort of a U-shaped sofa bed the next time you have overnight guests. This convertible sectional sleeper sofa features a pull-out couch for sleeping, plus a double-seat storage chaise. It’s equipped with USB charging ports and a cup holder, all upholstered in a sleek dark gray fabric — ideal for any living room or guest space.

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Every Host Needs This Accent Table

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This modern accent table features a gorgeous bone inlay design for an eye-catching place to sit for a cocktail. The sleek black metal base adds an edgy touch that's easy to style in tight corners. Perfect for small spaces, it serves well as a living room end table.

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Clear Your Entryway With This Shoe Cabinet

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Offer your guests a neat way to store their shoes at your front door with this freestanding shoe cabinet. The natural material of the drawer fronts conceals this sturdy storage gadget as a piece of furniture, hiding bulking shoes with ease and style.

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Movie Night Calls for This Waffle Throw Blanket

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Add cozy comfort to your living space with this waffle throw blanket. Perfect for draping over your couch, this reversible, soft, comfortable knit blanket creates a warm, inviting atmosphere for guests. Lightweight yet warm, it’s ideal for enhancing comfort and style in any room, sized at 50 x 60 inches in a versatile beige hue.

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Present Your Treats Naturally With Snack Trays

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These gorgeous acacia wood snack trays feature handles on the bottom for easy carrying and a grooved lip to prevent spills. They come in a set of three and are perfect for serving guests all your yummy appetizers.

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Style This Bluetooth Speaker in Plain Sight

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Style your sounds with a wooden Bluetooth speaker for wireless audio streaming. The vintage rotary radio design includes AM and FM dials for a truly antique decorative addition that’s been improved for the modern day.

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Enjoy This Wool Rug for Warmth Underfoot

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Position this large wool rug under your coffee table or anchor a seating area in an open concept space. The elegance of its neutral tone and soft pattern can be easily incorporated into a home with an existing design scheme for an effortless upgrade.

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Create Your Cozy Atmosphere With a Styled Console Table

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This rustic console table is designed to mimic a natural oak wood grain and is just the right size for styling in a narrow hallway or behind your living room sofa. With a display shelf and three drawers, you can easily make your home look cozy and curated with just one piece.

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