16 Dreamy Long-Sleeved Wedding Dresses Perfect for Fall “I Dos”

Strapless, shoulder-baring gowns are one of the most popular wedding dress styles around, but the appeal of classic long sleeves simply can’t be denied. They’re romantic and timeless, calling to mind some of the most iconic wedding gowns of all time. Both Grace Kelly and Kate Middleton opted for full-skirted designs with ladylike lace sleeves, but the look isn’t strictly reserved for royalty. Celebs like Allison Williams, Audrey Hepburn, Olivia Palermo and Bianca Jagger (okay, so she wore a YSL Le Smoking jacket — details, details) all walked down the aisle doing the long-sleeve thing. If you have an autumnal affair in the works, long sleeves are definitely something to consider. To get the wedspiration off to a good start, we’ve pulled 16 stunning options below.

1. Marchesa Notte Rosanna Gown ($1,300): Be it a garden soiree or an elegant old-world affair at a historic estate, this enchanting gown is guaranteed to make jaws drop. Gilded embroidery, illusion sleeves and ethereal overlay render the striking A-line design both daring and demure. Style with Renaissance-inspired drop earrings, coppery eye makeup and a low chignon for a look that feels fit for a queen.

2. Houghton Marina ($2,500): Cookie cutter this tiered chiffon gown is not. Between the OMG-worthy neckline, lacy flutter sleeves and bombshell belt, this stunner perfectly blends past and present for a bridal look that’s bound to go down in history. Elevate the dress’s bohemian-babe vibes by adorning beachy waves with a dramatic flower crown. On the accessories front, make the most of the gown’s bare-it-all neckline with a luxe lariat or suede bolo.

3. Amsale Myra Gown (POA): If your sartorial loyalties lie on the traditional side, this airy tulle ball gown is right up your alley. Practically made for twirling out on the dance floor, this pretty piece would look downright DDG with a classic updo, shimmery heels and a brightly painted pout. Bonus points for a cathedral-length veil with timeless flair.

4. J.Crew Florence Gown ($2,650): This gorgeous gown transcends time with its classic A-line silhouette and flowy chiffon that will resonate with traditionalists and modern muses alike. Whether you’re planning a contemporary urban soiree or a rustic fête under the stars, play up its subtle vintage vibe with a lace-trimmed veil and art deco earrings for the win.

5. Kite and Butterfly Petal Gown ($860): Unleash your inner bohemian goddess with a crocheted lace gown that lets the good vibes roll. Perfect for exchanging heartfelt vows with your toes in the sand, followed by a backyard fête, the only thing this bell-sleeve beauty is missing is a lush flower crown and cascading bouquet.

6. Rime Arodaky Olsen Lace-Paneled Twill Gown ($4,850): Forget Breton stripes — give your bridal style a hint of French-girl flair with a show-stopping gown by Paris-based Rime Arodaky. Featuring edgy lace panels and a sleek sheath silhouette, it flawlessly fuses classic and contemporary aesthetics.

7. Milamira Bridal Agnia Gown ($740): It’s all in the details. Swiss dot tulle and a pale peach underlay lend this whimsical frock plenty of personality. Team it with a crystal-embellished belt and gilded halo for a storybook-style ensemble that will leave them breathless.

8. Houghton Wilkinson ($3,500): Not for the faint of heart, this sheer lace stunner is straight-up goals. Do wedding-day dressing your way by styling it alongside a bright pair of sneakers or sculptural stilettos, natural-looking makeup and a white leather jacket for a runway-ready look.

9. Needle & Thread Bridal Embellished Tulle Gown ($1,895): You’ll take any excuse to embrace a bit of glitz and glamour — and what better occasion than your impending “I dos?” With its intricate embellishments and ivory tulle, this lovely A-line number has goddess vibes built right in. Skip the veil and let this bad boy shine, adorning an understated ‘do with a sleek metallic headband.

10. Angel Sanchez Fall Winter 2016 Look 12 (POA): One word: obsessed. Illusion sleeves trimmed in dainty silk flowers lend this classic satin gown a one-of-a-kind edge. For a one-and-done look, let the gown do all the talking, styling it alongside simple studs and a bright hand-tied bouquet.

11. Self Portrait Long Sleeve Gown With Pleated Skirt ($836): Donning a big white dress has never been something you aspired to do — and that’s totally cool. Do you, girl, with a streamlined style with undeniable throwback flair. Between the crocheted bodice and larger-than-life bow, this gorgeous gown checks all the boxes. Usher the unique style into the 21st century with ultra-modern accessories like a sleek ear cuff.

12. Berta Style 16-122 (POA): Dance floor divas, listen up! You need a dress that shines as bright as your killer dance moves, and this bead-embellished beauty won’t disappoint. The semi-sheer skirt and OMG-worthy back make it ideal for a glam blowout bash — just add shimmery block heels (essential for keeping feet happy as you bounce to the beat) and a metallic smokey eye.

13. Reformation Thea Dress ($428): Okay, so grandma may not approve of the plunging neckline, but girl — you can’t make everyone happy. For an elegant look that feels right in line with your minimalist mentality, style your hair into a romantic fishtail braid and toss on a pair of burgundy suede block heels (that match your mani, of course).

14. Korovilas Landry Dress ($560): Lace-lovin’ ladies, this one’s for you. 3D details, graphic lace and a chevron scalloped hem put a RN twist on the classic bridal gown, striking the ultimate balance between traditional and trend-right. Are you obsessed yet?

15. Houghton Cinzia ($2,950): “Average” simply won’t do on your wedding day. You need a dress that will make jaws drop the second you step into the room. Enter the sultry column gown that manages to wow while leaving plenty to the imagination. The front lace panel allows you to get a little sassy without making grandma go weak in the knees.

16. Maggie Sottero Roberta Wedding Dress (POA): Gorgeous doesn’t even begin to cover it. Illusion lace, hand-placed appliqueés and a feminine sweetheart neckline are what dreams are made of. DO accessorize with vintage earrings and a crystal-embellished belt for an unforgettable ensemble that will do your Insta following proud. #nailedit

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Wedding season is back, and busier than ever. If you're feeling like you spend every other summer weekend in attendance, only to spend the few weekends in between recovering — and shopping — for your next event, you're certainly not alone.

While it's wonderful to watch our loved ones wed, we all know how quickly the celebrations can add up, and we're here to remind you there's absolutely no shame in repeating a wedding guest dress a few times, or all season long! In fact, you'll find floral dresses can go a long way, as their multi-colored prints allow them to be styled with different accessories for a new look each time.

If you're juggling several different wedding themes in one season, say, beach unions and backyard weddings, try to invest in one good floral print that can adapt across locales, or scoop up a few extra-affordable picks and assign one to each setting!

Ahead, our favorite floral wedding guest dresses to help you get through the wedding season and all your formal festivities this summer.

Free People Alma Midi Dress

This subtle light pink midi is adorned with feminine florals and delicate ruffles that feel like spring and summer's BFF. The asymmetrical hem lends this dress a whimsical vibe, which will earn you compliments all season long. Pair with some cute heels and your go-to bag to complete the look! 

Available in sizes XS-XL for $168.​

Hutch Braylan One-Shoulder Maxi Dress

This maxi may have just one shoulder strap, but we promise it's secure as ever. Hugging your form in the most flattering way, the bust on this piece is elastic and very flexible, so it moves when you do. The lush green floral details pay homage to the seasons best blooms.

Available in sizes XXS-L for $319.

AFRM Shea Floral A-Line Maxi Dress

This illustrative maxi is the moment! Adorned with everything from flowers to butterflies, this wedding guest dress is for the young at heart. The shape is simple and flowy, starting out with a straight neckline and falling to an a-line skirt. It's also lined for added comfort!

Available in sizes XS-XL for $88.

Bardot Felicia Mesh Floral Midi Dress

For a more form-fitting floral option, this pink + red number will do the trick. It's quite stretchy, so you can sit, stand, and dance in total comfort. The ruching running along the sides gives your shape even more flattering definition for all the pics you'll be taking during the wedding.

Available in sizes 2-12 for $119.

Shona Joy Karla Paneled Maxi Dress

This paneled dress falls all the way to the floor in an elegant manner. It's covered in royal blue, white, and rustic brown florals for a very graphic feel. While the skirt is more flowy, the bust on this dress fits snugly, like a corset. It comes complete with a matching belt to make the 'fit more formal!

Available in sizes 2-12 for $420.

Abercrombie & Fitch Ruffle Strap High-Low Maxi Dress

We are in love with this ruffle-y wedding guest dress! Part of Abercrombie & Fitch's new wedding collection, this high-low silhouette is dotted with classic pink florals. The ruching follows the bodice as well as the straps to create a chic shape. The breezy printed chiffon material is lined on the inside with a solid polyester for total coverage.

Available in petite, regular, and tall sizes XXS-XXL for $130.

Steve Madden Adalina Floral Ruffle Maxi Dress

On the delicate side, we can't stop gawking over this femme chiffon frock. It's an off-white, more cream-colored fabric for staying cool in the spring + summer sun. The bold ruffles that cross in the front make sure your look doesn't go unnoticed. While most floral wedding guest dresses are covered in the blooms, this one is more subdued.

Available in sizes XS-XL for $99.

Conditions Apply Chloe Strapless Maxi Dress

We actually adoreblack wedding guest dresses, and this one is still floral! You can make it strapless or opt for the included straps to feel more secure. The big graphic blooms will photograph beautifully, too. Only plan on wearing it to a wedding once? This dress doubles amazingly for any beachy vacations you've got on the cal!

Available in sizes XXS-XL and plus sizes 1X-3X for $148.

Petal & Pup Senorita Floral Print Sleeveless Maxi Dress

With a high neck and a high-cut leg slit, this maxi dress is def ready for the wedding after party! The side cutouts transition to an adorable open back design that feels sexy ​and ​breathable. This pick secures in the back with a no-fuss string tie and just looks sooo fun!

Available in sizes 4-10 for $84.​

The A&F Camille Midi Dress

Made of smooth satin-y fabric, this midi follows your figure with some flattering seams that run down the whole dress. The upper part is definitely more fitted, but allows for some movement with an elastic backing. The thin spaghetti straps are totally adjustable, too, so you can find the fit that suits you!

Available in sizes XXS-XXL.

ASTR The Label Floral Puff Sleeve Midi Dress

This floral wedding guest dress is for the color lovers. It's smattered in flowers and leaves of all kinds that work wardrobe magic whenever you wear it! The puffed sleeves definitely speak to the romantic vibe of any wedding you're attending, and the neckline comes together beautifully with a fun front tie. This pick is finished off with a high-cut leg slit for added breeziness!

Available in sizes XS-XL for $99.

A New Day Women's Crepe Midi Slip Dress

This easy-to-wear slip dress is totally comfy! Crafted out of a lightweight crepe fabric, you can feel confident at any temperature. The v-neck and leg slit create a flattering balance in the silhouette, plus the pink floral pattern is the season's ultimate match! Adjust the straps with traditional closures to find your perfect fit.

Available in sizes XS-4X for $25.

Montce Petal Floral Maxi Dress

The bustier-like top on this floral maxi is everything to us! The ruched bra cups will draw attention to your ensemble and make you feel super fly. This dress secures in the back with a hook closure, and flaunts an open back for some light flirty vibes.

Available in sizes XS-XL for $218.

Motel Vilnia Floral Midi Dress

This versatile pick goes the less-traditional route in the way of florals. Its flower motifs are dotted separately all across the fabric, and match the neckline's velvet lining perfectly! We like that this dress is limited in its color palette to make matching with shoes and outerwear easy as can be. The bow in front of the chest seals the deal!

Available in sizes XS-XXL for $85.

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It's official: Blue Ivy looks totally grown up now — especially in her gorgeous gold gown at the Mufasa: The Lion Kingpremiere. It honestly feels like just yesterday that Beyoncé announced she was born, and now she's a star in her own right! She celebrated her Disney film debut with her family by her side on the red carpet (and everyone looking as gorgeous as ever).

While Jay-Z was one of the latest celebrities caught in the crosshairs of P. Diddy allegations, it didn't stop mom and dad from showing their unwavering support. The family put on a united front, smiling for the cameras and praising Blue's work on her latest Disney film, further proving that they're in this together. Here's everything we know!

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Beyoncé & Jay-Z Amazing Support Of Blue Ivy's Role In 'Mufasa'

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Blue Ivy stars in Mufasa: The Lion King as Kiara with Beyoncé voicing Nala again. The highly anticipated film will show Mufasa's origins from a young cub to the majestic king we've come to know, love, and mourn.

In this cute BTS clip, Beyoncé and Blue are initially shown in separate recording booths while the latter says, "Don't stare at me." It's a typical response all kids eventually give their parents, but it doesn't bother Beyoncé. She simply smiles and says, "I can't help it. You're just too beautiful girl." Still, she offers a bit of reassurance to Blue. "I'mma be right here closing my eyes."

Blue briefly talked about what it feels like to work on a movie by saying, "If I like told my younger self that I was in a movie, I'd like never believe myself."

The star couldn't help but tear up as she continued to watch Blue and said, "Give me a second. I'm still...just can't believe that's my baby." While sitting side by Blue, Beyoncé eventually turns to look at her to let her know she's "so proud of her." Even Rumi, Beyoncé and Jay-Z's youngest daughter, makes a quick appearance!

The Mufasa: The Lion King premiere occurred December 9 with Beyoncé, Jay-Z, and grandma Tina Knowles standing by Blue Ivy's side. They looked stunning on the red carpet as they wore coordinating outfits. Although the ladies seemed to be present and excited, Jay-Z temporarily looked distracted while all of them were standing together (via PEOPLE).

If we had to guess, it may have something to do with the recent allegations connecting he and P. Diddy weighing on his mind. After the accusation went public, Jay-Z penned his own public statement and shared it to Roc Nations' social channels. The most heartbreaking aspect of it is realizing his children will be able to see everything.

"My wife and I will have to sit our children down, one of whom is at the age where her friends will surely see the press and ask questions about the nature of these claims, and explain the cruelty and greed of people," he wrote (via X). Only time will tell how everything pans out, but we hope this doesn't overshadow Blue Ivy's success, nor do we want to see people vilify her or her siblings for alleged misdeeds of Jay-Z.

At the end of the day, we're so proud of Blue for letting her light shine bright despite everything else!

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Warmer weather calls for lighter, shorter, and comfier outfits. It's a feat to find a dress that hits all three of these marks, especially if you're attending a spring or summer wedding ceremony. As the temperatures rise, make sure you're well-prepared with an appropriate wedding guest dress style! We've got you covered with the short wedding guest dresses below, which go above and beyond to make you feel both comfortable and confident!

Free People Perfect Day Printed Dress

This short wedding guest dress leans casual with effortless puff sleeves and a swingy skirt, but it meets elegance worthy of wearing to a wedding ceremony from the open back detail. The bodice of this v-neck silhouette is thoughtfully ruched for a change in texture. All things considered, this is a super comfy style!

This $128 dress is top-rated Free People and comes in 4 other floral colorways including blue, cream, black, and multicolor. This brown + pink number is currently shoppable in sizes XS-XL.

City Chic Blakely Tie Neck Long Sleeve Minidress

The flounce-y, fluttery trim on this mini is sooo adorable, and perfect for a springtime wedding! The long sleeves are wispy and breathable, while the rest of the dress is lightly lined for added coverage. The elastic waistband is snug but not uncomfortable, plus this little number ties neatly up top with a chic neck tie that you can style a number of different ways.

This $99 plus-sized pick is available in this stunning blue-purple shade and sizes 14-24.

The A&F Giselle Pleated Mini Dress

This pleated number from Abercrombie & Fitch's brand-new wedding collection is serving a main character moment. The green color makes it one of the freshest short wedding guest dresses for springtime. The v-neck sihlouette is super flattering, yet secure for all of the day's moments.

You can also snag this dress in a cool blue hue and standard, petite, and tall sizes XXS-XL for $77 (on sale, was $110).

Farm Rio Black Colored Stripes Short Sleeve Mini Dress

Black wedding guest dresses are everything to us, TBH. This 100% linen one gets a colorful treatment around the trim lining the hem, the sleeves, and neckline to make your look stand out – it'll also photograph beautifully! This versatile piece will serve you past those spring ceremonies, too. The piece secures in the back with a discreet, durable zipper.

This $250 dress from Farm Rio is sustainably crafted, made with 50% of recycled materials. It's currently available in sizes XXS-L.

Zesica Satin Halter Neck Tie Waist Mini Dress

The elegant wrapped neckline on this satin dress not only provides you with some coverage up top, but it makes a style statement worth documenting. The wrap skirt is extra classy, boasting a bow tie that secures in front. This dress zips up and buttons in the back.

This $50 Amazon dress comes in 15 other colors, so you can shop for the shade that matches your next occasion the most. The fabric is 95% polyester and 5% spandex.

Old Navy Waist-Defined Shine Mini Dress

Pretty as a flower! This long-sleeved mini dress from Old Navy features some beautiful blooms that'll surely feel celebratory of the spring and summer seasons. It's a step-in fit, with elastic banding spanning across the waist and arm cuffs for more comfort. The body and skirt of this short wedding guest dress is lined well, and the outer layer has some shiny seams woven in for eye-catching factor!

Shop this dress on sale for just $16! This colorway is available in regular sizes XS-XXL and 4X, tall sizes XS and L, and petite sizes XS, S, XL, and XXL.

Saylor Joelene Dress

For a more fitted look, this ruched dress from Saylor is super flattering! The puffed sleeves and flutter detail on the bottom of the skirt will transform your shape and look undoubtedly elegant for attending a wedding. The colorful floral pattern that covers the entire piece is springtime's perfect pairing, so you can really wear it all season long.

This pick is made from 100% cotton and doesn't have any stretch to it. You can snag it for $264 in sizes XS-L now!

Abercrombie & Fitch Organza Tiered Strapless Mini Dress

Floral prints are sooo darling for spring and summer ceremonies, and this strapless frock keeps things flowy, no matter the season. The three-tiered design is lined underneath for added coverage.

You can shop this $90 dress in solid white, hot pink, or a light pink floral pattern in sizes XXS-XXL now.

BHLDN Leila Stretch Satin Deep-V Mini Dress

This simple mini exhibits a stunning plunging v-neck that points down to a beautifully ruched bustier, flattering the upper half of your bod easily. The bodice is fitted with a small elastic band that moves with you! If this hot pink color breaks the dress code, you can buy it in black or dark green.

This semi-stretchy number is $168 at Anthropologie and is sold in sizes XS-XL.

Free People For The Moment Mini

Everything about this low-key dress is wonderful for a wedding – the abundant (but still chic) coverage, the whimsical a-line skirt, and stylish puff sleeves. All of the details are made from 100% cotton, too, so you won't overheat in the spring + summer heat. The neckline follows a v-shape that'll match well with any hairstyle you go with, up or down.

This breezy $88 number also comes in 8 other colors to suit your next spring/summer wedding. This deep yellow hue is now available in sizes XS-L.

Maeve The Brynne 3-D Spaghetti-Strap Dress

She's an icon. She's a legend. And she is the moment! This short wedding guest dress makes a statement with bold floral graphics that wrap around the front and back. The embroidered sequins that make up the "petals" provide added texture and color that's easy to pull together with a pair of heels or cardigan. This sky blue-lavender dress secures in the back with a sizable zipper.

This $230 dress is perfect for wearing to weddings, spring parties, and picnics. Grab it in sizes 0-16 now!

All in Favor Square Neck Long Sleeve Textured Satin Minidress

This romantic mini dress has tiered elastic bands that accentuate your upper half beautifully. The stretchy sleeves can sit atop your shoulders, or hang down for a cold shoulder look! The stylish square neckline comes complete with an adorable tie in the front.

Available in this peachy champagne color, you'll fall in love with this number for every spring and summer happening. It's currently 40% off, costing just $35 instead of $59. It's sold in sizes S, M, and L.

Zesica Backless Tie Waist Silky Mini Dress

This easy-fitting mini dress is one of our fave short wedding guest dresses because it's comfy and totally cool girl-approved. The smooth, silky fabric (that claims is "not easy to wrinkle") makes every wear zero-fuss and the tie-back detail is undeniably on-trend. More than anything, this flirty frock is versatile, easily dressing up with heels and a sweater or flaunting a more casual look with sneakers and a denim jacket. It's up to you!

This $48 Amazon dress comes in 10 other colors so customizing your 'fit is fairly straightforward. It comes in sizes S-XL.

The A&F Giselle Pleated Mini Dress

This might just be one of the most perfect short wedding guest dresses we've even laid eyes on. Those pleats though! The upper is more form-fitting, flattering your figure with ease. The v-neck feels sultry, but it isn't overly revealing. This dress' straps are adjustable, and the piece zips up in the lower back for security. This lined mini is made from a 100% polyester blend that feels silky to the touch.

You can also get this $77 dress (was $110) in a gorgeous green color. It's sold in sizes XXS-XL and lengths varying from petite to tall now!

Gap Linen-Cotton Puff Sleeve Mini Shirtdress

This short wedding guest dress is classy AF! We adore the longline puff sleeves and button-up design. The tie-around waist definitely gives your figure some definition, too! The skirt hits just above the knee if you're shopping for something more modest. The linen-cotton material ensures easy, breezy comfort in each wear. This dress is unlined, so you might need a slip to wear underneath.

This peachy pick sells for $70 with Gap and also comes in 5 other colors! This springy color is now available in regular sizes XXS-XXL, tall sizes S-XXL, and petite sizes XS-L.

Ann Taylor Polka Dot Flounce Shift Dress

The robin's egg blue color of this polka-dotted shift dress was ​made​ for spring! The crew neck is perfectly appropriate for family-filled occasions (like weddings), plus the skirt falls above the knee for more coverage. The body of this number is lined, whereas the sleeves aren't – this difference really adds to the playful look! The sleeves fall to a wide, retro-inspired fit, and the midsection is fitted with a skinny, stylish tie belt. 

​This Ann Taylor dress is on sale right now for $104 (was $149) and is available in regular sizes 00-18 and petite sizes 00-16.

Free People Marina Mini

This dress is a great fit for any sort of event, but it'll be super cute for spring + summer weddings! This mini is business in the front and a total party in the back – the back half features a unique strappy back that ties into a bow! And though pleated, this look feels as effortless and breezy as can be.

The Marina Mini from Free People also comes in 15 other colorways to suit your personal style. It sells for $88 in sizes XS-XL1

Old Navy Fit & Flare Linen-Blend Mini Dress

Balanced between a snug fit and a flowy flare, this short wedding guest dress from Old Navy prioritizes comfort over anything. The scooped neckline is fairly basic, so it'll suit any body type. The straps adjust to the length of your liking without being too intrusive. Easily pair this pick with heels and a light cardigan, and you're good to go!

On sale for $20 (was $35), this piece is a must-have for seasonal weddings and beyond. Its size range is impeccable, available in sizes XS-4X.

Maeve The Cecily Fit & Flare Sweetheart Mini Dress

This mint green mini lives rent-free in our heads. The sweetheart neckline is definitely more sophisticated for fancier weddings, and the cap sleeves are wonderfully femme in lieu of springtime. Additionally, this linen-cotton blend piece flaunts thoughtfully details from the front buttons to the vertical seam work!

This $158 mini from Maeve is shoppable in sizes XXS-XL now.

Madewell Square Neck Linen Minidress

For going somewhere more casual, this Madewell mini dress fits like your fave t-shirt. With a stretchy elastic band that secures the bust, you'll feel super comfy. Plus, the square neckline provides some delightful coverage if you're looking for it! The softness of the linen is truly unmatched and the light blue hue is great for warmer weather.

This $110 dress will last you year after year for any occasion since it's easy to style formally or casually. It's shoppable in sizes 14-24!

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Ahhh…Paris Geller. Where does one even begin with the best Gilmore Girl whose name isn't actually Gilmore? The woman we all came to know and love. The purveyor of backhanded compliments, deadpan humor, the quickest wit one can imagine and an absolutely ungodly work ethic. The sole character of the series who I would 100% watch a spin-off of, and love every minute. Sure — she once said that everyone around her needed to be sterilized immediately. And that Rory’s boyfriend offers “nothing to women or the world in general.” And that she can “scare the stupid out of you. But the lazy runs deep.”

She may, in fact, be the only character whose absurdity warrants such unhinged comments, and I am so here for it. You may be reading this because you too believe that Paris Geller deserves way more praise than she receives. Or you hate her. Or perhaps you don’t even know who she is. Regardless, allow me to delight you with the many — shall I say — unique musings of my favorite Gilmore Girls character, and explain exactly why Paris was not only what the cult-classic show needed, but the feminist icon TV needed, too.

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So let’s start from the beginning. Paris Geller (played by Liza Weil) joined the GG crew in Season 1, right as Rory Gilmore (the show’s sort-of protagonist) walked into Chilton Academy, a private school where Paris was attending, for her first day. A far cry from Rory’s relatively timid and soft-spoken personality, Paris tore up the screen with her high-strung personality and immediate rivalry with Rory (Rory did not feel the same), who Paris viewed as the only candidate who could possibly challenge her spot at the top of the class standing. As the year progresses, the two become friends, which of course Paris still highly questioned.

The rest of their high school experience is plagued with repeated ups and downs, from Paris’s parents’ highly publicized divorce to their joint student government campaign and, most notably, Paris’s C-SPAN meltdown, courtesy of a Harvard rejection fueled by what she can only assume to be wide-spread knowledge that she lost her virginity. Despite losing the Valedictorian slot to Rory (which Paris comes to terms with after finding out Salutatorians tend to be more successful), Paris walks across the graduation stage and accepts her diploma from the school’s headmaster, to which she iconically quips, “no hard feelings.”

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Fast forward to Paris’s first year at Yale, a school she knew Rory was attending but had no intention of ever seeing again. Not to the surprise of Paris’s life coach, the two frenemies were placed together as suitemates, a pairing that ultimately served as a catalyst for lifelong friendship. Throughout college, Paris pursues pre-med and pre-law degrees, joins the Yale Daily News alongside Rory, dates an elderly professor (he passes away, leaving Paris to grieve), moves on with the editor of the Yale Daily News, Doyle McMaster, and potentially saves Rory from abandoning Yale forever by admitting to Lorelai that Rory is the only person who ever listened to her, challenged her and motivated her.

Paris then proceeds to become the editor of the Yale Daily News, a position in which her power-hungry tendencies took full-force, resulting in a forcible resignation, kick Rory out of their shared apartment, let Rory move back into their shared apartment (now with Doyle), be accepted to a slew of prestigious medical and law schools. She ultimately chose to attend med school and break up with Doyle, to which he refused, and tells Rory that they’re on their own but she can still do great things (Of course this doesn’t last, the two are meant to be best friends.)

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Somehow this doesn't even scratch the surface of the character of Paris. As you can tell, Paris is a fiercely loyal, protective woman who fights for herself to no end. She (literally) doesn’t care what other people think (so long as they’re not within her immediate circle) and never stops pursuing her dreams, no matter how many times she probably should have. She is the epitome of feminism in modern television — perhaps taken to an extreme — and serves as a necessary counterweight to Rory’s floundering sense of self.

So long as she keeps her need for perfectionism in check, Paris has one of those few personality types whose wild ambition and outspokenness is directly beneficial to her success, a success that she, and only she, can define. Sure, she has an exaggerated sense of self-importance, but when balanced by Rory’s soft-but-straightforward approach, Paris can quickly reset, reevaluate and move forward.

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That's the thing with Paris — she’s always moving forward. She doesn't get into Harvard? Tough. She takes a few days to wallow before considering her other options: Yale, Columbia and Princeton. She doesn’t know whether to choose med school or law school, so she takes stock of her bearings, reflects on her past dreams, and makes a clear, concise decision that she moves forward with.

Her brutally honest nature (both internally and externally) is exactly why Paris works. She’s generous when needed, comfortable with giving tough (and oftentimes tougher) love, is able to express vulnerability with the people she loves, doesn’t allow outside influences to affect her path and never let’s someone (especially a man) tell her she’s less than (*cough, cough*—Rory). For an early 2000s show, she showed women that there is power in education. There’s power in stepping away from a caretaker role. There’s power in expressing your opinion, no matter your age.

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There’s no doubt in my mind that she’s inspired countless women over the years — after all, she’s inspired me! Even though she’s had her controversial moments, she’s always been a cheering voice for women, even if it’s behind her resting grimace. For these reasons, and so many more, I am hereby deeming Paris Geller the best of Gilmore Girls — the heroine, perhaps, and a feminist icon to all.

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Gilmore Girlstakes up more of my brain space than I'd care to admit. The show is undeniably great. I mean, there's a reason it's become an absolute cultural phenomenon! The banter is witty and memorable, the Stars Hollow, Connecticut setting is warm and friendly, and the character dynamics feel natural and comforting. All of these elements combined create the perfect comfort show thatI personally rewatch again and again. However, despite having an overall positive opinion of the show, there is one bone I have to pick with it. This grievance makes my blood boil and keeps me tossing and turning at night.

While I can't pose my all-too-important question to the creators of the show, I will ask it to you, reader: Why in the world was Lane Kim's storyline such a travesty? Considering the show is not shy about uplifting and celebrating Rory (despite her many mistakes) it feels especially unfair how short of a stick Lane (played by Keiko Agena) truly got. Here are my unfiltered thoughts on the subject.

Lane deserved better after a life of seeking independence

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Throughout Lane's formative teenage years, she was forced to hide her true identity and interests in order to appease her mother. From hiding CDs in her floorboards and changing her clothes when she got to school, Lane was under a lot of pressure to keep her mom happy, while still trying to figure out who she was. Her mother even kicked her out after finding out about her "secret life," causing Lane to have to move into Rory's dorm. Rory, on the other hand, had a mother who supported her every dream and who she could be fully herself with.

I'm not sure why only one of these two besties got to live out their dreams, but if it did have to play out this way, it should have been Lane Kim. Given how difficult her upbringing was, couldn't the show have given her a win by having *her* be the one who gets to follow her dreams?

Lane's love life is lackluster

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Once again, the show propped up Rory and gave her not one, not two, but three love interests. Whether or not you love all three of them, we can all admit that each boyfriend was compatible with Rory in their own way, and helped her learn and grow. Lane, however, did not get this. Her first boyfriend, Dave, is great. He's kind and sweet and understanding of her family situation, but the show breaks them up because they can't handle being long-distance. (Technically, we know actor Adam Brody had to leave for The O.C. but where is the justice??!)

After Dave, it all goes downhill from there for poor Lane. She ends up with Zack, who isn't bad but isn't great. And, as soon as Lane is finally getting to pursue her passion by going on tour with her band, she finds out she and Zack are pregnant. Considering how long Lane dreamed of getting to be her authentic herself and openly express her interests, it feels cruel that this twist of fate took it away from her at this exact moment.

Lane made the best of her situation

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Despite Rory having almost every opportunity available to her, we find out in Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life that she is making bad decisions (like, er, sleeping with an engaged man) and is struggling to find her way. Lane, on the other hand, has made the best out of the cards she's been dealt. She's still married to Zack, is taking care of her twins, and has even kept music in her life by joining a band. I can't help but think if Lane can forge ahead despite all of her unfortunate circumstances, how fantastic could her life have been if the writers had served her just a little bit more good fortune?

Lane could have served as the role model so many girls needed

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Lane's experience mirrors many Asian-American girls' lives. She had a strict upbringing and struggled to strike a balance between fitting in with her American peers and forming her own identity, while still trying to manage her mother's expectations of who she should be. As an Asian-American, Lane's experiences mirrored many of my own, and, at a time when there was such little Asian representation, this was extremely impactful.

With the lack of representation at the time, it was even more important that Lane was dealt an ending that she and her viewers could be proud of. Instead of turning her into somewhat of a cautionary tale, her story could have been utilized to empower an audience of individuals who saw themselves in her. For that reason, Lane's treatment on Gilmore Girls will never quite sit right with me.

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