Majo Molfino On Breaking The Good Girl Myth


Majo Molfino On Breaking The Good Girl Myth

You know when you meet someone who manages to be eloquent, thoughtful *and* an action-oriented badass at the same time? It's a truly rare combination, and one unique to Majo Molfino. Known for asking tough questions (of herself and the brilliant people around her) and taking a different approach to breaking stereotypes, Majo's book Break The Good Girl Myth is a guidebook to squashing perfectionist mythology and finding yourself. Today we'll ask *her* the questions, and still probably end up finding ourselves — she's got a knack for making that happen.

Anjelika Temple here, co-founder of Brit + Co, reformed perfectionist, unconventional overachiever, and co-host of Selfmade, B+C's new-ish 10-week entrepreneurial program! I connected with Majo when we brought her on as a coach and mentor for our fall session of Selfmade, and immediately fell for her take on designing your purpose instead of searching endlessly for it. Majo also hosts her own powerful course called IGNITE, an 8-week creative leadership program all about designing your creative purpose and manifesting your creative dreams. Sign us up!

Read on for more about how she found *her* purpose and mission, and don't be surprised if you find yourself reclaiming your true power by the end of this Q&A ;)

Anjelika Temple: First off, tell us a little more about your background. Where did you grow up? What did you study? Where are you based now?

Majo Molfino: I was born in Buenos Aires, Argentina, but my parents immigrated to Canada when I was two years old. We moved around a lot so I've lived in over ten different cities in the Canada and U.S. before making my way out to the San Francisco Bay Area which is where I'm now based. I love being a woman of California. I feel at home here.

Anj: Next, let's hear a bit about your career path, and what led you going out on your own, becoming an author, coach, workshop leader.

Majo: In my mid 20s, I realized I deeply cared about women's leadership, and specifically, their creative confidence and power. Anchoring into this purpose helped shape and inform everything else. Once I had the clear sense of "why," the "how" became an expression of my strengths and gifts. I've always loved communicating and writing, as well as guiding and mentoring others. I love design and the creative process, so that became a central part of my point-of-view in empowering women. I encourage women to define their "why," and not get too caught up in the "how" which evolves and changes over time.

Anj: How has your (and your parents') immigrant experience shaped who you are today?

Majo: Being an immigrant is a state of adaptation and a feeling of being "in between." I didn't quite feel fully Argentinean, Canadian, or American, and having multiple cultural identities has allowed me to think of identity as a fluid, evolving thing. Being multilingual and multicultural has given me permission to be multi-passionate in my career and refuse to be boxed into a certain role or label. At the same time, I felt a pressure to repay my parents for their sacrifice, so I became that prototypical good girl who got straight A's and was terrified of disappointing my parents. My journey in unlearning these good girl tendencies is what led me to write my first book, Break the Good Girl Myth.

Anj: On that note, your book has quickly become a go-to resource for women from all walks of life — entrepreneurs, mothers, recent grads embracing adulthood with authenticity and optimism. Talk to us about what inspired you to write your book.

Majo: In working with women, I noticed that many of them wanted to be badasses and share their gifts, but continued to be stuck. And this was painful to watch, because so many women have incredible contributions they can offer the world, and the world desperately needs female perspectives, so I wondered how to support in unblocking them. Many were experiencing the same blindspots. A lot of it was under the surface, subconscious habits they picked up as little girls and was affecting their leadership today – which is how I developed the five good girl myths – these five core strategies for approval that women were using, and that were keeping them stuck. I explore these five myths in-depth in the book, as well as provide tools, frameworks, and solutions for breaking free from them. Breaking the good girl myth is about reclaiming your power as a woman, and designing a life that you want, instead of a life that is expected of you.

Anj: What was the process of writing it like? What did you love (and hate) about it?

Majo: Deep sigh. Writing is one of my deepest callings, and it's really hard. It's like the weather. Some days, there's flow. Other days, there's grind. I loved going deep into the stories of women, imagining myself back in our conversations, painting a scene, and getting really detailed. I disliked writing poorly (Who doesn't? Especially if you're a recovering "good girl!"), but I realized that was part of the process of getting the ideas out and refining them later.

Anj: How did it feel when you put it out in the world? Was there a moment that you realized you had struck such a poignant chord?

Majo: There have been many small moments, the direct messages, emails, texts, and notes from women who have shared the book has seriously supported them in making the next big transition in their life. That has always been my intention with the book: to activate women to share their gifts. Not tomorrow. Today.

Anj: Design thinking is a key part of how you recommend we break perfectionism. Talk to us more about that.

Majo: Perfectionism blocks action – it causes us to procrastinate, overanalyze, avoid, delay, and do everything in our power not to do the work. Design thinking is an incredible antidote because it teaches us how to take action in a non-intimidating way that builds creative confidence – the ability to come up with new ideas and the courage to try them out. The best part of design thinking is making prototypes of our ideas. A prototype is a small, quick, easy-to-make, easy-to-break version of our idea or goal. They are purposefully imperfect because they are only approximations of our ideas and are meant to be eventually thrown out. If you're not used to putting yourself out there, prototyping is a great way to take mini uncomfortable leaps that won't terrify and paralyze you. We don't have time to get it "perfect;" we just need to get it out.

Anj: You've been such an amazing collaborator and coach during the fall session of Selfmade. What have been your key takeaways on the program so far?

Majo: It's been amazing to see all the parts required for a business to flourish and succeed. I truly wish I had taken Selfmade when I was beginning my entrepreneurial journey eight years ago. The modules about how to hone in on a business idea, as well as the different business models (with B+C as a case study) were such gold. The mentors, like Boz St. John, the CMO of Netflix, have been real highlights for me. Hearing the stories of badass women is not only inspiring, but tactical as each woman has a different way of approaching a business problem.

Anj: You also have your own incredible program, IGNITE. Tell us more about it!

Majo: I believe every woman has a creative purpose she must design and express. But it's scary! Too many of us dangerously delay our creative dreams because of our resistance (excuses, negative self-beliefs, perfectionism, self-doubt, fears, etc.). IGNITE is an 8-week program that invites you to build creative confidence and define, test, and share their creative idea with the world, without quitting your day job or making a big career move. It's for a woman who is ready to play bigger and step into her creative potential. If you're interested in learning more, check out IGNITE here.

Anj: What advice do you have for creatives and would-be entrepreneurs who are searching for their purpose?

Majo: Stop the "searching," and start designing your way forward. We actually design, not discover, our purpose. It's a very active process. Your purpose and expertise is the culmination and intersections of multiple things that you *choose* to thread together. Connections that you see and forge. It's about trying a bunch of stuff out, learning, and course-correcting as you go. It involves a whole lot of choice, effort, and deliberate, free will. Certainly not waiting or delaying for the best "time" or "right answer."

Anj: Shifting gears back to you — part of breaking these myths is about self-preservation. how do you strike the balance between your own mental health and the pressure to be productive?

Majo: The pressure to be productive is very real. In our culture, success is about climbing the ladder or striving to the top of the mountain and staking your flag. Since I was a little girl, I bought into this narrative and often still do, but at the end of the day, what's most important is to detach my sense of self-worth from my work. A mantra I recommend to embrace is "I am worthy simply because I exist." That way, at the end of the day, even if you didn't "get anything done," you can still take a deep breath, and love yourself completely. In the book, I also share how to set work boundaries to avoid burnout, how to say no, how to keep your plate spacious so you're not overwhelmed, and how to have self-compassion.

Anj: How do you reset? What does that even look like for you now in the pandemic and normally?

Majo: My biggest and most effective reset is to unplug from technology for at least 24 hours. I am also big into morning and evening self-care rituals. In my experience of doing self-care rituals for years, and supporting women in designing their own, I noticed they help us feel more grounded and less fragmented, especially in a world that is groping for our attention twenty-four seven. It's one of the most powerful forms of boundaries we can have. Given the pandemic, in which the lines are being blurred between home and work, we need rituals and boundaries more than ever.

Anj: Tell us more about your creative community and support system.

Majo: I'm lucky to be surrounded by incredible badass women. So much of my inspiration and creative community has emerged from my podcast HEROINE. I've been able to interview women who are leaving incredible creative legacies behind including the most widely read Spanish-speaking author Isabel Allende, design icon Eileen Fisher, illustrator and letterer Jessica Hische, New York Times bestselling culture critic Luvvie Ajayii, entrepreneur Sophia Amoruso, and author Gretchen Rubin.

Anj: If you could give your younger self a pep talk, what would it sound like?

Majo: It would be pretty simple: Enjoy the process and journey because there is no destination. And practice self-compassion along the way. :)

Want more Majo? Of course you do! Here's where to find her: Follow Majo on Instagram @majomolfino; treat yourself to her book Break the Good Girl Myth; listen to her podcast HEROINE wherever you get your podcasts; and if you're feeling like making some bold 2021 resolutions, sign up for her IGNITE program!

Photos courtesy of Majo Molfino (Photo credit: Anna-Alexia Basile Book photo credit: Greyson Macalpine)

In our Take 5 series, sponsored by Verizon, we ask women in business about unexpected challenges, their inspirations, recent wins, and how the free Verizon Small Business Digital Ready Program has helped propel their business forward. Here, we meet Therise Edwards, founder/CEO of Teshley Solutions, an education consultancy firm that helps students and families navigate the complexities of the education system K through 12.

What is an unexpected business challenge that you faced and how did you overcome it?

I wouldn't call myself a FAFSA (Free Application for Student Aid) expert, but I ended up having to know a lot more about it than I ever anticipated. FAFSA is what administers Pell Grants, which is what a lot of colleges base their financial aid on. I knew about the application changes, and some were excellent, but they made a series of critical errors and a lot of parents were scrambling. It was not my intent to have this as my area of focus; it just became a necessity.

What's a recent small win for your business?

Recent small wins are my collaborations. I formed partnerships with one organization that focuses on students with special needs. I hosted a webinar with the executive director of that organization. I formed a partnership with members from an insurance company on planning and paying for college. That was my first corporate sponsorship. And I've got a series of events coming out because others actually reached out to me. One of them I met through another networking platform, but I got to that platform from one of the sessions that I did with Verizon Small Business Digital Ready Program.

How did you start to collaborate with external partners?

Just changing my strategies and my approach, and just being more secure and more emphatic in making connections. It ends up being this continual cycle.

Is there a woman in business that you admire or that you look up to?

I have two. Leontyne Anglin, who runs a nonprofit called Beyond Expectations. She works with a small pool of students, but she just gives them enormous exposure and opportunity. She's brilliant with collaborating with individuals and businesses and really bringing the students what they need. And then the other on a bigger scale is Cate Luzio, founder and CEO of Luminary, who taught her Business Plan Bootcamp through the Verizon Small Business Digital Ready Program. She is just a dynamo. She is just so supportive of women entrepreneurs. She's awesome.

How did the Verizon Small Business Digital Ready Program help propel your business forward?

All of the collaborations and partnerships with the exception of one all came from joining the Verizon Small Business Digital Ready Program. I’ve taken all of the free classes and the one on projections and pricing, something every entrepreneur struggles with, was very helpful. There have been so many of them. Sometimes you're completely ignorant in a category so you take the class and it's like, okay, that's good to have. But then sometimes you sign up for it and it's like, oh, yeah, I did know 90 percent of that, but this other 10 percent is going to be very, very helpful.

Learn more about the free Verizon Small Business Digital Ready Program and Teshley Solutions.

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Major spoilers for the last two episodes of Only Murders in the Building season 4!!

Only Murders in the Building season 4 has finally unmasked its killer...and it's the one character I never suspected. After last week's reveal that Marshall was Sazz's stunt protégé, stole her script for theOnly Murders movie, and is behind her death as well as Glen's, the Only Murders in the Building season 4 finale opens with Marshall holding Mabel captive — and somehow it only gets crazier from there.

  • In the Only Murders season 4 finale, Charles and Oliver have to rescue Mabel from Marshall.
  • Marshall was Sazz's stunt protégé, then stole Sazz's script and passed it off as his own.
  • The Only Murders in the Building season 4 ending kills off a beloved character.

The 'Only Murders in the Building' Season 4 Ending, Explained

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After learning Marshall is the killer they've been looking for, Charles is determined to save Mabel, especially since he didn't get to save Sazz. Realizing Marshall has scaled the apartment building in the past, Charles and Oliver wind up on the building's ledge so they can get to her window. And just like the rest of the season, Martin Short absolutely steals the show. One of my favorite lines is, "Charles, you're my ride or die. And my strong preference is to ride." Icon!!

Our favorite comedy duo jumps into Mabel's apartment and starts to fend Marshall off with Eva Longoria's Lady Longoria-19 in 1 Multi-Tool, but it doesn't take long for him to gain the upper hand. Right when he's about to kill the trio, they're saved by Jan of all people, who shoots him in the back from the empty apartment across the courtyard...then reveals she's been hiding in Charles' apartment since we last saw her. (Feel free to take a deep breath to help process that information. I did.)

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With the threat taken care of, Mabel, Oliver, and Charles return to the Only Murders in the Building movie set — which Mabel says now has "mercifully low" cringe levels. Seeing Eugene Levy, Eva Longoria, and Zach Galifianakis in their element, and our podcast trio getting to honor Sazz's memory is such a well-earned moment for the season. We also get to see the first page of Sazz's script (which features her monologue from the beginning of the episode), on which she says, "When you take your hero on a journey, get him in all kinds of trouble, but land him home safely? Nothing better than that." It looks like our leads have finally landed safely!

The Only Murders in the Building ending features Oliver and Loretta finally getting married before she leaves to film in New Zealand, and Charles and Mabel joining Oliver at the altar. Loretta's walked down the aisle by her son Dickie and Oliver's son Will, which made me WEEPY. Considering Martin Short as Oliver is one of my favorite casting choices of the 21st Century, I am just so happy to see him happy.

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But, like all the seasons before, the finale takes a turn when Sofia Caccimelio tries to hire the trio to find her husband Nicky, a Caputo crime family member who episode 9 tells us is missing. They deny her request, but considering actress Téa Leoni just joined season 5, it looks like she won't be taking no for an answer.

And in the final moments of the Only Murders in the Building season 4 ending, Mabel, Charles, and Oliver finds Lester dead in the fountain! Lester is such a kind and comforting presence in every episode, I can't believe it! (How could you Hulu, HOW COULD YOU?!).

Who's the killer in season 4 of Only Murders in the Building?

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The Only Murders in the Building season 4 killer is Marshall P. Pope (whose real name is Rex Bailey), supposed screenwriter on the Only Murders movie. He reveals that his dreams of being a writer were always being squashed, and that Sazz was the first person who was ever kind to him.

But when Sazz shows him the only copy of her Only Murders movie, and he realizes just how good it is, he decides to take things into his own hands. He sends the script to Bev Melon at Paramount, and it ends up getting greenlit immediately (which explains why Charles, Oliver, and Mabel are contacted about the movie so abruptly).

When Sazz finds out, she confronts him and says she's going to tell Charles about the stolen script after his Broadway debut. Desperate and suffering a bit of a meltdown, Rex flies to New York and kills her, then puts her body in the incinerator.

Where can I watch Only Murders in the Building?

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All episodes of Only Murders in the Building season 4 are available to stream on Hulu!

Here's everything you need to know about Only Murders In The Building season 5!

When you launch a business, you have to know how to sell it: to customers, to potential investors, and to the people you bring on board. In the Selfmade Fall 2024 Pitch competition, we challenged our female entrepreneurs to sell us their big idea and compete to win over $10K in prizes to build and grow their business. The judging panel was made up of a group of inspiring women in business, including Emily Merrell, founder of Second Degree Society and Ready Set Coach; Niki Shamdasani, CEO of Sani Lifestyle Brand; and Joanne Oparu Ayebo Eriaku, business transformation strategist and founder of SOAR AI School of Readiness.

Selfmade is a unique, hands-on business membership for female founders. Our coaches support our mission to help make the dreams of female founders a reality. "Our mission is to even out the odds and offer a clear route to success for business owners who've been marginalized," Emily said during the competition.

Pitch day was filled with uplifting, celebratory moments as all members cheered on the 10 finalists. Winners were judged on creativity, inspiration, authenticity, uniqueness, and evidence of impact. The finalists were phenomenal in their pitches, but the judging panel had to make the tough decision of picking three women who really stood out. Here are the winners of the Selfmade Fall 2024 pitch competition, plus our amazing finalists below!

Meet the Selfmade PItch Winners

Hyacinth Tucker

1st Place Winner

Hyacinth Tucker | The Laundry Basket

A US Army veteran and wife, Hyacinth owns and operates The Laundry Basket, a laundry subscription service that provides expert, laundry-on-demand and dry cleaning services in Maryland, DC, Northern Virginia, Northeast Ohio, and Toronto Canada. The company is committed to sustainability, offering zero-waste practices in partnership with non-profits like Impact Zero. They are also paving the way for minorities and veterans to build careers and businesses through their workforce development program. Hyacinthhas a masters of business administration and is a mom of two. When she’s not running the show, she loves traveling, reading, and playing games with her family.

Monica Casillas

2nd Place Winner

Monica Casillas | Amor Movement

Founder Monica Casillas recognized that many young Latinas faced the same challenges she did in high school, experiencing the weight of generational traumas and their impact on growth and potential. Driven by her own experiences and determination, she set out to create a transformative movement with love as its guiding force. The mission behind Amor Movement is to ignite the passion and leadership potential in young Latinas in high school. The nonprofit is dedicated to equipping these future leaders with essential life skills, professional development, and civic engagement opportunities, empowering them to break barriers and create the lives of their dreams.

Yolanda McCray

3rd Place Winner

Yolanda McCray | Skyler M Style & Wellness

Yolanda's passion for clothing, accessories, and custom products inspired the creation of Skyler M Style & Wellness, named after her Cocker Spaniel who passed away from cancer in 2019. Skyler M Style & Wellness is an online boutique and pop-up shop in South Carolina that offers clothing, accessories, and custom gifts. They are also launching gift and subscription boxes that empower women to embrace their unique style while prioritizing wellness. Their carefully curated products offer a blend of fashion and self-care, solving the common struggle women face in balancing both.

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Meet Our Other Amazing Finalists!

Thinking about becoming a member of Selfmade? Founders can join Selfmade for just $39 per month and have a chance to pitch your business at our next pitch competition! Here's how our Selfmade community is breaking barriers and connecting you with like-minded founders:
  • On-demand courses
  • Live coaching
  • 1:1 mentorship with leading industry experts
  • Opportunities for pitching your business (such as this pitch comp!)
  • Digital events
  • AND of course, our community of 4,000+ women founders, just like you!

Learn more about the Selfmade Founder Fund and join us!

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We love Halloween here at Brit + Co, I mean really love it. And we also embrace the celebrations in all of their forms, from IRL blow-out bashes to WFH office parties. If you've got a virtual Halloween party to attend on Zoom with your remote team or friends across the country, here's how to get dolled up for the best costuming and celebrating from a Zoom-y distance. Keep reading for fun ways to dress up with wigs, makeup, and festive tops without having to worry about what you've got on the bottom — basically, the costume version of a mullet. Happy Halloween!

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Pirate

Ahoy, matey! Just grab a red scarf, eyepatch, striped shirt and a fishtail side braid for this classic and super easy costume.

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Flamingo

This makeup is on point. Here's how to DIY this feathery look.

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Unicorn

Fulfill your magical dreams with this DIY unicorn costume.

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Cleopatra

Stand out with a costume that's part-Ancient Egyptian, part-badass babe. With some eyeliner and well-chosen accessories, you'll be able to craft up a Queen-of-Egypt-inspired Halloween costume that's sure to blow your Zoom party guests away.

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Rosie the Riveter

White button down and red polka dot headscarf, easy peasy. For the hair, pin up half of your hair and twist it up into a bun. Then take the rest of your hair and create another bun a little lower on your head. Top the look off with the scarf, and you'll be riveting in no time. :)

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Princess Leia

Best buns on the planet! Create this iconic hairdo with this easy hair hack.

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Elsa

Does Frozen still melt your heart? Be everyone's favorite snow queen with this DIY costume.

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Holly Golightly

Top off your top knot with a tiara, then add a LBD, pearls, coffee and sunnies.

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Angry Bird

We've seen this costume before, but this look is too dang cute to pass up. Especially when all you need is a yellow wig and some craft supplies. Draw out the face onto felt and cut it out, then glue the head piece to a headband. Everything else can be taped to the wig.

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Creepy Clown

Whether you're going for a clown or a mime vibe, this kinda creepy, kinda cute look will achieve all of your Halloween dreams.

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Day of the Dead

Dress up as a Dia de los Muertos sugar skull with this easy DIY tutorial.

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Lady Gaga

It's been quite some time since Gaga donned her signature bow, but we'll never get enough of it. Head to our Hair Bow tutorial here for the full how-to.

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Pumpkin

Okay, this may be really, really basic, but it is a Halloween staple. Plus, it's the one time of year you can wear all orange, all the time. Grab an orange wigand go!

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Queen of Hearts

Ace this Queen of Hearts costume with ared wig or red spray dye!

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Frenchie From Grease

Here's an excuse to break out that cute pink wig in your closet. Add a Pink Ladies jacket and bubble gum and you're ready for beauty school!

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Strawberry Shortcake

You can go with the full Strawberry Shortcake costume or just order a pink wig and bonnet— then add freckles and a pink top and you're Zoom ready!

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Pop Art

If you are looking to really up your costume game and stand out on Zoom, go for this pop art makeup look. Pop on some comic leggings (totally WFH-friendly!) and yellow wig too.

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Vampire

Don a black lip and eye makeup, then use that same eye makeup or black face paint to create a faux widow's peak. Spooky!

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Jem

We are as obsessed with our '80s cartoon characters as we are with wig costumes. For bright pink tresses, Jem is an absolute must!

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Cruella de Vil

This fierce villain oozes style, even if she is totally evil. Use spray hair dye on half of your head, then top off the look with red gloves, a faux fur coat, cigarette holder and a little Dalmatian. Oh, and that evil cackle is essential.

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Kitty

Every girl's backup costume is also the perfect Zoom costume. We made our ears by attaching black foam ears to a headband, but you can easily find a readymade option at just about any store this time of year. Get the full Black Cat makeup tutorial right here.

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Witch

Don a black witch hat and follow this makeup tutorial for this spooky cool green witch.

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Black Swan

The hair hack here is that slick top knot and the crowning tiara, though the key to the whole scene is obviously those crazy eyes. Here's a great tutorial right herefor gals who want to go all out.

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Minion

Learn how to get the look of the cutest minion costume ever!

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Katy Perry circa 2014

Or go for any of Katy Perry's Dark Horse video costumes with these Brit + Co DIYs.

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Mad Hatter

This Mad Hatter costume is pretty easy to replicate. Grab a brown jacket from your closet, orange wig and top hat. The thread holster is made by stringing thread spools onto yarn and draping it over the shoulder. The makeup is an understated version inspired by the original, but really easy to recreate. And yes, those are fake eyelashes as eyebrows!

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Mime

You can just stay on mute!

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Pippy Longstocking

Recreate Pippy's completely insane pig tails with this easy DIY trick.

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Barbie

Your co-workers will immediately get the idea once you show up with your pink visor, watercolor swimsuit and bike shorts outfit! They may even get a little jealous!

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Poison Ivy

"That girl is poison" best describes former botanist turned green seductress Poison Ivy. See how you can DIY this costume here!

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Gamora from Guardians of the Galaxy

Maybe you prefer to be a bada**, take no prisoners green goddess like Gamora from the Guardians of the Galaxy franchise. For fun, you can try your hand at method acting by acting like her during your virtual Halloween party. Just try to keep the sarcasm on the lighter side.

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Minions

To make things more fun, you and a few co-workers can dress up as Minions! It's a DIY-costume that's inexpensive and funny.

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The Sanderson Sisters

Hocus Pocus is basically life for the Brit + Co team so it only makes sense to show up to your virtual Halloween party wearing one of the above costumes!

Planning any virtual Halloween gatherings? Share your costumes with us @BritandCo!

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After revealing her breast cancer diagnosis on Pod Meets World in August, Danielle Fishel continues to prove she won't let the disease hold her back. The actress and director took the red carpet for the Wizards Beyond Waverly Place premiere, and she opened up to PEOPLE magazine about how this disease continues to impact her. Here's what she had to say!

At the premiere, Danielle Fishel shared with PEOPLE that she was actually "back and forth" about showing up to the premiere. She said, "I obviously wanted to come tonight because I absolutely love this show. I'm so honored to have been able to direct a couple of episodes of it."

Still, there was something holding her back. She shared, "At the same time, everything I wanted to put on, I was like, 'I can see my scars in that. Oh, I can see my scars in that.'"

Instead of letting that hold her back, though, Danielle decided to push herself. "I was like, 'Why am I going to let that be a factor in deciding to live my life?'" she said. "I got dressed and I had my makeup artist do her magic and I feel fine." Ultimately, she said she was "happy" to be there — which is all you can ask for when you're facing down your fears!

Fishel told PEOPLE that her "whole life has changed" since her diagnosis. She explained that her life consists of "many doctor's appointments," check-ups, and side effects. She said, "It's not fun, but it is what it is. And with all that said, I'm very fortunate and I'm going to live, which is the most important thing."

Back in August, the star explained to Rider Strong and Will Friedle that was diagnosed with DCIS — ductal carcinoma in situ — which she described as "a rare form of breast cancer." Even though she discovered the disease at "technically stage zero," she underwent surgery to remove the cancer, as well as follow-up treatments.

When she announced her diagnosis, Danielle explained that she thought she would "would suffer in silence" and "not tell anyone." However, it's clear she's made the conscious effort to not only lean on her community, share her story, and brave the aftermath — surgery scars included.

Fishel's brave red carpet move comes after another fellow breast cancer survivor, Olivia Munn spoke out earlier in October about how her own scars. Munn bared her scars for a SKIMS campaign, after deciding she didn't wanna cover them up anymore. We're so proud of all these strong women for telling their stories and fully embracing themselves, scars and all!

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