Why This Lawyer and Motocross Racer Says it’s Never Too Late to Try

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When Amy Purdy was 19, her life changed forever. A hospital visit for flu-like symptoms led to a diagnosis of septic shock, whereby Purdy was put into a medically-induced coma and given the prognosis of a two percent chance of survival. It was only after numerous blood transfusions and the removal of her ruptured spleen that doctors diagnosed the teen with meningococcal meningitis. She had survived. But, as a result of the loss of circulation she’d incurred from the infection, both of her legs had to be amputated below the knee.

Fast forward 20 years, and Purdy has been a medal-winning Paralympic snowboarder (and was instrumental in bringing her sport to the event), a runner-up on ABC’s Dancing With The Stars, and a competitor on CBS’s The Amazing Race. Her 2014 memoir, On My Own Two Feet, became a New York Times bestseller. Oprah Winfrey has called her a hero. Yet, despite an adult life defined by forward motion, Purdy insists she didn’t become an athlete until age 30.

“That’s when I actually started training to be the best snowboarder that I could be,” she tells Brit + Co.

While the idea of starting an elite-level training regimen in your 30s might seem unfathomable to many — okay, most — of us, Purdy had already been lobbying to get adaptive snowboarding included in the Paralympics for half a decade. In 2005 she co-launched the nonprofit Adaptive Action Sports, which would go on to partner with ESPN to run action sport competitions for people with disabilities during numerous summer and winter ESPN X Games. When it became clear that her sport was on track to getting Paralympic Games approval, Purdy recognized an opportunity.

“I wasn’t thinking about age. I just threw myself in 100 percent, and I found out that I was so much more capable than I ever even knew,” says Purdy. “In fact, I wish that I was involved in sports when I was younger, because I think I would have been a pretty good athlete!” Sports build confidence by forcing you to dig deep and persevere, she tells us. The sense of accomplishment on the other side of a physically challenging situation is like nothing else.

Purdy has been described by many people as inspirational; she admits to us that at age 39, she’s already ticked off the major goals of her lifetime bucket list. She explains that she thinks of inspiration as a contagious entity, and she tries to surround herself with it in order to give it back to others. Through her nonprofit, she tells us that she’s constantly engaging with “people who are making things possible for themselves.” She lives in the quiet of nature, where she reads a lot of books and reflects on the life she wants to lead.

Now, Amy Purdy is partnering with Target and Always to support Girls on the Run, a nonprofit that works to empower girls through physical fitness. The matter is close to Purdy’s heart, especially now that she’s watching her nieces come of age.

“We know that physical fitness helps young girls build confidence and friendships,” she tells us. “I think it’s just so important for people to know that this organization exists.”

As for what’s on the horizon, Purdy’s hoping to eventually write a second book and maybe get into acting. But for now, after two back-to-back winter Games and between a string of speaking engagements, she’s laying low with her husband at home in the mountains.

“I appreciate the moment to refuel,” she says. “I think that’s important for women and young girls. It’s okay to stop. You have to be able to refuel yourself so you can have something to give — I think women give, give, give.

“Self-care is really important, and self-care includes those quiet times, physical fitness, and the things you do to feel confident about yourself.”

(Photos by Michael Simon)

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Soleil Ho has had a busy year. In between co-hosting duties on the wildly successful podcast on the intersection of race and food, The Racist Sandwich, Ho can also add “author” to her list of credits. With Blue Delliquanti, Ho is the co-author of a new food-related comic called Meal(Iron Circus Comics), which will be released on Christmas day. And, yes, it involves eating bugs.

The comic centers on a chef named Yarrow who moves across America to start working at a restaurant that focuses entirely on cooking with insects. Though it may seem like a leap at first glance, Ho tells us that its themes aren’t so far removed from those of The Racist Sandwich.

“Since I started working on The Racist Sandwich and thinking about food and race very intimately together, I’ve realized that insects and insect cuisine exist at this locus point because [like racialized people, insects are] very much a symbol of the Other,” Ho tells Brit + Co.

The two themes intersect in the comic, too. When a secondary character named Milani enters the scene as a potential love interest for Yarrow, she makes it very clear to Yarrow that she wants nothing to do with insect-related food. Yarrow, meanwhile, sets out to show Milani that insects are a staple of cuisine around the world. This dynamic sets the tone for Meal.

Ho, who is of Vietnamese descent, has had her own share of interactions with people who are uncomfortable about the idea of foods common to the non-Western world. She recalls her efforts to soothe their reflexes over one food item, in particular.

“Vietnamese people eat dogs, and that is a normal thing,” Ho tells us. “It’s not super wild or weird in Vietnam. But my whole life, when people would ask me that in the United States, I would say, ‘No, we don’t do it. That’s ridiculous!'”

In the comic, Ho wanted to make sure she and her co-author tackled this type of discomfort through Yarrow’s character’s interactions with others. “She doesn’t want to be judged or looked at,” Ho tells us, and admits that she pulled from her own experiences growing up to inform the character.

At first, like Ho, Yarrow tends to attempt to shy away from her own personal associations with insect cuisine because of others’ feelings towards it. But as Milani becomes interested in learning more about Yarrow, the character also takes an interest in Yarrow’s relationship to insect cuisine.

“She’s game, and that’s the important part,” says Ho. “She’s interested in learning more.”

Ho hints that there is a possibility that Meal will be expanded beyond its current installation, but she has no idea what the future will hold. For now, Ho is happy at the response that Meal has garnered online, explaining that she loves the depiction of food in comics.

“It just amplifies the experience [of food] and makes it all that more amazing.”

(Image via Soleil Ho/Iron Circus Comics)

It's been a minute since we last saw our Southern Charm faves on screen, but they're finally back for season 10! From the Taylor-Shep-Olivia-Austen of it all to the gradual shift of Craig away from...everyone except Paige, a lot's happened since last year. And as if keeping up with all that wasn't enough, the trailer just dropped, and I have plenty of thoughts. So here's everything you should know from what to expect for season 10, who's returning, and when you can watch Southern Charm! Let's get into it!

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• Excuse me, but Venita & JT?!?! IDK how to feel...
• After Craig tells Patricia that JT called her a b--ch, Madison says, “He will be the b--ch when I’m done with him.” I mean, you really just don't go after Patricia — everyone knows that!
• Every time Craig and Austen talk, it's clear they're exasperated with one another. Craig said, “Our friendship will never look like it used to." As much as I'm happy to see Craig setting clear boundaries with his friends, I'd definitely hate to see this bromance die. (Even though IDK if I'll ever forgive Austen for the Ciara of it all...)
• And in another unsurprising update: Shep has a new girlfriend — and she's the former Miss Bahamas! According to Madison, she's a Southern Charm fan, so it seems like some people think she's just using him as pawn to get on the show. All I know is we eventually see Shep walking away dejected and saying, “I shouldn’t have done this.” YIKES.
• And as predictable as the rain, of course there's drama with Shep, Taylor, and another woman — Salley. According to Salley, she and Shep slept together, and Taylor doesn't seem to take this well. She said, "I dated Shep for two years. Y'all just f----d!"

It's clear this southern faves have no shortage of drama to pull from yet again...

Who's returning for 'Southern Charm' season 10?

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Our charmers Venita Aspen, Leva Bonaparte, Craig Conover, Taylor Ann Green, Austen Kroll, Madison LeCroy, Rodrigo Reyes, Shep Rose, and Jarrett “JT” Thomas are all set to return for season 10! Patricia Altschul and her son Whitney Sudler-Smith will also appear throughout the season — because it wouldn't be Southern Charm without this duo, TBH!

While JT will be back for this season, he just announced season 10 will be his last. He announced his impending departure in an Instagram post, writing, "It comes with a heavy heard to share that I have resigned from Southern Charm." He continued, explaining that he won't participate in his "2-3 remaining green room interviews remaining" before the season 10 premiere. He said, "...I no longer wish to participate in any ways moving forward with the TV show." After the bombshell, JT elaborated that he's going to "work on next steps to recover both physically and mentally from what has been an extremely challenging & exhausting year."

Needless to say, this is extremely shocking! Most of the drama outlined in the trailer revolves around Craig, Austen, and Shep, but it's clear there's way more to this story. We'll for sure keep an eye out for more details as this continues to unfold.

One face we're sad to see gone is Olivia Flowers. In regards to leaving the show, she told Scheana Shay on Scheananigans, "It wasn't my choice." Apparently producers told her the decision came because she seemed estranged from the Charleston scene, often traveling, spending time in Texas, and connecting with her new boyfriend. And while that may have bothered her at the time, it's clear that Olivia doesn't have time to worry about all that given her recent engagement to Alex Williams.

Are there any new cast members for 'Southern Charm' season 10?

This season, we're getting a few newcomers to Charleston! Salley Carson is "a bubbly party girl by night and a robotics technician for surgical procedures by day. The debutante is gorgeous, intelligent, and independent, and she shares a curiously parallel romantic past with Taylor." Yeah, that definitely spells trouble in Shep-ville. Outside of the social scene, her bio reads that Salley works in spinal robotics — nothing short of impressive there! I can't wait to see what this brainy beauty adds to the group!

Molly O’Connell also joins season 10 after apparently showing up in the background of previous seasons for years. So while she's new to the show, she's definitely been a friend of the group for a while. Still, this isn't Molly's first foray into TV — she was on America's Next Top Model in 2010 and continued her modeling career for years afterwards. On top of all that? She's also appeared as a charter guest on Below Deck. Clearly, this girl was made for the screen!

Ryan Albert hops on board this season as a friend of Patricia's — because who doesn't this woman know in Charleston?! According to Bravo, he's a stay-at-home-husband who volunteers — and hosts parties — in his free time.

When does 'Southern Charm' season 10 come out?

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Southern Charm season 10 premieres Thursday, Dec. 5 at 9 p.m. ET/PT! I'll be tuned in with rosé in-hand and mouth agape!

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