8 Maximalist Interiors That Prove Minimalism Is on Its Way Out

"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about." —Wendy Mass

"Practice random kindness and senseless acts of beauty." —Anne Herbert

"You can always, always give something, even if it is only kindness!" —Anne Frank

"Deliberately seek opportunities for kindness, sympathy, and patience." —Evelyn Underhill

"The greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members, a heart of grace and a soul generated by love." —Coretta Scott King

"Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary." —J.M. Barrie

"The words of kindness are more healing to a drooping heart than balm or honey." —Sarah Fielding

"Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud." —Maya Angelou

"We are all neighbors. Be kind. Be gentle." — Clemantine Wamaryia

"You’ve been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens." —Louise L. Hay

"Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference." —Barbara De Angelis

"Kindness is always in stock." —Katy Perry

"Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference." —Amelia Earhart

"Carry out a random act of kindness, with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you." —Princess Diana

"Be kind to yourself so that you can be happy enough to be kind to the world." —Misha Collins

"One honest voice is louder than a crowd." —Reese Witherspoon

"It's a great thing, getting older. You are who you are; you say what you mean." —Reese Witherspoon

"I do believe that if you want to change the world, you have to be responsible for it." —Reese Witherspoon

"Every day you have to choose and cultivate your own happiness." —Reese Witherspoon

"Spend less time tearing yourself apart, worrying if you're good enough. You are good enough." —Reese Witherspoon

"There's no bad consequence to loving fully, with all your heart. You always gain by giving love." —Reese Witherspoon

"I’m just trying to matter and live a good life and make work that means something to somebody." —Reese Witherspoon

"I've realized that life is too short to spend my time with anybody who doesn't appreciate me, treat me with respect or bring value to the relationship." —Reese Witherspoon

"Chance is the first step you take, luck is what comes afterward." —Reese Witherspoon

"There’s something timeless and important about making people laugh, about being the right spot in their day." —Reese Witherspoon

"I’m trying to take the stigma off the word [ambitious] so we encourage more little girls to be ambitious, because I do think that’s how society will change." —Reese Witherspoon

"I want to make my life, not just my job, the best it can be. The rest will work itself out." —Reese Witherspoon

"I encourage women to step up. Don’t wait for somebody to ask you." —Reese Witherspoon

"All we can do to create change is work hard. That’s my advice: Just do what you do well." —Reese Witherspoon

Iris life changes forever when she meets Arthur in Los Angeles.

The premise of The Holiday movie is pretty simple: Iris and Amanda swap homes for two weeks over Christmas to avoid their disastrous love lives, unknowingly agreeing to an adventure that ultimately changes them — and their love lives — forever. (Oh what I wouldn't give to hop on a plane to Europe to avoid boys. What a dream). When she lands in Los Angeles, Iris is totally overwhelmed by Amanda's gorgeous home, the DVD setup, and gigantic bed, but the aspect of her holiday that really shines is her ability to connect with people.

We see Iris learn all of the gardeners' names (as well as the mailman's) barely a week after arriving, and when she notices Amanda's elderly neighbor Arthur walking alone, she immediately pulls over to help him find his house. (Also, sidebar: this scene always terrifies me because why is Arthur in the middle of the street?! Why aren't you on a side walk, A?!).

Iris helps Arthur home and takes a look around his living room (which boasts at least one Emmy and Academy Award each) before inviting him to have dinner with her and boom! The greatest relationship in the movie is born.

Arthur empowers Iris to be "the leading lady in her own life."

These two become fast friends, as Iris confides in him about her disastrous love life that very same night, and he offers her a beautiful piece of advice about acting like "the leading lady in your own life" (remember folks, this was decades before main character energy). Iris also reminds him just how much of a role he played in Hollywood by helping him prep for his Writers Guild of America gala with strength training so he can climb the stairs without his walker.

So though it's not romantic, Iris and Arthur's relationship is the true love story of The Holiday because of how much love and confidence they offer each other. Neither of them expect anything in return — they just enjoy being together.

And Iris gives Arthur his confidence back too!

Soon, it's time to head off to the WGA gala, and Arthur gives Iris a corsage, apologizing if it's corny or doesn't match her outfit. Iris declares she's "looking for corny," and it's such a small moment that really illustrates that the way they've empowered each other has changed their lives forever.

Iris helps Arthur feel sure of himself again, while Arthur's encouragement helps Iris find her power...and kick her ex Jasper out of her life forever! (Plus Arthur definitely picks up on the vibes between Iris and Miles during their Hanukkah dinner party. The ultimate wingman!).

When Iris and Arthur arrive at the WGA gala, and a sold-out crowd gives Arthur a standing ovation, it's clear he wasn't expecting so many people to care about his work. And in his overwhelming shock, he has Iris to lean on. Iris and Arthur don't only care about each other, they depend on each other, and their trust, love, and understanding is just the cherry on top. And sorry Jude Law, but I'll take that over romance any day.