How to Protect Your Mental Health When You Work From Home

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In many ways, working from home can be a pretty sweet gig. You don't have to wear shoes, don't have to face rush hour traffic, and sometimes can even duck out to run errands. But there's a hidden cost to this consistent lack of in-person interaction: Many people who work from home struggle to maintain their mental health. If you think telecommuting from your couch and seeing others only on a screen is leaving you feeling mentally “meh," try these tips to fight the work-from-home blues.


1. Get outdoors. When you get a break between meetings or tasks, instead of going on Facebook, try going outside. Spending time in the outdoors is a well-established way to lift your spirits. A bit of fresh air and natural color (not to mention time away from your desk or screen) may send you back to work refreshed and in control of your emotional state.

2. Get moving. While you're outside, make it a double whammy of mental health goodness by getting a bit of exercise, like a brisk walk or bike ride. (Or, if the weather doesn't allow, try an exercise video or lunchtime visit to the gym.) Though 45 minutes three to five times per week appears to be the sweet spot for exercise and mental health, even short bursts of aerobic activity (like HIIT training) release feel-good endorphins in the brain.

3. Get social in the real world. Although you may see coworkers' faces on your laptop screen or spend hours chatting with them on Slack, these types of interactions don't necessarily fill your emotional reserves like real-world social time. Face-to-face contact with others has been shown to reduce risk of depression significantly more than digital communication. While face-to-face is a little harder these days, try scheduling a morning bike ride with a neighbor, a picnic with a friend, or a regular family dinner.

4. Get a pet. Okay, so maybe you can't spend hours on a FaceTime friend-date for lunch every workday — but there's one companion you can chill with all day long: a pet. Furry friends have a dramatic positive effect on mental health, with research showing that owning a pet improves conditions like depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia.

5. Refresh your space. Working in the same room with piles of dirty laundry or kids' toys can be uninspiring, to say the least. And the tedium of staying inside all day, every day, can feel depressingly monotonous. Perhaps a change of scene is in order. Try setting up a workspace on your front porch if you have one, or spend a weekend updating your office for a new look. Picking a spot where you won't be distracted by stressors like bills or a sink full of dishes will help your focus and your mood. Make it inviting and comfortable by decorating with appealing colors or inspiring images. And do what you can to work in a source of natural light, as this is consistently associated with less depressed mood.

6. Get a routine. Though it may sound counterintuitive — or, let's be honest, a little boring — sticking to a routine in your work-from-home day is a helpful way to stay on track both with your workload and your mental health. “When we organize ourselves and know what to expect, it's easier to actively work toward counteracting the thoughts and symptoms of… mental health conditions," says psychologist Mariana Plata of Psychology Today. Studies show that a consistent schedule of sleep and waking also helps smooth out emotional strain. Pencil in a good night's sleep, a bit of time outside, some self care (we love this Self Care Card Deck, $30), and face-to-face time with friends and see what mental health benefits result.

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First thing's first — body insecurities are real no matter if you're tall, petite, curvy, thin, or somewhere in-between. Anyone who has them tends to think something is wrong with the way they look, and can become fixated on trying to correct perceived 'flaws.' Pop culture and beauty standards can play a role in that, but sometimes our own communities can contribute to us feeling unsure of the bodies we have.

I've struggled with body image issues for a greater part of my life, but the hardships I experienced in my postpartum body have helped me start looking at myself differently. From internalizing snarky comments made by others to welcoming the changes made after giving birth, here's how I learned how to truly embrace self-love.

The Moments That Sparked My Body Insecurity

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An annoyed younger me posing for a police convention at my local mall

I can't remember how old I was, but the first time I heard variations of, "She's so little. Are you sure you're feeding her," was from church and family members. Meant as harmless jokes, they caused me to become hyper aware of my body in a way I'd never been before.

I knew people looked different, but my innocence made me believe it didn't matter. Adults were the ones who taught me it did, and if you didn't look 'just right'? Well, you'd eventually hear hushed whispers about it. From that point on, I stopped being picky with my food and tried to eat more than I usually did. But, guess whose body remained the same?

The more I ate and the more my body didn't change, the more I started to resent it for not looking the way I thought a well-fed child's body should look.

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Introduction To Puberty

By the time I'd reached 3rd grade, I started hearing whispers about girls who were going through puberty. There was a ton of excitement about getting your period, but mostly everyone talked about how bodies started to 'fill out.' I was disappointed when 'the change' didn't happen for me that year, but I kept hope alive. Needless to say, I didn't gain weight in elementary school even though my friends' bodies were changing.The only signs of puberty I had were the first signs of underarm and pubic hair.

I didn't get my period until after the first day of sixth grade. It was relatively uneventful because I wasn't in pain and didn't see the second one until months later. As the months passed, my periods came and went. But, my body still looked unappealing to me. It didn't help that the guys in school were looking at girls who were more curvaceous either. I had major side character energy in school (or so I thought) and it was awful IMO. It's not that I wasn't liked, but the guys I thought were worth going after had their sights set on girls who didn't look like me.

By the time I made it to my junior year in high school, I stopped worrying about my appearance as much. I'd stopped really focusing on boys and started having fun with new friends. That was the best year in high school because my elective was a journalism class where I became the entertainment editor for the school newspaper. As far as my body insecurity? I barely thought twice about it because I felt I had more to offer than looks.

The Slow Journey To Accepting My Body

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By the time I was in my early twenties, it was beyond clear that the body I had was the one given to me. I was tired of wishing I wasn't so slender and decided to start accepting my body for how it looked. I wish I could say I was 100% okay with my body after writing down a ton of affirmations to look at daily, but I wasn't.

I didn't start making peace with being slender until after I turned 28 (right after this photo was taken), and it started to feel good to stop worrying about why I wasn't a certain size. I'd wake up and be more concerned about wearing things that made me feel good instead of fixating on why my body was so small. Honestly, I didn't even flinch the day I found out I was pregnant because I figured I wouldn't gain much weight.

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Pregnancy + Postpartum Body Changes

I should've prefaced that last sentence by saying I was convinced I'd still be small during pregnancy because my mom was small — like me — until her second pregnancy. Along with other people, I thought I'd have a round basketball in my stomach and that would be it. But, the day my stepdad rushed my fiancé and I to the hospital so I could give birth is the day I realized I'd gone from 117 pounds to 157.

I was blissfully unaware that my body had changed that much, and it was shocking because I couldn't fit into my carefully curated pre-pregnancy wardrobe. Not only was my postpartum body sore, but it also felt like I'd sprouted extra inches around my waist, hips, and thighs. I went from wanting those things to hating them when they started showing up.

I was devastated because I felt like I'd just learned how to accept my body, only to find new changes waiting for me to welcome into the picture. Also, everything was so soft and squishy — unlike the days where my slender frame felt like it had just enough to cover my bones.

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Sadly, I lashed out at my fiancé a ton because I felt uncomfortable in my body — even though he couldn't see anything wrong with it. I was convinced he was trying to do damage control every time he tried to reassure me because I was dealing with major body insecurity.

I didn't start to truly see myself until I started going back to therapy and chose to accept my body as it is. This didn't happen overnight either. I wrote a ton of affirmations on sticky notes to place on my bathroom mirror, and recounted all the miraculous changes my body's gone through over the years. I also started giving myself grace for all the times I wasn't so kind to my body and made myself live in that space until it didn't feel like I had imposter syndrome anymore.

At the time of writing this, my son is three and I'm finally able to look in the mirror without criticizing myself — and I have the fourth trimester to thank for that. My postpartum body expanded in ways I never thought was possible, and it's shown me that change is only bad when I try to hold tight to other people's expectations.

How I Maintain Love For My Postpartum Body

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Technically I haven't been postpartum in a while, but I always refer to my body this way because it serves as a reminder that it's been a long journey towards acceptance. The ways I continue to pour into myself vary from day to day, but here's the gist of what helps:

  1. Daily Affirmations
  2. Words Of Encouragement From My Partner
  3. Reminders That My Body Knew What To Do To Carry A Child For 9 Months
  4. Wearing Clothes I Genuinely Feel Good In
  5. Replacing Negative Thoughts With Positive Ones
  6. Giving Myself Grace For All The Moments I Hated My Body
  7. Daily Gratitude Practice
  8. Accepting That My Body Will Ebb & Flow Over The Years
  9. Solo Dance Parties In My Bra & Underwear (I'm so serious, ha!)
  10. Touching The Expanded Parts Of My Body & Saying "Hi")

I'm sure I'll change again over the years, but the love and acceptance my postpartum body has given me is here to stay.

We have more encouraging health and self improvement stories for you to read whenever you need inspiration to be kinder to yourself via words, health, or diet.

It was the TV character arc heard round the world: after learning her boyfriend's dad didn't think she had what it takes to be a journalist, Rory Gilmore 1. Dropped out of Yale. 2. Stole a yacht and stopped talking to her mom. 3. Grew into the kind of journalist who didn't have pitches prepared and didn't ask good questions. But, according to one Reddit theory, Gilmore Girls actually hinted Rory wasn't cut out for the career at the very beginning of the series.

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"Do you guys remember how in S1, at Chilton, Rory was given a very mundane journalistic task about the paving of the parking lot, and she wrote a piece on how everything and everyone becomes obsolete?" one Reddit user asks. "Even though the teacher was praising her, I thought it was the weirdest journalistic angle. It's so... literary and philosophical. Then it dawns on me - well, of course! She isn't a journalist. She is a writer."

As a writer myself, I totally relate, understand, and approve this theory. Journalism uses an objective, straightforward part of your brain, while creative writing requires so much creativity and imagination to breathe life into something other people would find obsolete (like that parking lot piece).

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A Year in the Life shows us that Rory truly shines in the creative writing world because while her story on waiting in lines leaves something to be desired, she comes alive writing a novelized version of her and Lorelai's life. "She really does appear to have so much fun writing Gilmore Girls," the Reddit user continues.

Despite making many mistakes, leaning into her love of writing isn't actually one of them. She just needed to find the right kind of writing to really shine. Because let me tell you, when you do find that sweet spot, where your soul comes alive and your typing can barely keep up with your brain, you truly feel most like yourself.

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TBH, this is just further confirmation that she deserves to be with Jess Mariano. Who pushed her to be the best version of herself? Who wrote a book and came back just to tell her? (That's right — Jess). It's all very Laurie and Little Women to me!!! And the fact that Rory immediately lets her guard down and spills her guts shows just how comfortable she is with him.

"It's the fact that Rory hasn't seen Jess in four years, but within ten seconds of him sitting down — without him even really ASKING her anything — she is sharing all her deepest fears," Facebook user Victoria TP says. "One conversation, and she's more vulnerable and honest with Jess than she is with any other person in her life."

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I mean, just look at that final yearning, longing stare!!! I can hear the wedding bells.

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Check out The Best Fall Gilmore Girls Episodes so you can further analyze all of Rory's decisons.

I thought my days of having painful period cramps were over after giving birth and getting an IUD, but last month proved me wrong. There was a time I could pinpoint the source of my bloating and other PMS symptoms, but I've stopped paying as much attention to what I eat lately...and things have gotten way off track.

Since I'm tired of suffering, I decided to reach out to Urologist Dr. Eric Margolis to how the food you eat can impact your period cramps. If you're wondering how Urologists can help with this issue, it's because they're trained to treat urinary and reproductive conditions (via Cleveland Clinic). Take it from someone whose had to see one before!

So let's get into all the top tips Dr. Margolis has to offer!

What causes cramps when someone is PMSing or on their period?

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Consider yourself lucky if you don't struggle with PMS — I'd honestly love to trade places with you for a day. According to the Office on Women's Health, almost three in four women say they experience PMS, and the National Institutes of Healthnotes that one in ten women deal with painful period cramps every month. In other words, some of us are genuinely struggling to function without really understanding why we're in so much pain. What gives?

"Cramps, or dysmenorrhea, occur due to the release of chemicals called prostaglandins during menstruation. These chemicals cause the uterus to contract in order to shed its lining," Dr. Margolis says. What people tend to feel is the result of contractions" becoming "too intense," thus causing them to "cut off blood flow and oxygen to the surrounding muscle tissue, leading to pain." Dr. Margolis also wants you to know, "The higher the level of prostaglandins, the more severe the cramps are likely to be."

If that sounds painful, just know it is! I never thought about the actual process our bodies go through during menstruation, so understanding that better makes me want to be kinder to be my body. Still, does this mean cramps are normal?

Are period cramps normal?

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Dr. Margolis says that period cramps are "a normal part of the menstrual cycle for many people." He explains that "mild to moderate cramps" typically occur towards the beginning of your period, as your uterus is contracting. IDK about you, but it's definitely nice to know that cramps are a part of the process and they don't necessarily mean anything's wrong. However, this doesn't mean you should ignore severe pain.

"If the pain is severe and disrupts daily life, it might indicate an underlying condition that requires medical attention," Dr. Margolis says. Only you know the level of pain you're able to handle monthly, but there are definitely some key factors that can help you identify what is considered "abnormal" when it comes to your period cramps.

When are severe period cramps considered abnormal?

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"Severe cramps that are unmanageable with over-the-counter medications or last for an extended period may indicate underlying health issues," Dr. Margolis continues. Based on his experience, these conditions can be "fibroids, endometriosis, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), or pelvic inflammatory disease (PID)" which "often cause more intense pain."

Prior to my painful period cramps returning, I underwent Laparoscopy surgery in 2019 to rule out endometriosis as the culprit for unbearable cycles. My OBGYN didn't find that, but she discovered a large fibroid nestled in the side of one of my uterine walls which needed to be removed.

Some of the signs Dr. Margolis says you need to pay attention to are:

  • Heavy bleeding
  • Irregular periods
  • Pain during sex
  • Bleeding between periods

If you notice these symptoms, Dr. Margolis implores you to consult with your doctor about them. Truthfully, it took years for someone to take my pain seriously, so I also recommend you keep advocating for yourself if you're dealing with cramps that feel abnormal.

What's the worst thing to eat before your period?

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Here comes my favorite topic — food! I love eating all kinds of food, but I'm having to relearn how to balance hormones all over again. Between that and my digestive system, I know my undisciplined eating is the root cause of painful period cramps, but I've forgotten what I should be avoiding.

Dr. Margolis says, "Highly processed foods, sugar, and salty snacks should be avoided. They can increase inflammation, contribute to bloating, and worsen cramps. Caffeine and alcohol can also dehydrate the body and lead to more discomfort during menstruation."

I feel like your jaw just dropped in disbelief because most of the things that make periods so painful taste so good. I mean, who doesn't love snacks, coffee, and yummy cocktails? Sigh...as much as we may love or crave them, they're not always the best things to indulge in when we're already going through so many bodily changes.

What foods should someone eat to lessen painful period cramps?

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But, there's things we can do to lessen our chances of suffering every month. Dr. Margolis says, "Anti-inflammatory foods are particularly helpful for reducing period cramps." He says these include the following:

  • Leafy greens like spinach and kale, which are high in magnesium and calcium
  • Fatty fish such as salmon or sardines, which are rich in omega-3 fatty acids that help reduce inflammation
  • Nuts and seeds that contain magnesium, which can relax muscles and reduce pain
  • Fruits like bananas and berries, which provide antioxidants and potassium, aiding in muscle relaxation and inflammation reduction
  • Whole grains that are a good source of fiber and help regulate blood sugar, preventing spikes that may worsen cramps
We have a ton of healthy dinner recipes and a clean eating grocery list here! Hopefully if you start incorporating these into your diet, you can part ways with painful period cramps for good.

Is it actually possible to avoid sugar before and during your period?

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Sugar is in a lot of things we eat and drink so I asked Dr. Margolis if there's a way to avoid it altogether. He says, "It’s challenging, but not impossible to avoid sugar entirely. Cravings for sugary foods often increase due to hormonal fluctuations during the menstrual cycle." I don't know about you, but I always crave specific things like sugary juice, muffins, or cupcakes right before and during my period. It's like my brain knows they're going to cause more harm than good, but my hormones demand them.

As a replacement, Dr. Margolis believes "reducing sugar intake by opting for natural sweeteners like fruits or healthier alternatives like dark chocolate can help curb cravings." Also, there's more benefits to putting down the artificial stuff. "Cutting back on sugar may also help in managing inflammation and stabilizing mood and energy levels during your period," says Dr. Margolis.

In short, painful period cramps don't have to rule my life or yours, but it does require us to make a few diet changes. I've done it before and it starts with being consistent on a daily basis. I've talked about it before, but the food diary I used to keep truly helped me stay on track and pinpoint my triggers. It's worth trying if you're tired of being doubled over in pain each month!

We have even more wellness tips to help you live your healthiest life, so make sure to bookmark them when you need a little extra help!

If we learned anything from the Great Ticketmaster Fiasco of 2022 (complete with Senators quoting lyrics to each other during the ticket platform's legal hearing?), is that it's way too hard to get concert tickets these days. For popular artists like Taylor Swift, ticket-selling platforms have so many hoops to jump through and qualifications to meet that it's easy to miss a concert, even if you're a mega-fan.

But thanks to these resell sites, Taylor Swift fans around the country (affectionally called "Swifties") are connecting with one another and making sure that tickets are sold for face value instead of an upcharge — even if it's the day of the show. While you brush up on the latest Taylor Swift theories, and read the Emily Henry book that matches the vibe of your favorite Taylor Swift album, check out these social media accounts that can help you score your own tickets to the Eras Tourin 2024.

How much are Eras Tour tickets normally?

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While a variety of the resale tickets on larger platforms are in the thousands, there are plenty of fan-to-fan resales for under $1k! But the good news is Rolling Stone reports ticket prices have actually dropped in the last day and you can find some for under $700.

How many dates are left on the Eras tour?

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There are 12 Eras Tour concerts left. She'll be at Miami's Hard Rock Stadium from October 18 until the 20, New Orleans' Caesars Superdome from October 25 until the 27, Indianapolis' Lucas Oil Stadium from November 1 until the 3, and BC Place from December 6 until the 8.

Taylor Swift's Eras Tour Dates For 2024

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  • Tokyo Dome (Tokyo, Japan); February 7-10
  • MCG (Melbourne, Australia); February 16-18
  • Accor Stadium (Sydney, Australia); February 23-26
  • National Stadium, Singapore (Singapore); March 2-4; March 7-9
  • Paris La Défense Arena (Paris, France); May 9-12
  • Friends Arena (Stockholm, Sweden); May 17-19
  • Estadio da Luz (Lisbon, Portugal); May 24-25
  • Estadio Santiago Bernabéu (Madrid, Spain); May 29-30
  • Groupama Stadium (Lyon, France); June 2-3
  • BT Murrayfield Stadium (Edinburgh, UK); June 7-9
  • Anfield Stadium (Liverpool, UK); June 13-15
  • Principality Stadium (Cardiff, UK); June 18
  • Wembley Stadium (London, UK); June 21-23
  • Aviva Stadium (Dublin, Ireland); June 28-30
  • Johan Cruijff Arena (Amsterdam, Netherlands); July 4-6
  • Stadion Letzigrund Zürich (Zürich, Switzerland); July 9-10
  • San Siro Stadium (Milan, Italy); July 13-14
  • Veltins-Arena (Gelsenkirchen, Germany); July 17-19
  • Volksparkstadion (Hamburg, Germany); July 23-24
  • Olumpiastadion (Munich, Germany); July 27-28
  • Pge Narodowy (Warsaw, Poland); August 1-3
  • Ernst-Happel-Stadion (Vienna, Austria); August 8-10
  • Wembley Stadium (London, UK); August 15-17; August 19-20
  • Hard Rock Stadium (Miami, FL); October 18-20
  • Caesars Superdome (New Orleans, LA); October 25-27
  • Lucas Oil Stadium (Indianapolis, IN); November 1-3
  • BC Place (Vancouver, BC); December 6-8

Taylor Swift's Eras Tour Dates For 2023

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  • State Farm Stadium (Glendale, AZ); March 17 - 18
  • Allegiant Stadium (Las Vegas, NV); March 24 - 25
  • AT&T Stadium, (Arlington, TX); March 31 - April 2
  • Raymond James Stadium (Tampa, FL); April 13 - 15
  • NRG Stadium (Houston, TX); April 21 - 23
  • Mercedes-Benz Stadium (Atlanta, GA); April 28 - 30
  • Nissan Stadium (Nashville, TN); May 5 - 7
  • Lincoln Financial Field (Philadelphia, PA); May 12 - 14
  • Gillette Stadium (Foxborough, MA); May 19 - 21
  • MetLife Stadium (East Rutherford, NJ); May 26 - 28
  • Soldier Field (Chicago, IL); June 2 - 4
  • Ford Field (Detroit, MI); June 9 - 10
  • Acrisure Stadium (Pittsburgh, PA); June 16 - 17
  • U.S. Bank Stadium (Minneapolis, MN); June 23 - 24
  • Paycor Stadium (Cincinnati, OH); June 30 - July 1
  • GEHA Field at Arrowhead Stadium (Kansas City, MI); July 7 - 8
  • Empower Field at Mile High (Denver, CO); July 14 - 15
  • Lumen Field (Seattle, WA); July 22 - 23
  • Levi's Stadium (Santa Clara, CA); July 28 - 29
  • Sofi Stadium (Los Angeles, CA); August 3 - 5; August 7 - 9
  • Foro Sol (Mexico City, Mexico); August 24-27
  • Estadio River Plate (Buenos Aires, Argentina); November 9-11
  • Estádio Nilton Santos (Rio de Janeiro, Brazil); November 17-19
  • Allianz Parque (So Paulo, Brazil); November 24-26

How long is a Taylor Swift concert?

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Taylor Swift's portion of an Eras Tour concert is three hours long, but there are openers too! In total, you'll be in the venue for around five hours. For my concert day (the stadium is over an hour from my home), I started getting ready at 10am, and left around noon to accommodate public transportation, traffic, and lines. I was in my seat at exactly 6:30!

Is Taylor Swift having a concert in Miami?

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Yes, the final leg of Taylor Swift's Eras Tour kicks off with her Miami shows on October 18! She'll be at the Hard Rock Stadium in Miami from October 18 until October 20.

Taylor herself posted a video to Instagram with the caption, "Back in the office… 😎" in honor of the concert. We can't wait to see what tricks she has up her sleeve (maybe a Reputation (Taylor's Version)announcement?)

Who is opening Eras Tour 2024?

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Sabrina Carpenter opened for Taylor Swift at the Australia shows in February and March 2024, then Paramore opened for the summer shows in Europe. Gracie Abrams is the fall opener in Canada and the final US dates!

How to get Taylor Swift tickets 2024?

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There are a few different ways you can get Taylor Swift tickets in 2024! Your price point, the city you want to go to, and the opener you're hoping to see will determine which route you take. Keep reading for a few routes you can take.

Accounts For Last Minute Taylor Swift Tickets

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This Twitter site is without out a doubt my favorite resell account. They've included guidelines to streamline your Taylor Swift concert ticket process and ensure no one gets scammed. They even push to make sure ADA (accessibility seating) is given to the people that need it. This has quickly become a fan favorite way to grab tickets! Eras Tour Resell will post the ticket info, including pricing, date/location, and the account that you can DM. They also make sure to let their followers know when the ticket has sold.

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Taylor Swift: The Eras Tour Concert Tickets Resale Group

This Facebook group will make sure your tickets are as close to face value as possible. And thanks to the questionnaire and profile requirements, you shouldn't have to worry about scammers.

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You can also check sites like Ticketmaster, Stub Hub, SeatGeek, and Vivid Seats for last-minute tickets — just make sure you double check the authenticity of the tickets before you cash out! (Unfortunately I am speaking from experience here 😬)

Follow us on Twitter for more pop culture updates and best of luck finding your own Taylor Swift concert tickets!

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Internet fans rejoice! The one date we've been waiting two years for has finally arrived: Andrew Garfield and Amelia Dimoldenberg's Chicken Shop Date. The two stars first connected in 2022 on the GQ Men of the Year Awards red carpet, which Garfield attended and Dimoldenberg hosted. Fans honed into their chemistry immediately and, just like Dimoldenberg, started begging for the We Live in Time actor to make an appearance on her Chicken Shop Date web series.

And when they ran into each other again on the 2023 Golden Globes carpet? It was rom-com levels of adorable! "We must stop meeting like this," Andrew Garfield joked. And I think Amelia Dimoldenberg — who is the last word in confidence and boldness — clearly made him nervous because it didn't take long for him to start tripping over his words. "I only ever want to see you," he says, then grabs her hand and laughs as he clarifies he wants to see her "in these kinds of situations."

“'I only ever want to see you' would simply make me pass away, she’s so strong," one TikToker said in the comments, while another asks "why did this have ME blushing." Same y'all.

But the plot thickens because during the long-awaited Chicken Shop Date, Andrew Garfield actually tells Amelia Dimoldenberg they could have gone on a real date (you know, without all the lights, camera, action).

“Don't, like, bring out a ring or get down on one knee, I'm not in the mood today," Dimoldenberg jokes at the beginning of the video. "It's been vibey to the point where you've been avoiding me for two years because the vibes were too much for you to handle, so I'm actually surprised you're here."

After playing a game of "Snog, Marry, Avoid" with Tobey Maguire, Tom Holland, and herself (he picked her to avoid), Garfield says, "This is called flirting Amelia. This is actually a first date." Does this prove men never really stop teasing the girls they like?

"I actually believe, maybe, we could've [gone on a real date]," he adds, "without all of this." Um hello?! I need these two to go on a real date ASAP.

The Chicken Shop Date comes after Amelia Dimoldenberg told Drew Barrymore she'd recently kissed someone. "I'm feeling really good about being single at the moment, but that's because I kissed someone recently," she said. When Barrymore presses for more info ("With tongue?"), she adds, "Yeah, with tongue."

Get it girl!

Obsessed with the immaculate combo of chicken and interviews? Check out The Best 'Hot Ones' Episodes To Binge When You're Feeling Spicy!