#IAmaBoss: 3 Millennial Women in Tech Reveal Their Morning Routines + More!

When it comes to women we admire, there is no shortage of incredibly talented #girlbossheroes who are basking in the (well-deserved) spotlight. But for those of us who are slogging through our Monday morning commutes, refilling our coffee mugs for a second (or third) time and still trying to figure out our lives, we want some mentors who are closer to home. Introducing #IAmaBoss: Brit + Co’s new series that profiles women who are kicking butt at their jobs, nailing their goals and, most importantly, doling out tips, advice and more to us. Scroll on to meet this week’s amazing bosses, dominating the tech world.

Kim Bryden: Kim is the Founder of Cure[ate], which works with up-and-coming food + beverage businesses on their growth and scaling strategies, and with brands looking to connect with their target audiences through local food and drink. Previously, Kim was a Marketing + Community Development Team Leader for Whole Foods Market and spearheaded national partnerships and events at Brooklyn-based startup Kitchensurfing, an online marketplace to hire local chefs to cook in your home.

Shay Davis: Shay is a part of Dropbox’s corporate engineering team, where she navigates onboarding processes, helps create new systems and manages all accounts for new hires. Prior to Dropbox, she worked for Airbnb on the IT team, streamlining company technology systems and security. She got her start at Apple, working in both the retail store at the Genius Bar and at the Apple corporate HQ. Shay holds a business and management degree from Clark Atlanta University and a degree in cinematography from the University of California, Riverside.

Sarah Smith: Sarah Smith is the VP of HR, Recruiting and User Operations at Quora, where she’s helped grow the company from 40 people to 125 over the last three years. Prior to Quora, she was Director of Online Operations, leading and building a number of sales and operations team, including the Facebook Austin office. She has her MBA from Stanford University and a degree in Music Education from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Sarah is also a partner with Graph Ventures, an angel investing team, and enjoys helping friends with their start-ups.

What’s Your Morning Routine?

Kim

1 – 2 minutes: Wake up and stretch.

2 – 5 minutes: Teeth brushing regimen, including herbal COq10 rinse.

5 – 13 minutes: Shower with Aquanotes pencil in hand, jotting down ideas for the day. The best brainstorms happen in a steamy shower.

13 – 15 minutes: Brew a cup of my go-to mango chili yerba mate.

Shay
Each morning I wake up at 6:30am and take a shower, then do my hair. From 6:50am to 7am, I’ll sit down and drink some water (a good way to get hydrated for the day!). Then once I’m ready, I’ll begin my morning commute on BART from Piedmont and arrive at Dropbox around 8am. I plan to arrive each morning before most other Dropboxers get to the office so I can eat breakfast in the Tuck Shop, the restaurant inside Dropbox, before all of the hustle and bustle of the day begins. My goal in the morning is to do whatever requires the least amount of stress.

Sarah

7:45am: Wake up, usually naturally, and drink a bunch of water.

7:46am: Quick check on my phone of work and personal email, then news via Facebook and GoogleNow.

7:55am: Up to have coffee with Kyle, my boyfriend. He makes it using our beloved Chemex (usually Sightglass, Blue Bottle, Ritual or Chromatic) and poured in our favorite Heath mugs.

8:00am: Lounge on the couch with Kyle, maybe answer a few emails, look over calendar for the day, read some articles, check Quora and eat breakfast. Some days we do 20-30 minutes of yoga via YouTube.

9:00am: Shower, and if I’m feeling “fancy,” do my hair and makeup at home (vs. in the car or at work).

9:30am: Do a few final emails before heading to work, pour remaining coffee in my travel mug.

9:50am: Kyle and I both leave for work (traffic is much better to Mountain View at this time).

10:10am: Arrive at work, grab breakfast if I didn’t eat at home and create a to-do list for the rest of the day.

10:30am: First meeting.

I can’t start my day without ___________.

Kim: A strong cup of tea and a bowl of acai (or sheep’s milk yogurt) with Michele’s granola. #madeinBaltimore.

Shay: Taking a shower — it’s what wakes me up in the morning.

Sarah: Drinking a cup of coffee.

What are your productivity tips?

Kim: I work with five to ten different client projects at any given moment. Building out organic community, smart partnership connections and marketing and growth strategy for a variety of different companies under the food + drink umbrella requires top-notch time management skills and organization. Toggl is my go-to time tracker for projects. I also use Airmail to streamline my various inboxes and Boomerang for Gmail to archive and send back to me at a later date.

Shay: I really don’t like swimming in emails, so I usually utilize the app Mailbox to prioritize the amount of email I receive daily. Mailbox helps me make sure that I am focusing on the most important, time-sensitive task at any given moment.

Sarah:

  • Seeing “white space” as a good thing on a calendar. In my twenties, I used to feel like I was being productive if I had something booked or planned for every minute of the day… perhaps it was FOMO (fear of missing out) or just hangover from the school-checklist mentality. Now I see that I’m less productive and less likely to see new opportunities if I’m too booked up, so I aim to have at least one to two days a week that aren’t super packed. It also means I can better absorb emergencies or unexpected events at work, which means less canceling or rearranging of evening plans, keeping relationships stronger.
  • GTD. I don’t follow it religiously, but I do like the “Getting Things Done” methodology of having every thought recorded somewhere in order to free up real estate in one’s mind. The method also pushes you to do things like only check email when you have time to process quick ones that require one to two minutes.
  • Trash all email from PTO. I learned this from Al Baxter, a colleague at Facebook. When going on vacation, in my OOO message says, “I will not be processing emails upon return. If what you just sent is really important, please reply with IMPORTANT in the subject line.” It really works and is such a pleasant way to reenter after vacation. Most emails are irrelevant after a day or two anyway, and anything you miss, people will find you.

Tell us about one maker who you admire!

Kim: I really admire the work happening at La Cocina. Taking a complex problem like growing and scaling food businesses, especially in the lower income, minority and immigrant communities, is a tough challenge to solve. I particularly appreciate their multi-step process for working with the companies they incubate. Providing services and mentorship on top of physical space and location is key when starting out a business, and I believe a lot of companies, no matter what vertical, often miss out on providing the intangible of taking the time to sit, listen, reflect and analyze team members’ experiences.

Shay: Elon Musk

Sarah: Holly Gressley. She used to work at Dwell Magazine (which is the magazine I most look forward to getting in the mail every month) and now she works at Quora. She’s a master at communications design and makes the most interesting and delightful creations for the company. Similarly, I love Ben Barry’s work. He was a communications designer at Facebook, and he exposed lithograph and screen printing to a huge number of people. He’s still producing interesting and beautiful stuff from all over the world. (Photo via Astrid Stawiarz/Getty)

What is one home-related or general life “hack” you keep in your toolkit?

Kim: I entertain a lot, so keeping my fridge and cocktail cart stocked may seem like an obvious life hack, but really food and drinks are the way into people’s hearts. Friends, or friends of friends, will stop by my home and instantly feel comfortable because of the conversations created around unique ingredients.

Shay: One general life hack I keep in my toolbox is a handy IFTTT recipe to keep track of new music I find on Soundcloud. Whenever I like a song on Soundcloud, a link to it is automatically shared in a Dropbox folder, so my friends and co-workers can access it. Music is something that is a central part of my life, so this IFTTT recipe gives me the ability to share my passion for music with those I care about most.

Sarah: Buy multiples of things you use often, so you save time looking for that one lipstick/house key/phone charger or packing and transporting a curling iron from home to workout. It really makes things much simpler to have a full set of toiletries at work (or in the car if you get ready at a gym) and another set at home. The same goes for makeup. I love not having to rifle through a purse and repack every morning. Saving minutes every day (and stress!) really helps. Similarly, my boyfriend has helped me get used to leaving my work badge and keys by the front door. I used to run around in the morning trying to remember where I left my badge the night before, and this habit is super calming and means I’m less likely to be late to a morning meeting. (Photo via @kimbryden)

I wish someone had told me ___________ when I graduated from college…

Kim: I wish someone had told me that it’s okay to fail. That it’s okay to have a two-year plan because everything is changing so drastically all the time. Take each job, each relationship as a valuable learning experience and soak in all that you can from every moment. Don’t see your accomplishments as the “end all, be all,” because you and the world are continuously evolving. The way you stay ahead is by keeping your curiosity and ability to learn agile and alive.

Shay: I wish someone had told me that it’s okay to not know what you’re doing yet, just for peace of mind. I wish someone would have said, “It’s okay that you’re figuring your life out at 22.”

Sarah: I took some big risks when I graduated, like moving to California for a boyfriend and not working in my major field of study (music education). I have no regrets, but it would have been great for someone to really push me to think really big in terms of the impact I could make on the world. In business school, I saw friends who had attended Ivy League schools for undergrad assume they’d have that impact. I didn’t assume it until around five years after graduating from college. Simply pushing someone to think bigger with their plans can give them confidence to stretch their potential impact to a larger scale.

Does their advice resonate with you? Know a #girlboss we should interview? Send an email to editorial@brit.co and they could appear in the next column!

No matter what kind of day you're having, Marissa Cooper's having a worse one. Mischa Barton's The O.C. character went through the ringer during the first three seasons of the teen drama (remember how she overdosed in Tijuana...and also saw her parents post-hookup after their divorce?).

And during her time on The O.C., Mischa Barton struggled with drug and alcohol abuse. She was arrested for a DUI in 2007 and eventually received involuntary psychiatric hospitalization in 2009 after allegedly threatening to end her own life. And in a new interview, Peter Gallagher (who played Sandy Cohen on the show) says he's "just so grateful" for "the fact that she’s still alive."

  • Mischa Barton starred alongside Peter Gallagher in The O.C. from 2003-2006.
  • The actress has revealed the "trauma" of being a star at that point in her life.
  • Peter recently opened up about how he's thankful "she’s still alive."


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The O.C. follows Ryan Atwood, who moves in with the Cohens after getting kicked out of his mom's house, and starts a relationship with Marissa shortly after. While Peter Gallagher played Adam Brody's TV dad instead of Mischa's, Sandy was a definitely father figure for Marissa, and it seems like Peter felt that same responsibility off camera.

"I’ve always felt very protective of her," Peter told The Independent. "First fame is toxic. First fame can kill you. She was 16 years old when she started working with us, so just the fact that she’s still alive, I’m just so grateful."

“You can go to therapy every day for the rest of your life,” Mischa said in a 2023 interview with The Sunday Times. “There’s just a certain amount of trauma [from] all that I went through, particularly in my early twenties, that just doesn’t go away overnight.”

Josh Schwartz and Stephanie Savage revealed that season 1 overdose not only served as a cliffhanger, but gave “network executives an escape hatch on a performer they had been wary about” (via People). But Mischa Barton got her big break, becoming "how people knew the show," and (thankfully) Marissa recovered — only to die after a car crash in season 3.

As hard as that season 3 ending is to watch, Mischa did have the opportunity to watch it with Rachel Bilson and Melinda Clarke for the first time on their rewatch podcast. "It needed to be a thing, after everything she's been through, but if it's here I'll watch it with you," Mischa says.

"I couldn't do it, Mischa, I couldn't do it," Rachel adds. "But I'm going to do it if you're going to do it."

Mischa says even though being written off the show "was a little bit of a bummer," it wasn't necessarily a surprise. "The character was just doing too much," she told Vanity Fairin 2023. "And I think they ran out of places for her to go. It was not the best thing in the world, [but] there wasn’t much you could do at that point. It was whether she could sail off into the sunset, or die. At that point, I guess it’s better to have the more dramatic ending.”
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Former Disney Channel star Dylan Sprouse and model Barbara Palvin are certainly living the sweet life after tying the knot in Palvin's native Hungary. The couple, who have been together for nearly five years, have always been pretty low-key — except for the occasional and undeniably adorable Instagram post (and a stunning wedding!). We are simply ~obsessed~ with this celebrity couple, especially after they pulled out all the stops for their couple's Halloween costume. Keep scrolling to see some of their best moments :').

See Dylan Sprouse & Barbara Palvin's Halloween Couple's Costume!

For Halloween Dylan Sprouse and Barbara Palvin stunned as the Phantom and Christine from Phantom of the Opera. Dylan wore a mask and a black cape, while Barbara wore a beautiful white dress. While the costume is obviously a nod to the musical, it also totally reminds us of their day as bride and groom.

"In Sleep He Sang to Me," Barbara said in a post, quoting the musical's titular number. "@dylansprouse my forever Phantom."

Who did Dylan Sprouse marry?

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On the couple's wedding day (July 15, 2023), Barbara wore a Vivienne Westwood wedding gown to celebrate her Hungarian nuptials, bringing together their nearest and dearest for an intimate(-ish) celebration. Barbara and Dylan tied the knot on her parent's property, which conveniently doubles as an event venue, with plans to host an larger wedding in California in the fall.

"This past weekend was supposed to be an intimate event, but we ended up having 115 guests in the end because there are a lot of people we care about, and we wanted them all to be there," Barbara told Vogue.

When did Dylan Sprouse and Barbara Palvin get engaged?

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Barbara Palvin on Instagram: "♥️"

After months of speculation surrounding the couple's engagement, Dylan and Barbara confirmed their engagement in conversation with Sprouse's twin brother, actor Cole Sprouse, for V Magazine in June, sharing that they got engaged last September.

"We didn't necessarily feel the need to be fully transparent with the public about that aspect of our engagement," Dylan said. "What we wanted to do with Stephen [Gan, V editor-in-chief] and the V team is make something that was kind of tongue-in-cheek about the nature of private versus public. We're playing with the idea of perception."

Barbara noted that the lovebirds wanted to announce the news "on our time," adding, "When some people leaked the information that we got engaged, our PR team was like, 'Hey, so you guys should do maybe a post about it or talk to this magazine or talk to that magazine…' That really annoyed me because I knew we were building this story up. So, I'm very happy that we ended up doing it our way."

When did Barbara Palvin and Dylan Sprouse start dating?

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See Dylan Sprouse & Barbara Palvin's Dreamy Halloween Costume: "My Forever"

According to People, the couple met back in 2017 after a party when the Suite Life On Deck star slid into the model’s DMs (and as they say, the rest is history). The duo made their relationship Instagram official back in 2018 with Barbara’s sweet birthday tribute for Dylan’s 26th birthday.

Let’s be real here for a second though, we all knew they were endgame the minute Dylan went above and beyond to support Barbara at the Victoria Secret Fashion Show that same year (remember this viral video?). Three days after the fashion show, the Hungarian model told Vogue Australia that she hadn’t had a boyfriend in six years, but had now found “the perfect guy” in Dylan (we aren’t crying, you are).

How old are Barbara Palvin and Dylan Sprouse?

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Barbara Palvin was born on October 8, 1993, making her 31 years old. Dylan Sprouse was born on August 4, 1992, meaning he's 32 years old. So there's only a one-year age gap between them!

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2017's The Beguiled gave us one of the best groups of people of all time: Elle Fanning, Nicole Kidman, Sofia Coppola, and Kirsten Dunst just to name a few. And we're finally getting an Elle and Nicole reunion thanks to Apple TV+! "THRILLED to bring @rufithorpe genius hysterical heart-wrenching heartwarming book to your TV screens alongside a dream group of people!" Elle says on Instagram. Rather than having to test the success of its pilot, the series has already been ordered — even though the book it's based on isn't even out yet! Here's everything you need to know about the series.

  • Dakota and Elle Fanning will produce the upcoming Apple TV+ show Margo's Got Money Troubles.
  • The series follows Margo, who signs up for OnlyFans after learning she's pregnant.
  • The cast includes Elle Fanning, Nicole Kidman, Michelle Pfeiffer, and Nick Offerman.

Who's in the Margo's Got Money Troubles cast?

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Margo's Got Money Troubles Cast

We couldn't contain our excitement when we learned Margo's Got Money Troubles will star Nicole Kidman and Elle Fanning, but knowing Michelle Pfeiffer is also joining the cast is too much to bear! This is the first time the actress will collaborate with her husband, TV creator David E. Kelley, so we can't wait to see the magic they'll create (via Deadline).

Nick Offerman from The Last of Us and Parks and Rec will also star.

When is Margo's Got Money Troubles coming out?

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Margo's Got Money Troubles Release Date

We don't have an official release date for Elle Fanning and Nicole Kidman's TV show yet. I'm thinking if the TV show is in the early stages of planning, we could see it in 2025! Check out all of this year's best New TV Shows to hold you over until then.

What is Margo's Got Money Troubles about?

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Margo's Got Money Troubles Plot

Margo Millet is the daughter of a Hooter's waitress named Shyanne (Michelle Pfeiffer) and an ex-wrestler (via Deadline). She's always had to make it on her own, even though she's not sure how. When she enrolls in her local junior college, she's totally unprepared to get swept up into a torrid love affair with her English professor — or to get pregnant.

Now at 20 years old, Margo needs an income and fast. She decides to experiment with OnlyFans and ends up taking some of her estranged father's advice from the world of wrestling to create a character users will fall in love with. You can order the book now!

What is Elle Fanning and Nicole Kidman's new TV show?

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Margo's Got Money Troubles is coming soon to Apple TV+ thanks to a bunch of different producers. A24 is backing the film, as well as Elle and Dakota Fanning’s production company Lewellen Pictures and Nicole Kidman’s Blossom Films, to name a few.

What else has Elle Fanning and Nicole Kidman starred in?

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Elle Fanning and Nicole Kidman starred in 2017's The Beguiled. The movie follows John McBurney, an injured Union soldier, who winds up at a female Southern boarding school after deserting the Civil War. But soon, as the women help him, tensions turn to rivalries and friends turn to enemies.

Are you excited for Elle Fanning and Nicole Kidman's TV reunion? Let us know what other New TV Shows you're watching in the comments.

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