#IAmaBoss: 3 Millennial Women in Tech Reveal Their Morning Routines + More!

When it comes to women we admire, there is no shortage of incredibly talented #girlbossheroes who are basking in the (well-deserved) spotlight. But for those of us who are slogging through our Monday morning commutes, refilling our coffee mugs for a second (or third) time and still trying to figure out our lives, we want some mentors who are closer to home. Introducing #IAmaBoss: Brit + Co’s new series that profiles women who are kicking butt at their jobs, nailing their goals and, most importantly, doling out tips, advice and more to us. Scroll on to meet this week’s amazing bosses, dominating the tech world.

Kim Bryden: Kim is the Founder of Cure[ate], which works with up-and-coming food + beverage businesses on their growth and scaling strategies, and with brands looking to connect with their target audiences through local food and drink. Previously, Kim was a Marketing + Community Development Team Leader for Whole Foods Market and spearheaded national partnerships and events at Brooklyn-based startup Kitchensurfing, an online marketplace to hire local chefs to cook in your home.

Shay Davis: Shay is a part of Dropbox’s corporate engineering team, where she navigates onboarding processes, helps create new systems and manages all accounts for new hires. Prior to Dropbox, she worked for Airbnb on the IT team, streamlining company technology systems and security. She got her start at Apple, working in both the retail store at the Genius Bar and at the Apple corporate HQ. Shay holds a business and management degree from Clark Atlanta University and a degree in cinematography from the University of California, Riverside.

Sarah Smith: Sarah Smith is the VP of HR, Recruiting and User Operations at Quora, where she’s helped grow the company from 40 people to 125 over the last three years. Prior to Quora, she was Director of Online Operations, leading and building a number of sales and operations team, including the Facebook Austin office. She has her MBA from Stanford University and a degree in Music Education from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Sarah is also a partner with Graph Ventures, an angel investing team, and enjoys helping friends with their start-ups.

What’s Your Morning Routine?

Kim

1 – 2 minutes: Wake up and stretch.

2 – 5 minutes: Teeth brushing regimen, including herbal COq10 rinse.

5 – 13 minutes: Shower with Aquanotes pencil in hand, jotting down ideas for the day. The best brainstorms happen in a steamy shower.

13 – 15 minutes: Brew a cup of my go-to mango chili yerba mate.

Shay
Each morning I wake up at 6:30am and take a shower, then do my hair. From 6:50am to 7am, I’ll sit down and drink some water (a good way to get hydrated for the day!). Then once I’m ready, I’ll begin my morning commute on BART from Piedmont and arrive at Dropbox around 8am. I plan to arrive each morning before most other Dropboxers get to the office so I can eat breakfast in the Tuck Shop, the restaurant inside Dropbox, before all of the hustle and bustle of the day begins. My goal in the morning is to do whatever requires the least amount of stress.

Sarah

7:45am: Wake up, usually naturally, and drink a bunch of water.

7:46am: Quick check on my phone of work and personal email, then news via Facebook and GoogleNow.

7:55am: Up to have coffee with Kyle, my boyfriend. He makes it using our beloved Chemex (usually Sightglass, Blue Bottle, Ritual or Chromatic) and poured in our favorite Heath mugs.

8:00am: Lounge on the couch with Kyle, maybe answer a few emails, look over calendar for the day, read some articles, check Quora and eat breakfast. Some days we do 20-30 minutes of yoga via YouTube.

9:00am: Shower, and if I’m feeling “fancy,” do my hair and makeup at home (vs. in the car or at work).

9:30am: Do a few final emails before heading to work, pour remaining coffee in my travel mug.

9:50am: Kyle and I both leave for work (traffic is much better to Mountain View at this time).

10:10am: Arrive at work, grab breakfast if I didn’t eat at home and create a to-do list for the rest of the day.

10:30am: First meeting.

I can’t start my day without ___________.

Kim: A strong cup of tea and a bowl of acai (or sheep’s milk yogurt) with Michele’s granola. #madeinBaltimore.

Shay: Taking a shower — it’s what wakes me up in the morning.

Sarah: Drinking a cup of coffee.

What are your productivity tips?

Kim: I work with five to ten different client projects at any given moment. Building out organic community, smart partnership connections and marketing and growth strategy for a variety of different companies under the food + drink umbrella requires top-notch time management skills and organization. Toggl is my go-to time tracker for projects. I also use Airmail to streamline my various inboxes and Boomerang for Gmail to archive and send back to me at a later date.

Shay: I really don’t like swimming in emails, so I usually utilize the app Mailbox to prioritize the amount of email I receive daily. Mailbox helps me make sure that I am focusing on the most important, time-sensitive task at any given moment.

Sarah:

  • Seeing “white space” as a good thing on a calendar. In my twenties, I used to feel like I was being productive if I had something booked or planned for every minute of the day… perhaps it was FOMO (fear of missing out) or just hangover from the school-checklist mentality. Now I see that I’m less productive and less likely to see new opportunities if I’m too booked up, so I aim to have at least one to two days a week that aren’t super packed. It also means I can better absorb emergencies or unexpected events at work, which means less canceling or rearranging of evening plans, keeping relationships stronger.
  • GTD. I don’t follow it religiously, but I do like the “Getting Things Done” methodology of having every thought recorded somewhere in order to free up real estate in one’s mind. The method also pushes you to do things like only check email when you have time to process quick ones that require one to two minutes.
  • Trash all email from PTO. I learned this from Al Baxter, a colleague at Facebook. When going on vacation, in my OOO message says, “I will not be processing emails upon return. If what you just sent is really important, please reply with IMPORTANT in the subject line.” It really works and is such a pleasant way to reenter after vacation. Most emails are irrelevant after a day or two anyway, and anything you miss, people will find you.

Tell us about one maker who you admire!

Kim: I really admire the work happening at La Cocina. Taking a complex problem like growing and scaling food businesses, especially in the lower income, minority and immigrant communities, is a tough challenge to solve. I particularly appreciate their multi-step process for working with the companies they incubate. Providing services and mentorship on top of physical space and location is key when starting out a business, and I believe a lot of companies, no matter what vertical, often miss out on providing the intangible of taking the time to sit, listen, reflect and analyze team members’ experiences.

Shay: Elon Musk

Sarah: Holly Gressley. She used to work at Dwell Magazine (which is the magazine I most look forward to getting in the mail every month) and now she works at Quora. She’s a master at communications design and makes the most interesting and delightful creations for the company. Similarly, I love Ben Barry’s work. He was a communications designer at Facebook, and he exposed lithograph and screen printing to a huge number of people. He’s still producing interesting and beautiful stuff from all over the world. (Photo via Astrid Stawiarz/Getty)

What is one home-related or general life “hack” you keep in your toolkit?

Kim: I entertain a lot, so keeping my fridge and cocktail cart stocked may seem like an obvious life hack, but really food and drinks are the way into people’s hearts. Friends, or friends of friends, will stop by my home and instantly feel comfortable because of the conversations created around unique ingredients.

Shay: One general life hack I keep in my toolbox is a handy IFTTT recipe to keep track of new music I find on Soundcloud. Whenever I like a song on Soundcloud, a link to it is automatically shared in a Dropbox folder, so my friends and co-workers can access it. Music is something that is a central part of my life, so this IFTTT recipe gives me the ability to share my passion for music with those I care about most.

Sarah: Buy multiples of things you use often, so you save time looking for that one lipstick/house key/phone charger or packing and transporting a curling iron from home to workout. It really makes things much simpler to have a full set of toiletries at work (or in the car if you get ready at a gym) and another set at home. The same goes for makeup. I love not having to rifle through a purse and repack every morning. Saving minutes every day (and stress!) really helps. Similarly, my boyfriend has helped me get used to leaving my work badge and keys by the front door. I used to run around in the morning trying to remember where I left my badge the night before, and this habit is super calming and means I’m less likely to be late to a morning meeting. (Photo via @kimbryden)

I wish someone had told me ___________ when I graduated from college…

Kim: I wish someone had told me that it’s okay to fail. That it’s okay to have a two-year plan because everything is changing so drastically all the time. Take each job, each relationship as a valuable learning experience and soak in all that you can from every moment. Don’t see your accomplishments as the “end all, be all,” because you and the world are continuously evolving. The way you stay ahead is by keeping your curiosity and ability to learn agile and alive.

Shay: I wish someone had told me that it’s okay to not know what you’re doing yet, just for peace of mind. I wish someone would have said, “It’s okay that you’re figuring your life out at 22.”

Sarah: I took some big risks when I graduated, like moving to California for a boyfriend and not working in my major field of study (music education). I have no regrets, but it would have been great for someone to really push me to think really big in terms of the impact I could make on the world. In business school, I saw friends who had attended Ivy League schools for undergrad assume they’d have that impact. I didn’t assume it until around five years after graduating from college. Simply pushing someone to think bigger with their plans can give them confidence to stretch their potential impact to a larger scale.

Does their advice resonate with you? Know a #girlboss we should interview? Send an email to editorial@brit.co and they could appear in the next column!

Fashion trends come and go, but not all of them are missed. Just like outdated shoes or makeup, there are some things we'd rather leave in our confused or wild party days. From thinking it was cute to wear teeny vests to not caring if our boobs spilled out of scarf tops, we cringe every time we think of these 10 nostalgic things we used to wear.

We're also sure you happily wore one or few of them at some point. Like us, it's possibly you have a relic from the past stuffed in the deepest part of your closet.

All we can say is that we sincerely hope you don't plan to wear any of these cringey fashion trends next year!

Here are the 10 outdated fashion trends you definitely need to retire for 2025!

1. Cropped Vests

Brandon Ricketts

You didn't have to look far if you wanted to spot a celeb wearing a variation of a vest. From under boob designs to cropped versions, they used to dominate fashion. We're willing to bet you even wore the latter in middle or high school. If think we've been sneaking to look at your closet, we haven't nor are we psychic.

We know you had at least one cropped vest because we did too. Some of us had a punk rock era while others thought we were adopted the business casual style that seemed appropriate for our younger selves. Needless to say, this trend won't cut it in 2025.

2. Ponchos

Ayoub Moukhliss

If you didn't own a poncho when you were younger, what were you doing? It was one of the 'it girl' trends that dominated whether you were deemed stylish or not, and guess who couldn't get enough of wearing it? Us...and maybe you too!

Thankfully, we've outgrown our desire to be seen in something that wouldn't get us in trouble at church because we realize it's actually not flattering. Besides, the goal is to let your outfit shine without hiding it under a shapeless garment.

3. Scarf Tops

David Gari

Unless you're headed to a festival or vacationing somewhere where wearing minimal clothing isn't given a side eye, scarf tops are to be left in the past. We actually don't have the words to describe just how much we'd prefer for you to wear everything BUT this trend. Since we're currently glitching, we'll say that we'd prefer to see you wear a poncho in 2025 before you try to revive this.

4. Shorter Leather Jackets

Anna Shvets

This is more of our more controversial takes, but we'll say it anyway: shorter leather jackets don't belong in your closest in 2025. They were great when we were in college, but now? It just seems like they're reserved for 20-year-olds who are still trying to figure out who and what they want to be in life. An oversized, vintage-esque option always looks best!

5. Puffy Faux Fur Coats

Following NYC

Sigh, It seems like everyone wanted their hands on a faux fur coat, but we think this is one of the most outdated fashion trends. It looks like it belongs to the street style during 2016-2018's fashion weeks. While we're add it, please don't pair it with anything camo if you decide this is one thing you're not ready to give up yet.

6. Low Rise Jeans & Skirts

Mizuno K

All we can think about when we see super low rise jeans or skirts are our middle school days. Unfortunately, we saw too many pairs of thongs being exposed because of this style and it scarred us! Unlike other styles we've mentioned, we're adamant that you shouldn't pass 'go' for the sake of reviving low rise anything. Gen Z may say otherwise, but let's just let these lie where they belong: the 2000s.

7. White Sunglasses

Following NYC

Sunglasses are a cute way to spice up your outfit when you're looking for an accessory that doesn't feel distracting. BUT, it's possible to still get that wrong if you're wearing sunglasses that have glaring frames. They're known for making a statement, but not in a good way. Let's leave the white sunnies behind, please!

8. Page Boy Hats

Following NYC

We're sure you can pull of a great page boy hat, but it's the quickest way for most stylish people to wonder if you're trying to hold on to a time where they made everyone look great.

Sigh...Okay, we're just not a fan of this trend, and find that it may unintentionally age you.

9. Overdone Ruffles

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Unless you're trying to show Lord Farquaad you would make an excellent wife, leave the overdone ruffles alone! They're not going to make anyone look good even if you've pulled them off in the past. Honestly, the above outfit would be really cute if it weren't for the layered ruffles around the neck so let this be a lesson to keep them in the past.

10. Tiny Denim Shorts

Nicolas Postiglioni

"Who wears short shorts?" Well, we used to before we realized that they're not the most stylish option. They're great for summer vacation or days where you want to give your legs breathing room, but we don't think they should be a part of your everyday uniform anymore. There's other denim styles you can rely on like balloon jeans, dresses, or even longline shorts!

Which of these cringey fashion trends did you used to wear? Let us know on Facebook!

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's engagement is the marquis diamond ring heard 'round the world — and Justin Bieber may have just reacted to it. Our collective jaws were already on the floor after Hailey Bieber liked the Instagram, but this has taken everything to a whole other level. The "Sorry" singer took to Instagram himself, making a post that fans couldn't help tying to the recent engagement news. Here's what he said (in not so many words).

Here's how Justin Bieber (maybe) reacted to Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's engagement!

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We all know that Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco announced their adorable Taco Bell picnic engagement on December 12, 2024. The post is chalk-full of friend, fan, and celebrity support — including a 'like' from Hailey Bieber, herself. If you're wondering why that may be a big deal, let me break it down for you.

Hailey and Selena both dated Justin Bieber in the 2010's, and there was seemingly a bit of back-and-forth between the three for a few years there. This erupted a "feud" of sorts, leaving Hailey and Selena at odds in the public eye. However, they've continued to show us that any remaining "beef" is squashed.

But now? Now, Justin is sorta stirring the pot a little bit.

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On December 16, 2024, Justin posted a selfie with Hailey kissing his cheek — innocuous enough, right? Well, fans noticed he attached "All My Ghosts" by Lizzy McAlpine to the post. The song has since been deleted, but Page Six still has the screenshot to prove it.

People attach songs to posts every day, but this tune in particular caught everyone's attention. In the very sentimental song, Lizzy McAlpine sings:

I can see it now, the wedding of the year

I can see it now, he stands up there and wipes his tears

I can see it now, when all my ghosts disappear

I can see it crystal clear.

Sensing any parallels to Justin's life? Yeah, us too. He could have truly just liked the song — it's great! — but it's pretty hard to ignore the underlying message there. All I know is, I hope these ghosts "disappearing" mean the drama between this trio is officially gone for good. We don't want the girls fighting anymore!

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Just like Gilmore Girls fans, The Holiday movie lovers get very passionate about which couple they love most: Iris and Miles (Kate Winslet and Jack Black) or Amanda and Graham (Cameron Diaz and Jude Law). But despite the fact Miles composing a song for Iris makes me swoon every single time, when I watch the movie, I can't help but think about how the true love story of the movie isn't between any of the romantic couples — it's between Iris and her new BFF Arthur.

Here's why the true love story in The Holiday is actually between Kate Winslet's Iris and Eli Wallach's Arthur.

Iris life changes forever when she meets Arthur in Los Angeles.

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The premise of The Holiday movie is pretty simple: Iris and Amanda swap homes for two weeks over Christmas to avoid their disastrous love lives, unknowingly agreeing to an adventure that ultimately changes them — and their love lives — forever. (Oh what I wouldn't give to hop on a plane to Europe to avoid boys. What a dream). When she lands in Los Angeles, Iris is totally overwhelmed by Amanda's gorgeous home, the DVD setup, and gigantic bed, but the aspect of her holiday that really shines is her ability to connect with people.

We see Iris learn all of the gardeners' names (as well as the mailman's) barely a week after arriving, and when she notices Amanda's elderly neighbor Arthur walking alone, she immediately pulls over to help him find his house. (Also, sidebar: this scene always terrifies me because why is Arthur in the middle of the street?! Why aren't you on a side walk, A?!).

Iris helps Arthur home and takes a look around his living room (which boasts at least one Emmy and Academy Award each) before inviting him to have dinner with her and boom! The greatest relationship in the movie is born.

Arthur empowers Iris to be "the leading lady in her own life."

These two become fast friends, as Iris confides in him about her disastrous love life that very same night, and he offers her a beautiful piece of advice about acting like "the leading lady in your own life" (remember folks, this was decades before main character energy). Iris also reminds him just how much of a role he played in Hollywood by helping him prep for his Writers Guild of America gala with strength training so he can climb the stairs without his walker.

So though it's not romantic, Iris and Arthur's relationship is the true love story of The Holiday because of how much love and confidence they offer each other. Neither of them expect anything in return — they just enjoy being together.

And Iris gives Arthur his confidence back too!

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Soon, it's time to head off to the WGA gala, and Arthur gives Iris a corsage, apologizing if it's corny or doesn't match her outfit. Iris declares she's "looking for corny," and it's such a small moment that really illustrates that the way they've empowered each other has changed their lives forever.

Iris helps Arthur feel sure of himself again, while Arthur's encouragement helps Iris find her power...and kick her ex Jasper out of her life forever! (Plus Arthur definitely picks up on the vibes between Iris and Miles during their Hanukkah dinner party. The ultimate wingman!).

When Iris and Arthur arrive at the WGA gala, and a sold-out crowd gives Arthur a standing ovation, it's clear he wasn't expecting so many people to care about his work. And in his overwhelming shock, he has Iris to lean on. Iris and Arthur don't only care about each other, they depend on each other, and their trust, love, and understanding is just the cherry on top. And sorry Jude Law, but I'll take that over romance any day.

Do you love relationship hot takes? Check out why The Best Bridgerton Relationship Has Nothing To Do With Romance either.