19 High Voltage Ways to Inject a “Pop” of Color into Your Winter Wardrobe

Enough is enough. Between the waning sunlight, shorter days and the downright Arctic temperatures (okay, maybe we’re exaggerating a bit on that last one), a case of the winter mehs is already starting to set in. But, chin up, there’s still hope yet! True to form, once you start thinking warmer thoughts (hello, Bermuda sunshine!) and subbing in “super brights” for a palette of blasé neutrals, it’ll only be a matter of time before your hatred toward winter turns into mutual respect. Instead of dreading your blustery morning commutes, you’ll come to appreciate the breath of fresh air that it brings, and the opportunity to whip out your cheekiest cold weather accessories and longline coats. Now’s the time to ditch your depressing all-black-errthang uniform for an uplifting wardrobe of fluorescent hues — think cherry red, citrus yellow, chartreuse and aqua blue, just to name a few — that can be spotted at least a mile away. Ahead, we’ve compiled 19 bright and punchy statement pieces that are more than deserving of a spot in your colorful capsule wardrobe.

1. Free People Super Slouch Beanie ($28): It’s one of the first things you reach for before braving the cold or hitting the slopes. If you guessed an extra-slouchy ribbed beanie, then you’re already a step ahead of the sartorial curve. Just as moon boots are non-negotiable during a blizzard, a fluorescent green beanie is practically a no-brainer come the first polar vortex of the season. For maximum impact, pair it alongside a leopard print coat and leather pants.

2. Golden Ponies Pastel Raincoat ($60): Rain, rain, come again: This pastel color-block raincoat will make you *actually* look forward to the prospect of rainy days. Armed with your favorite wellies and a cheeky umbrella, it’ll banish a case of the rainy-day blues before they even surface. We’re partial to the contrasting rubber ducky yellow pockets and hood that call for a little splish, splash action — puddle jumping may be one of your specialties yet.

3. Free People Sparkler Wrap Mule ($148): Found it. Between a bevy of seasonal fêtes and New Year’s Eve countdowns, you’re going to need a pair of glitter-flecked suede mules on standby. These lace-up magenta beauties definitely aren’t too shabby, especially once it comes time to dance the night away in your glitziest drop-waist dress. But don’t be mistaken — they’ll look just as at home with a streamlined turtleneck, raw-hem stilt-leg jeans and a fuzzy topper.

4. J.Crew Zippered Coat in Stadium-Cloth ($365): Guard your wallets: If history repeats itself, then you’ll be forking over the moolah for this covetable chartreuse stadium coat in about 2.5 seconds. It’s that good. You have free rein to parade it around town with vibrant suede lilac heels and a bright orange clutch in tow. Sign us up, please.

5. The Cambridge Satchel Company The 11 Inch Melissa x CSC Satchel ($140): Color chameleons, come through! Just as your clothes deserve a dose of color splash, so do your #AOTD (accessories of the day). In lieu of neon-colored knits (been there, done that), try your hand at this sleek aqua satchel that’s made for girls on the go. Team it alongside a Kelly Green coat, banana yellow trousers or even an unassuming khaki trench for an unstoppable look that means business.

6. Free People Isle of Sky Pullover ($228): Chunky knit pullovers make the world go ‘round, amirite? This fuzzy fiesta red sweater has holiday bash written all over it (although it could certainly double for a Netflix-powered weekend). Style it with a sequined mini skirt or cropped denim flares and velvet ankle booties for a head-turning look. Pro tip: Nonchalantly tuck your hair into the turtleneck for a getup that says “trying, but not trying too hard, thanks.”

7. Silence + Noise Ally Neon Chunky Cardigan ($98): Common consensus says we ALL need a stay-at-home knit cardigan with this much staying power. The photos don’t do it justice — that shade of neon pink won’t be going undetected during your morning commute anytime soon. Style it with an oversized t-shirt and high-performance leggings for a lounge-worthy look, before upping the wow factor with a shimmery sequined dress and Doc Martens come the p.m.

8. J.Crew Abstract Crystal Bee Earrings ($25): Obsessed would be an understatement. From working the reception desk at your nine-to-five to brunching uptown in your Sunday best, these brilliantly hued crystal earrings are guaranteed to keep a case of the outfit blahs away — think of them as the exclamation point to every #OOTD.

9. Urban Outfitters Neon PVC Belt ($15): Our advice when it comes to introducing a slew of fluorescents into your wardrobe of dark clothing? Take baby steps, starting with this neon yellow PVC belt that will lend just the right amount of look-at-me appeal to a sheer maxi dress or plain ol’ denim. ’90s babes, have at it!

10. J.Crew Pintucked Pencil Skirt in Lace ($98): Why yes, come to think of it, your boardroom uniform could use a little color play. Ditch the snoozy black slacks and crisp white button-downs for this ultra-femme grassy green lace skirt that will take you from desk to drinks. Round out your HR-approved look with nude ankle-strap steppers, a chambray shirt (cuffed sleeves done the Jenna Lyons way, natch) and dazzling chandelier earrings for a getup that reads HBIC.

11. Zara Knit Sweatshirt ($50): This double-tap-worthy highlighter yellow sweatshirt has us literally jumping for joy. If you ask us, it’s ‘bout time your wardrobe of strictly winter whites received some company in the form of a mood-enhancing outer layer that can stand on its own. *Adds to cart without hesitation.*

12. Privileged Rainier Glitter Heel ($128): Introducing the unicorn of going-out shoes: These star-studded glitter heels featuring a colorful faux fur pom (YAS) would be perf for a Vegas-themed bachelorette party, a late-night bar crawl or even date night. All that’s missing is a sequined bodysuit and leather pants for an OTT look that would do Lady Gaga proud.

13. Zara Neon Yellow Gloves ($30): Ski season is upon us, people! You best believe a pair of these neon yellow all-weather gloves will hold you down when out shoveling snow or walking your pooch around the block. They may not be the most stylish pair, but they sure are Snowmageddon-approved — proceed to pair alongside your puffiest puffer and ugly-pretty moon boots.

14. J.O.A. Cobalt Long Coat ($121): You say cobalt, we say cerulean. Either way, we’re pretty sure Miranda Priestly would be on board when it comes to test-driving this statement-making azul overcoat on the streets. The relaxed menswear style can be pared down with rolled-up boyfriend jeans and mid-heel ankle boots or elevated with a swishy accordion-pleat skirt come dusk. Your move.

15. Free People What a Flirt Sweater Set ($148): Cute and snuggly doesn’t even begin to cut it — this is what you toss on when you’re looking to add some variety to your date-night look. Perfect for cozying up by the fire with your boo (and a cuppa hot chocolate), this two-piece knit sweater set will hold you down all winter long. The eccentric coral and electric blue stripes would look best complemented by a longline puffer jacket and citron-hued mittens.

16. Urban Renewal Vintage Overdyed Surplus Jogger Pant ($39): For days when you’re low-key bummin’ it, you can rest easy knowing you’re doing so in style. (Hey, if Juicy tracksuits were acceptable in the early ‘00s, then these drawstring joggers should fit the bill just fine.) Plus, the turquoise hue will have you garnering all the compliments from random passersby post-SoulCycle sesh. You already know monochromatic kicks are in order.

17. Scotch & Soda Faux Fur Collared Jacket ($295): You, blend in with the crowd? Puh-lease. Not for the overly modest, this gem of a topper puts the “P” in pizzazz. Everything from the retro plaid print to the funky faux fur tangerine collar will earn you style MVP status. Top it over your go-to sequined party dress or team it with your favorite knitwear for a wintry look.

18. Sophie Hulme Milner Nano Leather Shoulder Bag ($365): Hello, gorgeous! We’re pretty sure it’s impossible to feel blue when your pint-sized crossbody bag packs this much panache. The striking neon yellow hue will add a much-needed pop to your beloved camel coat and play well with a set of multi-striped mittens and scarves. Can you say style goals on goals on goals?

19. ASOS H! by Henry Holland Holland Long Sleeve Sweatshirt ($49): You could say we’re tickled pink with this girly crew sweatshirt featuring fancy metallic lettering. Not only will it make a coffee-fueled work sesh from home infinitely more bearable, but it’s just the thing to toss on when you’ve got last-minute errands to run across town. Heading to the laundromat in your weekend threads (and off-duty kicks) has never looked so chic.

Which of these fluorescent pieces will you be adding to your winter wardrobe? Follow us on Pinterest for more colorful style inspo!

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Quiet luxury had a beautiful run in 2023, but the mob wife aesthetic has entered the style group chat and is telling everyone their days of embracing side character energy is over. When I think of this trend, I can picture Elvira Hancock from Scarface and Carmela Soprano from The Sopranos in all of their glamorous glory. Also, while she may not have been a mob wife exactly, we can't forget Fran Drescher's style in The Nanny her gaudy and expressive style continues to have impactful influence.

While I'll never suggest your lifestyle has to mirror the mob wife aesthetic, I do have a few tricks up my sleeve that'll help you effortlessly embody it.

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Coats

Alice + Olivia Jarrett Vegan Leather Maxi Coat

The first unofficial rule of this trend is to make sure your winter coats are top tier. You'll want to go for a classic silhouette — similar to this vegan leather maxi coat — that makes a subtle statement. I've found that hunter green coats serve as a great neutral for just about anything in your closet so you can't go wrong with this!

Nasty Gal Raw Denim Oversized Trench Coat

For something that's the perfect mix of casual and edgy, this denim oversized trench coat will get the job done. It's a gentle nod to the mob wife aesthetic that's sure to elevate your outfits.

Nasty Gal Premium Bonded Faux Leather Borg Maxi Aviator Jacket

Should you want something that feels more casual without skimping on style, this maxi aviator jacket is an option you'll love wearing.

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Blazers

Michael Michael Kors Metallic Tweed Jacket

One of the best parts about the mob wife aesthetic are the cute blazers you get to wear. This metallic tweed jacket can be worn with a pair of tailored trousers or straight leg jeans if you're headed to brunch during the day.

ALESSANDRA RICH Zebra-Printed Cotton Blazer

Make a statement with this zebra print blazer! You may even stop traffic because it commands attention.

Alexia Admor Olya Notch Lapel Belted Blazer

Ah, here's another gorgeous green number that lets people know that you're standing on business despite how chic you may look.

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Blouses

Lulu's Black Chiffon Top

Thanks to the mob wives aesthetic, this is the year your closet will have a few more blouses added to it.

Banana Republic Crinkle Volume-Sleeve Blouse

If the thought of wearing chiffon makes you shudder, you can wear this volume-sleeve blouse.

Alice + Olivia Finely Open Back Button Blouse

I'm a huge fan of blouses that have the "business in the front, party in the back" detail like Alice + Olivia's design.

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Skirts

H&M Knit A-line Mini Skirt

Keep it cute and chic with this knit A-line mini skirt.

Vince Leather Straight Skirt (Hickory)

Or, bring the drama with a midi leather skirt that has the mob wife aesthetic written all over it.

Meshki Mura Pleated Mini Skirt (Lemon)

For a playful look, pair this pleated mini skirt with a cute blazer or knit sweater.

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Dresses

Hutch Asymmetrical Lace Mix Slip Dress

This lace slip dress has enough sex appeal for the both of us!

Reformation Felda Dress (Leo)

Whether you're dining at the most popular Italian restaurant in town or heading straight to a blues club, this dress falls in line with the mob wife aesthetic.

Reformation Irisa Dress (Grand Dame)

I can see it now — you wearing this dress with a cute cardigandraped over your shoulders.

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Tights

Calzedonia Tulle 40 Dernier Lace Ruffle Thigh Highs

I highly recommend that you consider pairing these tights with the above Reformation Irisa dress!

Spanx Plush Tummy Shaping Tights

However, you can a touch of mystery to your mob wife aesthetic by wearing tights that aren't sheer.

Wolford Josey Tights

Your expressive outfit won't be complete without these leopard print tights from Wolford!

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Earrings

Ana Luisa Tia Medium Gold

Bring on the gold hoop earrings!

Merjuri Easy Huggie Hoops

If you have multiple ear piercings, Merjuri's gold hoops are a quaint accessory that's still on par with this fun trend.

Kendra Scott Mikki Pave Huggie Earrings in Gold

Another option is to wear a pair of small hoop earrings that are encrusted with gems.

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Bracelets

Baublebar Melissa Cuff Bracelet

Let your wrist do the talking with Baublebar's gold cuff bracelet.

Abott Lynn Mini Heart Birthstone Bracelet (Gold)

Wear your heart and birthstone on your wrist!

Ross-Simons 18kt Gold Over Sterling Jewelry Set: Three Bolo Bracelets

Break out this 18kt gold bracelet set for during date night.

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Boots

Dolce Vita Gyra Boots (Black Leather)

Three words — sexy knee high boots.

Jessica Simpson Brykia Boot (Malbec)

If you have a Merlot-colored coat at home, wear it with this pointed-toe boot.

Gianni Bini x Nastia Liukin Parker Crocodile Embossed Leather Tall Boots

Crocodile embossed boots are the thing to wear if you still want to turn heads in a toned down outfit.

Mob Wife Aesthetic — Heels

Christian Louboutin So Kate Patent Pointed-Toe Red Sole Pump

The mob wives aesthetic is practically begging for you to have at least one pair of significant black pumps.

Public Desire Legacy Gold Croc Barely There Pointed Toe Stiletto Heels

However, glamour is on the other line and it wants you to throw caution to the wind by wearing gold heels.

Sam Edelman Hazel Pointed Toe Pump (Brown Brahma)

If the rest of your outfit is starting to feel like quiet luxury, slip into these brown and cream patterned pumps to wake it up.

How do you feel about the mob wife aesthetic?

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It's out with the old, in with the new at Walt Disney World this year! After expanding EPCOT to include Remy's Ratatouille Adventure and Guardians of the Galaxy: Cosmic Rewind, as well as adding Tiana's Bayou Adventure to the Magic Kingdom, the next park to get a refresh is Animal Kingdom.

The last time Disney's Animal Kingdom got an exciting refresh was with the addition of Pandora, AKA the world of Avatar, in 2017. So, let's find out what's leaving — and what's coming next — at Walt Disney World's Animal Kingdom in 2025!

Scroll to find out which Walt Disney World attraction is closing in March 2025!

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"It's Tough to Be a Bug!" will officially close "permanently" on March 17, 2025, according to Walt Disney World. The iconic attraction is leaving after nearly three decades and is set to be replaced by a new 3D show, "Zootopia: Better Zoogether!" in the winter.

Situated in the Tree of Life Theater, located in Animal Kingdom, "It's Tough to Be a Bug!" first opened on April 22, 1998. Inspired by A Bug's Life, the animated Pixar film, this attraction is a 4D experience that has received mixed reviews.

One TripAdvisor review says, "Not really worth the wait for how short the show is. A little scary, but some cute effects with the steam and water. A couple kids were crying." However, another review called the attraction "brilliant" with "totally unexpected laughs."

Parkgoers wear bug-eye glasses and watch as Flik navigates bug life in 4D. You'll sense creepy crawlies on the ground, you'll smell a stink bug, and watch as the bugs prove how tough it is to be — you guessed it — a bug!

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You may be bundled up in every sweater and coat you can get your hands on this season, but that doesn't mean your winter style can't be fun. IMO, this is the perfect time to go haywire with metallics by rocking all the best metallic styles you can stand. Plus, you'll want to wear something shiny to pair with your Valentine's Day outfit this year!

Whether you're you're rocking silver heels, or looking to start small with some silver jewelry, this trend is definitely one to get into. Here are 45 pieces of silver jewelry you can get right now!

Silver Necklaces

Anthropologie Sparkling Tennis Necklace

This sparkling tennis necklace proves that silver jewelry is far from basic.

Kendra Scott Elisa Pendant Necklace

All you need is a simple knit sweater and a pair of bootcut jeans to complement this silver pendant necklace.

Anthropologie Double Layer Herringbone Necklace

Herringbone necklaces are a classic staple that works with all holiday outfits.

Mejuri 5mm Curb Chain Necklace

This necklace from Mejuri is perfect for layering, but it's bold enough to make a statement on its own.

Dazzling Rock Collection 10mm Round White Freshwater Pearl & Diamond Infinity Pendant

The unique crossing design atop the pearl in this necklace pendant grants it a truly unmatched charm. It's intricate and simple all at the same time, allowing for easy pairing with any outfit or other pieces of silver jewelry.

Pendant Zodiaco Sagittarius

Show off your star sign with this sweet, simple zodiac necklace.

Brilliant Earth Zodiac Engravable Tag Pendant

Looking for something similar, but just different enough from the round zodiac pendant? Look no further than this adorable zodiac tag necklace.

Anthropologie Book Locket Necklace

Book lovers need thoughtful gifts they can appreciate — like this book locket necklace.

Gorjana Compass Coin Necklace

Let this Gorjana Compass Coin Necklace guide you to your best look yet.

Brilliant Earth Mountain Range Diamond Pendant

Love the great outdoors? Show off your natural passions in style with this pendant.

Silver Earrings

Baublebar Reagan Earrings

Take a break from crystal drop earrings and sport Baublebar's embellished version instead. Trust me — you'll love the effect statement silver jewelry has on your confidence.

Mejuri Pressed Flower Two-Tone Large Stud Earrings

Wearing silver doesn't mean you can't mix metals. These two-toned earrings let you play around with your accompanying accessories!

Brilliant Earth Moon Stud Earrings

Simple and chic, these moon studs go perfectly with any look.

Alexis Bittar Crumpled Silver Small Post Earrings

But, there's also power found in wearing small silver post earrings.

SHASHI Estelle Earrings

Just when you thought silver jewelry couldn't get bolder, these crystal drop earrings showed up on the scene.

Brilliant Earth Cultured Pearl Threader Earrings

Threader earrings give all the goodness of a drop earring with all the contemporary chicness.

Jenny Bird Florence Earrings

Hoop earrings are the easiest way to add an extra dose of 'oomph' to your OOTD. Besides, the polished silver will give your ears a bit of shine as you go to and from your intended destinations.

Gorjana Rose Huggies

Huggies are a great way to ease yourself into the world of hoop earrings.

Mejuri Charlotte Bold Huggies

If you want huggies that are a little more bold, well...it's literally in the name!

Baublebar Chiara Pavé Hoop Earrings

Go all out with these silver tone earrings. Featuring glass stones, they're the perfect accessory for that in-office holiday party you've been invited to.

Gorjana Tanner Hoops

Absolutely loving these hammered hoops for a little extra texture.

Sif Jakobs Earrings Elisse Lungo Cinque

Elevate your silver jewelry stash by buying this stunning pair of drop earrings. They're exude opulence and will be the star of any holiday party you attend.

Jenny Bird Aurora Ball Stud Earrings

Inspired by the idea of flying saucers? I totally get it.

Madewell Puffy Heart Statement Earrings

Throw these silver heart earrings on when you're running errands. They'll elevate your winter cozy style in less than 30 seconds.

Sif Jakobs Earrings Livigno

Not a hoops girl? These circular Sif Jakobs earrings can blend in or standout, depending on how they're styled, so you get a similar effect.

Mejuri Pyra Medium Hoops

These hoops from Mejuri are perfectly classic with a modern twist. Love!

MEJURI Puffy Charlotte Hoops

These mini sterling silver hoops may be on the smaller side, but they still make a bold statement.

Silver Rings

David Yurman Cable Collectibles Stack Ring

Stack your silver jewelry on your fingers starting with David Yurman's collectibles ring.

Local Eclectic Moonstone Decco Ring

If some guy said your aura's moonstone just 'cause he was high, then this is the ring for you! 😉

Dazzling Rock Collection 0.05 Carat Round White Diamond Flower Marquise Illusion Set Ring

Fall in love with this ring's unique diamond setting that can be worn for formal occasions and in your everyday. The floral-inspired design will adorn your finger with an alluring aura!

Tory Burch Miller Stud Ring

Tory Burch's brand has become synoynmous with effortless style that has a unique twist.

Gorjana Parker Link Ring

Loving the chain look? The Parker Link Ring can really tie it all together for you!

Gucci Sterling Silver Trademark Heart Ring

If this piece of sterling silver jewelry makes you sing, "Gucci this. Gucci that," I won't judge you.

Mejuri Wave Ring

Take your typical silver ring and give it a (literal) twist!

Mejuri Croissant Dome Ring

Croissants are always a good option — even if you can't exactly eat this one. 😗

BEN ONI Cody Cuban Link Ring

This gender-neutral ring works for anyone. It's sleek and constructed into a stackable ring that features Cuban links. There's nothing sexier than that.

Ippolita Classico Hammered Statement Dome Ring

Don't want anything flashy on your finger? Rock this hammered dome ring.

Monica Vinader Riva Diamond Hoop Ring

Monica Vinader has cracked the silver jewelry code by creating a design that's simple and elegant.

Mejuri Oval Gemstone Signet Ring

This ring speaks for itself — simplicity is stunning elegance.

Dazzlingrock 0.05 Carat Round Ring

This ring comes complete with a gorgeous floral design and set of diamonds that makes it the most ideal choice for occasions like Valentine's Day. It's expertly crafted and will pair well with the other silver jewelry you plan to wear.

Silver Bracelets

Kendra Scott Addison Stretch Bracelet

If you're not already thinking about it, pair this bracelet with Kendra Scott's Elisa pendant necklace!

Sif Jakobs Bracelet Ellisse

Let this silver-tone, chunky chain bracelet sit pretty on your wrist!

Local Eclectic Chunky Stainless Steel Curb Chain Bracelet

If you wanna go bolder than the Sif Jakobs bracelet, then this is a great choice to stand out.

Gorjana Parker Link Bracelet

Looking for a less chunky link bracelet? And one that can match your Parker Ring, too? We got you. 😇

Anthropologie Assorted Chain Bracelets

The girlies need options...it's me. I definitely need options, so I'm eyeing this silver assorted chain bracelet set.

MEJURI Puffy Charlotte Cuff Bracelet

Available in four sizes, MEJURI's silver cuff bracelet is has a memorable design that's easy to wear.

Silver Watches

BREDA Virgil Metal Watch

If it's time to replace your wristwatch, step your game up with this silver metal watch.

VANNA Claire Sandstone & Jade Watch

Having small wrists doesn't have to be a disadvantage. You can easily rock this dainty silver watch without worrying about it slipping down your wrist.

Versus Versace Colonne 45MM Two Tone Stainless Steel Bracelet Watch

Why buy a regular watch when you can a two-tone one that doubles as a bracelet? It's a piece of silver jewelry that works smarter, not harder.

FOSSIL Stella Three-Hand Date Stainless Steel Watch

FOSSIL knows how to create lovely designs that stand the test of time — pun intended.

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1923 season 2 premieres on Paramount+ February 23, and Michelle Randolph (who plays Elizabeth Dutton in the cast) is "so excited" for you to watch the new episodes — and she's been keeping up with all your fan theories!

"There are some crazy ones. I feel like the biggest fan theory thing is the family tree," she tells Brit + Co exclusively. "I've seen many different family trees and so it's like, 'OK, which one's accurate?' I actually drew my own at one point."

Here's what Michelle Randolph had to say about 1923 season 2, and the Dutton family tree, in Brit + Co's exclusive 1923 interview.

Michelle Randolph teases '1923' season 2 finally gives us answers to the Dutton family tree.

By the end of season 2, Michelle Randolph says "we might be able to fill in some blanks" in the Dutton family tree, which is a very hot topic for internet users! "I had to make my own [family tree] because all of the ones I saw on the internet were like — every single one was different. I was like 'I'm confused.'"

The Dutton family is made up of incredible cast members like Brandon Sklenar, Harrison Ford, and Helen Mirren, and Michelle reveals that the cast are just as close as their characters.

"There's a giant group chat called Giddy Up, which started during cowboy camp of season one," she says. "A cute little name, and I think I mean we all were on location in Montana and all in the same hotel, and we would get dinners after [filming], so I think even though our characters are very different and in different story lines like we all really did bond, which was really helpful to have each other throughout the chaos of of shooting a show."

The actress also says Elizabeth would connect with her 'Landman' character Ainsley.

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And if you're a tried and true Taylor Sheridan fan, you've probably picked up on the fact that Michelle isn't just in 1923 — she also has a starring role as Ainsley Norris in Landman! But would Elizabeth and Ainsley get along if they met in an alternate universe?

"That would be a fun thing to witness. I think they would," she says. "They're very different, but the similarities between them is they're both young women who are finding their place in this world and I think that they both actually look at the world through very bright eyes and have a lot of hope, which is an interesting correlation between the two of them. I think Elizabeth has gone through so much more than Ainsley obviously, so there might be a difference there, but I think they would get along."

Check out the 8 Compelling Historical Fiction Books To Read While You Wait For 1923 Season 2 and read our interview with Julia Schlaepfer where she teases the Spencer and Alex's future.

This interview has been edited for length and clarity.

You could be secretly — an unintentionally — self-sabotaging in your day-to-day life in more ways than you know. From your job to your friendships, there are probably a few ways that you're counting yourself out and putting yourself last when you don't have to. And that kind of self-sabotaging behavior? It's seriously bringing you down.

Rest assured that this isn't another article meant to make you feel bad about yourself though. It's more of a friendly nudge for all of us to stop being so mean to ourselves because self-sabotaging isn't exactly rooted in self-love. It's like setting small parts of ourselves on fire...then complaining about how much it hurts. That doesn't sound fun, does it?

If you're vigorously nodding your head, let's make a vow to do things a little differently. But first, we have to face the subtle signs of self-sabotaging we just can't seem to stop doing.

Buckle up because we're exposing 10 signs you're actually self-sabotaging!

Mikhail Nilov

1. Treating Procrastination Like It's The Love Of Your Life

We see you snickering to yourself, but it's time to evaluate your relationship with procrastination. Whenever you do it, does it make you feel better about yourself or do you rush to complete whatever you were supposed to do? If you've noticed your habit is a daily part of your life, chances are other people know about it too.

One study found that "1 in 4 Americans say their friends expect them to procrastinate on takes" while "1 in 12 say even their employer expects" late tasks. It may elicit a few jokes, but we wouldn't be surprised if you told us people are starting to rely on you less because you're not starting things when you said you would.

We know it's familiar to reach for procrastination, but it's not helping you in the long run.

Polina Tankilevitch

2. Critiquing Your Appearance Like You Have A Built-In Bully In Your Ear

We couldn't decide if this should be the first self-sabotaging thing we covered, but we know it's serious enough to talk about early on. The Florida House Experience discovered almost 50% of women begin questioning their body as they age which is scary to think about. But what if you're doing that now?

It's easy; we know. Still, there's no reason to repeat negative things about yourself like you're an annoying internet bully who likes to pick fights with everyone. It's soul-crushing and puts you in a position to find new things to critique no matter how many times you swear you'll stop.

Find ways to counter whatever negative thing you're thinking. Here's a few of our tips:

  1. Instead of saying "My body doesn't look like the girls on social media," say "My body's been keeping me healthy so far and I love it for that."
  2. Instead of saying "My face is terrible because I have so much acne," say "My face is doing it's best to signal that I need to take care of something."
  3. Instead of saying, "I hate that I have to wear glasses," say "How cool is it that I get to wear something stylish that also helps me see?"

Anastasia Shuraeva

3. Treating Yourself Because "You Can't Spend It When You're Gone"

We're not financial experts whatsoever, and we honestly don't believe in restricting yourself to the point you can't ever enjoy your money. It's just you shouldn't carry recurring debt so you can have the fun you want. You could be an emotional shopper or have a huge FOMO; two things we know a lot about. Usually we'd say it doesn't matter, but your underlying why absolutely does.

The only person who can get to the root of what's causing you to spend excessively is you, though we'd also argue that a therapist and financial expert can help you even more.

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4. Not Cleaning Up After Yourself Regularly

The thing about cleaning is that you don't have to love it to do it. It's more about making sure you respect and value the space you're in more than making sure your inner child is appeasing your parents. Leave them and anyone else out of the equation for once.

Wash your dirty dishes with old food stuck to them because you want to have something clean to put your new meals on. Wash, dry, and put away your clothes because not seeing a huge pile makes you less anxious. Put your shoes in a safe space so that you stop spraining your pinky toe.

See how that works?

Liza Summer

5. Being Scared To Set Boundaries Because You Don't Want To Be "Mean"

People pleasers to the front! You're still putting everyone else's needs and emotions before your own, aren't you? We see you and think you have a beautiful heart. We also think it's time for you to stop willingly allowing yourself to shrink or feel uncomfortable because you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.

A hard fact it's time to understand is that you're never going to please everyone nor should you willingly accept toxic behavior. Your best friend or sister doesn't get a pass for making passive-aggressive comments if you wouldn't let a stranger do it.

Mikhail Nilov

6. Ignoring What You've Accomplished Because You Think You Can Do Better

What are you in a rush to prove Ms. Perfectionist? That you can make your boss regret passing you over for a promotion? Maybe you think you can make your ex regret mistreating you because you've gone on to accomplish everything they said you wouldn't.

Whatever your reason for chasing the next thing is, we want you slow down and look around you. If you're able to afford your rent or mortgage, have a car to get you from point A to B, or have received work accolades, you're not failing. You are doing so much better than you give yourself credit for and it's time to recognize that.

Every time you feel like you have to chase the next big thing, you're signaling to yourself that what you have done is insignificant and it's not. The fact you get up every day to try counts so it's time to give yourself more credit!

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7. Pushing Your Partner Away Because You're Afraid Of Being Hurt

Eh, we're calling ourselves out big time here. Sadly, we're guilty of being mean to our partners because we've kissed a few snakes in the past and found ourselves nursing broken hearts after getting wounded. Unfortunately, this made us carry fear from past situations into our current relationships.

If this tune sounds familiar then you're probably guilty of starting drama with your partner before they can even think about playing with your feelings. But, what if they're a genuine person who cares about you and you're just being mean? Does that seem fair? Chances are you don't even realize you're doing it which makes this one of the trickier self-sabotaging things you've been doing.

We're not here to berate you for it though because —like we said — we've been there. If you want a shot at having the healthy relationship you want, you have to put down your proverbial fists though — trust us.

Christina Morillo

8. Being Afraid To Speak Up Work Because You Think Your Ideas Are "Stupid"

Hey, Ms. "I Want A Successful Career!" You're not going to get there if you bite your tongue whenever your boss asks if anyone has fresh ideas to share. We're guilty of sitting on things too because we've been overlooked in the past, but all jobs aren't like that.

If you work with a collaborative team where people genuinely care about your input, don't be afraid to speak up. Even if all your ideas don't come to fruition, it still helps when you actively bounce ideas off your co-workers.

This is the only time you'll hear us say this, but teamwork really does make the dream work.

Vlada Karpovich

9. Turning Down Event Invites Because You're Nervous To Be Yourself

Who made you feel like you have to hide from the world when you have so much greatness inside of you? Point them out so we can have a word with them. Just kidding, sort of.

Really, we're more concerned about how many opportunities you're letting pass by because it means you'll have to actually talk to people and let them see you. It's obvious someone wants to see you if you're receiving invitations to pop-up shops, NYFW shows, and even just a friend's birthday dinner!

If you've been dreaming about rubbing shoulders with certain people in the industry you work in, put your best foot forward and show up! You've been doing the work to get to this point so don't hold back.

We promise you've got this!

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