The 3 Books You *Need* to Stay Up on All the Presidential Gossip

Presidential politics: So hot right now. The never-ending nomination campaign seems to be all anyone can talk about, considering it has had its share of upsets and surprises worthy of any reality TV program. We might say this larger-than-life political mythology is a symptom of our modern era, but the truth is, politics have never been particularly fascinating, and there are all sorts of narratives throughout history of the people who were in the room where it happened. This week’s book club features stories of a Founding Father, a president and a number of First Ladies. These new books connect our past to our present, from Hamilton to Hillary, and show us that history is happening.

1. Hamilton: The Revolution by Lin-Manuel Miranda and Jeremy McCarter ($24):

It’s probably not an overstatement to say that the musical Hamilton, which blends everything from Broadway to Britpop to hip-hop and rap in telling the story of America’s first Secretary of Treasury Alexander Hamilton, “the ten-dollar Founding Father without a father,” has provoked an enormous reaction (revolution?) in both musical theatre and the nation’s interest in its own story. It’s been remixed and parodied with every pop culture franchise under the sun, spurred large numbers of donations to the orphanage originally founded by Hamilton’s wife, and convinced teenagers that doing research with primary sources is cool. Hamilton: The Revolution chronicles the making of a show about history which subsequently made history.

Previously of most interest either from his appearance on the $10 bill or in a famous commercial for milk (Picture “Aaron Burr!” being said through a mouthful of peanut butter; now picture Burr, played by the awesome Leslie Odom, Jr., narrating the show about his life’s rival), Hamilton’s story has recently been brought to national consciousness by Lin-Manuel Miranda, winner of the MacArthur Genius Grant. The musical tells of Hamilton’s meteoric rise from penniless orphan and immigrant to his corresponding rise in hubris and fall based on his all-too-human faults.

Hamilton: The Revolution takes readers from the musical’s beginnings (in “mixtape” form) at the White House to its opening night on Broadway, with the show’s reference-packed (and footnoted) libretto, behind-the-scenes photos, and stories from more than 50 people involved. Even President Obama (one of the show’s biggest fans) turns up. You can’t get a ticket to see Hamilton for at least a year, but you don’t have to wait for it — read this book.

Though eventually endorsing his Presidential run, Alexander Hamilton reportedly disagreed with Thomas Jefferson about nearly anything; in the show, Thomas Jefferson is played by the super hot and talented Daveed Diggs (go on, look up his performance of “What’d I Miss,” and you’ll wish that you both were messing around in France). One of the goals of the breakout musical is to humanize characters thought of as larger-than-life or austere. Jefferson is one of these – heck, our current reference point to the man is literally made of stone, his enormous mug carved into a mountain.

In Most Blessed of the Patriarchs: Thomas Jefferson and the Empire of the Imagination, Annette Gordon-Reed and Peter S. Onuf also seek to fight Jefferson’s reputation as an unknowable man or cliché. They use meticulous research to create a way balanced “self-portrait” of Jefferson, exploring the man’s mysterious contradictions. The biggest of these is his status as a passionate voice for freedom while also being a slave-owner, a “strong proponent of republican values, adherent of the Enlightenment,” who “likened himself to a figure from ancient times” that was more autocratic than a champion for the downtrodden. Nuance, contradiction, and balance in politics? OMG.

Jefferson wrote only that all men were created equal, but as Elizabeth Schuyler Hamilton demonstrates, the woman at the side of the famous and powerful man may be just as passionate and interesting as, if not more than, her husband. It’s not just a job comprised of baking cookies and hosting diplomats; First Ladies, particularly those of the modern era, are brilliant and accomplished professionals in their own right, writers, orators and policy-changers (and now, even in the running for the top job itself).

Former White House correspondent Kate Andersen Brower’s previous bestseller, The Residence, took a behind-the-scenes look at the famous building itself, but now she devotes herself to the ten women (#girlbosses) who have led that household since 1960, from Jacqueline Kennedy (who was only 31 when she got the job) to Michelle Obama. Brower gives us a picture of the women’s relationships with their husbands, friendships with each other, and stewardship of the nation.

Through over 200 interviews, Brower explores the position of a woman who is “constitutionally required to be perfect” – in the words of Lady Bird Johnson, a “showman and a salesman, a clotheshorse and a publicity sounding board, with a good heart, and a real interest in the folks.” NBD, right? Post-1960, in the era of television and mass scrutiny, there is no place to hide at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue, described by more than one First Lady as “a really nice prison.” The women, “often beloved, sometimes vilified,” still find that this instant celebrity by marriage comes with its own “covert power;” as Rosalynn Carter said, “you can do anything you want to.”

Brower takes us through Kennedy’s campaign to fund the arts and preserve historic buildings, Betty Ford’s support for the Equal Rights Amendment, Rosalynn Carter’s role in the Camp David Accords, and Obama’s campaign to end childhood obesity. As we head forward to the next four years, and maybe the first First Husband, it’s a good time to take a good look at the women behind the White House.

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Last year, some of us celebrated the holidays apart from our families for the first time. COVID has brought with it many changes, some of them arguably positive (like increased flexibility to work from home), some difficult (such as the realization of vastly different political and social views between family and friends), and some horrible (obviously, the health implications of a global pandemic). However, for some of us, celebrating the holidays without family members isn't exclusively due to COVID. In addition to so many of us living in different areas than our families of origin, some of us simply don't have close bonds with the people we grew up around. Sometimes, this can cause loneliness.

If you're not close with your family members, the holidays can be a difficult time. This is doubly true if you don't have a close circle of friends to call upon. But make no mistake, if this sounds like your situation, you're not alone — there are thousands of other people going through the same struggles you are. We sat down with Irad Eichler, founder of Circles, a website that connects people who are sharing similar struggles, like heartbreak, grief, or loneliness. Here are some of Eichler's tips for coping — and even thriving! — during the holiday season when you're not planning on spending it with your family, for one reason or another.

Don't Fall For "Perfect Families" On Social Media

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The first VERY important step to having a joyous holiday season when you're going it alone is to stop believing the narrative that others' family situations are perfect, Eichler says.

"Remember people only post a moment in time, and only the moments when they look their happiest and best."

In addition to the fact that everything you see on social media is curated for the 'gram, it's also important to remember that by focusing on what others have and you lack, you risk failing to see the great things at play in your own life.

"These holiday periods can become a time of focusing on who and what we don't have, rather than who or what we do, and can cause a negative spiral into depressing and dreadful feelings of inadequacy," says Eichler.

Gratitude is the reason for the season, after all. So instead of only seeing the negative, try some gratitude journal prompts to help you focus on what's actually really wonderful about your life right now.

Make An Effort To Deepen New Connections

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While it may seem like everyone has friends and family to spend time with during the holiday season, that doesn't mean no one is available for deepening a blossoming relationship or new friendship.

"Make a list of people you can or would like to connect with, and try to reach out to at least one of them," advises Eichler.

Reaching out doesn't have to mean a big plan or an hour-long conversation. Even a quick text letting a friendly coworker know you're thinking about them can go a long way toward deepening the relationship and moving it in the direction of closer friendship.

Don't have an acquaintance in mind? Then it's time to make new acquaintances. What's more in line with the Christmas spirit than attending a Meetup or event full of people eager to make new friends?

"Join groups with similar interests to yours, such as hiking, baking, or games. Push your boundaries and be brave - you might find new people who have much in common with you."

Give Back

Priscilla Du Preez

The holiday season is a great time to focus on giving back to your community, and coincidentally, acts of generosity and kindness are known to reduce loneliness and help people feel happier. One study found that knowing a few of your neighbors and doing small acts of kindness for them — such as cheering them up, listening to them, mowing their lawn, providing advice about local business recommendations and job opportunities, and chatting over the fence — was statistically correlated with feeling less lonely and having a lower risk of depression.

Helping out elderly neighbors can be a particularly gratifying way to give back.

"Notice older lonely people in your neighborhood or community who might have no family at all, and offer to help them," says Eichler. "These can become mutually meaningful connections, and help you 'adopt' a grandparent."

Connect With Others Online

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Finally, use the Internet for its highest and best purpose: to connect people. Whether you're using Meetup to find in-person events, digital forums for having conversations about special interests, or programs like Circle for getting support from others in your situation, the opportunities to create new connections are practically endless.

"There are many interest groups that can be found digitally, where or any person can connect with others in the same life stage, going through the same challenges, or who would like to explore the same interests," Eichler states. "Meaningful connections can be formed easily in these circumstances. The Internet enables us to find and connect to people all over the world who fit this, and to whom we can become more easily attached, as we are able to find people with the exact interests that energize us."

If you're struggling with loneliness, you're not alone. Connect with our digital community of makers and creatives here at Brit+Co by following us on IG and signing up for our newsletter!

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Zach Bryan and Brianna "Chickenfry" LaPaglia's explosive breakup is everywhere right now. From his seemingly one-sided social media posts to all the bombshell revelations she keeps dropping, it's clear this split is NOT amicable. Both parties are dropping tons of lore, info, and everything in between — including new music?! — right now, so it makes sense if you can't keep up. Luckily, I'm here to help break this breakup down for you! Here's everything you need to know about Zach Bryan and Brianna Chickenfry's relationship...or lack thereof.

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October 22, 2024 – Zach Bryan Announces His Breakup With Brianna Chickenfry

On October 22, 2024, after some recent speculation that Zach Bryan and Brianna Chickenfry split up, Zach took to his Instagram stories. The country star said, "Addressing something: Brianna and me have broken up with [each other] and I respect and love her with every ounce of my heart. She has loved me unconditionally for a very long time and for that I'll always thank her."

He continued, noting, "I have had an incredibly hard year personally and struggled through some pretty severe things. I thought it would be beneficial for both of us to go our different ways. I am not perfect and never will be. Please respect Brianna's privacy and space in this and if you have it in your heart, mine too."

To wrap it all up, he closed by apologizing to his fans. He said, "With everything I am and to anyone I let down, I am sorry. I try my best in everything. I failed people that love me and mostly myself."

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Brianna hopped on her own Instagram stories shortly there after. She posted, "Hey guys I'm feeling really blindsided right now. Gonna hop off social media for a while and attempt to heal privately, when I'm ready I'll be back and ready to talk. I love you guys so much thank you for all of your kind words. Remember you are so loved and everything's always gonna be okay 🫶"

The Brianna got on Youtube next, posting a raw, emotional video about the situation. Sitting on the floor of her bathroom, she opened up as much as she could in the moment about her breakup. She said, "I just woke up to Zach posting on his Instagram that we broke up and I had no idea that post was going up. He didn't text me, he didn't call me. I just woke up to a bunch of texts, like, 'Are you okay?'"

Brianna, with her teary eyes and red face, explained she's been crying for "five days straight." She said, "I'm at the point where it's like, how can you give someone everything and love them so unconditionally, like through stuff that you shouldn't because you just love them and you want them... like you see the good in them?"

The internet personality said that this is all "so embarrassing" and "really, really heartbreaking." She elaborated that the couple broke up on October 21, but wanted to process on her own and "didn't want it to be public."

Much like her Instagram story, she told her audience that she'll come back when she's ready.

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November 7, 2024 — Brianna Claims Zach's Emotionally Abusive, Wanted $12Mil NDA

Well, it appears this week, Brianna decided she's ready. On Barstool Sports' BFF's Pod November 7, 2024, Brianna gave an inside look at the breakup unlike any other. Not only did she claim Zach was abusive, but she also alleged that he offered her a $12 million NDA to "not talk about the relationship."

After saying it's been the hardest year of her life, she said. "I'm still scared right now because I'm scared of him. My brain's rewired and I'm scared to make him mad and last week, I didn't want to talk about it 'cause I was scared."

Brianna then described the alleged emotional abuse. She noted that everything was cyclical and that he would build her up only to break her back down again. "There was always another excuse as to why he was treating me so poorly and why I'm crying myself to sleep every night, why he's screaming at me," she said. "And then you wake up, it's the apology, it's the 'I'm going to be better like I need you in my life,' but if you've been through this — I don't expect people to understand emotional abuse if you haven't been through it. I hope you never have to go through it but if you've been there you know what I'm talking about."

Not only does Brianna allege she was offered an NDA, but she said that other women that came before her had to sign their own agreements. She declined the offer because she didn't want to "sign away [her] experiences and what [she] went through to protect someone that hurt [her]." She also wanted to share this experience for other women who've suffered something similar.

And when it comes to the logistics of losing out on the famous lifestyle and alleged $12 million? She said, "It was never about the money — I was with the dude because I loved the dude."

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November 8, 2024 — Zach Quit Touring Amid Abuse Allegations

On November 8, 2024, Zach posted on Instagram — where he clearly loves to share all his big news — that not only is his new single "High Road" out today, but that he's also ending his tour early. Read his full statement here:

After not being home for a year and a half I drove out to my mothers gravestone in the dead of night a few days back on familiar Oklahoma roads and I came to realize just like in the past, that she never would call me again

Told her I quit touring because I got accepted to get my masters in Paris next year, I told her I was back in Oklahoma, told her about all my best friends in New York and all the nights we howled with the moon, told her about the immeasurable laughter my band and me have shared these last five years, all the calluses on my finger tips, every tear shed, told her about making it on The Rolling Stone and most importantly told her about porch swinging with my beautiful sister.
I wrote the chorus for this song a month or two back and finished it when I realized I was blessed with all these things.

I figured it was about time I released it.

Thank you guys for listening to ‘This Worlds a Giant’ last night and thank you to all the people who love me; who have truly carried the weight with me.

Seems that all these Quiet Dreams have gotten much too heavy but I’m home now and I’ll hold you through the pain.

High Road is out today and I appreciate all of you"

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