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They call it “The Goddess Myth.” In its October cover story, TIME highlighted the growing cultural pressure to mother well — to mother to Instagram-worthy perfection— and the resulting emotional detriment of not living up to those standards. Failing to meet society’s expectations during pregnancy, birth, and delivery can lead to debilitating shame and disappointment, undermining the accomplishment of having a baby and exacerbating the emotional whirlwind postpartum.

Establishing that motherhood is hard seems like a no-brainer. So why, instead of celebrating what we do right as moms (like, keeping our kids alive, for example), do we compromise our emotions by building our expectations on a rickety framework that can’t support the pains and surprises of real-life motherhood? Maybe it’s not our fault.

This pressure on moms begins to build at conception and continues to balloon through birth and postpartum. “I think first-time moms put a lot of pressure on themselves to do everything perfectly — we obsess over these little details because the world is a scary place. Birth is the first big step in the whole parenting world and we put all kinds of expectations on it,” Minneapolis mom Stina Kielsmeier-Cook tells Brit + Co.

Determined to give birth “nature’s way” (sans epidural, with a midwife) after watching a natural birth documentary and reading Ina May Gaskin’s Guide to Childbirth, Kielsmeier-Cook ended up with an unexpected prolonged labor, an epidural, and vacuum extraction — and ultimately, a healthy baby. But somehow, sadness about her birth experience overshadowed what she had accomplished: successfully delivering her child.

“I felt like my body had failed me. If I couldn’t have a ‘natural’ birth, there must be something ‘unnatural’ or bad about me,” she said.“I would compare myself to others who did have these unmedicated births and think, why couldn’t I do that?”

Not surprisingly, Kielsmeier-Cook is not alone: TIMEcommissioned a survey of 913 mothers, which found that half of all new moms experienced regret, shame, guilt, or anger because of unexpected complications or lack of support. This undue stress and emotional load can, in many instances, be traced back to the frequently toxic cultural pressures surrounding motherhood. But experts are careful to differentiate between traumatic birth (where a baby dies or gets taken away, or where a mother nearly loses her own life) and a birth that includes traumatic elements (including unmet expectations like Kielsmeier-Cook’s), which are often more isolated. While a traumatic birth experience can contribute to the likelihood of a postpartum mood disorder like postpartum depression or anxiety, evidence does not link traumatic elements of a birth to PPD.

“If you look at, for example, an unexpected c-section or a really prolonged labor, those are what we think of as a delivery that has some traumatic elements in it,” Dr. Patricia Widra, MD, Assistant Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Maryland School of Medicine tells Brit + Co.

But traumatic elements like unplanned interventions or difficult labors do not always add up to trauma, which Widra explains more often stems from significant stressors that take place during the entire first year postpartum. For example, a seriously ill baby in the NICU or ongoing lack of support from a partner can be major risk factors for postpartum depression and anxiety. In other words, unmet expectations during pregnancy, birth, or postpartum may be part of the equation — correlating with PPD — but by themselves, they aren’t likely to cause PPD.

On the other hand, Dr. Widra says, trauma can be subjective. Traumatic elements during birth affect everyone differently, and what a woman brings with her emotionally to her pregnancy and birth play a large role in her mental state during and after pregnancy. For instance, a woman who has experienced other trauma in her life, like serious personal losses, interpersonal violence, or any kind of abuse as a child is more likely to deal with perinatal anxiety or depression, which can be exacerbated by motherhood-related disappointments.

“These women might have a stronger emotional response to a difficult delivery, particularly if trauma they have experienced in the past is unresolved or untreated,” Dr. Widra says. “That can be a setup for someone to have an experience of a delivery they feel was traumatic.”

Whether a woman’s anxiety and depression can be traced back to the pressure surrounding motherhood or stem from her family of origin, Dr. Widra says it is important to identify mental health symptoms and create a foundation of support during pregnancy instead of after, when the stakes are higher.

Practitioners checking in with women during pregnancy to both discuss birth and postpartum expectations, and identify red flags for mental health concerns, could prevent a range of emotional struggles after delivery. This is partially because, more often than not, women with unresolved emotional trauma actually have mental health needs during pregnancy that go unmet, which continue after the baby is born. Anxiety and depression that begin during pregnancy are so common that the array of symptoms once grouped under “postpartum depression” are now being more commonly identified as “Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders” by medical professionals.

In fact, Dr. Widra says, somewhere around 30 percent of women who are identified as having postpartum mood or anxiety disorders actually had symptoms during pregnancy, which many times go unnoticed by busy or oblivious healthcare providers. “I encourage OB-GYNS to do active screening throughout pregnancy for any mood disorders, which can be exacerbated by pregnancy and made worse after delivery because no one thought to ask about a woman’s history,” Dr. Widra said.

Though managing mental health before or during pregnancy is the ideal, preventative approach, it’s never too late to seek help for mental health concerns. “The bottom line is, if a woman has symptoms, she should ask for help,” Dr. Widra says.

If you’re not feeling supported by your provider, there are a number of resources available online, such as Postpartum Support International, which can help you identify a new provider in your area.

How did you deal with surprises in your birth? Tell us about your experience @BritandCo.

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Margot Robbie has a son! The Barbieactress and her husband Tom Ackerley welcomed their first baby in early November after a very busy year (after all, she announced she'd star opposite Ryan Gosling again in an Ocean's Eleven prequeland boarded a Sims & Monopoly adaptation as producer).

The Sirens producer proved she has impeccable pregnancy style at Wimbledon and a red carpet, and I just know she's going to have amazing mom style too. Here's everything you need to know about this new family of three.

How many kids does Margot Robbie have?

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Margot Robbie and Tom Ackerley have one child, a son! A source confirmed to People that the couple had welcomed their baby boy on November 2.

People also confirmed Margot Robbie is expecting a baby in July, the same day images of the actress showing off her growing baby bump went viral on X (formerly Twitter). In the images, Margot's standing with Tom on a dock, wearing black trousers, a black blazer, and a white tee rolled up to rest above her stomach. Leave it to Margot Robbie to make chic pregnancy wear look effortless!

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Margot Robbie later attended the L.A. premiere of My Old Ass — produced by Robbie and starring Aubrey Plaza — on September 9, 2024. The ever-elegant star rocked a muted, off-the-shoulder bodycon dress (hello, fall style inspo!) and some adorable strappy heels! Her simple hair, makeup, and jewelry allowed her most major accessory to shine here — her bump! This is the first time we've really seen Robbie since her Wimbledon appearance, and it's no surprise that her look absolutely did not disappoint.

Who is Margot Robbie's husband Tom Ackerley?

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Margot Robbie married Tom Ackerley in 2016 after they met on the set of Suite Française in 2013. Tom is an actor (he appeared as an extra on the first three Harry Potter movies), and a film producer. The two also co-founded their production company LuckyChap Entertainment in 2014 and have worked on movies like I, Tonya,Promising Young Woman,Maid, and Saltburn.

What have Tom Ackerley and Margot Robbie said about their relationship?

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Margot Robbie and Tom Ackerley love spending time together, and Tom told The Sunday Times they spend "24 hours a day together."

"It’s seamless," he continues. "We don’t have a toggle on, toggle off. It’s all become one thing.”

“Being married is actually the most fun ever, life got way more fun somehow," Margot told Porter in 2018. "I have a responsibility being someone’s wife, I want to be better."

Margot has also been vocal about how frustrating it is to constantly be asked about children, telling Radio Times in 2019 that, "I'm so angry that there's this social contract," she says. "You're married, now have a baby. Don't presume. I'll do what I'm going to do."

What is Margot Robbie's baby name?

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Margot and Tom haven't officially shared their baby's name yet, but we're all ears should they choose to do so.

How old is Margot Robbie?

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Margot Robbie just celebrated her 34th birthday on July 2. Tom Ackerley turned 34 on June 13, so there's only a one-month age gap between this celeb couple.

We're sending all the best wishes to Margot Robbie and Tom Ackerley! Check out Hilary Duff Officially Gave Birth To Baby #4! for more adorable baby news.

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I can totally understand falling for a costar. One scene gazing into each other's eyes, and (as the kids say), I'd be asking, "What are we?" Zendaya & Tom Holland and Ashley Park & Paul Forman both met on the sets of their most famous projects (Spider-Man and Emily in Paris, in case you were wondering), and this year's biggest movie event also features a brand new celebrity couple: Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater.

The co-stars made headlines when they ended their respective marriages and started dating each other, and Ethan Slater finally spoke out on the response to their relationship. Here's what he had to say, and the latest news on this couple.

Keep reading for the latest news on Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater's relationship.

  • Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater met on the set of Wicked, in theaters November 22.
  • The couple made headlines when they started dating the same month they separated from their respective spouses.
  • In a recent interview, Ethan Slater reveals the reaction to their relationship was "really hard."

Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater's Full Relationship Timeline

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Late 2022 — Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater Meet While Filming Wicked

After Ariana and Ethan were both cast in Jon M. Chu's Wicked, the movie began filming in early December. Ariana Grande was cast as Glinda, while Ethan Slater got the role of Boq, one of Glinda's Shiz University classmates.

March 27, 2023 — Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater Were "All Over Each Other"

Ariana and Ethan reportedly could get enough of each other at Michelle Yeoh's Oscars party. A source told The Daily Mail later that summer that "They were seen making out at a pub in Hampstead, and they were all over each other at Michelle Yeoh's Oscar party."

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July 2023 — Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater Split From Their Partners And Start Dating

News of Ariana's split from her then-husband Dalton Gomez broke on July 17, while TMZ also reported Ethan filed for divorce from his wife at the time, Lilly Jay, on July 26. (Ariana and Dalton ended up filing for divorce in September).

After People reported Ariana and Ethan were now in a relationship of their own, Lilly told Page Six that “[Ariana’s] the story, really. Not a girl’s girl. My family is just collateral damage.” However, other sources claim Lilly and Ethan had been separated for a couple months before his relationship with Ariana started.

August 2, 2023 — Ethan Slater & Ariana Grande Are Moving Fast

Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater reportedly fell head over heels so quickly, their friends were telling them to pump the breaks. “Ariana’s been told it’s too soon to go public with him and to take things slower,” said an Us Weekly insider at the time. “She’s very aware of how she’s perceived by her fans, and she’s trying to be mature. [But] if it were up to her, she’d be seen with him tomorrow.”

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September 4, 2023 — Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater Are Learning How To Balance Their Relationship

Sources told People at the beginning of September that the costars and couple are trying to figure out how to balance their relationship with their celebrity.

“While this entire situation has been blown out of proportion, it’s much different than what has been portrayed in public,” a friend of the couple says. “They are just trying to navigate their new relationship in private."

Another reemphasizes that Ariana and Ethan only started dating after they were separated from their spouses, while a third adds, “They are doing their best to balance the fact that they are in the public eye with the desire to be respectful to all parties involved.”

September 2023 — Ethan Slater & Ariana Grande Go To Disney World

Surrounded by their friends and family, the Wicked movie stars headed for a day at the happiest place on earth. "They went with a big group of friends as well her mom and brother," a source told People. The source also said they're "really happy and really good for each other. All of her friends love him."

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October 31, 2023 — Ariana Grande Supports Ethan Slater's Spamalot

Ariana Grande showed up to support her boyfriend for Spamalot's opening night at Broadway's St. James Theater.

December 23, 2023 — Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater Grab Dinner In New York City

To celebrate the holidays, Ariana and Ethan headed out to a nice Italian dinner, reportedly with Ari's dad Ed Butera. "They love to support each other in their work," a source told People. "When she’s done with work, Ariana loves going to the theater when she can."

Considering she's a musical girlie, and has been on Broadway herself, I totally believe Ariana heads to the theatre whenever she gets a chance!

December 28, 2023 — Ariana Grande Says She Feels "Deeply Misunderstood"

“I’ve never felt more at the mercy of and in acceptance of what life was screaming to teach me,” Ariana Grande said in an Instagram story. “I have never felt more pride or joy or love while simultaneously feeling so deeply misunderstood by people who don’t know me, who piece whispers together and make what they want out of me and their assumptions of my life.”

A source also told People that the popstar is “serious with Ethan. She loves being with him."

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January 12, 2024 — Ariana Grande Releases "Yes, And?"

In a line heard 'round the world, Ariana Grande's "Yes, And?" (the lead single from her Eternal Sunshine album) begs the question, "Why do you care so much whose d—k I ride?" The song doesn't mention Ethan by name, but there's a lot of room to infer.Although, when the album releases in March, Ariana also talks about a new "interaction" on “Intro (End of the World)," and wonders "if he’s judgin’ me like I am right now."

September 30, 2024 — Ariana Grande Defends Ethan Slater

In a Vanity Fair cover story, Ariana opened up about the reaction to her relationship with Ethan Slater, revealing that “the most disappointing part was to see so many people believe the worst version of [the story]."

“There couldn’t be a less accurate depiction of a human being than the one that the tabloids spread about him,” she says. “No one on this earth tries harder or spreads themselves thinner to be there for the people that he loves and cares about. There is no one on this earth with a better heart...I’m 31 years old and I’m not a perfect person, but I am definitely deeply good, and I’m proud of who I’m becoming. I will never let disreputable evil tabloids ruin my life or my perception of what is real and good.”

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October 30, 2024 — Ethan Slater Finally Speaks Out About His Relationship With Ariana Grande

Almost two years after meeting Ariana Grande, Ethan Slater finally opened up about their relationship in a new interview with GQ. “Obviously, it was a really super big year and I think there was something that was really difficult about things in your private life being commented on and looked at by the public," he says. "There were a lot of big changes in private lives that were really happening, so it’s really hard to see people who don’t know anything about what’s happening commenting on it and speculating, and then getting things wrong about the people you love. So just to address that part of it, that feels really hard."

But the clouds also came with silver linings. “Of course, it was an amazing year and a really beautiful thing, and I’m just really excited," he continues. "I’m just really, really proud of Ari and the work she’s done on this. She’s poured herself into it. I’m really proud that I got to be there for that part of it, and I’m really excited to be there for this next step of it when the world gets to see the amazing thing that she did.”

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November 3, 2024 — Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater Go Instagram Official

These two took their relationship to the next level in the modern dating age — they put it on the grid. Well, not exactly. In Instagram posts celebrating the Australian premiere of Wicked, Ariana and Ethan both shared a picture of themselves. Is it blurry? Sure. Are their faces in it? No. But does this still count as an Instagram hard launch? Absolutely.

November 5, 2024 — Ethan Slater & Ariana Grande Pack On the PDA During Wicked

And after taking photos for the new Wicked movie in Sydney, Australia, Ethan and Ariana were more than happy, walking with their arms around each other and big smiles on their faces! And during the LA premiere of the film, Ariana was seen fixing Ethan Slater's bow tie.

“He’s always that adorable and he’s so amazing in this film. He’s such an amazing person,” she said in an interview with Entertainment Tonight. “I’m so happy people are getting to know him. My heart is very happy.”

November 11, 2024 — Ethan Slater Praises Ariana Grande's Comedy Acting Chops

In an exclusive interview with Brit + Co, Ethan Slater couldn't stop hyping up Ari's humor. And if you saw her hosting SNL, then you definitely understand. "I cannot wait for like the roll out of everything that Bowen said that isn't in the movie, or Ari, honestly, said that isn't in the movie. Just take after take," he says. "The moments where somebody broke, it was always great. There's one that's seared into my memory of, in Doctor Dillamond's classroom, I don't remember what Ari said but she got Cynthia [Erivo] and it's just the two of them across the way and they're staring at each other and she got her so good. There's something really wonderful about breaking. It's delightful."

He also praised Ariana and Cynthia for how they welcomed the rest of the cast their first days on set. "[They] would hug everyone who came in," he continues. "This huge movie is something that we've been waiting for for 20 years on a big scale with the biggest stars in the world, it could have felt really intimidating and it felt really familial immediately."

Check back here for the latest news on this Ariana Grande & Ethan Slater's relationship! Read up on Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce while you're at it ;).

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Blake Lively is as multifaceted as they come. She's an actress who has starred in titles like Gossip Girl, A Simple Favor, and The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants (plus It Ends With Us). She's the founder of Betty Buzz, which has a variety of non-alcoholic mixers that taste just as good on their own as they do with liquor. And, she's also a mom. Lively has been outspoken about protecting her children from the paparazzi, making rare public appearances with them for events like her husband Ryan Reynolds' Hollywood Walk Of Fame Ceremonyandcozy date nights.

When Lively and Reynolds seemingly announced the birth of their fourth child last year, we melted. Here's everything you need to know about Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively's kids.

Is Taylor Swift friends with Blake Lively's kids?

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Yes, Taylor Swift loves Blake Lively's kids! The family has shown up to the Eras Tour multiple times, and most recently supported the popstar at her concert in New Orleans, Louisiana. Blake and Ryan were joined by oldest daughter James (who looked amazing in a Reputation-inspired 'fit), and I can't believe how much James and Blake look alike! She's truly her mini-me! At the Philadelphia show of the Eras Tour, which Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively attended, Taylor said hello from the stage.

One funny detail about Ryan Reynolds' kids that I love is when he mentioned the girls finally realized Taylor Swift was a popstar. "I think what's most exciting for them is that for the longest time they just thought Taylor's just like an aunt, like a friend of Mommy and Daddy that's very, very close, almost family," he tellsThe Jess Cagle Show. "And then they went to a concert one day and were like, 'Ohhhhh, this isn't a hobby.'"

For Super Bowl Sunday in 2024, Blake Lively joined Taylor Swift to support beau (and KC Chiefs tight end) Travis Kelce. "Last week I left my kids for the first time ever," she says on Instagram. "I took pictures upside down and had no clue. I treated a friendship bracelet like a Flat Stanley for my husband like I didn’t realize it wasn’t ‘07. I borrowed more jewelry than the skeleton in the Pirates of the Caribbean ride. And I went clubbing. Now I know what my episode of TheTwilight Zone would look like."

How do Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively prioritize their kids?

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At the end of September, Ryan Reynolds revealed how different parenting seems to be now than when he was a kid. "Parents today are so different. We're so soft," he said at HubSpot’s INBOUND tech conference (via People). "I don't yell. I grew up with like — it was nuts, it was an improvised militia.”

“Now it's like, I can go look at all my resources for parenting and remind myself how to be perfectly compassionate,” he continued. "Something I love about [conflict resolution], and I know this is not very fancy, but what I love about it is that you can meet somebody where they are, and you don't have to be right or wrong...You can disagree and still connect."

Blake Lively recently joined an episode of her Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants' costar Amber Tamblyn's Further Adoand revealed the one unbreakable rule she made with Ryan Reynolds.

“When Ryan and I got together, we made a rule not to work at the same time,” she says. “So that we could always prioritize our personal life...That takes working really hard when we're not. Just like financial planning and sustaining that; it takes balance.”

I love that Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds are serious about their family life, and that they have identified what works for them and are sticking with it.

What is the name of Blake Lively's 4th baby?

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Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds' fourth baby is named Olin, which he revealed during the July 22 premiere of Deadpool & Wolverine!

Before Ryan chose to reveal the name, he appeared on the Today show and made a cheeky joke about it after the hosts urged him to spill the beans. He said, "We always wait for Taylor to tell us what the child's name will be. We'll say this: we're still waiting."

What are Blake Lively kids ages?

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Blake Lively's kids are all under 10. James is 9 (turning 10 on December 16), Inez is 7 (turning 8 on September 30), Betty is 4 (turning 5 on October 4), and Olin turned 1 in February.

What gender is Ryan and Blake's fourth child?

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On July 26, Ryan Reynolds confirmed that he and Blake Lively's fourth baby, born in February 2023, is a boy in an Instagram video supporting mental health charity Walking 4 Hope. Speaking with founder John Bell, who struggled with suicidal ideation after the 2020 loss of his son Jake, Reynolds says, “I want to share with you that I, too, have a son...Boy, John, if I love him one-tenth as much as you love Jake, I’ll feel like I’ve done a pretty d—mn good job.”

Considering how adorable James, Inez, and Betty are, I can only imagine how cute Blake Lively's son is!

How many children do Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds have?

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Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively have four kids. They welcomed their third daughter in 2019, making this new addition to the family their fourth child.

Did Blake Lively have a 4th baby?

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Blake Lively posted a pic on Super Bowl Sunday in 2023 showing what appears to be a post-baby body with the caption "Been busy."

Lively confirmed her fourth pregnancy in September 2022 when she arrived at her Forbes event in NYC cradling a baby bump and by posting her own personal photos on Instagramhoping that "the 11 guys waiting outside [her] home for a 🦄 sighting will leave [her] alone."

How old was Blake Lively when she had her first child?

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Blake Lively was 27 when she gave birth to her first daughter, James, in December of 2014.

Why did Blake Lively name her daughter James?

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The couple decided to name their daughter James after Reynolds' late father. While the name connects both James and Reynolds to his father, it also gives Lively the chance to bond with her daughter over having historically male names. "I liked having a boy's name," Lively said on Good Morning Americain 2015. "I thought I'd pass it on."

Their third daughter Betty's name is a tribute to Lively's late father. We didn't know the name of the couple's third baby until Taylor Swift used all three names in her 2020 album folklore. Swift also used James' voice at the beginning of her 2017 track "Gorgeous"! Does that mean we'll hear one of Ryan Reynolds' children in Reputation (Taylor's Version)? I hope so!

What has Ryan Reynolds said about raising their kids?

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In a conversation with Hugh Jackman ahead of Deadpool & Wolverine, Ryan Reynolds opened up about how his family has helped his anxiety. "I think it makes it better because your focus is less on yourself and more on your kids," he says (via People). "I love that I've had anxiety because when I see my kids experiencing some of that, which is probably genetic, I know how to address it in a way that is compassionate, that actually allows them to feel seen. I know that I can't just fix it. And I can communicate all that stuff to them and with them. I'm always grateful for it."

Per People, Ryan Reynolds has also made it clear he and Blake are wholly invested in the kids' daily lives. The doting husband and father enjoys the moments of "walking them to school and walking them back" as it deepens their bond. More than anything, Ryan and Blake's main goal is to make sure they teach their kids how to be introspective with Ryan saying "the thing we sort of hang our hat on the most is self-awareness with our kids."

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However, that doesn't mean Blake and Ryan don't absolutely love being parents. "We're very excited [and] we wouldn't do this four times if we didn't love it," he says in an interview with CNBC's Power Lunch. "Everybody's doing great. Everybody's actually doing fantastic. I think if we hadn't figured it out by now, I think we'd be in deep, deep trouble."

"It's a zoo over here," he jokes. "This is my office here, this is where I'll probably — to be honest, I'll probably spend the rest of my life in here."

We love how much energy Ryan and Blake are pouring into their kids. It's always beautiful when parents are able to be present with their kids and teach them how to be present with themselves. Ryan Reynolds has also mentioned how having daughters "has been such a ride." Since he comes from a family of all boys, having daughters is something that was beyond his wildest dreams! “I love being a girl dad,” Ryan tells Access in 2020. “I have three daughters, which I never in a million years would imagine.”

He mentioned his newest child in June of 2023, when he announced his new series Bedtime Stories. "The idea for a show made to help everyone fall asleep was born the same day as my fourth child," he says on Instagram.

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The Deadpool actor also recently offered some parenting advice on Amanda Hirsch’s hit podcastNot Skinny But Not Fat. "Embrace the chaos,” he tells Hirsch. "[Blake] always says, ‘They're all under our roof right now. The whole family's under our roof right now. We have them all.’ And that is a fleeting thing. Not an infinite resource, you know?”

While Reynolds understands firsthand how overwhelming parenting can feel, he also doesn't wish away this time with four young kids: “Just say, ‘Think about what you would give in 40 years or 30 years to come back and enjoy this one moment.’"

How has motherhood affected Blake Lively?

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Blake Lively opened up about how Ryan Reynolds and she monitor screen safety for their kids, which is definitely something top-of-mind in 2024. “This is not an ad. I get nothing out of this. I just love @tappityapp,” she said of the STEM-focused educational app. “It’s engaging, informative, fun and they care about safety."

She also jokes that she's learning new things right along with her kids! But, no matter how educational or fun an app is, Blake Lively also emphasizes the importance of engaging with her kids' devices: "I’m always triple checking any kids app constantly for safety because that’s my responsibility not an app’s, but I do LOVE this one.”

Despite its fun and funny moments, the actress has admitted being a mom is hard, but she did it with her signature dry sense of humor. “BettyBooze at your service," she wrote in an Instagram Story announcing the new brand. "These are recipes I’ve been making for loved ones for years. But I have 4 kids now. And I’m tired. So here they are. In a can."

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However, Blake Lively absolutely loves motherhood, and says in a 2022 interview with Forbes that having children has made her feel more comfortable in her own skin. "Once I had children, that just became even more profound because my time was even more precious, but also I think having children for me made me feel so much more in my skin," she says. "I never felt more myself or at ease in my own body or more confident — not to say that there aren't a bevy of insecurities coming at me a million times a day, but I just feel incredibly settled."

Speaking with People in 2021, Lively also explains how important it is that her children see her accomplish things outside the home. "I want to be as present of a mother as humanly possible and I want them to feel my presence, but I also think the best way to be the best mother is to show them that you can have a life and have a passion and have an identity outside of just being a mother," Lively says.

While she acknowledges that motherhood is all-encompassing, and it looks different for everyone, she knows that having your own identity is very important. "Teaching them that they can maintain themselves and that everything is possible [is crucial]," she adds.

When did Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds have their daughters?

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Blake Lively's children were all born in the last 10 years. Blake Lively's daughters are James, Inez, Betty, and her fourth child is named Olin! Their fourth baby's name was announced during the premiere of Deadpool & Wolverine. Blake gave birth to James in 2014, while Inez was born in 2016. Lively gave birth to Betty in 2019 and Olin in February of 2023.

Do Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively's kids have nannies?

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Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds' children don't have a nanny. "I feel like I could sometimes have a bit of a short fuse, but there's just been this weirdly endless supply of patience," Ryan told GQ in 2015. "I have no problem waking up five times in the middle of the night and changing diapers, and as exhausted as you get, I have this stupid grin on my face all the time."

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It's official: John Krasinski is now PEOPLE's Sexiest Man Alive for 2024. If you ask us, John Krasinski will always be Jim from The Office, but I think this new distinction will do just fine, too. Last year Patrick Dempsey won the top spot, giving us silver fox sex appeal, and we love that PEOPLE went in a different direction with our favorite actor-director this time. Here's everything to know about this fine gentleman — including what his wife, Emily Blunt, has to say about it all.

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John Krasinski shares his thoughts on being PEOPLE's Sexiest Man Alive

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No one knows how to do dead-pan humor like John Krasinski (unless your name is Ryan Reynolds, of course 😉). His response to winning was, "Just immediate blackout, actually. Zero thoughts," (via PEOPLE). He followed up with, "That's not how I wake up, thinking, ‘Is this the day that I'll be asked to be Sexiest Man Alive?’ And yet it was the day you guys did it. You guys have really raised the bar for me."

Of course Emily Blunt couldn't resist making a little joke...

We know Emily Blunt has a great sense of humor too, so it comes as no surprise that she had a little something to say to John about his new title. Besides being "very excited" about his win, she apparently told him she'd willingly plaster his face all over their home, wallpaper-style (via PEOPLE). The Jack Ryan actor said, "My children will love that, it won’t be weird at all."

TODAY also reports the actor revealed Emily may pile on the housework given all this newfound attention. "I think it's going to make me do more household chores. After this comes out, she'll be like, ‘All right, that means you’re going to really earn it here at home.'" We don't see a problem with that!

Here's everything Sexiest Man Alive, John Krasinski is working on right now:

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He recently wrote, directed, and starred in this year's IF — a film Ryan Reynolds also appears in — which follows a young girl's introduction to a vast world of imaginary friends. It almost feels like the heartwarming TV show Foster's Home of Imaginary Friends, albeit the young girl is dealing with possibly losing her only living parent.

Next up, fans will get to see John star in Fountain of Youth alongside Natalie Portman, according to Deadline. They'll star as a brother and sister who are determined to claim the actual Fountain of Youth for themselves.

Deadline also reports that he'll take the lead role in the upcoming Jack Ryan film. A premiere date hasn't been announced yet, but we do know Amazon MGM Studios is behind it!

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So many gift guides give you general ideas for anyone in your life, but we know that's not a helpful way to prepare for the holiday season. This year, we're prioritizing bringing you high-quality gift guides that help you find what you need for specific people in your life. Right now, we're covering the EveryGirl, who is that one gal in your life who's all about classic, clean lines, minimal but elegant fashion, and quality, everyday essentials that make life easier and more beautiful. We've curated this gifting guide with the EveryGirl in mind, selecting all the buys you need to fill your cart and win the gifting game.

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OUAI Hand Wash & Hand Lotion

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This OUAI Hand Wash and Hand Lotion Set moisturizes and exfoliates daily. It is formulated with jojoba esters, avocado, and rosehip oils, which gently cleanse and leave hands feeling soft and smooth.

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This Soothing Toner Is a Skincare Win for Sensitive Skin

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This alcohol-free toner soothes redness and dryness with every use. Formulated with sensitive skin in mind, the product is gentle but effective, hydrating and cleansing at the same time.

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Exfoliate and Hydrate With This Butter Scrub

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This beautiful milk and honey butter scrub is an easy way to get deep but gentle exfoliation that leaves skin feeling soft and smelling fantastic. It makes a fantastic gift for the skincare-obsessed EveryGirl in your life!

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This Mask Deeply Detoxifies

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This detoxifying mask from Bubble Skincare is a mineral-rich dream. Made with azelaic acid and vitamin E, the mask gently exfoliates while also deeply nourishing and protecting the skin.

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This Puffer Jacket Takes Cozy to the Max

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If you want to keep your EveryGirl cozy and warm throughout the chilly season, this long puffer jacket is a must-have. The jacket is quilted, cozy, and, luckily for everyone, incredibly stylish.

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This Cleansing Device Helps Fight Acne

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The EveryGirl aesthetic is more about quality skincare than heavy makeup, which is why we know they'll love this acne-fighting tool. Give them the gift of clean, fresh, all-natural skin.

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These Yoga Pants Are Comfortable and Stylish

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Whether you've got a friend who loves yoga or just loves comfort, these yoga pants are a great buy. The crossover waistband and wide legs make them super stylish, and the fabric makes them comfortable and flexible.

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This Wooden Bowl Set Adds Warmth to Any Kitchen

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The EveryGirl in your life is going to love this beautiful set of wooden salad bowls. These bowls aren't just a great way to serve tasty salads; they also add timeless elegance and warmth to kitchens.

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Decorate an Entire Home With This Set of Prints

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This gorgeous, classic set of painted prints allows the recipient to decorate their whole house cohesively and simply. The pieces are timeless and stunning and add beauty to any room in the house.

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This Furry Fanny Pack Is Trendy and Useful

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It's great to give someone a trendy gift, but is it a gift they'll actually use? This furry fanny pack is a great example of a gift they'll actually use. The lightweight pouch is ripstop and fade-resistant for longevity.

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These Artifical Plants Are a Breath of Fresh Air

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Of course, these are fake plants, but they still manage to add freshness to any room. The best thing about gifting these plants is that you're not gifting any responsibility, just bright greenery.

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This Puffer Bomber Is So Chic

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Keep your EveryGirl warm and stylish all winter with this beautiful puffer bomber. It comes in a range of classic colors and bright, bold, eye-catching colors so you can find the perfect look.

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Give Their Skin a Wakeup Call With This Serum

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This caffiene serum from TruSkin is a brilliant way to give your skin a boost. The niacinamide, matcha, and ginseng work together to brighten skin and reduce puffiness with every use.

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This Popsockets Case Is MagSafe

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The classic color scheme and fun, aura-style design make this Popsocket case a knockout. Thanks to its timeless beauty, your EveryGirl will love this phone case for years.

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Gift Them a Motivational Sweatshirt

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Giving the people you love a little bit of motivation is always a good idea, but this motivational hoodie is a total win. Your EveryGirl will feel positive, loved, and encouraged every time they wear it.

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Give Them Some Time to Themselves With This Bath Tray

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Sometimes, we need a little encouragement to take some time for ourselves. This bath tray is a great way to give your EveryGirl the push they need to relax, unwind, and care for themself.

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This Button-Up Is a Classic

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The EveryGirl aesthetic is all about classic pieces, and this button-up is a total classic. This is the sort of top that can be worn on its own, pulled on over something, or even as a beachy cover-up.

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These Silky Pajamas Are Elegant and Cozy

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The best thing about these silky PJs is that your EveryGirl is going to wear them all the time. These are cozy, breathable, and also incredibly stylish. They make a great gift alone or as a bigger gift basket.

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This Collage Kit Makes Decorating Easy

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Give your EveryGirl the easiest way to decorate their entire home with this collage kit. The kit has gorgeous, bright, clean pieces that they can mix and match and manipulate to fit their style perfectly.

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This Rib Knit Top Is an Elevated Staple

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A t-shirt is a staple, but your EveryGirl is going to want a t-shirt that's a little more elevated, like this beautiful rib knit top. The color block makes it fun, and the slim fit makes it feel elegant and classic.

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This Phone Case Is a Beautiful Reminder

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A phone case makes a great gift, but an even better gift is a phone case that gives the recipient a kind, important reminder. This case reminds your EveryGirl that it's important to "smile every day."

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These Aviators Are a Classic Essential

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These sunglasses are a classic option that your EveryGirl is going to reach for daily. The shape and the color mean they'll go with everything in anyone's wardrobe and will work all year long.

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These Cargo Pants Are All the Rage

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The internet can't stop talking about these cargo pants, and we know your EveryGirl is going to love them. These can be worn with button-ups, tank tops, sweaters, and all your other favorite tops.

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This Lip Product Plumps and Adds a Splash of Color

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Tint your lips and give them just a bit of plumpness with this product. This tint is a great grab for your EveryGirl, giving them the sort of makeup they're going to use every day for a casual glow.

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This Framed Print Is Trendy But Classic

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The EveryGirl you love is going to instantly fall in love with this beautiful print. The newspaper-style art piece and beautiful frame give a classic touch of elegance to any room in their home.

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Enhance Their Glow With the Glotion

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The Lumi Glotion is a great product for every Girl. It gives a natural glow and a bit of shine. You can wear the Glotion on its own or under your favorite foundation for a complete look.

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These Pillow Covers Are Clean and Classic

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It's usually a safe bet to gift home decor, but we know these throw pillow covers are more than a safe bet. The soft corduroy style and the neutral colors of these covers make them an instant hit.

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This Satin Button-Down Is a Timeless Addition to Any Closet

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From work to drinks with the girls, this gorgeous satin blouse looks fantastic. Gift this beautiful top to the EveryGirl in your life who's looking to boost their wardrobe with a few more staple pieces.

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Add Light With This Arched Mirror

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Mirrors are a brilliant way to add light and the illusion of space to any room. This arched mirror is a fan-favorite, and it's easy to see why. The classic silhouette looks elegant anywhere.

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TikTok Loves This Artificial Olive Tree

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TikTokers have been raving about this faux tree for months now. The gorgeous piece brings a bit of "life" to a space and there's something about the color and shape that just feels timeless.

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You've Got to Have a Quality Blazer

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This beautiful blazer is an essential in any wardrobe. The silhouette of this beautiful piece adds so much elegance to any outfit, and the fit manages to be both timeless and modern.

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These Vases Add a Modern Touch

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Whether you fill them with flowers or just gift these vases, they're going to be a total hit. Their fun, modern shape and style bring a flair of style to any room.

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These Loafers Are Comfortable and Stylish

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A pair of loafers is an essential in any wardrobe. These gorgeous shoes are from LifeStride, which means they're just as comfortable as they are timeless, making them the perfect gift for your EveryGirl.

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This Slouchy Hobo Bag Goes With Anything

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A leather bag like this one is at the top of any EveryGirl's wishlist. The bag has a great shape but has just enough slouch in it to make it look and feel effortlessly cool with any outfit.

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Brighten Those Under Eyes With This Catrice Cream

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Packed with hyaluronic acid, this cream is a brilliant way to hydrate, cover, and nourish the skin under your eyes all at once. It's the perfect no-makeup makeup find for the EveryGirl.

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Lounge for Hours in This Trendy Set

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This loungewear set is a great way to embrace rest and relaxation. The set is elegant, fun, comfortable, and really stylish. It's a great gift for the casual EveryGirl who prioritizes comfort.

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Curate the Best Environment With This Reed Diffuser

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This gorgeous reed diffuser instantly elevates a room. The relaxing scent fills the room and adds a bit of sophistication and a whole lot of pleasant smells that your EveryGirl will fall in love with.

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This Cardigan Is a Dream

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Having a few high-quality cardigans in your wardrobe is a must and this striped cardigan is one of the best. The silhouette is classic and elegant and it styles with anything from jeans to shirts to dresses.

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These Lee Pants Are Elegant and Comfortable

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If you want to gift your EveryGirl with something she'll wear all the time, these pants are a great find. The cut is classic and elegant and the fabric is comfortable and just stretchy enough.

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Gift Them Radiant Skin With This Moisturizer

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This hydrogel cream from Honest Beauty is made with jojoba, squalene, and hyaluronic acid to offer oil-free, lightweight, lasting moisturization and radiance for any skin type, even sensitive!

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This Ribbed Sweater Is a Great Blend of Casual and Elegant

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This causal knitted top can be styled up or down, depending on the situation. The top is a great find for your EveryGirl, giving them a timeless piece they'll reach for all the time.

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