25 Questions To Ask On A First Date

Mar 03, 2023

First dates are always a little awkward. We're all familiar with that feeling: Despite donning your favorite date night outfit and trying your best to calm your nerves, you don't know each other yet, and you're both coming into the date with some level of expectation — and the result is a lot of awkward silences and uncomfortable fidgeting. Our first pointer is to try to relax: Remember, your date is probably just as nervous as you are. Secondly, it can be helpful to come to a date with some conversation starters in mind.

First dates aren't supposed to feel like interviews... so we don't recommend you ask all of these questions rapid fire. Rather, treat this list as a quick and handy reference for fostering open conversation between you and your new love interest. Ask a question, then see where it leads. Asking a second question from this list may not even be necessary if the conversation flows naturally.

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What's the best movie you've seen recently? Why did you like it?
What was your favorite subject in school?
Do you like games? What's your favorite one?
What's your perfect Saturday morning?
What kind of kid were you in high school, and how does that compare to how you are now?
If you could make everyone in the world read one book, which one would it be and why?
Who is a celebrity who has had a big impact on you?
What's the best thing that happened to you this week?
In your opinion, what makes a song or album really good?
What is your go-to-coffee or tea order?
Would you ever move to a foreign country? If so, which one would be your top choice?
What's your favorite way to unwind after work?
What's the last show that you binge-watched?

What's something you've been excited about recently?
Are you working toward any particular goals right now?
Would you rather attend a workshop or a lecture? What subject would it be on?
Are you a morning person or a night owl? What's your favorite thing about that time of day?
If you could have your ideal meal, what would it be and who would you share it with?
What's something that really annoys you?
If you were a color, which one would you be?
What is something that you want to learn?
Would you rather listen to a podcast or a song? What's one podcast or song you're obsessed with right now?
Are you drawn to any particular decade or era of history? What do you think is so cool about it?
How would you describe your ideal job or hobby?
Would you rather play Scrabble, Pictionary, or Charades? Why?

Did you try these questions to ask on a first date? Tweet us at @BritandCo to share your experience, and don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter for more relationship content!

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11 Fun Questions That Make Small Talk Way Less Painful

Making friends as an adult can be hard, and if you ask me, nothing is harder than having to wade through small talk. Asking about work or how someone's day went makes every interaction feel like a first date. Of course, I want to know about work and how someone's day went — I just want to know more.

The key to making small talk more fun is figuring out what someone likes to talk about. Are they into pop culture? History or sports? Their faith? Once you crack the code on what they love to talk about, your conversation will instantly flow. Here are 11 questions you can ask a new friendthat make small talk feel bigger.

What are your hobbies?

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My favorite thing to do when talking to a new friend is to ask them how they spend their time. Because while school and work can have elements of responsibility or obligation, hobbies are pure fun! This is a good question to open your small talk with because it'll help you both loosen up and think about something you love to do. Plus, if you end up learning you share a hobby, you have even more to talk about! (As I discovered during my conversation with author Yulin Kuang!)

What's your favorite way to unwind?

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If you want your conversation to feel more relaxed, well, ask about relaxation! Whether your new friend does yoga, they spend a half hour doing skincare, or they read a book chapter every night, this question is sure to get a positive response. Speaking of books...

What are you watching or reading right now?

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There are so many movies, TV shows, and books out right now that you're both bound to be in the middle of one title or another. I can (and do) spend hours upon hours talking about my favorite TV shows. This is one small talk question that can make even the most awkward convo enjoyable.

What fictional character is closest to your personality?

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And if the TV conversation goes well, take it a step farther by asking which fictional character your new friend relates to the most. It'll give you a little more insight into their personality, and it's just plain fun.

Which Taylor Swift era are you in?

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If you and your acquaintance are both Taylor Swift fans, dive deep into your current eras. Whether you're in your Lover era or you're embracing the carefree chaos of 1989, this is the perfect excuse to queue up your Taylor Swift playlist.

Are you a morning person or a night person?

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If you're both morning people, you can bond over how nice it is to be the early birds, while two night people will have plenty to talk about when it comes to nightlife or the best places to look at the stars. And if you're opposites, you can give each other tips!

Are you a chocolate person, vanilla person, or neither?

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I don't know about y'all, but I refuse to order ice cream unless it's chocolate. I love consistently knowing what to expect. Maybe your new friend feels the same way, or they prefer the spontaneity of ordering a new flavor every single time. Either way, it'll give you a look at their personality AND lead you to the ice cream store. It's a win-win.

What fruit are you?

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My current go-to question was born out of my interview with The Outsiders cast (in honor of character Cherry Valance). My current answer is strawberry for a few simple reasons: you know what you're in for, it can be super sweet, and on a good day, it's the same on the inside at the outside.

What's something you're proud of this year?

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It's crazy that we're halfway through 2024! Let the conversation take an exciting turn by remembering something fun, memorable, and beautiful.

What's one thing you want to check off your bucket list this year?

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But don't spend all your time talking about the past! Think ahead to the second half of the year and talk about a dream or goal you have. It can be as small as finally ordering frames for your gallery wall or as big as scoring a promotion.

Where do you want to travel?

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Summer's not over yet! Daydream about somewhere you'd like to see one day, like Italy or Seoul. And in the meantime, plan a day trip somewhere close by :).

Read up on 10 Thought-Provoking Questions To Know Close Friends More Intimately for more!

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55 Easy Make-Ahead Thanksgiving Appetizers That Satisfy The Whole Table

Whether you're celebrating Thanksgiving with your family or having a cozy dinner for two, you want some time to sit back and relax on Turkey Day – even to enjoy some fun holiday games and activities while you wait for the turkey to brown. Make the day way easier by whipping up any of these easy make-aheadThanksgivingappetizer recipes and give yourself an actual Thanksgiving break.

Brit + Co

Bread Cornucopia and Cheese

Nothing says Thanksgiving like a cornucopia, so a bread cornucopia is the perfect appetizer centerpiece for your pre-feast party. (via Brit + Co)

Half Baked Harvest

Make-Ahead Mashed Potatoes

Mashed potatoes are a classic Thanksgiving appetizer. With this recipe, you can prep a creamy, buttery batch ahead of the big day and have it ready to go when your guests gather together. (via Half Baked Harvest for Brit + Co)

Brit + Co

Mac + Cheese Donuts

Not every appetizer has to be high rent. Whether you're prepping for Friendsgiving or an Turkey Day with your closest family, these delicious edibles will be a crowd pleaser. (via Brit + Co)

The Cafe Sucre Farine

Rosemary Pecan Goat Cheese Truffles

These babies are actually pretty darn classy, and they showcase all the flavors of the spectrum. There's rosemary for herb lovers, pecan to add some nuttiness, and even Sriracha for a bit of heat. Pro tip: Serve with a basic crispy wafer so as not to detract from the spread. (via The Cafe Sucre Farine)

Nerds With Knives

Crostini With Bleu Cheese and Roasted Grapes

This recipe takes almost no time to make. Slice up some blue cheese and add grapes to your favorite baguette. (via Nerds With Knives)

Little Spice Jar

Gruyere, Mushroom, and Caramelized Onion Bites

Add Gruyere, mushrooms, and caramelized onions to puffed pastry for a simple and delicious appetizer. And the best part is, you can make this up to 48 hours ahead of time, giving you plenty of wiggle room for your Turkey Day prep. (via Little Spice Jar)

Better Homes & Gardens

Cran-Sage Rolls

Not only is there nothing wrong with using frozen dough once in a while, but it's actually kind of a perfect Thanksgiving treat. These rolls are flavored with cranberries and sage for an elegant holiday version of trust crescent rolls. (via Better Homes & Gardens)

Hello Little Home

Ranch Pumpkin Seeds

These pumpkin seeds are both salty and tangy, plus you get a nice crunch from baking them for a bit. (via Hello Little Home)

I Will Not Eat Oysters

Kabocha and Havarti Pockets

Prepare these hearty pockets a few days before Thanksgiving, stick them in the fridge, and bake on the day of. (via I Will Not Eat Oysters)

Real Housemoms

Onion, Cranberry, and Pecan Cheese Ball

Cheese balls are a classic appetizer. Add onion, cranberries, and pecans to make yours next-level. (via Real Housemoms)

Well Plated

Cranberry Baked Brie Puff Pastry Bites

Brie can get super messy. Make bites instead and pop some cranberry in them to Thanksgiving-ify. Serve with fresh cranberries or — our personal favorite — sweet cranberry sauce. (via Well Plated)

How Sweet Eats

Pomegranate Jeweled White Cheddar, Toasted Almond, and Crispy Sage Cheeseball

This big bundle of flavor is so cheesy. It's coated in pomegranate seeds, which makes it super festive and sweet. (via How Sweet Eats)

The Suburban Soapbox

Tomato Jam and Cheddar Palmiers

TBH the thought of tomato jam is a little scary. But, once you try this recipe, you and your fam will be totally hooked. Add a little cheddar to make these extra flavorful. (via The Suburban Soapbox)

Recipe Rebel

Cranberry Bacon Jam Crostini

These tiny crostinis take the idea of bruschetta and turn it on its head. Instead of light, summery toppings, you'll be treated to festive cranberries, savory bacon, and gooey cheese. (via Recipe Rebel)

Home Is Where the Boat Is

Cha-Cha Chicken Salad

There's an unexpected sweetness to this chicken salad, and it comes from pineapples and cranberries. Top with a fresh sprig of rosemary. (via Home Is Where the Boat Is)

Chew Out Loud

Pumpkin Bacon Dip

Nothing says Thanksgiving more than pumpkin-flavored everything, and that doesn't stop at chips and dip. Top this dip with bacon and green onions for extra flavor. (via Chew Out Loud)

Gimme Some Oven

5-Ingredient Caprese Phyllo Cups

Caprese is one of those crowd-pleasing dishes that you really can't go wrong with. Drizzle these with pesto or balsamic vinaigrette for extra flavor, but wait to do that part until you're ready to serve — otherwise they may get soggy. (via Gimme Some Oven)

Deliciously Sprinkled

Pumpkin Dip

When it comes to dips, what could be more Thanksgiving-y than a concoction made with pumpkin? Serve with crackers, apples, or lightly sweetened cookies to tide your guests over until the big meal. (via Deliciously Sprinkled)

Food & Wine

Prosciutto-Fontina Pinwheels

Thinly sliced prosciutto, Fontina cheese, and puff pastry are just about all you need to make these pinwheels. The best part is that they totally make you into the best ever Turkey Day hostess. (via Food & Wine)

The Suburban Soapbox

Sweet and Spicy Sausage Stuffed Mushrooms

Go for a not-so-traditional Thanksgiving food and cook up a batch of stuffed mushrooms. The sweet and spicy flavors of this app will make it go fast. (via The Suburban Soapbox)

Pip and Ebby

Antipasto Skewers

Assemble these skewers a day ahead of schedule. Put them on a tray and cover tightly with plastic wrap, then refrigerate until ready to serve. (via Pip and Ebby)

Amy in the Kitchen

Garlic Butter Tuscan Shrimp Dip

Dip toast points, pita chips, and breadsticks into this indulgent dip, which you can make a day before Thanksgiving and pop in the oven to warm up when you're ready to eat. We won't judge if you decide to toss the leftovers with some warm pasta and call it a meal. (via Amy in the Kitchen)

My Gorgeous Recipes

Quick Chicken Liver Pâté

Go old school this Thanksgiving, serving chicken liver pâté and toast points as an appetizer. The pâté will keep for a few days in the fridge; just let it sit for 20 minutes at room temperature before you dig in. (via My Gorgeous Recipes)

Tara's Multicultural Table

Bavarian Cheese and Beer Spread

A robust cheese spread, made with beer, is an appropriately hearty start to your Thanksgiving feast. (via Tara's Multicultural Table)

Savory Tooth

Bacon-Wrapped Brussels Sprouts

We all have that family member who claims they don't like Brussels sprouts. Change their mind with these bacon-wrapped versions, which you can make ahead and heat in the oven just before serving (though they're delish at room temperature too). (via Savory Tooth)

The Home Cook's Kitchen

Mushroom Goat Cheese Bruschetta

Earthy mushrooms and tangy goat cheese create a balanced bite with this bruschetta recipe. Make sure your bread is extra toasty, so you can prep it without worrying about it getting soggy. (via The Home Cook's Kitchen)

No Spoon Necessary

Roasted Sweet Potato Harissa Hummus

Ditch the candied sweet potatoes and serve up this creamy hummus instead. It'll keep for at least a couple of days in the fridge, freeing up time for you to work on the rest of your seasonal cooking. (via No Spoon Necessary)

Sweet Peas and Saffron

Lasagna Stuffed Portobello Mushrooms

Make these stuffed mushrooms, freeze them, then pop 'em into the oven on Thanksgiving. Just try to resist eating so many you lose your appetite before the big meal. (via Sweet Peas and Saffron)

Spicy Southern Kitchen

Spicy Marinated Cheese

The cheese is marinated in a mixture of oil, vinegar, and spices, and gets better if you make it a day or two in advance. (via Spicy Southern Kitchen)

Lisa's Dinnertime Dish

Italian Sausage and Bean Bruschetta

Loaded with Italian sausage and white beans, this take on bruschetta is hearty enough for colder weather. Warm it up slightly before serving with toasted baguette slices. (via Lisa's Dinnertime Dish)

Cathy's Gluten Free

Sweet Potato Salad with Bacon

A little sweet, a little salty, this paleo salad is a satisfying but healthy starter. Top it with toasted pecans to add some crunch to each bite. (via Cathy's Gluten Free)

Garlic & Zest

Prosciutto and Date Palmiers

Flaky, cheesy, and sweet, palmiers will definitely stimulate your tastebuds. (via Garlic & Zest)

Food Meanderings

Caesar Twice-Baked Potatoes

Mini potatoes seasoned with Caesar dressing are twice-baked for this recipe. You can assemble them ahead of time, then bake them for the second time right before they're served! (via Food Meanderings)

Half Baked Harvest

Baked French Onion Meatballs

Talk about yum. Beef up your classic French onion soup recipe with a few meatballs to add a hearty touch, and top them off with a bit of gruyere. Trust us: your guests are going to thank you. (via Half Baked Harvest)

Barley & Sage

Goat Cheese Risotto with Cherry Tomato Confit

This easy-peasy recipe is actually pretty darn classy and showcases all the flavors on the spectrum. There's basil for herb lovers, plump cherry tomatoes for a burst of flavor, and a mix-in of goat cheese for an elevated flavor. (via Barley & Sage)

Whole and Heavenly Oven

Caprese Bruschetta with Basil Pesto

This recipe takes almost no time to make. Slice up some mozzarellaslices, tomatoes, and drizzle some vinaigrette and pesto to your favorite baguette. (via Whole and Heavenly Oven)

Where is My Spoon?

Puff Pastry Nibbles

Add sliced tomatoes, pesto (store-bought or homemade!), and sprinkle on some hard cheese to puff pastry pieces for a simple and delicious Thanksgiving appetizer. And the best part is, you can make this up to 48 hours ahead of time, giving you plenty of wiggle room for your Turkey Day prep. (via Where is My Spoon?)

Two Peas & Their Pod

Stuffed Mushrooms

We get it: either you love mushrooms or you hate them with a passion, but this recipe is bound to convert any hater. These mushrooms are jam-packed with parmesan cheese and panko breadcrumbs for a delectable Thanksgiving finger food. (via Two Peas & Their Pod)

Culinary Hill

2-Ingredient Italian Sausage Rolls

These 2-ingredient rolls are sure to please both the kids and adults tables this year. Make them ahead of time, then easily heat them back up once Thanksgiving Day rolls around. (via Culinary Hill)

A Spicy Perspective

Bacon Kalamata Cheese Puffs

For those who don't already know, kalamata is a type of olive… which makes these appetizers perfect for your vegetarian guests. Prepare these pockets a few days before Thanksgiving, stick them in the fridge, and bake the day of. (via A Spicy Perspective)

The Fast Recipe

Spicy Cajun Deviled Eggs

What *doesn't* sound good about these deviled eggs? Cajun seasoning and hot sauce give these otherwise totally traditionalfinger foods a savory, rich layer of flavor. (via The Fast Recipe)

The Bossy Kitchen

Cheese Straws with Feta and Poppy Seeds

To make these cheese straws, twist together some feta and a homemade dough, then bake. These taste ahh-mazing all on their own, but you can get creative with the toppings if you're feeling frisky. (via The Bossy Kitchen)

Takes Two Eggs

Korean Cream Cheese Garlic Bread

Cheese bread is a classic appetizer. The cream cheese and honey butter in this recipe takes this to the next level. (via Takes Two Eggs)

Half Baked Harvest

Mini Pastry Wrapped Cranberry Baked Brie Bites

Brie can get super messy. Make some tiny bites instead, and pop some cranberry in them to Thanksgiving-ify. Serve with fresh cranberries or — our personal favorite — sweet cranberry sauce. (via Half Baked Harvest)

Averie Cooks

Dill Pickle Cheese Ball

While the term “cheese ball" might not sound particularly refined, this big bundle of flavor actually kinda is. It's coated in cheddar cheese, for one thing, which makes it a total crowd-pleaser. We recommend adding pickle slices to this bad boy for extra oomph. (via Averie Cooks)

The Endless Meal

Crispy Boursin Arancini

Crispy Boursin arancinis the perfect make-ahead appetizer that you can reheat in the oven. Once you try this recipe, you and your fam will be totally hooked. The Boursin center make these extra flavorful! (via The Endless Meal)

Cozy Cravings

Spinach and Ricotta Puff Pastry Pinwheels

These spinach and ricotta pinwheels take pre-dinner bread to a whole other level. Enjoy a swirl of buttery puff pastry, salty parmesan, and gooey ricotta for the ultimate savory treat. (via Cozy Cravings)

The Bossy Kitchen

Cranberry Cream Cheese Dip

Nothing says Thanksgiving more than cranberry-infused everything, and that doesn't stop at chips and dip! Top this dip with slivered almonds and green onions for extra flavor. (via The Bossy Kitchen)

Hello Little Home

Baked Brie with Cranberries & Pecans

There's an unexpected sweetness to this baked brie, and it comes from the cranberries. Prep ahead then bake to experience the ooey-gooey center. (via Hello Little Home)

The First Mess

Roasted Carrot & Harissa Chickpea Dip

When it comes to prepping ahead, dips of any kind are a crowd-pleasing dish that you really can't go wrong with. Top this spread with pine nuts and pomegranate pearls for extra flavor, but wait to do that part until you're ready to serve it — otherwise, it may all get mixed in. (via The First Mess)

Live Eat Learn

Leek Quiche Recipe with Goat Cheese

One of the best things about a quiche is that you can eat it at any time of year. Full of leeks and cheesy goodness, this recipe is a great way to sneak in some vegetables ahead of the big feast. (via Live Eat Learn)

The Endless Meal

Hot Spinach Artichoke Dip

This Thanksgiving, indulge in the traditional decadence that is a spinach and artichoke dip. The best part about a tried and true favorite like this is that it'll totally make you the best-ever Turkey Day hostess! (via The Endless Meal)

Rachel Mansfield

Spinach Artichoke Dip Cups

Speaking of spinach artichoke dip, opt for these lil' cups to avoid the mess. You definitely won't have to worry about forgetting the chips! (via Rachel Mansfield)

Two Peas & Their Pod

Cherry Arugula Farro Salad

Go for a not-so-traditional Thanksgiving food and whip up a light, yet filling salad. The sweet and crunchy texture of this appetizer will make it go fast. (via Two Peas & Their Pod)

Salt & Lavender

Easy Antipasto Skewers

Assemble these skewers a day ahead of schedule. Put them on a tray and cover tightly with plastic wrap, then refrigerate until you're ready to serve them. (via Salt & Lavender)

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This article has been updated with additional reporting by Maggie McCracken, Justina Huddleston, and Meredith Holser.

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30+ Thought-Provoking Conversation Starters For Your Date, Based On Their Zodiac Sign

Welcome back to Ask Lumi, our Ask An Astrologer column, where you can get tailored advice for your many thoughtful questions! Today we have someone looking to communicate and get to know their dates better, based on their zodiac signs. It's no secret that dating can be tough, and figuring out how to meet someone where they're at can really be daunting — especially when you're trying to find "the one." Instead of stressing before your next date, here are 36 astrology-based conversation starters to try next time you're out!

Question: I’m challenging myself to date more this summer. What are some conversation starters that might resonate well with my dates based on their astro signs?

Apoorva Sharma

Dear Cosmically Curious,

First, I am very happy you're challenging yourself to date more this summer! Power to you for opening your heart and integrating the stars as your guide to love and happiness.

Love conjures a range of mixed feelings that we cannot even pinpoint. However, always factor in your ease and feelings of peace whenever you're in a relationship or dating. The best way to find ideal conversation starters based on astrological signs is to know the sign's element and their approach to life.

Note that conversations that go one-sided are a red flag to look out for and the result of your potential partner “mirroring” you or your interests. I’ve had my fair share of “situationships” and ghosting because of this approach to dating. Watch out and know that working with astrology will enable you to become more in tune with your intuition while also understanding the conversation styles each sign could possess. Observe the flow and go with your feelings as the key to navigating each date to help you avoid long-winded negative experiences or disappointments.

Now, let's see how we can break this down by understanding the signs and how they work regarding communication. As a bonus, knowing your potential partner's Mercury sign can be even more favorable in learning their interests ahead of time when dating.

Orane Pirman

Elements in Astrology and Ideal Conversation Starters

In astrology, the elements refer to the four fundamental energies that are believed to characterize the twelve zodiac signs: Fire, Earth, Air, and Water. Each element is associated with three zodiac signs, forming groups based on shared characteristics and approaches to life. Read on for each element and the ideal conversation starters based on each sign.

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Fire Signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):

Fire signs are spirited, enthusiastic, and driven by passion. They approach conversations with a spark of creativity and a desire to inspire and lead. Initiating a discussion with a Fire sign could involve topics that ignite their enthusiasm and creativity, such as their latest project or a daring idea they've been exploring. They thrive on conversations that allow them to express their unique perspective and vision for the future.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

"What exciting plans or projects are you currently diving into?"
"I admire your energy! How do you stay motivated and enthusiastic?"
"Have you ever taken on a spontaneous adventure? What was it like?"

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

"You have such a vibrant personality! What inspires you the most?"
"I'm curious about your creative pursuits. What's your latest project or performance?"
"What's your idea of the perfect way to spend a day off?"

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

"I've heard you love to travel. What's the most memorable place you've been to?"
"You have such a positive outlook on life. How do you stay optimistic during tough times?"
"What's the next big adventure or goal you aim for?"

Christa Niner

Earth Signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn):

Earth signs are grounded, practical, and focused on tangible results. They appreciate structured and detail-oriented conversations. Starting a conversation with an Earth sign could involve discussing plans, goals, or practical solutions to everyday challenges. They enjoy topics that allow them to showcase their organizational skills and perseverance. Conversations with Earth signs are often reliable and steady, reflecting their ability to manifest and achieve tangible outcomes.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

"What's your favorite way to relax and unwind after a long day?"
"I hear you're great with [a hobby they enjoy]. How did you get into it?"
"Do you have any favorite spots for good food or drinks around here?"

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

"I've heard you're incredibly organized. Any tips for staying productive?"
"You seem very detail-oriented. How do you manage to stay focused on the big picture?"
"What's your approach to problem-solving and overcoming challenges?"

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

"You're known for being motivated. How do you set and achieve your goals?"
"What's the most valuable lesson you've learned in your career or personal life?"
"How do you find the balance between work and personal life?"

Maddy Haller

Air Signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):

Air signs are intellectual, communicative, and thrive on exchanging ideas. They approach conversations with curiosity and a desire for mental stimulation. Initiating a conversation with an Air sign could involve discussing current events, innovative ideas, or philosophical concepts. They enjoy topics that allow them to explore perspectives and engage in lively debates. Conversations with Air signs flow like the wind, constantly exchanging thoughts and information.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

"You seem like someone who enjoys learning new things. Any interesting books or podcasts you've come across lately?"
"I love your sense of humor! What's the funniest thing that's happened to you recently?"
"You're so versatile! How do you balance all your interests and passions?"

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

"You have such a great sense of style! Where do you find inspiration for your fashion choices?"
"I've heard you're quite the diplomat. How do you approach resolving conflicts?"
"What's your favorite way to spend time with friends or loved ones?"

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

"You have such unique ideas. What's a cause or movement you're passionate about?"
"I've heard you're great at brainstorming. How do you come up with innovative solutions?"
"What's your vision for the future, personally or globally?"

Carol Taborda

Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):

Water signs are sensitive, intuitive, and deeply empathetic. They approach conversations with emotional depth and a focus on understanding feelings and connections. Starting a conversation with a Water sign could involve discussing personal experiences, emotions, or dreams. They appreciate topics that resonate on a deeper emotional level and allow them to explore their inner world. Conversations with Water signs are often introspective and nurturing, reflecting their ability to empathize and provide emotional support.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

"I've noticed you have a nurturing presence. How does your compassion influence your relationships with others?"
"I've heard Cancers are quite sentimental. What's a cherished memory from your past that always brings you joy?"
"How do you create a sense of home and security in your life?"

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

"I've heard Scorpios are known for their intense passion. What drives your passions in life?"
"You strike me as someone who values authenticity. How do you navigate trust and loyalty in your relationships?"
"I'm curious about your interests in mystery and the unknown. What's a topic or idea that has captivated your thoughts lately?"

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

"You seem very empathetic. How do you connect with others on an emotional level?"
"I've heard you're quite creative. What's your preferred form of artistic expression?"
"How do you find inspiration and maintain your imagination?"

Reine Jalloul

Understanding the elements and characteristics of each zodiac sign is a fantastic approach to sparking meaningful conversations. Remember, Fire signs like Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius thrive on passion and adventure—ask about their latest projects or dreams for the future. Earth signs such as Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn appreciate practical topics and goals, so discussing their hobbies or favorite local spots can lead to engaging conversations. Air signs like Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius love intellectual stimulation, so chat about books, current events, or innovative ideas to keep them engaged. Finally, Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) value emotional depth and connection, making discussions about personal experiences or creative pursuits a great starting point.

Each astrological element brings a unique flavor to conversations, influencing how individuals engage and interact with others. Understanding these elemental qualities can enhance communication and deepen connections in meaningful ways. The most important takeaway in dating is to be yourself—always. Whoever is meant to be in your life will value and treasure you as you embody confidence and love yourself.

May your summer be filled with enlightening conversations and exciting connections!

With Love and Stars,

Lumi

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Bye, PSL! The Starbucks Holiday Menu For 2024 Is Back

So long, pumpkin spice season: Starbucks’ holiday menu has officially returned, and it brings back a ton of seasonal favorites!

In addition to the classic Peppermint Mocha to the beloved Caramel Brûlée Latte, a new Refresher flavor, 6 unique cold foams, and 4 new bakery items are now available at Starbucks locations as the holidays draw near – including many items we predicted! The lineup is honestly wild. The Starbucks holiday menu hit stores on November 7.

If you just can’t wait to order off the Starbucks holiday menu, here’s every offering available at your closest cafe!

When will the Starbucks holiday drinks for 2024 come out?

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The new holiday drinks and snacks from Starbucks came out on November 7, 2024.

Will there be holiday cups?

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Yes, the Starbucks holiday menu includes some new holiday cup designs! You can peek at all the new designs for 2024 here.

What's missing from this year's rumored Starbucks holiday menu?

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The Eggnog Latte, Toasted White Chocolate Mocha, Irish Cream Cold Brew, and Gingerbread Loaf won't be returning to cafes for 2024. We're especially sad to see the Toasted White Chocolate Mocha not included, though the official menu lineup has yet to be released!

When is Starbucks Red Cup Day 2024?

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Though there's no official word out about Red Cup Day for 2024, our best guess – based on the Red Cup Days of years past – is it'll return mid-November. In 2023, Red Cup Day fell on November 16. In 2022, the coffee chain held the event on November 17. Both dates landed on the third Thursday of November, so we predict it to hit on November 21 for 2024. Red Cup Day is when Starbucks customers can get a free reusable red cup when they order a seasonal drink off the holiday menu!

Initially introduced for fall 2024, it appears as though the Salted Pecan Crunch Cold Brew will stay on the Starbucks menu well into winter. The salted, pecan-flavored cold foam offers that classic sweet n' salty twist you'd enjoy on fall snacks like trail mix or dipped pretzels. The best part is you can now also order the cold foam in non-dairy form!

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Holiday Cold Foams

Starbs will also be bringing back four beloved holiday-flavored cold foamsand two new options for 2024. They're the perfect drink customization to add to your iced coffees and cold brews if you don't want to order an all-out holiday drink. See all the flavors below:

NEW! Gingerbread
NEW! Salted Pecan
Peppermint Chocolate
Sugar Cookie
Chestnut Praline
Caramel Brûlée

The Cranberry Bliss Bar has become an absolute staple on the Starbucks holiday menu, and for good reason! This blondie treat is smothered in a delicious cream cheese frosting and sprinkled with orange zest and dried cranberries for added seasonal enjoyment.

What People Are Saying About The Leaked Starbucks Holiday Menu

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Famed foodie account @markie_devo was the first to leak the Starbucks holiday menu earlier this year. Though most commenters on @markie_devo's Starbucks holiday menu leak post seemed to be excited for the upcoming rumored menu items, some Starbs fans noticed a few things missing from the leaked lineup.

"Still missing eggnog 😢," someone noted.

"Where is the toasted white chocolate mocha 😢😢😢😢," another questioned.

"ALLLLLL these cold foams, and not the one people want: Irish Cream," one more commenter said.

"Ugh still no gingerbread loaf 😭," a disappointed user wrote. "Everything else looks bomb though!"

Despite the Eggnog Latte, Toasted White Chocolate Mocha, Irish Cream Cold Brew, and Gingerbread loaf not being part of this year's menu predictions, the holiday season is our favorite time of year at Starbucks. Many more users shared the same sentiment:

"So excited for all chestnut praline shaken espressos & cranberry bliss bars 🎄🎄🎄🎄," someone wrote.

"Oh hell yess all the chestnut praline offerings," another rejoiced.

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When will the Starbucks holiday drinks for 2024 come out?

Will there be holiday cups?

What's missing from this year's rumored Starbucks holiday menu?

When is Starbucks Red Cup Day 2024?

Drinks On The Starbucks Holiday Menu 2024

NEW! Cran-Merry Orange Refresher

Iced Gingerbread Oatmilk Chai

Peppermint Mocha

Peppermint White Chocolate Mocha

Caramel Brûlée Latte

Sugar Cookie Almondmilk Latte

Chestnut Praline Latte

Salted Pecan Crunch Cold Brew

Holiday Cold Foams

Snacks On The Starbucks Holiday Menu 2024

NEW! Dark Toffee Bundt

NEW! Turkey Sage Danish

NEW! Penguin Cookie

Snowman Cake Pop

Sugar Plum Cheese Danish

Cranberry Bliss Bar

What People Are Saying About The Leaked Starbucks Holiday Menu

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