7 Simple Tips for Raising Confident Girls

Raising kids is a tough job. As parents, we want to raise body-positive girls who know that beauty and health are about more than just their weight. We bookmark inspiring stories of girls like the teens behind the YouTube series Hyperlinked in hopes of sharing those role models with our daughters. We fill our shelves with diverse books like Strong Is the New Pretty to show examples of kickass girls and women who are living fearlessly. But in the age of social media, confidence for girls looks very different from when we were growing up. We chatted with parenting expert and educator Laurie Wolk, author of the new parenting-help book Girls Just Want to Have Likes, to get her best tips for building confidence in our next generation of women.

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1. Have a family fun night. Wolk suggests hanging out with your kids in a way where no texting or screen time is allowed. Instead, let your children decide the agenda for the night. “Thai food and jumping on the beds? A picnic in the living room? Whatever your family chooses, your kids will feel empowered by making the plans,” Wolk advises. “It’s a great way to reconnect with each other and the fun you can have in your home without phones. Reestablish that connection on a regular basis, and in a casual way weave into the conversation things you see in your child that you admire, appreciate, and notice. Nothing breeds confidence like knowing your family has your back (and can be pretty fun to be around too!).”

2. Show your daughters relatable role models. Choose books, movies, and TV shows with intelligent female protagonists — like these age-appropriate children’s books (from 0-12) that showcase a range of women who aren’t always the damsel in distress. “Show them the contributions made by women around the world, and make sure your girl knows that she can pursue any area of study or work that she wants,” encourages Wolk.

3. Model gender equality at home. Kids are very perceptive, and they watch everything we’re doing. “Make sure your girls see that you and your partner both share the chores, help with homework, and take on your fair share of the work that needs to be done around the home,” says Wolk. This type of modeling in your family will help them see that a couple is responsible for running a home together.

4. Debunk gendered stereotypes about what kids can do. A recent study found that by age six, girls are less likely than boys to think they are smart enough. Even moms who participated in a Sunday Night With Megyn KellyTV segment who thought their daughters were all about girl power learned that their daughters also succumb to gender stereotypes. “Kids can pick up what parents and teachers think,” Wolk cautions. “Instead, we need to emphasize the importance of learning, studying, and having curiosity over innate ability.”

5. Let your daughter make mistakes. Instead of discouraging our girls from taking risks and making the mistakes that come with them, Wolk reminds us that missteps are the confidence-builders kids need to grow and develop. “Mistakes will grow their confidence more than any success ever will. Teach them this. Start to see things going wrong — like her worry over whether she’ll make the travel sports team — through a different lens. These life events are actually a blessing because they help build her resilience.”

6. Negotiate a family media agreement for social media guidelines. Instead of generating a list of rules that your daughter needs to comply with, let your kid have a say in a mutually agreed upon social media contract. “Explain the why behind the rules to help your girls understand why they’re important,” suggests Wolk. “If you’re worried your girl won’t comply, take a step back and explain that this is a new, different, and more positive approach for handling social media and digital device use in your family. Let them know that you understand social media is an important part of their lives and that you want to support them as well as keep them safe.” While you’re at it, put your phone down when you’re with your kids to model the type of screen-time behavior you’d like to see when you’re together as a family. “You can’t expect your girl to stay off her phone if you can barely pull yourself away from the screen yourself. Show that you’re comfortable and happier without your phone in your hand, and she’ll know that she can be too.”

7. Teach your daughter to stand up for herself. Bullying — offline and online — can be a huge blow to a young girl’s confidence. Help your daughter learn to identify her feelings and convey them clearly: “Girls should feel comfortable asking another person (online or in real life) to stop or start doing something. Nothing breeds confidence like the ability to identify your feelings and relay them to someone else. If you get them doing that on the playground or online early on, it will become their default way of showing up in the world.” (And if you need your own tips for standing up for yourself, we’ve got you covered.)

What’s your best tip for raising a confident daughter? Tweet us @BritandCo to let us know.

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The world could use more kindness than we've seen lately because it feels like there's a lot of Mean Girls energy circulating online and in real life — and I don't mean by way of hilarious Tina Fey-written jokes. It's become cool to be disregard everyone else's feelings, but we can hear the cries for kindness behind each snarky attitude we encounter.

Realistically, there's no way we can combat the lack of kindness in the world with quotes, but we're sure these 16 reminders can help us remember to show grace to ourselves and others.

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"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about." —Wendy Mass

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"Practice random kindness and senseless acts of beauty." —Anne Herbert

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"You can always, always give something, even if it is only kindness!" —Anne Frank

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"Deliberately seek opportunities for kindness, sympathy, and patience." —Evelyn Underhill

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"The greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members, a heart of grace and a soul generated by love." —Coretta Scott King

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"Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary." —J.M. Barrie

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"The words of kindness are more healing to a drooping heart than balm or honey." —Sarah Fielding

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"Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud." —Maya Angelou

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"We are all neighbors. Be kind. Be gentle." — Clemantine Wamaryia

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"You’ve been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens." —Louise L. Hay

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"Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference." —Barbara De Angelis

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"Kindness is always in stock." —Katy Perry

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"Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference." —Amelia Earhart

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"Carry out a random act of kindness, with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you." —Princess Diana

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"Be kind to yourself so that you can be happy enough to be kind to the world." —Misha Collins

If you need help being kinder to yourself, we have 45 self love quotes that'll steer you in the right direction.

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We're in serious pursuit of something to fill the Yellowstone-sized hole in our hearts (aside from 1923 season 2, of course). And thankfully, Netflix's new showRansom Canyon is shaping up to be the perfect addition to our watchlist. Consider it My Life With The Walter Boys with a little more edge and less "I'm stuck in a love triangle with two brothers."

Here's everything you need to know about Ransom Canyon, coming to Netflix this April.

'Ransom Canyon' promises "it's not too late."

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Based on Jodi Thomas' book of the same name, Ransom Canyon is about to be your new romance obsession. The 10-episode drama examines three ranching families in Texas, and how their lives intersect.

We have Staten, a rancher dealing with secrets and trouble — just like the beautiful Quinn, who's harboring secrets of her own. Lucas wants a different life than that of a rancher, until a single decision changes everything. And Yancy just wants to use everyone in Ransom Canyon for his own gain. But even this criminal isn't ready for what's coming.

It's giving Yellowstone obviously, but it's also totally reminding me of Friday Night Lights thanks to the football and all the juicy drama. According to the trailer, the canyon "gives us all something to be happy about," and the show will tackle legacy, land, and love. Yeah...I'm tuning in and you can too when the episodes premiere April 17, 2025 on Netflix.

The 'Ransom Canyon' cast also includes some fan favorite actors.

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Yeah, the Ransom Canyon cast is absolutely stacked. We'll see Josh Duhamel as Staten, Minka Kelly as Quinn, James Brolin as Cap, Eoin Macken as Davis, Lizzy Greene as Lauren, Marianly Tejada as Ellie, Jack Schumacher as Yancy, Garrett Wareing as Lucas, and Andrew Liner as Reid. Jennifer Ens, Niko Guardado, Casey W. Johnson, Philip Winchester, Kate Burton, Brett Cullen, Tatanka Means, Jaren Robledo, Justin Johnson Cortez, and Kenneth Miller also star.

Here's when you can watch Ransom Canyon.

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Ransom Canyon premieres on Netflix April 17, and will have 10 episodes total. I can't wait to tune in! For now, watch the trailer here!

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No matter whether she's juggling motherhood, a busy career, or a popular book club, Reese Witherspoon seems to know just what to say to encourage others. She's talked about things like parenting and being ambitious, but she's also shared her thoughts on the importance of simply living a good life. It's no wonder her inspirational and wise quotes have been on our minds lately! Here are 14 absolutely quotable moments from our Big Little Liesfave, Reese Witherspoon.

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"One honest voice is louder than a crowd." —Reese Witherspoon

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"It's a great thing, getting older. You are who you are; you say what you mean." —Reese Witherspoon

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"I do believe that if you want to change the world, you have to be responsible for it." —Reese Witherspoon

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"Every day you have to choose and cultivate your own happiness." —Reese Witherspoon

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"Spend less time tearing yourself apart, worrying if you're good enough. You are good enough." —Reese Witherspoon

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"There's no bad consequence to loving fully, with all your heart. You always gain by giving love." —Reese Witherspoon

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"I’m just trying to matter and live a good life and make work that means something to somebody." —Reese Witherspoon

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"I've realized that life is too short to spend my time with anybody who doesn't appreciate me, treat me with respect or bring value to the relationship." —Reese Witherspoon

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"Chance is the first step you take, luck is what comes afterward." —Reese Witherspoon

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"There’s something timeless and important about making people laugh, about being the right spot in their day." —Reese Witherspoon

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"I’m trying to take the stigma off the word [ambitious] so we encourage more little girls to be ambitious, because I do think that’s how society will change." —Reese Witherspoon

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"I want to make my life, not just my job, the best it can be. The rest will work itself out." —Reese Witherspoon

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"I encourage women to step up. Don’t wait for somebody to ask you." —Reese Witherspoon

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"All we can do to create change is work hard. That’s my advice: Just do what you do well." —Reese Witherspoon

Don't let the hardships of 2024 get you down! Here are 27 happy quotes to keep you stay positive!

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Blake Lively just revealed she's been getting "violent" messages amid her ongoing legal battle with Justin Baldoni. (Although with the Snow White & Rachel Zegler backlash, she's not the only one. The internet has a lot to say these days). The Another Simple Favor actress has requested "additional protections" from the judge presiding over her trial, which really shows you how insane this whole It Ends With Us drama has gotten.

Here's what Blake Lively — and Justin Baldoni — had to say about the backlash to the It Ends With Us feud.

Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni agree the 'It Ends With Us' backlash has gone too far.

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Both Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively's legal teams agreed to a protective order (also known as a PO), and on February 20, Blake's lawyers requested stronger protections than the "model" they'd received from the court (via People).

And considering Blake Lively, "her family, other members of the cast, various fact witnesses, and individuals that have spoken out publicly in support of Ms. Lively have received violent, profane, sexist, and threatening communications" (as the letter states), "good cause exists for the Court to adopt the Proposed PO."

Her lawyer's letter also requested "an Attorney’s Eyes Only ('AEO') category, which applies to 'Confidential Discovery Material of such a highly confidential and personal, sensitive, or proprietary nature that the revelation of such is likely to cause a competitive, business, commercial, financial, personal or privacy injury.'"

And Justin Baldoni's team actually weighed in on the conversation. “We do not condone dangerous rhetoric targeted toward anyone no matter the situation,” they said in a statement. "“Anyone receiving violent messages by anonymous parties is abhorrent. When private parties were wrongfully accused by Lively and her paid team of wrongdoing, they received continuous death threats and visits to private homes where young children reside after their addresses were leaked on her initial complaints. No one should have to face that, especially private parties who do not have means for security detail. We do not condone dangerous rhetoric targeted toward anyone no matter the situation.”

Here's what What Blake Lively Had To Say About "Emotional" Toll Of Justin Baldoni Drama On Her Kids: "Traumatized".

Whether or not you understand Web3, there’s one thing you should know: it’s a massive opportunity for almost anyone — if you’re willing to have some growing pains. In this episode, you’ll learn why Web3 just doesn’t have big investors, it’s also a game-changing chance for women and non-binary individuals to get in early where they are typically left out.

Kevin Rose shares his lessons for growing Moonbirds to $500 million in just four months, and Mila Kunis explains how she has used Web3 to launch passion projects and create value for fans like never before.

In this episode, we cover:

(06:30) Meet Kevin Rose and Mila Kunis
(07:36) What is Web3, and how will it shift power to the people
(09:06) How blockchain keeps people honest
(12:20) Analogies to further explain blockchain
(18:03) Kevin's Doge experiment in 2014
(22:10) Mila's introduction to crypto
(25:00) Mila's passion project using NFTs in animation
(31:01) Why Hollywood didn’t get it right
(32:04) Mila's next project with the NFT community
(37:56) The PROOF Collective
(40:47) Explanation of the Moonbirds NFTs
(45:46) How women and non-binary folks have been excluded from financial and tech opportunities
(50:00) How to encourage marginalized folks to get involved in Web3 and the advantages of a diverse team
(55:00) Gatekeeping in the web3 community
(1:00:15) Big picture on web3 and ideas for keeping lower-income folks engaged
(1:04:00) Why NFTs and crypto should be seen more as a hobby

Where to find Mila Kunis:
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/milakunisv
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MILAKUNISV/

Where to find Kevin Rose:
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• Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/kevinrose/
• Website: https://www.kevinrose.com/
• Podcast: https://www.proof.xyz/

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