Rebel Wilson’s Plus-Size Actress Gaffe Is a Lesson for the Rest of Us

Australian actress Rebel Wilson missed what could have been an opportunity for learning on Friday, after she doubled down on her (incorrect) claim that she is the first plus-sized actress to star as the lead in a romantic comedy, which caused backlash online.

During an appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show earlier in the week, the Pitch Perfect star told the daytime host, “I’m proud to be the first-ever plus-sized girl to be the star of a romantic comedy.” Except she isn’t. But here’s the thing: it’s totally okay to admit that you’re wrong sometimes, and in fact, you will probably be better for it if you do.

After being called out on Twitter by a fan who pointed to both Mo’Nique and Queen Latifah as prior examples, Wilson responded by saying that she could still be the first-ever plus-sized lead in a rom-com — that is, if you take into account how those other movies were billed, or even whether the women were considered plus-size at the time of filming.

“Yeah I of course know of these movies but it was questionable as to whether: 1. Technically those actresses were plus size when filming those movies or 2. Technically those films are categorized/billed as a studio rom-com with a sole lead,” Wilson replied. “So there’s a slight grey area.”

But there isn’t a gray area. Queen Latifah has starred in multiple successful romantic comedies. Mo’Nique starred in 2006’s Phat Girlz. Shannon Purser just starred in Netflix’s Sierra Burgess Is a Loser. Not to mention the John Waters classic Hairspray, which has been made into two separate films starring Rikki Lake and Nikki Blonsky, respectively.

After being bombarded with corrections, however, Wilson simply tweeted, “I fully take all the comments onboard though so thank you.” And we get it — it’s hard to admit that you might be wrong about something. But you’ll never learn if you don’t admit your mistakes. And that means coming to terms with the stresses associated with learning that we might not be right, which creates cognitive dissonance.

“Cognitive dissonance is what we feel when [our] self-concept — I’m smart, I’m kind, I’m convinced this belief is true — is threatened by evidence that we did something that wasn’t smart, that we did something that hurt another person, that the belief isn’t true,” Carol Tavris, a co-author of the book Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me), told the New York Timesin 2017.

When you refuse to admit your mistakes, though, it makes it tougher for people to interact with you. You’re less likely to accept constructive criticism, and refusing to apologize makes you appear untrustworthy. But you can fix it. It just takes work.

First, you have to accept the confusion and stress associated with being called out or corrected and work toward correcting the mistake you made. In a case as simple as this, it would be listening to criticism and learning. You have to remember that people are (generally speaking) forgiving and want others around them to do and be better.

You also have to understand that the feelings we all get when cognitive dissonance rears its ugly head are just that: feelings, which are manageable. If you can work through those, you’re on your way to being more personally responsible, well-liked, and happier.

Psychologist Tyler G. Okimoto, a researcher who published a study that included information on why people stick to their guns, told the Times that if ‘fessing up is the way to correct your mistake, doubling down has the opposite effect for those around you, even if it makes you feel good at the time.

“If it is clear to everybody that you made a mistake,” he explained, “digging your heels in actually shows people your weakness of character rather than strength.” Even when the gaffe is a relatively minor one, like Wilson’s, owning it presents an opportunity to grow.

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Nothing unites Bravo viewers quite like a good feud (Scandoval, anyone?!), and fortunately for fans, no one can hold a grudge quite like a Real Housewife. From the East Coast to the West Coast, every Housewife series has an iconic feud (or five) that leaves fans forced to pick sides — and wanting more.

Here are some of the most notorious feuds in the Bravoverse, plus updates on where their relationships are today.

Danielle Staub and Margaret Josephs (RHONJ)

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The two started off as friends during Season 8 of RHONJ (Margaret was even a bridesmaid in Danielle's wedding to Marty Caffrey!), but their friendship fell apart as the years passed. Things came to a head in Season 10 when Danielle pulled Margaret's hair, attempted to drag her to the ground, poured water on her head and dumped the contents of Margaret's purse into a $600 lit candle. It's safe to say things haven't improved much since then.

Brandi Glanville, Kyle Richards and Kim Richards (RHOBH)

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RHOBH game nights never end well, that's for sure. After calling Kyle a "b*tch" and implying that Kim was "wasted" (Kim has a history of struggling with her sobriety), Brandi found herself in the middle of the Richards sisters' wrath. Kyle eventually retaliated with dozens of petty comments, one of which mentioned Brandi's son, who during a party peed on the lawn. Obviously, Brandi wasn't happy that her child was a topic of conversation. Their retaliatory comments devolved into a slew of now-famous insults, with Kim referring to Brandi as "trailer park trash," Brandi responding with "at least I don't do crystal meth in the bathroom, and Kim calling Brandi "a sl*t pig." How lovely!

The women are actually friendly today, with Brandi telling Andy Cohen on Watch What Happens Live that she "loves Kim, Kyle and Kathy."

Margaret Josephs and Jennifer Aydin (RHONJ)

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As fans can recall, Jennifer has never been Margaret's biggest fan. Things really kicked into high gear when Margaret revealed Jennifer's husband's (Bill Aydin) affair while she was nine months pregnant with her youngest son. No one outside of the couple knew about his indiscretion, leading to a domino effect that tore through Jennifer's family. Though they have (kind of) made up since the explosive news, it doesn't seem like a strong friendship is meant to be.

Kim Zolciak and NeNe Leakes (RHOA)

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Ahhhh, cockroach-gate. How could we ever forget?! The incident started in 2017 after Kim's daughter Brielle alleged she found cockroaches in NeNe’s home. NeNe quickly slammed the 20-year-old Brielle over claims of “prejudice” after the mother-daughter visit, resurfacing an old video filmed by Brielle in NeNe’s bathroom, documenting what appeared to be large, black insects.

“@briellebiermann We don’t have roaches! If you found 1, u brought it with u or it fell outta yo funky p*ssy!” NeNe wrote on Instagram in a now-deleted post. “Go somewhere and let the air outta those fake lips, fake titties and fake a** because you will never be [@kyliejenner]. Yo trashy mama should have taught you better! My home is Brand New but you guys were so jealous of it, you couldn’t even give a compliment. You had to stoop so low and be so disgusting #racisttrash.”

That wasn't all, though. In the comments section of a separate Instagram account, NeNe called Kim a “calculating [bipolar] racist with a horrible mouth, who uses black folks for her come up.”

Kim quickly jumped to her daughter’s defense via Instagram and lawyered up. The two women are not friendly today.

Jen Shah and Meredith Marks (RHOSLC)

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This is one feud that was not settled quietly. During an ice fishing excursion, Meredith gave it to the now-convicted felon straight, saying, “there are homophobic tweets regarding my son’s sexuality that you have ‘liked.’ It is really painful,” she began. “I was told about a Zoom that you hosted where you were questioning him coming out and his sexuality.” Meredith was rightfully infuriated over Jen's passive "attacks" on her 21-year-old son, Brooks. After several episodes of icy tension, Jen apologized to Brooks, and their friendship began to mend.

Larsa Pippen and Dr. Nicole Martin (RHOM)

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Larsa clearly hasn't learned her lesson. When she stoops low, Nicole always goes higher. For whatever reason, Larsa decided to make Nicole her metaphorical "punching bag" throughout the most recent seasons, going as far as to call Nicole's young son a "bastard child" and say that Nicole doesn't have a job. To clarify, DOCTOR Nicole certainly has a job — a high ranking one. Nicole is a self-made anesthesiologist, a far cry from Larsa's income as a NBA divorcee and OnlyFans model (no shame in that, BTW). Their feud remains ongoing, with little resolution (and plenty of pettiness) in sight.

Brandi Glanville and Denise Richards (RHOBH)

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Brandi is not one to stay in the shadows for long. In true Brandi-fashion, the former Housewife briefly returned in Season 10 to share some, uh, unexpected news. According to Brandi, she had an ongoing affair with the newly-married Denise Richards, a Housewife at the time, much to the surprise of literally everyone.

Brandi claimed that Denise was “sexually aggressive” toward her when they first met in 2018, leading to a passionate affair. Denise has adamantly denied all of Brandi's allegations of a past tryst, though it certainly hasn't stopped Brandi from sharing more details.

Porsha Williams and NeNe Leakes (RHOA)

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This duo has had their fair share of ups and downs throughout the years. Their feud started in Season 8 when Porsha claimed NeNe physically grabbed her during the OG's infamous closet meltdown. None of their co-stars commented on the push, and Leakes denied the allegation, though it didn't stop her from retaliating. NeNe fired back at Porsha with a series of "angry, aggressive text messages" criticizing her weight just six days after Porsha gave birth to her first child. After Porsha shared the texts on Instagram, NeNe allegedly responded with a cease and desist.

But don't worry, they're BFFs today!

Lisa Rinna and Kim Richards (RHOBH)

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Quite possibly the most iconic Housewives feud is that of Kim Richards and Lisa Rinna’s “Bunnygate.” The two were never quite friends, a fact that was cemented following Lisa’s questioning of Kim’s sobriety in Season 5. Lisa apologized during a dinner in Amsterdam — an apology that Kim did not accept. Rather, Kim implied she knew something about Lisa’s husband, Harry Hamlin, leading Lisa to throw her wine glass at Kim and utter the famous words, “don’t you ever go after my f*cking husband.”

Things between the two women escalated again in Season 7 after Lisa said that Kim is “close to dying,” which she adamantly denied throughout much of the season. Kim had other ideas, however, and infamously shut down the possibility of a friendship by returning the bunny Lisa bought for Kim’s grandson at the Season 7 reunion. During this encounter, Lisa shed a single tear.

To no one’s surprise, Lisa and Kim aren’t friends today, though they sort of agreed to put the past behind them.

Teresa Giudice and Melissa Gorga (RHONJ)

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This sister showdown has dominated our screens since the very beginning. When Melissa joined her sister-in-law on Season 3 of RHONJ, fans quickly learned that the two women did not get along. Like at all. After an argument between Teresa and her brother, Joe Gorga (Melissa's husband), turned into a physical fight between Joe and Teresa’s husband at the time (coincidentally also named Joe), things never really reconciled. The tension continued after Melissa brought sprinkle cookies to Christmas, which was apparently deeply offensive to Teresa.

More recently, Teresa did not ask Melissa to be a bridesmaid in her wedding to Luis Ruelas (despite having Luis's sisters in the wedding), invite Melissa’s family to her wedding, and proceeded to spread rumors about Melissa cheating on Joe. In the aftermath, neither Melissa nor Joe attended Teresa's August 2022 wedding, and the families are at arm's length.

Lisa Vanderpump, Dorit Kemsley and Kyle Richards (RHOBH)

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Puppygate saw the end of LVP on RHOBH, and we’re still not over it. In Season 9, Lisa claimed that Dorit returned a puppy she adopted from Lisa’s Vanderpump Dogs rescue to a kill shelter, forcing the other women to take sides in the disagreement.

Dorit claimed that the puppy bit her husband (who happened to be longtime friends with Lisa) and other family members, leading them to rehome the dog with an acquaintance, and that person must have brought it to a shelter, While Dorit eventually apologized to Lisa, their relationship was too far gone and the feud shifted towards whether Lisa leaked the story to the press. Kyle Richards, who was then Lisa’s BFF and friend to Dorit, took Dorit’s side, ultimately ending her decades-long friendship with Lisa in a blowout fight. “Goodbye, Kyle!”

Lisa quit the show before the reunion, denying that she spoke about the dog to the media. While Dorit and Kyle are besties today, neither are close to Lisa.

Vicki Gunvalson and Kelly Dodd (RHOC)

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We can’t mention conflict without thinking of Vicki and Kelly. When Kelly joined the show for Season 11, she and Vicky became fast friends. It wasn’t long before that relationship turned sour, with Kelly calling Vicky, who owns an insurance company, a “con woman” who “preys on old people.” This comment turned into a lawsuit, with Vicki claiming “defamation, libel, trade libel, interference with actual and prospective economic business advantage, false light and injunctive relief.” Not surprisingly, the lawsuit was lived, as it took less than a month for Vicki to drop the charges so that she could attend the Season 13 reunion show. The reunion only led to more conflict (if you can even believe it) as the women accused one another of doing drugs.

Somehow, the pair made amends in 2021 following Vicki’s decision to leave the show in 2020 and Kelly’s dismissal.

Porsha Williams and Kenya Moore (RHOA)

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Porsha and Kenya got off to a rocky start in Season 5 after Porsha referred to the former Miss USA as Miss America (Which is apparently offensive? We can't say.). The drama continued, with Kenya accusing Porsha of cheating on her ex-husband Kordell Stewart, both women accusing each other of being whores, Porsha pulling Kenya’s hair leading to a physical fight, Kenya demanding that Porsha be fired from the show, you know — typical friend behavior.

Not surprisingly, the two aren't friends today, with the Season 12 reunion ending with Porsha calling Kenya a “fake friend.”

Kim Richards, Kyle Richards and Kathy Hilton (RHOBH)

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Bravo loves a family feud, and the Richards sister gave it their all. The lowest point in the sisters’ relationship came during the Season 1 finale of RHOBH after Kim, who was no longer sober, accused Kyle and her husband Mauricio Umansky of "stealing [her] goddamn house." While the sisters struggled to move past their infamous limo fight, their relationship remained rocky over the years. This led to a on-and-off-again relationship between Kyle and her other sister, Kathy Hilton, who seemed to side with Kim in many of the arguments.

After years of discourse, the sisters seem to be in a good place, with Kim and Kathy appearing on the show throughout the past two years. Kim and Kyle were even photographed filming a Season 13 scene together, which fans can expect to see this fall.

Bethenny Frankel and Jill Zarin (RHONY)

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Bethenny is certainly forthright, occasionally rubbing her fellow Housewives the wrong way. Such is true following Season 2, where the former BFFs stopped speaking for months, supposedly because Jill felt Bethenny was getting more attention than her. The friends got into it throughout Season 3, after Bethenny accused Jill of being jealous of her success. Jill, meanwhile, slammed Bethenny for not being present as her late husband, Bobby Zarin, battled cancer.

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Today, the pair have seemingly “made up,” at least to some degree. After years of not speaking, Jill appeared on Bethenny’s podcast, “Just B with Bethenny Frankel.” “I was surprised, but I wasn’t gonna be impulsive,” Jill said of getting the request to appear on the podcast to Us Weekly. “Maybe because I’m medicated now and I wasn’t 13 years ago — in a good way. I have anxiety. I definitely had an anxiety disorder when you knew me, for sure.” Jill continued, saying that she was initially hesitant to say yes, but her daughter encouraged her to do it. “And that’s it,” Jill recalled. “That’s all it took.”

Vicki Gunvaalson and Gretchen Rossi (and Slade Smiley) (RHOC)

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With a RHOC tenure of 13 years, Vicki was bound to enter conflict at one time or another. And she certainly did. While the friction between the two women was ongoing, it came to a head during an 80s theme party in Season 7. Gretchen’s BF at the time, Slade, made several comments about Vicki’s looks, leading to an intense shouting match between the pair.

The women aren’t friends today, but they don’t seem as at odds as they once were. On her podcast with RHOC stars Tamra Judge and Shannon Beader, Vicki commented on the conflict. "I have some issues with Gretchen Rossi. From when she was with Slade Smiley and she’s supporting a man that calls women animal names. So I wouldn’t be with a man like that and that’s what I told her. I wouldn’t be with a man like that." That’s that, I guess.

Dorit Kemsley and Camille Grammer (RHOBH)

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The women of RHOBH are known for their feuds, but the one between Camille and (at the time) relative newbie Dorit tops the list. Despite a number of digs towards one another, things really escalated when Camille accused Dorit’s husband “PK” of being over a million dollars in debt, which launched a history of petty drama between the two. Dorit fired back on several occasions, at one point completely randomly (and somewhat hilariously) calling Camille a “stupid c*nt.” Why she said that at the time — nobody knows, but it certainly made for great TV.

Even today the women still make jabs at one another, with Camille shading Dorit regarding a possible RHOBH return just a month ago.

Porsha Williams and Kandi Burruss (RHOA)

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After a make-out session during Season 9 of RHOA, Kandi claimed Porsha wanted to have sex with her. As a result, Porsha clapped back with a series of her own accusations, including alleging that Kandi's husband was unfaithful, the couple had a sex dungeon and that Kandi previously dated a woman (which isn't a bad thing, BTW). Porsha took it a step further, alleging that someone told her Kandi and Todd planned to drug her to take advantage of her, which Kandi adamantly denied. Somehow, the two women seem OK today, even co-starring in an MTV comedy, Pretty Stoned.

Teresa Giudice and Danielle Staub (RHONJ)

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Teresa and Danielle's feud gifted RHONJ fans one of the most memorable moments in Housewives history: Teresa's infamous table flip. After the Season 1 cast discovered a book about Danielle's shady past, the women confronted her, with Teresa accusing Danielle of being a "prostitution whore, [who was] f*cking engaged nineteen times" and flipped the dinner table over. Their feud continued throughout Season 2, leading Teresa to get into Danielle's face (and subsequently push host Andy Cohen) after Danielle accused Teresa of not being there for her family.

Shockingly, the women are actually friends today — so friendly that Teresa served as the matron of honor in Danielle’s May 2018 wedding. “We speak more than once a day," Danielle told the DailyMail in May 2018. "We're legitimately friends, it was something that was worth salvaging and has turned into the relationship it should have always been."

Candiace Dillard and Monique Samuels (RHOP)

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Despite starting off on good terms, Candiace and Monique’s relationship turned bitter. The duo engaged in a couple of physical or near-physical fights, which both women now regret.

“Anytime you get physical, that’s taking it to a whole other level. That’s real life,” Monique explained during an episode of Us Weekly‘s Getting Real with the Housewives podcast. “I took that [moment] very seriously, because I’ve not been in any physical altercation since I was in grade school. I’m 36 years old. I have three kids and a whole husband. So, I’m like, ‘This is insane.’ It allowed me to go on a journey of just looking at certain things from childhood or just trying to figure out what are my triggers."

Surprisingly, this isn't even half of the most famous Real Housewives fights, so bookmark this page for part three.

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I'm a hardcore drugstore makeup gal. My vanity is full of ELF products, Colourpop eyeshadow, and NYX lip oils, but when it comes to lip products, I'm pretty set on what I have for one reason: the drugstore lipstick I've purchased since high school makes my lips look so good, I never want to buy another product.

Now as a type-A eldest daughter, I love sticking to products I know work for me...until they start getting boring. But this L'Oreal lipstick literally never feels like a bore. Every single time I put it on, I'm surprised at just how good it looks. Even though I've been buying it since 2015, it never fails to bring me joy! And TBH, that's what makeup is all about.

Here's everything you need to know about the $7 L'Oreal lipstick.

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Anthropologie (AKA our fave place) is truly your one-stop shop for all things Valentine’s Day – from home decor and date night outfitsto gifts for treating that special someone (or even just yourself), they’ve got all the cuteness! These 15 giftable finds feel oh-so-special for V-Day, no matter how or who you're celebrating.

Get ready to fall head over heels for these perfect Anthropologie Valentine’s Day gifts!

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Lost Pattern 3-Piece Silk Gift Set

This nifty, gifty trio includes a pillowcase, a sleep mask, and a scrunchie, all crafted from luxe-feeling mulberry silk. Your skin and hair are gonna love how soft it feels when you're ready to sleep.

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Knipschildt Valentine's Day Chocolate Truffles

These artsy truffles are perfect for celebrating the lovey-dovey holiday! The box comes complete with 29 pieces with different decadent flavors.

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Espresso Martini Baby Wall Art

Ah, the espresso martini – our one true love! 😭 All jokes aside, this adorable print makes a great Valentine's Day gift for the cocktail lover in your life. They'll want to keep it up all year long!

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Lips Icon Juice Glass

This signature drinking glass from Anthro is dotted in tiny lil' lips that recall the Valentine's Day spirit perfectly.

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Heart Charms Necklace

Charm necklaces are all the rage right now. This one is fixed up with plenty of heart-shaped pieces to reflect all things V-Day!

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Staub Heart Cocotte

The home chef is gonna go absolutely bonkers for this professional-grade cocotte. It's made of cast iron, heating its contents up with impressive evenness, plus, the interior boasts a rough texture that results in "exceptional browning." Oh yeah, and it's also shaped like a heart!

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Juliette Has A Gun Eau De Parfum

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Terrain Copper Heart Bird Feeder

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Aota Sarah Bag

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Warmies Heart Plush

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Silver Cloud Heart Print Satin Gift Set

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Metallic Bow Match Striker + Holder

This match striker and holder combo piece would totally complete a candle for a swoon-worthy Valentine's Day gift!

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Cherry Drop Earrings

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Capri Blue Volcano Valentine Jar Candle

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Le Mini Macaron Gel Manicure Set

An at-home mani is the epitome of self care! Gift them this set so they can slay their nails themselves – it comes in plenty of different colors suitable for V-Day!

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Welcome to February 2025, the month of love. Mars, the planet that rules physical intimacy, remains retrograde for the rest of this month, resulting in professional delays or feelings of disconnect in relationships. However, on the plus side, the love planet, Venus, moves into spicy Aries, which will fuel our motivation and hope. Want to dive deeply and learn more about what is in store for you this February? Keep reading and see what is in store for your zodiac sign in your February horoscope for 2025!

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What to Expect in Your February Horoscope for 2025

Isabella Bonnet

While Mars retrograde continues, this month proves to be lovely and filled with possibilities. Now that the action planet is still in its backspin motion, it doesn’t mean you should be holding back from visualizing your dreams. Appreciate the stillness and explore different possibilities before deciding what’s right for you. Although you may feel like a sitting duck, I beg to differ. This Mars retrograde proves to be a test of our will by not being impulsive. Luckily, Mars goes direct later this month, so hang on tight before losing momentum.

Cora Pursley

February is off to a fiery start as Venus moves into Aries on Tuesday, February 4. Love and relationships will take on a new tempo, either sultry or temperamental. It's a period to experience excitement or realize what needs to be refined in your connection. On the same day, Jupiter, the planet of luck, goes direct! You will begin to see the silver lining in your journey and even the solution in how you can proceed. It's also a time to see how fate has played out in your story. If you're discontent, this is your chance to turn your life around. Having a little faith will take you much further than lowering your vibration with negativity. Listen to a mentor or take on a new sacred practice that elevates your well-being. Follow through with your promises and brighten someone’s day. Pay it forward to turn the tides.

Hannah Rivera

The Full Moon in Leo illuminates the sky and infuses us with optimism and renewal on Wednesday, February 12. Full Moons denote the need to let go and move on from what no longer serves your highest good. The great news is that this celestial event leaves us with a glimmer of hope and the willingness to close the chapter. On Friday, February 14, our communication ability will be poetic and ethereal as Mercury moves into Pisces. If you plan to go out on Valentine’s Day this year, expect this day to be more romantic than in past years. Speaking from the heart and through feeling will result better than pride or logic. Be playful and in the moment. Cherish your love.

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The mist begins to thicken, and our intuition heightens as the Sun moves into Pisces on Tuesday, February 18. This season is all about fine-tuning our empathy and interconnectedness with life. Inner reflection and exploring your artistic side will help you stay centered. Honor your sensitivity and be unconditional. On Sunday, February 23, the motivation planet Mars goes direct. It’s not time to push through with an agreement or project. Recalibrate and pick up from where you left off last October 2024. This is your time to decide whether an idea or concept stays or goes. Expect traction and things to pick up speed in the next several weeks.

In closing, the New Moon in emotive Pisces happens on Thursday, February 27. It’s time to start a new chapter involving your subconscious beliefs. This lunation will imbue you with the ability to trust the Universe and dream bigger. Hold onto the faith and set small steps to cultivate your vision.

The 6 Zodiac Signs That Will Experience Luck in Love in February 2025

Alexis Charles

February 2025 is a month filled with romantic potential, and these six signs are in for a wave of love and connection. Aries, with Venus in your first house, your natural magnetism is at an all-time high, making it the perfect time for new romantic opportunities or reigniting the passion in existing relationships. Gemini, Venus in your eleventh house enhances your social life, bringing you closer to potential partners through shared interests and group activities. Cancer, Venus shining in your tenth house makes you irresistible to others, especially in professional or public settings, paving the way for admiration and romantic recognition. Sagittarius, Venus in your fifth house brings love, fun, and creative expression to the forefront, encouraging you to dive into romantic adventures or spice up your current relationship. Virgo, with Venus in your eighth house, expect deep emotional connections and intimacy to take center stage, creating powerful moments with your significant other. Lastly, Pisces, Mars in your fifth house adds extra spice to your love life, increasing passion and desire. Whether you’re single or coupled, expect a surge of fiery energy that ignites your romantic connections. February is your month for love, so let the stars guide you toward the connections you deserve. Keep reading for extended astrological insight into your sun, moon, and rising sign.

Key Dates for Your February Horoscope and Aquarius Season 2025

Melina Martin

  • 2/4 Venus enters Aries, Jupiter Direct
  • 2/12 Full Moon in Leo
  • 2/14 Mercury enters Pisces
  • 2/18 Sun enters Pisces
  • 2/23 Mars Direct
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Read Your Sun, Moon, & Rising Signs For Your February Horoscope

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Aries (March 21 – April 20)

It's time to power through past obstacles this month, Aries. Remember that to get what you want, you must let go of self-limiting beliefs. Expect your confidence to level up as the love planet Venus graces your first house of identity and appearance. If you feel burnt out and less motivated lately, Venus moving into your sign will give you a boost — even with manifestation. Be careful what you wish for because your magnetism will attract results in the first half of February. This is a time for self-expression and embracing your desires with a bold, unapologetic flair. Meanwhile, Jupiter turning direct in your third house offers fresh opportunities for communication, learning, and connecting with others—be open to conversations that can expand your perspective. As the Full Moon on February 12 illuminates your fifth house of romance and creativity, you're called to release old habits in love or self-expression, making room for new, more authentic experiences.Mid-month, your life grows quiet as Mercury and the Sun move into your twelfth house. Your intuition heightens, and your dreams will become more lucid — keep a dream journal handy. As Mars finally goes direct in your fourth house on February 23 you're ready to take action on home, family, and your emotional foundation matters. Get organized, declutter your home, or begin focusing on what you want regarding domestic affairs. The last half of the month directs your focus on your inner life with the New Moon in Pisces and your twelfth house on February 27; it pushes you to reflect on your subconscious desires and healing, urging you to establish new beliefs and trust in the Universe. Magic will unfold once you establish a better mindset and understanding of how your energy works. By the end of the month, you're emerging from a period of internal growth, ready to build a more secure and fulfilling future.

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Taurus (April 21 – May 21)

Have you been paying attention to your energy levels lately, Taurus? Something may not be clicking or in flow. The great news is that February invites you to step back and focus on inner reflection and long-term goals. Appreciate the quiet moments, and incorporate self-care as Venus enters your twelfth house. This will reveal what you need regarding your inner world. Healing and releasing old emotional baggage will create movement. Do the work and let go. At the same time, Jupiter, direct in your second house of finances and self-worth, will shed light on matters involving your wealth and long-term responsibilities. Avoid being frivolous with spending, and be strategic with your money. Research and learn how to budget accordingly. On February 12, the Full Moon in your fourth house brings clarity to home and family matters, urging you to release any emotional ties or situations holding you back from feeling secure. Ask for feedback or have an honest heart-to-heart with loved ones to rebuild security. The lines of communication open on February 23 when Mars direct in your third house picks up speed, and you’ll find it easier to express your thoughts and ideas with clarity and confidence.

Big win! Your paradigm lightens up mid-month with Mercury and the Sun moving into your eleventh house, and your social life and goals come into focus. Connect with friends, network, and surround yourself with like-minded individuals who share your hopes and dreams for the future. Life will be extra dreamy and hopeful when the New Moon in Pisces on February 27 powers up your eleventh house, making it a potent time to set intentions about your social circles and long-term vision.

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Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

Prepare to make big moves and slay this month, Gemini. If life has been lackluster lately, your luck is about to change, involving social networks, career, or finances. Venus blazing its way into your eleventh house, you will find yourself attracting new friends and connections in places you didn't expect. Joining groups and connecting with those who support your beliefs this month will turn the tides in your favor and potentially lead to incredible opportunities. Relationships, love, and professionalism become the source of your joy and expect more harmonious exchanges. That's not all. Jupiter Direct in your first house levels up your charisma. It will be a powerful time to take on new endeavors and even take a chance on your dreams. When the Full Moon enters your third house, you may feel in a frenzy with inner thoughts, communication habits, or incomplete tasks on February 12. This lunar event prompts you to let go of old ideas and thought patterns and work on your task management.

Mid-month, Mercury and the Sun move into your tenth house of career and public matters. Focus on your professional goals and ambition, and it's time to make a mark and trust yourself. Expect to feel motivated and inclined to take charge of finances and material resources as Mars turns direct in your second house on February 23. Invest in yourself, find solidity in your financial plans, and remember you can get what you want. The month concludes by bringing fresh energy to your career path — the New Moon in Pisces on February 27 invites you to set new intentions and move forward with clarity in your professional life.

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Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

Ready to be on cloud nine, Cancer? February presents a regenerative and positive month filled with opportunities for professional growth and spiritual insight. To start with the beauty planet Venus, gracing your tenth house of career early this month — your efforts will be recognized. Your public image will be well received, and exchanges with superiors (or audience) will be more positive and rewarding. Jupiter’s direct motion in your twelfth house invites deep spiritual growth and healing, inspiring you to trust your intuition and have faith in the Universe. Allow optimism to attract a better flow in your life — this will show a more precise path filled with serendipitous experiences. The Full Moon in your second house on February 12 focuses on financial matters and enables you to reflect on future payment plans or revise future spending. Review your process and build a stronger sense of self by letting go of past fears or unsettling feelings around money.

Mid-month, as Mercury and the Sun move into your ninth house of higher learning, travel, and philosophy, your trust or connectedness in the Universe will strengthen! Explore new approaches to spirituality — become the student and explore all angles of life and your role in it. Celebrate as Mars goes direct in your first house on February 23! Expect to feel more energized and prepared to cross off your checklist of goals and assert yourself with greater confidence and endless determination. Take measured steps. By month's end, the New Moon in Pisces on February 27 will infuse you with hope and inspiration. It offers a fresh start involving endeavors or spiritual journeys.

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Leo (July 23 – August 22)

How often do you reflect, Leo? February sets the stage for you to engage more with your heart and to pinpoint what truly fulfills you. The month begins with Venus in your ninth house, allowing you to explore your passions and revitalize your perspective on the world. Book a solo trip, or revive that project left behind. Jupiter’s direct motion in your eleventh house ignites your social life while giving you cosmic support to begin a harmonious collaboration. Surround yourself with those who allow you to shine and appreciate your transparency. On February 12, the Full Moon in your first house shines its light on you and all your shades. Give thanks for your past self, and release any aspects that don't align with who you want to be.

By mid-month, when Mercury and the Sun enter your eighth house of sex, secrets, and shared resources, it will be revelatory. This is a period for you to do inner work while also getting to the bottom of any unanswered questions involving your intimate relationships, dealings with resources, and Self. Be reflective and trust your intuition. On February 23, Mars turns direct in your twelfth house, and your inner world becomes more active, guiding you toward spiritual growth and the courage to release hidden fears. The New Moon in Pisces on February 27 further illuminates these findings while offering a fresh start in these areas of your life—whether through healing, letting go of past baggage, or creating more meaningful connections. Begin a new era that aligns with your well-being — but it's crucial to factor in your true feelings for the best results.

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Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

If you're wondering where your soul tribe is, Virgo, February will be a month to observe your connections. The goal is to learn how to be comfortable with letting down your guard. Starting with the love planet Venus, blazing in your eighth house of vulnerable and intimate connections, you will learn how to deepen your bonds. Clear the air by arranging a sit down with those who need to hear you out. Lucky Jupiter Direct happening in your tenth house ignites your presence in the public eye while giving you the green light to make big moves in your career. Expect to feel more withdrawn or reflective with the Full Moon on February 12 in your twelfth house. Rest and release past baggage that may have been holding you back from your full potential.

Mid-month, expect your communication to improve in your personal and professional relationships as Mercury and the Sun move into your seventh house. The best support for this shift is Mars Direct in your eleventh house beginning February 23. You will pick up speed with your aspirations and reignite your group collaborations. Begin your passion project or create an impact with those who support your vision. This month concludes with the New Moon in Pisces on February 27, energizing your seventh house of partnerships. It offers a new beginning in your closest connections and inspires you to manifest harmonious and balanced relationships.

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Libra (September 23 – October 22)

Feeling burnt out lately, Libra? This month, it's all about recalibrating relationships and self-care. February kickstarts with your ruler planet, Venus, energizing your seventh house of commitment and relationships. If you need more spice in your love life, this is your moment to make it happen and to change your paradigm. Go on date night or go out with your friends. Speaking of changes, Jupiter Direct in your ninth house shifts your focus regarding your perception of life, traveling, or personal beliefs. Be playful in your approach, and consider this an opportunity to believe in yourself and your limitless possibilities. Then, on February 12, the Full Moon in Pisces in your eleventh house closes the chapter on your connections and past aspirations. If it feels right, letting go of old friendships or groups may be in the stars, but remember that your memories shaped you into who you are now. There is a part of you that is ready to evolve.

Mid-month, review your approaches to work and daily routines as Mercury and the Sun illuminate your sixth house — focus on self-care and set your work goals to optimize your energy. Begin a fitness regimen or detox to fine-tune your mind, body, and spirit. If you have been feeling like a wallflower at work lately, that is all about to change, with Mars Direct happening on February 23 in your tenth house of career. Name your terms and get ready to see your hard work paying off. Finally, a new chapter begins with the New Moon on February 27, adding sparkle to your well-being and work environment. Set new intentions for creating balance in your daily life. We believe in you!

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Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Expect a change in the wind, Scorpio. Refocus your mindset and prioritize work, creativity, and joy to revamp your energy this February. It begins with Venus entering your sixth house. Expect pleasant exchanges in your work environment while energizing yourself through an exercise regimen. Be organized in your approach and make it happen. Jupiter Direct in your eighth house gives you a dose of magic to see how your energy works. As a Scorpio, you naturally emit emotion and be mindful that whatever you project inside reflects the outcome. Clear out from emotional or financial attachments that could block you from experiencing a better flow. On February 12, the Full Moon in your tenth house brings clarity and potential endings to your career goals or public image, helping you explore new avenues professionally.

By mid-February, Mercury and the Sun enter your fifth house of creativity, romance, and self-expression. Focus on joy, whether through creative endeavors or spending time with loved ones. There will be stars in your eyes on February 23 as Mars Direct in your ninth house revives your personal beliefs and expands your reach. It's time to pick up where you left off on your bucket list. Make it happen! Then, on February 27, the New Moon in Pisces opens doors for you in romance, creative endeavors, or simply joie de vivre. Set your intentions and pin down what fulfills you.

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Sagittarius (November 21 – December 21)

Love is in the air, Sagittarius. February supports your passion projects, romance, and domestic life. This month checks off on what you set your heart on. The love planet Venus in your fifth house will make you feel like you're in a fantasy — if you're single, go out and start to mingle. If in a partnership, book a getaway or date night. Love, fun, and creative expression take the spotlight. Play, you deserve it! Your ruler planet, Jupiter Direct in your seventh house, shifts your focus on your relationship and commitment. Expect a resurgence of optimism and growth in your partnership — love and business included. Have faith and allow positivity to flow through you to find the solution for any past conflicts. The Full Moon in your ninth house on February 12 encourages you to release outdated beliefs or expand your understanding of the world while bridging closure or clarity to your long-term goals and aspirations. Revision is necessary for success.

Mid-February, Mercury and the Sun powers up your fourth house of home and family, shedding light on your emotional security, family matters, and the home. Assess your living situation or adjust based on mutual understanding with loved ones. Inner peace is key. On February 23, Mars Direct, in your eighth house of intimacy and shared resources, equips you to make a move on future decisions that align with your emotional well-being. The New Moon in Pisces on February 27 concludes this month by revitalizing your home life, bringing security and comfort to long-term plans.

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Capricorn (December 21 – January 19)

It’s not just what you say but how you say it that makes all the difference, Capricorn. February is all about fine-tuning the context of your messages. Becoming heart-centered will bring progress in your home life as Venus graces your fourth house of family and emotional security this month. Nurturing your loved ones or living space will ensure harmony and inner peace. Jupiter Direct in your sixth house of work and health brings a second wind of positive interactions and your well-being. Effort and kindness will advance you sooner than expected. The Full Moon on February 12 in your eighth house signals the end of past emotional burdens, fears, or financial constraints. It’s time to release and heal—whether by settling debts or making amends, even energetically.

Mid-month, Mercury and the Sun move into your third house, refining your communication and connection with others. Expect a better flow of discussions, new learning experiences, and perhaps even a short trip to refresh your perspective. When Mars goes direct in your seventh house of relationships on February 23, momentum builds in partnerships. Whether personal or professional, you’ll feel ready to take decisive action and strengthen those connections. February concludes with the New Moon on February 27, offering a fresh start involving your ideas for long-term projects. Set intentions around learning, networking, and expanding your connections. This month, focus on balancing your inner world and outer interactions.

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Aquarius (January 20 – February 19)

Happy Birthday, Aquarius! You were born to be an innovator. February brings a month filled with opportunities to build what you set your mind on. It's all in the details. With Venus entering your third house of ideas and communication, you will be equipped with bravado and a sharp focus. This month, get involved in localized group settings and exchange ideas to help you gain confidence in the long run. Jupiter Direct in your fifth house encourages you to revive your dream projects, find joy, and connect with children. Then, the Full Moon on February 12 in your seventh house of partnerships brings clarity to your relationships, helping you to release any patterns or connections that no longer align with your goals.

Mid-month, as Mercury and the Sun move into your second house of finances, you’ll feel a push to reassess your financial situation, values, and material resources. It's a perfect opportunity to reflect on your self-worth and set new intentions for increasing your stability and self-sufficiency. As Mars Direct on February 23 in your 6th house, expect to feel more motivated to take action toward your work goals and establish better routines that support your long-term well-being. The New Moon in Pisces on February 27 offers an opportunity to start fresh in your approach to money and personal resources.

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Pisces (February 20 – March 21)

Pisces, what role are you playing in your own story? February extends a stream of personal growth and the importance of self-worth. If you have been feeling faded lately, expect a resurgence of vitality as Venus powers up your second house this month. This is a period for you to rebuild your esteem and take steps toward financial security. Wait, there's more stardust coming your way! Jupiter Direct in your fourth house supports your domestic life, opening new discussions with loved ones (like family planning/expansion) and igniting changes in your living environment. The Full Moon in your sixth house on February 12 encourages you to release any habits or work-related stress that no longer serve your well-being, offering you a chance to make room for healthier routines.Expect to feel even more awake mid-month as Mercury and the Sun move into your first house. The focus shifts to personal goals and self-image, giving you the energy to communicate clearly and welcome new beginnings. Expect momentum and creative flow, spicy interactions, and overall happiness in love when Mars goes direct in your fifth house on February 23. The New Moon in Pisces on February 27 offers a powerful reset for you to set new intentions for the future, whether it’s about how you present yourself to the world or what new goals you wish to pursue. Cheers to you!

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