Self-care is so important, but it's so easy to lose yourself between work, family, the news. Who has time to relax? But finding time to achieve a little zen will ultimately benefit both your mind and your body, whether it's taking a relaxing bath, indulging in a face mask, or just sitting down to read a good book. If someone in your life (maybe it's you!) has ever caught themselves burning the candle at both ends, it might be time to sit back, relax, and maybe invest in a few clever products for your body and even your home to achieve some much-needed relaxation.
You and your friends have likely spent countless hours together, decoding everything from imaginationships to the best comfort shows to watch when you're sad. You've probably even settled into a designated role within the group. Maybe you're the super adventurous one, always suggesting friend date ideas for the group to try, while someone else always knows how to comfort everyone when life gets rough. But, have you ever wondered if you're the most empathetic friend in the group? That's easy, just ask Brianna Paruolo, LCMCH. She's the founder and clinical director of On Par Therapyso she knows how to recognize signs you're an empath, plus how to take care of yourself!
How To Know If You're An Empath
- Empathy is when "you feel what others are feeling."
- There are physical, emotional, social, and mental signs that you're an empath.
- You may be an empath if you get physically exhausted after being in crowds, feel anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments, feel responsible for other people's happiness, or you find it hard to distinguish your own feelings from someone else's.
Are there really assigned roles in friend groups or am I just imagining things?
Like I said before, it can seem like you and your friends unintentionally gravitate toward certain 'roles.' It's not like anyone woke up one day and decided, "I'm going to be the 'mother hen' of the group," but it tends to happen. Why?
Paruolo says, "In my clinical work, I've consistently observed that our friendship roles often mirror our early family dynamics. These patterns show up naturally — think about who in your friend group gets the first crisis call, who plans all the gatherings, or who everyone turns to for emotional support." I'm willing to bet you thought of a name for each scenario — including yours — because I know I did!
"Like in families, we each fall into specific roles that feel familiar to us," Paruolo further explains.
What actually makes someone an empathetic person?
There's so many definitions for empathy, but I thought it would be wise to ask a licensed professional for her opinion on the matter. "Empathy means to feel what others are feeling. You do not have to have a personal direct experience with something to feel empathy for another person," shares Paruolo.
For example, your friend could call to tell you she has to have fibroid removal surgery and is feeling scared. You may have never had surgery, but you could find yourself feeling the need to comfort her in spite of this. Paruolo says, "The cool thing about our brains is that we have mirror neurons, which means part of our brain is set up to feel what others feel. The ability to attune to others' emotional states comes naturally to some people, while others may need to develop this capacity more consciously."
To break it down even further, here's signs that Paruolo says point to your empathetic nature.
Physical Signs:
- Getting physically exhausted after being in crowds
- Feeling drained after social interactions, even enjoyable ones (OMG I feel so seen!)
- Needing extra time alone to recharge
Emotional Signs:
- Absorbing other people's emotions like a sponge
- Feeling anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments
- Finding it hard to watch violence or cruelty in movies/TV
Social Signs:
- Feeling responsible for others' happiness
- Having trouble saying "no" to people who need help
Mental Signs:
- Picking up on subtle changes in others' moods
- Being highly attuned to body language and tone
- Finding it hard to distinguish your feelings from others' feelings
It sounds like I'm the empathetic friend, but are there any downsides to this?
I've been an empath for as long as I can remember and I've found that I have to 'recharge' my social batteries at times. I thought it was because I was trying to be superwoman by fixing others' problems, but it turns out theres more to it than that. Paruolo says, "Empathetic friends and people have an uncanny ability to sense others' emotional states even when unspoken, and frequently need recovery time after intense social interactions. They tend to be deeply affected by others' experiences and naturally consider situations from multiple perspectives."
In the long run, she says it can be "distressing" for some people to always feel the feelings of others. Over time, she says, "it can cause you to shut down and retract." This can look like not being as quick to respond to the funny memes your friends send you or not even answering their phone calls right away.
But, this doesn't mean you're the only person who tends to go through this. "Many empaths struggle with maintaining boundaries due to their deep emotional attunement," she says. Color me guilty because this sounds so much like me. It got so bad at one point that my sister nicknamed me 'Captain Save-A-Lot,' which is actually the clean version of what she truly meant. Still, empathy fatigue is no laughing matter nor does it mean you're defected. You just have the natural ability to show people their feelings are important to you.
How can I protect my peace as the empathetic friend?
You know you need to set boundaries, but what does that mean? Paruolo says, "The key is understanding that empathy needs to be balanced with compassion - it's not just about feeling others' emotions but also knowing how to help without depleting yourself."
One of the things she loves to do is "encourage empaths to set clear boundaries around their emotional availability and make time for regular grounding exercises." As with gratitude journaling, try to focus on an activity that calls for you to be present. Focus on what you can hear, see, touch, taste, and smell.
"Self-care isn't just a luxury; it's essential maintenance for empaths. This might mean scheduling alone time, finding a supportive therapist, or joining communities where you can process your experiences," Paruolo implores.
I know how to be there for others, but how do I ask for emotional support when I need it?
You may feel like it's impossible to ask others for help since your shoulders are the ones people cry on, but you're only doing yourself a disservice by not speaking up. No one's super resilient or able to handle all of their distressing feelings alone. We're not meant to.
It's the reason Paruolo wants you to speak up about what you need. "The most effective approach I've seen is being direct about your needs rather than hoping others will figure them out," she says. I made this mistake during postpartum and found myself expecting my family & friends to know exactly how I felt, but they're not mind readers. The more I verbally asked for help with little or big tasks, the more my mental and emotional load lightened.
Paruolo wants you to look at "asking for support as strengthening your friendships through trust and vulnerability, instead of waiting until you're overwhelmed." By the time you reach that point, you'll be ready to enter rage or full-blown shut down mode and they're not fun.
Avoid unlocking their proverbial doors by scheduling "regular check-ins with trusted friends," suggests Paruolo. "This creates a sustainable support system and helps prevent emotional crisis points.
We have even more self-care stories for you to dive into if you need a mental and emotional boost!
The 5 Best Anti-Dandruff Shampoos For Treating A Flaky, Dry, Itchy Scalp, According To Experts
Nov 12, 2024
About 50% of us are born with a genetic predisposition to dandruff, but that doesn’t make it any less annoying. There is a pretty easy fix, though. The best way to combat the flakiness, dryness, and itchiness that comes along with dandruff is – unsurprisingly – to use an effective anti-dandruff shampoo.
Let's dive into the best anti-dandruff shampoos loved by experts to treat flaky, dry, itchy scalps.
A peek at the top 5 anti-dandruff shampoos:
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- Best zinc pyrithione formula:Jupiter Anti-Dandruff Shampoo
- Best selenium sulfide formula:Vichy Selenium Sulfide Anti-Dandruff Shampoo
- Best ketoconazole formula:Nizoral Anti-Dandruff Shampoo
- Best gentle formula:Head & Shoulders BARE Dandruff Shampoo
- Best clinical strength formula:Selsun Blue Moisturizing Anti-Dandruff Shampoo
Why anti-dandruff shampoo?
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“Consistent use of anti-dandruff shampoos is critical to treating dandruff,” saysDr. Chris Tomassian, Board Certified Dermatologist and Head & Shoulders Partner. “Not only do you have to consistently use them to be effective, you also have to leave them on the scalp for several minutes for the best result.”
What causes dandruff?
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To get real nerdy about it, dandruff is caused by a few factors: naturally-produced sebum, a microbe called Malassezia globosa (a type of yeast that thrives on the scalp), and genetics. It’s a common misconception that dandruff is caused by poor hygiene, which is “very far from true,” according to Dr. Tomassian. Dandruff can happen to anyone – it doesn’t discriminate!
What are the symptoms of dandruff?
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Symptoms of dandruff aren't limited to just flaking. Dandruff is also inclusive of other symptoms like dryness, redness, itchiness, and irritation. You may also notice especially dry hair strands or, in severe cases, shedding. So, even if you aren’t seeing flakes, treating your irritated scalp with a reliable anti-dandruff shampoo can be extremely beneficial.
What should I look for in an anti-dandruff shampoo?
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The top active ingredients to look for in an anti-dandruff shampoo, recommended by Dr. Tomassain, are zinc pyrithione (ZPT), selenium sulfide, and ketoconazole. ZPT is anti-inflammatory and essential for controlling the growth of Malassezia globosa, while Selenium Sulfide and Ketoconazole carry antifungal properties to target dandruff.
The Top 5 Anti-Dandruff Shampoos Of 2024
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Best zinc pyrithione formula: Jupiter Anti-Dandruff Shampoo
Pros: Clean ingredients, hydrating
Cons: On the expensive side at $30
Promising review: "After just one use, I noticed a remarkable difference. Not only did it balance and calm my oily and itchy scalp, but it also eliminated any trace of dandruff. Furthermore, it effectively controlled oil production, moisturized dry and irritated areas of my scalp, and alleviated itching and flaking. This shampoo made my scalp feel incredibly clean, healthy and rejuvenated."
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Best selenium sulfide formula: Vichy Selenium Sulfide Anti-Dandruff Shampoo
Pros: Good for sensitive scalps, friendly on color-treated hair
Cons: On the expensive side at $29
Promising review: "Finally a shampoo I can use and feel like I didn't just dump a table spoon of goop on my head. First off, I was impressed with the smell which is so nice like the ones they use in a salon, but not overwhelming. Normally the anti dandruff shampoos I've used is thick and smells like laundry softener. I was able to use half the amount too. It lathered up nicely and I didn't have any issues with rinsing it out of my hair. Afterwards, after drying my hair, my hair felt smooth. After using it for a week, I noticed that my scalp stopped itching."
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Best ketoconazole formula: Nizoral Anti-Dandruff Shampoo
Pros: Gets to the root of dandruff, clinically proven
Cons: Can be drying with very consistent (every day) use
Promising review: "The shampoo has a fresh, pleasant scent that makes my hair smell clean without being overpowering. I also appreciate that it lathers well and rinses out easily, leaving my hair feeling soft and manageable. It’s a bit pricier than regular shampoos, but it's worth it for the results. Highly recommend for anyone dealing with dandruff!"
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Best gentle formula: Head & Shoulders BARE Dandruff Shampoo
Pros: Minimal additives, hydrating, eco-friendly packaging
Cons: Longer rinse time
Promising review: “If you are looking for an anti dandruff shampoo that is not harsh on the scalp, I constantly recommend Head & Shoulders BARE," says Dr. Tomassian. "It's an effective yet simple formula with nine working ingredients, including the dandruff-fighting active zinc pyrithione (ZPT), so your dandruff will be controlled and you’ll still have a moisturized scalp.”
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Best clinical strength formula: Selsun Blue Moisturizing Anti-Dandruff Shampoo
Pros: Clean formula (no SLS, parabens, phosphates, and phthalates), hydrating
Cons: Strong scent
Promising review: "What I love most about Selsun Blue is its reliability. Over the years, I’ve tried various other brands and products, but I always return to this one. The shampoo has a pleasant scent that isn’t overpowering, and it lathers well, ensuring that my hair and scalp are thoroughly cleaned. Even during harsh winter months, when my dandruff tends to worsen, Selsun Blue keeps it under control. I’ve recommended this shampoo to friends and family, and they’ve all experienced similar positive results."
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Last night I realized I was pregnant during the height of the pandemic and the 2020 election cycle, but I didn't have any self-care practices in sight. I was chronically stressed and spent way too much time on social media when I should've been finding ways to ground myself. After a tough four years of navigating everything from motherhood to starting my career, I've finally started utilizing gratitude journaling as a tool to get through tough days.
I don't know how you may be feeling today, but I've created journal prompts you can refer to when you're scared, anxious, unsure of the future, and more. They're not meant to replace meditation or seeking therapy, but they are here for moments you need to check in with yourself.
A Gratitude Journaling Idea For When You're Worried About The Future
Write Down 5 Things You're Grateful You Can See, Touch, Hear, And Smell
This is actually a practice I picked up in therapy to help redirect my anxious thoughts. It's something I often refer to when I'm fixated on the future and things that might happen. Any time you feel yourself not being present because you're worried about what's next, focus on things that are immediately in front of you or around you.
For example, here's what's reminding me to be present:
- I can hear one of my favorite gospel songs playing and the subtle humming I'm doing.
- I can see two lime green books on my desk.
- I can smell the clean laundry my fiancé took out of the dryer.
- I'm touching the keys on my keyboard as I type this.
Although they seem small, I'm grateful they're helping to keep me rooted in the present moment. So, what are you grateful you can see, touch, hear, and smell today?
Gratitude Journaling Idea For When You're Experiencing Sadness
Write Down 3 Things You're Grateful For Today
Practicing gratitude when you're sad isn't so you can pretend the sadness doesn't exist. It's a very real emotion that calls for us to be curious about why we're feeling that way. However, if you feel like you're 'stuck' in your sadness, you can try writing down 3 things you're grateful for right now. Again, they don't have to be grandiose. They just have to make sense to you.
You could be grateful for:
- Eating a delicious meal
- Having a good night's sleep
- Hearing your favorite song at the right moment
- Morning snuggles with your pet or toddler
- Having access to binge watch your favorite TV show when you need to escape reality for a bit
Write Down The People You're Grateful You Can Rely On
My hope is that everyone has at least one person they can rely on during difficult moments in life. I know everyone doesn't have huge villages for different reasons, but I'd rather focus on who is there.
This gratitude journaling idea doesn't require you to go in depth about why you're grateful for the people in your corner unless you want to. You can simply write their names down if that's all you have the bandwidth for.
Recount A Memory That Always Makes You Smile
When in doubt, think about a moment that was hilarious or filled you with joy. It can be from your childhood, first year in college, or even your wedding day! The one memory that always makes me smile is from an interesting moment I told one of my uncles he looked like Santa Claus. I was around 5 or 6 years old, so it was a super innocent comment, but still it was hilarious nonetheless. No one in my family has let my uncle or me forget that moment. It's small, but it's one of the memories I'm grateful I can remember when I'm feeling sad.
A Gratitude Journaling Idea For When You Feel You're Not Doing Enough
Write Down 1 Thing You've Grateful You've Accomplished
I know some journal prompts ask you to list multiple things you've recently accomplished, but I've found that makes me a little more anxious that necessary. If this sounds like you, I see you and think it's just as impactful to be grateful for one thing you've done that you're proud of. It could be as simple as:
- "I had the strength to get out of bed today after wanting to do nothing more than hide under the covers."
- "I did laundry and put everything away."
- "I made myself a meal instead of ordering lunch like I usually do."
- "I stuck to my budget this week."
- "My presentation at work or school went really well."
- "I made that scary phone call I've been putting off."
- "I went for a walk around my neighborhood or local park."
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Why Timothée Chalamet Abandoned “Good Friend” Austin Butler’s ‘Elvis’ Method For Bob Dylan Role
Nov 12, 2024
Austin Butler as Elvis, Selena Gomez as Linda Rondstat, and now Timothée Chalamet as Bob Dylan — there will never be enough biopics for me! (The real question is when are we going to get a Taylor Swift movie?). When pictures from the set of the new Bob Dylan movie, A Complete Unknown, hit Twitter, I had to do a double take because Timothée Chalamet looks so much like the musician I couldn't believe my eyes! You can watch the A Complete Unknown trailer here.
Timothée is going to be joined by Met Gala queen Elle Fanning, as well as Top Gun superstar Monica Barbaro. Here's everything you need to know about the movie — and our favorite Bob Dylan songs to listen to while you wait for its release.
Keep reading to see the latest updates from Timothée Chalamet's Bob Dylan biopic A Complete Unknown.
- Timothée Chalamet stars in A Complete Unknown, coming to theaters December 25, 2024.
- He's joined by Elle Fanning and Monica Barbaro.
- The movie follows Bob Dylan's career in the 1960s as he rises to fame and later shifts from folk to rock'n'roll.
Did Timothée Chalamet take inspiration from Austin Butler’s Elvis?
Timothée Chalamet recently revealed that while he originally wanted to approach A Complete Unknown by taking direct inspiration from Bob Dylan, he quickly changed his tone...so to speak. "Somebody once said to me, you can't make a movie about a painter because it's not interesting to watch paint dry," he says in People's exclusive video. "Bob has that element because he's not one of these forward-facing musicians."
While Timmy saw Natalie Portman a sequence in Jackie "step-for-step exactly what Jackie did," and paid attention to "all this stuff that I saw my good friend Austin Butler crush it with on Elvis," he quickly realized "I gotta do none of this because this is not my style."
"Bob did not have a vocal coach," he continues. "He had two bottles of red wine and four packs of cigarettes. There's no way to impersonate that." One of my favorite things about biopics is seeing how a well-known actor portrays a recognizable figure. And you can see Timothée Chalamet's interpretation of Bob Dylan in theaters December 25!
Monica Barbaro Sings Her Heart Out
We got a look at Monica Barbaro as singer-songwriter Joan Baez, who was one of the first major artists in the 1960s to record Bob Dylan's music!
I was super impressed to learn Timothée showed up and sang live for the film. "It was important for me to play and sing on set because it was in the spirit of the movie to do it live," he says in a video from People. "Many of the artists through American pop culture that had the balls to turn their back on what was expected of them, that moment started with Bob. His words are relevant; 'Times They are A Changing' ' is relevant, 'Blowin' in the Wind' is relevant."
Elle Fanning and Timothée Chalamet In "A Complete Unknown"
Elle Fanning totally embodies the late '60s vibe in this fall outfit. The bold maroon blazer, the long straight hair, and the striped turtleneck — I love it all! Elle is starring this Bob Dylan movie as Sylvie Russo, a university student and artist Bob falls for in the '60s.
Thanks to some onset leaks, we also got a glimpse of the movie's version of The Freewheelin'! Elle Fanning and Timothée Chalamet look incredible as Sylvia Russo and Bob Dylan. I'm a sucker for any kind of recreation, so seeing this new version of the classic record cover is incredible!!
The First Pictures From Timothée Chalamet's Bob Dylan Movie
Timothée Chalamet has totally transformed into Bob Dylan on the set of A Complete Unknown. And when I saw the pictures of Timothée carrying the guitar my jaw dropped!! He completely engrossed himself in Wonka and Dune 2 and I'm so excited to see him do the same for this Bob Dylan movie.
What is the movie about Bob Dylan called?
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A Complete Unknown Plot
Timothée Chalamet's Bob Dylan movie is called A Complete Unknown. The movie filmed around New York City in the spring of 2024, and James Mangold is serving as director (you might recognize his name from Logan, Girl, Interrupted, and Walk the Line). The movie will cover the period during the 1960s when Bob Dylan shifted from folk to rock'n'roll, changing the face of pop culture (and culture in general, TBH), forever.
"When that movie finally comes out, people are going to be shocked because you're going to think you're hearing Bob Dylan sing," vocal coach Eric Vetro tells PEOPLE. "[Timothée Chalamet] just has this uncanny ability to not impersonate, but really breathe life into it. He's embodying Bob Dylan and what he was like at that age."
Who else is in A Complete Unknown with Timothée Chalamet?
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A Complete Unknown Cast
The A Complete Unknown cast is incredible! Alongside Timothée Chalamet as Bob Dylan, we'll see Top Gun: Maverick's Monica Barbaro as Joan Baez, Elle Fanning as Sylvie Russo, Edward Norton as Pete Seeger, Boyd Holbrook as Johnny Cash, and Nick Offerman as Alan Lomax.
When is the Bob Dylan movie coming out?
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A Complete Unknown Release Date
A Complete Unknown will hit theaters on December 25, 2024. And since Timothée Chalamet has been seen in turtlenecks, hats, and jackets on set, this sounds like the perfect cozy movie to me!
I always need some brand new music to listen to once the weather gets chilly, and I will for sure be listening to anything Timothée records.
What song did Bob Dylan write for a movie?
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Bob Dylan wrote "Things Have Changed" for the 2000 movie Wonder Boys, which starred Michael Douglas, Tobey Maguire, and Katie Holmes. This Bob Dylan song ended up winning the Academy Award for Best Original Songand the Golden Globe Award for Best Original Song!
"Knockin' On Heaven's Door," which is arguably the singer's most popular track, was released two months after the 1973 premiere of Pat Garrett and Billy the Kid as a part of the film's soundtrack.
What are some other Bob Dylan songs to listen to?
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I totally agree that one of the best Bob Dylan songs is "Knockin' On Heaven's Door," but "Blowin' In The Wind" and "The Times They Are A-Changin'" are also great songs to listen to if you're a new Bob Dylan fan. So far, "The Times They Are A-Changin'" is my personal favorite song.
His style is the perfect blend of rock and folk that reminds me of summer picnics and walks in the woods. His sound also reportedly inspired Taylor Swift's Folklore!
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If you're unsure what the Vanilla Girl Aesthetic is, it's all about clean lines, neutral colors, cozy vibes, and minimalist style. If you aren't a Vanilla Girl yourself, you've likely got a few of them on your holiday gift list, and this is the ultimate gift guide for them. Calming candles, cozy sweaters, and the cutest, trendiest socks are all on TikToker's top Vanilla Girl lists, so we've made sure to find the best versions of each to curate a well-rounded guide to gifting for your fave Vanilla Girl.
Thanks for reading about our favorite finds from across the internet! FYI: We participate in affiliate programs and may get a share of the revenue from your purchase.These Socks Are a Luxury for Your Feet
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These fuzzy socks are just the right amount of soft and comfy without being too thick and sweaty. These are great for a day lying around the house but also look great poking out of a pair of boots.
See it on AmazonGive Them a Smooth Start With This Primer
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This No 7 primer is a brilliant option for your Vanilla Girl. The primer helps to even out skin texture and tone and gives a solid grip for your favorite foundation. It's made to give you that gorgeous, dewy look every time.
See it on AmazonThis Blanket Ladder Is a Vanilla Girl Must-Have
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This elegant blanket ladder is a great, Pinterest-beloved way to style and store all your favorite throw blankets. This ladder shows up all over the internet thanks to the effortless style it adds.
See it on AmazonPut Them In the Holiday Mood With This Candle
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Sure, Santa's Workshop might not be real, but this Homesick candle can help you feel like it is. The natural, woodsy smell and the minimalist design make it a great buy for your Vanilla Girl.
See it on AmazonVanilla Girls Love This Lighter
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If there's one thing a Vanilla Girl loves, it's a candle. This flameless lighter is a dream buy for the candle lover in your life, instantly lighting all their favorite candles with no flame required.
See it on AmazonEmbrace Exfoliation With This Sea Salt Scrub
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This amazing coffee salt scrub lets you get deep exfoliation and lasting hydration. The vanilla-scented scrub is a must for really embracing those weekly "everything" showers.
See it on AmazonThese Long Socks Are an Essential
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Any Vanilla Girl would love to have these extra-long socks. These cozy socks look fantastic with loafers and a skirt, but they can be styled in all sorts of ways with all sorts of outfits.
See it on AmazonThis No 7 Foundation Was Made for the Dewy Look
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This liquid foundation gives incredible coverage that looks and feels natural. You can wear this without worrying about the product settling into fine lines or feeling heavy and chalky.
See it on AmazonThis Woven Basket Softens Any Room
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You can use this woven basket as the base of a Vanilla Girl gift basket. Or, you can gift this basket as great storage for their favorite throw blankets; it helps soften up a room and makes it feel cozier.
See it on AmazonThese Flannel Sheets Are a Neutral Dream
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Keep the Vanilla Girl on your list warm and toasty with this set of flannel sheets. These are a great way to create the best possible cozy environment for spending time curled up with a good book.
See it on AmazonRelax and Unwind With This Weighted Blanket
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This knit weighted blanket is chunky, elegant, and a great way to relax and unwind when you've had a long day. The neutral color scheme makes it a great buy for the Vanilla Girl aesthetic.
See it on AmazonThis Bodywash Is Great for Sensitive Skin
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Smell like vanilla and roses with this gorgeous bodywash made for sensitive skin. The formula is lightly scented, so it won't irritate, and it leaves your skin smelling and feeling amazing.
See it on AmazonAdd Natural Radiance With This Illuminator
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Gift your Vanilla Girl this incredible Saie Illuminator and gift them the beautiful, radiant skin they're looking for. Minimal makeup required, minimal effort needed, but gorgeous, dewy results every time.
See it on AmazonThis Puffer Bag Was Meant for Chilly Days
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There's something about the puffer style that really works for the winter months. This puffer bag is one of our favorites, giving you all the storage space you need and more than enough style.
See it on AmazonCreate a Cozy Atmosphere With This Melter
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This warmer makes a fantastic gift for any friend, but especially for Vanilla Girls. Help them to create the coziest environment with this beautiful, elegant piece that looks good in any room.
See it on AmazonYou Can't Go Wrong With an Oversized Sweater
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This cozy sweater is the sort of piece you want to get lost in. Not only is it super comfortable and perfectly oversized, but it also comes in a range of beautifully minimalist and neutral colors.
See it on AmazonThese UGG Slippers Have Gone Viral
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TikTok can't get enough of these gorgeous UGG slippers. These are super stylish, look great with anything, and they've got thick soles, so you can wear them around the house or around town.
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Did you know the famous Stanley Quencher comes in gorgeous, neutral tones? This white mug has been at the top of the Vanilla Girl gift list for a while now, and it's always sold out, so be sure to snag it while you can.
See it on AmazonThese New Balance Shoes Are a Neutral Dream
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Not only are the cream New Balance 237 V1's a perfectly shaded dream, but they're also incredibly comfortable. Customers love how durable and supportive they are, whether they're running errands or running a track.
See it on AmazonThese Thick Socks Were Made for Cozy Days
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Add these thick socks to your Vanilla Girl gift basket. You might not think socks make a great gift, but these are so thoughtful, so comfortable, and so trendy that they're going to impress the recipient.
See it on AmazonThis Gold Chain Is Beautifully Dainty
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This gorgeous herringbone chain can be styled with absolutely anything in their wardrobe, any day. It makes a great starter for a necklace stack or looks elegant and bold all on its own.
See it on AmazonThis Oversized Hoodie Is So Trendy
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The internet can't stop talking about this oversized hoodie. TikTok is full of girlies styling this hoodie with everything from skirts and cute heels or yoga pants and a great pair of fuzzy boots.
See it on AmazonThese Silken Pajamas Keep You Elegant While You Snooze
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These gorgeous silky pajamas are stylish, elegant, and they're great for lounging all day. If your Vanilla Girl is all about spending lazy days in bed, they're going to love these thoughtful jammies.
See it on AmazonThis Quilted Bag Set Is Stunning and Useful
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Gifting things that can be useful and stylish is the way to go. We love this gorgeous set of quilted makeup bags, and they're even better if you stash a few great Vanilla Girl makeup essentials inside before you wrap them.
See it on AmazonThis Candle Helps Them Keep Their Holiday Home Cozy
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We love this stunning soy candle. The cinnamon and vanilla blend turns their space into a warm haven they'll want to spend hours snuggled up in, reading books on a dreary, rainy day.
See it on AmazonThis Understated Necklace Is a Must
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You can't go wrong with minimal jewelry, and this understated necklace is one of our favorites. This gold heart adds a touch of sparkle and elegance to any outfit in your Vanilla Girl's wardrobe.
See it on AmazonThis Candle Looks and Smells Luxurious
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If you're creating a Vanilla Girl gift basket, this gorgeous matte candle is a great place to start. Both the scent and the look are luxurious and elegant and elevate any room you add it to.
See it on AmazonThis Oversized Sweater Looks Great With Jeans
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Honestly, this beautiful knit sweater looks great with anything, but we think it'll go best with jeans or leggings. This makes a really thoughtful gift for the girls in your life who like to keep it cozy wherever they go.
See it on AmazonThis Open Front Cardigan Is a Classic
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This cozy cardigan is a great addition to any wardrobe. The jacket looks great pulled over a loungewear set, styled with your work 'fit, or worn with your favorite go-to casual looks.
See it on AmazonThis Palette Gives a Soft, Glamorous Look
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This palette from Anastasia Beverly Hills has all the colors needed to create a dreamy, neutral, soft look. The glamorous colors are rich, pigmented, and blend beautifully for smokey looks.
See it on AmazonYour Bed Should Be Dreamy
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This duvet set adds a lovely neutral color, plenty of warmth, and tons of style to your bedroom, making your setup as dreamy and cozy as possible. This is essential for the Vanilla Girl in your life.
See it on AmazonGo for Baroque With This Necklace
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This necklace won't break the bank; it's a beautifully affordable way to add a dash of elevated glamor. This makes a great gift for the holidays and looks good with elegant necklace stacks.
See it on AmazonThese Cream Converse Look Just Casual Enough
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The best thing about these cream Converse is that they can be styled with anything in your wardrobe. The shoes are a classic that looks and feels comfortable and casual with your favorite dresses, jeans, and more.
See it on AmazonThis Cable Knit Sweater Is So Glamorous
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An oversized sweater is always a good idea, and we're pretty obsessed with this particular sweater. The cable knit makes it look dreamy and vintage, and the oversized fit gives it the boyfriend look.
See it on AmazonThis Highlighter Is Light and Bright
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Add a bit of dewy brightness to your makeup look with this Catrice liquid highlighter. This buy is great for adding to your Vanilla Girl gift basket, helping them get a beautiful, natural look in no time.
See it on AmazonWe Love This Puffer Jacket
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This gorgeous puffer jacket pairs well with practically anything. Your Vanilla Girl is going to want to live in this jacket; it feels as cozy as the bed they were forced to get out of this morning.
See it on AmazonThese Bedside Lamps Look Great in Any Room
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Overhead lighting is the bane of any Vanilla Girls' existence, which is what makes these beautiful little lamps such a great buy. They're elegant and easy to use, and your Vanilla Girl will love them.
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