What to Make This Weekend: Retro Lazy Susan, Rose Gold Headphones + More

Woot, woot, the long weekend is finally here! With Memorial Day weekend (and oh-so-many poolside mason jar mojitos) to look forward to, it’s time to grab those crafting supplies and get making. Savor all of your extra downtime by creating one (or a few) of these fun Memorial Day DIY projects for the most colorful holiday weekend ever. Whether you’re looking to amp up an old beach accessory, take your poolside style to the next level or create a cool pair of headphones for the ultimate staycation, here are 10 projects to tackle before Tuesday’s return.

1. DIY Typography Swimsuits: As soon as the sun comes out, it’s time to reassess your swimsuit collection. If you’ve been eyeing the typography trend this season, you’ll love this easy DIY. Make yourself two or three suits in 15 minutes and save yourself the designer price tag. (via Aww, Sam)

2. DIY Rose Gold Headphones: Everyone needs a pair of glam headphones in their workspace. Skip the hefty price tag of that rose gold pair you’ve been thinking about buying and grab a can of copper spray paint instead. (via Brit + Co)

3. DIY Retro Lazy Susan: Bring the lazy Susan back this summer and put a colorful new spin on pizza night. The best part about this project is that you can make this lazy Susan as big as you want so it fits perfectly on your dining table. (via Sugar & Cloth)

4. DIY Ombre Mason Jar Candles: If you’re planning a BBQ this weekend, you’re going to need some mood lighting. Nothing says “party” like plenty of candles, so grab your trusty ol’ friend mason jar and start painting on the stars and stripes. (via Brit + Co)

5. DIY Garden Stool: Whether you’re the #craftqueen or you’re kicking it in your personal garden paradise, you *need* this stool in your life. It’s multi-purpose, which means it’s the perfect addition to your small-space crafting paradise. (via Brit + Co)

6. DIY Color Splatter Earring Holder: Remember those clay cones you made for your rings? Now you can make a few more to display your favorite pairs of statement earrings. (via Enthralling Gumption)

7. DIY Patio Cooler Box: Nothing says party like a cooler full of cold drinks, and with this rad DIY you can take the refreshments from the beach to the patio, no problem. Plus the legs and typography make this stand way cuter than any old cooler your dad handed down to you. (via Brit + Co)

8. DIY Beaded Gift Wrap: With graduation and Father’s Day all coming up, you’re going to need some fun gift-wrap ideas on hand. Use wire to make the zig-zag pattern or just tie on a string of beads like ribbon. (via Tell Love and Party)

9. DIY Wire Bracelets: Treat your bridesmaids to a gift they’ll actually use and love. Wire bracelets are easy to make and even easier to personalize for all the main ladies in your life. (via Brit + Co)

10. DIY Lace-Up Pom Pom Sandals: There’s no stopping the pom pom trend, and that’s fine by us. Give last year’s sandals a colorful makeover with lots of beads and pom poms. (via I Spy DIY)

What are you most excited to make this weekend? Show us your project by tagging us on Instagram + using the hashtag #iamcreative!

Brand-new gift sets, foodie gifts, beauty gifts, and the like are sure to bring joy this year, but if you're planning to give something with a personal twist, handmade gifts are *the* way to go. The possibilities are truly endless when you employ your creativity and craft items that your gift recipients have maybe seen (or received) before – hats, cards, coasters, picture holders, and more await.

Check out these entirely homemade gifts that will spark your next holiday idea! Some components of these handmade gifts can even be thrifted, saving you some cash along the way.

Here are the best handmade gift ideas to give your loved ones this holiday season.

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1. Start simple and make them a personalized card.

Nothing communicates your love, time, and effort behind a gift more than personalized cards. Even if you can’t DIY the gift itself, having a handmade card (with a thoughtful message inside) as a prelude to the unwrapping ritual will touch everyone’s heart. Make sure to craft yours on some hardy cardstock so they feel *extra* special. Peep some of these stellar holiday card ideas for inspiration!

@miascozycorner i inadvertently seem to have to fallen into a purple theme?? #christmascrafts#diychristmasdecor#diychristmasornaments#claycreations#tiktokdiy#christmas♬ original sound - mia 🍒

2. Sculpt some cutie gift toppers.

Handmade gift wrapping elements will also step up your holiday game. These darling little gift toppers that @miascozycorner made out of polymer clay are sure to inspire your own designs! Decorate the shapes you make with paint pens and coat them in Liquitex for durability, then attach them to your gift box or bag using some cute ribbon or yarn.

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3. Use air-dry clay to make picture holders.

Clay is your BFF for making handmade gifts. This idea from @rileyrosestudio lets your giftee display pictures, memories, cards, or even recipe cards in the form of their favorite food! Go for a trendier take by sculpting an olive or tomato out of air-dry clay, or opt to craft something as intricate as a burger or pizza slice – no matter what shape it is, they’re sure to love it. Riley usesgesso to prime her air-dry clay pieces, then an acrylic sealant to make sure those lovely designs stay put.

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4. Make an orange garland for them.

A dried orange garland takes an entire day (and sometimes more) to make, so your recipient should definitely feel special knowing you put hours of love into this handmade gift. Though they look intricate, you only need to follow a few steps (and have few materials: orange slices, twine, and a thick yarn needle) to achieve the cozy garland. Luckily, there are tons of citrus garland tutorials on social media to assist in your creation. B+C Creative Assistant, Meredith, tied cutie little pink ribbon bows on her homemade garland.

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5. Craft a candle holder using clay.

You could use a pottery kitlike these convenient ones to make anything, really, but this wavy candelabra from @modeletto.store will make one of the most unique handmade gifts! Don’t forget to *also* gift somecandlesticks alongside it.

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6. Make coasters out of air-dry clay and gift them alongside thrifted glassware.

To make some handmade coasters, roll out some air-dry clay, let it dry, and coat it with gesso before you get to painting! The canvas is yours with this gift idea, but here are a few concepts to get the creative juices flowing: smiley faces, rainbows, spirals, initials, and fruits or vegetables. Ensure that your hard work stays in place with a sealant that’ll repel moisture. Some thrifted glassware pieces to give alongside your handmade coasters would be the absolute cherry on top!

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7. Create a collage out of old magazines.

Magazines are really not hard to come by, and if you're looking for a sustainable gift, you can find some especially unique ones at re-sell bookstores or thrift stores to make your own collage. Some of the best ones to start with are Vogue and National Geographic. There are a lot of different techniques and themes you could run with, so we recommend doing some visual research on Pinterest beforehand to nail down your collage's concept. Maybe it's full of imagery that reminds you of your relationship, or a jumble of words that form a sweet poem – it's really up to you! Just have glue, an X-Acto knife, and a cutting board on-hand for the process. Complete this artsy handmade gift by signing your work and framing the collage in a nifty frame.

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8. Thread a handmade necklace using thrifted or secondhand beads.

Got a necklace you don’t love? Deconstruct that baby using small wire cutters or scissors so that you can use the leftover beads and charms to make something entirely new! If you don’t have them on-hand already, you will need some beading cord, bead clamps, jump rings, clasps, and pliers.

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9. DIY your very own body care line.

Making your own body scrubs or balt salts is *a lot* easier than you’d think. Some recipes only call for ingredients you’d find in your kitchen! Make a range of self-care products at home, then package them up in thrifted jars with ribbon and a handmade tag to really impress.

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10. Repurpose cans and tins by pouring candles into them.

Fish tin candles are in, but you can really use any vessel to pour your own candles in. All you need is some candle wax, wicks, and a scent of your choice to create something super unique! Try your first handmade candle with an empty, clean tinned fish tin, then get adventurous with soda cans or crushed tomato cans to bring out that Tomato Girl energy for your gift recipient.

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11. Make a batch of jam.

If foodie gifts are their thing, then there’s no better item to give than, well, food! We have an amazingly tasty fig jamrecipe, but you can take the reins on what fruity flavor you’ll whip up. This is a convenient handmade gift, too, because the result won’t go bad or spoil before the big day.

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12. Make a batch of spice mix.

In the same vein of shelf-stable foodie-snacky gifts, spice mixes are always a good idea, and really easy to make at home. Mix together some cajun seasoning, all-purpose seasoning, ranch, or everything bagel seasoning in no time before packing it up in small thrifted jars to gift!

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13. Make a batch of chili oil.

Chili oil is very buzzy at the moment, but instead of dropping a bag on a single jar, make your own at home to yield a few! Our recipe uses neutral oil, star anise, cinnamon stick, bay leaves, Sichuan peppercorns, salt, chili flakes, garlic and soy sauce.It only takes a moment to make, but you’ll want the mixture to sit for a week or so, that way the nuanced flavors can all sink in. You could even gift a few recipe cards (like these delectable feta fried eggs) alongside a jar, since chili oil is exceptionally yummy on a ton of dishes.

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14. Knit or crochet a hat, scarf, or another garment you know they’d like.

Having knitting and/or crochet skills is invaluable when it comes to gifting season. You can easily find patterns online for creating beanies, blankets, scarves, leg warmers, balaclavas, mittens, and more, so your giftee can stay stylishly warm beyond the holidays in a bespoke garment that *you* made!

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15. Make magnets out of air-dry clay for their fridge.

Again, air-dry clay rules the world of handmade gifts. For a smaller project, make some fridge decorations by painting on air-dry clay shapes. You can make hearts, stars, foods, faces, animals, and more! To make your designs magnetized, super glue some small magnet tabs on the back of them.

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16. Paint a glass bottle with your own design to gift a plant cutting.

You can easily thrift a glass vessel (or use one you already have), paint a unique design on it using glass paint, then fill it with a little bit of water to gift a small plant cutting! This way, you’re giving them a stylish home decor piece along with a heirloom piece of nature that they’ll admire every day as it grows.

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17. DIY an ornament (or a few) for them.

Tree ornaments are 100% on-theme for the holidays, so if you feel a little lost on what to gift, try DIY-ing some ornaments of varying styles! We have some DIYs for punnyones and minimalistones, but there are also a ton of other tutorials on social media that can guide you in the direction you want to take.

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18. Burn a CD full of tracks they’d like.

It may seem a little old-school now, but the gift idea of burning a CD will appeal to every gift recipient that’s old enough to remember portable CD players. They can play it in their car or through their at-home speaker system to jam out. Just grab a pack of blank CDs that come with covers, and let the nostalgic process take you away.

In addition to making your own playlist to gift, you should definitely consider designing an album cover and tracklist for that personalized touch – platforms like Canva are a great option for doing this. The music-lover in your life will surely appreciate the time you took to craft each and every detail of the CD – and maybe they’ll even discover some new tunes along the way!

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19. Bake them a big batch of cookies.

You just can’t go wrong with sweets during the holidays! Whatever form they come in – vegan, gluten-free, paleo – cookies are sure to satisfy your giftee. We have a ton of recipes you could check out (I highly recommend the Taylor Swift chai cookies), but if you already have a method to your madness, whip up whatever dessert recipe you have in mind. Just make sure they’re fairly fresh when you hand them over.

If you don’t have a neat cookie tin on-hand, run to your nearest thrift store. It’s guaranteed that you’ll find a cute one to house your cookies!

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20. Decorate a plant pot with pops of color.

If your gift recipient has a green thumb, it’s not a bad idea to gift them a few plant-related things. Luckily, handmade gifts have a stake in this – just grab a terracotta pot (you can easily thrift one or find one for cheap at the dollar store) and some chalk pens, then decorate the exterior however you like.

To get some ideas flowing, you could include illustrated motifs of your relationship with this person, write their name out in bubble letters, or just doodle random designs. Matching their interior design aesthetic is definitely recommended.

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Some old-school Christmas traditions, like caroling and sipping hot chocolate by a crackling fire, bring all the childhood nostalgia feels, while others — fruitcake, anyone? — are perhaps best left in the past. Technology has changed how we celebrate the holidays a lot. But these old-school traditions remind us of the joy of slowing down, baking and making and reading and writing, and savoring the true spirit of the season. Will you bring any of these back to your holiday celebration?

Check out these 12 throwback Christmas traditions!

Handwritten Cards

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With the rise of digital cards from online retailers like Moonpig, who will print them out and mail them for you, you rarely see a handwritten holiday card anymore. As a writer, I so appreciate one! As a busy mom, though, I also appreciate being able to click and send 40 cards to family and friends instantly, lol.

Newspaper Wrapping

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Granted, the news isn't exactly full of cheer these days and not everyone gets their news in print anymore, but this is such a sustainable choice to new one-use wrapping paper! And @englishstamp makes it so cute to recycle with fun stamp ideas.

Ice Skating On A Pond

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I had this childhood fear forever of falling into a frozen pond, but maybe because I now live in California I have nostalgia for this crazy idea. For now, ice skating rinks will have to do!

Door-to-Door Caroling

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I'm sure they exist somewhere, but never in my life have I been greeted at the door by carolers. Maybe the pandemic cancelled that tradition? Seems like a fun, neighborly idea but I wonder if we are so divided and distrusting of each other that we'll see this less and less. Still, I'm going to be an optimist here and say let's bring back the door-to-door carolers!

Darning Stockings

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Sewing has become a bit of an old art, but long ago apparently people would fix and reuse their stockings instead of buying new. I love the idea of making heirloom stockings you pass on for generations.

Handmade Gifts

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With Amazon Prime Days and Black Friday, it's so easy to check out in minutes with your list fully crossed off. But there's also something sweet about taking the time to bake or make something for friends and family. Maybe a homemade candle isn't as exciting as a new tech gadget, but it could be a way to bond with friends for a holiday craft night and/or gift exchange. Here are Unique Handmade Gifts to try this year!

Neighborhood Snowball Fights

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Organized neighborhood snowball fights used to be a thing, and movies like Elf make us nostalgic for the tradition. There's nothing like an impromptu snowball fight to make us belly laugh and bond.

Candle-Lit Trees

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Candlelit trees are a tradition that dates back to 17th century Germany, but it has fallen out of favor because, well, fire hazard?! Maybe we keep this one in the past.

Tinsel

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Long before the bow craze, there was tinsel. Crazy amounts of tinsel tossed all over your tree. You can't compost a real tree with it and it has a sort of tacky vibe that has also put it on the Christmas tradition chopping block. Plus, it's like glitter - it never fully goes away!

Fruitcake

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The Christmas fruitcake has taken a backseat to the so many delicious Christmas dessert recipes you can choose from and has become sort of a holiday movie punchline. Also, is that even fruit?!

Holiday Bonuses in Cash

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Cash bonuses! Ha. Most of us don't even use cash anymore, or live near our bosses in order to get a hand-delivered bonus. I expect we won't see the return of cash bonuses in the near future.

Reading On Christmas Eve

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My mom always reminds us that on Christmas Eve, Icelanders exchange books as gifts and read them together while enjoying holiday treats. We never actually repeat this tradition, although I sense it's coming soon. These days everyone is so glued to their phones that taking a book break doesn't happen so easily, but why not?! Fireplace optional.

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Once you've got your red, white and blue ice cream, Pinterest-perfect decorations and all your best buddies, the only thing your Fourth of July BBQ needs is a solid selection of lawn games. If you grew up playing horseshoes, corn-hole and bocce ball, bring back those childhood faves with a modern twist!

As you're prepping your Independence Day activities, spruce up an old board game with a psychedelic paint job, or turn an old classic into a giant-sized adventure that kids of *all ages* will love. Once you're done, it's game time (after you Instagram it, of course)! Keep reading for 15 fun DIY games that will make your Fourth of July party the hottest bash on the block!

DIY Lawn Dominoes

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Dominoes aren’t just for the card table anymore. Paint a set of wooden blocks with a splash of color that *screams* summertime, and you’ve got a weekend hit. (via Iron & Twine)

Giant Jenga

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Because everything is more fun when it's giant-sized. Paint the outer edge of the blocks with a few coats of colorful house paint to make the tower extra pretty, and get ready for a bit of fun competition among friends, fam, and kids. (via A Beautiful Mess)

Giant Scrabble

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A traditional game of Scrabble has 100 tiles (eek!), so you might want to consider cutting down on that a bit – unless you live for the game. Stock up on some wood tiles at your local hardware store, then use paint and stencils to get the letters on each tile. And don’t forget the points in the lower right corner! (viaConsider The Peel)

DIY Horse Shoes

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Embroidery thread isn’t just for friendship bracelets — it’s also for making the *cutest* set of horseshoes you ever did see. Start by spray painting the horseshoes and the stake, and then wrap them in a thread for a colorful, boho-chic look. (via Mr. Kate)

Flamingo Ring Toss Lawn Game

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This game could totally double as yard decor after the holiday weekend is over. If you have a nice grassy area available and you’re short on time (or are sticking to a budget), skip the pots and just stick the flamingos straight into the ground! Otherwise, fill some mini planters with sand or soil to keep your fun-loving flamingos upright. (via Sugar & Cloth)

DIY Lawn Checkers

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Just... ignore the funny looks the hardware guys give you when you stock up on a cartful of bucket lids. Spray paint half of them black for a traditional color palette, or shock your uncle with a snazzy set of pink and orange checker pieces. (via Jessie Daye)

DIY Color Block Games

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Make sure there’s a game station for *all* ages and interests at your party. While the rest of the crew is battling it out at the corn hole game, set up a couple of these rad color-dipped board games to keep everyone entertained. (via Brit + Co.)

DIY Lawn Matching Game

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This game is perf for the backyard — it’s made with cork tiles, so it’s totally reusable and light enough for the little ones to carry around. There are printables for all these symbols so you can have a summertime themed set, but feel free to get creative and come up with your own stencils. (via Studio DIY)

Yard Yahtzee

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Supersize this old-school game, and let the good times roll with these giant dice. This DIY even includes a free printable scorecard so you can refresh your memory on a winning strategy. (viaStyle Me Pretty)

Frisbee Tic-Tac-Toe

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The traditional version might not be cool enough for the kids, but give them a giant version, and they’ll be all over it. This game actually takes a lot of skill to get the frisbees to land *exactly* right. (via Better Homes & Gardens)

DIY Cactus Ring Toss Lawn Game

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Ring toss just got a very trendy upgrade. If you'd rather spend your budget on tasty snacks and cocktails, you'll love that this yard game is made out of nothing more than cardboard boxes and paint. Bonus: You can use these adorable cacti as home decor later on! (via Brit + Co.)

DIY Bocce Balls

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When it comes time to bust out the bocce balls, make sure your color scheme is *on point* and in full patriotic form. Spruce up an old set of bocce balls with a starry makeover and a fresh coat of paint. (via Brit + Co.)

DIY Star-Spangled Yard

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Give your lawn the star-spangled treatment for Fourth of July weekend. And don't panic: it's not *actual* paint. Cut a star shape from a piece of cardboard, spray the grass lightly with water, and use a flour sifter to fill the shape with flour. The stars should last until your sprinklers wash them away. (via Better Homes & Gardens)

4th Of July Tic-Tac-Toe

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Bring along this little game to your neighborhood block party, and get ready for it to be an instant hit. You can use any sized letters for this DIY, but the bigger the letters are, the more fun (and photogenic) it will be. (via Hey, Let's Make Stuff!)

Custom Cornhole Game

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This game is practically a requirement at all summer festivities. You can totally DIY it from scratch, or you can try this simple makeover for your very own custom set. (via Brit + Co.)

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Like many autumn-loving millennials, I grew up watching Gilmore Girls religiously, and I'm not embarrassed to say Lorelai and Rory had a major influence on my formative years. While my GG viewing journey began in my beachy Florida hometown, dreaming of small-town Connecticut vibes where it’s inexplicably always fall, I continued watching via reruns — and eventually Netflix — for the next two decades.

However, this year something shifted. Suddenly, I didn’t relate to Lorelai and Rory in the way I used to. Situations where I was previously 100% on their side (ahem, Mitchum), I see things more clearly (except the yacht situation — that was never cool, Rory!). Which makes sense, as my first viewing was around Rory’s age...and I’m now 32, Lorelai’s age at the start of the series. I’ve always heard that wisdom comes with age, so here are 25 thoughts I have rewatching Gilmore Girls as an adult.

Having A Baby At 16 (& Raising Her On Your Own) Is Huge

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It’s actually a pretty big deal — not just a funny one-liner. During my first viewing, it felt like teen pregnancy was everywhere in pop culture, and I didn’t fully comprehend why some characters made a big deal over Lorelai’s age while others just laughed along. But as a newly minted 32-year-old, I couldn’t imagine having a 16-year-old child right now! Let alone raising one very well from the time I was just 16 myself! Definitely impressive of young (and adult) Lorelai!

Lorelai Was Right To Turn Chris Down

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As a hopelessly romantic teen who desperately wanted a cute boyfriend, I thought love was all you needed. And I was extremely confused by Lorelai’s rejection of Chris’s proposal in the first season. He said he loved her and wanted to be a family — shouldn’t that be enough? But alas, he wasn’t ready for a commitment, and Lorelai knew it. Trusting your gut is a big part of growing up.

Max Medina Wasn’t *That* Great

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I always thought Max’s proposal was incredibly romantic. He did exactly what Lorelai wanted — 1,000 yellow daisies (definitely more than 1,000 TBH) and had a beautiful speech prepared, which he delivered….over the phone? It’s honestly pretty strange that he wasn’t there in person. Proposals are so personal, and his just felt disconnected. It’s no wonder Lorelai had trouble making up her mind!

Emily And Richard Aren’t As Mean As Lorelai Makes Them Out To Be

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Sure, they can be harsh and difficult, and they're clearly still hurt over the past. But so are Lorelai and Rory, whether or not the show wants to admit it. But this is life and all humans are flawed, and Lorelai isn’t the victim that I always believed she was.

Lorelai And Rory Are SO Codependent

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I always thought their relationship was perfect, but it’s honestly not too healthy for either of them. We know Lorelai’s emotional growth is stunted due to having to be an adult from a young age, but maybe their relationship explains why Rory isn’t as well-adjusted as she should be either.

Richard’s Attack On Dean Wasn't Malicious

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For years, I thought Richard was such a jerk for this, but as an adult...I can see his intentions are in the right place. We're all the sum of who we spend the most time with, so the company we keep is important. However, his delivery probably could’ve waited until after dinner.

Naming A Baby After Yourself Is Pretty Bad*ss

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Though it’s mentioned in the show a few times — often played as a joke or a quirky character trait — I kind of love that Lorelai went for it and named her baby Lorelai, too. Men have been doing this for years, and I wish more women would as well. It’s such a cool, forward-thinking choice, especially for a young girl in the 80's!

Pride Is Great...Unless You Let It Hinder Your Life

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Another example of Lorelai playing the victim: When she wanted a bank loan, Emily knew that Lorelei would need a co-signer and showed up for her despite their differences, without intentionally making her feel bad. Instead of accepting the help, Lorelai assumed her mom was out to get her (?) and almost cost herself the opportunity to get some much-needed funding, all because of her relentless insistence of doing it all on her own. The lesson? Don’t be so shortsighted and quick to assume.

Christopher Somehow *Always* Makes The Worst Decisions

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In season 2, he wasn’t being romantic by giving Lorelai the pearl necklace for her graduation, and I refuse to see this gesture as such. He was still dating Sherry, and that totally sent mixed signals.

A little later, when Christopher and Lorelai finally give it a go for real, he finds out Sherry is pregnant and decides to marry her instead. Let me just say...there's no universe where this was the right thing to do! Besides breaking Lorelai’s (and Rory’s!) hearts, he entered into a loveless marriage, doing a disservice to both Sherry and Gigi.

Paris Was On To Something With Her Quest To Uncover The Dark Side Of Small Towns

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This was played for laughs, and as a tween in 2001, I thought it was ridiculous. However, in today’s climate...it’s not too difficult to imagine the dark side of a small town — despite how charming and idyllic it may look on the surface.

Emily’s Desire To Find A Maid She Likes Is *Sorta* Fair

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Yes, she’s not warm and fuzzy, but Emily Gilmore knows what she wants. I once thought she was a mean dictator, but her monologue in relation to the lawsuit clears it up: If you’re paying for a service, you demand that service (i.e. coach vs first class on a plane). If someone is working in your home, it’s all the more important to get the chemistry and personality fit right, as opposed to a traditional office environment.

Logan’s Family’s Opinion Of Rory Wasn't Too Far Off

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Although Logan’s family’s disapproval of Rory when they meet her at dinner is unexpected, it’s definitely not as out of the blue as I originally thought. Logan’s family knows Richard and Emily well, and they’re likely well aware of Rory’s career aspirations, which is the main point of contention. Although Logan’s mother and grandfather are extremely clear about this, Rory can’t get past thinking it’s a class issue. I will never not cringe at hearing her exclaim “but I’m a Gilmore?!?!” Whether we like it or not, compatibility of lifestyles and goals play a huge role in whether a couple has a successful future together — Logan’s parents were just looking out for him, misguided as they may have been.

Michum’s Offer For An Internship Was Thoughtful

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Rory initially rejects this very generous offer for a fantastic opportunity that will help further her career ambitions, all because she believes it wasn’t extended for the right reasons (out of guilt over the dinner). Mitchum’s response “So what? Life is full of opportunities….” is so spot on. It doesn’t matter why — just take advantage of what’s in front of you! Maybe if Rory wasn’t so uncomfortable using her connections, she would have been a more successful journalist.

So Maybe Mitchum Was A Little Right About Rory

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I so clearly remember being confused by how the Mitchum internship went down. But she’s Rory, how could she *not* have what it takes?! But now, as a college grad who successfully completed 14 internships during undergrad and has worked in communications for almost a decade, I completely understand where he’s coming from.

If you rewatch these episodes, you’ll see the light as well. In the scene right before Mitchum has the talk with Rory, he’s running an editorial meeting and she’s sitting in. He mentions the paper can find students (like Rory, who writes for the Yale Daily News) at local colleges (like Yale) to freelance for the paper, and Rory stayed silent. That was her moment to impress him by raising her hand and volunteering, and it was also the moment when he decided she didn’t have what it takes to be a journalist. Looking at it now, she was very clearly missing the drive; the “not knowing if she could speak up because she’s just an intern” schtick? Any budding journalist would have raised their hands so quickly for a shot at a byline on a real paper.

While all of Rory’s growth at the paper was great — learning names, getting coffee orders correct — she was essentially growing into a secretary, not a journalist. And there’s nothing wrong with that, but it’s a very different skillset.

TL;DR she didn't have what it takes, he knew it, and he did her a favor (as she tried to do with the ballerina, however harsh it was.)

Rory’s Harsh Ballet Review Was Actually Symbolic

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Shortly after Rory returns to Yale, she’s tasked with reviewing a ballet performance. She hates the performance and decides to eviscerate the ballerina in her review, only feeling guilty *after* the she’s confronted. By the episode’s end, Rory realizes that truthful reviews are important and it’s better that the ballerina finds out now so she can pursue something else instead. This make sense, but for some reason Rory can’t seem to connect her harsh review with Mitchum’s, despite very recently being on the receiving end of a well-meaning (but harshly received) review. Effectively, Rory became the Mitchum, illustrating that she’s grown thicker skin and isn't afraid to hurt feelings when she needs to.

Luke Telling Rory That He And Lorelai Are Engaged Was...Off

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I wanted our girls to make up as much as the next serial rewatcher, but this was not it. Luke inserting himself in the middle of Rory and Lorelai during their fight and telling Rory that they’re engaged is so misguided and inappropriate. And then proceeding to flip out at Lorelai, because their fight is inconveniencing him? Let’s add Luke to the list of emotionally immature characters on this show.

Lorelai Planning The Entire Wedding In One Day Is SO Unrealistic

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As a tween this seemed normal, but as an adult who just spent two years (!) planning their own wedding, I can confirm it’s totally unrealistic.

Also, getting married in a church is an absolutely bizarre choice for someone who isn’t at all religious (as we learned in Sookie’s baptism episode). And why would she pick out Luke’s tuxedo, without him even trying it on?

I get that weddings are inherently “girly” and not Luke’s thing, but your partner should have some involvement in the planing process (at the very least, maybe get their opinion on the venue and tux?!). These are big financial decisions that should not be made alone (she put down non refundable deposits and booked dates before checking with him). I love Luke & Lorelai but upon rewatching, they were never on the same page — which is so evident here.

Dave Rygalski Was A Pathological Liar

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I used to think he was the perfect guy, and it took me a long time to see the light. Never forget how he jumped through all those hoops for Lane! But as an adult who has dealt with *many* too-good-to-be-true suitors, it’s shocking how easy it was for him to lie to Mrs Kim. I genuinely think Dave is a pathological liar, and definitely not someone you want to be with forever, which brings us to…

Zack Was Actually A Great Guy

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Truthfully, I always thought he was a loser who was obsessed with everything being “so rock and roll.” But he was actually always totally real and upfront about who he was, which is something that Mrs. Kim was able to respect despite their differences.

Richard Was The Real Villain Of Emily’s LASIK Surgery

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I fully expected to feel like Lorelai was in the wrong during my most recent rewatch (although she’s no angel here — you're mom can’t see, stop complaining and help her out!), but the real villain here is Richard. Who leaves their wife for a business trip after a botched eye surgery? He’s back at the firm by this point (a global company) and could have easily had someone else step in to take the meeting instead.

Rory Dropping Out Of Yale Wasn't The Worst Thing Ever

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As a teen, this seemed crazy. Why would Rory give up on her dream and throw her life away?! But as an adult who, like Rory, went through personal trauma during her college years, took time off, and eventually went back and finished school, I see things differently now. Success is not linear, and everyone’s path is different. When you’re that focused, it’s even more important to take a breather and recalibrate.

Mrs Kim’s Parenting Skills Shine When Lane And Rory Both Face Setbacks

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I love Rory and Lorelai’s relationship (it’s so similar to mine and my own mother’s!), but they didn't respect each other’s opinions when they disagreed. From Lorelai freezing Rory out after she wanted to give up and take time off of Yale (again, just a semester — and so not a big deal!) to Rory refusing to hear out Lorelai’s side and listen to her advice, this feels off for two people who love each other so much. Especially when juxtaposed with Lane’s and Mrs. Kim’s drama on-going in the same episode.

At the end of season 5, Lane also wanted to give up on her dream (being a drummer in Hep Alien) and move back home, but Mrs. Kim surprised us all by stepping up and proclaiming, “So you’re giving up? Then you are not the daughter I raised!” And she proceeds to help Lane and the band go on tour across the East Coast. Even if it’s not the vision Mrs. Kim had for her only daughter, she’d rather have a happy daughter than a miserable one who accepts defeat.

Lane and her mother always had a different dynamic than the other mother/daughter duos on the show. While they’re not as close as Rory and Lorelai, Mrs. Kim always had her daughter’s respect. It’s interesting how Lane and Rory both experienced setbacks and wanted to give up their dreams, but Mrs. Kim ultimately stepped up while Lorelai lost touch with her daughter for months.

Season 7 Christopher Was A CATCH

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Younger me hated Christopher for coming between Luke and Lorelai (really though, that was all Lorelai), but Christopher achieved excellent character development over the course of seven seasons. He truly gets Lorelai, from planning the perfect date to involving her in his life in a real way, which Luke was never able to do. They may not have been endgame but he was great for that moment in time.

The Abortion Convo...Er, Lack Thereof

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Lane gets pregnant at 22, and she explicitly says she isn’t ready for the baby and that there’s so much more she wants to do first before kids. Lane is a small town girl, so she may not have known her options, but she has a worldly best friend who’s sexually experienced, well-traveled, and Ivy League educated.

So what wonderful advice does Rory give her friend in distress? She assures her that she will be a GREAT mom and to stop worrying. This is uncomfortably tone deaf, and a real way that Rory failed Lane as a friend and fellow woman.

In a later conversation, Zach and Lane both agree that they’re broke, totally unprepared, and that “this baby sucks.” But they just decide to suffer through it and don’t discuss any other options.

As a teen with limited life experience, this made sense during my first viewing. But as an adult woman in a post-Roe v Wade world, I’m floored this storyline was ever approved without even the slightest mention of the A-word.

Judging Sherry Was Way Harsh

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Personally, I cringe every time Lorelai and Rory bring up the point that “mani-pedi-twice-a-week Sherry” can’t possibly be a good mom. I know she’s supposed to be the villain who “stole” Christopher from Lorelai —only for us to later see things through Christopher’s POV only — but these characterizations did not age well. Realistically, Sherry is a career-driven woman who screwed up and married a guy who’s an absent father to both of his children — and she finally decided to put herself first.

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This post has been updated.

Latte makeup's twin sister, espresso makeup, has been gaining popularity ever since Danielle Marcan's viral TikTok video on how to do the look. So, what is espresso makeup? Much like what it sounds, it blends shades of brown and black to create a delicious look that looks and feels like a strong, invigorating shot of coffee. They say caffeine has dopamine-releasing properties; we can't vouch for that, but the Espresso makeup look is sure to give you all the good feels. Double-shot, please.

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A Power Primer That Grips the MakeUp

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Any makeup look should start with the skin and with hydrating it well. This is especially true in winter when just a morning moisturizer is not enough to give the skin all the nourishment it needs. This Elf power grip primer hydrates, smooths, and grips the makeup. It has a translucent finish and is non-comedogenic, so there is no acne or clogged pores.

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A Skin Tint for a Sheer and Matte Finish

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Another option is to use a skin tint—a primer—with a bit of color, as Danielle does in the video. The goal is for the skin to look matte and sheer. Enriched with squalane, vitamin E, safflower, and avocado oils, which lock in hydration, this moisturizer offers sheer to light coverage with golden, neutral undertones - exactly the ones we're after. Put this on generously, knowing that it's good for you.

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The Foundation for More Medium Coverage

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If you want better coverage, the Maybelline oil-free foundation still offers that natural matte look while allowing more build-up. Its oil-free formula makes it great for oily or acne-prone skin. It's available in 40 shades, so you're sure to find the tone to best suit your skin.

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Thank Me Later Eye Primer to Make the Eyeshadow and Pencil Stick

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An eyeshadow primer will help your eyeshadow and pencil stick for longer and prevent creasing. Simply apply a pea-sized amount with your ring finger to your eyelid and wait for a couple of seconds for it to dry before proceeding with the rest of the eye makeup.

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Estee Lauder's Double Wear Foundation for, Well, a Double Wear

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Another really good foundation is the Estee Lauder double wear one. It has a matte finish and is famous for its long wear. Controls oil while also being oil-free.

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A Set of Sponges in Different Shapes and Sizes to Help You Blend Like a Pro

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For the perfect espresso look, the skin needs to be even. This is best achieved with a sponge to help blend the concealer in all the right places, like under the eyes and around the T-zone. If you don't own one, this seven-piece set of pink sponges in a variety of shapes and sizes will help you blend like a makeup pro.

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A Concealer to Brighten the Skin Under the Eyes

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Concealer seems to make the most difference when it comes to makeup—and yes, even with this espresso look. The bright, even skin tone under the eyes helps to give the brown eyeshadow even more of a powerful and dramatic effect. This Maybelline concealer erases the look of dark circles, blemishes, and redness and gives a fresh, youthful look.

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Too Faced's Born This Way Concealer

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This Too Faced Born This Way natural-looking concealer is multi-use, so you can apply it on the entire face instead of using a foundation. It could also be used for contouring; see below for more on that.

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Contouring is Easy With This Contour Stick

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Contouring and bronzing are very important for the espresso look. This Sheglam contour stick makes contouring easy, even if you've never watched a tutorial on it. Simply apply vertical stripes under the hollows of your cheekbones, on the sides of your nose, and on the sides of your forehead and jawline. Blend in with a sponge or the contour applicator. Available in many shades.

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A Contouring Kit for Darker Skin

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This creamy contouring kit will help you do it all—contour, sculpt, and illuminate—all from a single palette. It is suitable for darker skin and has a creamy formula that won't dry you out.

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A Contour 'Wonder Stick' With a Highlighter

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This is a contour 'wonder stick' with a highlighter on one side as well. After you've applied the contour, apply the highlighter to the highest points of the face. It's super creamy and blendable.

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If You Prefer a Bronzer, Go With This TikTok-Viral One

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If you prefer a bronzer over a contouring stick, you can go with this TikTok viral long-wear bronzer by L'Oreal. It is lightweight and buildable with a matte finish. It promises a weightless feel for up to 24 hours. Apply to cheekbones, brow bones, bridge of the nose, and chin.

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A Bronzer to Add a Hint of Cocoa to Your Espresso (Look)

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Another bronzer that will add a note of cocoa to your espresso (look) is this Too Faced chocolate one. It's long-lasting, cruelty-free, and smells like chocolate!

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A Creamy Blush for Some Natural Radiance

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If the skin lacks natural radiance (it can often look quite pale at this time of year), use this blush to give a touch of color to the cheeks. Its creamy formula makes it even more blendable and natural-looking.

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A Powder Blush to Still Get Subtle Winter-Kissed Color

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If you'd rather use a powder blush than a stick, this shade in' Candy Clouds' will still give your cheeks a subtle, winter-kissed color while allowing for more buildup control.

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A Highlight Wand for Dewy Skin

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Danielle Marcan doesn't use a highlighter, but for all the highlighter fans who want that luminous and dewy skin glow, the espresso look can absolutely work with it, too. That's especially true with this highlight wand in champagne, which is buildable and blendable and allows you to add just a touch.

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This Highlighting Palette Is So Vibrant

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If you'd rather apply it with a brush, this highlighter palette is Amazon's choice and is available in five different shades. Choose "Sun Glow" if you'd like to stick to the darker tones or pearl if you want an icy winter spin on the look.

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A Setting Powder To Finish Off Your Look

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To complete the matte finish, dust some setting powder over the face. This Amazon choice by Covergirl is a good option. It's lightweight and with 100% natural-origin pigments. It also includes a soft, vegan applicator. Danielle Marcan advises not to apply too much powder so you can still see the natural radiance of the face.

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Say Bye Bye to Pores With This Setting Powder by It Cosmetics

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Another good setting powder is this Bye Bye Pores one by It Cosmetics. With hydrolyzed collagen that supports elasticity, antioxidants to defend against radical damage, and silk that smooths and softens the skin.

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This Brown Pencil Glides Right On

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Now we turn on the coffee machine and let it warm. We take the brown pencil. This one by Urban Decay glides on easily and is smudge-proof, transfer-proof, and waterproof. We apply it to half of the lid and then blend it on the rest of the lid with a brush. It should be applied to the lower lid as well.

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An Eyeshadow Brush to Blend With

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If you don't have a suitable eyeshadow brush to blend with, this set of brushes will ensure you have all the ones you could ever need for the most sophisticated eye makeup. It includes an eyeshadow brush, eyeliner, eye pencil, and blending brush.

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A Cocoa Eyeshadow Stick for Chocolate Notes

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A cocoa shade eyeshadow to apply on the rest of your upper eyelid. This waterproof eyeshadow stick with cocoa shimmer will give this espresso look just the right notes of chocolate (and some sprinkles on top). You can go as bold or understated as you like.

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A Brown Pencil in a Different Shade

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Since the brown pencil is one of the most important parts of this look, here's another one that offers a slightly different brown shade. It boasts a rich, hyper-pigmented color. It's Amazon's choice for a reason.

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An Eyeshadow Palette to Make Your Espresso (Look) as Strong as You Like

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This eyeshadow palette offers all the different shades of brown, so you can make your espresso (look) as strong as you like. They are creamy, rich, and blendable. Just the way you like your coffee.

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A Black Pencil to Contour the Eye

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The next step is to contour the eye with a black pencil. Apply over the lid and flick it slightly and in your waterline, too. This retractable liner looks super soft and easy to use. It boasts a super long wear.

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Or Do Things Your Way With an Ink Liner

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Alternatively, you can use a black ink liner for the upper lid. This one is waterproof and has a matte black finish, giving it a more feline look.

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A 2-in-1 Gel Eyeliner Set in Black and Brown

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If you'd rather use a gel eyeliner, this 2-in-1 set offers one in black and brown so you can choose how dark to go. It also includes two makeup brushes. Some find applying eyeliner with a brush slightly easier, especially the less dexterous among us.

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A Bold Mascara in a Chocolate Color

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The espresso look is best achieved with a bold mascara. This Too Faced mascara offers volume and length. It's available in a chocolate shade if you want to stay even more true to the espresso colors.

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Get Doll-Like Lashes With This Lengthening Mascara

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Another mascara that gives the eyes the doll-like look is this Cabaret lash-lengthening one. It allows you to easily build up for as dramatic a look as you want.

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Fake Eyelashes for Extra Glam

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If you are more of a fake eyelash fan or just want all the extra glam, you can still recreate the espresso look with some fake ones. These ones by KISS give amazing volume and length and, featuring the latest tapered end technology, look quite natural. They are easy to apply and contact lens-friendly. They are reusable up to ten times.

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A Lip Pencil in the 'Espresso' Shade

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Now, for the lips. Danielle uses a brown lip pencil. This one by Nyx in color, 'espresso,' seems to hit just the right shade (and name). It glides easily and resists bleeding.

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Go More Dark Pink With This Lip Crayon

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Or if you want a bit more color on the lips, you can also go slightly more pink with a dark pink lip crayon. This one has a long-lasting twelve-hour wear, is waterproof, and doesn't budge.

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A Lip Pencil in Nude Also Works

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A nude lip pencil combined with lip gloss gives the ultimate pout. Charlotte Tilbury's Pillow Talk is one of the most sought-after shades for a reason. This pencil is travel size, so it is perfect to take with you and reapply as needed.

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Or Use a Brown Brow Pencil for the Lips

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In her TikTok video, Danielle actually uses her brow pencil for the lips. If you want to copy the trick, this one is a pale brown shade and a good go. You can also use it for the brows (obviously).

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This Brow Glue Gel to Help Them Stay in Place

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While on the topic of brows, this brow glue gel will help unruly brows stay in place, which tend to be all brows in winter (thanks, hats, and hoodies).

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Or This Wow Brow Gel That Also Gives Volume

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This wow brow gel will lock them in place while also giving extra volume. You can apply straight on the brow or go with a brow pencil to add color first.

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A Fairest Nude Color LipStick

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As for the lipstick, if you want to stay true to the espresso look to the very final step, go with a nude color like this fair nude one by L'Oreal Paris. It gives a creamy finish and hydrates the lips.

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The Lipstick With a Matte Finish

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If you would rather go with more matte lips but still hit the right tones, then this lipstick in natural color is the one for you. It will also help to accentuate the eyes.

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Still Nude but With a Lip Gloss

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Lip gloss is also an option, and you can still go nude with this butter gloss in the shade 'Madeleine.' Buttery, soft, and smooth, this gloss is non-sticky and delivers sheer to medium coverage.

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A Setting Spray to Make Your Look Last

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Once you've nailed the espresso look, finish off with a setting spray to make sure it stays in place to collect all the compliments. The spray is lightweight, extends makeup for up to 16 hours, and controls shine.

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