Brit + Co's Ultimate Self-Care City Guide


Brit + Co's Ultimate Self-Care City Guide

We all want to make the most of our limited vacation days, but it can be challenging to find the right balance between exploring and relaxing. It's easy to overbook ourselves when we finally get away, trying to see and do everything possible. Instead of just enjoying our free time, we end up stressed. That's why we created the Self-Care City Guide to help you plan the best of what to see, where to eat, and how to pamper yourself in some amazing destinations.

Atlanta Self-Care City Guide

Atlanta Self-Care City Guide

Atlanta Self-Care City Guide

Sure, Atlanta has its “Hotlanta” moments during the summer months but heading into fall and the rest of the year it’s pretty much outdoor bliss. Green spaces everywhere – and a rich cultural landscape to boot – make this city a walking, jogging, outdoor yoga-ing oasis. We hit the streets of the urban mecca (Georgia’s capital city) to recharge and relax with a healthy dose of sweet southern charm and food.

Piedmont Park

First stop: Piedmont Park, between Midtown and Virginia Highland ‘hoods, where we kicked off our morning workout with the Atlanta skyline in clear view. There's a reason Atlanta's billed as the City in the Forest. So. Many. Trees.

This 200 acres of parkland is popular with joggers and picnickers alike and is minutes from the Atlanta Botanical Garden, a must-see.

Atlanta Botanical Garden

Walk, skip, jump and connect with nature inside this ever-evolving outdoor garden. Get your chance to fall down the rabbit hole into the Imaginary Worlds: Alice’s Wonderland exhibit, on display through October 27.

‘Gram giant topiaries like a 27-foot White Rabbit inside an upside-down umbrella, a towering dragon and a Cheshire Cat, not to mention a walkable chessboard filled with heart-shaped trees. The first to find Alice wins the race!

Upbeet

A good morning workout deserves a good healthy lunch, which you can find when you head over to Upbeet, one of the “hottest fast-casual restaurants in the United States,” according to Zagat.

We got our clean and whole food fix with the Pretty in Pink smoothie bowl made with a base of pitaya (A.K.A. dragonfruit) and vanilla almond milk, topped with berries and hemp seed (oh my!). A side of Berries + Basil toast (amaze) filled us right up and gave us an easy breakfast go-to idea.


We topped off the meal with a house-made organic lemonade (pro tip: go for the kick of cayenne) and left feeling refreshed – all while giving our tootsies some highly earned R&R.

Jackson Street Bridge

For the best views of Atlanta’s cityscape head over to Jackson Street Bridge (of The Walking Dead fame) for a snap and a breather from an active day.

Comfortable shoes and layered outfits are a must for getting around town but we also want to look cute, right? Self-care = feeling and looking great. We packed a few sporty pieces that travel well, are totally versatile and make us feel like moving. These classic 3-Stripes Tights and Sports Bra kept us going from morning workout to walk around town. We just threw on this cropped pink Training Tee post-workout and took in the sights. And we never met a Cropped Hoodie we didn't like (so flattering). For a pop of color, this gold Postgame Crew Sweatshirt was fun to wear but also really functional. The French terry fabric was so soft but also light enough for late summer.


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3-Stripes Tights

Experience a whole new way to workout at Dick's Sporting Goods in Atlanta. Join women of all fitness levels at Fitsquad Atlanta, presented by adidas and Dick’s Sporting Goods, on September 14 (sign up here) at the Mt Vernon Hwy location and on October 19 (sign up here) at the Ernest W Barrett Hwy location.


This is no typical fitness event — it's all about building a community for women to sweat together, push boundaries, inspire each other, and create. Grab a friend and join us for a yoga strength class with a live DJ, enjoy acai bowls, make your own mini succulent terrarium, and capture memories in a fun photo booth.

Historic 4th Ward Conservancy

Get busy with a booty workout at this public park in the Old Fourth Ward ‘hood. Stop to catch your breath and a view of the lake. It’s a beaut for sure and not to be missed.

Atlanta Beltline Eastside Trail

Walk, run, bike or scoot along the Beltline’s paved path without ever having to hit the actual road. This mural by artist Alex Brewer (among others you'll find under the Krog Street Tunnel) are perfect for your insta’ travel moments.

Millennium Gate Museum

Stroll the pristine grounds, relax by the fountains and admire the beautiful architecture of The Gate, a museum dedicated to the history of Georgia, located at the entrance to the Atlantic Station district (shopping galore!) in Midtown.

Centennial Olympic Park

Test out your best Olympic moves – or squats – at this downtown gathering space developed for the 1996 Summer Olympic Games. Cool off by the Fountain of Rings or snap a selfie at The Spectacular, a new sculpture of the Olympic Rings added to park in 2018.

Whiskey Bird

Whiskey Bird proves why Atlanta ends up on so many top food-city lists.

The innovative Asian-inspired menu is anything but boring – it may just take a while to choose from the so many good dishes. But first, cocktails: Chill with a margarita, whiskey sour or aperol spritz to wind down from a long day of self-caring. Salut!


Catch up on carbs (because you deserve it) with a spicy soba noodle salad and whole roasted cauliflower loaded with smoked gouda-miso fondue (one word: YUM) at this full-of-surprises eatery.

Ready to plan your own trip to the ATL? Share your travels with us on social by tagging @BritandCo and @dickssportinggoods #HERFITSQUAD.

Creative Director: Anjelika Temple

Author: Theresa Gonzalez

Photography: Brittany Griffin/Brit + Co

Design: Marisa Kumtong

Art Direction + Modeling: Elizabeth Lamb

Model: Jasmine Jakes Parks



Chicago Self-Care City Guide

Chicago Self-Care City Guide

Chicago Self-Care City Guide

In the summer months, Chicago totally comes to life. What we all think of as a cold, windy city thrives in warmer temps and is a great place to take a weekend trip for a little rejuvenation and self-care. A city that’s jam-packed with opportunities for being active alongside foodie favorites, Chicago’s got something for everyone and the locals are always happy to share insider info. For our next Self-Care City Guide, we spent a day exploring Chi-town and are happy to share our fave spots with you!

Lincoln Park Zoo Nature Boardwalk

Start your day surrounded by nature and wildflowers for a nice morning stroll or jog, coupled with an inspiring city view and contemporary architecture.

First Ascent Climbing & Fitness

If you’re craving an alternative workout that challenges, inspires, and rewards, bouldering is the answer. Choosing your own unique path to get to your destination makes for a fun invigorating exercise in a space that encourages and uplifts. The staff is super kind and helpful with a beginner-friendly attitude, with a sport that can seem intimidating to jump in. We appreciated the peaceful, judgment-free supportive community vibes felt here. First Ascent has five Chicago locations, so you can climb all over the city.

Maison Marcel

After getting our workout on, off to the adorable (and v photogenic) French-inspired cafe and patisserie Maison Marcel.


With both vegan and gluten-free options and plenty of treats, smoothies, caffeinated bevvies, and food, there’s something for everyone. It doesn’t hurt that you’re surrounded by beautiful boho Parisian decor and an outdoor mural that transports you from a city alley to a bountiful garden.


Bonus: The staff is just as sweet as the macarons :)



Lakefront Trail

You get the best of both beach views and skyline scenery on this trail suited to fit all kinds of activity on foot and otherwise (bikes, skates, etc).

Of course, one of the key components to a successful weekend of self-care is making sure you’re comfortably and stylishing outfitted. We’re all about packing a few sporty pieces that can be mixed, matched, and layered. This Knotted Tank Top has just the right amount of looseness to wear all day long, and the classic 3-Stripes Tights are part of our year-round uniform. For beachside yoga, the 3-Stripes Racerback Sports Bra is supportive and light, and we love the Ringer 3-Stripes T-Shirt for going on a run. For all day comfort for your toesies, a pair of Ultraboost 19 Running Shoes are the way to go.

Get your workout on with Fitsquad Chicago on August 3rd at Dick's Sporting Goods in Lincoln Park, presented by adidas and Dick’s Sporting Goods. Forget about your typical fitness event — this is all about creating a community for women to sweat together, push boundaries, inspire each other, and create. Grab a friend and join us for a yoga strength class with a live DJ, enjoy acai bowls, make your own mini succulent terrarium, and capture memories in a photo booth. Get all the deets here.

Oak Street Beach

That’s right. Beachfront bliss is possible smack dab in the middle of Chi-town.

Zen out with a dose of yoga in the sunshine. Located on North Lake Shore Drive, Oak Street Beach legit makes you feel like you’re on the coast with the backdrop of stunning Chicago behind you.

Then, time for a little nourishment. After a short yoga routine, we stopped for a relaxing picnic on the water, a serene scene to take pause from the city.

Maggie Daley Park

Surrounded by contemporary sculpture, architecture, and life, this artfully designed park is buzzing with lots of activities to offer. And you can still see the water!

Bad Hunter

Proudly “veg-forward”, this hip spot boasts a well-crafted menu curated seasonally with a sustainable conscience that accommodates to all dietary needs. We’d call it indulgently healthy ;) The space is cleverly designed with charming details abound. With delightful service, food, and atmosphere, Bad Hunter is a must visit.

The 606

This greenery-lined path gives you a proper dose of nature on a newly-constructed trail that suits all kinds of physical activities, especially great for running (with a rubbery side path for those concerned with joint stress).

Everyone seems so happy and active here, including the butterflies enjoying the wildflowers.

Now, time to plan your own trip to Chicago! Share your travels with us using on social by tagging @BritandCo and @dickssportinggoods #HERFITSQUAD.

Check out our Miami and Denver Self-Cares Guide below!

Photography: Brittany Griffin/Brit + Co

Design: Marisa Kumtong

Art Direction + Modeling: Elizabeth Lamb

Denver Self-Care City Guide

Denver Self-Care City Guide

Check out some of the coolest places to practice self-care in Denver.

There's something about that crisp Denver air, and it's not just because the city's elevation is exactly one mile above sea level. Colorado's capital is located just a short distance to the majestic Rocky Mountains, where you can find some of the country's best skiing and outdoor activities. But that doesn't mean Denver itself doesn't have its own appeal — as one of the fastest growing cities in the US, it's attracting visitors and new residents alike with its bustling food scene, walkable neighborhoods, big outdoor parks, and laidback attitude. So take a deep breath, and see all that the Mile High City has to offer.

Red Rocks Amphitheater

You'll be hard-pressed to find a more stunning concert venue than the open-air Red Rocks Amphitheater, just 45 minutes outside of Denver. Due to the two 300-foot monoliths that flank the sides, it's the only naturally-occurring, acoustically perfect amphitheater in the world, and it has hosted everyone from the Beatles to world-class opera singers.


It's also an ideal place for anyone looking to add a little challenge to their workout routine. On non-event days Red Rocks is open to the public one hour before sunrise until one hour after sunset. Yoga classes are offered throughout the year, and if you're a cardio lover, the stairs and benches are guaranteed to get your heart pumping.


Fort Greene

Fort Greene is tucked away on a residential street in the Globeville neighborhood; you'd likely drive by this hidden gem if you didn't know what you were looking for. Step inside though, and you're welcomed into an eclectic, whimsical bar with plush, velvet couches, marble tables, mismatched vintage glassware, paper poppies hung from the ceiling, and a dance room (complete with disco ball) in the back.

Grab a CBD mocktail or one of their inventive cocktails — Lovers in the Parking Lot is a mezcal drink as fierce as the Solange song it was named for, and Match Point blends lavender gin with lemon and seltzer — and settle into one of the leather chairs or spacious patio outside.

Confluence Park

Centrally located near lower downtown Denver, Confluence Park is an urban park along where South Platte River and Cherry Creek meet. The area has bike and walking paths for exploring and sandbanks for taking in the sun and views of the skyline.

During warmer temperatures, visitors can also enjoy fishing, swimming, kayaking, or tubing along the river.

When traveling, it's important to pack versatile pieces and layers that can keep up with any activity and temperature. This 3-Stripe Back Training Tank Top will add a pop of color to your morning workout, and a comfy pair of 3-Stripe Knit Shorts is perfect for both exercising and lounging around. And if you're looking for some effortless style, rock this cute and comfortable All Me Primeknit FLW Sports Bra and during your workout. If the weather gets chilly, just throw on this super cozy Changeover Crewneck Sweatshirt for some extra warmth.

Changeover Crewneck Sweatshirt

3-Stripe Back Training Tank Top

Join us for a memorable day featuring a HIIT yoga class, live dj, customization stations, terrarium building, acai bowls and giveaways! Event will be held at dick’s sporting goods at Broomfield on Saturday, May 4th from 10am-4pm. Sign up for a start time here.

Larimer Square

A healthy lifestyle is all about balance, and sometimes that calls for a little retail therapy. Head to Larimer Square, Denver's oldest block, where the historic brick buildings have since been converted into trendy boutiques, restaurants, wellness services, and bars. Stroll along the tree-lined streets, look up at the twinkling string lights, and treat yourself to a little shopping (window or actual).

Beast + Bottle

This rustic American restaurant located in the North Capitol Hill Neighborhood uses responsibly-sourced, seasonal, and local ingredients.

The menu is also fresh and always changing, and that applies both to the food and the drinks. Think guanciale butter toast (they've somehow found a way to make butter more deliciously buttery), braised octopus, and pizzas on whole grain crust.

The hand-crafted cocktails are named after famous songs, but have a twist; Standing in the Pain is for bourbon lovers, while A Letter to Jimmy Sage and You Can't Always Get Sochu Want both provide hints of their ingredients directly in their titles.

Washington Park

Relax in South Denver's massive Washington Park, which boasts 155 acres of green space that includes two lakes, flower gardens, tennis courts, a soccer field, cycling trails, a jogging path, and more.

It's an ideal place to chill out, stroll or run, do some yoga, get on the lake (on weekends, paddleboats, paddleboards, and canoes are available for rent on Smith Lake), or simply picnic under the shade of the tall trees.

We hope this guide comes in handy next time you find yourself in Denver. Share your travels with us using on social by tagging @BritandCo and @dickssportinggoods #HERFITSQUAD.

Check out our Miami Self-Care Guide below!

Photography: Brittany Griffin/Brit + Co

Design: Marisa Kumtong

Production + Styling: Cassidy Miller

Author: Lesley Chen

Miami Self-Care City Guide

Miami Self-Care City Guide

Below you'll find all the places to experience the healthy side of Magic City.

Miami is a city full of color — that applies to everything including the street murals, Art Deco architecture, gorgeous beaches, foodie scene, and vibrant culture. And while the nightlife is what most people buzz about, the daytime offers plenty of opportunities to soak in some of Miami's year-round sunshine and recharge the mind and body. Below you'll find all the places to experience the healthy side of Magic City.

WYNWOOD WALLS

Miami is a hub for creativity and there's no better place to witness that than the Wynwood Walls, an outdoor gallery of huge murals by street artists from all over the globe. Go early to avoid the crowds, and take a scenic stroll immersed in world-class art. Afterward, wander around the neighborhood, which is filled with great restaurants, cafes, and shops.

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COLORFUL LIFEGUARD TOWERS ON SOUTH BEACH

Even Miami's beaches have their own artistic flair — bright lifeguard towers provide colorful accents on the sands of South Beach.

Each tower has its own personality, shape, and pattern, and collectively, they provide fun eye candy whether you're running next to the water or sunbathing with a book.

TEN FRUITS

Located in downtown Miami, Ten Fruits is a great place to fuel up in the morning before a day of exploring. Pick up some fresh-pressed juices, smoothies, hearty acai bowls, high-protein waffles, or homemade pastries to keep your energy and spirits high.

Packing for a vacation can be stressful and especially tricky if you’ve never been to the place you’re headed. Even though Miami is relatively sunny year-round (about 70-80º F), it can also get very windy, so dressing in layers is key. This adidas Ace Bra is the perfect pop of color to help you fit right into the vibrant Miami scene during your morning runs on the beach. And this super lightweight Sport ID Wind Jacket is a stylish way to keep you cozy when that ocean breeze picks up.

Every girl also needs a comfy pair of versatile leggings that can transition from plane to play, like these High-Rise Sport Block leggings. And last but not least, keep all your travel essentials handy in this carry-on friendly Defender III Small Duffle Bag, which has easily accessible side pockets, and can also double as a workout bag for your trip.

Sport ID Wind Jacket

Believe This High-Rise Sport Block 7/8 Tight

adidas and Dick’s Sporting Goods invite you to join our community of FITSQUAD women and come sweat, create and refuel together on Saturday, March 30th at the Pembroke Pines Dick’s Sporting Goods in Pembroke. HIIT/Power Yoga classes, a live DJ, delicious food and custom terrarium-building activities will be happening all day! RSVP to attend here.

SOUL TAVERN

As Miami's first plant-based gastropub, Soul Tavern serves comfort food with a healthy twist. Founder Jason Gordon is an acupuncturist specializing in Chinese medicine and has brought some of his practices into creating food that brings both balance and harmony. Sit in the zen outdoor space and order off the herbal elixir tea menu, designed to enhance various aspects of your well-being. For a nosh, the jackfruit gyoza and the hearts of palm cakes are must-try items.

ART-DECO HISTORIC DISTRICT

For a little throwback, head to the beachfront to see all the Art Deco architecture of Miami's yesteryear. Throw on your comfiest sneakers and get ready to get your steps in.

These historical '20s and '30s pastel buildings have been restored into luxurious hotels and nightclubs along trendy South Beach and provide a colorful way to spend the afternoon or evening.

Next time you find yourself in Miami, you'll be well-equipped to find your zen and get the R&R you deserve. Share your travels with us using on social by tagging @BritandCo and @dickssportinggoods #HERFITSQUAD.

Photography: Brittany Griffin/Brit + Co

Design: Marisa Kumtong

Production + Styling: Cassidy Miller

Author: Lesley Chen

Sprinkle the magic of Christmas into every seasonal activity by creating some festive Christmas nail designs! Whether you like to lean towards the traditional reds and greens or prefer to think colorfully outside the box, the polishes and Christmas nail designs below will set your mood and nail look right. Winter nails don't have to be drab – from star-studded nail art to bejeweled nail beds, we've got just the inspo for you.

Christmas Nail Colors

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essie 'Off Tropic'

You can't get your dream Christmas nail designs done without some stellar nail polishes! If your look involves a deep green, this shiny pick will help you pull it off easily. Use it to coat the entire nail for a sultry seasonal mani.

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OPI Opaque Light White & Gray Shimmer Nail Polish

With Christmas comes cold, and this nail polish screams icy. Wear it alone or apply it over a traditional Christmas color like red or green!

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OPI Infinite Shine 'Bubble Bath'

This baby pink will look gorgeous as a solid coat for Christmas-y dates and dinner parties.

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ILNP 'Ruby'

It's red. It's glittery. It's perfect for the holidays!

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Essie 'Winter Trend'

Spending Christmas with your besties or roommates? It's time for you to have your first 'Pinkmas' with the sparkly magenta nails to match!

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Sally Hansen Insta-Dri 'White on Time'

A super solid white nail polish, alongside a thin nail art brush, can be used to paint snowmen, gift wrap, or snowflakes like some of our featured Christmas nail designs depict.

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RARJSM Holographic Gel Polish

For the lazy gal manicurists, this holographic polish will make any light reflect off your nails which is the point during Christmas!

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essie 'U Wish'

Embrace the holidays with this fiery red that defies expectations of what a Christmas color should be.

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Butter London Patent Shine Nail Polish

This one color will work excellently for minimalist Christmas nail designs – use it to dot, stripe, or wear it on its own.

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Revlon 'Iced Mauve'

Sparkles are a must for Christmas, which is why we're heavily eyeing this potent pink.

Christmas Nails Inspo

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Nifty-Gifty Gems

Use small nail gems of any color to infuse your Christmas nail designs with festive energy. We're loving red in particular because it just feels luxurious!

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Deep Red Elegance

The bold red French tips, in combination with some art deco-inspired golden stars, can really bring your seasonal mani to the next level.

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Colorful Christmas Stars

Use a stencil or freehand these tiny stars in different chrome nail colors for a more jolly vibe this year.

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(Gift) Wrap It Up

A nail art brush can be used to paint on cutie little Christmas bows like this silvery one!

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Classic Colors

Multicolor nails are not dead – take the trend further for the holidays by crafting your look with a mix of whites, golds, greens, and reds.

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Let It Shine

For an understated (yet still spirited) Christmas manicure, glitter will be your go-to. We love the gradient effect that this hand has on!

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Merry & Bright

Tiny star details are sure to turn heads this Christmas! You could use any hue, but a standout gold like this one really makes your nails pop!

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Sophia Bush and Ashlyn Harris are the talk of the town lately — and Ali Krieger definitely has something to say about it. The timeline of Ashlyn and Ali's divorce and Ashlyn and Sophia's relationship is messy at best, but the latter couple constantly dispel any rumor that there was overlap. For much of this narrative, Ali's been pretty silent, but it's clear she's ready to speak her truth. In a statement posted to Instagram, the soccer superstar opened up. Here's what she had to say.

See Ali Krieger's full statement about the Ashlyn Harris drama here!

  • Ali says that while she's had an "outpouring of love and support" over the last year, she's been confronted with "a wave of dishonesty and misinformation" in regards to her marriage to Ashlyn Harris.
  • Ali noted that her "unwavering priority" is to her kids, and that she requests privacy while she comes to terms with the state of her personal life right now.
  • This comes after Ashlyn Harris made comments about the dissolution of their marriage on a podcast, stating that there was a total lack of intimacy and that the cheating "is so far from the truth."

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On December 3, 2024, Ali posted her statement to Instagram. She opened with, "I’m overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and support I’ve received this last year. However, amidst this warmth, I’ve also had to confront a wave of dishonesty and misinformation regarding my marriage and personal life."

Ali shared that she isn't ready to make a more formal statement, but she feels "compelled to address this currently to prevent further distortion of the truth." But at the end of the day, Ali explained that her "unwavering priority" is her kids at this moment, and that she'll share more when her "heart feels ready."

She closed her statement with, "In this vulnerable time, I humbly ask for privacy and understanding from all involved, as I grapple with the profound changes in my personal life."

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This comes after Ashlyn spoke on the Naked Sports with Cari Championpodcast. Ashlyn noted that she was in a relationship without intimacy, eventually leading her to ask for an open marriage as a "last attempt." She also stated that people constantly see her as a cheater, which she says is "is so far from the truth."

I guess we'll know the truth in time...but for now, this is definitely messy. Wishing both sides of this divorce peace and understanding!

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When you're often the life of the party and happen to be partnered up and in your 30s, you'll instantly turn heads when you say no to booze. I can personally attest to the difficulty of this. As someone who loves happy hour and has a particular affinity for lemon drop shotsin totally inappropriate settings, there was no way I could get away with *not* drinking without inviting questioning looks.

Before I give you the guide to fake drinking when you're secretly pregnant, let me take this moment to make a PSA. If you see that a female friend of yours isn't drinking and she usually does, try not to ask her if she's expecting in front of everyone. She might be secretly pregnant, taking fertility drugs that can't be combined with alcohol, just trying to lower her dosage of alcohol with the hope that it helps her get pregnant. There's also the chance she might just be…not drinking. Be as it may, no one wants to be bombarded with pregnancy questions.

Of course, not everyone is going to take my PSA seriously, so I've got some tips and tricks for all you pre-reveal preggos. These same tips apply to gals who are not drinking because they are trying to conceive. I was personally in this non-drinking camp for about five months before getting pregnant.

And how's this for proof? I organized and attended a bachelorette party for two of my very best friends with about eight of my other besties present — and no one had ANY idea I was pregnant. So, trust me — I'm a bona fide pro at fake drinking.


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Keep reading for the best tips to happily sip drinks in a way that won't make your besties raise an eyebrow

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Opt for canned beer

This was one of my earliest discoveries in the world of fake drinking. No one can see your drink when it's in a can. You might read that and think, yeah so? Well, take that can with you to the other can, and dump it out in the sink. Fill it up with water and no one will be the wiser. In fact, they'll think — wow, she's really blasting through those Coors Lights. Pro tip: Be sure to wipe any water drips off the can before you leave the bathroom, and rinse the sink so there's no errant beer foam floating around.

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If you have to order a real drink, choose a clear cocktail. This is the classic move. You creep over to the bar when no one else is around, and order a club soda with lime. Think of it as a mocktail. Be sure to ask the bartender to serve it to you in a cocktail glass — a giant water glass or plastic cup is a dead giveaway.

If it's impossible to get alone time at the bar, order a vodka soda (or gin and tonic). Then take it to the bathroom, dump out the liquid (use a straw to keep the ice and any garnishes in the cup), then fill it with water instead. Complain about the soda or tonic being flat if anyone questions your drink's lack of tiny bubbles.

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Make friends with bartenders. At first, bartenders give you a bit of side-eye when you ask for a club soda in a cocktail glass. They won't ask you what the deal is, but you can let them assume what they like — especially when you order that second or third club soda in a cocktailglass.

If you're feeling cavalier, and you and the bartender have really hit your stride, you can even say, “I'll take anything non-alcoholic that looks like a cocktail." I actually made SUCH good friends with a bartender at a wedding where I was fake drinking that every time I came over to the bar, he immediately winked at me and gave me “my regular." My friends guffawed at the fact that I was already friends with the bartender. Pro.

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Allude to a possible tannin allergy. Wine is the toughest thing to fake, so don't even try. Tell your friends about how, out of nowhere, you've started to get headaches immediately after drinking a glass of wine. When they're like, “Is it just when you drink red?" reply with a frustrated sigh, “No, both red and white make me feel crappy — maybe it's a tannin thing?" Then get your faux canned beer or clear mocktail, and call it a day.

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Ginger ale is a GREAT substitute for Champagne. Ginger ale looks like Champagne, it smells kind of like Champagne, and if your friends are tipsy enough and take a sip, they'll actually believe that it IS Champagne. Don't overdo this one though — too much sugary soda is not a good thing for you and your secret babe!

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Pretend to be getting over a cold (so no one asks for a sip). After all, it's sick season! [Insert fake coughs here]

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Always be the one to order or serve a round of shots. Shots are one of the toughest things to fake. Like, really difficult. And you might be thinking, who still takes shots anyway? Well, the answer is: I do. Or rather, I did. It would have been impossible to be at my two besties' bachelorette party without at least one round of shots. So what's a preggo to do? Serve 'em up, of course.

Because shots are best served as a surprise to inspire a second wind in any given party, you can creep into the kitchen to set things up. Pour all but one, and fill that one with a substitute. Ideally, it looks like what you're serving, and if that's not possible, make 3-5 of them vodka shots including yours, which is actually… water! If ordering shots at a bar, you're probably already friends with the bartender, so just ask him to make yours a fake one and to put a napkin or coaster under it on the tray that comes out.

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Keep a drink in your hand at all times. This is an obvious one, but it's worth mentioning. If you don't have a drink on hand, someone will either hand you one or give you a hard time for not drinking. DO NOT give them that opportunity ;)

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Never leave your drink unattended. Hopefully, you already have this rule in your wheelhouse from your college days. In this case, the key here is avoiding two things: friendly refills and someone accidentally picking up your drink and finding out it's phony.

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Avoid being the first one to hit the hay. If you've already been squirreling around on the beverage front, the next clear sign that you might be secretly pregnant is when you're the first one to go to bed. So don't do that. Don't go to bed. Ever! Okay, at some point you'll need to go to bed because you need a TON of sleep in your first trimester, but avoid being the first party pooper at all costs.

And don't use getting up early “for a run" or “to do some work" as an excuse for going to bed — friends that know you will see right through that.

And there you have it, all you need to know about being a fake party animal when you're in the very early stages of expecting. Cheers! (But fake cheers, obvs.)

What are your best fake drinking tips? Share them with us @BritandCo!

If you were on the internet at all this summer, then you're probably familiar with all the It Ends With Us cast drama. The rumored rift between director and star Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively didn't come to light until after the movie released, but Justin just revealed some brand new information that totally reframes the whole film: he almost suffered a "breakdown" while filming.

Justin Baldoni has been vocal about taking the role of Ryle, who abuses Blake Lively's Lily throughout the film, really seriously, but his latest interview with the How to Fail podcast reveals the effect of the character went way farther than anyone knew.

Keep reading to see why starring as Ryle Kincaid opposite Blake Lively in It Ends With Usaffected Justin Baldoni's mental health.

Justin Baldoni says Ryle Kincaid was "very hard" to get rid of.

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When host Elizabeth Day asks about how he decompressed after playing Ryle, Justin admits the character was harder to shake than he anticipated. "That was very hard and honestly, that took a few months," he says. "I had dreams as him for a while, and it lived in my body, but I think for the most part, he's out."

And while starring in such a role is difficult on its own, he also had the job of directing the scenes he was in! "Directing is a very lonely job, I'll just be very candid," he says. "Because you are kind of at the top of this totem pole. In your moments of quiet, everybody has a thousand questions for you and also nobody wants to disturb you and you don't really have many people to talk to and you can't necessarily share your anxiety or your nervousness about something because you're also the leader."

His scenes as Ryle involved everything from romantic scenes with Blake Lively to a physical fight with Brandon Sklenar, and there were times he had to go "shake it out" away from the rest of the cast.

Justin Baldoni almost had a breakdown after filming a scene with Blake Lively.

"I've done a lot of somatic therapy so there were times when I was actually just shaking," he says. "There's a moment in the movie where Ryle finds Lily's phone and he finds a phone number and he's very jealous and he's heartbroken and he's angry and he doesn't harm her but you can see in his eyes how dangerous he is. After that scene, I had a near breakdown."

Despite the fact he plays such a "dangerous" character, Justin quickly became the most beloved cast member after the movie's release. Fans became suspicious whey they realized Blake Lively, Brandon Sklenar, and Jenny Slate didn't follow the director on Instagram (and avoided talking about him in interviews)...and then the internet came to the conclusion there was a major rift between the director and the cast (which hasn't technically been confirmed by anyone who's rumored to be involved).

Justin spent the movie's press run raising awareness for domestic violence support, while the internet quickly criticized how Blake Lively treated the film like a lighthearted rom-com, using the opportunity to promote her haircare line.

A source told People that Blake Lively felt "surprised," "vulnerable and upset"about the response to the film's press, while Justin's Jane the Virgin costar Gina Rodriguez came to Justin's defense and told People in September that "sweet, sweet soul" Justin is "my brother forever. Forever and ever."

"You know what?" Justin says. "[Gina's comments] came at a very special time for me and that meant a lot. She really showed up for me. That was really sweet...She's a sweetheart. She's family forever."

Read up on what Brandon Sklenar said about a potential It Starts With Us sequel movie.

Gapnever misses, and right now, their new arrivals for wintertime are absolutely stunning. From chic (yet practical) jackets that stand up to cold temps to trendy jeans that'll definitely earn you compliment after compliment, you just have to peek at their current collection.

Luckily, I did the heavy lifting and scrolled all 600+ items to nail down the cutest styles for the season. A lot of these are undeniably luxe-looking, but also happen to be on sale up to 30% off! Shop my faves below.

These new arrivals from Gap are everything:

Check out my top favorite Gap finds for completing your most stylish winter outfits!

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The Extra Heavyweight Hoodie That Hoodies

I own this hoodie in the butter yellow colorway, and I was instantly impressed by the quality. Its 'extra heavyweight' promise holds true – the material is thick and durable, but has just the right amount of slouch to it so it's not overly structured. The lack of traditional hoodie strings makes it feel upscale, which is perfect for any cozy winter 'fit.

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Organic Cotton Poplin Barrel Sleeve Cropped Shirt

This cotton poplin shirt reminds me so much of something DÔEN would sell, but while the famed brand's tops near $200 a pop, this Gap version is only $47. Plus, you can take an extra 30% off with code 'GREAT'. Score!

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Mesh Midi Dress

Though it's sheer, this meshy midi dress makes the perfect addition atop some cozy winter layers. Holiday gathering season is upon us, and this pick will def get the party started.

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Cropped Pointelle Cardigan

The button-up design on this lightweight cardi means you can play with multiple ways to wear it. The hem hits at just the right spot to pair with mid- or low-rise jeans.

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Strapless Denim Jumpsuit

This easy one-and-done jumpsuit is sooo flattering. It snugly hugs the torso before falling into a wide-leg silhouette that'll wear super well with your go-to winter boots. Layered up with a cardigan or not, you'll be making a style statement wherever you go.

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High Rise Barrel Jeans

Barrel jeans are one of the hottest jean shapes of 2024 – rock the trend with this style that's shoppable in 8 different washes!

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BiStretch Strapless Vest

Your new office BFF, now in the shape of a sleek strapless vest. Pair it with a blazer and you're set up for immediate success!

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Oversized Mixed Cable-Knit Sweater

Cable knit is timeless, so you can wear this cozy pick year after year. After year. Seriously – the soft, slouchy cotton will hold up tremendously well.

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High Rise Braided '70s Flare Jeans

I love that these wide-leg jeans have some '70s flair but still feel up-to-date for today's fashion trends. They'd look absolutely stunning (they def do the booty some favors) on a night out!

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Leopard Denim Chore Jacket

Hello, leopard print! If your winter outfits are craving a little extra oomph, this patterned piece is sure to do the trick.

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