“Self Service” Is the Self-Care Podcast of Your Cosmic Dreams

Jerico Mandybur is a girlboss. Literally. The self-proclaimed “all-around witch” is editorial director of Sophia Amoruso’sGirlboss and host of the radio network’s second podcast, Self Service. The new series is like a wellness guidebook for the woke, with Mandybur as its guardian angel (and we’re not just saying that because of her halo of fluffy curls).

The weekly podcast tackles topics ranging from self-love to staying hydrated, with expert guests weighing in with thoughtful insight, disarming charm, and relatable humor. Mandybur gives a Tarot card reading each episode, while astrologer Jessica Lanyadoo explains the astrological forecast for the week ahead. It’s all in an effort to empower women to “self-care better” and demystify cosmic topics that the Capricornian among us may find too out there at first.

Plus, as Mandybur so aptly puts it, “it’s an opportunity to do nothing but relax for 20 minutes, on a Sunday.” Count us in. We chatted with Mandybur to get the self-service scoop (and hear her own tenants of regular self-care).

Brit + Co: Can you talk a little about how and why you decided to develop the Self Service podcast?

Jerico Mandybur: At Girlboss, we provide our community with the resources they need to redefine success on their own terms. Part of this means exploring our personal and professional well-being (and learning to take care of ourselves as an extension of that). I’ve become more and more interested in self-care in the last few years, as I began taking a more active role in looking after myself and healing from a traumatic childhood, and the mental health issues and chronic migraines that came with it. I’ve always kind of passively dealt with those things through psychiatry and psychology, which are great. But I wanted to take ownership over healing myself and incorporate spirituality. So that’s what I’ve done.

Self Service is meant to be a “cosmic comfort zone,” a resource and safe space for listeners to explore what self-care and spirituality mean for them.

B+C: What are you hoping to add to both the wellness and podcast spaces?

JM: I think there are so many people doing amazing stuff in this area, but Self Service aims to be an accessible and nonjudgmental way in to conversations about self-care and spirituality. Some new age-y (for lack of a better word!) spiritual podcasts I’ve heard don’t always explain terms and ideas for newbs, so I guess I want listeners to feel like it’s okay if you don’t already “get” what we’re talking about, and hopefully it will make you curious to learn more.

B+C: Do you have a wellness routine of your own? What do you like to do for a little self-care?

JM: I try to meditate every day for at least 20 minutes, usually at night. I have baths basically every night too. I read books and tarot cards, and because my “God” is nature, I pay attention to what the moon and seasons are doing and let that guide me in terms of personal rituals, e.g., setting intentions, journaling. I try to go for walks, do yoga and reiki here and there. I also try to get a massage once a month.

B+C: What’s the most meaningful thing you’ve learned about self-care since starting the podcast?

JM: Self-care is free, and it’s mostly about boundaries — this is the biggest one. Protecting your energy and time by being able to say “no” sometimes (which women aren’t always encouraged to do) is the foundation of self-care. I’ve learned it’s not about what you actively do, it’s more about where your attention goes.

B+C: On a similar note, what’s been the most surprising aspect of podcasting about wellness and self-care?

JM: Both self-care and new-age spirituality are being put under a microscope in the media right now, and that’s fine — they should never be exclusionary or prescriptive or a shallow marketing tool. So, I’m surprised by the amount of positive feedback, honestly. People have been really supportive and have reached out to say that they got something out of it. I think, and hope, they can tell that I’m coming from a very sincere place. And I’ve only gotten a few people telling me that witchcraft is Satan’s work, and that I need Jesus, which is great.

B+C: It feels like wellness is crossing over from being a passing trend to a daily necessity — why do you think this is?

JM: I’m not sure, but it’s something we are exploring in every episode of Self Service! For me, self-care and spirituality (and wellness more broadly) are very hard to remove from their political roots. I’m not sure that I would have embraced them had I not been abused, or not been from an immigrant background, or Queer, etc. These are tools that, traditionally, people sought because they have felt marginalized and didn’t have (or want) access to the same resources or treatment as other people. So I’d say their burgeoning popularity says something about the way more and more people are feeling disenfranchised or lost — burnt out, isolated from the community, etc. These are all valid complaints, and embracing self-care and spirituality to be truly reflective and improve your situation (and that of others) is a valid response.

What’s your go-to self-care ritual? Tweet us @BritandCo and tell us what keeps you zen!

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For those of us who have dry skin, the time is here for us to triple our moisturizing efforts unless we want to deal with inevitable patches or itchiness. I've already noticed my combination skin is embracing its flaky and textured era, so I've been slowly stocking up on my favorite thick moisturizers to help calm things down.

Since I'm a busy mom, I've been relying on Amazon Prime delivery to get them shipped straight to my front door. Right now I only have three facial moisturizers I swear by, but I'm also sharing two body products that keep my eczema-prone extremities hydrated.

Keep reading for the luxuriously thick moisturizers you need to add to cart ASAP.

My Favorite Face Moisturizers For Dry Skin

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Kiehl's Ultra Facial Cream

I've been using Kiehl's Ultra Facial Cream for the past 3 years and it's been a miracle for my confused skin. IMO, it's not greasy despite having a richer texture than I'm used to. It actually feels soothing to me and I think that has everything to do with the 4.5 percent Squalene and Glacial Glycoprotein that's in it.

I typically use a hyaluronic acid serum in addition to this, but this facial cream is my go-to moisturizer.

Why Other Customers Love It

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Other customers have a lot to say about this thick moisturizer, but the standout Amazon reviews are:

  • "By profession I'm a cosmetologist so have decades of experience not only with hair products, but also with those concerning skin care. I've tried almost every item on the market and this is my favorite. It isn't heavy, yet provides plenty of moisturization. My face feels so soft! I'm a senior citizen and my skin tends to be dry, but just a little of this smoothes and hydrates it. You don't even need a primer. Makeup glides on."
  • "This is the only moisturizer that doesn’t break out my extremely sensitive skin. I have rosacea and other products burn my skin and make my face even more red. I’ve been using this and it’s the only thing I can use."
  • "This moisturizer feels great on the skin! I have mixed oily and dry skin and it has done so well. I recently switched from Tula to this brand and I have not regretted it. It does not cause breakouts and I feel like my face is hydrated the whole day. i would definitely recommend."
  • "Nice product that gives some sun protection. A little thicker consistency than regular moisturizer but the convenience of not using sunscreen for daily errands. My DIL gave me this once for a birthday & I have been using ever since."

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La Roche-Posay Triple Repair Moisturizing Cream

Okay, this moisturizer is a little pricier than the others I've mentioned, but it's La Roche-Posay! If you're looking at me with a blank stare, I'll do my best to explain. This is hands-down one of the best skincare brands I've come across in my 30s because a handful of their products have a seal of approval from the National Eczema Association.

It has shea butter and niacinamide in it, which are double threats against icky environmental elements that cling to dry skin. Plus, you can use it on your face, body and hands!

Why Other Customers Love It

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Here are some of the best reviews on Amazon about this luxurious moisturizer:

  • "This lotion has literally no fragrance. It leaves my skin feeling soft with a subtle glow without being greasy. It is also extremely hydrating. I have very sensitive skin, and the fact that babies can use it too is what made me decide to try it."
  • "The first application was wild. It’s thick and feels pretty slippery on the surface. But the next morning, I didn’t want to stop touching my face. The flakes became way more manageable and allowed me to continue the retinitis treatment. I’ve been using this for a few weeks, and my skin texture has improved tremendously. It is great that you can use it on your body as well. I lather it on at night and then put a very light layer on under my sunscreen in the morning. It doesn’t make me look greasy if I let it soak in before applying makeup."
  • "It instantly alleviated my dryness, leaving my skin radiant, glowy, and remarkably hydrated. As we transition into the winter months, I’m confident this cream will be a lifesaver against the harsh, windy weather we often experience in the Midwest."
  • "As someone with sensitive and acne-prone skin, this has been a game changer. I can't imagine going without this product since starting tretinoin and tazarotene. I use it as a final step in my routine to seal in moisture and any active ingredients. La Roche-Posay has consistently made sensitive-skin-friendly products. I'm not sure how you may react to the high shea butter content, but my skin doesn't seem to have any issues with it. The thickness is unlike any lotion I've tried. 10/10 would recommend."

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Olay Complete+ Rich Moisturizing Cream

Having sensitive skin isn't a death sentence for your face. It just means your skin is picky and only wants the best products to touch it, so technically it's like having a superpower. If you're still not convinced, let Olay's Complete+ Rich Moisturizing Cream persuade you.

It has vitamin B3, vitamin E, and ceramides in it that work together to provide all day hydration. Also, these powerhouse ingredients work together to promote healthy cell turnover so your gorgeous moisture barrier is in tip-top shape. P.S. It's recommended by the Skin Health Alliance.

Why Other Customers Love This Facial Moisturizer

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Check out what these Amazon customers had to say:

  • "I have extremely sensitive skin and this doesn't irritate my skin. I've tried and given up using many products (I'm 71). This cream makes my skin (face and neck) soft and hydrated. I use it several hours before bed and again in the morning. I alternate using it with another face skin care product."
  • "I find this to be every bit as moisturizing, creamy, and long-lasting as any of the more expensive face creams that are all the rage these days. I have tried many of the face serums, creams, and lotions and do not think any of them work any better than this Olay Face Cream."
  • "My mom used Olay products and her skin was immaculate! I started using it in my 30s and switched to other more popular, more expensive brands. I should have never stopped using it. I love this new moisturizer too! It feels amazing and makes my face look so smooth! I'm back Olay!"
  • "Tried this because my husband’s dermatologist has the most beautiful skin. I asked the dr what he used and this was it. After using so many different moisturizers for years I always had red rough skin. Now after all these years the redness is gone!! Its definitely worth giving it a try."

My #1 Favorite Body Moisturizer For Dry Skin 

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Palmer's Shea Formula Body Lotion

Since it's a little colder, I need something that's going to keep my skin moisturized without triggering eczema flareups. One of the top moisturizers that gets the job done is Palmer's Shea Formula Body Lotion.

I personally opt to get the value size of this because it lasts a little over a month for me. Why? Well, a little goes a long way because this dermatologist-approved formula is thick. But once I rub it into my skin, it provides the silkiest shine I've ever seen. Besides shea butter, it has Marula, oatmeal, grapeseed oil, and vitamin E in it to provide the radiance I love so much.

It's usually $16 on Amazon, but it's currently on sale for $13!

Why Other Customers Love It

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According to Amazon, over 5,000 customers have purchased Palmer's Shea Formula body lotion this month. Also, it has a 4.6 rating which means I'm not the only one who loves using it. Here's my favorite 5-star reviews:

  • "As someone who battles dry skin year-round, finding a reliable moisturizer has always been a challenge—until I discovered Palmer's Shea Formula Raw Shea Body Lotion. This lotion has been a game-changer for me, and I'm thrilled to share my experience."
  • "The smell of this is amazing, makes my skin silky and smooth. great everyday lotion & the smell is subtle enough that it doesn’t overwhelm when I put my perfume on. My skin is plenty hydrated using this and I don’t notice any stickiness once it dries down."
  • "So we are on our 4th bottle now. Loving the product? Yassss!"
  • "We live in far Southern Az, where it is extremely dry (except during the monsoon). So we have had to start using skin lotions to make our skin feel better. This stuff is really great! And it lasts quite awhile."

Another Body Moisturizer I Love Using For Dry Skin

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Aveeno Skin Relief Moisturizing Lotion

If I feel like switching things up, I'll buy Aveeno's Skin Relief Moisturizing Lotion. It has a triple oat (oat flour, extract, and oil) and shea formula that work wonders for anyone who knows how it feels to have dry skin you suddenly have to scratch all the time. It's basically tough on things that cause dry skin, but gentle on the sensitivity of it!

Why Other Customers Love It

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This lotion actually has a slightly higher rating than Palmer's and has been purchased over 6,000 times this month. The only reason it's not my first go-to is because I have fond childhood memories of Palmer's. Aside from that, Aveeno is pretty d—n amazing!

Customers are saying:

  • "My derm recommended it, my skin is now so soft, not dry anymore as long as I keep applying daily."
  • "Love this lotion. I am super sensitive with lifelong relatively dry skin, and also super picky about my lotion quality and what I need."
  • "I've tried high end lotions and they have nothing on this stuff! This lotion is incredibly soothing, providing instant relief and long-lasting hydration that keeps my skin feeling soft and smooth all day. The formula is gentle, fragrance-free, and absorbs quickly without leaving any greasy residue, making it perfect for daily use. I’ve noticed a significant improvement in my skin’s texture and overall comfort since I started using it."
  • "I’ve tried so many - This is the Only lotion that keeps the moisture in my skin. I put it on in the morning and my skin is still soft and dewy at night and even the next morning."

Need recommendations for the best face wash to use? We have 10 geared towards each skin type!

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Jennifer Lawrence announced she's pregnant, and we couldn't be happier for her! Though she and her husband, Cooke Maroney, aren't known for being in the public eye too much, it seems like this is one piece of news they don't mind sharing! Sorry, but we haven't been this excited about baby news since Suki Waterhouse and Robert Pattinson became parents — excuse us while we celebrate!

Here's everything we know about baby number 2 so far.

November 17: Jennifer Lawrence Glows On The Red Carpet Again

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Not only is Jennifer Lawrence glowing during her second pregnancy, but she's also showing how stylish moms can be! According to WWD, she wore a gorgeous brown Bottega Veneta gown to the Governors Award event and looked like a goddess on the red carpet. The dress and its gold hardware complemented her skin beautifully along with her matching clutch!

It seems like maternity style gets better every year and it gives this mama hope that the world sees that life doesn't stop just because we have kiddos in tow!

Has Jennifer Lawrence debuted her baby bump yet?

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YES! Jennifer Lawrence's baby bump was the star of the Zurawski v Texas premiere (via PEOPLE). She wore a structured white dress with a black belt around her waist that accentuated her cute baby bump and appeared to be glowing.

According to Deadline, she's one of the executive producers of Zurawski v Texas, a documentary that sheds light on the "restrictive abortion laws" that put women's lives in danger in Texas. Alongside producers Hilary and Chelsea Clinton, Jennifer's involvement in the documentary as a pregnant woman makes a pivotal statement during a time where mothers' mortalities aren't always considered during their pregnancies.

When did Jennifer Lawrence announce her second pregnancy?

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Leave it to Vogue to get the exclusive scoop about Jennifer being pregnant again! According to the publication, an official "representative for the actor confirmed" the news yesterday, October 20. So exciting!

When is Jennifer Lawrence's second baby due?

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Jennifer Lawrence hasn't announced her due date yet, so we can't be quite sure! However, if she's out of her first trimester, Jennifer could have her baby around April 2025!

What have Jennifer Lawrence and Cooke Maroney said about their family?

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It seems Jennifer Lawrence and Cooke Maroney were open to the idea of having another baby as recently as this summer! An unknown source told Entertainment Tonight, "Jennifer and Cooke are doing very well and are super in love. They make each other laugh and have the best time parenting together. They would love to have another kid and expand their family."

When was Jennifer Lawrence's first baby born?

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Jennifer and Cooke's firstborn son, Cy, was born February 2022, which means he's almost three years old!

The actress later explored her feeling about becoming a mom in another Vogueinterview. "It’s so scary to talk about motherhood. Only because it’s so different for everybody. If I say, It was amazing from the start, some people will think, 'It wasn’t amazing for me at first,' and feel bad. Fortunately I have so many girlfriends who were honest. Who were like, It’s scary," she said.

What has Jennifer Lawrence said about being a mom?

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It seems like Jennifer found her stride because she's apparently embraced being a mom. She hasn't said anything recently, but she did speak with Entertainment Tonight last year during the promotion of No Hard Feelings about her parenting habits. "Of course, the urge to stop anything from ever hurting or negatively affecting your baby..." she said.

However, co-star Andrew Barth Feldman had nothing but positive words to share about Jennifer as a mom. "Jen is an amazing mother, for real. That was kind of one of the incredible things about doing this with you is seeing just how much of a priority being a mother is for you and how deeply you care about that over everything," he said.

We can't wait to see how Jennifer's second pregnancy develops and hope she's willing to give us a little sneak peek of how she's prepping to have two young kids!

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You and your friends have likely spent countless hours together, decoding everything from imaginationships to the best comfort shows to watch when you're sad. You've probably even settled into a designated role within the group. Maybe you're the super adventurous one, always suggesting friend date ideas for the group to try, while someone else always knows how to comfort everyone when life gets rough. But, have you ever wondered if you're the most empathetic friend in the group? That's easy, just ask Brianna Paruolo, LCMCH. She's the founder and clinical director of On Par Therapyso she knows how to recognize signs you're an empath, plus how to take care of yourself!

How To Know If You're An Empath

  • Empathy is when "you feel what others are feeling."
  • There are physical, emotional, social, and mental signs that you're an empath.
  • You may be an empath if you get physically exhausted after being in crowds, feel anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments, feel responsible for other people's happiness, or you find it hard to distinguish your own feelings from someone else's.

Are there really assigned roles in friend groups or am I just imagining things?

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Like I said before, it can seem like you and your friends unintentionally gravitate toward certain 'roles.' It's not like anyone woke up one day and decided, "I'm going to be the 'mother hen' of the group," but it tends to happen. Why?

Paruolo says, "In my clinical work, I've consistently observed that our friendship roles often mirror our early family dynamics. These patterns show up naturally — think about who in your friend group gets the first crisis call, who plans all the gatherings, or who everyone turns to for emotional support." I'm willing to bet you thought of a name for each scenario — including yours — because I know I did!

"Like in families, we each fall into specific roles that feel familiar to us," Paruolo further explains.

What actually makes someone an empathetic person?

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There's so many definitions for empathy, but I thought it would be wise to ask a licensed professional for her opinion on the matter. "Empathy means to feel what others are feeling. You do not have to have a personal direct experience with something to feel empathy for another person," shares Paruolo.

For example, your friend could call to tell you she has to have fibroid removal surgery and is feeling scared. You may have never had surgery, but you could find yourself feeling the need to comfort her in spite of this. Paruolo says, "The cool thing about our brains is that we have mirror neurons, which means part of our brain is set up to feel what others feel. The ability to attune to others' emotional states comes naturally to some people, while others may need to develop this capacity more consciously."

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To break it down even further, here's signs that Paruolo says point to your empathetic nature.

Physical Signs:

  • Getting physically exhausted after being in crowds
  • Feeling drained after social interactions, even enjoyable ones (OMG I feel so seen!)
  • Needing extra time alone to recharge

Emotional Signs:

  • Absorbing other people's emotions like a sponge
  • Feeling anxious or overwhelmed in emotionally charged environments
  • Finding it hard to watch violence or cruelty in movies/TV

Social Signs:

  • Feeling responsible for others' happiness
  • Having trouble saying "no" to people who need help

Mental Signs:

  • Picking up on subtle changes in others' moods
  • Being highly attuned to body language and tone
  • Finding it hard to distinguish your feelings from others' feelings

It sounds like I'm the empathetic friend, but are there any downsides to this?

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I've been an empath for as long as I can remember and I've found that I have to 'recharge' my social batteries at times. I thought it was because I was trying to be superwoman by fixing others' problems, but it turns out theres more to it than that. Paruolo says, "Empathetic friends and people have an uncanny ability to sense others' emotional states even when unspoken, and frequently need recovery time after intense social interactions. They tend to be deeply affected by others' experiences and naturally consider situations from multiple perspectives."

In the long run, she says it can be "distressing" for some people to always feel the feelings of others. Over time, she says, "it can cause you to shut down and retract." This can look like not being as quick to respond to the funny memes your friends send you or not even answering their phone calls right away.

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But, this doesn't mean you're the only person who tends to go through this. "Many empaths struggle with maintaining boundaries due to their deep emotional attunement," she says. Color me guilty because this sounds so much like me. It got so bad at one point that my sister nicknamed me 'Captain Save-A-Lot,' which is actually the clean version of what she truly meant. Still, empathy fatigue is no laughing matter nor does it mean you're defected. You just have the natural ability to show people their feelings are important to you.

How can I protect my peace as the empathetic friend?

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You know you need to set boundaries, but what does that mean? Paruolo says, "The key is understanding that empathy needs to be balanced with compassion - it's not just about feeling others' emotions but also knowing how to help without depleting yourself."

One of the things she loves to do is "encourage empaths to set clear boundaries around their emotional availability and make time for regular grounding exercises." As with gratitude journaling, try to focus on an activity that calls for you to be present. Focus on what you can hear, see, touch, taste, and smell.

"Self-care isn't just a luxury; it's essential maintenance for empaths. This might mean scheduling alone time, finding a supportive therapist, or joining communities where you can process your experiences," Paruolo implores.

I know how to be there for others, but how do I ask for emotional support when I need it?

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You may feel like it's impossible to ask others for help since your shoulders are the ones people cry on, but you're only doing yourself a disservice by not speaking up. No one's super resilient or able to handle all of their distressing feelings alone. We're not meant to.

It's the reason Paruolo wants you to speak up about what you need. "The most effective approach I've seen is being direct about your needs rather than hoping others will figure them out," she says. I made this mistake during postpartum and found myself expecting my family & friends to know exactly how I felt, but they're not mind readers. The more I verbally asked for help with little or big tasks, the more my mental and emotional load lightened.

Paruolo wants you to look at "asking for support as strengthening your friendships through trust and vulnerability, instead of waiting until you're overwhelmed." By the time you reach that point, you'll be ready to enter rage or full-blown shut down mode and they're not fun.

Avoid unlocking their proverbial doors by scheduling "regular check-ins with trusted friends," suggests Paruolo. "This creates a sustainable support system and helps prevent emotional crisis points.

We have even more self-care stories for you to dive into if you need a mental and emotional boost!

Have you ever wondered why it seems some women always have the best friendships? We're talking about on the level of Sex and the Cityor Insecure. It's debatable whether some of those friends are toxic or not, but that's another story. The point is, it seems like some women have the best luck when it comes to building fun and supportive platonic relationships.

Are there unique qualities women in this position share? According to friendship coach Zoe Asher and licensed therapist Nicolle Osequeda, the answer is yes! Asher is host of the top-rated Accidentally Intentional podcast while Osequeda is the owner and founder of Lincoln Park Therapy Group, giving them an inside look at how people tend to approach all types of relationships!

Let's dive in!

Here are the unique qualities women with lots of friends share.

1. Women with a lot of friends value connection & community.

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The one thing everyone with a solid group of friends can agree on is how it feels like you've built your own supportive community. Friends are often the first people we turn to with good or bad news, or the ones we simply want to go on adventures with. Osequeda says, "Women with strong friendship circles often value connection, community, and the power of vulnerability."

There's a realization that women in this unique position are able to "recognize that life is richer with a support system," says Osequeda. This involves "people who will listen, validate, and be there through both the highs and lows" she adds. From the friend who stayed up with you all night after a bad breakup to the one who cheered the loudest at your graduation, women who have a huge friend circle know that life feels better when we can connect with others.

Based on her experience as a therapist, she's "observed how women start friendships by gradually sharing layers of themselves." This can look like "having children at the same school or bonding over shared interests," she adds. This vulnerability is important because it creates a foundation that signals to women they've found their tribe.

2. Women with multiple friendships are open to vulnerability.

Like Osequeda mentioned, vulnerability can deepen our friendships. "These women are open to sharing the 'messy' parts of themselves which builds a deeper, more authentic bond." Also, she notes women with a lot of friends "aren't afraid to shed layers and be real" because "this vulnerability strengthens their sense of community." The more this happens over time, the more it "helps foster the connections" women with a lot of friends "cherish," according to Osequeda.

Honestly, she says "we’re all wired to seek out connection, and friendships provide that sense of community, validation, and belonging." She believes we truly "crave spaces where we can share our thoughts and feelings about what truly matters to us."

Asher believes women with lots of friends are "usually drawn towards one another in friendship" based on two levels:

  • Level 1: Shared interests, appearance of confidence, a positive energy that they feel (smiling helps with this!)
  • Level 2: (When in conversation) the safety they feel when speaking to another person, [emotional compatibility], how engaged the person is in conversation, and a desire to learn more about them, ultimately to find shared values.

This determines how women move forward in friendships. The approach is often led with "a deep sense of authenticity and care," according to Osequeda. "This is because women want relationships where they can be themselves, sharing hopes, dreams, and frustrations without judgment."

3. Women who have a lot of friends like other people they're friends with.

Again, the fact women with lots of friends actually like the people in their chosen circle is monumental. Asher says, "An interesting Yale study done in 2003 sought to look at 'popularity' in high schools to see if they could find something that all of the most liked and most popular kids had in common (outside of being a jock, etc.,)."

The common thread? "THEY liked the highest amount of people," Asher reveals. I talk about being a people pleaser a lot, but genuinely liking others isn't the same as that. IMO, it's actually admirable when people can respect others regardless of their race, religion, socioeconomic status, or sexuality.

She knows you're likely asking, "How does this apply to women having a lot of friends?" Her answer? "Across the board, the principle here is that women with the most friends are continuously on a hunt to find good and likable things about others."

However, this isn't based on a selfish need or want. "They've determined that the time invested in others is of mutual benefit," says Asher because "the biggest coast in adult female friendships is time — the most finite resource we all share in common."

4. These women also don't mind making new friends.

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While making friends as adults shouldn't be hard, it definitely doesn't mean it comes easily. From overthinking to social anxiety, there's so many reasons why we struggle. Also, this idea we're doing fine without friends isn't exactly helpful or positive. Asher says, "The CDC has said that the impacts of loneliness on our bodies are more harmful than smoking 15 cigarettes A DAY! Making time for quality friendships (and the pursuit of it) is just as important for your physical state as working out is."

Where should you start if you want to forge new friendships? Osequeda says, "Start within communities that already resonate with you — whether it’s your child’s school, your workplace, a gym, dog park or a shared hobby. Places where you already belong create natural opportunities to connect." She even suggests giving "apps like Bumble BFF or local meet-up groups" a chance because they "can also help you find like-minded friends." But don't think you're limited to this!

Though Asher agrees that women tend to approach "friendships by trying to find commonalities right from the beginning," she says you don't have to confine yourself to this formula. "The reason I don't think this is best is because we are boxing ourselves in when we do this. The greatest friends could be on the other side of the stereotypes we're creating," she notes. Taking it a step further, Asher shared her own experience with this. "I watched all 3 of my best friends get married and have kids all before I ever got married. On the outside, most women would think 'They don’t have anything in common.' But on the inside, the character traits and values we each were looking for were mutual, and that became a more important compass for our friendship than the stage in life we were each in."

She was even surprised she'd become close to her best friends because of how things looked externally. "We had nothing in common, but I'm so glad I didn't box myself in," she says excitedly.

Here Are Even More Ways To Make New Friends!

Asher has three ways you can open yourself up to new adult friendships if you're interested.

  1. The most important place to start is our mindset. We have to first decide “I don’t want to be lonely anymore, and I’m worth having meaningful friendships.” When we make that decision, then we give ourselves permission and the courage to step out and take action in that! Important note about this: there was a study done at Stanford that revealed that people are 1.5x MORE likely to accept us than we think they are! So don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back!
  2. Go first. Make the ask, and then make the plans! Saying “We should hang out sometime” is ineffective because “sometime” isn’t a day on the calendar! We cannot wait for other people to want to pursue a friendship with us, because most of us are in this same boat — not knowing where to start! We can pursue connection, get plugged into a community (examples: book club, fitness class, church, etc), or create our own connections by just inviting someone over to our house/apartment. The biggest thing we need to remind ourselves of that is to stop making excuses, or pre-determining how we think people will respond!
  3. Again, don’t box yourself in. Don’t let your preconceived notions of what you think your archetype of a friend will look like stop you from spending time with others who don't fit that label. As addressed above, the friendships we’ve been looking for our whole lives could be right behind the stereotypes we’ve created! It’s more about character traits than it is about the external compatibility of hobbies or stages of life.

Osequeda's last piece of advice? "If you already have a friend group, meeting friends of friends is another great way to grow your circle. They key is taking that first step with a little bit of vulnerability — start a conversation, ask a question, and show interest." She's sure "it's these small moments of openness that create lasting connections!"

Want to know if you've taken on a certain role in your friendships? Discover the 11 ways you can tell if you're an empath!

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A Lip Oil That Comes in Neutral and Deep Shades

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Keep your lips hydrated and glossy with this lip oil. This nourishing formula is packed with plant-based oils that deliver a high-shine finish while protecting your lips from the season’s chilly air.

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An Eyeshadow Stick With a Built-in Brush

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Swipe on a pop of color with this eyeshadow stick. It has a long-lasting cream-to-powder formula that blends like a dream. It's an easy way to add a touch of warmth to your fall makeup.

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A Milky Toner That Promotes Glass-Like Skin

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Sometimes, makeup remover and cleanser aren't enough, and that's why adding this milky toner to your routine is absolutely essential. It helps remove any leftover product or oil, promoting a refreshed and hydrated complexion.

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This Cushion Foundation Blurs Your Imperfections

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A satin finish is just one product away with this cushion foundation that has the internet in a frenzy. This foundation is infused with an anti-aging serum, bringing a radiant finish to your skin with each use. It's easy to apply and creates a timeless look that everyone will love.

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A Three-for-One Lip Plumper Set

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Why purchase one product when you can get three for the price of one with this lip plumper set? It comes with three shades that will naturally plump your lips and give them a glossy glow. It includes a light-colored gloss, a neutral tone, and a dramatic pink that can be accentuated with your favorite lip liner.

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A Toner That Doesn't Dry Out Your Skin

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Even your skin could use some probiotics from time to time making this pH-balanced toner a no-brainer addition to your routine. It helps balance out your complexion, soothe irritation, and refresh your skin throughout the day.

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A Hair Mask for a Deep Repair

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This keratin protein-infused hair mask is perfect for repairing and strengthening fine hair. It helps banish split ends, leaving you with healthy, flowing strands. Plus, it nourishes your scalp to promote healthy hair growth.

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A Niacinamide Serum That Addresses Enlarged Pores

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Give your skin complexion that you'll love and feel confident about with this niacinamide serum. It will help shrink the visibility of your pores and provide relief for redness and any discolored areas on your face. It has a sensitive skin-friendly formula that you can use daily without irritation.

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A Perfume That'll Make Everyone Obsessed With You

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TikTokers claimed that this scent caused strangers to stop them on the street and ask what perfume they were wearing, in a video that currently has over a million likes. This warm, musky perfume smells unique on everyone — try it for yourself and see what the scent develops into with your specific skin pH.

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A Plumping Face Serum With a Plant-Based Formula

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Glowing skin is trending now more than ever, and this plumping face serum will help you achieve it. It’s infused with collagen to prevent signs of aging, along with other natural ingredients to help your skin thrive.

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A Cream Highlighter You Can Apply Anywhere

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Add a stunning glow to any makeup work with this cream highlighter. It has an innovative applicator that is perfect for on-the-go use, and it's even infused with aloe vera and fruit extracts to keep your skin hydrated.

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Unbeatable Value for Wrinkle Control Pads

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Incorporate these exfoliating pads into your skincare regimen for miraculous results. Infused with vitamins B5, C & E, and green tea, these wrinkle control pads will keep your skin smooth and help prevent wrinkles and lines.

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This Body Fragrance Has Millions Of Fans

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You will smell irresistible after one spritz of this Body Fragrance that is at the top of everyone's "most-wanted" list. Whether you're prepping for a day out or setting the mood for a cozy evening, this mist is a light, yet luxurious option that is going to gain you compliments wherever you are headed.

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An Anti-Frizz Cream To Use Daily

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Dehydrated hair often leads to a frizzy texture, but this anti-frizz cream is designed to fix that. It’s the perfect product to apply right after cleansing, as it protects from heat damage while locking in moisture.

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A Skin Tint to Prioritize Hydration

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Keep your skin moisturized and glowing with this skin tint. Infused with hyaluronic acid to help diminish uneven skin tones, it offers full coverage that can easily be used as a primer or foundation on lightweight makeup days.

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A Foundation and Finishing Powder to Use Together

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This two-in-one product is a great way to simplify your makeup routine while still guaranteeing flawless results. Patrick Ta has showcased the power of this foundation and finishing powder on his TikTok channel, and many influencers have adored it as well.

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Get Kissable Lips with Maybelline New York Super Stay Vinyl Ink Longwear No-Budge Liquid Lipcolor Makeup

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Glossy and long-lasting. You'll get seriously kissable lips with this Maybelline New York Super Stay Vinyl Ink Longwear No-Budge Liquid Lipcolor Makeup. I absolutely swear by this product, and soon so will you. The shade "Royal" is a deep wine red, and seriously sexy for a night out. This makeup is made to last through the day, but if you want to know my hack, I put on a first layer, blot, and then reapply to maximize long wear.

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A Vitamin C Serum For Anti-Aging

Amazon

With clean ingredients that brighten your skin, this anti-aging vitamin C serum will hit your cart again. It's extra hydrating because of vitamin E, hyaluronic acid, and jojoba oil.

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This Hair Treatment To Transform Your Locks

Amazon

Treat your hair to a little vacation with this Hair Treatment that works to repair, hydrate, and add shine to your locks with each use. With a ton of nourishing ingredients from shea butter to keratin, this product will treat your hair to the attention and care that it deserves after this dry winter.

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These Hair Capsules Transform Your Hair

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Strengthen your hair and reduce frizz with these nourishing hair serum capsules made in Italy. Each plant-based capsule provides a boost of amino acids, leaving your hair silky, smooth, and strong.

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This Sweater Falls Off the Shoulder

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There's nothing as timeless and cozy as this sweater that has an off-the-shoulder fit and lightweight, knit fabric. This loose fitting sweater is a must-have for all of your fall coffee runs or casual days lounging around the house.

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Flare Leggings That Will Keep You On-Trend

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Flare leggings are a top loungewear trend, and Black Friday is the perfect time to snag a pair. This style is crafted from buttery-soft, stretchy material that keeps you comfortable, even on your longest days.

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This Necklace for Layering Over Other Accessories

Amazon

Complement your everyday, laid-back look with this necklace that adds a dainty and chic touch to any ensemble. This accessory can be layered with all of your other necklaces and pieces, ensuring you always look chic, even in your most casual moments.

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This Bracelet Set for Stacking

Amazon

Models are known for their low-key accessories, which is why this bracelet set is a must-have for your "off-duty model" look. These adjustable bracelets come in chunky, flat cable chains and beaded designs, perfect for stacking or wearing alone.

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Carry Your Stuff in a Vegan Leather Tote Bag

Amazon

Accessories are a necessity in any capsule wardrobe. This large vegan leather tote bag is great for commuting, traveling, or everyday use.

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Treat Your Feet to Some New Memory Foam Slippers

Amazon

Homebodies everywhere will appreciate these memory foam slippers. With a faux fur lining and super soft coral fleece, these slippers will become your new favorite accessory.

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This Blazer Dresses Up Your Look

Amazon

The best part about this blazer is that it can be dressed up or down in a variety of different ways. The open front and long sleeves give it a relaxed, yet polished vibe, perfect for throwing over a simple tee or tank like all of the most iconic models do.

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Bell Bottom Pants With Embroidery

Amazon

Show off the vibes of the '70s with these bell bottom pants that have a denim fabric and stunning flare finish. The high-rise fit adds a flattering touch, while the floral embroidery adds a bohemian flair.

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Keep It Casual With a Crewneck Sweater

Amazon

Add some texture to your wardrobe with this ribbed crewneck sweater. Pick from color options, including pink, beige, brown, green, or orange, to wear with jeans or trousers.

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Elizabeth Mott Thank Me Later Face Primer

Amazon

The Elizabeth Mott Thank Me Later Face Primer is a lightweight, illuminating makeup base that helps create a smooth, radiant, and long-lasting foundation for your makeup. This primer helps minimize pores' appearance, control shine, and hide wrinkles and fine lines, leaving your skin looking smooth, even, and glowing. Whether you're looking to create a flawless makeup base or want to improve the overall health and appearance of your skin, this face primer is an excellent choice.

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These Sneakers With Eco-Friendly Material

Amazon

A ton of models have been rocking the streets with these sneakers by Veja. The minimalist design makes them an aesthetic piece, while the eco-friendly material provides comfort for long days on your feet. They pair with everything from trousers to sweatpants, making them a go-to in your shoe collection.

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Lounge in Style With This Pajamas Set

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There is no better way to lounge around the house than with a new pajamas set. You'll feel comfortable and relaxed all day long while wearing this cute set.

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These Earrings With a Paperclip Design

Amazon

Whether you’re rocking a simple tee or a more dressed-up look, these earrings add a bold and chic touch that will elevate your look. The paperclip link design will blend in seamlessly with your everyday look, allowing you to make a statement everywhere you go.

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A Loungewear Set for Casual Days

Amazon

Compromise both comfort and style with this loungewear set. It comes with a matching pair of wide-leg sweatpants and a long-sleeved top that you can easily mix and match with other pieces in your closet.

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Chelsea Boots You Can Wear With Anything

Amazon

Chelsea boots are a great way to switch up from your daily sneakers without compromising on comfort. They're perfect for rainy or snowy days, featuring a thick rubber sole and waterproof material.

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New Balance Sneakers You Can Wear Daily

Amazon

These New Balance sneakers are great for those who want to prioritize comfort without compromising style. They have a trendy neutral color combination that matches any outfit and enhances your aesthetic.

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Add These Must-Have Baggy Jeans to Your Cart

Amazon

You can create an endless amount of outfits with these baggy jeans. Wear them with oversized sweaters, bodysuits, tank tops, or a tuckable tee for casual vibes.

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Rejuvenate Your Skin With This Miraculous Facial Toner

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Spotted: you, glowing like a scandal in the moonlight thanks to this watermelon toner. Even the Sensitive-Skin Society swears by it. PHA, BHA, OMG! Your pores don't stand a chance, darling.

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A Waistcoat Vest Inspired by the '40s

Amazon

This waistcoat vest is inspired by the 1940s and has a double-breasted design and a tailored fit. The polished look is perfect for both business settings and casual days, allowing you to layer and style this piece in many different ways.

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This Striped Button-Up Shirt Is a Classic

Amazon

Not into sweaters? This striped button-up shirt is another way to be stylish this fall. Tuck it into your jeans or dress pants for a more put-together look.

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Save Money on This Long Sleeve Bodysuit Dupe

Amazon

You don't need to spend a ton of money on fall wardrobe essentials. Customers claim this long sleeve bodysuit is a cheaper replica of high-priced options.

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A Jumpsuit With Side Pockets

Amazon

Show off that carefree look that everyone carried around in the '70s with this jumpsuit, which has an oversized fit and floral design. This one-piece outfit also has hidden pockets, serving as a practical and chic option for casual days around town.

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A Fleece Jacket You Can Easily Crop

Amazon

Adding cozy pieces like this fleece jacket to your wardrobe is a great way to make the most out of the fall season. It features high-quality material that's perfect for casual days or layering over your athletic wear.

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Add a Puffer Vest to Your Athleisure Look

Amazon

Wear this puffer vest over a long-sleeved shirt or sweater for a cute and cozy accessory. It offers a comfortable fit and will help you stay warm without overheating.

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This Pullover Sweater With a Fuzzy Fabric

Amazon

When the temperatures drop, every off-duty model reaches for a chunky knit sweater. This pullover sweater is an affordable and adorable option that is as cozy as it is chic. The oversized fit is perfect for pairing with leggings and slippers, giving you the laid-back look on the colder days.

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A Polo Sweatshirt With a Collared Finish

Amazon

Show off the sporty looks of the '90s with this polo sweatshirt that has been trending on Amazon this fall. The bold stripes and loose fit create a relaxed, comfortable look that's perfect for casual weekends or a chic, sporty outfit. Pair it with baggy jeans or leggings for that classic '90s vibe.

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A Chunky Knit Sweater Made With the Softest Material

Amazon

Having a chunky knit sweater to throw on any day of the week is absolutely essential for the fall. This sweater is made from a cozy material that feels like you’re wrapped in a blanket all day long. You can get it in a variety of colors to match any pair of bottoms.

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Get a Flawless Complexion With This Saie Slip Tint Tinted Moisturizer

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A sunscreen and tinted moisturizer in one? Count us in. This Tinted Moisturizer will leave your skin looking dewy, bright, and clean at the same time with its lightweight formula.

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Fall in Love With This Wool Peacoat

Amazon

The fall and winter months will be incomplete without a wool peacoat. It offers a mid-long length and notched collar lapel that will remain classic.

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A Quarter Zip Sweater for Casual Days

Amazon

This quarter zip sweater is a great compromise for days when you want the comfort of a hoodie but prefer a more polished appearance. It's made from a soft and warm material and features an oversized fit for extra comfort.

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Layer Up With a Flannel Shirt

Amazon

Create a warm and fashionable look with this flannel shirt that is available in a ton of color options. Wear it with your favorite pair of denim for casual vibes.

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These street sneakers Broke the Internet

Amazon

If you consider yourself to be a sneaker enthusiast, then you've probably heard all about these street sneakers that are quintessential to any streetwear look. They have a classic design and supportive build that will provide your feet with all of the attention they deserve.

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A Multi-Use Lip Pen That's Smudge-Proof

Amazon

Create the perfect lip combo with minimal effort using this lip pen. It acts as a liner, stain, and lipstick all in one. Made with a long-lasting formula that's resistant to water and smudging, it comes in a variety of colors, from nude to bold luxe.

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This Trending Belt Bag

Amazon

Chances are, you've already noticed the Belt Bag trend making waves, and with Prime Day just around the corner, it's the ideal moment to secure one for yourself. These nifty accessories prove invaluable on those hectic days when you need to stay hands-free while keeping your essentials within arm's reach.

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Dazzle Everyone In This Perfume

Amazon

A good perfume is essential for whenever you need a little extra sparkle and good smells for an event. This luxury perfume is a great investment into yourself and your confidence. It's long lasting, from Dubai, and carries a luxurious scent.

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This Pore Mask For Unrecognizable Skin

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Formulated to refine and refresh your pores, this Pore Mask leaves your skin free from impurities with one quick use. Use this mask weekly to transform your skin into a glass-like finish that will become a complexion that you will love.

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Lip Gloss That Comes in the Best Shade for Fall

Amazon

Dark lip combos are going to be a huge trend this season, and this Mac lip gloss is the perfect way to achieve it. It comes in a gorgeous cranberry color and features a non-sticky formula with lasting shine.

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Stay Warm In This Chunky Cardigan

Amazon

Keep it comfy and cute in this bright pink chunky cardigan. The big knit texture and oversized fit is the perfect balance of all the latest trends.

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Let Your Hair Air Dry With Wave Spray

Amazon

Create effortless beachy waves with the OUAI wave spray. This aromatic hair product adds texture, body, and shine to any hair type. It's color-safe and won't damage a keratin treatment.

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A Gel Sleeping Mask for Hydrated, Clear Skin

Amazon

This gel sleeping mask refreshes, hydrates, and refines pores while you get your beauty sleep. This is a mask that delivers visible results. One reviewer says, "My skin is glowing & hydrated better than anything else I've ever used. The smell is wonderful! Unfortunately I've gotten very skeptical & cynical about products that promise you so many wonderful things but never seem to live up to those promises.....HOWEVER, this product really does do what is advertised and I'm so happy with the results!"

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This Bougie Hoodie Will Be Your Best Friend This Fall

Amazon

Experience the internet's favorite trend with this Hoodie, expertly crafted from a luxuriously thick material that's been taking the online world by storm. Elevating your hoodie game, its superior quality injects a touch of sophistication into the familiar comfort of a hoodie. Embrace the buzz and upgrade your casual style effortlessly with this must-have piece that combines trend and refinement.

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This Sweater Set Is Girly In The Best Way

Amazon

There's no easier outfit to put on for errands or other quick trips than a matching set. This pretty sweater set is the ultimate in comfort and style to get through the winter months.

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These Slippers Keep You Smiling

Amazon

Brighten up your holidays with these Slippers that are not just a treat for your feet. The soft, cozy material ensures warmth and comfort, while the anti-skid sole keeps you safe on slippery surfaces. Whether lounging at home or stepping out for a quick errand, these slippers combine comfort and style.

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A Shimmery Eyeshadow Palette That's Super Pigmented

Amazon

There's something about Fall that makes us want to perfect that sultry, smokey eyeshadow look using warm, glowy shades. This eyeshadow palette helps us accomplish that. With eighteen gorgeous shades, from a neutral khaki to a shimmery, radiant umber, it's easier than ever to create a dimensional eyeshadow look that makes you feel like a million bucks.

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A Tinted Hydrator With Buildable Coverage

Amazon

This tinted hydrator provides just the right amount of coverage without looking cakey. The formula is smooth and hydrating as it evens skin tone. The hyaluronic acid and squalane formula lock in moisture for all-day, so your skin feels soft and moisturized throughout the day, no matter how cold and dry the fall weather may be.

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Sparkly Bodycon

Amazon

Make a bold statement in this Floerns Sequin Bodycon Dress, complete with a cut-out back and sequin accents.

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A Matching Sweatsuit Set

Amazon

Just because you are spending a night at home doesn't mean you can't look fabulous. This Matching Sweatsuit Set will leave you looking your best with its comfortable joggers and crewneck top.

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A Cut Out Bodysuit For Date Night

Amazon

This super soft and breathable Cut Out Bodysuit is just what you need for a dinner date. It offers an asymmertical neck that can be accentuated with any type of necklace.

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These Must-Have Sherpa Lined Leggings

Amazon

Homebodies everywhere will fall in love with these Sherpa Lined Leggings. They feature a drawstring closure, two pockets and elastic around the ankles for additional warmth.

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The Perfect Lipstick for Every Skin Tone? Clinique Almost Lipstick Is Going Viral.

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Everyone's been talking about Clinique Lipstick and its ability to look good on every skin tone. When two sisters with completely different looks tried it out for themselves, they were both amazed. This versatile shade can be dressed up or down to suit any makeup look.

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Apply This Glow Serum Before Doing Your Makeup

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Hydrating, healthy and flawless are all understatements when it comes to this glow drop serum that releases hyaluronic acid, coconut water and electrolytes into your skin to give you the ultimate radiance. This boosting serum can give you a non-shimmer, dewy finish to your makeup look after each and every use. With it's lightly scented coconut flare and lightweight touch, you will fall in love with the first drop.

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This Perfume Smells Heavenly

Amazon

Everyone will be asking what you're wearing with this lovely Lake & Skye Eau de Parfum. This blend of ambers and musk is as refreshing as it is sophisticated. If you're always looking to smell fresh and clean, this is the scent for you. One 5-star reviewer calls it "heaven in a bottle."

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This Shark Blanket Onesie to Cuddle Up In

Amazon

Dive into comfort with this Shark Blanket Onesie, perfect for lounging at home. Its unique shark design adds a fun twist to the traditional blanket, making it a great conversation starter. It's an ideal gift for someone who loves to snuggle up in style and is a cozy haven for chilly evenings.

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Blowout Primer That Makes All the Difference

Amazon

Blowout looks are the season's style, and this product will surely get you the volume and hold you desire. This Blowout Primer is your secret weapon for attaining the volume and hold that will turn heads. Formulated to defy humidity and conquer frizz, this essential primer ensures your carefully crafted hairstyle withstands the elements.

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A Mini Travel Kit of Beauty Essentials for Hydrated Skin

Amazon

This mini travel kit is a great way to sample products that are sure to give you a hydration boost. The set includes a variety of skincare essentials, from a hyaluronic cream to an avocado cleanser, so it's easier than ever to figure out what works best for you. One reviewer says, "I can tell you 100% these live up to the hype and will buy this again."

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Waterproof Eyeshadow Stick Won't Break The Bank

Amazon

This Waterproof Eyeshadow Stick is highly pigmented, long-lasting, and smudge-proof, making it the perfect choice for those who want to achieve a flawless eyeshadow look. It's formulated to withstand even the most humid weather or physical activity, so you don't have to worry about fading throughout the day. And the best part? It's budget-friendly, so you can achieve a high-quality look without breaking the bank.

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This Super Serum Will Give You Super Skin

Amazon

Olay always knows just what our skin needs, am I right? The cult favorite drugstore brand just released this 5-in-1 Super Serum that will have you instantly hooked. With niacinamide, Vitamin C, collagen peptide, AHA, and Vitamin E, this magical formula improves texture, firmness, evenness, hydration and smoothness all at once. It'll leave your skin feeling refreshed, hydrated and healthy for a glow that others will notice immediately.

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These Sweatpants Are on Another Level

Amazon

Discover the allure of these Sweatpants, which exude a level of sophistication that sets them apart. Their refined charm lies in the raw hem stitch detailing and substantial waistband, imparting an elevated touch to your loungewear. Step into a realm of class and comfort as you redefine your relaxed style with these exceptional lounge pants.

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The LED Light Therapy Mask That Makes Your Skin Clearer And Brighter

Amazon

People have been going crazy about this mask on TikTok saying it performs miracles for their skin. The LED light therapy mask is suitable for all skin types and uses a number of colors to tackle various problems people have with their skin such as acne, redness and roughness. There is no surprise this product has become viral because the results can be considered almost life changing!

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This Easy To Use Curler

Amazon

Simplify your hair routine with this ingenious Curler that takes the effort out of styling. Just hold it, and it does the rest – your arms will thank you! And the best part? It's designed to work seamlessly with all hair types. Say goodbye to the hassle and hello to effortlessly fabulous hair!

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Transform Your Look With This Peel & Reveal Lip Stain

Amazon

Surprise them with a long-lasting lip color that’s a hit on TikTok. Ideal for teens and adults, this lip color changes from an indigo shade to reveal the final color, ensuring a fun and unique makeup experience. It's smudge-proof, making it a fantastic gift for those who love experimenting with their makeup.

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This TULA Skin Care Eye Balm is the Worst Nightmare of Dark Circles

Amazon

Dark under eyes don't stand a chance. I absolutely adore this TULA Skin Care Eye Balm after long nights and the accompanying rough mornings. This eye balm cools, soothes, and brightens even the most stubborn of dark under eye areas. Small and lightweight, this eye cream is great for traveling or just a quick refresh on the go. If you want a truly cooling experience, keep this eye balm in you fridge overnight.

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Buttery Soft Leggings

Amazon

We've got a hunch that these TikTok-famous leggings are on the verge of a fantastic sale – the perfect opportunity to snag a pair! Whether you prefer full-length or capri style, these leggings have you covered. And with fall just around the corner, there's no better time to refresh your wardrobe and pair these leggings with your coziest sweaters.

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These Nostalgic And Fashionable Mini Ugg Boots

Amazon

These Mini Ugg Boots will put a smile on any fashionista's face. With sheepskin lining and insoles, these boots will keep anyone warm all winter long whether they are inside or outside.

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Pamper Yourself with these Luxurious Slippers

Amazon

Indulge in some serious self-care with these oh-so-luxurious sheepskin slippers. With their Australian shearling lining, they're the perfect accessory to conquer those chilly days in style. And just when you thought it couldn't get any cozier, the memory foam footbed swoops in to ensure you as comfy and snug as can be.

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A Turtleneck Sweater Dress For Your Holiday Party

Amazon

Play dress up this winter with this Turtleneck Sweater Dress. Pair it with tall boots, booties or heels for a fancy outfit or dress it down with white sneakers or mules.

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Enhance Your Skin's Natural Glow With Glotion

Amazon

Discover the hidden gem in your beauty arsenal - L'Oreal's Glotion, a natural glow enhancer that outshines even the name brand competitors. This illuminator highlighter skin tint guarantees an all-day radiant glow that often goes unnoticed amidst its flashier counterparts. Don't be fooled by labels; this product is destined to become your new favorite. Its subtle yet transformative touch brings a luminous radiance to your complexion, effortlessly blending into your daily routine for an enviable glow that demands attention.

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This Stylish And Dependable Duffel Bag

Amazon

Everything you need for a weekend getaway will fit inside this Duffel Bag. It offers a sleek and compact design that features multiple compartments and a USB charging port.

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This Sweater Will Have You Looking Chic

Amazon

This is Amazon's best-selling oversized sweater because we're all obsessed with a chunky ribbed turtleneck. Throw this on with a pair of jeans and you've got yourself one chic look!

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These Silk Scrunchies Are a Must Have

Amazon

Indulge in the elegance of Silk Scrunchies that not only adorn your hair but also prioritize its health. These scrunchies boast a practical and simplistic size, making them easy to wear and style. Unlike traditional hair ties that can cause breakage and damage, silk scrunchies gently hold your hair without tugging or pulling. They minimize friction, reducing the risk of split ends and hair breakage.

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These Leggings That Are Better Than The Expensive Designer Ones

Amazon

For my girls who like to wear leggings literally every day, I got you covered. This leggings pack comes with seven different pairs of leggings that come in different colors and can be mixed and matched throughout the week to create some of the cutest workout looks! No one will ever know! They feel as soft as butter and will make your legs look slimmer than ever.

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