10 Charming California Small Towns To Visit For Your Next West Coast Adventure

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California is one my favorite states for so many reasons: the beach, the mountains, the weather, the food. But, one of the main reasons I love California is the plethora of insanely cute, small towns you can visit. There are so many unique destinations, and each offers something completely different. From small mountain towns, to trendy beach towns, there is an endless list of adorable places to travel or road trip to in California. Here's a list of all my favorites for your next trip!

Carmel-by-the-Sea

Hyatt Carmel

This town is located in one of my favorite areas on the coastline of California. In fact, it's so cool that Taylor Swift went recently on a double date with Travis Kelce, Gigi Hadid, and Bradley Cooper. This adorable town in Northern California has such a sweet coastal charm to it. There are so many quaint and affordable inns that I fell in love with when I came, but the Hyatt Carmel Highlands is a fantastic option as well! It's a very walkable city with shops everywhere and the beach right in the middle of town. When you visit, make sure to hit up the rest of the "Golden Triangle" in Monterey and Pebble Beach — they're so cute, and all in a 20-mile radius!

St. Helena

Inn St. Helena

I recently stayed in St. Helena on a roadtrip up to Napa, and it was a perfect escape from home. It was quiet, quaint, and oh-so-cute. The town is filled with incredible wineries nearby, great food, and the sweetest people. I seriously fell in love with how charming it was. I mean, just look at how adorable the Inn St. Helena is! If you're nearby definitely check out Calistoga, Yountville, and downtown Napa. All cute towns with great wineries and food.

Idyllwild

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This is a funky little town that will totally excite you with its strange, yet mega-cool vibes. I love the quirkiness that's injected into every corner of this place. There are plenty of small-businesses and unique shops in town, as well as a wine tasting art gallery — yes, you read that correctly — that I love visiting. Plus, there's an old school movie theater that I'm honestly just obsessed with! Cellphone service here is notoriously bad, but that's fine because I love this town for a peaceful, quiet getaway anyway!

Fun fact: The mayor is a golden retriever named Max. And no, I'm not joking.

Julian

Visit Julian

Julian is another great town to visit if you're looking for something unique and quiet. You can see the stars, embrace nature, and feel like you're living your best Gilmore Girls dream. It's especially beautiful in the fall and winter when the leaves are changing, or there's snow! This really is a magical small-town spot that I love, and I honestly can't wait to re-visit!

Solvang

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Solvang is a Scandi-girl's dream with its Danish-inspired buildings, food, and activities! The whole town instantly makes you feel like you were transported straight into Europe — all without even leaving the country! I come here often since it's such a short ride away from LA. It's always such a fun visit with incredible food, and lot's to walk around and see. The Danish charm of this town will definitely entice you to come back many times after!

Crestline

Visit Crestline

There's no better feeling than driving into the mountains of California to a nice, cool lake in the summertime. If you're a fan of Arrowhead, but don't want to deal with the crowds or tourism, then definitely check out Crestline. It's a mountain oasis with a fun lake (Lake Gregory), that even hosts slides in the summer for kids and adult alike to enjoy. I love this town for its fun thrift stores and nice locals. Oh, and it's also insanely affordable, too — always a plus! With it only being about 20 minutes from Arrowhead, I would highly recommend it for your next mountain destination!

Ojai

Ojai Valley Inn

Ojai is mountain meets wineries meets luxury, if you get what I mean. It's a very posh town tucked away in the mountains with wineries everywhere, luxury shopping, and gorgeous hotels (like the Ojai Valley Inn). It's a good boujee spot if you're wanting to feel fancy, and perhaps run into Duchess of Sussex, Meghan Markle — she visits the town often! This is a beautiful place with a lot to do, so you'll truly never get bored in this California oasis!

Los Olivos

Beckmen Vineyards

This town is very similar to Napa, except it's so much closer to LA, which I love as an LA native. Los Olivos also has more of a small-town feel than large city Napa, so it's much more slow paced — perfect for anyone who wants all the good wine (hello, Beckmen Vineyards!) without all the crowds. The food paired with the wineries is absolutely superb! I would highly recommend SY Kitchen for some incredible food and dining experience! The hotels, like The Inn at Matthei's Tavern, are like you're living in a Nancy Meyers movie. So much fun, and such pretty sights!

Joshua Tree

National Park Service

I love the Airbnbs in Joshua Tree! They truly make you feel like you are glamping in the best way possible! While there isn't much to do in this town besides relax, camp, and enjoy the stars, there is a great thrifting scene on the main street with lots of niche shops and antiques. I love to come here for the coolest, most rare finds!

Dana Point

Waldorf Astoria

Dana Point has to be one of the most luxurious beach and areas in California. With incredible resorts and hotels (my fave is Waldorf Astoria Monarch Bay) there's no shortage of amenities, pools, and spas. So come here if you're looking for less travel and more vacation, if you know what I mean. Peak relaxation, and on the beach no less!

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A recent Gallup pollshowed that fewer than half of Americans are “very satisfied” with their life choices. Where you live, it turns out, has a lot to do with your overall life satisfaction: the community you have, the quality of life you experience, and your physical and emotional health and safety. Personal finance website, WalletHub released its report on the Happiest Cities in America in 2024 to find the places where people experience the highest life satisfaction and the results are surprising.

“Meaningful relationships and social connections are perhaps the most important ingredients for a happy life, according to an 85-year-long study recently published by Harvard researchers Waldinger and Schulz (2022)," says Buffie Longmire-Avital, Ph.D., a professor at Elon University. “High-quality relationships stand out as important predictors of individuals' happiness. Having rewarding interactions with people whom you value and who value you may provide the support, comfort, laughter, and intimacy that elevate individuals' happiness.”

Jess Loiterton

WalletHub first compared the 50 states across 30 key indicators of happiness, with a date set that ranged from the depression rate and the share of adults feeling productive to income growth and the unemployment rate. Hawaii has the lowest share of adult depression, which is 2.3 times lower than in Tennessee, the state with the highest. New Jersey has the fewest suicides (per 100,000 residents), which is 3.7 times fewer than in Montana, the state with the most. Utah has the highest volunteer rate, which is 2.6 times higher than in Florida, the state where the rate is the lowest. Volunteerism is another way people find purpose and joy in life.

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In order to determine the happiest cities in America, WalletHub compared 182 of the largest cities — including the 150 most populated U.S. cities — across three key areas:

  • Emotional & Physical Well-Being
  • Income & Employment
  • Community & Environment

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“When individuals have a high sense of community...well-being increases, and stress, anxiety, and depression decrease. Neighborhoods with high walkability scores that are also safe and near things like parks or trails help sustain our physical and mental health, which are key factors in determining happiness,” adds Dr. Longmire-Avital.

Here are the top 20 happiest U.S. cities, many of which score high on the nature and family-friendly aspect. Ready for a new start or planning local travel this season? Check them out!

Fremont, CA

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According to the WalletHub report, Fremont, CA, located in the San Francisco Bay Area, is the happiest city in America, and one reason why is income: the city has the highest share of households with an income above $75,000, at nearly 80 percent. Studies have shown that increasing your income also increases your happiness up to $75,000 (but not beyond). With a rich history tied to the California Gold Rush, Fremont has evolved into a hub for the tech industry, including Tesla's Fremont Factory. The city offers excellent schools, a wide range of cultural experiences, and outdoor spaces like Mission Peak. People in Fremont also have a high rate of life satisfaction, a low depression rate, and a long lifespan on average. It also has the lowest share of adults who report having mentally unhealthy days, so people in the city seem to be doing the self care needed to keep themselves happy.

Overland Park, KS

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Overland Park, KS, has earned its spot as the second-happiest city in the U.S., thanks to several key factors that contribute to its residents' well-being. With the lowest poverty rate in the nation at just 4.2 percent and an impressively low unemployment rate of 3 percent, it's clear that financial stability plays a huge role in their happiness. The city also boasts one of the lowest food insecurity rates, meaning more families have what they need to thrive. Residents of Overland Park also enjoy a lot of leisure time each week, which many spend participating in sports — one of the top ways to stay emotionally and physically healthy. Overland Park boasts a rich cultural scene, including the Overland Park Arboretum and Botanical Gardens, the Nerman Museum of Contemporary Art, and a variety of dining and shopping options. People in Overland Park tend to get more sleep than those in most other cities, a crucial factor for maintaining a positive mindset.

San Jose, CA

Josh Sorenson

Not far from Fremont is the third-happiest city: San Jose, CA, in the heart of Silicon Valley and home to tech giants like Adobe and eBay. San Jose has a diverse food scene, art galleries, and beautiful outdoor spaces, including nearby hiking trails in the Santa Cruz Mountains, which you can enjoy year-round. The city has the longest average life expectancy in the country. It also has one of the lowest separation and divorce rates and scores the best on the health and wellness company Sharecare’s Community Well-Being Index, which measures how much residents like where they live, feel safe and have pride in their community. It also scores extremely well on Sharecare’s Life-Satisfaction Index, which measures people’s health risks based on various physical, financial and social factors.

Madison, WI

Josh Sorenson

Nestled between lakes Mendota and Monona, Madison offers stunning waterfront views, beautiful parks, and a ton of Midwestern charm. The University of Wisconsin-Madison brings in some of its youthful energy while the city boasts a strong local food, music, and art scene. It's also a great place to live, work, and explore.

Irvine, CA

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Irvine, California in sunny Orange County is known for its family-friendly vibe, excellent schools, and thriving economy. Home to the University of California, Irvine, the city offers a mix of culture and nature with great parks, bike paths, nearby beaches and the Irvine Spectrum Center, a popular shopping and entertainment destination.

Honolulu, HI

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This tropical paradise and state capital, located on the island of Oahu, is famous for its stunning beaches, including the iconic Waikiki Beach, and its rich cultural heritage. Honolulu offers world-class shopping, dining, and entertainment alongside scenic landscapes like Diamond Head and lush rainforests. Home to landmarks like Iolani Palace and the Pearl Harbor Memorial, Honolulu is known for its warm aloha spirit.

San Francisco, CA

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Hop on a cable car ride in San Francisco, the #7 happiest city on the list. It's year-round mild climate and stunning hilltop views remind us just how stunning this city is. From the Golden Gate Bridge, Crissy Field, and Presidio Tunnel Tops to bustling Fillmore Street in Pacific Heights, Valencia Street in the Mission, and Hayes St. in Hayes Valley, there's tons to explore from a world-class food scene to indie shopping to museums and coastal views.

Pearl City, HI

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Pearl City is a charming suburban community located on the island of Oahu, just west of Honolulu. The nearby Pearl Harbor National Memorial and surrounding waters with scenic views hold both historical significance and recreational activities like boating. The city itself has a peaceful close-knit community and is family-friendly with excellent schools, parks, and shopping centers.

Columbia, MD

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Located between Baltimore and Washington, D.C., Columbia is known for its diverse neighborhoods, excellent schools, and many green spaces with parks, lakes, and over 90 miles of walking and biking trails. Columbia’s town center features shopping, dining, and entertainment options, including the Merriweather Post Pavilion, a renowned concert venue. With a strong sense of community, access to major cities, and a focus on sustainability, Columbia is not surprisingly in the top 10 happiest cities in the U.S.

Scottsdale, AZ

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Stunning desert landscapes, including hiking trails at Camelback Mountain and McDowell Sonoran Preserve, make Scottsdale a destination for nature lovers. Rounding out the top 10 happiest cities, Scottsdale is famous for its wellness resorts, golf courses, and thriving arts scene, including galleries, museums, and events like the Scottsdale ArtWalk. With a growing economy, delicious dining options, and a warm, sunny climate, Scottsdale is a popular destination for tourists and locals looking for a southwestern lifestyle.

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Here are the remaining top 20 happiest cities.

11. Sioux Falls, SD

12. Huntington Beach, CA

13. Minneapolis, MN

14. Garden Grove, CA

15. San Diego, CA

16. Fargo, ND

17. Portland, ME

18. Seattle, WA

19. Lincoln, NE

20. Bismark, ND

Did your city make the cut? Check out the full list of Happiest Cities in America in 2024 at WalletHub.

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Alright, Gilmore Girls fans — it’s time to get serious. Us avid re-watchers know the beloved (and even hated) characters of the television series very well (hey Rory, Lorelai, Jess, Logan, Dean, Luke, and Sookie). Yet, despite our unwavering commitment to these guys and gals, there are several side characters who provide comic relief, exciting storylines, and necessary advice.

These supporting characters are the ones we like to call the underrated stars of Gilmore Girls. And they deserve way more love then we give them. Scroll on to see the top six people who truly made the show a binge-worthy one.

​Lane Kim

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Lane Kim, AKA Rory’s best friend since basically forever, is often overlooked as a main character. She’s actually an extremely relatable and compelling person due to her constant struggles that so many viewers have also dealt with. Kim’s complicated relationship with her mom is highlighted frequently, showcasing the ups and downs of extreme parental expectations.

She navigates romantic endeavors with both Dave and Zack (whom she ends up having two twin children with, showcasing a new parenting storyline) while simultaneously pursuing her passion for music. And throughout all of her personal grappling, Lane remains an upstanding, loyal friend to Rory. You heard it here first: Lane Kimdeserves more respect!

​Michel Gerard

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In all our favorite TV shows, there’s always that one side character who puts the main one in their place. In Gilmore Girls, that supporting character is Michel Gerard — and he does it in the most wonderful, humorous, and sassy way possible. Gerard is Lorelai’s co-worker, and while his often-cynical attitude can frustrate her at times, they also have a deeply loving friendship. He brings the show to life with his brutal honesty, witty remarks, and snarky sophistication that many viewers adore, but don’t give enough credit to. Everyone needs a Michel Gerard in their life!

​Kirk Gleason

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How could you not love Kirk and his many, many occupational changes. His slightly odd and quirky personality adds a lightness to the more serious plotlines in the show — and it’s much-needed. Kirk is often cast to the side by the residents of Stars Hollow themselves, but his steadfast loyalty to the town and his fun eccentricities make him a character that you just can’t help but love.

Miss Patty

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Miss Patty, the town’s dance instructor, is a strong female character who is totally underappreciated. She works as a guiding womanly force for young girls, including Rory and Lane, and displays an evident independence that so many people strive for IRL. Miss Patty doesn’t take any nonsense from others and prioritizes her passion for dance, making her a beacon for following your dreams. She’s the queen of the series, TBH.

​Babette Dell

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Every town needs a local gossip, and Babette Dell fulfills that role perfectly. She acts as a longtime friend and neighbor of Lorelai’s, often letting her in on town secrets and offering advice (likely through inappropriate comments, which adds an entertaining touch of comic relief). Babette is also an inherently warm person who loves her family, community, and food — arguably, the most relatable of them all. You can tell she always means well towards others, making her an extremely lovable character.

​Lindsay Lister

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Lindsay is the very sweet local girl who formerly attended high school with Rory and, unfortunately, gets caught up in a bit of a love triangle with Rory and Dean. After Rory and Dean's romance comes to an end, he develops a relationship with Lindsay, tying the knot rather quickly. But…then Dean cheats on her, while married, with Rory. Let’s be real here: those two, lovebirds or not, were in the wrong. Lindsay! Deserved! Better!

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While most Utah-bound visitors might make a beeline toward Zion or Arches, Bryce Canyon National Park evokes a very rare and mystical spirit I’d argue you can’t find anywhere else.

That’s not to denounce the absolutely breathtaking beauty of the other four parks under The Mighty 5, but I experienced some truly unexplainable magic on my recent adventure to Bryce Canyon. Every twist and turn left me at a loss for words.

If you happen to stumble upon it in your travels, you’ll also be caught by surprise. Between the blue, hoodoo-dotted skyline, rocks with a sprawling spectrum of colors, and the smooth canyon walls, you really can’t help but be in awe.

Aside from hitting the trails and snapping hundreds of photos in Bryce Canyon National Park’s vastness, there’s a lot more to explore in the surrounding area. Keep reading to discover everything you can get up to in this incredibly impressive region of Utah!

Meredith Holser

Hiking Queen's Garden trail in Bryce Canyon National Park

1. There are endless outdoor opportunities.

Bryce Canyon country offers all kinds of opportunities for outdoor adventure: hiking, camping, canyoneering, ATV touring, horseback riding, and more.

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Inside a slot canyon near Escalante, Utah

Hit some stunning viewpoints and experience the wild rock formations through a hike in Bryce Canyon (Queen’s Garden and Mossy Cave are two great beginner-friendly options), go off the beaten path and catch some serious scenery with with Grand Staircase ATV Tours, or dare to go deep into the region’s slot canyons, guided by the playful experts at Excursions of Escalante.

Meredith Holser

Vista near Escalante, Utah

If you’re not one for hiking, nearby Scenic Byway 12 offers a 122-mile stretch worth of views to soak up without ever having to get out of your car (though, if you ask me, being immersed in it is so much better).

No matter your appetite for adventure, there’s always something to get up to!

Meredith Holser

Looking up from Queen's Garden trail in Bryce Canyon National Park

2. The natural beauty will leave you stunned.

Being in Bryce Canyon literally feels like you’re on another planet. As a native Texan-turned-Colorado girl, I was constantly gawking at the towering hoodoos, striated sandstone surfaces, and intense blue skies that I simply don’t see at home.

Meredith Holser

Rock formations surrounding Kiva Koffeehouse in Escalante, Utah

Every feature there is so vast, reminding you just how small of a piece you are in the world’s grand puzzle. I felt humbled in the most satisfying way possible.

Meredith Holser

Rainbow sighting at Ofland Escalante

My late August visit landed in the middle of southern Utah’s monsoon season, so I also got to witness rich bands of fog and torrential mid-day downpours – both equally as beautiful as the clear weather. Rainbows almost always rolled in after each rainfall, capturing every onlooker’s attention and encouraging an undeniable sense of calm.

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Looking down into the Bryce Amphitheater

3. The area has a really rich history.

Bryce Canyon has seen many indigenous cultures throughout history, from Fremont, Anasazi, Pueblo, and Paiute. Tribes relied heavily on the region’s bounties as early as 1200 A.D., using native plants and animals to survive and thrive. It’s important to acknowledge that Bryce Canyon country’s indigenous roots are still undeniably present today.

The area’s founding is most commonly accredited to Ebenezer Bryce, a Mormon pioneer for whom Bryce Canyon was nicknamed around 1874. It officially became a national park in 1928.

Zooming out by 75 million years or so, dinosaurs roamed the surrounding Grand Staircase-Escalante National Monument. Sixteen new species of dinosaurs have been discovered in the area since 1999 in addition to hundreds of animal and plant fossils mapped in Bryce Canyon itself.

Whether you seek out the canyon’s history for yourself or gather fun facts from the locals, you’ll surely learn a lot on your travels here!

Meredith Holser

Lil Dipper dome at Clear Sky Resorts Bryce Canyon

4. There are plenty of places to stay, whatever your vibe is.

From glamping to camping, there’s a nice range of options when it comes to finding accommodations in Bryce Canyon country. My top recommendations?

Clear Sky Resorts Bryce Canyon sits about 15 miles southeast (~20 minute drive) from Bryce Canyon in Cannonville, Utah. Nestled in a mellow canyon, Clear Sky’s unique windowed domes (suitable for couples or groups up to 8 people) offer unparalleled views of the stars while supplying modern comforts like air conditioning, showers, and wifi.

Meredith Holser

Looking out from a Lil Dipper dome at Clear Sky Resorts Bryce Canyon

There’s even an on-site restaurant and bar with such friendly staff members that really make the stay memorable. Coming back to your fully outfitted dome after a day-long adventure will be extremely satisfying!

Meredith Holser

Fire pit and accessible cabins at Ofland Escalante

Ofland Escalante is located in Escalante, Utah, about 46.5 miles (~1 hour drive) from Bryce Canyon. This polished accommodation surely taps into the heart of glamping, but still feels quite grounded in the surrounding nature. Ofland is fitted with a pool, a hot tub, a food truck, a lobby stocked with grab-and-go snacks and drinks, and a playful drive-in movie theater.

Meredith Holser

Inside a Deluxe Cabin at Ofland Escalante

There’s also an epic outdoor lodge to enjoy – sit around the fire pit while you sip a local brew, play a few hands of Uno, or cozy up with a book. You can book a deluxe or tiny cabin, a decked-out Airstream trailer, or set up at your very own campsite here. There are also custom-designed accessible cabins that boast extra floor space and ADA compliant details for a super cozy stay!

Meredith Holser

Overlooking formations near Escalante, Utah

If you’re looking to camp in Bryce Canyon National Park, you can certainly pitch your tent inside the park’s North and Sunset campgrounds. The Sunset campground is closed in the winter, and both locations are first come, first served, so it can be a little chaotic to land even a single-night stay.

To avoid the frantic search for a campground inside the park, you can opt for locations outside of it, like Red Canyon Campground in Dixie National Forest (about 6 miles from Bryce Canyon) or campgrounds in Kodakchrome State Park (about 15 miles from Bryce Canyon), which still provide wonderful scenery and a comfortable place to lay your head.

Meredith Holser

Brisket sandwich with mac n' cheese at i.d.k. Barbecue

5. The food is scrumptious.

Fear not, outdoorsy foodies. Bryce Canyon country has quite a few spots to get your grub on between adventures! Sink your teeth into a hefty BBQ sandwich at i.d.k. Barbecue (Tropic, UT) or grab an insanely tasty slice at family-owned The Pizza Place (Tropic).

Meredith Holser

The exterior of Kiva Koffeehouse

Down a local beer alongside your very American dinner at 4th West Pub (Escalante, UT) or sip on some ethically-sourced caffeine with your choice of Southwestern fare from Kiva Koffeehouse’s rotating menu (Escalante).

Meredith Holser

Sipping Kiitos' Blackberry Sour at Ofland Escalante

The food is grand, but the drinks are worth mentioning, too. Despite Utah’s unusual liquor laws, there are numerous breweries and distilleries creating delectable beers, IPAs, ciders, gins, whiskies, and more. Uinta, Kiitos, and Wasatch are the big names when it comes to breweries, but Utah’s distilleries are more concentrated near Salt Lake City, so you’ll find the source of stronger spirits there.

Meredith Holser

Striated rock formations near Bryce Canyon National Park

More Must-Knows

  • Best time to visit: For the best (and warmest) weather, the summer months of June through August are ideal to visit Bryce Canyon, though the park tends to see more crowds during that time. Spring and fall (April-May and September-October) may be chillier in terms of temperature, but you’ll likely catch spring blooms or fall foliage, depending on when you decide to visit. Plus, the crowds die down in these shoulder seasons. The winter months are colder than cold and bring on unpredictable weather, though the show lays out good grounds for skiing and snowshoeing, if that’s your jam.
  • How to get there: If you’re aiming to fly to get to Bryce Canyon country, your best bet is to route to either Salt Lake City or Las Vegas. From either location, the drive to Bryce Canyon is about 4 hours, offering exceptional sights as you go.
  • Cost for the park: You can enter Bryce Canyon with a standard pass, annual pass, or America the Beautiful pass. A standard park pass costs $20-$35, an annual park pass costs $70, and an America the Beautiful pass costs $80. You can learn more about what pass is right for your visit here!
  • Trip essentials: Having sturdy hiking boots, high-quality socks (I love my Smartwoolpairs), SPF, warm layers for chilly nights, and a hydration pack (this insulated one from Brümate is so worth it) on-hand proved to be the most helpful items I packed for my adventure to Bryce Canyon. Prepare to pack comfy clothes and toiletries, plus snacks and camping items if you plan to pitch a tent.

For more information about Bryce Canyon Country, visit brycecanyoncountry.com.

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One thing about me is if a TV show has a catchy name, it’s going to catch my attention. And The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives did exactly that. If you’re a reality TV girly like me, this show is 1000 percent for you. It has everything from a soft swinging scandal, secret Tinder account, and fruity cereal (IYKYK) to clout chasing and soda obsessions.

The show is set in Salt Lake City, Utah, following eight Mormon social media influencers who make up #MomTok, a group of Mormon moms who film TikTok videos. (Truthfully it took me until episode 3 to tell them apart — they look so similar, it’s those stunning Utah curls).

Their worlds blew up overnight after Taylor Frankie Paul shared in a TikTok Live that she took part in “soft swinging,” which led to her and her husband divorcing and impacting the friendships of this group of women. And as such, The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives was gifted to us all.

BUT the soft swinging scandal isn’t the only shocking moment of this series. Here are a few other gasp-worthy moments that need to be talked about.

​Every Show Needs A Villain — Enter Whitney Leavitt

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While Taylor dealt with the fallout of the soft swinger scandal, Whitney Leavitt was dealing with her own scandal. She led the #MomTok group to believe she relocated to Hawaii when the scandal broke to get away from the noise, but Whitney shared that was a cover up, and the real reason her family relocated was because the rumors of her husband having a Tinder account (for their entire marriage) were true. So she basically admitted Taylor was her scapegoat to get out of town.

And while Whitney was hoping for the girls to rally around her during this truth bomb about her marriage, she felt her announcement was overshadowed by Taylor’s miscarriage news (who became pregnant shortly after), ultimately driving Whitney to not attend Taylor’s baby shower. All of a sudden, Whitney doesn't want to be involved with Taylor, and claims her and Taylor only have an online relationship instead of a real one… Umm I’m sorry what? This was the start of Whitney paving her way as the show's villain.

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Fast forward to a girls trip for Mayci Neeley’s birthday, Whitney felt the group’s friendships haven’t been authentic. “Let’s be honest,” she told Mayci, “have we all ever been genuine, real friends? Or has there always been an agenda? Has there always been some sort of transaction needed?” Tell me if I’m wrong, but Whitney hasn’t been a true friend if she feels a transaction is needed and feels like some of these friendships don’t exist IRL, but I digress.

After the girls trip, Whitney thought it would be in her best interest to unfollow the women on social media and abruptly leave the group chat, but later expresses how nobody called and asked why she left...Unfollowing your friends and leaving the group chat feels so high school and attention seeking IMO. At this point of the show, I was questioning what I was watching, but I couldn’t turn it off.

In the series finale, Whitney made the not-so-shocking decision to not attend her best friend Mayci’s launch party, claiming she “wasn’t in the space and needed some time from the group.” Hasn’t Macyi always had Whitney’s back through everything, and now she’s not going to show up for her? Aren’t one of the #Momtok’s core values to support each other and have one another's back? Whitney I need answers!!

​The Soda Obsession

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Let’s move on to another revelation in the show that I can’t stop thinking about. So you may or may not have caught that in every episode, the women mention their love of soda or have a giant soda in hand. My immediate thought was "what is up with this soda obsession?" Well, Mormons do not drink alcohol or hot beverages, as they have been told by God “Hot drinks are not for the body or belly.” Therefore Mormons like to indulge and treat themselves to a soda. Which is why in Utah, you’ll find Soda shops on almost every corner.

For these women, nothing brings them more joy than a soda. And no they aren’t slamming back a Diet Coke or Dr. Pepper. They’re drinking dirty sodas, which consist of a classic soda mixed with syrups or creams.

As shown in the show, Demi Engemann has a very specific Swig order which consists of sparkling water, sugar free coconut syrup, sugar free vanilla syrup, sugar free raspberry syrup, sugar free pineapple syrup and coconut cream.

I am desperate to try her drink. Does Swig ship? Or can someone please open a location in Miami?

​The Cereal Brand Heard Around The Country

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During episode 3, we found out Demi Engemann confided in Whitney Leavitt during a girls trip about some intimate details regarding her sex life with husband Bret Engemann. Well, Whitney shared those details with other women in the group and the series producers. Whitney told producers, “What can I say? The fruity cereal has to do with taste,” in an interview during the episode, while smirking about it like a true villain.

Fast forward to later in the episode during Demi's Galentine’s Day celebration, Whitney thought it would be a funny prank to gift Demi a box of Fruity Pebbles and have her open the gift in front of the group (and the cameras), making this intimate detail of Demi’s marriage more public. But the prank of course, does not go the way Whitney had planned because Demi is not happy. I am so curious to know what Whitney thought Demi’s reaction would be?

And if Demi did send out texts about the intention of the evening, that was a low blow on Whitney’s end to gift her a box of Fruity Pebbles onscreen. And honestly, it's a bit hypocritical coming from Whitney, who's been preaching she wants to create a safe space with #Momtok. It’s a little sus.

​What Happened in Vegas?

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One of the more dramatic moments of the series happens in Vegas…of all places! The group celebrates Layla’s birthday in a very non-traditional Mormon way, at Chippendales. It's revealed Jen Affleck’s husband Zac Affleck (yes — related to Ben Affleck — first cousins once removed) has a controlling and misogynistic ick to him when he questions her character and threatens to divorce Jen if she goes to the Chippendales show. Which 1) she knew nothing about, considering the show was a surprise and 2) she didn’t even stay to see the show!

In a very authentic display of friendship and sisterhood, the women really rally around Jen, voicing their concerns, and ultimately their disgust, for her husband. (This man even talked badly about her friends and their marriages, woof.) We don’t often see acts like this on reality TV. This felt very real and raw, and we must protect Jen at all costs.

The series ended with a few unanswered questions, #1 being will #MomTok survive this? And with this show being one of Hulu’s most-watched unscripted shows, we’re waiting patiently for Hulu to announce a second season.

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Hydration is key to maintaining healthy hair and skin, so we've compiled a list of our top 39 hydrating skincare and hair products that deliver transformative results. From deeply moisturizing hair products that prevent damage and breakage to nourishing skincare serums that revitalize your complexion, each product is designed to infuse your hair and skin with essential moisture.

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Care for the Skin Under Your Makeup With This Moisturizer

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This Neutrogena moisturizer is one of the best ways to prep your skin before you start with your makeup. The ultra-hydrating, oil-free, lightweight formula absorbs quickly and leaves you feeling boosted and soft.

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An Anti-Frizz Cream To Use Daily

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Dehydrated hair often leads to a frizzy texture, but this anti-frizz cream is designed to fix that. It’s the perfect product to apply right after cleansing, as it protects from heat damage while locking in moisture.

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These Hair Capsules Transform Your Hair

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Strengthen your hair and reduce frizz with these nourishing hair serum capsules made in Italy. Each plant-based capsule provides a boost of amino acids, leaving your hair silky, smooth, and strong.

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Some Eye Patches To Prevent Wrinkles

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Because your under-eyes are the most sensitive part of your face, they can use extra hydration with these eye patches. Infused with snail mucin, they visibly plump the skin and reduce fine lines almost instantly.

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A Hair Mask for a Deep Repair

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This keratin protein-infused hair mask is perfect for repairing and strengthening fine hair. It helps banish split ends, leaving you with healthy, flowing strands. Plus, it nourishes your scalp to promote healthy hair growth.

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Dew Drops With All the Best Skincare Ingredients

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Start your skincare routine with these dew drops for a perfect glow. They’re ideal for use in your skincare routine or as a makeup primer for dewy makeup. With a hint of illumination, they act as a highlighter on the high points of your face.

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A Moisturizer Made With Hyaluronic Acid

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Level up your skincare routine with this moisturizer to achieve that coveted glass-like complexion. Its lightweight feel makes it perfect for wearing throughout the day along with your makeup products.

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An Antioxidant-Rich Cream Moisturizer

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Visibly plump your skin instantly with this cream moisturizer. It's perfect for sensitive skin and helps prevent common skin issues like eczema. It uses a natural blend of honey and fig fruit to promote a radiant complexion.

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A Lightweight Hyaluronic Acid Serum to Boost Hydration

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The Good Molecules hyaluronic acid serum is a great starting point when revamping your skincare routine to prioritize hydration. Its non-greasy formula helps retain your skin’s natural moisture barrier, allowing the rest of your skincare products to absorb more effectively.

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A Toner for Glass-Like Skin

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Incorporating skincare products with a rice formula is an excellent way to keep your skin feeling hydrated and refreshed. This toner is made with a rice water formula infused with ceramides to enhance radiance, delivering glowing results.

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A Leave-In Treatment for Luscious Hair

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If your hair is feeling dry or dull, this leave-in treatment can be a game changer. Its triple bond complex has been scientifically proven to make your hair stronger and softer. It also reduces signs of damage and split ends while preventing future breakage.

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A Moisturizer That Soothes Dry Skin Instantly

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Every skincare routine needs a high-quality moisturizer, and this one from First Aid Beauty is an excellent option. It strengthens your skin’s moisture barrier, instantly relieving dryness. It’s even safe for eczema-prone skin.

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A Laneige Sleeping Mask That Brightens and Smoothes Your Complexion

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Why not multitask while you get some beauty sleep with the Laneige sleeping mask? This Korean skincare gem features a probiotic-derived formula that visibly boosts hydration and promotes a smoother complexion.

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A Salicylic Acid Exfoliant With a Gentle Formula

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Exfoliating is essential for keeping your skin hydrated and glowing, and this salicylic acid exfoliant will do the trick. It removes clogged pores and dead skin cells from the surface, allowing your moisturizers to hydrate deeply.

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A Moisture Repair Serum You Can Use in the Shower

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This hydrating moisture repair serum is a great addition to your shower routine to replenish dry hair and prevent breakage. It’s infused with hyaluronic acid to help your hair retain moisture and tame frizz.

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A Plumping Face Serum With a Plant-Based Formula

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Glowing skin is trending now more than ever, and this plumping face serum will help you achieve it. It’s infused with collagen to prevent signs of aging, along with other natural ingredients to help your skin thrive.

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Snail Mucin That Removes Dullness Instantly

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The Cosrx snail mucin has been a viral skincare product on social media, receiving rave reviews for quite some time. It features an intensely hydrating formula that will leave your skin looking radiant. The extra hydration provides a plump appearance, helping to reduce fine lines and wrinkles.

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A Sulfate-Free Deep Conditioning Balm

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Biolage has a hair care line full of hydrating products, but one of their best is this deep conditioning balm. It’s the perfect alternative to your everyday conditioner for repairing dry and damaged hair. Plus, it has a refreshing, clean scent.

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A Rosemary Hair Oil for Hair Growth

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This rosemary hair oil is great for adding hydration and promotes hair growth and a thicker texture. Infused with biotin, it improves both hair and scalp health. You can use it daily to prevent and correct split ends.

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A Cleansing Mask That Won't Dry Out Your Skin

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Sometimes, a double cleanse is needed for your face, and this Kiehl's cleansing mask is the perfect solution without drying out your skin. Its aloe vera-infused formula helps detoxify and refine while maintaining hydration.

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A Multi-Use Hair Oil To Prevent Damage

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Hair oil is an absolute non-negotiable for keeping a sleek and luscious hairstyle. This hair oil adds hydration, prevents frizz, and acts as a heat protectant, allowing you to use your favorite hot tools without worry.

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An Overnight Hair Mask Your Hair Will Thank You For

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This overnight hair mask is the perfect way to prep for wash day, ensuring your hair stays hydrated and silky smooth. It locks in moisture for up to 72 hours and can last for up to four washes. A little goes a long way, requiring only one to four pumps.

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An Affordable Cream Moisturizer That Plumps Your Skin

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You don't have to empty your wallet to get high-quality skincare products, and this cream moisturizer by e.l.f. is a prime example. It's infused with niacinamide, hyaluronic acid, and peptides to help your skin lock in moisture all day long.

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A Moisture Barrier Cream to Address Irritation

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The combination of hyaluronic acid and ceramides in this moisture barrier cream is perfect for preventing and treating irritation quickly. It helps reduce redness caused by breakouts or environmental stressors, leaving you with a glowing complexion.

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A Styling Cream That Adds Hydration

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Completing a trendy slicked-back hairstyle will be easier than ever with this Kenra styling cream. Its hydrating formula smooths any flyaways for a salon-level hairstyle at home.

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A Collagen Mask That Works Overnight

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Apply this hydrating collagen mask before bed to wake up with beautiful, glass-like skin. It works to minimize the appearance of pores and boost elasticity as it absorbs overnight, and it even has a different color and texture in the morning.

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A Shampoo and Conditioner Set Infused With Argan Oil

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Set the tone for hydration by investing in this argan oil shampoo and conditioner set. It's made from a sulfate-free formula that works on curly and straight hair to reverse and prevent damage.

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A Hair Serum You Can Wear Overnight

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Keeping your hair strong is a great way to prevent split ends and breakage, and this hair serum is the perfect solution. You can use this serum overnight or throughout the day to instantly nourish and detangle any knots. It's also known for preventing frizz and flyaways.

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A Bonding Oil That Works Wonders

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If you think your hair damage is irreversible, this Olaplex bonding oil will prove you wrong. It comes in a small container, but don’t worry— a little goes a long way to strengthen, prevent, and repair split ends.

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A Facial Spray for Hydration Touch-Ups

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Sometimes, even after finishing all your skincare products, your face can still feel a little dehydrated, and that’s where this Mario Badescu facial spray comes in. It features a formula made with aloe, herbs, and rosewater that works with any skin type for instant hydration.

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A Moroccanoil Treatment for Healthier Hair

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Make sure your hair stays hydrated even after wash day with this Moroccanoil treatment. It's rich in antioxidants that pull impurities from your hair, leaving it nourished and strengthened. It's absolutely essential for keeping your hair healthy.

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Tatcha Skin Cream to Prevent Dryness and irritation

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Investing in Korean skincare finds like this Tatcha skin cream is a great way to promote a healthy complexion. Its rich formula is perfect for wearing with or without makeup, setting the tone for a dewy glow.

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An SPF Moisturizer To Use in the Mornings

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The sun can seriously dehydrate your face, which is why using this SPF moisturizer will do wonders for your complexion. Its clear base won't leave any white cast or greasy feel. It's a non-negotiable step in your morning skincare routine.

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A Neck Serum That Will Help You Age Gracefully

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Don't forget about your neck in your skincare routine—invest in this neck serum, which helps prevent signs of aging and keeps your skin looking lifted and firm. It's made with a gentle formula containing rosewater and niacinamide.

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A Hair Oil That Transforms Damaged Hair

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K18 is a popular brand for repairing hair damage, thanks to its weightless and non-greasy feel. This hair oil is suitable for all hair types and will help strengthen your strands to prevent further damage.

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A Natural Face Wash Infused With Green Tea

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Sometimes, our favorite skincare products can leave a buildup of chemicals that are harsh on the skin, but this natural face wash can help solve that issue. It's made with gentle organic ingredients that won't strip your skin of its natural moisture.

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A Collagen Cleansing Balm for Gentle but Deep Cleansing

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This collagen cleansing balm is a great way to remove makeup residue and product buildup without causing irritation. It has a three-in-one design that softens, cleanses, and hydrates all at the same time without using added oils.

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A Leave-In Conditioner Spray That Works on Any Hair Type

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Protect your hair from breakage and split ends with this leave-in conditioner spray. It acts as a detangler, perfect for applying right after your shower, and it even has added vitamin E and caffeine to nourish damaged hair.

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An Anti-Aging Eye Cream for Sensitive Skin

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This eye cream allows you to add anti-aging benefits to your skincare routine without harsh retinol. It helps remove puffiness and dark circles while preventing fine lines and wrinkles from forming under your eyes.

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