10 Smart Money Decisions to Make Before You Turn 35

Getting older comes with all sorts of perks, like knowing exactly how to wear leggings without looking lazy and serving as a mentor for aspiring female execs. But the road to major #adulting is also paved with a ton of decisions that sometimes (okay, most of the time) aren’t always the easiest to make. Luckily, we have Jennifer Barrett, Chief Education Officer at Acorns, a financial investment company, to help us navigate important financial decisions that we all should make by the time we turn 35. Read on to learn how to make bank at the bank.

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1. Take control of your finances. First things first — you have to commit to getting on top of your money situation and making it work for you. According to Barrett, this means knowing exactly where your money goes so you can direct more of it where you *actually* want it to go. This will help you reach your financial goals sooner.

2. Fund an emergency savings account. Since an estimated 63 percent of Americans don’t have enough money saved to cover an unexpected $1,000 expense, we’re not surprised if you happen to be one of them. But you don’t have to be! “Funnel some of each paycheck automatically into a high-interest savings account that you can tap for unexpected and unavoidable expenses like a trip to the emergency room or a car or home repair, so you can avoid taking on credit card debt,” Barrett says. She suggests starting with a $1,000 savings account target and eventually aiming to set aside enough to cover three to six months of basic expenses.

3. Max out your retirement contributions. Okay, so if you can’t quite max them out, at least make sure you’re contributing enough to your employer-sponsored plan to earn any matching contribution offered by your employer. “For 2017, the max contribution is $18,000 for an employer plan like a 401(k) and $5,500 for an IRA (individual retirement account),” Barrett explains. “Contributing that much can be tough for a lot of people. But by the time you’re 35, you want to be putting 10-15 percent of your income toward your retirement.”

4. Know where your money is going. We’re all guilty of a little mindless spending, but Barrett notes that this habit can be pretty costly in the long run. She suggests being more conscious of how you spend your money and how much you’re setting aside each month. “Look at what you spend on essential expenses like rent, groceries, and transportation, and incidentals like entertainment and shopping. Identifying how much you spend within each category will help you see clearly where you can cut back on spending and start saving more.”

5. Create a budget you’ll actually follow. “One easy approach is to use the 50/20/30 budgeting rule,” Barrett says. “Allocate 50 percent of your income for fixed expenses like housing, health insurance, and utilities. Put 20 percent into savings and investment accounts to help you reach mid- to long-term financial goals. Use the other 30 percent for flexible spending like travel, eating out, and entertainment. You can also allocate some of that toward your financial goals and reach them even faster! Using accounting apps like Mint can help you easily map out a budget and stay on top of your spending. The more you know, the more you can make smart, informed choices.”

6. Use credit wisely. So you want to establish credit, but you don’t want credit card debt. Barrett recommends trying to pay off your balance each month.“At the least, make sure you’re paying more than the minimum,” she says. And what if you don’t? “You could end up paying significantly more than you borrowed because of compounding interest.”

7. Boost your credit score. “A difference of 100 points in your credit score can mean the difference of thousands of dollars in interest you’ll pay when you take out a mortgage or other big loan,” notes Barrett. So it’s worth the effort. Start by using annualcreditreport.com to check your report for errors, and get free credit reports from three credit agencies every 12 months. “Pay down debt as quickly as you can [and] ask for an increase in your credit limits, which will help boost your balance-to-limit ratio — a major factor in determining your score. Aim for a score of 750 or more,” Barrett says.

8. Invest your money smartly. “In addition to retirement accounts, you can make big strides toward other financial goals by investing,” says Barrett. “Don’t try to time the market, though. It’s better to invest in a mix of low-cost index funds, like exchange-traded funds that trade like stocks, that fit your goals and timeframe, and stick to the plan.”

9. Get the insurance you need. Aside from needing health, renter’s or homeowner’s, and auto insurance, Barrett notes the importance of life and disability insurance. Although these are a bummer to think about, Barrett says that enrolling in a life insurance policy will ensure your loved ones and your nest egg are protected no matter what happens to you. “Disability insurance can protect you if you get sick, and short-term disability can replace part of your income for six to eight weeks when you’re out on maternity leave,” adds Barrett.

10. Write a will. “Create a will as soon as you have stuff worth bequeathing,” says Barrett. “It’s especially important if you have kids or other dependents to outline your wishes in the event something happens to you. [Make sure to] include a financial power of attorney, health power of attorney, and advance medical directive. [This will guarantee that] you know that someone you’ve designated will have a say in what happens or you’ll have left directions in case a debilitating issue prevents you from making decisions for yourself.”

Bonus Tip: Negotiate every raise and job offer. “The National Women’s Law Center estimates that the gender pay gap will cost the average American woman $430,480 over the course of her career,” says Barrett. That’s serious money… so what will help close that gap? According to Barrett, there are three factors — knowing your market value and asking for it, always politely negotiating your job offers, and looking for employers who are committed to closing that gap.

Let’s get financially smarter, together. Tweet us your best financial tip @BritandCo!

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After only two episodes of Only Murders in the Building season 4, Hulu renewed the series for season 5! I'm so excited that the show breaks a recent pattern of cancelling shows after the third or fourth season, giving us more time with our favorite characters, and I'm not the only one.

"Here we go again… my favorite set family. I’m coming home!" Selena Gomez says in an Instagram post, while the official Only Murders account made their own post, saying, "We had our lawyers call business affairs. Turned the 4 into a 5. #OnlyMurdersInTheBuilding is coming back for Season 5!!"

Here's everything you need to know about Only Murders in the Building season 5, coming to Hulu soon.

What is Only Murders in the Building season 5 about?

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Only Murders in the Building Season 5 Plot

We finally got our first details about Only Murders season 5 — and we're going in a direction I totally didn't expect. When Sofia visits Mabel and Charles in the season 4 ending, and asks them to find her missing husband, she's disappointed when they turn her down. And since Téa Leoni just joined the season 5 cast, it looks like she's not taking no for an answer.

“I think she’s the great tease at the end of the finale and a little bit of an intriguing bump forward,” co-creator John Hoffman says in an interview with Deadline. “She’s an extension of the little news report in Episode 9 that Mabel makes note of at the hospital. [Sofia] is the wife of the Dry Cleaning King of Brooklyn, and maybe a couple of dry cleaning outlets in Manhattan, as well, we may come to know...It’s a world opened up potentially that we haven’t talked about too much yet in New York, so she holds a lot of intrigue.”

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New York's underground is a wild space that we haven't really seen on Only Murders yet so I know we're in for one very interesting season — because if this show is going to go there, they're going to go there.

Executive producer Dan Fogelman told The Wrapwe can look forward to “another big fun mystery the writers have been cooking up," while Hoffman has gone on the record saying the new episodes will “hit on some very current things going on within New York, specifically very relevant things that are happening in the city right now.”

When is Only Murders in the Building season 5 coming out?

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Only Murders in the Building Season 5 Release Date

According to The Wrap, Only Murders is looking to begin production on season 5 in March of 2025. Considering we've had a new season over the last four years (with season 1 in 2021, season 2 in 2022, season 3 in 2023, and season 4 in 2024), we're expecting to see season 5 in 2025. Stay tuned for the official Only Murders in the Building season 5 release date.

Who's in Only Murders in the Building season 5?

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Only Murders in the Building Season 5 Cast

The cast of Only Murders in the Building includes Selena Gomez, Martin Short, and Steve Martin. Téa Leoni will also return as Sofia Caccimelio, whose husband Nicky has gone missing.

According to Dan Fogelman, “we can expect more big guest stars that’ll probably be announced sooner rather than later,” he tells The Wrap.

Season 3 featured Ashley Park, Paul Rudd, Meryl Streep, and Jesse Williams, while season 4 stars Streep, Eugene Levy, Eva Longoria, Kumail Nanjiani, Desmin Borges, Siena Werber, Lilian Rebelo, and Molly Shannon.

"I am so grateful that I have been surrounded by human beings that make me better, challenge me, remind me day after day that every moment is a gift," Selena Gomez says about working with Martin and Short. "That’s my pure joy. I thank god for the era I’m in. It’s been the best yet."

Will there be an Only Murders in the Building season 5?

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Yes, Only Murders in the Building has been renewed for season 5! On September 4, Variety confirmed the next installment will have 10 episodes, just like the seasons before it. The latest season premiered on Hulu August 27, and will last until October 29 (just in time to try out an Only Murders Halloween costume!)

Just like the season 3 ending set up season 4, we'll have to wait for the October finale to figure out what kind of mayhem Mabel, Oliver, and Charles will get into next season. "We hope you like it!" Selena Gomez says in the Only Murders in the Building account's announcement, while Martin Short adds, "How exciting is that?"

"We're so exciting to be coming back," Steve Martin says. We're excited too!!

Check back here for the latest Only Murders in the Building season 5 news and check out the other new TV shows coming in 2025.

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Ask anyone who knows me and they'll tell you I'm consumed with fashion, but you know what makes me want to burn things down to the ground? It's trying to find pants or jeans that flatter my petite height. For reasons beyond my control, I'm in the 5'2" club which makes finding short girl-friendly clothes harder than it needs to be, ugh!

From boot-cut to skinny jeans, I'm picky about what I buy because I've been known to look like a tiny, angry chipmunk who's been forced to wear something against her will. Chipmunks are cute, but I'm sure they wouldn't want to wear anything ill-fitting and I'm sure you feel the same!

Keep scrolling to find the best petite jeans that anyone 5'3" and under can confidently wear!

Madewell

Madewell Petite Superwide-Leg Jeans

As a former wearer of skinny jeans, I've been on the wide-leg train for a while. They're roomier IMO and give me reassurance that I won't unnecessarily rip a seam when bending down. Particularly, I live in this pair by Madewell. They're the perfect wash and elongate my frame!

Style tip: I usually wear ankle strap pump heels with them for an elevated look!

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J.Crew Factory Wide-Leg Crop Jean

I don't wear cropped jeans often, but J. Crew encouraged me to take a risk with this pair. The waist area reminds me of Madewell's Superwide-Leg design, but distressed hem makes them look less stuffy. I've purchased ankle jeans before and the fit was terrible so I was pleasantly surprised at how great these look on me!

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Express High Waisted Light Wash Jeans

These light wash jeans are also cropped, but the hem is more straight-forward than J. Crew's version. I usually wear this pair when my household has doctor's or dentist's appointments because they have an air of comfortability about them. When you're on the go, it's important to be able to move around when you need to!

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Banana Republic Factory Mid-Rise Straighter Carpenter Jeans (Petite)

The first thing that drew me to these jeans are their Ecru color. The second is how well they fit when I tried them on in-store. Lengthwise, they stop slightly below my ankles which is good when I actually want to show off my shoes. Sometimes I don't want to go for the oversized wide-leg look so these are always a good alternative for me.

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Pistola Petite Lana High Rise Wide Leg Jeans

It's true — I'm preoccupied with this style of jeans. Aside from Madewell, Pistola has the best feeling denim I've had the pleasure of wearing. This pair specifically doesn't feel stiff, but they don't get wrinkled either! Also, the hem doesn't drag the ground which is a nice change from the pairs I own that do this.

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Good American Petite Skate Jeans

Here's the thing — skate jeans were popular when I was in middle school. A few of my former friends used to wear them with Vans so I'll always have a soft spot for them. The only thing I don't recommend doing is wearing them on rainy days because that wet feeling on your ankles feels weird.

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Ann Taylor Petite Cuffed Palazzo Jean

I never knew the words "cuffed" and "palazzo" could fit in the same sentence, but Ann Taylor's made me a believer. These jeans take business casual to the next level because of their darker wash and overall fit. They're not too "skinny" or "wide," giving you the perfect invitation to wear a slightly oversized blazer with them. At least that's what I do.

Talbots

Talbots Everyday Relaxed Jeans (Plus-Sized Petite)

I'm not necessarily plus-sized but I added these relaxed jeans because one of my friends can't stop raving about them! She doesn't necessarily love the wide-leg look so having something that fits her frame and is easy to style works with however she feels like dressing on any given day.

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Citizens of Humanity Petite Micro Relaxed Jeans

Are they relaxed or barrel jeans? It truly depends on how you want to classify them. According to Citizens of Humanity, they're the petite jeans everyone needs in their closet. Okay, I'm imagining that was the general consensus when they were designed.

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Pilcro Kenna Mid-Rise Barrel Jeans

These are definitely barrel jeans and I love them! I tried a pair from a different brand last year and couldn't stand the way they looked on me, but Pilcro gets it right! The wash also has a very earthy tone to it, making it a good complement to brown, taupe, and cream tones!

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Reiss Petite Skinny Jeans

Did you think I'd really leave skinny jeans off this list? I'm appalled! Jokes aside, I'm not against wearing them and found that I have specific requirements for the leg huggers. They have to look streamlined and can't make me feel like I have to peel them off my skin so I can breathe. It just so happens this pair understands the assignment.

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L'AGENCE Leighton Cropped Stovepipe Jeans

What has cute red seams with a cuffed and cropped hem? L'AGENCE's pair of stovepipe jeans. They make me feel like I'm reliving the pair Olivia Newton-John wore in the original Grease so I try to slip into them when I'm feeling a little edgy.

P.S. Do you see the the slightly curved waistline??

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Money doesn't have to be complicated, but our decisions can make things harder than they have to be. From dipping into our savings account for a shopping spree to running away from investing, we're always one step away from having an even weirder relationship with our finances. Plus, childhood lessons and our current mindset can affect how we view sticking with a budget.

It's something Tori Dunlap, founder of Her First $100K, sees often, prompting her to be an open book about the financial mistakes you're probably making as I type this. Ready to learn which money habits are lingering in your life like a toxic ex?

Keep scrolling to see which common mistakes are really holding your finances back!

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1. Not automating your savings

When's the last time you actually put money in savings when you said you would? Let me guess: it went towards your fave Chick-Fil-A meal or the Valentine's Day decor you couldn't resist buying. This is a judge-free zone, so I'm not here to make you feel bad, but sometimes our best efforts to save money fall flat. Yet have no fear because there's a solution that stems from something you've been overlooking.

"One of the most common money mistakes is not automating your savings. If you’ve ever gotten to the end of the month and felt guilty because you didn’t save any money (or as much as you hoped), this is one thing you can do to help yourself out," says Dunlap. According to her, this looks like you taking the time to "set up an automated transfer from your checking to your savings, at least once a month." You could "set up the transfer on the first day of the month, maybe on the first and half-way through the month, whatever works for you."

But don't worry about getting things "wrong" because Dunlap doesn't think the amount you transfer has "to be a lot" because "even $20 means we're choosing progress." In her opinion, the very act of automating your savings means "you're doing the hard thing first!"

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2. Overlooking high yield savings accounts

In addition to having an automated savings transfer, it also matters what kind of account you're putting your money into. I'm 100% guilty of going beyond a basic savings account as a broke college student because I was terrified I wouldn't understand the terms of what I was doing. Apparently I'm not the only one because Dunlap says we tend to overlook "ensuring that savings money is going into a high yield savings account. But, what is it?

"This is just like a normal savings account, but it’s going to earn you WAY more in interest. Basically, your savings are going to make you more savings," she shares. If you're scratching your head and need more information, we've got your back! Basically, "this is going to be the perfect account to keep your emergency fund in," according to Dunlap.

Instead of being limited to when you can access your funds (like a certificate of deposit or CD), she says "you can take your money out at any time, your money is insured," and "the partner" she and her team "recommend" doesn't have "fees" or "minimums." However, she warns "terms always apply, so check with your bank" before making a hasty decision.

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3. Treating your retirement account as an investment

Full transparency moment: I didn't start paying attention to my retirement account until I left my prior job and had to roll the funds over. Even then, I thought I didn't have to focus on investments because I was sure my new IRA covered all the bases. Wrong! "...one of the biggest financial mistakes is believing the misconception that a retirement account itself is an investment–your IRA is not the investment, it's an account that HOLDS your investments," stresses Dunlap.

Her advice? "Don't just put money into a Roth without actually investing it. It’s a two-step process: make sure you transfer money into your account, and then buy investments with that money."

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4. Going into debt to enjoy yourself

I fear little treat culturesunk its teeth in us and hasn't let go. I'm a recovering shopaholic who puts things in my cart and empties it if I ever feel the urge to do some unhinged damage to my debit card. Still, there are other people who are still in the trenches of living a FOMO-life.

"We know Millennials and Gen Z-ers are more likely to splurge or go into debt for travel, events and entertainment than their generational counterparts–there’s nothing wrong with having a little fun money (plus, I don’t blame them after the pandemic), but we want to make sure we’re not going into debt or dipping into an emergency fund to make it happen," says Dunlap.

If there's something you really want to do, back away from the credit card and listen to Dunlap's suggestions first. She says, "For something like a big trip or a concert, I would suggest starting a sinking fund or a dedicated high-yield savings account. That way, you know you’ve saved that money for the exact purpose you’re using it for, and you get to protect your emergency fund and credit cards in the process."

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5. Waiting too long to start a retirement fund

Be honest: do you have a retirement fund? If your answer is no, Dunlap is ready to have a heart-to-heart with you. "In addition to not investing, I see a lot of women waiting too long to start preparing for retirement," she says. It's so easy for Millennials and Gen Z to think our elderly years are far away, but that doesn't mean we can't start planning for them now.

Also, saving or investing your money while you have debt isn't a sign of irresponsibility. Dunlap says, "You may have heard that all of your debt needs to be gone before you start investing–sure, some of your debt needs to be gone." Of course she'd like to see "your high cost debt like credit card debt" lowered as much "as possible before you prioritize investing," but she doesn't want you to "wait too long to start investing because" you think your "other finances aren't perfect," you're clueless about next steps, or think you "need a billion dollars to get started."

All you have to do is try. "...you’ve got to start somewhere, and something is better than nothing," adds Dunlap.

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6. Bypassing investing because you have limited information

Financial literacy is important, but you're not incompetent because you have limited information about investing. Dunlaps says she sees "people believing the misconception that investing means you’re just selecting individual stocks and taking a gamble on them." Though she agrees it's "an option," she wants you to realize it's "not the only one." So, what to do?

"You can also consider investing in index funds. Essentially, this is a group of companies or groups of stocks. So rather than putting all of your eggs in one basket, you’re putting your money towards something more diversified and low-risk, that’s going to be less of a gamble long-term," suggests Dunlap.It's actually something she likes and teaches about in Stock Market School. "...index funds made me a millionaire," she offers.

BRB, going to sign up so I can get my finances together once and for all.

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7. Shying away from budgeting because you don't want to be restricted

Friends, we can't keep running away from the "budgeting" word. It hasn't helped us, especially if we've been crying about sneaky expenses that are doing a number on our accounts. There's a reason we keep running from it though.

"A lot of us associate a budget with restriction–the idea that in order to save money, you have to restrict yourself and keep a tighter budget. But if you treat money like a diet, it will inevitably fail," Dunlap points out. Here's a secret she wants you to know: "It’s not your fault that you’re not sticking to your budget, it’s just psychology! If you tell me I can’t have fried chicken, all I’m going to do is want fried chicken. Psychology."

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Her point is that "a super restrictive budget just doesn’t work, it's not sustainable" because "your budget shouldn’t stop you from doing things." Instead, she feels "it should be the thing that allows you to do things comfortably." You know like buying those new pair of shoes without calculating if you're going to forfeit part of your cell phone bill.

Dunlap further says, "I’m not going to tell you to stop spending money, because that’s not the solution. I am just going to tell you to stop spending money on things you don’t care about." Her number one suggestion for "helping your budget" is to "establish 3 areas of your life where you get the most joy (ex. eating out, traveling, nesting)."

"When you review your budget, these are going to be the 3 areas you make sure your spending is in line with," she also says.

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8. Pretending your debt doesn't exist

How many of us are guilty of ignoring the credit card bill until we get our statement? According to Dunlap, that's a terrible idea. "The first thing is to make sure you know your numbers, and aren’t running from them–the only way to take control of your debt is by avoiding what’s called the Ostrich Effect.

This is when you avoid addressing and accessing a situation because you’re afraid of what you’ll find," she says. Wondering who the ostrich is in this situation? You are because you're keeping your "head in the sand." However, it's "so common when it comes to debt, but conquering it is the first step to making progress."

Next up? Get familiar with "tackling debt" by "building an emergency fund — regardless of how much debt you're in," says Dunlap. Even if things feel like they're going really well, she knows "life is inevitably going to throw you a few curve balls." Here's looking at you unexpected car crash that totaled my car last year.

"If you're not prepared for emergencies, you still need to find a way to navigate them–whether that’s dipping into your savings, using credit cards, or asking family and friends for help. We don’t want you to have to do that–we want you to have an emergency fund that you can use," she says. It "safeguards you from going into more debt in an already stressful situation," according to her.

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After you've started building a nice emergency fund, she can't wait for you to use her "favorite debt handling method" called "the Debt Avalanche."

  1. Write down all of your debts, listing them from highest interest rate to lowest, and how much the minimum payment is on each.
  2. Calculate your total minimum payments to give you an idea of how much you need to pay every month to keep current.
  3. Start paying extra on the credit line with the highest interest rate. Keep paying the minimums on the rest. This process works best when you focus on one bill at a time.
  4. Once you’ve paid off the debt with the highest interest rate, move down the list to the next one and start paying whatever extra you can towards it each month.

Again, Dunlap doesn't want you to feel like you have to have a fail-proof system in place. "Start where you’re at — you’ll be amazed how fast that debt will start disappearing even with just an extra $15 – $20 a month."

Noted! How can I create attainable financial goals this year?

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Now that you're ready to stop making financial mistakes, you can start thinking about your overall money goals for the year. Dunlap says, "One thing you can do to make your goals automatically more achievable is attach them to a mission. It’s one thing to give it a deadline and make it specific, but thinking about what achieving it actually means to you is going to drive you to accomplish it a little more."

An example she gives is you saying "'I will save my first $100K (specific) by the end of 2026 (timely)'," but she asks, "what does that mean to you, what does it get you? Why is important?"

Per her suggestion, "add your answer as a part of your goal statement." She says you could write something like "'because I want to have enough money to quit my toxic job (mission-driven).'"

Doing this "makes accomplishing your goal about more than the money, and reminds you why you're doing it in the first place," she says as her final piece of guidance.

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Love can often feel like an emotional rollercoaster, and whether we like to admit it or not, our own habits and tendencies can have serious impacts on our relationships.

Astrology offers some insight into our personalities and suggests that certain zodiac signs are more likely to break hearts than others.

Here are eight zodiac signs that can leave even the most level-headed person wondering where it all went wrong.

Scroll to find out which zodiac signs are most-likely to break hearts...

1. Gemini

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Geminis can be hard to pin down. Their affection may seem like a flickering light that's constantly on and off. One day, they're seemingly all over you, but then, 24 hours later, they're distant and cold.

To steer clear of heartbreak, be on the lookout for early warning signs. Geminis can be fun and exciting, but their tendency to change their mind or pull away at random means they're not always the best choice for someone who wants emotional consistency. Keep your emotional guard up, listen to your gut, and be wary if they show indicators of detachment.

2. Aquarius

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Aquarians can be some of the most confusing people to love. They may make you feel like you're the center of their world until they start blatantly flirting with other people right in front of you.

True emotional commitment can be difficult for this sign, and when an Aquarian does decide to end things, it's sometimes in a condescending way.

So, they may not be the best choice if you're looking for a grounded, emotionally available partner. Watch out for signs that they're prioritizing their independence over your relationship, and protect yourself by keeping things light in the early stages.

3. Sagittarius

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Independent, adventurous, and driven: that's the Sagittarian reputation. While these are admirable traits in some scenarios, they can also make this sign feel selfish in relationships.

Their desire for personal freedom often comes first, and if your needs don't align with their plans, they probably won't stick around. That's why they're not ideal partners for people who value emotional commitment.

Be cautious if you're seeing a Sagittarian who is more focused on their personal endeavors than building a real partnership. And if you notice they're dismissive of your needs, it may be time to take a step back.

4. Capricorn

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Somewhat similar to Sagittarius, Capricorns are all about self-preservation and their own success. They don't appreciate anything that stands in the way of their goals, and if your vision of a relationship doesn't match theirs, they won't hesitate to walk away without a second thought.

Keep an eye out for Capricorns' rigid expectations. If they're unwilling to compromise on issues or are quick to end things at the first sign of conflict, take it as a red flag.

5. Aries

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Aries have fiery passion and an impulsive nature. They can fall head over heels quickly, but they also fall out of love just as fast.

Once they decide they're done with your relationship, it can feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you. They won't waste time explaining their decision, leaving you confused.

Emotional inconsistency and impulsivity are two big warning signs for relationships. Trust your intuition because you don't want to invest too much into a relationship that could end just as suddenly as it started.

6. Pisces

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When a Pisces is into you, they can be super loving and charming. But, at the drop of a hat, their behavior can take a sharp turn.

Their biggest issue is that they tend to avoid taking accountability and may play the victim when things go wrong. That can cause you to second-guess yourself and wonder if you were really at fault.

Pay attention to any signs of emotional manipulation, gaslighting, or self-pity when conflicts arise. If this sign refuses to apologize or tries to make you feel guilty for their actions, it's a no-go.

7. Leo

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Leos love being the center of attention, and when they're interested in you, they'll bring you into the spotlight with them. Yet, once their attention shifts elsewhere, you may be kicked to the curb.

This sign's need for admiration and dominance can lead them to disregard your needs after they've lost interest. Talk about taking a self-esteem hit!

If you realize that you're constantly vying for this sign's validation or feel as though you're being overshadowed by their ego, it's a cue they might not be able to give you the emotional support you need.

8. Taurus

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Finally, while Tauruses can be incredibly loving, they may turn ruthless and cold when they decide they're finished with you. This sign is also known for being stubborn, so once they've made up their mind, it can be nearly impossible to change.

So, they aren't great at compromising or seeing things from others' perspectives. Red flags to watch out for include Tauruses holding grudges and becoming overly defensive. And if they're not open to working through issues, it might be time to move on.

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US Weekly'Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner may have split back in 2015, but they're spending an awfully lot of time together as of late. Ben's latest divorce from Jennifer Lopez was the split heard 'round the world over the summer of 2024, after giving us the ever-enigmatic 'Bennifer 2.0' and its whirlwind marriage. However, we would be lying if we didn't say we were so sad when he and our favorite 13 Going On 30star ended things almost a decade ago.

Jen and Ben share three children together, and have found a way to successfully co-parent together. But could they be back on their way to finding something more? These two seem to be out and about together quite a lot lately, and it's got us thinking: could Ben reunite with yet another Jennifer from his past? Here's what's going on!

Everything you need to know about the state of Ben Affleck & Jennifer Garner's current relationship.

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Apparently, Ben Affleck "would love another chance" with Jennifer Garner — at least according to a Page Six source. They told the outlet that he "would definitely be open to giving things another shot with Jen if the timing is ever right." However, the source noted that "Ben knows it’s just not realistic at this time in their lives."

These comments come after the ex-spouses have spent quite a bit of time together, starting with the holiday season and recently culminating in a family paint ball outing.

On March 2, 2025, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner shared a family outing with their kids at a paintball park, according to Page Six. The two seemed really relaxed with one another in the photos, smiling and laughing throughout their time together.

Since then, sources shared with PEOPLEthat the former couple is "on great terms" with each other. They said, "Jen's very happy with Ben. He spends a lot of time with the kids." Another source told people, "They get along great. She makes him laugh like no one else can. She seems happy that Ben's happy."

It's definitely clear that these two still have a unique bond!

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This isn't the only time the exes have been out together recently. Page Sixreported that Jennifer and Ben were driving out in LA together in early December, ultimately grabbing bagels and heading back to Ben's place. This outing comes after a source shared with PEOPLE that Jen and Ben planned to spend the holidays together in 2024.

"Jen truly just wants her kids to be happy. She will continue to make sure that they spend time together as a family and include Ben," the source said. "They have Christmas plans with the kids too. The kids enjoy when they all spend time together."

Christmas isn't the only holiday this former family of five shared in 2024 either. They all spent Thanksgiving together as well, and a source told Page Sixthat Ben Affleck "felt blessed" for that time together. Apparently, Ben feels like he "can just be himself" when he's with her. “Even though Ben and Jen have been split for a while now, he feels a certain level of comfort with her," the source said. “Ben has a strong relationship with Jen that will never dissipate because they have a lot of history together and she’s the mother of his kids.”

Meanwhile, another source shared with PEOPLEthat Jen, Ben, and their kids all worked together at The Midnight Mission's Thanksgiving Street Fair as well. The source said, “They truly enjoy giving back to their community and cherishing quality time together as a family."

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Right now, Jen's technically still dating John Miller, according to PEOPLE. However, we'd be remiss not to notice how close the former couple is at the moment. A source for the outlet even reports, "They have been on good terms for a while now and seem to enjoy chatting and hanging out," while their kids are in the vicinity (via PEOPLE). It's also been said Ben's been "extra giddy lately" and "much more affectionate."

How does Jen feel about this? The source confidently said, "She doesn't seem to mind. She seems to enjoy spending time with Ben." She's also reported to have "good things to say about him." Could there be rekindled feelings? Is this the REAL second chance love story we deserve? Is it really just about the mutual respect these two have for each other — and their family?

If you ask yet another source, they'll tell you Jen "loves her new home that she built for her and the kids" and that her relationship with John is "very normal." This aligns with US Weekly's assessment that Ben and Jen are just "good friends." Plus, Page Six said any romantic feelings are "not mutual" on Jen's end. But, we're definitely keeping an eye on this space to see what happens next!

Regardless of where they stand, it's honestly so nice to see Ben spending time with his family at the holidays and beyond. Thankfully his highly dramatized relationship with Jennifer Lopez didn't seem to harm any goodwill Ben has with his kids and ex-wife, and there's something really lovely about that! So, here's hoping this modern family continues to find happiness together!

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This post has been updated.