31 Floral And Fruity Spring Mocktails You'll Wanna Drink All Season Long

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Mar 28, 2024

The time has come, my friends, to exchange your go-to hot toddy and spiked hot cocoa for something more warm weather-friendly. And while you might love a fabspring cocktail (trust us, we do too), you'll want to try one of these refreshing mocktails when you're wanting something a little different!

Whether you're continuing your Dry January pledges, planning a booze-free picnic in the park, or hosting a wholesome outdoor flower-laden soiree, serving these floral and fruity spring mocktails will make each memory truly unforgettable.

With these refreshing spring mocktails, we promise no one will be missing the liquor! Scroll for some amazing recipes.

Strawberry Ginger Faux-jito

Kombucha is the real shining star of this delicious spring mocktail recipe. It adds a fizzy texture, while bringing the tartness of the strawberries forward, balanced by sweetness. (via Brit + Co)

Grapefruit Thyme Fizz

All you need to form this fizzy spring fling is half a bottle of Betty Buzz Sparkling Grapefruit, a squeeze of Meyer lemon juice, and some fresh time for topping. Easy and yummy? We're 100% in. (via Betty Buzz for Brit + Co)

La Croix + Lavender Mocktail

Your fave sparkling water just got a major upgrade! Mix grapefruit La Croix with a homemade lavender simple syrup, and you've got a highly-addictive spring mocktail on your hands. (via Brit + Co)

Ocean Breeze Spring Mocktails

Betty Buzz Meyer Lemon Club Soda forms the light, fizzy base of these fruity spring mocktails! Coconut water, vanilla, and orange zest join in on the refreshing fun for a sip that'll definitely make you wanna be on a beach. (via Betty Buzz for Brit + Co)

Fiery Golden Mango Tonic

This mocktail recipe is health-focused, so you can stay on track in alignment with all your goals. You won't even notice the vodka's gone! (via Half Baked Harvest)

Berry Spritzer

You better head out to the farmers' market! This spring mocktail uses fresh berries to the fullest. Tingly and sweet? We'd drink that. (via The Honest Company)

Lemon Blackberry Mocktail

This blackberry + lemon mocktail is the perfect twist on your Plain Jane lemonade. (via Running to the Kitchen)

Berry Lemonade Mocktail

This stunningly sweet mocktail packs a punch with Guayakí's Berry Lemonade Yerba Mate. To make mocktails for two, you'll first freeze the yerba mate into ice cubes. Then, fill two glasses halfway with the Berry Lemonade, topping them off with orange juice and sparkling water. Garnsih with strawberries and lemon slices to seal the deal! (via Guayakí Yerba Mate)

Iced Coffee Sparkling Mojito Mocktail

You'd be surprised at just how good iced coffee in a mocktail (or cocktail) is! This recipe from Starbucks features your traditional mojito combo of lime and mint, except with a caffeinated twist! (via Starbucks)

Ginger Beet Mocktail Mule

This non-alc mule is treated with Natalie’s Orange Beet Juice and ginger beer for a well-rounded sip. To make it, shake 4 oz Natalie’s Orange Beet Juice, 2 oz lime juice, and 1 tsp ginger paste over ice. Strain into two glasses and top things off with some ginger beer before garnishing with mint leaves, oranges, and limes. (via Natalie’s Juice Company)

French Kiss 75 Mocktail

These spring mocktails get doused in a heavenly hibiscus syrup that brings sweetness to your every sip. This drink just screams spring, thanks to the floral notes (and the actual floral garnishes)! (via Chef Bai)

Blood Orange Cardamom Cann Mocktail

This easy spring mocktail doesn't have any alcohol, of course, but it gets a boost from something else. 🍃 Crafted with a low, 2mg dose of THC, this drink will mellow you out in the tastiest way. To make it, add a mix of sparkling water, one Blood Orange Cardamom Cann Roadie, and a squeeze of orange to a glass with ice. Stir and enjoy! (via Cann)

Easy Elderflower Mocktail

The combination of elderflower and raspberries forms a refreshing spring sipper that's ideal for relishing in springtime blooms and warm weather. If you're a fan of lavender in your food and drinks, you'll really like this mocktail. (via Salt & Lavender)

Virgin Piña Colada

We couldn't forget the classics as far as spring drinks go! This non-alcoholic piña colada will give you a taste of upcoming summer. (via Lovelyish)

Italian Cream Soda

The first and foremost flavor for these creamy spring mocktails is really up to you. Just don't forget the cream! (via The Merry Thought)

Sparkling Ginger Lemon Mocktail

Lemon and spring go together like sea salt and caramel. This springtime sipper gets a little swing of zing by adding a sprinkling of fresh ginger! (via Snixy Kitchen)

Strawberry Yakult Tea Refresher

Feel pretty in pink, and drink it too! This spring mocktail recipe leverages green tea, strawberries, natural sweetener, and an Asian yogurt drink called Yakult. The Yakult adds notes of citrus as well as a creamy, yogurt-like consistency. (via Takes Two Eggs)

Dreamy Orange Creamsicle Mocktail

This dessert-y drink from Mingle Mocktails is so fit for spring with some citrus notes! To make it, shake 4 oz Mingle Mocktails Blood Orange Elderflower Mimosa and 3 dashes of vanilla over ice before straining into a rocks glass and garnishing with a blood orange slice and a rosemary sprig. (via Mingle Mocktails)

Honey Blackberry Smash Mocktail

These spring mocktails are saturated in color from the muddled blackberries – it's a colorful drink we love to drink! Important note: mint makes the ideal companion for the tart berries! (via Pink Owl Kitchen)

Sparkling Cucumber Limeade

Bring out your veggies! The cucumber in this delicious spring refresher will surprise (and hydrate) your guests. (via Taste and Tell)

Ginger Lime Mocktail

Ginger is jam-packed with antioxidants, meaning these spring cocktails are totally healthy to sip on every single day. (via Elana's Pantry)

Grapefruit Rosemary Lemonade Sparklers

Meet your new hump day pick-me-up! This spring mocktail serves up some fun fizz and a beautiful pale pink that's just peachy for springtime. (via Peanut Butter + Chocolate)

Cherry Shirley Temple Mocktail

Who can forget this cherry kick-back classic? It's sure to please everyone, from your kids to your grandma. (via Home Cooking Memories)

Pomegranate + Rosewater Spritzers

A garden picnic with rosewater-infused drinks? Oh, you know you want to do that. (via Sweet Peas and Saffron)

Iced Guava Passionfruit Drink

These spring mocktails are technically a Starbucks copycat recipe, which makes them all the better! The fruity flavors partner up with coconut milk that provides a light, creamy sip every time. (via The Girl On Bloor)

Jalapeño Cucumber Mock-a-Rita

Spicy margarita fans, it's time to celebrate this spring mocktail! Every single sip will satisfy the sweet, spicy flavors you're craving – without any of the alcohol! (via Chef Bai)

Cucumber Ginger Mint Agua Fresca

Feel the ultimate refreshment from these spring mocktails that are drenched in healthy ingredients like cucumbers and ginger root. We love that electric green color! (via A Spicy Perspective)

Rose Lemon Spritzer

Rosewater shines again in this bright, Barbie-esque spring mocktail. An addition of its subtle flavors forms this sip into one perfectly fit for spring! Bring on the floral blooms with this easy. recipe. (via Half Baked Harvest)

Mojito Mocktail

We all know and love a mojito, but when you don't feel like drinking, what do you do? You turn to this trusty spring mocktail recipe that only uses four ingredients to create a bright, tangy glassful! (via Culinary Hill)

Virgin Mango Margarita

Sweet, tart, and spicy – these spring mocktails deliver on all three! Prep this zero-proof marg on the rocks or frozen. It's up to you! (via Pink Owl Kitchen)

Blood Orange Lemonade

A homemade spice-infused honey syrup compliments the bold flavors of blood orange in this batched mocktail recipe. Enjoy the warm tastes of cinnamon, ginger, and cardamom as you sip. (via The Endless Meal)

Which spring mocktails will you serve up first? Follow us on Pinterest for more mocktail inspo!

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This post has been updated with additional reporting by Meredith Holser.

This Bougie Whole Foods Hot Chocolate Is Only $2 A Cup: "Such A Treat"

I'd consider myself a hot chocolate connoisseur. I've sipped rich and decadent drinks at Colonial Williamsburg, whipped up a homemade recipe for Christmas parties, and sampled my fair share of instant hot cocoa packets. So I was shocked when the Whole Foods Hot Chocolate ended up being one of my favorite cocoa options of all time — for only $2 a cup! The hot chocolate offers a smoother, richer taste than other instant cocoas I've tried, and it really offers a bang for your buck.

Keep reading for everything you need to know about the delicious Whole Foods Hot Chocolate.

The delicious Whole Foods hot chocolate is only $2 a cup.

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The Whole Foods hot chocolate (officially named Organic Milk Chocolate Flavor Mix Hot Cocoa Mix. Fancy!) is from the 365 by Whole Foods Market brand, and features 10 packets in a single box. Not only does that mean it's $2 a cup, but it's also easier than ever to whip up a late night beverage. My favorite thing ever is curling up with hot cocoa and a book or TV show in bed!

Instead of a pot or saucepan, all you need is a mug and a microwave. Just heat up your water or milk and mix a packet in! I'm pretty bougie when it comes to hot chocolate, and use equal parts water and soy milk, then add a splash of eggnog. Trust me, it makes the cocoa even richer and more flavorful than it was before.

The hot cocoa packets include organic cane sugar, organic nonfat dry milk, organic cocoa powder, and some sea salt among other ingredients.

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You can enter your zip code to find the Whole Foods hot chocolate near you, but you can also order it on Amazon for a quick delivery. And if you're not a fan of the packets, opt for a 12 oz container instead!

One Amazon reviewer says this product is "such a treat," and that it "dissolves without any issue," which is a huge challenge when talking about instant cocoa. "You can control how much of the flavor you want which we like since you just scoop it into your cup from the container," they continue. "Good size for the price. Container seems to last a while too."

"I'm a REALLY PICKY hot chocolate lover," another Amazon review says. "This is good stuff. It blends perfectly and tastes rich. I blend it 50/50 with 365 coffee and a hot cup of milk. Some reviews say it's expensive compared to Swiss Miss. I just checked and this is $6.79 for 12 servings - Swiss Miss Simply Cocoa's cheapest prices is $7.33 for 8 servings. This is a good buy."

"I like it because I can adjust the amount that I use, for myself I use less than is suggested because it is so rich and chocolatey," a third review says. "Price is on point. And product is consistent."

And if you mix it into your morning cup of coffee? Well, that's a mocha for way cheaper than you can find at Starbucks ;).

Check out the $4 Trader Joe’s Holiday Cookies With An Insane Cult Following so you have something to dip in your Whole Foods Hot Chocolate!

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15 “Real Girl” NYE Outfit Ideas You’ll Want To Copy

If you've got a New Year's Eve party on the docket this season, we've got all the inspo you could possibly need for a fire outfit! From sequined get-ups to quiet luxury looks, we absolutely love to see what everyone puts on for the countdown to the new year. Get ready to shake up some tasty New Year’s cocktails, get your boogie on, and take some amazing Instagram pics before the ball drops.

Ring in 2025 in style with these stunning New Year's Eve outfit ideas!

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Leather pants will always make a statement, no matter where you wear 'em.

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If you want to be The Moment at this year's NYE party, don't be afraid to have fun with your outfit! This iconic sequined dress and hot pink gloves combo def catches our eye.

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Sequins galore! Pop on a matching set with your favorite boots and a chain belt to easily accessorize.

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Save this outfit formula – sequin mini dress, tights, and a blazer – for an easy NYE outfit. You could easily shop your 'fit from thrift stores or secondhand shops if you're putting together a look at the last minute.

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This little tweed matching set is giving all the luxe looks you need for an elegant NYE get-together.

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If a big blowout NYE party is calling your name, you might want to dress a little lighter. Big parties can get crowded and rowdy, so be prepared to sweat it out in a mini dress and practical, dance-friendly boots.

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The texture on this dress is everything. If you want your New Year's Eve outfit to stand out, opt for a piece with an interesting texture, pattern, or eye-catching color!

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There's nothing a little black dress can't do! Break up the piece a bit by styling your go-to LBD with a colorful belt around the waist. We also adore the statement earrings in this gorgeous gal's ensemble!

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Speaking of interesting patterns, leopard and cheetah prints are hot right now. Whether you don it on a top, pants, skirt, dress, or accessories, you'll be looking so chic.

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Okay, fur coat! This layered outfit idea is fully convincing us to make a beeline to the thrift and find the fluffiest jacket around. Pair one with a basic black dress and tights, and you're golden.

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We're head over heels with this frilly, fringey look. The sheer fabrics add a hint of flirtiness, which is all you need for a fun NYE function!

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Leather jackets were practically made for New Year's Eve outfits. We adore the trench-length of this one, especially when worn with a maxi dress that's just as long.

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Another pop of cheetah print! This NYE outfit idea has it all, from playful prints to shiny sequins.

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This 'fit would be excellent for an at-home NYE celebration, where you want to look cute, but don't want to feel uncomfortable. Mini dress + cardigan + socks + ballet flats have never been so adorable!

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You can never go wrong with a fun pair of tights!

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24 Adorable Christmas Cupcakes That'll Make Your Guests Go "Wow!"

Christmas is right around the corner, and we know everyone’s ready to par-tay. Whether you’ll be hosting a bash or two, or attending as a dinner party guest, leave thecookies and cocktails to someone else. Instead, bring out a sweet treat that’s guaranteed to get the most OMGs – cupcakes. You simply can’t go wrong with cute Christmas cupcakes — especially when they feature adorable Santa hats, sugary Frosty faces, and comical Rudolph noses.

Here are the tastiest, most crafty Christmas cupcakes for sprucing up the holiday dessert table this year.

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Melting Snowmen Cupcakes

Save these snowman Christmas cupcakes from melting by simply scarfing 'em down! The entire holiday party will go bonkers over the detailed decorations, too. (via Brit + Co)

Your Cup of Cake

Reindeer Cupcakes

You need these Christmas cupcakes in your life right now! Break them out while watching your fave Hallmark Christmas movies, and they’ll put you in the most perfect mood. (via Your Cup of Cake)

Baked Bree

Christmas Light Cupcakes

The M&M "bulbs" on these little trees have a totally 3D effect. It’s so cool, and the technique is so easy, even the littlest bakers in the house can get in on the decorating action. (via Baked Bree)

Averie Cooks

Tall Christmas Tree Cupcakes

The secret to building these green trees as tall as possible is ice cream cones. Set some on top of your Christmas cupcakes, then go crazy with the piping bag! (via Averie Cooks)

Frugal Mom Eh!

Santa Hat Cupcakes

Here’s a festive Christmas cupcake that requires zero special decorating tools. Just pipe on store-bought icing straight from the tube, then add mini marshmallows and voila — a jolly Santa hat! (via Frugal Mom Eh!)

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White Cupcakes with Peppermint Frosting

This recipe reminds us of our fave Starbucks holiday drink, the Peppermint White Mocha. When anything sweet and minty comes in dessert form, we're there. (via Amanda Wilens)

Barley & Sage

Bourbon Eggnog Cupcakes

Eggnog is *the* signature drink of the holiday season, and baking it into some Christmas cupcakes only makes it better. (via Barley & Sage)

A Virtual Vegan

Festive Cranberry Orange Cupcakes

Cranberry and orange flavors team up alongside pistachio in these vegan cupcakes that'll put the finishing touches on your Christmas dinner. (via A Virtual Vegan)

Little Sunny Kitchen

Snowman Cupcakes

These jolly little guys are guaranteed to bring a smile to everyone’s face. Keep your phone handy to snap some Insta pics while you bake, because they’re guaranteed to rack up the likes. (via Little Sunny Kitchen)

Hungry Happenings

Ultimate Chocolate Reindeer Cupcakes

These Christmas cupcakes are made from the very best chocolate batter you’ll ever taste, then topped with a giant swirl of chocolate ganache. Add a peanut-butter cup head, an M&Ms nose, and candy cane antlers, and they’ll be utterly irresistible. (via Hungry Happenings)

Bakerella

Snowman Cupcakes

These little treats are *snow* good. They're topped with donut holes, so you're basically getting two desserts in one! Both pieces are rolled in confectioner’s sugar before assembling, making this cupcake doubly-sweet. (via Bakerella)

Crafty Morning

Rudolph the Reindeer Cupcakes

Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer… had a shiny gumball nose! Your littlest guests will be wow-ed to see their fave Christmas character make an appearance on your dessert table. (via Crafty Morning)

Frugal Mom Eh!

Christmas Tree Cupcakes

The base of this holiday cupcake is the richest double-fudge cake batter you’ll ever taste. Prepare for the onslaught, because everyone will be asking for the recipe! (via Frugal Mom Eh!)

Pink Owl Kitchen

Blackberry Cupcakes with Blackberry Buttercream

Blackberries remind us so much of the winter season. If you want to serve some fruity Christmas cupcakes this year, this easy recipe is your best bet! Just wait 'til you try that buttercream. (via Pink Owl Kitchen)

A Spicy Perspective

Chai Latte Cupcakes

The warm spices included in chai will also warm your heart as you begin to bake these Christmas cupcakes for the fam. (via A Spicy Perspective)

One Little Project

Easy Snowman Cupcakes

These snowmen are super festive, and they come together fairly quickly using ingredients that you probably already have on-hand. Be sure to finish them off with a generous avalanche of granulated sugar to make them extra sweet. (via One Little Project)

The Girl Who Ate Everything

North Pole Cupcakes

These Christmas cupcakes get their jolly flair from a peppermint stick decorated like the North Pole. How cute are these?! (via The Girl Who Ate Everything)

Half Baked Harvest

Gingerbread Cupcakes

Cookies + cupcakes = dessert overload. But we're here for it! Each bite of these Christmas cupcakes will bring forth that warm, fuzzy feeling. (via Half Baked Harvest)

One Little Project

Polar Bear Paw Footprint Cupcakes

These polar bear paw-print cupcakes look just like little teddy bear paws. And the clever coconut "fur" makes them just as sweet to look at as they are to eat. (via One Little Project)

Two Sisters Crafting

Mickey Mouse Santa Hat Cupcakes

Hold onto your holiday Mickey Mouse ears, because everyone’s fave Santa hat cupcakes just got a cartoonish twist. Your new favorite Christmas cupcakes have arrived! (via Two Sisters Crafting)

Your Cup of Cake

Hot Chocolate Cupcakes

Christmas season has not truly arrived until you spend a morning sipping on hot chocolate. Be sure to invite a few friends over, because treats this sweet treat must be shared. (via Your Cup of Cake)

Bakerella

Mini Polar Bear Cupcakes

Sprinkles and candies make for the cutest little cupcake faces. These baby bears would be super adorable at a winter wonderland-themed party. (via Bakerella)

Earthly Provisions

Vegan Gingerbread Cupcakes with Snowmen

This vegan gingerbread cupcake base will enchant you and your guests even further once you top them with tiny lil' snowmen. (via Earthly Provisions)

Kathryn's Kitchen

Strawberry Santa Hat Cupcakes

These Christmas cupcakes are as healthy as they get – with a darling strawberry Santa hat! (via Kathryn's Kitchen)

If you’re enchanted with these adorable Christmas cupcakes, follow us on Pinterest for more fun recipes!

This post has been updated with additional reporting by Meredith Holser.

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Sydney Sweeney Goes Topless After Dealing With Bikini Body Shamers

If you've been on the internet at all this week, you've probably heard about some totally invasive paparazzi leaking Sydney Sweeney's backyard bikini pics — and her incredible clap back to all the trolls body shaming her in the comments. After the actress showed off her resilience & her muscles in a training video from her new Christy Martin biopic (and celeb BFF's like Glen Powell weighed in), she took things to the next level by posting some spicier selfies from a rooftop in NYC.

Sydney Sweeney's latest spicy selfies prove she couldn't care less about her bikini body shamers.

Sydney Sweeney (almost) bares all in new Instagram selfies.

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"rain rain go away," Sydney Sweeney says in a new Instagram post, which already has 3.4 million likes. The carousel of photos includes Syd standing on a rooftop in New York City (where it has been raining recently) wearing jeans and a brown-and-cream colored Miu Miu cardigan. The Housemaid actress also clutches a brown leather Miu Miu purse boasting plenty of charms.

I have to call out one of my favorite comments on the post, which comes from Sydney's hairstylist Glen "Coco" Oropeza and says, “It’s 68 degrees, and there’s a 30% chance that it’s already raining,” referencing one of the most iconic lines from Mean Girls (which is what his Instagram username references too!)

"hopefully your sunshine will push those clouds the f out 😍," another user commented, hyping up Sydney's positive response to all those internet trolls.

And her friends totally have her back.

Sydney's post came four days after she responded to body shamers with an intense training video from her new Christy Martin biopic — and more than one past costar supported her in the comments.

Isabela Merced, who starred with Sydney in Madame Web, said "The thing is these people would never say it in person. Too scared. But if they ever did? best believe it’s hands 😘, while Syd's Anyone But You star Glen Powell commented, "You’re such a bad—ss. This movie is gonna be 🔥."

Sydney and Glen got super close on the Anyone But You set, and formed such a strong connection that they fooled the entire internet into thinking they were having an affair. But in real life, they're just BFF's!

"I wanted to make sure that we were actively having a conversation with the audience as we were promoting this film," Sydney told The New York Times. "Because at the end of the day, they’re the ones who created the entire narrative."

"Once [the movie] did become a success, a lot of the interviews were just questions about [the rumors], so I don’t know if we necessarily were planning on ever talking about the strategy behind any of it," Sydney added in her 2025 Vanity Fair Hollywood story. "We just had very specific questions and when you say no to a question, people think that you’re a b—ch, so."

Check out the latest news on Sydney Sweeney's insane new thriller Eden, with Jude Law, Vanessa Kirby, and Ana de Armas.

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8 Simple Ways To Keep The "Spark" In Your Marriage, According To A Relationship Therapist

Life comes at you fast when you're in love, while you're juggling career goals, pets, babies, friends, family, and whatever else folded in to your very, very filled cup. One minute you and your spouse can't enough of each other, but then time passes and you might start to feel like you're roommates. "Ugh, what is that about," is a question I used to ask when my own relationship's spark felt like tiny embers amongst our ever-growing responsibilities. Licensed psychotherapist Lucas Saiter, LMHC, owner and director of Manhattan Therapy NYC, says, "It's crucial for couples to acknowledge periods of disconnection without judgement."

According to him, you can start "by having an open conversation about feeling disconnected" which is a "positive step" in the desired direction. But, he wants this to happen during "a calm moment" instead of "during a conflict or when there are distractions."

The ultimate goal is for "each partner" to feel like they have "the opportunity to express their feelings openly and honestly, using 'I' statements to avoid blaming, while the other partner actively listens without interrupting or getting defensive," according to him.

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Your marriage isn't doomed because you feel like it's gotten off track. Saiter says, "Rekindling the spark in a marriage goes beyond physical intimacy; it's about creating emotional closeness and shared experiences. Couples can focus on deep, meaningful conversations that go beyond the day-to-day logistics."

1. If you don't cook often, surprise your spouse with their favorite dinner recipe.

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Saiter says you or your spouse "can make time for small gestures of kindness and thoughtfulness, like cooking" each other's "favorite meal." We don't know everything, but we're aware that home-cooked meals mean a lot to some people. Eating out is fun, but seeing someone put time and effort into a meal for you feels more personal.

2. Allow your partner to sleep in while you handle bank runs, grocery shopping, and other chores.

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One of the other ways to each other's heart is "...running errands to show love and appreciation," according to Saiter. This can look like letting your partner rest while you handle early morning visits to the bank or grocery store before traffic picks up on the weekend.

Setting aside time for shared hobbies or interests can also be incredibly rejuvenating. For instance, taking a class together, whether it’s cooking, dancing, or photography, can help in discovering new aspects of each other and create fun, shared memories.

3. Sign up for a dance or photography class together.

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If you've been thinking about taking a cooking, wine, dance, or photography class together, now's the time to do so! Saiter says, "Setting aside time for shared hobbies or interests can also be incredibly rejuvenating." Before you roll your eyes because you think you and your spouse don't have anything in common anymore, take a step back to remember what it was like when you were dating.

You probably went on different dates like going to the bowling alley, visiting a pumpkin patch, or even taking a candle class together for fun. Doing this again "can help in discovering new aspects of each other and create fun, shared memories," according to Saiter.

4. Verbally share why you're grateful for each other.

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Yes, it's time for you and your spouse to remember why you chose to exchange vows. "...practicing gratitude by regularly expressing appreciation for each other's qualities and contributions can strengthen the emotional bond and bring back the warmth and closeness," Saiter says.

You can tell your partner you appreciate the times they've sensed something was wrong and knew just what to say to cheer you up. Also, you could simply thank them for remembering to take out the trash without you having to ask.

There's no rulebook that says expressing thanks for each other has to be elaborate and drawn out. It's just something to help you remember how much you see each other.

5. Set aside time to hold hands or cuddle everyday.

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If you or your spouse are experiencing a drop in your libido, physical intimacy be hard to navigate. Saiter says, "Overcoming a 'dry spell' requires open communication and a willingness to explore underlying issues." As difficult as it may be, don't be afraid to express concerns because "there are many feelings and unsaid wants underneath the 'dry spell,'" he adds.

Doing something as simple as "prioritizing physical, non-sexual touch" is one way way Saiter believes can help you and your spouse become close again. You do things like "holding hands, cuddling, or sharing a long hug," to add a little spark back to what you had.

6. Pencil in date nights.

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How many times have your or spouse asked, "Who has time for date night?" Wait, we don't want to know because chances are one of you have said it one too many times to count. Saiter says, "Planning regular date nights or weekends away can also help break the routine and create a sense of adventure in the relationship."

Communicating and being open to trying new things in the bedroom, like role-playing, using toys, or trying new positions, can also reignite the spark and make things exciting again.

You can also try revisiting places or activities that were significant earlier in your relationship to evoke nostalgic, passionate feelings and remind you both of your deep connection.

7. Let your adventurous side show in the bedroom.

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If one of you are comfortable initiating sex again, let your fun side call the shots. However, Saiter wants to make sure you're "communicating" before surprising your spouse. "...being open to trying new things in the bedroom, like role-playing, using toys, or trying new positions" is one of the ways he thinks you can reconnect behind closed doors. It's all about finding safe ways to "reignite the spark and make things exciting again," he shares!

8. Revisit the place you fell in love with your spouse.

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If you remember the exact time and place you knew your spouse was the one, Saiter suggests revisiting it to "evoke nostalgic, passionate feelings and remind you both of your deep connection." Whether it was at your local pizza parlor, the park, or even at a place like Disney World, find your why again.

My spouse and I are doing great after incorporating these tips, but how can we stay consistent?

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Saiter says, "Life gets busy, but it’s crucial to carve out time for each other. Treat it like any other important appointment—block off time in your schedule for date nights, family dinners, or just time relaxing together." Maybe you think it should sound so simple, but it is. Like Saiter says, you have to prioritize your marriage just like you do everything and everyone else.

Ways to help you do so are limiting "distractions by putting away phones and other devices" to "talk about your dreams, unwind together or simply enjoy each other's company," he adds. Still struggling?

"It might also be helpful to look over your daily responsibilities together to make sure the workload at home is shared fairly. Building a strong and fulfilling relationship takes effort and commitment. By prioritizing your partner, communicating openly, and making time for each other, you can strengthen your bond and reignite the spark," Saiter suggests.

All in all, Saiter believes "seeking couples counseling can be a great step toward getting the conversation flowing," if you and your spouse are still having trouble finding the spark in your marriage.

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