Taylor Swift's Eras Tour Is About More Than Her Musical Eras — It's About All Of Us

Jun 02, 2023

I never thought I’d see Taylor Swift live. In all honesty, throughout the last 17 years of her storied career, I oscillated back-and-forth between being a fan and outright refusing to listen to her music at times. It was never about her talent — that was and is undeniable. I just wanted to be different.

It’s both embarrassing and incredibly freeing to admit my desperate need to stand out from the crowd. As a triple Sagittarius (I know), I’m a self-described agent of chaos who thrives on theatrics and activates for an audience. For all intents and purposes, Taylor should and would have been my bread and butter.

Sure, certain songs stood out — “Wildest Dreams” was the perfect anthem for the Tumblr-era glory of 2014. But, I didn’t genuinely come around until Lover.

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I’ve done a lot of soul searching since then, parsing through the particularities that led me down this path. It hit me one day, after years of therapy and some serious work on myself, that I disliked her for the reasons I disliked myself. I was too much, too loud, too extra, too performative, too quirky, too girly, too…everything. And yet, my fear of invisibility stoked every single fire again and again. Like my Sagittarius sister, I’d been the archer and the prey.

So, I passed every opportunity to end up at a Taylor Swift concert as a legitimate fan. Until now.

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I arrived at the Eras Tour at MetLife Stadium on Saturday, May 27, heart pumping. Tiktok gave me the blueprint — what to wear, how to film better, when to expect surprise songs — but no tip could prepare me for Taylor in her entirety.

Fans flocked to the stadium in full force, bringing an energy I’ve never seen before.

“Would you like a bracelet?”

“I love your outfit!”

“Do you want me to take a picture for you?”

Before I even walked on the floor, I was on cloud nine. As a Born Again Swiftie, I’m acutely aware that I could easily be considered a bandwagon fan, but nobody made me feel like that. Even the bathroom line (long and lasting) was full of friendly banter and compliments. Everyone was warm, everyone was excited, and everyone was really there for one reason — to witness the sheer magnitude of Mother Taylor.

I only heard echoes of Gracie Abrams and Phoebe Bridgers from the chicken finger line, but the singer-songwriters started the show off with a beautiful bang. People laughed and cried and applauded as loudly as they would for any headlining act. Little did I know, that was just the beginning.

The moment the countdown clock hit two minutes, MetLife Stadium shook. People screamed. I knew I was in for something truly spectacular.

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From start to finish, Taylor gave a gorgeous, effortless performance. Every costume, every piece of choreography, every visual, every vocal — she didn’t miss a mark.

The show opens in the Lover era, with pinks and purples billowing across the stage in all their girly glory. While the beautiful background and looming stadium may swallow any other artist whole, Taylor commanded the stage instantly, striking strong poses and strutting confidently from corner to corner.

And it was like that for every section — over the next three and a half hours.

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For Fearless, Taylor fluttered and flounced, bringing back the frenetic energy of our youth. Her evermore set evoked wonder and witchcraft. For reputation, she was sexy and sure of herself, ready to play the villain or pursue you at whatever cost. For Speak Now, she literally gave us the sparkling night every girl dreamt of. The list goes on.

While “Cruel Summer” (and its iconic bridge) couldn’t have been a more perfect opener, the second half of the show was quite possibly everything to me. From Red to Midnights, she played hit after hit after hit. In the same way her earlier albums (and the first half of the show) captured the whimsy of our youth, the second half celebrated the absolute fun and chaos and energy of our early adulthood — and she embodied that to the fullest.

From “22” to “Shake It Off,” Taylor had the audience in the palm of her hand, scream-singing and dancing together. I had to check if I still had eyebrows after she lit the stage on fire (literally) with “Bad Blood.” The whole place shimmered, Mikael spirit fingers and all, when she busted out “Bejeweled.”

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And while there was the less boppy, folkore-ian interlude, even still she enthralled the audience. The set, choreography, and acting for “The Last Great American Dynasty” were a modern Broadway musical condensed into four minutes. I could have watched an entire show just about that story, but a single smirk between Taylor and the dancer portraying Rebekah — a small, sincere gesture symbolizing a reclamation of loudness, shamelessness, and independence — perfectly summed up the narrative.

That’s the real story with Taylor and her eras. We’ve watched her grow through each moment, witnessing and coveting and analyzing her every single move. And in analyzing her, like me, many of us were really analyzing ourselves. But in that verbal and visual reclamation, Taylor gives us all permission to fully be ourselves as she grants herself the very same.

Maybe she had a lot of boyfriends. Maybe I was a capital T Theatre Kid. Maybe we were all just too damn much. Or maybe we were just right.

What's your favorite part of Taylor Swift's Eras Tour? Let us know in the comments!

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Sun Bum Original SPF 50 Is My Favorite Unsticky Full Body SPF — Here's Why

As someone who has struggled with skin cancer in the past, the #1 MOST important skincare product I have to use everyday is SPF. It's a nonnegotiable for me. I wear it on my face and any exposed parts of my body whenever I leave the house. Because of that, one thing I've accepted is that I'll probably always smell like sunscreen, and my skin will always feel a little sticky from the residue of the SPF. Then I heard that the Sun Bum Sunscreen offered an amazing smell, with a high SPF of 50, andit doesn't leave a leftover sticky feeling on your body. I tried it for a week to give you a full review — here are my honest thoughts!

About Sun Bum Original SPF 50

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First thing's first, this is a non-mineral — AKA chemical or "synthetic" — sunscreen. Heading straight to the source, Sun Bum's website explains that this means that the Sun Bum Original SPF 50 uses non-physical active ingredients, which means that it helps to absorb the UV rays and direct them off of your skin. Sun Bum also claims that all of their sunscreens — mineral or not — are "Hawaii Act 104 Reef Compliant (made without Oxybenzone and Octinoxate)" so that they don't negatively impact the coral reef!

Sun Bum Original SPF 50 also has a very signature scent that they've used in their non-mineral sunscreen for a while, so it's supposed to make you "smell like summer." The company states that they want their products to smell so good and be so light that kids actually want to put them on — smart!

Does Sun Bum Original SPF 50 leave a white cast?

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Upon first application, I noticed that Sun Bum Original SPF 50 starts white, but then almost emulsifies into a light serum that effortlessly blends into the skin. With most sunscreens, I have to apply and rub it in for a few minutes to get rid of the white cast, but this one quickly absorbed into the skin. That was huge for me, because if you're using sunscreen daily like I am, then you want it to be easy to use — and this one definitely is!

My Full Sun Bum Original SPF 50 Review

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Starting off, I love that Sun Bum Original SPF 50 really is a lotion. It goes on incredibly smooth, and melts into the skin. It's not too thick or sticky at all, especially in comparison to most sunscreens. I also noticed it wasn't tacky on the skin throughout the day either. Instead, it was very thin, almost like a light serum, so I didn't even notice it was there after applying. This was a much welcomed change — normally, I can feel the sunscreen on my skin, but this one was incredibly light.

The longevity of this sunscreen was really great, too. However, you want to re-apply if you're in the sun for prolonged periods of time! Sun Bum recommends reapplying at least every two hours.

Finally, I noticed the smell was fantastic! It didn't't smell like average sunscreen with a really heavy chemical scent — it genuinely did smell like summer! What does "summer" smell like exactly? It was a coconut-adjacent scent, giving off a tropical aura, which I happen to love. So, it was nice to know that I smelled good all day, and didn't have to worry about any kind of chemical stench.

Final Verdict

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Overall, Sun Bum Original SPF 50 will definitely be a re-purchase for me! I hate feeling sunscreen on my body, and this was one I didn't even notice was there! It's light, smells good, and isn't sticky — so that's a 10/10 for me on all fronts. Not to mention, it also doesn't have the normal harsh chemicals that are bad for the environment and bad for my skin. I will definitely be stocking up on this gem!

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I Need These 15 Pieces From The New Anthropologie x Gola Collab ASAP

Anthropologie just collaborated with one of our favorite shoe brands, Gola, and we cannot stop obsessing over their new exclusive collection. Known for their sporty sneaker styles, Gola is bringing their signature look to not only 2 new footwear designs, but lots of apparel and accessories, too. The 34-piece collection elevates everyday athleisure pieces like sweatpants and t-shirts and even pursesto bring a fresh perspective to your nextworkoutor weekend outing. This is one collaboration we just adore, and we know you will, too. Scroll on to shop our favorite picks from Anthropologie x Gola!

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Gola Stadium Sneakers in Black

The Stadium Sneakers stand at the helm of this new collab, and they are the perfect sporty symbol for wearing with workout wear and casual outfits alike. They channel soccer style to the max with a unique stitching pattern on the leather upper and a contrasting rubber gum sole, but the shoes are also infused with feminine details from the light pink logos on the heels and sides to the thick ribbon laces.

"Our only-at-Anthro, exclusive Stadium Sneakers are limited edition, which were concepted by the Anthropologie creative team and produced by Gola," says Heather Mineau, the Divisional Merchandise Manager at Anthropologie. "They boast a sporty style that is inspired by traditional soccer cleats with unique stitching techniques and an unexpected twist of satin ribbon for laces."

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Gola x Anthropologie Runner Cropped Baby Tee

Oh, baby! We love a baby tee, and this cropped iteration from the collab is a great everyday wear, whether it's paired with sweat-wicking leggings or baggy jeans. The white trim on the arms and collar meet a deep green background, plus this look earns you some nice street cred, since the Gola logo sits along the chest.

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Gola x Anthropologie Boxer Shorts

Anthro and Gola hopped on the boxer shorts trendso stylishly. These breezy cotton bottoms with an elastic waistband are plastered with a funky repeat logo pattern to help you switch up your on- and off-the-court looks.

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Gola x Anthropologie Shoulder Bag

This bag is everything! It's equal parts practical and pretty, thanks to the adorable bow on the strap. The body itself assumes the classic stripes you find on Gola shoe. It's made from nylon and mesh paneling, plus the little bit of green lining makes for the perfect eye-catching accent.

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Gola x Anthropologie Team Jersey Dress

We're total suckers for sporty dresses, and this long-sleeved jersey design from the new collaboration looks like the ideal post-workout uniform! It's super tenniscore at heart, since it boasts a classic buttoned collar and some bold, game-changing stripes that run along the chest and arms.

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Gola x Anthropologie Runner Baby Tee

Sport this figure-fitting baby tee on your next hot girl walk to instantly pump up your energy. It still gives a good sporty effect from the pink striped logo design, but you could style it just as easily with a mini skort or jeans since the baby tee fit is universally flattering and femme.

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Gola Stadium Sneakers in White

The Stadium Sneakers are also available to snag in this stark white colorway that's complemented by green side stripes and ribbon laces. The mixed materials along the inside and outside of the low-profile shoe bring an undeniably unique, head-turning vibe to your footwear game!

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Gola x Anthropologie Base Jump Parachute Pants

These green parachute pants might just be our favorite piece from the Anthropologie x Gola collection (along with the exclusive sneaker styles, of course)! They're crafted from a fabric that's both breathable and water-resistant, so they'll stand up to any sort of trek. Both the stretchy waistband and ankle openings are adjustable by discreet drawstrings, plus these pants have two front pockets for stowing away any essentials you'll need to keep close on your next mountain hike or city walk.

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Gola x Anthropologie Hat Trick Windbreaker

This colorblocked windbreaker feels super retro! It's impressively lightweight and breathable, all while supplying a good amount of coverage along your arms and midsection. If you need a bit more airflow from this long-sleeved look, just zip down the sporty striped collar.

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Gola x Anthropologie Jogger Sweatpants

These aren't your average gray sweatpants. The subtly tapered leg is met with some expertly-executed panel seaming and two massive pockets that can hold everything you need for a workout or evening walk. The waistline is adjustable with an easy drawstring to complete any laid-back look.

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Gola x Anthropologie Bowler Bag

This chic bowler bag is the perfect statement piece to tie your outfits together. It comes with a detachable shoulder strap, so customizing your get-up is super easy! The bold stripes and Gola logo patch truly make this bag one you can't miss.

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Gola x Anthropologie Blaze Sweat Shorts

These pink lounge shorts make lazy days so much more stylish. The elastic waistband ensures they always fit comfortably, plus there are two pockets for holding your phone, fave lip balms, or any other necessities you need within reach.

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Gola x Anthropologie Hooded Sweatshirt

For chillier days (or even workout warm-ups), this floral sweatshirt keeps you nice and cozy. The cotton and polyester fabrication gives a super-soft feel, so you'll feel swarmed in warmth no matter where you take this pullover!

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Gola x Anthropologie Ringer Graphic Tee

This ringer tee channels retro fashion in the coolest way with contrasting green trim and a bold patterned logo everyone will recognize.

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Gola x Anthropologie Sling Bag

This handy-dandy floral sling bag fits snugly around your body and makes your belongings really easy to access. From hometown visits to faraway vacations, there's a spot for carrying everything – it has three secure pockets to keep things in check!

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22 Taylor Swift Quotes That Prove She’s Wise Beyond Her Years

When Taylor Swift pours herself onto a page, you end up with lyrics that are unequivocally and unapologetically her yet relatable to anyone listening. From processing the life cycle of a relationship to analyzing the gender disparities that become more pronounced with success, the singer constantly proves that she possesses a unique ability to read moments for more than what’s in front of her eyes. It’s the genius behind her lyricism, but it also happens to be the way she’s wired to see the world.

Swift’s penchant for baking chai cookies and her love of cats have labeled her an “old soul,” but I’m going to assign her another label usually reserved for former gifted kids: she’s “wise beyond her years.” Don’t just take my word for it, though — take hers! These 22 Taylor Swift quotes prove that she’s a sage inside of a pop star’s body.

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“To me, fearless is living in spite of those things that scare you to death.” —Taylor Swift

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“No matter what happens in life, be good to people. Being good to people is a wonderful legacy to leave behind.” —Taylor Swift

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“Just because you make a good plan doesn’t mean that’s what’s gonna happen.” —Taylor Swift

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“I’m intimidated by the fear of being average.” —Taylor Swift

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“At some point, you grow out of being attracted to that flame that burns you over and over and over again.” —Taylor Swift

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“There’s room for role models who make mistakes.” —Taylor Swift

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“I’m very aware and very conscious of the path I chose in life and very aware of the path I didn’t choose.” —Taylor Swift

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“Your feelings are so important to write down, to capture, and to remember because today you’re heartbroken, but tomorrow you’ll be in love again.” —Taylor Swift

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“I’ve been careful in love. I’ve been careless in love. And I’ve had adventures I wouldn’t trade for anything.” —Taylor Swift

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“If you’re trying too hard to be the girl next door, you’re not going to be.” —Taylor Swift

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“The drama and the trauma of the relationship you have when you’re 16 can mirror the one you have when you’re 26. Life repeats itself.” —Taylor Swift

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“A man writing about his feelings from a vulnerable place is brave; a woman writing about her feelings from a vulnerable place is oversharing or whining.” —Taylor Swift

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“Vanity can apply to both insecurity and egotism.” —Taylor Swift

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“Silence speaks so much louder than screaming tantrums. Never give anyone an excuse to say that you’re crazy.” —Taylor Swift

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“I’m not concerned with people seeing me in a certain way. Some people see me as a kid; some people see me as an adult. But I’m seriously not going to complain how anybody sees me as long as they see me.” —Taylor Swift

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“When I picture the person I want to end up with, I don’t think about what their career is or what they look like. I picture the feeling I get when I’m with them.” —Taylor Swift

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“One of my goals from really early on was that if I was ever fortunate enough to be successful in music, I would want to stay the same person and the same songwriter.” —Taylor Swift

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“Without your past, you could never have arrived — so wondrously and brutally, by design or some violent, exquisite happenstance… here.” —Taylor Swift

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“I've come to a realization that I need to be able to forgive myself for making the wrong choice, trusting the wrong person, or figuratively falling on my face in front of everyone.” —Taylor Swift

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“I still think it’s important to be polite, but not at all costs. Not when you’re being pushed beyond your limits, and not when people are walking all over you. I needed to get to a point where I was ready, able, and willing to call out bullsh*t rather than just smiling my way through it.” —Taylor Swift

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“Obviously, anytime you’re standing up against or for anything, you’re never going to receive unanimous praise. But that’s what forces you to be brave.” —Taylor Swift

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“The scary news is, you’re on your own now. But the cool news is, you’re on your own now.” —Taylor Swift

For more wisdom from T Swift, check out these 34 life lessons we’ve learned from her all too well over the years.

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This Hydrating Scalp Scrub Leaves Me With The Softest Hair

Having straight, thin hair means it's super easy to tell when it's sweaty, greasy, or oily. (Sad!!) That means after a brutal heat wave, or getting caught in a surprise rain storm, my hair needs a little extra TLC. While I swear by regularly double cleansing, there's one particular scalp scrub that always leaves my hair clean and rejuvenated after an Everything Shower.

Christophe Robin Hydrating Cream Scrub With Aloe Vera

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The Christophe Robin Hydrating Cream Scrub With Aloe Vera is a hydrating scalp scrub that provides just as much moisture as it does exfoliation, meaning that when I step out of the shower, my hair is clean AND soft. The scalp scrub is the same consistency as conditioner, just with tiny exfoliating beads. It's full of 75 Active Molecules, 20 Minerals, 18 Amino Acids, And 12 Vitamins to supercharge your hair before you shampoo, while agave juice extract soothes your scalp and combats redness.

I use this scalp scrub about every six weeks. I scoop some of the product into my palm and work it into my roots until there's a lather. Instead of rinsing it out right away, I let it sit for a few minutes while I condition the ends of my hair so my roots can really soak it up!

My only callout for this product is that the exfoliating beads can be a little tricky to rinse out, so you'll want to follow it up with a few rounds of shampoo. But it leaves me feeling so fresh, I don't mind!

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Jennifer Lopez's 'Bridgerton' Birthday Party Featured Her Mom, But Not Ben Affleck

There are few celebrity breakups as infamous as those of the 2000s — just looks at Justin Timberlake and Britney Spears, and Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck! But when Ben and Jen (or Bennifer, as fans like to call them) got back together in 2021, it felt like a literal movie. In Jennifer Lopez' new documentary The Greatest Love Story Never Told, the couple finally reveals why they actually broke up in the first place: "the massive amount of scrutiny around our private life." Here's everything you need to know about Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez, in the 2000s and now.

Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck's Relationship Timeline

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Winter 2002 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Meet On The Set Of Gigli

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck first met while filming their 2003 movie Gigli. "The first time meeting him on that film was at the read-through," Jennifer tells Variety. "I remember kind of just walking in and I think he was outside, smoking a cigarette...I don't remember a whole bunch more about it, but I remember being on the set with him every day and loving it."

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November 2002 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Announce Their Engagement

During an interview with Diane Sawyer at the end of 2002, Jennifer Lopez showed off the engagement ring from Ben Affleck. The platinum band + pink diamond combo is absolutely beautiful, just like the proposal itself. "[It was] traditional, but also in a very spectacular way, as of course Ben would do it," Jennifer says, via ABC News.

"He is brilliantly smart, loving, charming, affectionate," she continues. "And I just admire him in every way. I respect him. I feel like he teaches me things."

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Early 2003 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Experience The Tabloids Firsthand

Before the age of iPhones and TikTok, celebs constantly dealt with the tabloids — even more than they do now. And as one of the hottest couples in the world, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez constantly faced paparazzi and tabloids. “We didn’t try to have a public relationship,” Jennifer Lopez tells PEOPLE in 2016. “We just happened to be together at the birth of the tabloids, and it was like ‘Oh my God.’ It was just a lot of pressure.”

"People were so f*cking mean about her," Ben Affleck says on The Hollywood Reporter's Awards Chatter podcastin 2021. "Sexist, racist. Ugly, vicious sh*t was written about her in ways that if you wrote it now you would literally be fired for saying those things you said...Now it's like, she's lionized and respected for the work she did, where she came from, what she accomplished — as well she f*cking should be!"

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September 10, 2003 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Call Off Their Wedding

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were supposed to be married on September 14, 2003, but four days before their wedding, they postponed the ceremony. "Due to the excessive media attention surrounding our wedding, we have decided to postpone the date," the couple says in their official statement, via PEOPLE. "When we found ourselves seriously contemplating hiring three separate 'decoy brides' at three different locations, we realized that something was awry."

"It was so painful after we broke up," Jennifer tells Apple Music's Zane Lowe in 2024. "Once we called off that wedding 20 years ago, it was the biggest heartbreak of my life. I honestly felt like I was going to die. It sent me on a spiral for the next 18 years where I just couldn't get it right. But now, 20 years later, it does have a happy ending. It has the most would-never-happen-in-Hollywood ending."

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February 18, 2020 — Ben Affleck Supports Jennifer Lopez In Hustlers

At the beginning of 2020, in an interview with The New York Times, Ben Affleck voiced his support for Jennifer Lopez. "She should have been nominated [for Hustlers]," he says. "She's the real thing. I keep in touch periodically with her and have a lot of respect for her. How awesome is it that she had her biggest hit movie at 50? That's f*cking baller."

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May 10, 2021 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Take A Trip Together

After Jennifer Lopez and Alex Rodriguez broke up in the spring of 2021, J.Lo was seen hanging out with Ben Affleck around Los Angeles. "[Jennifer] spent several days with Ben out of town," a source tells PEOPLE. "They have a strong connection. It's all been quick and intense, but Jennifer is happy."

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July 24, 2021 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Make Their Relationship Instagram Official

Hidden at the end of an Instagram carousel, Jennifer Lopez posted a photo of her kissing Ben Affleck. "5 2 … what it do …" the caption reads.

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September 10, 2021 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Walk The Red Carpet

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck attended the premiere of his film The Last Duel at the 2021 Venice Film Festival. They both looked amazing in old school glam!

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April 8, 2022 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Announce Their Second Engagement

PEOPLE confirmed that Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were engaged again in the spring of 2022. Jennifer also revealed the news via email and on social media. "So I have a really exciting and special story to share," she said on Twitter.

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July 16, 2022 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Finally Get Married!

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck finally tied the knot in July of 2022. Jennifer shared the details about the "best night ever" via On The JLo newsletter (via PEOPLE) the next day. The couple later had a larger ceremony in Georgia.

"It's a beautiful outcome that this has happened in this way at this time in our lives where we can really appreciate and celebrate each other and respect each other," she says. "We always did, but we have even more of an appreciation because we know that life can take you in different directions."

"[Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck] were attentive only to each other, didn't have eyes for anything else," a PEOPLE source said after spotting the couple on their honeymoon in Lake Como, Italy.

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February 14, 2023 — Jennifer Lopez Reveals Her Tattoo With Ben Affleck

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck showed off their coordinating tattoos on J.Lo's Instagram. The tattoos (hers of an arrow through an infinity sign on her ribcage and his of two arrows tied to one another) are super cute together!

"Commitment," Jennifer says in her Instagram post. "Happy Valentine’s Day my love."

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May 3, 2023 — Jennifer Lopez Calls Ben Affleck A "Wonderful Father"

When she was on the Today Show (via Twitter) at the beginning of May 2023, Jennifer Lopez had high praise for Ben Affleck's relationship with all their kids. Jennifer has twins, Max and Emme, with Marc Anthony, while Ben Affleck shares three kids, Samuel, Seraphina, and Violet, with Jennifer Garner.

"He's a wonderful, wonderful father," J.Lo says in the interview. "And a father figure to [Max and Emme] as well, because he has his own three beautiful children, and then there's us...They love him. And they appreciate him, and so do I."

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August 21, 2023 — Jennifer Lopez Celebrates Her One Year Anniversary With Ben Affleck

In honor of their first wedding anniversary, Jennifer Lopez shared some photos, and some lyrics from "Dear Ben, Pt II", to Instagram. "One year ago today," she says in the caption. "Dear Ben, Sitting here alone / Looking at my ring ring / Feeling overwhelmed / It makes me wanna sing sing / How did we end up here / Without a rewind / Oh my / This is my life...Jennifer"

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February 11, 2024 — Ben Affleck And Jennifer Lopez Star In A Super Bowl Commercial

Following Ben Affleck's iconic, viral photos with his Dunkin' coffee, the couple starred in Dunkin' Donuts' 2024 Super Bowl ad — in addition to Matt Damon, Jack Harlow, and Tom Brady. The commercial features Ben and his friends coming into the studio while Jennifer records her newest album This Is Me Now... — a move that is not well received.

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February 26, 2024 — Jennifer Lopez And Ben Affleck Reveal Why They Originally Split Up

"Ben and I, we broke up three days before our wedding," J.Lo recalled in her new documentary The Greatest Love Story Never Told. "We had a big wedding planned—14 ushers and bridesmaids—and three days before, we just crumbled under the pressure."

"For all those years, it was really hard because I didn't just feel like I lost the love of my life, I felt like I lost the best friend that I ever had," Jennifer continues. "I've made it through. I've made something good of my life. I'm proud of that."

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May 15, 2024 — Rumors Swirl About Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's Alleged Divorce

Though Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have reconnected, there have rumors that their marriage may be in trouble. A source alerted InTouch Weekly that there have been obvious signs that something is wrong for a while.

"The writing is on the wall – it’s over," the source claims before saying, "They’re headed for a divorce – and for once, [Ben’s] not to blame!" The source believes the two have a lot of love for each other, but that they're jus too different to be together.

TMZ has also reported that Ben seems like he hasn't been living at home — yikes! He was photographed leaving going to and coming from a L.A. home without Jennifer. It's also being reported that he's been allegedly spending the night there.

But, TMZ also pointed out that the pair are still wearing their wedding rings so it's hard to say if there's any merit to the breakup rumors. Until Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck actually give a statement, I'm going to cross my fingers and hope for the best! And we're not the only ones — 13 Going on 30's Jennifer Garner (who was married to Ben Affleck from 2005-2015) “is encouraging Ben to work on his marriage to Jen,” according to an Us Weeklysource. “She fully supports their relationship and wants nothing more than for him to be happy.”

Also, Jennifer Lopez wants us to really mind our business. People reported than an actress was not feeling a pushy reporter's question about her marriage and didn't have a problem letting them know. She was promoting Atlas with her co-stars when said reporter asked, "Is your divorce with Ben Affleck real? These rumors?"

Though her co-star Simu Liu expressed his disdain for the questions first, Jennifer quickly said," You know better than that." This lets us know that Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are well aware that people are talking about their marriage.

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Still, this hasn't stopped insiders from talking about what's going on behind closed doors. One even reached out to People to say, "They’re still living separately," and "She’s back in L.A. for tour rehearsals. She seems okay. She’s very focused on work." The outlet even reported that the couple are in fact living apart and have been seen on several occasions without each other.

While I know some people could care less, I remember when Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck first started dating so to see them struggling again feels a little painful. I'm trying to keep hope alive, but they ultimately know what's going on in their relationship. If they do choose to separate, that's a choice we'll all have to respect.

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May 31, 2024 — Jennifer Lopez Cancels Her "This Is Me" Tour

At the end of May, Jennifer Lopez revealed she was cancelling her summer tour to spend time with family. Her newsletter (via Variety) reveals that “Jennifer is taking time off to be with her children, family and close friends." (Refunds will be distributed through Ticketmaster automatically; third party purchase sites need to be contacted).

“I am completely heartsick and devastated about letting you down," Jennifer continues in the newsletter. “Please know that I wouldn’t do this if I didn’t feel that it was absolutely necessary. I promise I will make it up to you and we will all be together again. I love you all so much. Until next time…”

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June 21, 2024 — Ben Affleck Discusses Family Life With Jennifer Lopez

In a newly released interview with Kevin Hart, Ben Affleck showed a rare vulnerability that we don't often see. The two chatted about several things during the Season 4 premiere of Hart to Heart, but it was Ben's admission that he has "resting hard face" (via Entertainment Tonight) that caught our attention.

Though there have been theories about why Ben often looks like he'd rather be somewhere else than dealing with paparazzi, he made it clear why he's not always smiling when the cameras are on him. "I also don't like a lot of attention...people see me [and] they're like, ‘Well, this dude always mad…’ Because somebody has their camera and sticking to my face.”

Ben even mentioned a time when he, Jennifer, and their kids were trying to make it to a play while walking through Times Square. Though he knows fans are going to be excited to see them, it's obvious he's not thrilled when their kids are subject to that kind of pandemonium.

"We get out with her, all the kids, through Times Square, and the s--- was like f---in’ bananas...it feels like hundreds of people and now screaming," Ben explained (via People).

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July 20, 2024 — Jennifer Lopez Throws A Bridgerton-Themed Birthday Party

Jennifer Lopez celebrated an upcoming birthday milestone this weekend by hosting a party the Ton would've loved to attend. She spared no expense as it's reported she had "horse-drawn carriages" on-site (via Glamour).

She also posted a few selfies on Instagram to share her excitement about the special day. "Today is gonna be a great day 🤍🙏🏼 Happy Saturday everybody ☀️," she wrote as her caption.

Though other guests — including Jennifer's mom — attended the Bridgerton-themed soirée, a source made special note of Ben Affleck's absence (via People).

They've yet to confirm the status of their relationship, but it seems they're giving each other space.

What's your favorite Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck moment? Check out The Latest On Taylor Swift And Travis Kelce's Relationship and The Latest News On Blake Lively And Ryan Reynold's Kids for more of your favorite celebrity couples!

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