8 TED Talks That Will Totally Change the Way You Think

With tons of opinions and info spilling into the interwebs 24/7 (we don’t blame you if you’re considering killing your FB newsfeed or quitting social media altogether), it often feels like a survival strategy just to figure out how you feel about a topic and stick to it. Though keeping a strong opinion about something you care about (upcoming history-making election, anyone?) is ultra-important, opening yourself up to new ways of thinking can actually do you a world of good by presenting new possibilities and perspectives. To prove that things aren’t always so black and white, we found eight unreal TED talks that dig deep into a more curious mindset. Scroll on for our must-watch vids and prepare to be mind blown.

1. Dare to Disagree: Being agreeable is polite, right? Not so much. In this super compelling talk, entrepreneur and author Margaret Heffernan makes a solid case for disagreeing by pointing out how it can serve everyone.

2. Why 30 Is Not the New 20: This great talk by psychologist Meg Jay begins with an anecdote about the first client she worked with while studying clinical psychology — a 20-year-old with “boy problems.” To Meg’s surprise, instead of finding that the 20s are a throwaway decade for making mistakes, she discovered the opposite: the 20s are a developmental sweet spot. Use Meg’s learnings to rock your 20s now rather than waiting until you hit the big 3-0.

3. Your Elusive Creative Genius: It’s no surprise that this talk by Elizabeth Gilbert, the mastermind behind Eat, Pray, Love and Big Magic, will also help you see things totally differently. This time, she explores the idea of *having* a genius rather than being a genius. It’s a small mental switch that can make all the difference.

4. Do Schools Kill Creativity?: Schools are supposed to teach us the skills we need to be successful, but is it possible that they actually hamper creativity? This powerful talk by author and educator Sir Ken Robinson makes some solid points when it comes to re-thinking education and how we formally learn.

5. I Think We All Need a Pep Talk: It’s pretty easy to feel down in the dumps on a rough day, especially when people around you are in dull spirits or treat you poorly. But what if instead of catching the contagious bad energy, you were able to turn it around? We bet you’ll agree that this nine-year-old kid’s “treat everybody like it’s their birthday” mantra is worth keeping in mind.

6. How to Make Stress Your Friend: Nope, you didn’t read that wrong — stress isn’t necessarily a terrible thing! Psychologist and author Kelly McGonigal explains that when you change how you actually think about stress, the way it can affect you majorly changes. Don’t believe us? Watch for yourself.

7. Looks Aren’t Everything. Believe Me, I’m a Model: The first 10 seconds of this vid will leave you completely captivated as model Cameron Russell kicks off her talk with an outfit change and dose of radical transparency. A self-proclaimed winner of a “genetic lottery,” she explains exactly what modeling is like and how little appearances actually contribute to overall happiness.

8. Why Some Of Us Don’t Have One True Calling: The pressure to “figure out what you’re meant to do” can be confusing or crushing, especially if you haven’t stumbled on something that feels like a perfect fit in your work or life. Don’t get too down though — this inspiring talk with career coach Emilie Wapnick might help you consider the idea that not everyone has a single true calling, and that’s okay.

Which TED talks are your all time faves? Share ’em with us on Twitter @BritandCo!

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I have to be very, very careful when I cross paths with Trader Joe’s bakery section. From their Sea Salt Brownie Bites to their Chocolate Brooklyn Babka, sometimes my sweet tooth is too strong to not add a dessert (or two!) to my cart.

This dilemma is especially prevalent around the holiday season – the famed grocery chain just dropped some irresistible sweet treats like Teeny Tiny Pecan Pies andPetit Fours, for which I am so grateful.

But there’s one brand-new treat I truly cannot deny, and it’s downright perfect for every seasonal occasion, from cozy Christmas movie nights to holiday parties.

Trader Joe's

Trader Joe’s new Gingerbread Sandwich Cookies have started a riot amongst TJ’s fanatics like me. And what’s not to love about them? They boast two “perfectly spiced, luxuriously soft-textured, rich and molasses-y” cookies that house a deliciously-sweet vanilla frosting.

I’m a massive fan of Little Debbie’s everything, and this version is an undeniable step-up from their beloved Oatmeal Creme Pies (IYKYK).

TJ’s fan account @trader_joes_treasure_hunt highlighted the Gingerbread Sandwich Cookies on their page, and tons of followers chimed in on just how good they are.

“These are my favorite holiday cookies ever,” one commenter wrote.

“Omg this is my kryptonite,” another said.

“They go down like water,” someone else commented.

The Trader Joe’s Gingerbread Sandwich Cookies go for $5.99 for 9 bodaciously icing-stuffed treats (score!). Whether you bring them to the company Christmas party or a gals-only potluck this year, they’re sure to deliver holiday joy at a quality reminiscent of your local bakery.

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Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are no strangers to tabloids, the internet, and any and all fascination with their private life. The couple dealt with the press long before they got married in 2018, but that doesn't mean they're thrilled about it. During a December 4 conversation with New York Times columnist and Dealbook founder Andrew Ross Sorkin in New York City, Harry (the son of King Charles and the latePrincess Diana, and the younger brother of Prince William) revealed how he really feels about the obsession with his relationship and his family.

Keep reading to see what Prince Harry actually thinks about all the rumors surrounding his relationship with Meghan Markle.

Yeah, Prince Harry finds the divorce rumors really confusing.

"No, [it's] definitely not a good thing," he says when asked if he considers the "interest" in his life positive. "Apparently we've bought or moved house 10, 12 times. We've apparently divorced maybe 10, 12 times as well. So it's just like, what?'"

Even celebs like Chris Evans and Alba Baptista have had to dodge divorce rumors recently but 10 to 12 different rumors?! That's insane. The most recent divorce rumors came when Meghan Markle showed up solo to both the Children's Hospital LA Gala on October 5 and the Highbrow Hippie haircare launch on November 14, while it was announced Harry will host a charity event without Meghan on December 10. Naturally, the internet had a field day.

And the public's obsession with Harry and Meghan's relationship has directly affected their health.

"It's hard to keep up with, but that's why you just sort of ignore it," Prince Harry continues. "The people I feel most sorry about are the trolls," he continued. "Their hopes are just built and built, and it's like, 'Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,' and then it doesn't happen. So I feel sorry for them. Genuinely, I do."

WHAT! That's a pretty positive outlook. I don't know if I'd be that generous, TBH. Anyone who kept up with Harry and Meghan's Royal Wedding will remember the consistent criticism around Meghan's skin and behavior, and in their Netflix documentary Harry & Meghan, the couple revealed they went through so much stress surrounding the press, they believed it resulted in Meghan miscarrying a child.

"I’ve had a lived experience since I was a kid. I’ve seen stories written about myself that aren’t exactly based on reality. I’ve seen stories about members of my family, friends, strangers, all sorts of people," Prince Harry told Andrew. “And I think when you grow up within that environment, you do find yourself questioning the validity of the information but also what other people are thinking of that as well, and how dangerous it can be over the course of time."

What do you think about Harry's comments, and about the public obsession with Harry and Meghan? Let us know on Facebook, and if you're looking for more news on the Royal Family, read up on why Kate Middleton's "Amazing" Cancer Update From Prince William Has Us Breathing A Sigh Of Relief.

Whether you're prepping your wardrobe for the company holiday party or the next family gathering, Amazon is here to take some weight off your shoulders. This list of 40 Amazon fashion finds will elevate your entire look this winter season from bodycon looks to two-piece sets. Indulge in luxurious layers, chic jackets, and show-stopping seasonal looks that will have everyone complimenting you throughout the holidays.

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This Bodycon Dress With a Stretchy Design

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When in doubt, you can always count on this bodycon dress to create a head-turning look during the holiday season. The off-the-shoulder design allows you to show a little extra skin while the stretchy fit and midi length ensure you are comfortable and chic.

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This Sequin Top Sparkles in the Light

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Shimmering is easy with this sequin top that has a one-shoulder fit and ruched detailing. Pair this look with your favorite winter jeans and boots for a look that is both classy and formal.

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This Cardigan Sweater With a Thick Fabric

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Upgrade your layering game with this cardigan sweater that has a cable-knit design and tie-front bow. This trendy look offers a cozy fit, allowing you to dress it up or down in a ton of different ways.

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This Bodycon Dress With a Velvet Feel

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Classy is an understatement when it comes to this bodycon dress that is covered in the most stunning velvet fabric. The long sleeves keep you warm, while the stretchy fabric hugs your body seamlessly.

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This Plaid Scarf Went Viral on TikTok

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This plaid scarf has been the talk of the town on TikTok this winter. The oversized fit allows for a ton of different styles, pairing effortlessly with a wool coat or oversized sweater. Plus, it comes in a ton of colors to choose from.

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These Platform Boots With a Block Heel

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Your winter wardrobe isn't complete without these platform boots that influencers swear by. The square toe and chunky heel create a trendy twist, perfect for pairing with skirts, tights, or dresses.

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This Two-Piece Set With a Contrast Trim

Amazon

Winter is the perfect time to elevate your loungewear collection and this two-piece set is the perfect place to start. The knitted fabric on the sweater ensures you stay warm, while the relaxed pants leave plenty of space for you to move with ease.

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This Slip Skirt With a Satin Finish

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This slip skirt is a capsule wardrobe piece that can be dressed up or down for any occasion. The silk design creates a designer-inspired look, while the midi length adds an extra touch of warmth throughout the winter.

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These Palazzo Pants for a Cinched Waist

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Style these palazzo pants with a crop top or sweater to create the ultimate wintertime look. They have a wide-leg design and cinched waist, allowing you to style this piece in a ton of different ways.

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This Mini Dress With Faux Pockets

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The mock neckline on this mini dress creates a sophisticated look that is ideal for dinner parties or holiday functions. The long sleeves keep you cozy, while the tight fit adds an extra touch of style.

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This Maxi Skirt With a Fishtail Design

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Step out of your comfort zone with this maxi skirt that is covered in the most eye-catching pattern. The tight fit shows off your figure, allowing you to pair it with anything from a fitted top to a loose sweater.

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This Block Sweater for a Vibrant Twist

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When the temperature begins to drop, this block sweater is a staple piece to have in your wardrobe. The colorblock design adds a pop of color to your favorite outfits, making it easy to stay trendy throughout the chillier season.

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This Midi Skirt With a Pleated Design

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Slip this midi skirt over your favorite pair of tights to create a classy look that doesn't sacrifice comfort. The high-waisted fit creates a slimming look, perfect for pairing with a bodysuit or cropped tee.

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This Faux Fur Headband Doubles as Ear Muffs

Amazon

Skip the beanie and throw on this faux fur headband to create the most chic winter look. Not only does it keep your ears protected from the weather, but it also adds a touch of luxury to your favorite looks.

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These Cargo Pants With an Adjustable Fit

Amazon

Stay cozy while still keeping it stylish, thanks to these cargo pants that doubles as sweatpants. They have a drawstring design for comfort and a wide-leg fit that makes them ideal for lounging or sleeping.

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This Vest With a Button-Up Design

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TikTokers have fallen in love with this vest that has a sleeveless design and classy lapel collar. The button details add an extra layer of style, perfect for layering over a turtleneck or sweater.

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This Matching Set With a Ribbed Fabric

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Prepare for your next holiday dinner with this matching set that features a turtleneck sweater and a matching midi skirt to pair with it. The color block design adds a unique twist, while the ribbed fabric brings a designer-inspired look to the function.

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This Blouse Covered in Florals

Amazon

Instantly refresh your winter wardrobe with this blouse that has a vibrant floral pattern. The long sleeves will keep you warm while the button-down design allows for a ton of styling options.

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This Satin Blouse With Ruffle Sleeves

Amazon

Slip into this satin blouse and pair it with your favorite trousers to create a wintertime look that everyone swears by. The high-neck design adds a chic touch, while the silk fabric catches the light perfectly.

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This Sweater Covered in Pastels

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Bring a splash of color to your favorite winter looks, starting with this sweater that offers a color-block design. The loose fit leaves room for layering, ensuring the knit fabric keeps you cozy throughout the winter weather.

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This Satin Blouse With a Luxe Look

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With almost 20 different color options to choose from, this satin blouse serves as a staple piece for the holidays. The mock neck and long sleeves create a polished look that is perfect for both personal and professional outfits.

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This Sweater Dress With a Built-in Belt

Amazon

This sweater dress is one of those pieces that you can always count on. The bodycon fit offers a tight look, while the stretchy fabric allows you to move in comfort throughout the day. Plus, it comes with a built-in belt for an added cinch.

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This Midi Dress Finished With Ruffles

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Feel like the center of attention when you slip into this midi dress that is finished with the most stunning ruffles. The ruched detailing allows you to show off your figure, while the long sleeves make it a winter must-have.

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This Sequin Skirt Is Surprisingly Stretchy

Amazon

Influencers have fallen in love with this sequin skirt that has been all over social media over the last few weeks. The oversized sequin detailing creates the ultimate statement look, while the stretchy fabric allows you to continue to move in style.

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This Cardigan With a Cable Knit Design

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Throw on this cardigan to create a laid-back, yet chic look that is perfect for the colder weather. The open-front design leaves room for layering and style, while the knit texture adds an extra touch of warmth to the look.

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These Jeans With a Stretchy Denim Fabric

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These jeans are non-negotiable for the winter. They have a stretchy fabric that provides comfort, in addition to a button-front detailing for a trendy twist. The pockets make it a functional pick while the high-waisted design ensures you'll stay comfortable all day and night.

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These Knee-High Boots Elongate Your Legs

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Switch up your vibe with these knee-high boots that are finished with the most stunning faux crocodile leather. The pointed toe makes a statement piece, allowing you to serve looks all season long.

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This Cardigan With a Checkered Print Design

Amazon

Introduce patterns to your winter wardrobe, starting with this cardigan that has an oversized fit. The soft knit fabric is ideal for transitional weather, making it a go-to for all of your layering needs.

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This Long Sleeve Shirt With a Smooth Touch

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This long sleeve shirt has a buttery soft fabric and slim wrap design. The one-shoulder look offers an asymmetrical look, while the colorful options allow you to mix and match this piece with any of your favorite winter bottoms.

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This Matching Set With a Striped Twist

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Feel like a city influencer when you slip into this matching set that includes a fitted cardigan and matching maxi skirt. The striped pattern adds a unique touch while the soft fabric ensures all-day comfort.

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This Midi Skirt With an A-Line Fit

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The best part about this midi skirt is the high-waisted band that offers a stretchy and secure fit. The faux suede fabric is soft on the skin, offering a luxurious look at all of your holiday festivities.

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These Leopard Pants With a Bold Pattern

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If you're an active TikTok user, you may have heard about these leopard pants that the internet has fallen in love with. The stretchy fabric offers a comfortable fit, while the unique pattern makes them a statement piece for the winter.

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This Button-Down Shirt With a Structured Design

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This button-down shirt is one of those pieces that can be styled in a ton of unique ways. The lightweight fit makes it suitable for layering, while the structured collar offers a polished finish that everyone adores.

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This Sweater Set Features a Bodycon Maxi Skirt

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Skip the outfit stressing and slip into this sweater set that features an oversized V-neck sweater and a matching maxi skirt to pair with it. The stretchy fabric leaves room for layers while the stitched design adds a unique twist to the outfit.

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This Sweater With a Chunky Turtleneck

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The textured knit on this sweater creates a cozy touch that is ideal for the winter season. The turtleneck design adds that extra layer of class while the oversized fit ensures you can bundle up on the chilliest days of the year.

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This Bodysuit With Unique Color Options

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Everyone needs one of these bodysuits to pair with all of their favorite winter bottoms. The ribbed fabric offers a stretchy, high-quality look, while the color block details create a trendy finish.

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This Matching Set With a Button-Down Fit

Amazon

Keep it casual and classy all winter long when you slip into this matching set that includes pleated pants and a button-down top. The breathable design is a must-have for transitional weather, allowing you to elevate your look throughout the day.

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This Two Piece Set to Mix and Match

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If you're looking to elevate your wardrobe without breaking the bank, this two-piece set is a must-have. It includes a long-sleeve pullover and coordinating skirt, allowing you to mix and match the outfit year-round.

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This Sweater Dress Set

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This sweater dress set allows you to add an extra layer of warmth without ruining the look, thanks to the matching shall. The tank fit makes it a staple for every season, while the bodycon fit allows you to show off your figure.

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This Bodycon Dress Looks Designer

Amazon

Amazon shoppers rave about this bodycon dress that has a ribbed knit fabric and pullover design. The stretchy fabric ensures comfort, while the mini length leaves room for styling with tights or tall boots.

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