7 Things You Should Know About Pacifiers

Erica Loop
May 31, 2017

Pacifiers weren’t on your baby registry, but you got a few dozen of them anyway. Hmmm. It looks like your mom friends might know something you don’t. You’re a first-time mom, and these friends are more than willing to share their wealth of parenting advice and knowledge with you. So, listen up: Even though you might see a pacifier (or binky) as a piece of pretty plastic, this old-school gadget could be more useful than you can imagine. Read on for six ways a paci can help your little one (and you too), plus one potential drawback.

1. They may reduce the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, or SIDS, is scary. Seriously. It probably takes the top spot on your list of worst new-mom nightmares. So, you’re all about doing anything you can to prevent it. Did you know that your kid’s binky can help do just that? Pacifier use has been associated with a reduced risk of SIDS. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends offering infants a pacifier during nap and bedtimes to cut down on this risk.

2. They’re soothing. Your baby is super fussy. She’s crying, she’s whining, and you need a break (and so does she). The gentle sucking motion that the pacifier provides can help soothe and calm your little one, often when nothing else seems to work.

3. They can help induce sleep. If you have a fussy little one who’s struggling to fall asleep, a paci may be the key to getting a good night’s rest.Aside from the health benefits, a pacifier may help your little one calm down and drift off into dreamland.

4. They may satisfy her cravings. Imagine what would happen if you fed your baby constantly. She craves that sucking motion, but a never-ending bottle will leave her feeling super full. Hey, we’re not saying you should restrict your infant from eating. No way. It’s just that a 24/7 approach to eating won’t do. Instead, the paci is a food-free way to satisfy the urge to suck.

5. They’re an inexpensive fix. There isn’t exactly a lack of baby gear dedicated to soothing fussy kids. Some of it can get pretty pricey. So, when something comes along that costs nearly nothing (in comparison to other soothing items), you’re ready to grab it up. Hey, that item is a binky! When your baby tosses hers into that magical car crevice from which it can never be retrieved, you won’t stress. You’ll just pull another one out of the inexpensive multi-pack.

6. They will keep you sane. In a perfect world, you’d have the magic touch. Your baby would cry, you’d pick her up, and suddenly — poof! — no more tears. But, that doesn’t always happen. (Or, maybe that almost never happens.) A paci can change all of this for you. Call it mother’s little helper, your “I just need quiet for 10 seconds” saver, or whatever you want. Your sanity will thank you.

7. They could interfere with breastfeeding. The nipple? The paci? The nipple? The paci? Oh, your baby is confused. Giving your little one a binky when she starts breastfeeding may make nursing much more of a challenge — at least, that’s what everyone seems to be saying. But that doesn’t mean you should pull the plug, literally. The AAP suggests waiting until your baby is three to four weeks old before handing her a binky.

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16 Unique Baby Names That Aren’t Nouns

The baby name business has gotten a bit out of hand. While we love unique names, sometimes names like Toaster or Tree just don’t have the same ring as, say, Leila or Patrick. But we totally get the desire to have a name that differs from the mainstream. After all, our names are Olivia Taylor and Jasmine Williams…which are very popular.

People are literally paying Baby Name Consultants, like TikToker Colleen, to generate a list of top names for their little bundle of joy.

This concept isn’t all that new, but the idea of paying thousands of dollars for a list of names certainly is. The Wall Street Journal reported on the rise of baby name consultants and “the art of ‘branding’ your newborn” in 2007. With the boom in baby naming books circa early 2000s and the rise in funky celeb baby names like Apple Martin and Shiloh Jolie-Pitt (and today’s celeb baby names like Moxie CrimeFighter Jillette, Pilot Inspektor and Exa Dark Sideræl), baby-naming has become a source of stress and incredible importance. So stressful, in fact, that a few thousand dollars doesn’t look so bad.

Don't worry though – we definitely won’t charge you $10k for your baby’s unique name. Instead, here are 16 baby names that are cute and unique, and might be the perfect fit for your little one.

Unique Baby Names for Girls 

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  • Aria — All we can think about is, "Here comes Queen Aria," whenever we see this name. Similar to Arielle's name from The Little Mermaid, Aria is synonymous with something melodic.
  • Iris — Just like the iris of your eye, this name means your daughter will more than likely have a bright and colorful personality!
  • Maia — Instead of the traditional spelling of Mya, this name has Latin roots and means "great."
  • Ayla — Your daughter will have sturdy characteristics thanks to her Hebrew name!
  • Asha — Let your little girl's name remind you that there's much to be hopeful about.
  • Naomi — Take a cue from famed model Naomi Campbell and let your daughter's name introduce her beauty to the world.

Gender-Neutral Unique Baby Names

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  • Campbell — This Scottish name means "beautiful field" so we're sure it means your son's being will be full of beautiful traits and perspectives .
  • Reese — There's a reason why Reese Witherspoon has such a enthralling personality. Her name means "passion" and "enthusiasm."
  • Greer — We can hear Beyoncé's song "Protector" playing when we say this name because it means "guardian."
  • Lennon — There's a reason the world was so drawn to John Lennon's name. Lennon means "dear one" and we know that's how you'll feel about your newborn!
  • Sterling — "Twinkle, Twinkle little star" has nothing on the name Sterling. On second thought, it could serve as your baby's unofficial theme song.

Unique Baby Names For Your Son

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  • Lennox — Trade the 'n' in Lennon for an X to get this Scottish name. It rolls off the tongue, making it easier for others to pronounce.
  • Adler — Your little eagle is sure to soar high under your watchful eye.
  • Rowan — Have a cute baby that was born with a head full of red hair? Name him Rowan which means "little Red one." While you're at it, check out these lucky Irish baby names for more ideas!
  • Banks — If you feel drawn to water during your pregnancy, there's a good chance there's a reason why. Banks translates to "edge of the river."
  • Rigg —Whether you choose this as your baby's first or middle name, it'll be easy for others to remember it!

We know this process can be stressful, but don’t worry. As a new parent, you have so many other things taking up space in your mind, and this shouldn’t be one of them. Whatever baby name you go with, we’re sure it will be amazing.

Got any other unique baby name ideas? Share them with us in the comments!

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55 Easy Make-Ahead Thanksgiving Appetizers That Satisfy The Whole Table

Whether you're celebrating Thanksgiving with your family or having a cozy dinner for two, you want some time to sit back and relax on Turkey Day – even to enjoy some fun holiday games and activities while you wait for the turkey to brown. Make the day way easier by whipping up any of these easy make-aheadThanksgivingappetizer recipes and give yourself an actual Thanksgiving break.

Brit + Co

Bread Cornucopia and Cheese

Nothing says Thanksgiving like a cornucopia, so a bread cornucopia is the perfect appetizer centerpiece for your pre-feast party. (via Brit + Co)

Half Baked Harvest

Make-Ahead Mashed Potatoes

Mashed potatoes are a classic Thanksgiving appetizer. With this recipe, you can prep a creamy, buttery batch ahead of the big day and have it ready to go when your guests gather together. (via Half Baked Harvest for Brit + Co)

Brit + Co

Mac + Cheese Donuts

Not every appetizer has to be high rent. Whether you're prepping for Friendsgiving or an Turkey Day with your closest family, these delicious edibles will be a crowd pleaser. (via Brit + Co)

The Cafe Sucre Farine

Rosemary Pecan Goat Cheese Truffles

These babies are actually pretty darn classy, and they showcase all the flavors of the spectrum. There's rosemary for herb lovers, pecan to add some nuttiness, and even Sriracha for a bit of heat. Pro tip: Serve with a basic crispy wafer so as not to detract from the spread. (via The Cafe Sucre Farine)

Nerds With Knives

Crostini With Bleu Cheese and Roasted Grapes

This recipe takes almost no time to make. Slice up some blue cheese and add grapes to your favorite baguette. (via Nerds With Knives)

Little Spice Jar

Gruyere, Mushroom, and Caramelized Onion Bites

Add Gruyere, mushrooms, and caramelized onions to puffed pastry for a simple and delicious appetizer. And the best part is, you can make this up to 48 hours ahead of time, giving you plenty of wiggle room for your Turkey Day prep. (via Little Spice Jar)

Better Homes & Gardens

Cran-Sage Rolls

Not only is there nothing wrong with using frozen dough once in a while, but it's actually kind of a perfect Thanksgiving treat. These rolls are flavored with cranberries and sage for an elegant holiday version of trust crescent rolls. (via Better Homes & Gardens)

Hello Little Home

Ranch Pumpkin Seeds

These pumpkin seeds are both salty and tangy, plus you get a nice crunch from baking them for a bit. (via Hello Little Home)

I Will Not Eat Oysters

Kabocha and Havarti Pockets

Prepare these hearty pockets a few days before Thanksgiving, stick them in the fridge, and bake on the day of. (via I Will Not Eat Oysters)

Real Housemoms

Onion, Cranberry, and Pecan Cheese Ball

Cheese balls are a classic appetizer. Add onion, cranberries, and pecans to make yours next-level. (via Real Housemoms)

Well Plated

Cranberry Baked Brie Puff Pastry Bites

Brie can get super messy. Make bites instead and pop some cranberry in them to Thanksgiving-ify. Serve with fresh cranberries or — our personal favorite — sweet cranberry sauce. (via Well Plated)

How Sweet Eats

Pomegranate Jeweled White Cheddar, Toasted Almond, and Crispy Sage Cheeseball

This big bundle of flavor is so cheesy. It's coated in pomegranate seeds, which makes it super festive and sweet. (via How Sweet Eats)

The Suburban Soapbox

Tomato Jam and Cheddar Palmiers

TBH the thought of tomato jam is a little scary. But, once you try this recipe, you and your fam will be totally hooked. Add a little cheddar to make these extra flavorful. (via The Suburban Soapbox)

Recipe Rebel

Cranberry Bacon Jam Crostini

These tiny crostinis take the idea of bruschetta and turn it on its head. Instead of light, summery toppings, you'll be treated to festive cranberries, savory bacon, and gooey cheese. (via Recipe Rebel)

Home Is Where the Boat Is

Cha-Cha Chicken Salad

There's an unexpected sweetness to this chicken salad, and it comes from pineapples and cranberries. Top with a fresh sprig of rosemary. (via Home Is Where the Boat Is)

Chew Out Loud

Pumpkin Bacon Dip

Nothing says Thanksgiving more than pumpkin-flavored everything, and that doesn't stop at chips and dip. Top this dip with bacon and green onions for extra flavor. (via Chew Out Loud)

Gimme Some Oven

5-Ingredient Caprese Phyllo Cups

Caprese is one of those crowd-pleasing dishes that you really can't go wrong with. Drizzle these with pesto or balsamic vinaigrette for extra flavor, but wait to do that part until you're ready to serve — otherwise they may get soggy. (via Gimme Some Oven)

Deliciously Sprinkled

Pumpkin Dip

When it comes to dips, what could be more Thanksgiving-y than a concoction made with pumpkin? Serve with crackers, apples, or lightly sweetened cookies to tide your guests over until the big meal. (via Deliciously Sprinkled)

Food & Wine

Prosciutto-Fontina Pinwheels

Thinly sliced prosciutto, Fontina cheese, and puff pastry are just about all you need to make these pinwheels. The best part is that they totally make you into the best ever Turkey Day hostess. (via Food & Wine)

The Suburban Soapbox

Sweet and Spicy Sausage Stuffed Mushrooms

Go for a not-so-traditional Thanksgiving food and cook up a batch of stuffed mushrooms. The sweet and spicy flavors of this app will make it go fast. (via The Suburban Soapbox)

Pip and Ebby

Antipasto Skewers

Assemble these skewers a day ahead of schedule. Put them on a tray and cover tightly with plastic wrap, then refrigerate until ready to serve. (via Pip and Ebby)

Amy in the Kitchen

Garlic Butter Tuscan Shrimp Dip

Dip toast points, pita chips, and breadsticks into this indulgent dip, which you can make a day before Thanksgiving and pop in the oven to warm up when you're ready to eat. We won't judge if you decide to toss the leftovers with some warm pasta and call it a meal. (via Amy in the Kitchen)

My Gorgeous Recipes

Quick Chicken Liver Pâté

Go old school this Thanksgiving, serving chicken liver pâté and toast points as an appetizer. The pâté will keep for a few days in the fridge; just let it sit for 20 minutes at room temperature before you dig in. (via My Gorgeous Recipes)

Tara's Multicultural Table

Bavarian Cheese and Beer Spread

A robust cheese spread, made with beer, is an appropriately hearty start to your Thanksgiving feast. (via Tara's Multicultural Table)

Savory Tooth

Bacon-Wrapped Brussels Sprouts

We all have that family member who claims they don't like Brussels sprouts. Change their mind with these bacon-wrapped versions, which you can make ahead and heat in the oven just before serving (though they're delish at room temperature too). (via Savory Tooth)

The Home Cook's Kitchen

Mushroom Goat Cheese Bruschetta

Earthy mushrooms and tangy goat cheese create a balanced bite with this bruschetta recipe. Make sure your bread is extra toasty, so you can prep it without worrying about it getting soggy. (via The Home Cook's Kitchen)

No Spoon Necessary

Roasted Sweet Potato Harissa Hummus

Ditch the candied sweet potatoes and serve up this creamy hummus instead. It'll keep for at least a couple of days in the fridge, freeing up time for you to work on the rest of your seasonal cooking. (via No Spoon Necessary)

Sweet Peas and Saffron

Lasagna Stuffed Portobello Mushrooms

Make these stuffed mushrooms, freeze them, then pop 'em into the oven on Thanksgiving. Just try to resist eating so many you lose your appetite before the big meal. (via Sweet Peas and Saffron)

Spicy Southern Kitchen

Spicy Marinated Cheese

The cheese is marinated in a mixture of oil, vinegar, and spices, and gets better if you make it a day or two in advance. (via Spicy Southern Kitchen)

Lisa's Dinnertime Dish

Italian Sausage and Bean Bruschetta

Loaded with Italian sausage and white beans, this take on bruschetta is hearty enough for colder weather. Warm it up slightly before serving with toasted baguette slices. (via Lisa's Dinnertime Dish)

Cathy's Gluten Free

Sweet Potato Salad with Bacon

A little sweet, a little salty, this paleo salad is a satisfying but healthy starter. Top it with toasted pecans to add some crunch to each bite. (via Cathy's Gluten Free)

Garlic & Zest

Prosciutto and Date Palmiers

Flaky, cheesy, and sweet, palmiers will definitely stimulate your tastebuds. (via Garlic & Zest)

Food Meanderings

Caesar Twice-Baked Potatoes

Mini potatoes seasoned with Caesar dressing are twice-baked for this recipe. You can assemble them ahead of time, then bake them for the second time right before they're served! (via Food Meanderings)

Half Baked Harvest

Baked French Onion Meatballs

Talk about yum. Beef up your classic French onion soup recipe with a few meatballs to add a hearty touch, and top them off with a bit of gruyere. Trust us: your guests are going to thank you. (via Half Baked Harvest)

Barley & Sage

Goat Cheese Risotto with Cherry Tomato Confit

This easy-peasy recipe is actually pretty darn classy and showcases all the flavors on the spectrum. There's basil for herb lovers, plump cherry tomatoes for a burst of flavor, and a mix-in of goat cheese for an elevated flavor. (via Barley & Sage)

Whole and Heavenly Oven

Caprese Bruschetta with Basil Pesto

This recipe takes almost no time to make. Slice up some mozzarellaslices, tomatoes, and drizzle some vinaigrette and pesto to your favorite baguette. (via Whole and Heavenly Oven)

Where is My Spoon?

Puff Pastry Nibbles

Add sliced tomatoes, pesto (store-bought or homemade!), and sprinkle on some hard cheese to puff pastry pieces for a simple and delicious Thanksgiving appetizer. And the best part is, you can make this up to 48 hours ahead of time, giving you plenty of wiggle room for your Turkey Day prep. (via Where is My Spoon?)

Two Peas & Their Pod

Stuffed Mushrooms

We get it: either you love mushrooms or you hate them with a passion, but this recipe is bound to convert any hater. These mushrooms are jam-packed with parmesan cheese and panko breadcrumbs for a delectable Thanksgiving finger food. (via Two Peas & Their Pod)

Culinary Hill

2-Ingredient Italian Sausage Rolls

These 2-ingredient rolls are sure to please both the kids and adults tables this year. Make them ahead of time, then easily heat them back up once Thanksgiving Day rolls around. (via Culinary Hill)

A Spicy Perspective

Bacon Kalamata Cheese Puffs

For those who don't already know, kalamata is a type of olive… which makes these appetizers perfect for your vegetarian guests. Prepare these pockets a few days before Thanksgiving, stick them in the fridge, and bake the day of. (via A Spicy Perspective)

The Fast Recipe

Spicy Cajun Deviled Eggs

What *doesn't* sound good about these deviled eggs? Cajun seasoning and hot sauce give these otherwise totally traditionalfinger foods a savory, rich layer of flavor. (via The Fast Recipe)

The Bossy Kitchen

Cheese Straws with Feta and Poppy Seeds

To make these cheese straws, twist together some feta and a homemade dough, then bake. These taste ahh-mazing all on their own, but you can get creative with the toppings if you're feeling frisky. (via The Bossy Kitchen)

Takes Two Eggs

Korean Cream Cheese Garlic Bread

Cheese bread is a classic appetizer. The cream cheese and honey butter in this recipe takes this to the next level. (via Takes Two Eggs)

Half Baked Harvest

Mini Pastry Wrapped Cranberry Baked Brie Bites

Brie can get super messy. Make some tiny bites instead, and pop some cranberry in them to Thanksgiving-ify. Serve with fresh cranberries or — our personal favorite — sweet cranberry sauce. (via Half Baked Harvest)

Averie Cooks

Dill Pickle Cheese Ball

While the term “cheese ball" might not sound particularly refined, this big bundle of flavor actually kinda is. It's coated in cheddar cheese, for one thing, which makes it a total crowd-pleaser. We recommend adding pickle slices to this bad boy for extra oomph. (via Averie Cooks)

The Endless Meal

Crispy Boursin Arancini

Crispy Boursin arancinis the perfect make-ahead appetizer that you can reheat in the oven. Once you try this recipe, you and your fam will be totally hooked. The Boursin center make these extra flavorful! (via The Endless Meal)

Cozy Cravings

Spinach and Ricotta Puff Pastry Pinwheels

These spinach and ricotta pinwheels take pre-dinner bread to a whole other level. Enjoy a swirl of buttery puff pastry, salty parmesan, and gooey ricotta for the ultimate savory treat. (via Cozy Cravings)

The Bossy Kitchen

Cranberry Cream Cheese Dip

Nothing says Thanksgiving more than cranberry-infused everything, and that doesn't stop at chips and dip! Top this dip with slivered almonds and green onions for extra flavor. (via The Bossy Kitchen)

Hello Little Home

Baked Brie with Cranberries & Pecans

There's an unexpected sweetness to this baked brie, and it comes from the cranberries. Prep ahead then bake to experience the ooey-gooey center. (via Hello Little Home)

The First Mess

Roasted Carrot & Harissa Chickpea Dip

When it comes to prepping ahead, dips of any kind are a crowd-pleasing dish that you really can't go wrong with. Top this spread with pine nuts and pomegranate pearls for extra flavor, but wait to do that part until you're ready to serve it — otherwise, it may all get mixed in. (via The First Mess)

Live Eat Learn

Leek Quiche Recipe with Goat Cheese

One of the best things about a quiche is that you can eat it at any time of year. Full of leeks and cheesy goodness, this recipe is a great way to sneak in some vegetables ahead of the big feast. (via Live Eat Learn)

The Endless Meal

Hot Spinach Artichoke Dip

This Thanksgiving, indulge in the traditional decadence that is a spinach and artichoke dip. The best part about a tried and true favorite like this is that it'll totally make you the best-ever Turkey Day hostess! (via The Endless Meal)

Rachel Mansfield

Spinach Artichoke Dip Cups

Speaking of spinach artichoke dip, opt for these lil' cups to avoid the mess. You definitely won't have to worry about forgetting the chips! (via Rachel Mansfield)

Two Peas & Their Pod

Cherry Arugula Farro Salad

Go for a not-so-traditional Thanksgiving food and whip up a light, yet filling salad. The sweet and crunchy texture of this appetizer will make it go fast. (via Two Peas & Their Pod)

Salt & Lavender

Easy Antipasto Skewers

Assemble these skewers a day ahead of schedule. Put them on a tray and cover tightly with plastic wrap, then refrigerate until you're ready to serve them. (via Salt & Lavender)

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5 Mom-Approved Tips From Ria Safford's New Book "The Organized Home For New Parents"

Whether you're a new or seasoned parent, it seems like finding mom-approvedorganizationtips to help keep your space tidy feels like another never-ending task that may or may not get done. Even though we'd love to keep everything clean, I'm sure other moms will tell you that clutterwins more often than we'd like to admit. To be blunt, I've even given myself permission to stop feeling guilty when my apartmentdoesn't look presentable. Still, it doesn't hurt to be able to know where things are instead of accidentally leaving my keys in the refrigerator or having to run to the pantryto find a backup diaperduring blowout moments — *blank stare.*

Luckily, moms' prayers have been answered thanks to Ria Safford's new book The Organized Home for New Parents. Not only is Ria a certified organization queen, but she's also a wife and momof three. Arguably the best thing about Ria is her willingness to be honest about *not* always having it together. "I'm messy at heart. Like, I want people to understand that being a walking hot mess and being organized aren't mutually exclusive," she said.

It's the main reason she wrote The Organized Home for New Parents — she honestly gets how hard it is to navigate motherhood while caring for little people. Since I'm getting ready for the threenager stage (send help) of being a toddler mom, here are five mom-approved tips from The Organized Home for New Parents I've started putting into practice.

1. Change your approach and mindset to organizing.

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Unless cleaning and organizing makes you feel absolutely giddy, chances are...you dread doing it. This isn't a call-out because I'm right there in the trenches with you. I went from loving being a part of the cleaning process to realizing my mom intended to spend half of Saturday morning doing *just* that. Although I maintained the understanding that cleaning my space is necessary, I was never thrilled about it.

However, Ria said it's important to shift the way we think about cleaning. "I think the biggest reasons my kids look forward to helping me keep different parts of our home clean is because I make things fun. We're a very competitive household, so I make up games like 'who can clean the fastest,' so it doesn't make them feel I'm taking away time they want to spend doing something else."

2. Ask yourself why it's important for you to get organized.

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Raise your hand if you've ever asked yourself why you didn't remember something or uttered, "How could I be so stupid?" First, here's a virtual hand-to-heart moment because I've done the same. Second, know that being clear about your reasoning for having an organized space is necessary for you to get started. "Maybe you feel you can't function unless things are perfectly organized and experience discomfort when they aren't," Ria said.

Reading the book helped me personally identify my main goals for wanting an organized space and I realized two things:

  1. I want my apartment to feel peaceful.
  2. I don't want to feel like I never know where anything is when I need it.

It may look completely different for you and that's totally okay. Ria's organization tips are designed in a way that help you tailor them to your needs.

3. Involve your partner or supportive village in the organization process.

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Ria and I both agreed that there are tons of books about how to prepare for your baby's arrival, but there aren't many that shed light on truly helpful organization tips in the midst of it. It can be overwhelming when you realize all of the gifts or clothes you received during your baby shower have to find a place to go in your home. On top of it all, you probably didn't even think about discussing with your partner or supportive village, or ask them to help lighten your housework's load.

"When my first daughter was born, I wanted to do everything myself," Ria said. While it's cool to have an independent nature, it can lead to feelings of burnout. The Organized Home for New Parents outlines how to have conversations with the people in your life so everyone is able to effectively work together to provide support that goes beyond feeding the baby while mom takes a nap.

"Labeling things and letting your support system know where they are so they feel adequately equipped to help is one of the things I was adamant about putting in the book," said Ria. The fact she doesn't gloss over this section in Chapter 2 is so helpful, and serves as a conversation starter for those at different stages of parenthood.

4. Be open to pivoting as your children grow.

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Although Ria wanted to specifically make sure new parents felt seen with her book, she wrote it in a way she hopes feels timeless. "Organization is never over. There's always going to be constant editing that occurs over time. Look, my kids are 8, 6, and 4 so I had no choice but to pivot," she said.

If you don't have small kids, The Organized Home for New Parents is still helpful because it can help you think about how you want to approach organizing in the different seasons of your life. You might not have to organize your kids' diapers anymore, but they're still going to wear other clothes that need to be folded and put away. And let's not forget the mountain of toys kids tend to accumulate over the years...*side eye*

5. Don't be afraid to find ways to optimize small spaces.

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Regardless of where you live — house, townhouse, apartment, or otherwise — you probably have a few small spaces that you haven't figured out how to organize. They could be your kitchen drawers, a corner in your living room or even the small space on the side of your toilet that's collected random Amazon boxes. Yes...I'm speaking from experience.

The Organized Home helps you reimagine those spaces so that you're able to collect your overflow in a more organized way. One of these ways is by making use of a three-tier rolling cart. Since I built one of my own over the weekend, it's helped to transform my bathroom so that other essentials are securely stored there. Surprisingly, my toddler thinks it looks "cool" and even helped me put back his Boogie Wipes that were on it.

My final verdict of "The Organized Home for New Parents"

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I'll be honest — I'm pretty critical of books geared towards parents because some feel like you're having a ton of instructions thrown at you. Although The Organized Home for New Parents is filled to the brim with actionable steps you can take to get your home organized, they're easy to digest and break down step-by-step. Ria said, "The goal isn't to tackle everything at once. Do what you can a little at a time to help lessen the chance you feel overwhelmed."

Taking her advice, I chose three areas of my apartment to clean this weekend, and I was able to organize my pantry and my toddler's bathroom station without feeling discouraged. I also didn't do everything in one day. Ria's tips are helping this mom communicate better about the household things I need help with, and the areas I've gotten around to organizing feel damn good to look at and walk into.

Take it from me, The Organized Home for New Parents by Ria Safford is worth buying and isn't another pretty book that's going to collect dust on your coffee table. You'll probably bookmark and annotate sections throughout it for years to come. Plus, it makes for a great gift for other moms in your life!

Purchase a copy (or two) of "The Organized Home for New Parents"

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Bye, PSL! The Starbucks Holiday Menu For 2024 Is Back

So long, pumpkin spice season: Starbucks’ holiday menu has officially returned, and it brings back a ton of seasonal favorites!

In addition to the classic Peppermint Mocha to the beloved Caramel Brûlée Latte, a new Refresher flavor, 6 unique cold foams, and 4 new bakery items are now available at Starbucks locations as the holidays draw near – including many items we predicted! The lineup is honestly wild. The Starbucks holiday menu hit stores on November 7.

If you just can’t wait to order off the Starbucks holiday menu, here’s every offering available at your closest cafe!

When will the Starbucks holiday drinks for 2024 come out?

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The new holiday drinks and snacks from Starbucks came out on November 7, 2024.

Will there be holiday cups?

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Yes, the Starbucks holiday menu includes some new holiday cup designs! You can peek at all the new designs for 2024 here.

What's missing from this year's rumored Starbucks holiday menu?

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The Eggnog Latte, Toasted White Chocolate Mocha, Irish Cream Cold Brew, and Gingerbread Loaf won't be returning to cafes for 2024. We're especially sad to see the Toasted White Chocolate Mocha not included, though the official menu lineup has yet to be released!

When is Starbucks Red Cup Day 2024?

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Though there's no official word out about Red Cup Day for 2024, our best guess – based on the Red Cup Days of years past – is it'll return mid-November. In 2023, Red Cup Day fell on November 16. In 2022, the coffee chain held the event on November 17. Both dates landed on the third Thursday of November, so we predict it to hit on November 21 for 2024. Red Cup Day is when Starbucks customers can get a free reusable red cup when they order a seasonal drink off the holiday menu!

Drinks On The Starbucks Holiday Menu 2024

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NEW! Cran-Merry Orange Refresher

This brand-new Refresher is packed with sweet orange, tart cranberry, and warm spice. It also has cranberry inclusions and is order-able mixed with water, lemonade or coconut milk.

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Iced Gingerbread Oatmilk Chai

Chai is a totally underrated holiday flavor in our opinion. This iced drink is crafted with warm chai spices and creamy oat milk, then gets topped with even more frothed oat milk infused with gingerbread-flavored syrup and a sprinkling of spice.

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Peppermint Mocha

You know it, and you love it! The Peppermint Mocha has hit Starbucks menus year after year, making it a total statement sip for the holiday season. This drink (available hot or iced) combines peppermint syrup, mocha sauce, and your milk of choice with espresso for a festive feel. It's traditionally topped with whipped cream and tasty chocolate curls.

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Peppermint White Chocolate Mocha

Similar to the classic Peppermint Mocha, this bev swaps chocolate for white chocolate sauce.

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Caramel Brûlée Latte

This Starbucks holiday menu drink is very rich. The sweet caramel brûlée sauce totally completes the sip, along with plenty of whipped cream and crunchy lil' brûlée bits for textural variety.

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Sugar Cookie Almondmilk Latte

Literally like a sugar cookie in liquid form, this super-sweet latte is handcrafted with blonde espresso (it's sweeter and lighter than Starbucks' traditional espresso shots), sugar cookie syrup, and almond milk for a little bit of a lighter effect. It's finished off with red and green sprinkles to up the seasonal vibes even more!

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Chestnut Praline Latte

This nutty latte brings on notes of chestnut and praline, which is a nice, flavorful departure from the very expected peppermint you'll see everywhere come holiday time.

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Salted Pecan Crunch Cold Brew

Initially introduced for fall 2024, it appears as though the Salted Pecan Crunch Cold Brew will stay on the Starbucks menu well into winter. The salted, pecan-flavored cold foam offers that classic sweet n' salty twist you'd enjoy on fall snacks like trail mix or dipped pretzels. The best part is you can now also order the cold foam in non-dairy form!

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Holiday Cold Foams

Starbs will also be bringing back four beloved holiday-flavored cold foamsand two new options for 2024. They're the perfect drink customization to add to your iced coffees and cold brews if you don't want to order an all-out holiday drink. See all the flavors below:

  • NEW! Gingerbread
  • NEW! Salted Pecan
  • Peppermint Chocolate
  • Sugar Cookie
  • Chestnut Praline
  • Caramel Brûlée

Snacks On The Starbucks Holiday Menu 2024

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NEW! Dark Toffee Bundt

This sweet toffee-flavored bundt is topped with holly- and berry-shaped sprinkles. How perfect for the holiday season!

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NEW! Turkey Sage Danish

This savory snack reportedly includes "turkey sausage with creamy béchamel sauce in a pastry." It sounds like Thanksgiving in a single treat, and we can't wait to try it!

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NEW! Penguin Cookie

This cutie sugar cookie is decorated like a lil' penguin bundled up for the cold.

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Snowman Cake Pop

Starbucks' classic vanilla cake pop gets a wintry twist with an adorable snowman face – this sweet really makes us crave the holiday season!

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Sugar Plum Cheese Danish

This cream cheese-filled danish is topped with a slightly-spiced sugar plum jam. It's been one of our go-to's over the past few holiday seasons at Starbucks!

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Cranberry Bliss Bar

The Cranberry Bliss Bar has become an absolute staple on the Starbucks holiday menu, and for good reason! This blondie treat is smothered in a delicious cream cheese frosting and sprinkled with orange zest and dried cranberries for added seasonal enjoyment.

What People Are Saying About The Leaked Starbucks Holiday Menu

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Famed foodie account @markie_devo was the first to leak the Starbucks holiday menu earlier this year. Though most commenters on @markie_devo's Starbucks holiday menu leak post seemed to be excited for the upcoming rumored menu items, some Starbs fans noticed a few things missing from the leaked lineup.

"Still missing eggnog 😢," someone noted.

"Where is the toasted white chocolate mocha 😢😢😢😢," another questioned.

"ALLLLLL these cold foams, and not the one people want: Irish Cream," one more commenter said.

"Ugh still no gingerbread loaf 😭," a disappointed user wrote. "Everything else looks bomb though!"

Despite the Eggnog Latte, Toasted White Chocolate Mocha, Irish Cream Cold Brew, and Gingerbread loaf not being part of this year's menu predictions, the holiday season is our favorite time of year at Starbucks. Many more users shared the same sentiment:

"So excited for all chestnut praline shaken espressos & cranberry bliss bars 🎄🎄🎄🎄," someone wrote.

"Oh hell yess all the chestnut praline offerings," another rejoiced.

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Budget-Friendly Bougie with 41 Luxe Gifts for Less Than $100

Before you start emptying your bank account to purchase a great gift, it’s important to be aware that there are so many affordable luxe gifts on Amazon, and we’re here to prove it. From cotton robes to UGG slippers, rose quartz coasters to a gooseneck kettle, and more everyday items, numerous high-end options can fall well within your budget — all while still giving off that luxe, high-end vibe. Scroll on to discover the best bougie gifts you can score for under-$100.

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This Jewelry Organizer Stand To Give Their Accessories a Home

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You can’t go wrong with an aesthetically pleasing jewelry organizer stand, especially one that’s as useful and stylish as this two-tiered wooden option. Take it from Cairo: “My husband was really happy with this gift for all his leather and paracord bracelets.”

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A Candle To Evoke Treasured Memories

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We have a soft spot for Homesick Candles. Every option's distinctive scent makes it an even more thoughtful gift. This 13.75 oz scented candle is great for bringing back memories to your giftee for a long time, thanks to its 60-80-hour burn time.

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A Coffee Grinder for a Fresh Cup Every Day

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Get your morning java after the beans are freshly ground on the coffee grinder like in a café. The flavor and smell are lovely, and this little device looks cute in the small corner.

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This Swivel Cheese Board Makes a Stylish Presentation

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There’s a reason this showstopper cheese board is a staple on Pinterest: its round bamboo design makes it both sturdy and durable and won’t stain or absorb odors. The set includes four knives. It’s a top-notch gift for the hostess of the season.

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Relax With a Bathtub Caddy

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Elevate bath-time indulgence with a bathtub caddy. This elegant addition to their self-care routine keeps everything within arm's reach, from their book or tablet to their favorite glass of wine.

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A Hemp Cream To Reduce Their Pain

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We know all too well that nothing beats a thoughtful gift. This muscle cream features a powerful hemp formula designed for multiple uses: soothing irritated skin, moisturizing dry patches, and relieving soreness, thanks to cooling peppermint that helps reduce inflammation.

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A Camping Blanket Made From Merino Wool

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Shopping for someone who loves a lazy Sunday? This blanket is something they’ll cherish. It’s a stylish, lightweight blanket made from a blend of merino wool, giving it warmth, durability, and weather resistance — perfect for a camping trip or draping over their bed or couch for a subtle pop of color.

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These Aloe vera Face Masks Are the Ideal Pampering Treat

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Pick up these firming sheet masks to complete your giftee’s spa nights. These masks are designed to revitalize and rejuvenate the skin, thanks to their natural formula of organic aloe vera and a blend of amino acids, hyaluronic acid, and arginine. Each pack comes with five pieces.

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This Robe Is Made of 100% Turkish Cotton

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This ultra-soft Turkish cotton robe will help streamline your giftee’s night routine. The plush robe has an adjustable fitting that lets them put their comfort above everything else. Choose from 24 colors for the next big thing to a trip to the spa.

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This Mini Fridge Can Fit So Many Goodies

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What beauty lover wouldn’t want their own mini fridge for skincare products? This four-liter model can fit many serums and creams to enhance their properties. Of course, it can be used for their drinks or snacks. Plus, it is very lightweight, making it portable.

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This Truffle Set To Infuse Their Meal With a Unique Taste

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The TRUFF Starter Pack is always a great idea. The foodie in your life will surely be thrilled. It’s Amazon’s Choice because it includes truffle hot sauce, oil, and sea salt, which you’ll want to put on everything to elevate any dish.

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This Easy-To-Use Coffee Maker Makes Delicious Coffee

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Upgrade your giftee’s mornings with this coffee maker, a low-cost version of Keurig’s brewers. Take it from Michael: “Easy to set up and simple to use, and it makes great coffee quickly. My spouse got it for me as a gift, and I couldn’t be happier with its performance and design. I would recommend this over a Keurig because it’s the same quality and does the exact same thing.”

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This Retro Turntable Features Bluetooth Connectivity

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This retro audio system is a little bit of luxury that your giftee can use every day. Featuring a vintage design, it has all the perks of a modern device, like Bluetooth connectivity and a three-speed belt-driven turntable. Your giftee can listen to their way — vinyl records, CDs, cassettes, radio, and more.

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These Expensive-Looking Coasters Are 1-of-a-Kind

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Rose quartz coasters have been shown to elevate a table, but you don’t need to invest a lot. Anyone on your list will love to use these four coasters with a gold edge. You can choose the desired shape, though we think the square is great for most décor.

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This Cashmere Sweater Is Great for Comfort-Obsessed People

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This is one turtleneck sweater they won’t mind wearing. Treat your loved ones to this cashmere sweater that’s available in a wide range of sizes and seven colors. “I never expected to order a sweater on Amazon and receive such a high-quality item! The fabric (Merino wool) is fantastic, and the fit is perfect,” one wrote.

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These Slippers Are Perfect for Cold Weather

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These UGG Slippers are made from ultra-cozy dyed sheep fur and feature a cushiony insole and rubber outsoles. They will keep your giftee’s feet warm inside but are also a total delight to look at.

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This Beanie Is Available in an Endless Array of Colors

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They’ll want to wear this stylish Carhartt Beanie all the time. It goes with any style or aesthetic, and while it’s high-quality, it’s actually pretty affordable; you’ll want to get one for yourself, too. Plus, it makes such a thoughtful stocking stuffer for anyone on your list.

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This Storm-Predicting Device Doubles As Desk Décor

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If your friend loves keeping an eye on the weather, this device that can predict when a storm is rolling in makes a unique desk décor that anyone will be excited to display. Take it from Anastazia: “I got it for my godfather for Christmas; he has everything weather except for this. He loves it, and I’m glad I could give him something cute for his desk.”

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A Portable Photo Printer To Make Prints Anywhere

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Just when we thought we had enough photos on our phones, the HP Sprocket Photo Printer stepped in to display our shots physically. The portable photo printer boasts Bluetooth connectivity and can print images at 2 x 3in, roughly the size of a credit card. The best part? It can also apply effects, filters, and more.

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These Earbuds Have Built-In Alexa

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Earbuds are having a moment right now, so these Amazon Echo Buds just had to make our list. They boast premium features like dynamic audio and excellent noise cancellation, delivering crisp, balanced sound that you can customize. Plus, they support hands-free Alexa.

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This Heart-Shaped Dutch Oven Is a Piece Everyone Should Have

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Treat them to something that’s both stylish and practical with this heart-shaped Dutch oven — which will make them fall in love with it. Not only is it beautiful, but its study enamel fends off scratches and dings and has a broad searing.

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This Self-Cleaning Bottle for Fresh Tasting Water

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Tumblers remain one of the trendiest products. But we love this self-cleaning bottle from LARQ because it keeps your water fresh and saves you from dealing with that annoying small mouth hole. It also cleans water in just a minute at the touch of a button and self-cleans by activating every two hours.

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This Gooseneck Kettle With a Natural Cork Knob

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It’s safe to say that this kettle is one of the sleekest kitchen gadgets around. This stainless-steel model features an ergonomic design that gives you full control over the speed and consistency of the water flow. Not to mention the non-slip knob made from natural cork that makes it bougie.

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This Cookbook Is “A Gift That Will Be Cherished”

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This #1 Best Seller Good Loookin’ Cookin’ Cookbook is one of the buzziest gifts of the moment, and reviewers agree that it’s worth the hype, especially because it contains one year of meals. One wrote: “I purchased this for my daughter-in-law because we both love Dolly, and she is such a great cook. I know this gift will be used and cherished!”

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These Coupe Glasses With a Ribbed Detailing

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Sure, regular glassware is nice, but they’re a dime a dozen. These four cocktail glasses will ensure your giftee gets timeless pieces to host a classy party. Plus, reviewers attest that the ribbed detailing gives all the feels of a retro, luxurious piece.

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This Waterproof Speaker That’s Dominating the Market

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The JBL Flip 5 offers everything and more anyone would want in a Bluetooth speaker: it has a 20-hour battery life, is water-resistant, and even features a party mode, meaning it can stream music on multiple speakers at once. Choose from 14 colors available.

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A Sistine Chapel Jigsaw Puzzle That’s Handcrafted

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This 5,000-piece Ravensburger Jigsaw Puzzle shows off the Sistine Chapel. The brand's puzzles are widely known for their exceptional image quality and anti-glare surface. Even better, they're handcrafted, so each piece fits together perfectly to save your giftee from frustration.

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A Hand Care Set That Nourishes and Fights Wrinkles

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After going viral, this L’OCCITANE hand care set emerged as a trendy find. Buyers love the duo: a serum-in-cream that fights the appearance of wrinkles and a shea hand cream to moisturize. It’s one of those luxe things they don’t want to buy themselves but are dying to have.

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These Huggie Earrings With a Heart-Shaped Design

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As you scroll, you might not expect to find a gorgeous pair of 14k gold-plated earrings. Help your loved one stand out with these heart-shaped earrings that add something to their look. Plus, they come with a chic gift box and jewelry bag.

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This Birthstone Ring “Will Catch Eyes”

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There’s a reason so many are obsessed with these birthstone rings — they’re vibrant! Giving color, style, and birthday love, this sterling silver ring is ideal for anyone because it is hypoallergenic and won’t fade or tarnish. “This ring is an eye-catcher for sure! I get so many compliments and have even been asked if it is a blue diamond!!! The ring is also very inexpensive but high quality,” wrote Tricia.

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This Super Soft Pillow Features a Unique Down-Alternative Fill

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This soft pillow from Casper is the one everyone is raving about. The uniqueness lies in its down-alternative fill that makes it super fluffy and even responds to your movements to give you extra support — something down can’t do.

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A Luxurious Leather Wristlet for Traveling Light

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This Coach Wristlet is equal parts fashionable and functional, crafted with a polished pebble leather detail that makes it versatile and perfect for their small everyday essentials. If that wasn’t enough, it features two credit card slots, a zip-top closure, and a detachable wrist strap.

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A Crocodile Mini Bag To Complete Their Closet

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From trench coats to accessories, this mini bag is the ultimate style staple. If you’re shopping for someone who is obsessed with her fashion, you need to get them this option from The Drop. Not only does it have the sleekest crocodile design, but it’s also made out of faux leather.

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A Handcrafted Pitcher That’s a Pinterest-Favorite

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When you’re looking for something useful and eye-catching for your favorite hostess, consider this large pitcher for a home décor gift. With its emerald green rim design, it’s something that will make each glass stand out in any table setting.

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This Digital Camera Is the Perfect Camera To Take Anywhere

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Few gadgets bring back the joy of memory-making quite like the Kodak Pixpro Digital Camera. Whether for vlogging (which this 1080p Full HD camera effortlessly does) or for high-quality photos, it keeps memories alive. Any true photography lover will understand the meaning behind this camera.

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This Sweet Perfume With a Signature Bottle

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Gift the allure of Sabrina Carpenter’s Perfume magic with TikTok’s favorite, Sweet Tooth. It’s a lush blend with notes of marshmallow, chocolate, ginger, and bergamot, plus, of course, the iconic cute bottle design that resembles a pastel pink chocolate bar.

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These Eye Patches Deliver an Instant Hydration Boost in Minutes

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These de-tox eye patches are a buyer favorite for a reason: they’re quick, effective, and the perfect solution for tired eyes. They’re infused with cucumber extract, chamomile, and niacinamide for a hydrated, de-puffed skin appearance and combat dark circles.

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This Viral Tumbler That’s Worth Investing In

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If your friend wants to follow the latest trends, you need to get them a Stanley Tumbler. Not only is its lid much improved, it has a solid cold retention, and the silicone portions on its handle are nice to hold, but —somehow— it adds a stylish touch to their everyday outfit.

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A Foot Spa To Soften Hard Skin and Soothe Their Achy Feet

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If you’re looking for little luxuries, this foldable foot spa is an ideal way to start. It has six groups of 3D Tai Chi massage balls to relieve foot pressure and improve blood circulation. Plus, the temperature can be adjusted to maintain water temperature for up to an hour.

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This Hair Straightener Brush for a Blowout Look in 5 Minutes

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If you’re shopping for someone who could use a pick-me-up, get them this hair straightener brush. It’s a compact, portable hair-styling tool that, unlike traditional flat irons, adds volume and smooths strands in minutes. It’s perfect for travel because it comes with a detangling brush, a glove, clips, and a storage bag.

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An Air Fryer for Healthy Meals This Holiday Season

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This one from Ninja makes the perfect gift for anyone who still doesn’t know the absolute luxury of owning an air fryer. Its ability to fry, roast, bake, and dehydrate with little to no oil makes it the perfect blend of usefulness and thoughtfulness. It comes with a 20-recipe booklet filled with healthy treats.

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