My best friend and I recently had a 3-hour conversation about navigating love in our 30s, coming to the conclusion that our prior breakups helped us become clearer about what we want in love. After we said our good-byes, I started thinking about questions worth asking yourself when you're single.
Unlike some people who tell you not to worry about love when you're not coupled up, I think it actually does help to have an idea about the kind of person and relationship that'll fit in your life when the time comes. I wish it wish it were this easy, but the perfect situation isn't going to fall into your lap — because it doesn't exist. Even now, I'm still learning about myself and my fiancé as we experience life together.
So are you single and trying to understand what you actually want out of your love life? Here are some questions you should ask yourself!
Other questions you can ask yourself can have something to do with your morals or boundaries. It's a way for you to understand areas of your life that you may not always think about everyday.
Once you have a better understanding of who you are, think about the kind of romantic love you'd like to have in your life. There's a chance you're not even interested in a serious monogamous relationship right now and that's okay. The point is to get clear about what you do want.
Start asking:
Though tempting, this isn't a confirmation that you should call the ex you've been thinking about. Rather, take the time to revisit what you think did or didn't work.
I'm not asking you to 'listen and judge' yourself for who you're typically attracted to. We all have our reasons why certain people make our hearts race even if said people aren't the greatest for us in the long run. This is the time to be curious about who you're drawn to and why.
Ready for something serious? There's still some questions you should ask yourself before jumping into something new.
These questions may seem like a lot, but it's a way to help you understand how you want your love like to look. Also, there's a possibility you could encounter scenarios that may not fit under these questions because life can be full of surprises. All that matters is you're able to have a better understanding of who you are and what you want in 2025.
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Love is in the air – and, as it turns out, on the shelves at Target! We can always count on Target to have the cutest home decor pieces for every holiday, and right now, their Valentine’s Day decor is making us swoon. Target has everything you need to create a festive and cozy vibe (and for way less $!), whether you’re planning a romantic dinner, a Galentine’s Day party, or happily spending the season solo.
Here's a quick glimpse at what's available as part of Target's sweet Valentine's Day decor drop. We are obsessed.
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This $5 figurine gives us so much joy. It'd be perfect on your desk, bedside table, or car dash to keep the love flowin' this V-Day.
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Got a Valentine's party planned? This $10 wall garland is just the thing your space needs to feel a bit more festive.
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Everyone needs a dash of disco in their life, and this $10 heart-shaped piece makes that possible. We'd keep this one up year-round!
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It's not V-Day without a bunch of X's and O's! Decorate your space appropriately with this cutesy $5 pillow.
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This $5 decor piece would also make a great gift to give your partner, BFF, or just the person that completes you.
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These heart-shaped lights mimic conversation heart candies in the cutest (and cheekiest!) way with various sayings.
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This candle makes the season even sweeter with a delicious sugared watermelon scent.
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Target's collection of cute spirited birds is everything. This lil' birdie comes complete with a love letter – ooh!
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Set the mood at the table with this adorable trio of candle stick holders in the perfect V-Day hues!
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This glasses-wearing cherub would look so cute on your desk during the Valentine's season.
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These playful candle sticks come in squiggly shapes and are adorably dotted in tiny white hearts for the holiday.
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Perfect for the sofa or your bed, this plush pillow will last your V-Day decor game for years to come!
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It’s almost time for our favorite holiday that celebrates accordingly with chocolate, hearts and the color pink: Galentine's Day! The love between gal pals is undeniable and totally worth celebrating. During this stage of life that we so lovingly call “adulthood,” we rely on our girls to support us through our jobs, the modern and scary world of online dating and any and all quarter-life crises. Let’s face it: We love and need our girlfriends. That’s why a day like Galentine’s Day is quite possibly the best day of the year!
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Today we’re teaming up with Studio Ink to show you how to host the most epic Galentine's Day brunch (even if it's breakfast in bed). We’ve got everything from red velvet heart waffles to DIY centerpieces to Galentine card writing stations. Studio Ink has an awesome collection of cards that are the perfect mix of sweet, sentimental, funny and cute. It’s not truly Galentine’s Day unless you send your besties Valentines… I mean, Galentines! Alright, let’s dive in.
Galentines are like Valentines, but for the girls! Though you may have a lover in your life, this holiday is all about celebrating your platonic friendships with your girl friends and just having fun with it! The holiday is slated for Feburary 13, the day before Valentine's Day, so you can have all the time to cherish your gal pals. Funnily enough, the day was coined by none other than the iconic Leslie Knope from Parks and Recreation.
Your Galentine's Day grub is really up to you and the girls, but the most popular bites include dips and chips, stuffed peppers, veggie skewers, waffles, cookies, cupcakes, cake pops, deviled eggs, bruschettas and charcuterie snacks. Finger foods are always a good way to go for any gathering.
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For a Galentine's brunch, you can bring food items like cute snacks, desserts (topped with heart sprinkles, of course), healthy meals, drink mixers or mocktails. You can also bring handmade cards or gifts for each of your friends, and of course you have to bring your love!
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First, let’s talk about the food. It’s not brunch without a fabulous array of treats. For our Galentine’s Day brunch, the perfect setup includes: berry parfaits, donut skewers, mini muffins, bellinis and a red velvet waffle bar, displayed under a simple backdrop of letter balloons, paper hearts and tassels.
Decorate your table with a few gold bottles and single flower stems. You don’t want your table to be too cluttered, because you’ll want to also have space for all the card writing you’ll do!
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All your Galentine’s Day cards now have a home.
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Add some stickers to your mailbox for extra cute flair. You can download these Studio Ink Galentine’s Day stickers here. Just print on sticker paper and cut them out!
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You’ve got mail!
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I see more mail in the future. <3
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Check out how cute these cards are!
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I don’t know about you… but all this card writing is getting me hungry. Which brings me to….
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These red velvet waffles were a hit when we tested the recipe at the Brit + Co kitchen, and they certainly will be a hit on your Galentine’s Day brunch table.
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Make these waffles with your favorite mix or from your go-to cookbook. Place the waffles on a platter along with the glaze and other toppings. We’re using heart-shaped sprinkles, obviously.
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Drizzle the glaze on your waffles with a spoon or with a pitcher. No matter how you do that drizz, your waffles will be delicious!
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Mmm, delightful!
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Okay, I already know I want seconds. What better way to wash down your second (and maybe third) helping of waffles than with a bellini? Check out this downloadable signature recipe here!
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Brunch babes!
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Anthropologie might be known for its dreamy (and oftentimes expensive) fashion, beauty, and home decor finds, but you’d be surprised at the hidden gems you can snag for under $20! I carefully sifted through the retailer’s site and found 15 perfect picks that won't break the bank, especially if you’re craving a quick lil’ splurge from the beloved name brand.
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This brown strapless top makes a perfect transition piece between winter weather and spring warmth. Just layer up for cold days, then shed 'em when it starts to heat up!
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These micro-length boyshorts were simply made for lounging around on a lazy Sunday.
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This adorable $20 tank adds a nice touch of shimmer to any outfit. You can shop it in 4 different colors that'll wear well with most anything!
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Whether you wear it for a workout or not, this shrug top feels super chic.
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These cuffed boxer shorts will instantly elevate your bedtime apparel. They'll be perfect for hot summer nights.
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This 4-count of hair clips doesn't leave behind any creasing, so you can easily use them as you do your makeup, or just wear them out and about for a pinch of cuteness (and to tame your bangs).
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Anthro's icon charms come in these adorable mushroom and butterfly shapes, as well as a tiny lobster, snail, or fish for $17. Tack one on a necklace chain or DIY your own bag charm – the possibilites are endless.
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These sleek over-the-knee socks will work well with tall boots and low-lying loafers alike. They're also shoppable in black for just $10 if you really want to channel your moody (but well-dressed!) 2014 Tumblr self.
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Flaunt your star sign on your purse or tote with this adorable $20 bag charm!
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This set of three lip balms goes for just $15, so that's $5 a pop to bulk up your lip product collection across your purse, desk, and vanity.
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You know your hair brush needs a refresh – this stylish Anthro pick will do the trick!
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Burn, baby, burn with this cute incense holder that'll fit in with your space year-round!
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Keep track of the year in the cutest way with this $20 floral calendar.
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Happy hour will never be the same after you add this set of 4 cocktail napkins to your bar cart set-up.
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A set of 6 small stoneware bowls for $20?! I'm sold. They're the perfect size for dipping sauces or any charcuterie accouterment you want to add to your next board.
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