My best friend and I recently had a 3-hour conversation about navigating love in our 30s, coming to the conclusion that our prior breakups helped us become clearer about what we want in love. After we said our good-byes, I started thinking about questions worth asking yourself when you're single.
Unlike some people who tell you not to worry about love when you're not coupled up, I think it actually does help to have an idea about the kind of person and relationship that'll fit in your life when the time comes. I wish it wish it were this easy, but the perfect situation isn't going to fall into your lap — because it doesn't exist. Even now, I'm still learning about myself and my fiancé as we experience life together.
So are you single and trying to understand what you actually want out of your love life? Here are some questions you should ask yourself!
Other questions you can ask yourself can have something to do with your morals or boundaries. It's a way for you to understand areas of your life that you may not always think about everyday.
Once you have a better understanding of who you are, think about the kind of romantic love you'd like to have in your life. There's a chance you're not even interested in a serious monogamous relationship right now and that's okay. The point is to get clear about what you do want.
Start asking:
Though tempting, this isn't a confirmation that you should call the ex you've been thinking about. Rather, take the time to revisit what you think did or didn't work.
I'm not asking you to 'listen and judge' yourself for who you're typically attracted to. We all have our reasons why certain people make our hearts race even if said people aren't the greatest for us in the long run. This is the time to be curious about who you're drawn to and why.
Ready for something serious? There's still some questions you should ask yourself before jumping into something new.
These questions may seem like a lot, but it's a way to help you understand how you want your love like to look. Also, there's a possibility you could encounter scenarios that may not fit under these questions because life can be full of surprises. All that matters is you're able to have a better understanding of who you are and what you want in 2025.
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It’s almost time for our favorite holiday that celebrates accordingly with chocolate, hearts and the color pink: Galentine's Day! The love between gal pals is undeniable and totally worth celebrating. During this stage of life that we so lovingly call “adulthood,” we rely on our girls to support us through our jobs, the modern and scary world of online dating and any and all quarter-life crises. Let’s face it: We love and need our girlfriends. That’s why a day like Galentine’s Day is quite possibly the best day of the year!
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Today we’re teaming up with Studio Ink to show you how to host the most epic Galentine's Day brunch (even if it's breakfast in bed). We’ve got everything from red velvet heart waffles to DIY centerpieces to Galentine card writing stations. Studio Ink has an awesome collection of cards that are the perfect mix of sweet, sentimental, funny and cute. It’s not truly Galentine’s Day unless you send your besties Valentines… I mean, Galentines! Alright, let’s dive in.
Galentines are like Valentines, but for the girls! Though you may have a lover in your life, this holiday is all about celebrating your platonic friendships with your girl friends and just having fun with it! The holiday is slated for Feburary 13, the day before Valentine's Day, so you can have all the time to cherish your gal pals. Funnily enough, the day was coined by none other than the iconic Leslie Knope from Parks and Recreation.
Your Galentine's Day grub is really up to you and the girls, but the most popular bites include dips and chips, stuffed peppers, veggie skewers, waffles, cookies, cupcakes, cake pops, deviled eggs, bruschettas and charcuterie snacks. Finger foods are always a good way to go for any gathering.
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For a Galentine's brunch, you can bring food items like cute snacks, desserts (topped with heart sprinkles, of course), healthy meals, drink mixers or mocktails. You can also bring handmade cards or gifts for each of your friends, and of course you have to bring your love!
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First, let’s talk about the food. It’s not brunch without a fabulous array of treats. For our Galentine’s Day brunch, the perfect setup includes: berry parfaits, donut skewers, mini muffins, bellinis and a red velvet waffle bar, displayed under a simple backdrop of letter balloons, paper hearts and tassels.
Decorate your table with a few gold bottles and single flower stems. You don’t want your table to be too cluttered, because you’ll want to also have space for all the card writing you’ll do!
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All your Galentine’s Day cards now have a home.
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Add some stickers to your mailbox for extra cute flair. You can download these Studio Ink Galentine’s Day stickers here. Just print on sticker paper and cut them out!
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You’ve got mail!
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I see more mail in the future. <3
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Check out how cute these cards are!
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I don’t know about you… but all this card writing is getting me hungry. Which brings me to….
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These red velvet waffles were a hit when we tested the recipe at the Brit + Co kitchen, and they certainly will be a hit on your Galentine’s Day brunch table.
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Make these waffles with your favorite mix or from your go-to cookbook. Place the waffles on a platter along with the glaze and other toppings. We’re using heart-shaped sprinkles, obviously.
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Drizzle the glaze on your waffles with a spoon or with a pitcher. No matter how you do that drizz, your waffles will be delicious!
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Mmm, delightful!
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Okay, I already know I want seconds. What better way to wash down your second (and maybe third) helping of waffles than with a bellini? Check out this downloadable signature recipe here!
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Brunch babes!
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Whether you’re a Gilmore Girls fan or a die-hard Owala sipper, you’re gonna want to hear this: Owala is dropping a Gilmore Girls collection! Adorned with adorable illustrations that pay homage to the hit TV series, this limited-edition drop is not one to be missed.
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“Gilmore Girls fall—it’s a thing,” Owala’s site reads. “If you’re the kind of person who needs coffee in an IV, we’ve got the mugs for you. Choose from Luke’s Diner or The Dragonfly Inn… or get both. We know Lorelai would.” This collab is already perfection!
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The Gilmore Girls Owala drop honors both The Dragonfly Inn and Luke’s Diner with two super cute cup designs.
The first is a cream white 20-ounce SmoothSip Slider dotted with purple dragonflies. The lid is a bold yellow color fitted with a lavender slider that’s used to conveniently open and close the cup.
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The second 20-ounce SmoothSip Slider flaunts a brown and yellow logo for Luke’s Diner with a color-coordinated lid and slider. We truly can’t pick a favorite!
Both SmoothSip Slider cups feature an insulated stainless steel lining that keeps contents hot up to 6 hours or cold up to 24 hours. The cups are certifiably BPA-free, lead-free, and phthalate-free. The lid on each cup is dishwasher-safe, while the cups themselves should be hand-washed only.
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This upcoming Gilmore Girls collab is part of Owala’s Color Drop program, which means it’s bound to sell out. However, if the drop sells out in an hour or less, it’ll automatically open for backorders, which ship 10-12 weeks after purchase. Previous drops have featured limited-edition water bottle colorways and even a fun Valentine's Day vault.
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The Gilmore Girls x Owala collab will be available to shop on February 11 at 10am MT. You can shop each SmoothSip Slider for $32.99 a pop, or bundle the duo for $65.98. According to reviews from shoppers, this style of Owala is the “perfect to go coffee cup” and is “truly leak-proof.”
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In January — the month of New Year resolutions — a lot of us are setting fitness goals and vowing to prioritize wellness. How can we be sure that by March, it will not all turn into some wishful thinking or unrealistic objectives set with bygone motivation? That's where we come in; the right fitness products can make all the difference. In this list, you can find 44 fitness accessories, from beautiful yoga mats and weighted bangles to smart gadgets and gym gear that will help keep your motivation tank loaded and your goals not only easier but more fun! Let's go!
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It's only right to begin this list with a yoga mat. A lovely yoga mat enables you to exercise at any place, at any time or can serve as motivation to hit the yoga studio more often. This Lifeorme one is their original model, and it is as practical and aesthetically pleasing as yoga mats go. It is non-slip, sweat-resistant, and provides a 'warrior-like' grip. It comes in nine different shades and a free yoga bag.
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A good, brand-new pair of leggings is also known to do wonders for motivation. These have tummy control and come with a side pocket. Available in more colors and patterns than you can think of.
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A chic protein blender with a pill box so you can treat yourself to a delicious, well-deserved protein shake after a workout. Includes a ball whisk to make blending easier and say goodbye to undissolved lumps.
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Music also makes any workout better, and with these Amazon Echo buds, you can play your favorite motivational playlist or cancel out the noise and find more tranquility during yoga. With up to five hours of playback and 15 hours with the charging case, you also don't have to worry about them dying midway.
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Don't have time to head to the gym? Use this under-desk elliptical to get in your daily cardio session with its eight levels of resistance.
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With a good fitness tracker, you can effortlessly track the essentials such as heart rate, sleep, stress, and activity levels and stay on top of your wellness this year. Fortunately, you don't have to break the bank to do so. This Fitbit is affordable and includes a six-month premium membership with personalized insights and analytics.
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Feel like your best self every time you step out of the house in this Matching Set that TikTok influencers have been falling for all year long. This set comes with a twist sports bra that offers a ton of support, in addition to matching shorts to pair with it. This set is perfect for anyone looking to add a bit of flair to their fitness routine
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If you've heard great things about the body-shaping results from attending barre class but have no time to hit the studio, then with this portable double standing barre, you can make the most of the workout routines from the comfort of your own home.
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Resistant bands work wonders for developing your glutes, for mobility, or just for warming up properly and preventing injury. This set of five comes in color-coded resistance levels so you can match your strength and make progress.
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Don this Aoxjox Tank Top while working out to not only show your figure, but also to stay cool, as the tank top leaves your back almost completely exposed while still offering plenty of support. Plus you can also wear it as a sundress bra, as some reviewers have done.
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A workout out ball can also serve in multiple ways to enhance your wellness. It can help you fix posture, improve stability, train your lower back, or do some of the most challenging ab routines. It's also a great option for pregnant mothers.
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A foam roller improves blood circulation, helps to prevent injury, and reduces muscle stiffness when the DOMS are particularly bad. This one comes in many colors and is travel-size, too.
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With these weighted bangles, practical meets stylish. They can be used both on wrists and ankles to add some weight and make a home workout more challenging.
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A motivational water bottle to inspire you to stay hydrated during your workout. With encouraging quotes and marks that let you know how much you have drunk by each hour of the day. Available in many colors and equipped with a straw and a carry strap.
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Embrace the sporty look with this classic baseball cap. These hats are quite in vogue right now and can be paired with everything, from blazers to sweatsuits.
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The thought of all you have to bring to the gym or of changing clothes in the cold weather can be quite demotivating. Hopefully, this stylish duffle bag with a shoe compartment and wet and dry separation pockets can make things easier.
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If jogging is your thing and you like to have your hands free, then with this running armband earphone bag, you can take your essentials such as your phone, credit cards, and keys with you and jog away.
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Digital scales are not just helpful to follow recipes but also to keep your nutrition in check and hit your macro goals. This one with a unique design is foldable and easy to carry with you when you travel.
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A gym towel to place over machines before you use them for maximum hygiene and also to keep sweat levels in check. This one in pink is cute and infused with silver ions, so it stays fresh for longer, lessening the need to wash after every workout.
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These sweat headbands help control sweating (especially around the face). An added benefit: they also keep flyaways in place. These are made of nylon and spandex and are soft, breathable, and elastic. Available in multiple colors.
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This list won't be complete without a pair of good trainers. These New Balance ones with foam midsole are lightweight and perfect for running (or some shopping cardio).
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Even if you use light weights, lifting gloves are important. They help prevent blisters, keep the hand's skin softer and cleaner, plus ensure better grip. Apart from the gym, they can also be used for cycling, climbing, and hiking. These are breathable with double-stitched padding.
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For any outdoor fitness activities, a fleece face mask is a much-needed accessory at this time of year. This one helps to retain your body's natural heat, protects from biting wind, and keeps you going for longer, even in the cold.
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The benefits of a vagus nerve stimulator are numerous: it can help with muscle recovery, boost the immune system, relieve stress, and improve sleep. What is the vagus nerve? It's the main nerve of our parasympathetic nervous system that controls specific functions like digestion, heart rate, and immunity. The stimulator works by using auricular technology to stimulate it gently. All you have to do is place the ear clips on your earlobes and wear them like earphones.
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This delicious Optimum Nutrition pre-workout with green tea and caffeine from natural sources will boost your energy enough to smash your workout while providing the necessary BCAA's to recover and hit your goals. Also great to just keep energy levels high throughout the day. Tastes like watermelon.
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Good classic ankle weights to channel your inner Jane Honda and step up the level of difficulty of your favorite aerobic workout (your thighs and glutes will be grateful). With adjustable straps to fit any size, you can also choose your weight and color.
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Hula hoops are not just for kids. In fact, they can be a great and efficient way to strengthen core muscles, target specific areas, or fix posture. This fitness hoop is extra padded and soft, and it ensures a comfortable experience.
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If you don't have time to hit the masseuse, this deep tissue massage gun can help you DIY. With ten massage heads and adjustable speed levels, it can offer instant pain relief.
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This Lululemon sports belt bag in misty pink is just the accessory you need to embark on your daily walk hands-free. Wear it across the waist as a belt or as a cross-body bag.
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When you are traveling but still want to get your daily dose of exercise in, then jumping rope is your best friend. It's the easiest fitness accessory to carry due to its size and lightweight. This one is made of steel wires and is extremely durable. It is also suitable for the entire family.
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A workout journal where you can note exercises, weights used and current shape can be helpful to stay on track and make consistent progress. This workout log book is intuitive and makes it easy to organize your workouts, so you don't have to keep it all in your head.
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Creatine is known to increase muscle energy, speed muscle growth, lower blood sugar levels, reduce fatigue and boost performance. In other words - it's the best supplement to take if you want to prioritize your fitness goals in 2025. This Wellah's one comes in three different flavors: strawberry lemonade, coconut lime, and watermelon slush. Each bottle offers 50 servings.
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If a toned core is what you're after (and who isn't?), then this dual-wheel ab roller equipped with a knee pad will enable you to perform more challenging ab routines from the comfort of your home (or anywhere else).
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Nothing boosts workout motivation like brand-new gear, and this women's sports top has all the benefits of a sports bra - being padded with medium support — while also offering more coverage. Perfect for yoga and the gym.
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If what you're after is more support and stability, then this Running Girl sports bra offers just that plus cutout, criss-cross straps back, making for a stylish and unique design. Featuring removable padding so you can customize your coverage.
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In 2025, your jewelry can be the gateway to your health. This health ring tracks heart rate, blood oxygen and pressure, sleep, and steps to help you monitor your most important wellness factors. It is waterproof, with a long battery life of up to five days after a two-hour charge. It is also Android and iPhone compatible. Prioritizing wellness has never felt easier.
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If you're always a bit at a loss as to what to do when you hit the gym, then you can leave it up to chance with a pair of exercise dice. One dice calls the workout and the other the reps. Exercises include push-ups, squats, lunges, jumping jacks, and crunches. Good luck!
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If you work out at home and have to invest in a single fitness accessory, then the bodyweight resistance straps must be it. They allow for the widest variety of exercises and can target almost any body part, enabling you to create a full-body workout. They are suitable for all fitness levels.
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This set of 4-in-1 adjustable dumbbells gives you the range of four different dumbbells but takes the space of just two. With six 0.5 lb dumbbell plates, it takes just one second to assemble, and there is a security lock to ensure maximum safety. They come in four different colors.
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A set of lightweight running gloves will help you prioritize running and outdoor exercise even in the winter months. These are touchscreen, so you don't have to remove them when you text. Available in four different colors.
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More compact than a foam roller or a massage gun but just as effective is the massage ball. This comes in a set of six to best fit your needs. They are great for increasing blood flow and tissue hydration, relieving knots and tightness, and recovering sore muscles.
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A set of Nike performance crew socks because going to the gym in style starts there. They come in black and white and can be worn over tights.
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If flexibility is not your strong suit but you'd still like to get more regular with your yoga practice this year, then owning a set of yoga blocks and a strap is a good idea. They come with an instruction book and are perfect for experienced exercisers and beginners.
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This exercise mat made of interlocking foam floor tiles will help you create the perfect workout hut in your home. With it you can protect your floor from weights and build a softer surface to lie on. Super easy to dissemble once you're done exercising and also great for an indoor kids' play area.
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