Every Bombshell From 'Vanderpump Rules' (So Far)

Olivia Taylor
May 25, 2023
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It was Super Bowl Wednesday for Bravo (and reality TV) fans, because the Vanderpump Rules Season 10 reunion (well, part one of three) finally aired. After a truly chaotic season of "Scandoval" madness, weddings (shout out to Scheana Shay and Brock Davies tying the knot), and divorces (RIP Bubba), there's somehow even more shocking news rocking the Bravo-universe. Not only is the relationship between cast members Tom Sandoval and Raquel Leviss no more (despite a nearly seven-month-long affair that broke up Sandoval and co-star Ariana Madix), but the reunion has already revealed plenty of new deets on the secret relationship.

If you're still catching up, we previously reported that the affair rocked social media, and you better believe Bravo picked up their cameras to capture the wildly unexpected fallout of a relationship that was a longtime pillar of the show. Check out all the juicy reunion details and refresh your memory on everything you missed this season below.

The Biggest Revelations From The Reunion Part 1

“It kind of feels like you're the most hated man on television right now,” reunion host Andy Cohen told Sandoval — which TBH is probably true. After all, you shouldn't cheat on your decade-long GF (who also asked you to donate sperm to fertilize her eggs) with your co-star AND her best friend. But who knows — maybe that's just us.

The reunion marked the first time Sandoval and Leviss faced the larger Vanderpump group after the world learned of their cheating scandal. Due to the restraining order Leviss filed against co-star Shay, she was unable to be in the room for the first part of the reunion and instead watched the drama unfold in a trailer outside the studio.

Conversations quickly devolved into fights — mainly verbal and nearly physical — with Tom sobbing amid boos and the greater group calling out his fake tears. TBH the only time he actually looked sad is when he learned that his now-ex, Madix and cast member Katie Maloney made $200,000 off of merch sales post-Scandoval, so we're totally with the rest of the gang on this one.

Anyway, here are some more startling revelations about the infidelity heard around the world.

1. Sandoval's interest in Raquel began at the beginning of 2022 — though they didn't hook up until after a guys' night in August.

“Honestly, throughout last year, like towards like beginning of the year, I really started to see and get to know who she really was," Sandoval revealed. "That very next See You Next Tuesday...they were filming. We weren't a part of it. But then a bunch of us went to The Abbey. [We had sex] that night."

2. Madix and Sandoval are still living together "on and off."

When asked about their current living situation, Sandoval revealed that he was still living in his and Madix's shared Los Angeles home "on and off," prompting Cohen to compare it to Kent's tumultuous relationship with her ex-fiancé Randall Emmett.

3. Lala Kent accused Tom Sandoval of being "a dangerous human being."

"Lala, I know when you and Randall broke up you got out of the house pretty quickly. Do you think it's healthy for these two to be sharing the home now?" Cohen asked, to which Kent immediately responded, "No. Sandoval is Randall. Give it 10 years, he is Randall Emmett. It's absolutely terrifying."

She continued, "That is a f---ing narcissist. Everyone needs to be warned about this person. This is a dangerous human being."

Lisa Vanderpump pushed back on Kent's accusation, but Kent doubled down: "He was sleeping next to her. This was his life partner. If you can do that to her, there's something wrong with this person."

4. Vanderpump continues to support the men without question.

The fact that Vanderpump doesn't hold the men of the show (namely Sandoval and Tom Schwartz) accountable isn't anything new, but certainly needs to be discussed. The women aren't perfect, but Sandoval and Schwartz regularly demonstrate extremely questionable judgement and dangerous tendencies that shouldn't be ignored.

5. Raquel wanted to know why Sandoval didn't come clean earlier.

"Sandoval, once you started your relationship with Raquel, why not come clean to Ariana right then?" Cohen pressed towards Sandoval, to which Leviss responded, "I want him to answer this question."

Sandoval hesitated, telling Cohen, "I was obviously scared to. I think also she was going through a lot during that time. And I didn't want to add anything."

6. Tom Schwartz first learned of the affair in August, which was not what he claimed earlier.

Uh oh, Sandoval and Schwartz! The gig is up! Apparently these BFFs don't communicate as well as they should, because Schwartz said that he learned of Sandoval and Leviss's ongoing relationship in "late August after [Shay's] wedding," prompting Sandoval to react with confusion.

"Oh no, did you not put your timelines together to match?" Kent quickly chimed, before the scene flashed to Cohen and Sandoval's sit-down, during which he alleged that he told his business partner about the affair in "mid-to-late January."

7. Madix knew Sandoval cheated on her with "Miami girl."

Only OG Vanderpump fans will remember the iconic moment former cast member (and Sandoval's ex) Kristen Doute brought a woman from Miami (who has since been dubbed "Miami girl") to SUR to confront Sandoval about his alleged infidelity to Sandoval. At the time, Sandoval vehemently denied the rumors, and Madix defended her new boyfriend.

However, during the season 10 finale, Sandoval revealed that the rumors were true, and he had been unfaithful to Madix with "Miami girl."

At the reunion, Cohen asked Madix why she had been willing to forgive Sandoval after his first transgression.

"We were not really exclusive at that time," she responded. "And I saw the rest of my life with this person, and I wanted everyone to see the best in him because that's what I saw at the time."

7. Madix won't "be as close" with Vanderpump if she continues to work with Sandoval.

After Cohen inquired how Madix and Vanderpump's relationship will change if the restauranteur continues her business partnership with Sandoval (Vanderpump, Sandoval and Schwartz are all co-owners of TomTom, a West Hollywood bar), Madix answered: "We just won't be as close."

Vanderpump pushed back, asking, "Hold on a second. What do you expect me to do?" to which Madix replied, "I don't expect anything of anyone."

Madix added that she "will have a hard time confiding" in Vanderpump if she stays in business with Sandoval.

"Do you think she should pull out of her business?" Cohen asked.

"No I think she knows what's best for her," Madix said. "I mean, I'm not someone who's going to be giving Lisa business advice."

What Your Missed In Season 10's Finale Episode

This episode was certainly eventful. Not only was Scandoval finally revealed, but a whole lotta details about the dramatic affair (that was truly a cultural reset, if we do say so ourselves) were broadcasted for a nation of #TeamAriana stans. Some of the episode highlights include Sandoval and Leviss admitting they love each other basically as soon as Sandoval left Madix at their Valley Village home, Scheana Shay claiming she couldn't have punched Leviss because of her very long nails and, of course, one of Madix's friends snapping Sandoval's penis flute (yes, you read that right) in half.

All Of The Reactions To The Season 10 Finale

More Highlights From Vanderpump Rules Season 10

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In an emotional conversation between Sandoval and co-star Ariana Madix, who were in a nine year relationship with one another at the time of the affair, the trailer shows Sandoval pleading with Madix. “I wish we both would have tried harder,” a deflated Sandoval says.

“You don’t deserve one tear of mine,” she shoots back.

The affair comes as a shock to the entire cast, especially considering Leviss’s seemingly ongoing relations with Schwartz and Oliver Saunders, son of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills cast member Garcelle Beauvais.

“This is a full-blown love affair,” Shay expresses as emotions run high in a string of teasers for the season.

Social media was quick to come to Madix’s defense – and attack Sandoval and Leviss – with co-stars Lala Kent, James Kennedy and former co-stars Kristen Doute and Jax Taylor fueling the fire. Even Shay – who may or may not have given Leviss a black eye following the affair reveal – is being praised for her support of Madix.

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Co-star Lala Kent has been particularly vocal throughout the drama, standing in support of Madix.

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And Jax...made it pretty clear where he stands on everything.

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Bravo fans in particular rushed to Madix’s side once the affair became public, quickly filling Twitter with messages of support for her and messages condemning her ex.

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The tea doesn't stop there, though! Bravo filmed the reunion with the cast this week on March 23...where allegedly all parties involved showed up. Andy Cohen, Bravo’s resident host, already promised the most explosive season yet, and we imagine the reunion will be no different. We’ve seen weddings, divorces and affairs galore, so we’re sure there’s no shortage of drama to discuss.

Fans alongside current and former VPR cast members have plenty to say about all the goss in lieu of the impending reunion.

Here's everything we know about the reunion as of late.

When will the "Vanderpump Rules" reunion air?

The first of three reunion installments will air on May 24, and we are counting down the episodes until then. For now, you can tune into all things VPR Wednesday at 9 p.m. ET.

Will Raquel Leviss be at the reunion in person?

Yes! Raquel confirmed via Instagram that she will be present and filming at the reunion. Her attendance seemed up in the air for a moment, as she recently took out a restraining order against Shay for an incident that occurred after the news broke. However, per the order she will be maintaining a 100 yard distance from Shay.

Will Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix discuss the affair?

You better believe it! Bravo has filmed the entire thing, and Madix, along with many of the VPR crew, have a lot to say to Leviss and Sandoval.

Are Tom Sandoval and Raquel Leviss in a relationship?

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Ever since news of the affair broke, fans have been speculating an ongoing relationship between the pair, but neither have confirmed their status. Page Six now reports the two have broken up.

Are any former castmates returning to "Vanderpump Rules" this season?

OG cast member Kristen Doute, who dated Sandoval at one point, is returning to the show after her firing in 2020. Like Kent, Doute has been outspoken in her defense of Madix, and is expected to continue supporting Madix throughout the reunion.

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This reunion is sure to be one for the Bravo history books, so you know we'll be sitting in front of our TV screens every Wednesday night.

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This story was originally published on March, 20, 2023 and has been updated with new reporting.

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Um, Shailene Woodley & Lucas Bravo Just Hard Launched Their Relationship With A PDA-Filled Stroll

Lucas Bravo and Shailene Woodley are getting cozy. The duo surprised everyone when they were spotted on a walk in Paris on March 23 (in complementary outfits no less), and they weren't able to keep their hands off each other as they made their way around the Saint-Germain-des-Prés district (a district near the Seine).

Here's what we know about Shailene Woodley & Lucas Bravo's relationship.

Lucas Bravo and Shailene Woodley got cozy on their Paris outing.

There weren't really rumblings of a relationship between Lucas Bravo and Shailene Woodley until they stepped out together for their walk and the Brit + Co group chat was as surprised as the rest of the internet!

Shailene wore a green sweater, gray cargo pants, and a black coat, while Lucas opted for a green sweater, black pants, a leather jacket, and a beanie. The ultimate cozy outfits if you ask me. The couple were holding hands, and Lucas slung an arm around Shailene as they made their way around the city.

Well, now I'm wondering if Lucas was the mystery man Shailene was seen with in New York last summer. A source told People that the Big Little Lies actress and her date were "all smiles" throughout the night, and that they were "in great spirits, engaged in conversation together and were seen eating burrata and a platter of dips and had wine on the table."

Fans of both actors were overjoyed that they were spotted together, tweeting all kinds of hearts and exclamation points.

"Acccckkkkkk omg!!!! Lucas Bravo and Shailene Woodley!! new hollywood couple alert!!!" one X user said, while another referenced one of Lucas' onscreen girlfriends from Emily in Paris saying, "Omg!!!! Shailene Woodley and Lucas Bravo are dating! Lucas finally found his Camille in real life."

Shailene Woodley also recently opened up about ex Aaron Rodgers.

Shailene Woodley has always her love life low-key, especially since ending her engagement with Aaron Rodgers in 2022.

"I haven’t shared much about my relationship with Aaron because it always makes me cry," she said in an interview with Outside magazine. "It was not right. But it was beautiful."

And after mentioning "a really awful, traumatic thing happen in early 2022" (which is around the time they called it quits), she said, “I felt like I lost my soul, my self, my happiness, my joy. I really understood depression and anxiety and, like, complete soul detachment.”

“Empathy kind of kept me in this loop of feeling everything for everyone," she said of what she referred to as a "toxic situation."

Check back here for the latest news on Lucas Bravo and Shailene Woodley, and check out Monica Barbaro & Andrew Garfield's Latest Outing Could Confirm They're Dating for more celeb couple news!

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Netflix's New Medical Drama Is For 'Grey's Anatomy' Lovers

If you’re craving the weekly dramaGrey’s Anatomy season 21 regularly supplies outside of your weekly watch, Netflix is coming out with a show that aims to fill the void. Pulse, a medical drama series, follows the personal and professional lives of the doctors and staff at a Miami trauma center. Certainly Grey’s Anatomy-esque, if you ask me!

Here are all the details on Netflix’s newest medical drama Pulse, starring Willa Fitzgerald, Colin Woodell, and Justina Machado (and more!)

Check Out The ‘Pulse’ Trailer Now.

Now that’s how you do a trailer! A steamy workplace romance coupled with the drama and intensity of working in Miami’s busiest level 1 trauma center = a happy gal over here. From the trailer alone, I can tell this is a fresh take on the average medical drama, boasting more energy and intensity from its leading cast and script. As if I really needed another show to binge, I have a feeling I’ll binge this series fast.

What is the new series Pulse on Netflix?

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The TLDR: A group of ER residents navigate medical crises and personal drama while dealing with a scandalous allegation at their Miami hospital. The longer, more detailed version, for those who are curious and want the full story: Danielle, who goes by Danny, is in her third year of residency and is unexpectedly promoted after the hospital’s chief resident, Dr. Xander Phillips, is suspended. Danny and Phillips must work together as word of their secret fling begins to spread around the hospital like wildfire. To add fuel to the fire — pun intended — a hurricane hits Miami, flooding the ER with trauma cases (sorry, that one was unintentional).

​Who else will be starring alongside Willa Fitzgerald?

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The Pulse cast has some truly awesome names, including:

  • Willa Fitzgerald as Danielle "Danny" Simms: Our seemingly fearless protagonist and leader who doubles as a third-year resident on Maguire Medical Center’s medical team.
  • Colin Woodell as Dr. Xander Phillips: Danielle’s beau and the chief resident at Maguire — aka her supervisor. Thank you, Danny, for the inevitable drama I know this relationship will cause. Hey, what can I say? It’s going to make for great TV!
  • Justina Machado as Natalie Cruz: Natalie's the chair of surgery and emergency medicine, who's over both administration and medicine.
  • Jesse Yates as Harper Simms: A second-year emergency medicine resident who just so happens to be Danielle’s younger sibling.
  • Jesse T. Usher as Sam Elijah: A third-year emergency medicine resident.
  • Jack Bannon as Tom Cole: A second-year surgical resident.
  • Daniela Nieves as Camila Perez: One of Danielle’s colleagues, also a third-year resident.
  • Chelsea Muirhead as Sophie Chan: A surgical intern.
  • Santiago Segura as Gabriel Moreno: An ER nurse and team player.
  • Ash Santos as Nia Washington: A Miami-Dade County EMT.
  • Néstor Carbonell as Dr. Ruben Soriano: The feared senior surgeon.
  • Arturo Del Puerto as Luis Dominguez: The ER’s Charge Nurse.
  • Jessica Rothe as Cass Himmelstein: A charming senior ER nurse.

​Where and when can I binge Pulse?!

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The 10-episode series will stream exclusively on Netflix starting April 3, 2025.

​Where was Pulse filmed?

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Though set in the heat of Miami, Florida, Pulse was filmed 2,000 miles west in Albuquerque, New Mexico. Now, I’m fascinated and simultaneously excited to see how they’ve recreated the vibrant, beachy vibes of Miami using the desert landscape Albuquerque has to offer!

Pulse just proves that Medical Dramas Are SO Back. Here Are 21 You Can Stream Right Now!

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The First Leaks From Margot Robbie's 'Wuthering Heights' Has Everyone In A Tizzy: "Pissed Off"

Audiences loved the way Greta Gerwig's Little Women brought all four March sisters to life, and Netflix's Anne with an E became so popular that when the show was canceled after season 3, 1.7 million fans signed a petition to revive the series. It all just proves that classic adaptations can make the original story even more powerful.

And the newest movie based on a book is going to be one we think about forever — and not just because of its cast. Emerald Fennell (who you'll recognize from The Crown and her work as writer & director on Satburn) is adapting Emily Brontë's Wuthering Heights and Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi are leading the cast!

The book, published in 1847, continues to grip readers, and it's become the blueprint for moody complexity — just like Emerald Fennell's Promising Young Woman, which won the Oscar for Best Screenplay thanks to its scathing look at sexual assault. Well, the Em's are coming together for this new adaptation.

Here's everything we know about Emerald Fennell's Wuthering Heights — and your first look at the movie.

The First Set Leaks From 'Wuthering Heights' Have Everyone In A Tizzy

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"I am the biggest fan of Wuthering Heights that there is I just really hope I don’t get disappointed," one Instagram user commented.

Everyone lost their minds when leaks of Margot Robbie dressed in a white wedding gown made their way onto the internet. While some Margot fans say the look is "ethereal" and "majestic," others are criticizing the choice to use a white wedding dress since the trend wasn't started until Queen Victoria married in TK.

"begging people in historical movies and shows to realize white wedding dresses where made the norm in the VICTORIAN ERA," @neybitxh said on X. "wuthering heights is set in the Georgian Era no one was wearing white dresses for a wedding."

Here's Your First Look At 'Wuthering Heights'

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The first look at Emerald Fennell's Wuthering Heights is getting some seriously mixed reactions. The photo features a close-up image of someone (maybe Margot Robbie's) with their fingers and a few blades of grass in their mouth.

"CAN NOT WAIT," one Instagram user said, along with a couple fire emojis. But the intimate (and somewhat shocking) image also has some users asking, "what in the saltburn?"

Who's in the new Wuthering Heights movie?

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The Wuthering Heights cast will be led by Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie as Heathcliff and Catherine Earnshaw, respectively. Here's the cast list:

  • Margot Robbie as Catherine Earnshaw: a young girl torn between her feelings for Heathcliff.
  • Jacob Elordi as Heathcliff: a boy fostered by the Earnshaws who's forced to be a servant.
  • Hong Chau as Nelly Dean: a servant in the Earnshaw household.
  • Alison Oliver as Isabella Linton: One of the Earnshaw's neighbor, whom Heathcliff and Catherine spy on.
  • Shazad Latif as Edgar Linton: Isabella's brother.

In addition to starring, Margot will also produce with her production company LuckyChap, which worked behind the scenes on Emerald Fennell's Saltburn and Promising Young Woman.

While some fans were initially excited about the casting, others were concerned about the fact that in the book, Heathcliff is described as "dark skinned." He also tells Nelly that, "I wish I had light hair and a fair skin, and was dressed, and behaved as well, and had a chance of being as rich as he will be!" Um, it looks like Jacob Elordi definitely has fair skin to me.

"Heathcliff is described as a dark-skinned brown man in the book and a major plot point is that he was subjected to racist abuse by his adopted family. But yeah sure Jacob Elordi is perfect," one tweet (which has over 8 million views) says, while another says, "Film studios will say 'We are committed to diverse casting' and then cast Jacob Elordi to play Heathcliff, one of the more famous people of color in literature, whose race is crucial to both his character and the story."

And when the casting for Edgar and Isabella Linton was announced, one X user said, "Now I’m even more pissed off. They look way more like Heathcliff and Cathy cmon now!!!"

Is Wuthering Heights going to be in theaters?

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It appears director Emerald Fennell and producer Margot Robbie are pushing for a theatrical release, which is why they've reportedly turned down a Netflix offer of $150 million.

Despite the fact Netflix co-CEO Ted Sarandos said theatrical releases are "just not our business," and the company has stuck to at-home streaming instead, they did break that pattern for Knives Out: Glass Onion in 2022. The movie appeared in around 600 theaters the day before Thanksgiving, but left a week later ahead of its December 23 debut on the streamer.

Co-CEO Reed Hastings told The Hollywood Reporter that keeping the movie in theaters could have made Netflix more money, but later said they just wanted to "break through the noise" and get movie lovers excited for the film to come to Netflix.

All that to be said, Margot Robbie (whose Barbie made over $1 billion worldwide) and Emerald Fennell (whose Promising Young Woman nabbed her an Oscar win and two other nominations) know how to capture the imaginations of movie lovers everywhere. And it could definitely be in their favor to stick to a theatrical release. Stay tuned for official news on where you can watch Wuthering Heights!

When is Wuthering Heights coming out?

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Wuthering Heights will premiere on February 14, 2026. Happy Valentine's Day!

What is Wuthering Heights about?

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Emily Brontë's Wuthering Heights follows the Earnshaws and the Lintons, who are living in the Yorkshire Moors in the 1880s. Their lives change forever when the Earnshaws take in Heathcliff. Like any good dramatic novel, passion lies beneath proper connections, marriages, and societal expectations — and despite Catherine and Heathcliffe's feelings for each other, they have to choose between security and love.

Where is Wuthering Heights filming?

Wuthering Heights is filming right now in the UK. According to Tatler, filming is happening at Sky Studios Elstree in Hertfordshire, and we might see some scenes on location in Yorkshire too.

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This “Holy Grail” Serum With Over 60K 5-Star Reviews Is Miraculously On Sale

We all want skin spared from dryness, dullness, and signs of aging. Well, we miraculously tracked down a product that claims to remedy all three skincare issues! We know, we know – it sounds a bit too good to be true, but with over 60,000 5-star reviews from real shoppers touting this single serum for its effectiveness, high quality, and ease, we’re in awe that we can snag it right now for just $16 (was $25).

Scroll on to discover the must-try skincare serum that shoppers are calling their “holy grail.”

Meet The The COSRX Snail Mucin Serum

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The COSRX Snail Mucin 96% Power Repairing Essence is a longtime #1 best seller on Amazon – and a total favorite amongst our readers!

As a super popular product among skincare and makeup influencers, it’s highly likely that you’ve already seen it around! And while it might seem intimidating (or just a bit nerve-wracking) to put the real snail essence it’s made with on your face, the benefits of it definitely outweigh any reservations you may have.

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According to COSRX, the 100% natural snail essence this serum is formulated with provides “enhanced moisturization” for dehydrated and damaged skin. The serum itself is super lightweight and absorbs impressively fast into the skin to deliver a “natural and healthy glow.”

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The results from shoppers truly speak for the product’s ability to deliver all the claims it makes. In case you need further convincing, here are three standout reviews that have us adding the COSRX Snail Mucin 96% Power Repairing Essence to our cart!

Standout Reviews For The COSRX Snail Mucin Serum

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  • “This skin serum is absolutely the best! It absorbs quickly into the skin, leaving it feeling smooth and hydrated without any greasy residue. After using it for just a few weeks, I noticed a visible improvement in the texture and tone of my skin – it looks brighter and more radiant. The formula is gentle, and I love how it works well with my other skincare products. It’s perfect for all skin types and doesn’t irritate my sensitive skin at all. If you’re looking for an effective and high-quality serum, this one is definitely a must-have in your skincare routine!”
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  • “I cannot say enough good things about this snail mucin! My skin tends to get extremely dry and dull during the cold winter months, but this has completely changed the game. From the very first use, I noticed an instant boost in hydration, plumpness, and overall glow. It has a lightweight, silky texture that absorbs beautifully into the skin without feeling sticky or heavy.”

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A 3.35-ounce bottle of the COSRX Snail Mucin 96% Power Repairing Essence is currently on sale on Amazon for the retailer’s Big Spring Sale for just $16 – it typically goes for $25. COSRX also carries a number of different snail mucin skincare products, like a cleanser, moisturizer, and a dual essence with niacinamide.

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10 Wealthy People Share When They Finally Realized They Were “Privileged”

Millions of people are painfully aware of the struggles that come with being an adult in today's economy (hello, cost of eggs?!).

The average salary in the United States is just over $66,600, according to data from the Social Security Administration. Meanwhile, mortgage rates are still above 6%, and food prices have risen a whopping 31% since 2019.

Being able to afford outings like date nights or brand-name clothing, let alone going on family vacations or buying a home, has become a privilege. But, for people who grew up in affluent households that didn't have to worry about finances, privilege can be an invisible force that shapes their lives in ways they don't even realize.

When you grow up surrounded by other individuals just like you, it's easy to assume that everyone has the same opportunities. However, once you venture outside your "bubble," you might experience a wake-up call or a defining moment that opens your eyes to the disparities that exist beyond your own upbringing.

So, people who grew up wealthy recently took to Reddit to share their own personal wake-up calls, which made them realize just how privileged they were compared to others. Here are 10 of the most intriguing revelations.

Scroll to see the wake-up calls that made these wealthy people finally see the real world...

1. Not everyone's parents can put them through college. 

"My parents are wealthy, but I grew up in a place where many of my peers' parents were super, duper, crazy wealthy, so I had a skewed understanding of wealth," shared one user.

"It was really eye-opening for me when I went to college. I didn't have to take out student loans; my parents were able to just pay for it. But I had friends who, even with financial aid, had to work their [behinds] off year-round to cover the cost of school. I realized pretty quickly just how privileged I was and that I did, in fact, grow up with wealth."

2. Country clubs aren't the only kind of "clubs" out there. 

"When I was confused about people on Maury complaining their spouse was at 'the club,' and I couldn't figure out what type of country club would let people like that through the front security gate," admitted another user.

3. Not everyone views their parents as good role models. 

"Becoming an adult and realizing that I have extremely good role models as parents because when they have disagreements, they talk them out, and I have never, ever, heard them argue or badmouth each other," one user revealed.

"I also realized that as a kid, my parents got me mental health help that I needed even though it was expensive and continued that care for as long as I have needed it," they added.

"A third [wake-up call] that doesn't seem like much but has had a huge impact was being taught financial literacy from a young age; to budget my money and only buy the things I really, really want."

4. Many people have never left the country.  

"My parents loved to travel. By the time I was 16, I had been to every continent aside from Antarctica. I didn't realize that this was privileged behavior until I went to university, and most of the guys I met had never left the country," a user shared.

"In fact, I grew up thinking I was less privileged because everyone at my school was just obscenely rich. Like, all their stuff was high-end designer stuff while I was in Converse."

5. Some families cannot afford to have pets. 

"My dad was an engineer, so professional wealth, but... probably hearing about a kid whose family had to give his dog away due to the cost in elementary school," another user remembered.

"Giving away our dog wasn't on the radar or even on the table. But it was only out of the question because my parents had the money for it to be out of the question."

6. Owning multiple properties is not the norm. 

"When I learned that not everyone has a summer cottage or trust fund, and not all grandparents have weekend and summer homes," a user noted.

7. Exposure to cultural education isn't a given. 

"I didn't think I grew up in a wealthy family, but when I started high school, I was part of a group of girls who became close friends with me. Apparently, they thought it was very weird that I knew things that I considered cultural knowledge, like the history of some important building in the city or the fact that I actually knew about art and went to museums quite often," detailed a user.

"All this because my parents made me go to museums and theaters my whole life growing up. Apparently, that's not a normal thing for normal parents to do with their kids, and asking your parents if they can take you to the ballet is not something a teenager would normally ask."

8. Some people have never been able to fill up their tanks at the gas station. 

"In college, I went on a road trip with friends, and one asked how much money he should put in the gas tank. I told him to fill it up," recalled a user.

"He kept asking, 'Okay, how much should I pay?' and I kept saying, 'Fill it up!' It turned out he had only ever put $10 to $15 at a time, and it had never occurred to me that some people never fill their gas tanks to the top."

9. Seeing how families abroad make do.

"I realized how privileged I was when I spent a summer with my great-grandmother in a small village in rural Hungary. No indoor running water, the only phone was at the church, and everyone came out to touch the rental car we drove there in. This was in the late 1980s," recalled a user.

10. Learning that not everyone takes their first flight as a child.

"I have been flying around the world since I was 4 months old. When I was 16, my friend told me she'd fly for the first time in an airplane, and I was shocked," said another user.

"I told my dad that I couldn't believe it took her 16 years to fly! I got a stern talk after; my dad is very humble despite it all."

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