30 Wedding Mistakes Every Bride Makes (and How to Avoid Them!)

It’s no secret that when you’re getting married, there’s a LOT on your plate. Even well-organized couples can get the details jumbled with all that wedding planning. But there’s hope for you yet! We’ve created this handy guide to help ease your pre-ceremony stress so you can actually enjoy the celebration. From forgetting to tip your vendors to common communication faux pas, here are the 30 mistakes most brides make — and how you can avoid the same pitfalls.

1. You don’t include your partner in the planning. Even if your significant other doesn’t seem all that interested in the process, be sure to communicate the big decisions with them. You might be surprised what they actually care about. Plus, going cake tasting with your sweetheart is the best freakin’ chore ever.

2. You jump into the details. Before you start wedding dress shopping and picking out a color scheme, decide on your celebration’s overall vibe. Will you throw a black tie event, or are you hoping to get married in the groom’s backyard? Knowing the big picture will help guide your other decisions throughout the planning process.

3. You don’t hire a proper caterer. It doesn’t matter if your mom is the best chef in the world; she shouldn’t be stressing out on her kid’s wedding day over how many lasagnas are in the oven. If at all possible, have your wedding catered by professionals and save money in other areas, like the decor or the dress. Fact: People get real hangry at weddings, so don’t skimp.

4. You go blog crazy. Skimming through wedding websites and creating fab Pinterest boards is one of the best parts of the planning process. But beware: Once you’ve determined your vibe, found the dress and ironed out the details, you’ll want to keep obsessing over your favorite wedding blogs. Don’t! You’ll always find new trends, but changing your decor at the last minute can be a complete nightmare.

5. You don’t create a budget. Time to sharpen those Excel skills. It’s 100% imperative that you create a budget, document your expected costs and record your actual expenses. Pro tip: Use a Google Doc to share the constantly changing data with your partner or family members.

6. You and the photographer don’t communicate. A good photographer creates a wedding day timeline for the couple. This includes everything from the couple’s time of arrival to when they make their exit. Typically, family photos happen after the ceremony. Because you (obvi) want to get to the reception as soon as possible, write out exactly which family members you need to take photos with. If everyone is organized, the portrait session can be done in 25 minutes or less.

7. You forget to feed vendors. The photographer, band and wedding planner will all expect a plate of food at some point in the night, so be sure to get the correct headcount for your caterer. This is even more important if you’re doing a seated meal instead of a buffet.

8. You stress over the small stuff. Take a deep breath and remember: This day is a celebration of your unending love for someone else. That’s big! That’s bigger than the florist forgetting a boutonniere. Bigger than the steak being a little overcooked. You are getting *married.* Embrace what life throws your way and enjoy the epic journey.

9. You make cocktail hour an actual hour. If the pre-dinner mingling is one of your favorite parts of a wedding reception, don’t limit yourself to just 60 minutes. After the ceremony, you’ll take photos with your new spouse and family. This can take a while to organize (especially with fragile grandparents), so extend cocktail time by at least 20 minutes.

10. You don’t delegate before the big day. Photographer Katelyn James said, “After eight years of photographing weddings, here’s one common mistake I see: Brides assume they’ll be able to get a lot done on the day of the wedding. I’ll show up at the beginning of the day and the bride is stressed and running behind with hair and makeup because she’s trying to do tasks that should have been done weeks ago. Brides have to learn to delegate! I didn’t delegate tasks on my own wedding day and I was up at 6am finishing little tasks that really didn’t matter in the grand scheme of things.”

11. You feel obligated to be traditional. Scan the Internet and you’ll find a slew of wedding rules and traditions that couples are expected to maintain. For example, one etiquette website says, as a rule of thumb, wedding party favors between the prices of $75 and $150 “should suffice.” (Whoa.) But nowadays, many couples aren’t doing wedding favors at all. Period. So don’t let these old-school ideas bring you down. Pick and choose how conventional you want your wedding to be — or start your own traditions.

12. You don’t hire a wedding planner. It’s important to have someone (who’s not you or your mother) coordinating the day of your big event. Whether you hire a wedding planner to assist you a year in advance or just on the actual wedding day, you will need support. This person can manage the vendors and shield you from an onslaught of constant logistical questions.

13. You don’t take a picture post-makeup trial. You adored your makeup at the trial run (yes, you need a trial run). But then you get the pictures back from your photographer after the wedding and — augh, who is that creature with the metallic eyelids? Remember to take pictures both with and without a flash before selecting your final beauty products.

14. You forget about tips. Many vendors, especially the catering staff, will expect a tip after the reception. Here’s the plan: A week before your wedding, label envelopes with each vendor’s name. Then, add the appropriate amount of cash to each envelope. You should include the tip and any final payments. Lastly, put someone else in charge of delivering the dough, since you’ll be riding off into the sunset. This may be a good task for the MOTB.

15. You let people boss you around. Remember: This is your wedding, a once in a lifetime (ideally) event. Know what you want and do your best to make it happen within the constraints of your budget. Listen to your friends’ and family’s opinions, but never let their thoughts dictate your actions. That’s not how you live life, and that’s not how you plan a wedding.

16. You underestimate DIY venue cost. Sure, getting married in a barn looks like fun. But take into account all the little details: Do you need an AC unit? Is it handicap accessible? Who pays for the bathroom trailer, you or the venue? Before you opt out of an all-inclusive option, do your research on the extra expenses.

17. You assume the bridal party wants to craft. If you didn’t know, we here at Brit + Co are obsessed with crafting — but that doesn’t mean everyone is. Know who will be there to assist with your glitter mason jar dreams and be sure to understand how much DIYing you’re actually taking on solo. Making 70 watercolor invitations is one thing, but 275? Yikes.

18. You take too many people dress shopping. There’s going to be a lot of emotions flying around when you try on wedding dresses for the first time. If you’re not someone who likes being the center of attention, keep your entourage to a minimum and set expectations ahead of time. Will you find the perfect gown on your first shopping trip? Maybe, maybe not.

19. You forget about hidden fees. The fine print in venue contracts can be tricky. Some common hidden fees include hiring security for your event, buying insurance policies on historical sites and bathroom rental fees. These factors could potentially add a few thousand to the base cost, so ask questions and calculate your total before signing on the dotted line.

20. You forget to eat! If you’ve been a bridesmaid in weddings before, you know how difficult it can be to obtain food. You primp all morning, take photos all afternoon and then BOOM. It’s time to walk down the aisle. It doesn’t get any better as a bride or groom, so make sure you have a breakfast, lunch and dinner plan in place. Rule of thumb? Don’t skip meals, and provide for your wedding party too.

21. You assume people will RSVP no. It’s a myth that a certain percentage of guests will turn down your invite. For sanity’s purposes, assume that every invitation being sent out could be a “yes.” It’s fine to hypothesize who will be unable to attend — but don’t bank on those numbers for the big stuff, like the final count for your venue.

22. You don’t have a solid Plan B. No couple wants rain on their wedding day, but unfortunately that’s something you have absolutely no control over. So make sure that the contingency plan is something you’re still excited about. Visualize both your Plan A and Plan B ahead of time; if you despise the rain plan, it might be wise to check out other venues.

23. You don’t optimize the event space. Logistics make for a good party, not the color scheme. Before you think about centerpieces, consider how guests will move around your venue. Where will they enter? Should you have two buffet lines? Some basic tips: Put the guest book in a place with high foot traffic, and make sure the dance floor is big enough for an epic party. People may not remember if your reception has a good flow, but they will remember if it doesn’t.

24. You don’t have a wedding website. It benefits everyone when your friends and family feel in the loop. No bride wants 32 text messages asking for the venue’s address. Make sure you have a sufficient website with all the wedding details. Also, if many of your guests are from out of town, it’s a good idea to supply them with local maps, marking hotels, attractions and restaurants.

25. You think everyone needs a plus one. Do you have a huge group of college friends coming to your wedding who all know each other? Great — they are a prime example of people who don’t need a plus one. They already know people at the party and will be comfortable socializing. Have a friend flying into your hometown that doesn’t know a soul and has been dating someone for a year? That’s the type of guest who deserves a plus one.

26. You don’t read vendor reviews. In these glorious days, where the Internet reigns supreme, it’s so easy to find quality reviews. Do your research. If something seems sketchy, it probably is. Also, don’t assume that high prices equal a quality product. The wedding industry is definitely a business, so keep your wits about you.

27. You book an early flight after the wedding. When planning out your honeymoon transportation, keep in mind how tired you’ll be after the reception. You most likely won’t want to be on a 7am flight to St. Lucia. If travel stresses you or your partner out, give yourself a day to relax between the wedding and the honeymoon. You don’t want to be thinking about your carry-on luggage during the first dance.

28. You don’t factor in transportation. If your guests are from out of town, many of them won’t have vehicles. Consider having a shuttle from the hotel or a trolley help transport your wedding party. If that’s not in the budget, call a taxi service ahead of time to see if you can have a few cars parked outside of the ceremony and reception sites. Lastly, make sure drivers who have any extra seats are willing to carpool.

29. You let toasts get out of hand. Everyone loves a good toast, whether it’s tearful or hilarious. But no one loves when the party stops for 45 minutes to hear a bunch of obscure stories. Keep your toasts to a minimum at the wedding by scheduling exactly who will speak and when. Then invite close friends to share their funny (or, er, embarrassing) tales at the rehearsal dinner instead.

30. You don’t take time to enjoy the party. Once the ceremony is over, snag a private moment to breathe with your partner. Then get ready, because it’s officially party time! Be sure to enjoy all the facets of the reception you planned. If there’s a photo booth, don’t forget to snap some pics with your friends and family. Sample all the food, enjoy the signature drink, eat a slice of cake and dance the night away. You deserve it.

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Shaun White made us all swoon when he proposed to Nina Dobrev with white roses (and a fake Vogue dinner to throw Nina off the scent). And while this couple is head over heels in L-O-V-E, they're not in a hurry to get down the aisle. The Vampire Diaries star just spilled on why she's not trying to "rush" this phase of her life.

Here's why Nina Dobrev and Shaun White's wedding could come later than expected.

Nina Dobrev doesn't want to "rush" her engagement.

In an interview with E! News, Nina Dobrev explained why she and Shaun White haven't planned too much of their wedding.

“I was in Australia shooting a movie and then Christmas and New Year’s,” she says. “We’re just enjoying being engaged at this point and being in that sort of phase...you have a boyfriend for half of your life and then you have a husband for half of your life but the fiancé period is very short.”

And while being married is so sweet, she's also having fun with their engagement. “I really want to enjoy it and not rush that process," she adds. “It’s so fun to say fiancé."

Nina says she "was never one of those girls who dreamt of what a dream wedding would be,” but it's very important for her to plan a wedding that's as sustainable as it is memorable. "I’d have to do a lot of research and find out the areas of improvement.”

“My number one goal is to find out how to make it as low-impact as possible," she adds.

Shaun White and Nina Dobrev's wedding will be a "blowout party."

But even though we might have to wait to see what Shaun White and Nina Dobrev's wedding looks like, it's sure to be one for the ages! One source tells People the wedding will be a "blowout party."

“They are the perfect fit together — fun and adventurous, but also very grounding for each other,” the source says. “After the proposal, they were calling and texting friends saying, 'It can't get better than this' and were just glowing.”

I have loved keeping up with all their snowboarding, travel, and red carpet adventures, and it's better than ever now that they're fiancés. Cheers to the happy couple!

Loving all this celeb love? I know I am. Check out Hailee Steinfeld Just Kissed Josh Allen (& Flashed Her Engagement Ring) On Live TV for even more celebrity engagement news on Brit + Co!

Jennifer Lopez may be all over our FYPs, but she's also about to be all over the big screen as well. As some of you may know, she's producing the amazing Emily Henry adaptation Happy Place,and now she's set to work on a new romance with Ted Lasso star and writer Brett Goldstein. And guess what? The two will star in the film as well! Keep reading for all the latest information on the new movie — and Brett Goldstein's IRL crush on J-Lo ;).

What do we know about Office Romance so far?

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According to Deadline, there was a huge bidding war over the Office Romance rom-com, and Netflix ended up winning. Jennifer Lopez's production company, Nuyorican Films, is going to be working on it, thanks to Jennifer's multi-movie deal with Netflix.

As to who will star in it? Jennifer Lopez and Brett Goldstein themselves! Both are playing dual roles of writer/actor and producer/actress. We've all seen Brett Goldstein's incredible writing at play with Ted Lasso, and now we can't wait to see how it translates in this office romance with J-Lo. Brett will be writing the film alongside writer Joe Kelly.

Has cast information been shared? 

Yes! One of Netflix Film shared news about the cast today on Instagram and we're in disbelief over how good it is. Just Jared also shared who everyone will be playing which makes us even more eager to watch Office Romance. Here's the full cast list:

  • Jennifer Lopez as Jackie Cruz
  • Brett Goldstein as Daniel Blanchflower
  • Betty Giplin as Sydney
  • Edward James Olmos as Captain Jack Cruz, Jackie's father
  • Bradley Whitford as Peter Vance
  • Amy Sedaris as Julie Schatz
  • Jodie Whittaker as Lizzy
  • Mary Wiseman as Clair
  • Roger Bart as William Butten
  • Tony Hale as George Zein
  • Rick Hoffman as Carl Gunderson
  • Natalie Ortega as Heather
  • Jackie Sandler as Caroline
  • Tony Plana as Francisco Alberto
  • Michelle Hurd as Rachel Goldberg
  • Mo Welch as Debbie
  • Donald Elise Watkins as Henry
  • Brian Gallivan as Frederick
  • Ali Stroker as Maggie
  • Scott Seiss as Dave
  • Lisa Gilroy as Tanya
  • Will Sasso as Larry

How does Brett Goldstein feel about J-Lo?

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Immediately after news was released about the two co-starring together, fans were so quick to find a clip on X from an interview in 2018 where Brett is talking about J-Lo's movie, Hustlers. He says in the interview, "She's 50! 50! I love her." He then goes on to say, in regards to a scene where Jennifer cuddles another actress in the movie, "I've never wanted to be cuddled more. That is one of the best cuddles. Give me one of your special cuddles." Based on this reaction, we just know their chemistry is about to be off the charts!

What else is Jennifer Lopez working on?

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Office Romance isn't the only rom-com J.Lo is working on! She's also working on adapting the EmHen book Happy Place for Netflix, which we all know and love (Hi, Emily. We love you!). It will be a multiple-part series on the platform with Leila Cohan from Bridgerton co-Executive producing it.

According to Deadline, Cohan will be the showrunner and co-writer for the series, which we are so excited for as Bridgerton-lovers! As for other future projects, we can't wait to see more news of projects J.Lo is working on, because if these two are any signifiers, then we know it must be good! You can also stream The Mother and Atlas on Netflix now.

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Bachelorette parties have been around for decades, but they've come a long way from the days of predictable bar crawls and tacky accessories.

In 2025, modern brides and their besties are ditching outdated traditions in favor of celebrations that feel more authentic, inclusive, and, overall, more enjoyable for everyone involved.

Sure, some classic elements still hold their charm and humor (like gifting the bride-to-be saucy items for her wedding night), but many old trends simply don't make sense anymore, whether they're financially burdensome, aesthetically overplayed, or just plain exhausting.

Here are eight old-school bachelorette party trends that, in our humble opinion, need to stay in the past or be retired once and for all.

Scroll to see which outdated bachelorette party trends you really should stop in 2025...

1. Expecting Bridesmaids To Foot The Bill For Destination Celebrations

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Life today is already painfully expensive, and while getting asked to be a bridesmaid can feel like an honor, it just piles on even more costs.

You'll have to buy a dress, get your hair and makeup done, purchase a gift, and possibly arrange hotel accommodations or childcare for the day of the event. So, why bridesmaids are expected to drop hundreds if not thousands of dollars on flights, hotels, dining, and activities for a destination bachelorette party is beyond us.

Yes, a weekend in Miami or Las Vegas could be epic, but not everyone can afford to splurge on a mini-vacation just because their friend is getting married. Unless everyone involved feels comfortable spending that kind of money on a bachelorette trip, just pick a more budget-friendly option, like a one-day celebration or even a short road trip closer to home.

2. Matching Outfits

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Coordinated bachelorette party outfits definitely had their moment, but nowadays, the idea of forcing everyone into the same cheesy T-shirts or color-coordinated dresses can be overboard.

Again, some bridesmaids may view it as an unnecessary expense that's not worth it for a cute Instagram photo. Plus, personal style and comfort matter, so if you have bridesmaids with different aesthetics and body types, at least one may just end up feeling uncomfortable the whole time.

That's why looser clothing themes or overall color palettes are a safer way to go.

3. Sashes, Tiaras, and Cowboy Hats

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If you truly love the idea of parading around in sashes, tiaras, and hot pink cowboy hats during your or your friend's bachelorette party, more power to you. Honestly, though, the accessories have begun to feel more like a cliché than anything.

They can come across as tacky and overdone. Not to mention, they're usually cheaply made and end up in the trash by the end of the night.

Our advice? Save your money and invest in more stylish, personalized touches, like custom accessories or jewelry.

4. Brides Only Wearing White

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Traditionally, brides have stuck to wearing only white throughout their whole bachelorette party celebration. That's still fine, but if the idea makes you feel restricted, don't be afraid to break the mold.

If you want to switch it up by mixing in colors or patterns, don't let anyone stop you. Remember, your bachelorette party is supposed to be fun for you.

You shouldn't allow social media photo ops or general societal expectations to dictate what you can and can't wear during your own party.

5. Cringey Slogans

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We've all seen the slogans that brides and their bridesmaids use for their bachelorette parties, either on apparel, decor, or hashtags for social media. For instance, "Bride Tribe," "I Do Crew," or even "Last Fling Before The Ring."

Like sashes and cowboy hats, the slogans are cliché and sometimes just cringeworthy. You don't need a catchphrase to have a good time, and if you want one, maybe go the more unique route.

6. Getting Blackout Drunk Every Night

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Spoiler alert: you don't have to get blackout drunk every single night to enjoy a bachelorette party.

We get it: throwing back some shots or sipping on wine all day can be fun, especially with your girlfriends. But if you have a whole day (or even weekend) planned, getting wasted can be a recipe for disaster.

First, you'll probably be hungover or generally unhappy for later activities. Moreover, alcohol has the ability to raise tensions and spark drama, which can bulldoze the group dynamic.

Obviously, you can still kick back and indulge a little. However, keep the bride in mind and strive for a balance to make memories that you'll actually remember.

7. Over-Scheduling The Itinerary

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Since multi-day bachelorette parties are so popular, it can be tempting to pack your group's itinerary chock full of activities. And suddenly, things that sound exciting on their own, like brunch, yoga, wine tasting, dinner, or clubbing, feel like an exhausting checklist when scheduled literally back to back.

Realize that the reason for bachelorette parties is for brides to connect and bond with their closest friends. Leave room for spontaneity, downtime, and relaxation. Wedding planning is already stressful enough as it is.

8. Not Considering What The Bride Wants

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Finally, at the end of the day, a bachelorette party should be about celebrating the bride. So, if bridesmaids are tasked with planning the celebration, the bride's personality and interests need to be considered.

It's time to retire the idea that every bachelorette party has to follow a cookie-cutter formula. If the bride isn't into clubbing, don't plan a huge night out! Or, if she's more of a homebody, don't push for a major trip.

The best bachelorette parties are the ones that feel thoughtful and personal, not just trendy. And if you have any doubts about what the bride wants, all you have to do is ask her.

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Spring has officially bloomed because Target & Kate Spade New York are dropping a refreshing collection that will be all over TikTok and Instagram soon. We haven't been this excited for a fashion collab since J. Crew & Christopher John Rogers, so we're aching to share all the fascinating news about it. Ready to see what's in store?

Keep scrolling to learn everything about the Target & Kate Spade New York collection!

What can I expect from the Target & Kate Spade New York collection?

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This limited edition collection will feature the brightest, boldest colors and prints you can think of. From fuchsia to polka dots, shoppers will can get a taste of luxury without spending an exuberant amount of money. Plus, the pieces are functional and work for an array of situations.

Hosting a spring soirée at home or plan on lounging by the pool The White Lotus-style? The Target & Kate Spade New York collection has everything you need.

Will it only have women's apparel?

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It brings us great pleasure to say no! Everyone will be able to find something they love in this collection because it features women's & kids apparel, home decor, chic accessories, and party decor.

How big is the collection overall?

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It seems like Target & Kate Spade New York are anticipating people having a ton of fun this spring because they have over 300 items shoppers can choose from. There's even games you'll be able to buy and put out for guests at the next barbecue you're invited to!

When can I shop the Target & Kate Spade New York collection?

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Get your carts and wallets ready because the Target & Kate Spade New York collection will be available to shop on Target.com Saturday, April 12.

Stay tuned to see our favorite pieces from the collection once it launches.

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Fans have been enthralled by Outlander ever since it debuted in 2014 — hence why the show has gone on to have seven successful seasons, with the eighth and final season expected to premiere late this year or in 2026. Fans truly can't get enough of Claire and Jamie's great romance, and it doesn't have to completely end with season 8...or not exactly. Outlander prequel, Blood of My Blood comes out this summer and explores your favorite family from a very unique perspective. This is everything we know about Blood of My Blood!

Here's everything you need to know about the Outlander prequel, Blood of my Blood.

What's 'Outlander' about?

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Outlander follows Claire Randall, a British Army nurse who, after serving in World War II, goes on a second honeymoon in Scotland with her husband, Frank. He is an MI6 officer preparing for a new career as an Oxford historian.

However, Claire's life takes a dramatic turn when she is mysteriously transported back to 1743, where her safety and freedom are at risk. In order to survive, she marries a strong and charismatic Scots warrior named Jamie Fraser. Then, as their relationship deepens, Claire finds herself torn between two very different men and two conflicting worlds.

How many seasons of 'Outlander' will there be?

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Whether you're an OG fan of Outlander or a newcomer, many are upset about it coming to an end soon with Season 8. The good news is that you have a prequel series to look forward to, Outlander: Blood of My Blood.

What is the 'Outlander' prequel 'Blood of My Blood' about?

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Outlander: Blood of My Blood explores two parallel origin stories: the romance between Jamie's parents, as well as Claire's parents' love story during the war. The show will highlight these two love stories, set in different time periods, as they unfold side by side.

Who's in the 'Outlander: Blood of My Blood' cast?

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Hermione Corfield and Jeremy Irvine star as Julia Moriston and Henry Beauchamp; meanwhile, Harriet Slater and Jamie Roy play Ellen MacKenzie and Brian Fraser.

The rest of the cast includes:

  • Tony Curran, Rory Alexander
  • Séamus McLean Ross
  • Sam Retford
  • Conor MacNeill
  • Brian McCardie
  • Jhon Lumsden
  • Sara Vickers
  • Peter Mullan
  • Sally Messham
  • Terence Rae
  • Sadhbh Malin
  • Alisa Davidson

Is there a trailer for 'Outlander: Blood of My Blood'?

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Back in January, Starz released a 52-second teaser trailer for the show on YouTube, and it's clear the Outlander prequel will be packed with just as much passion as the original series. Eager fans in the comment section seemed to agree, with many sharing their excitement for the new spinoff.

"I can't wait to see the two love stories that gave us our favorite love story," wrote one viewer.

"I am so obsessed with Outlander, and I'm so excited to keep watching it in a different light," added another.

"Outlander is a very beautiful but brutal story, and I hope this new spinoff series captures that magic as well," noted a third.

Where can I watch 'Outlander: Blood of My Blood'?

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You can watch Blood of My Blood on Starz!

When does 'Outlander: Blood of My Blood' come out?

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Outlander: Blood of My Blood is set to premiere summer 2025! We don't have an exact date right now, but we'll update you as soon as we do! In the meantime, you can revisit the original Outlander series. All seven seasons are available to stream on Hulu.

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