Planning A Wedding? Here's What Might Stress You Out, Based On Your MBTI Type

wedding planning stress

It’s probably one of the most important, most photographed, most blissful AND most stressful days of your life – your wedding day. And if you’re the one doing the wedding planning, chances are even for midsize elopements you’ve already put in hours of work and money.

The good news is that when it comes to the stress of wedding planning, a little self-awareness can go a long way.

That’s because not only does your MBTI type help you understand how you’re energized, take in information and make decisions; it also helps you recognize stress triggers and stress remedies. Read below to learn more about what stresses each MBTI type when it comes to planning the big day and recommended remedies to soothe your frazzled nerves.

ISTJ and ISFJ Personality Types

People with ISTJ preferences are likely to be practical, logical, and organized. They’re interested in absorbing information that will improve their work and rely on past experiences when making decisions.

People with ISFJ preferences tend to be thoughtful, dependable, and practical. They enjoy helping others and leaving things better than they found them.

Both ISTJ and ISFJ types would likely be stressed during wedding planning by working with disorderly or scattered vendors, not being able to find specific information to make plans (venue pricing or date availability) and last-minute changes (like caterers swapping items on the menu).

ISTJ and ISFJ stress management tip: Take some time alone to organize yourself and create manageable & concrete action steps or think about other times when stressful situations ended positively – tapping into the Sensing part of your personality.

ESTP and ESFP Personality Types

People with ESTP preferences are often logical problem solvers and fast thinkers. They’re energetic and in-the-moment, excelling at using common sense to find smarter ways of doing things - the definition of resourceful!

Those with ESFP preferences tend to be outgoing and friendly, making sure everyone’s needs are met. They’re easy-going and enthusiastic, often making things happen by creating a fun and supportive environment that invites others to jump aboard.

Both ESTP and ESFP types would likely be stressed during wedding planning by too much abstract information from vendors and forcing decisions on anything from the menu to wedding colors too far ahead of time.

ESTP and ESFP stress management tip: Make time for active self-care, maybe take a walk with friends or try a new fun activity. Also – use your support system to help with organize and focus yourself – especially the wedding party and family.

INFJ and INTJ Personality Types

People with INFJ preferences tend to believe in a moral code that puts people first and are often looking for a deeper meaning. They’re innovative visionaries who like to focus on a better future for everyone.

Those with INTJ preferences are often forward-thinking but operate mostly under the radar. They tend to have big goals and spend much of their time pondering how to get there. And they never shy away from a challenge.

Both INFJ and INTJ types would likely be stressed during wedding planning by vendors, in-laws or others micromanaging their wedding plans, lack of organization or shortsightedness, and by people involved in the planning not appreciating or understanding this type’s vision of the event.

INFJ and INTJ stress management tip: Ensure you schedule some downtime to brainstorm with yourself about options and organize your thoughts to meet your goals.

ENFP and ENTP Personality Types

Those with ENFP preferences are excited by new people, new challenges, and always up for a change of scenery. They’re usually bouncing from one project to another, and often find many ways to complete tasks.

Innovative and entrepreneurial, those that prefer ENTP are often the first to notice a pattern in a system or a group of people. They enjoy strategizing and problem-solving, seeing the big picture and imagining into the future.

What stresses ENFP and ENTP types during wedding planning? The parts of wedding planning that are necessary but boring, without opportunities to get creative (seating charts, anyone?). Having to focus on details tends to be stressful, or pressure to make decisions too far ahead (your dream venue wants you to choose a date two years in the future?!?).

ENFP and ENTP stress management tip: Take time to brainstorm out loud and toss your ideas around with others. Find an outlet for your creativity – maybe with a little ingenuity making seating charts could actually be fun!

ISTP and INTP Personality Types

People that prefer ISTP are logical and adaptable problem-solvers who genuinely enjoy becoming experts at what they’re doing. They’re cool and level-headed in a crisis.

Those with INTP preferences are curious, independent, and objective. They love to figure out problems that others think are impossible to solve.

What stresses ISTP and ISFP types during wedding planning? Others who make decisions based on subjective criteria and not taking time for logical analysis (Just because you like the color is not a good reason to commit to buying 25 centerpieces just yet), and not being able to have quiet time to think things through.

ISTP and INTP stress management tip: Make sure to find solo time to regroup. Try to mentally take yourself out of the wedding planning chaos for a different vantage point.

ESTJ and ENTJ Personality Types

Those with ESTJ preferences are organized and led by their goals. They love managing projects and developing procedures, and even in their personal lives, they are highly structured and dependable.

People that prefer ENTJ are highly motivated and focused, they excel at asking the tough questions and finding the flaws. They thrive by setting long-term goals and often do well in high-stress situations.

What’s likely to stress ESTJ and ENTJ types when it comes to wedding planning? When vendors or others involved in the planning aren’t efficient and don’t finalize decisions, lack of control (hello, untimely spring showers), and disorganization.

ESTJ and ENTJ stress management tip: Don’t forget to plan time to step away and find the positives – make time for a walk & talk with someone close to you when you start to feel frazzled. Even a quick phone call to organize your thoughts will ease your stress.

INFP and ISFP Personality Types

People with INFP preferences are curious, flexible and deeply thoughtful. They’re always striving for personal growth and very motivated by their core values.

Similarly, those that prefer ISFP are also problem-solvers, but they favor tactical ways of getting to a solution. They prefer to lay low and work hard and are generally easygoing, quiet and thoughtful.

What stresses INFP and ISFP personality types when it comes to wedding planning? Too much of a focus on the logical aspects of the plan, without others taking into account their values, and people not taking the time to understand their ideas or rationale behind their decisions.

INFP and ISFP stress management tip: Try to mentally take yourself out of the situation causing stress and see it from a different perspective (like a wedding guest perspective), and make time for solo activities that you find fun and energizing.

ESFJ and ENFJ Personality Types

Those with ESFJ preferences are natural caretakers who love to help others. They’re supportive, practical, sociable types who intuitively understand people’s needs and naturally organize to find ways to meet those needs.

People that prefer ENFJ have a great awareness of others and make friends easily – they’re enthusiastic and engaging. They thrive on harmony and conflict resolution, and they’re happiest being part of a group.

What stresses ESFJ and ENFJ types during wedding planning? Lack of emotional support from others or not feeling appreciated for all the work they’ve put into the wedding, conflict between family and friends (and what wedding is ever drama-free?), and anything that feels like excessive criticism (which sometimes can come from other’s “just being honest” opinions).

ESFJ and ENFJ stress management tips: Talk things over with someone outside the situation or conflict. Also, be sure to take time to refocus on your values and what matters most to you and your partner.

What struggles have you noticed coming up around wedding planning, and what is your MBTI type? Tweet us at @BritandCo and let us know, and don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter for more personality type content and life hacks!

Marta Koonz, PhD, is a Sr. Consultant and Certification Faculty at The Myers-Briggs Company. She is an archetypal psychologist, group facilitator and life coach. In addition to being a Certified Dialogue Education Teacher, Marta is also a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) with the International Coach Federation.

Images in featured photo via Diana Light/Vanessa Serpas/Mel/Melissa Walker Horn/Unsplash.

Did Tom Holland and Zendaya spike the air with love following their engagement news? I mean, it seems like everyone's popping the question these days! If you've recently said "yes" to the love of your life's big question, all that's left to do now is start planning so you can walk down the aisle into the next chapter of your relationship's story.

Before you start randomly choosing wedding dates, you may want to take advice from Amy Abbott of Amy Abbott Events, Tara Fay of Tara Fay Events, and Wendee Vezzetti of Custom Weddings of Colorado because they have keen tips to help you avoid a few faux pas. Think of it as their way of helping you avoid further stress.

"While every couple's wedding day is special, there are a few dates that might cause more stress than celebration — both on the day and in the years to come," says Vezzetti.

Scroll to see the worst days to have your wedding!

Khaki Bedford

1. New Years Eve

December 31 may have come and gone, but there's always more NYE events to come. It's just one of the worst days to have your wedding. No, I mean it. Abbott suggests this isn't the time to pack two celebratory events into one. As the owner and creative director of Amy Abbott Events, she's helped plan luxurious weddings for some of Hollywood's top celebrities and athletes — including Simone Biles!

So, why no fabulous wedding on NYE? She says, "You’ll end up paying almost 50 percent more as vendors typically charge much higher rates." But, that's just the tip of the iceberg. She also adds, "For destination weddings during this time of year, hotels often enforce 5- to 7-night minimum stays, with hotel rates being nearly double. This can make it almost impossible for your guests to commit to attending your wedding." Even if you think money isn't an issue, she advises "it's just a very costly option."

That's not the only issue you could face. "To add to the challenge, some of the best vendors often take the entire holiday season off, making availability a significant issue." This just made our jaws drop because we didn't know this! But we can imagine this feels like one of the times they get to catch their breath before prepping for such a huge moment in people's lives so it's not unbelievable!

Jim Trice

2. Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day is such a romantic day that deserves to be reserved for celebrating how much you're in love. But, please don't think your wedding has to be on February 14. Vezzetti says this day along with NYE "may sound romantic," but they're not in "reality."

She says, "These dates are super popular for weddings and other celebrations, which means venues and vendors charge a premium." And guess what? She says you're not even considering "future anniversaries."

Her advice if you decide to forge ahead is: "Good luck booking a cozy dinner reservation when everyone else is celebrating too."

Khaki Bedford for Amy Abbott Events

3. Super Bowl Sunday

Another thing Fay says couples "often forget about" are "major sporting events." Her rule of thumb is to "try to understand the guest list and audience" so her team can be "conscious of their experiences."

It's the reason she's against have a wedding on Super Bowl Sunday. She says, "It may leave guests less present at your event, even if you're not a football fan. So we [the Tara Fay Events team] try to be conscious of big cultural and sporting events like this."

Always be aware of times close to major holidays. If guests have to travel distances and be away from their families, that may impact your rsvp’s. Plus, it’s typically more expensive to travel those times of year. Don’t forget about international holidays as well, Diwali for example.

Amy Abbott Events

4. Labor Day

Vezzetti also discourages scheduling a wedding on Labor Day. The rule used to be that you couldn't wear white after this holiday passed, but now you need to rethink your plans if you plan to trade 'I Do's" on this date.

"Long holiday weekends may seem ideal for travel, but they also come with headaches. First, heavy traffic," says Vezzetti. She and her team "have seen travel times TRIPLE on Colorado roadways during these holidays." This fact alone made our hearts skip a beat because we caught of a flash of you potentially being late your own wedding!

Also, Vezzetti says you won't be the only person in town for a holiday like this. "Because everyone else is traveling, lodging and restaurants are hard to come by, especially popular mountain retreats in places like Colorado."

Amy Abbott Events

5. Memorial Day

Sigh... We don't know why anyone would want to have a wedding on Memorial Day, but personal preference always plays a factor in decisions like this. The issue, Vezzetti warns, is that you're risking a lot by doing so. "Before you set the date, do a little research as to local annual events," she advises.

For example, Boulder, Colorado is a "great destination with amazing scenery, warm weather, and world-class dining" according to her. "But Memorial Day in Boulder, Colorado brings more than 50,000 runners into town. So definitely check the local calendar for your wedding destination and make sure you aren't going to share your special day with thousands of others."

Can you imagine having an outdoor wedding where your guests are torn between watching you emotionally exchange vows as marathon runners sprint nearby?

Taryn Baxter for Amy Abbott Events

I'm kind of scared I'll choose the wrong date. What are good days or months to have my wedding?

This sounds like a "how-to" guide of everything you shouldn't do when choosing your wedding date, but there's still a large window of opportunity! "The best months to get married for tropical destination weddings are October 15th through July 15th," Abbott says.

But, there's a catch. "Once you go beyond that, you risk running into hurricane season. Even if you're fortunate enough to avoid a storm, the intense heat and relentless bugs can take away from the enjoyment of your day," she adds. All in all, "it's simply not an ideal time of year" because "the weather can significantly impact your overall experience," according to her.

Amy Abbott Events

Fay agrees with this by adding "major weather events are important to consider" at all times. She also added you should "take note of monsoon months" along with "hurricane season." She knows no one can really "predict bad weather," but she wants you to "aim for months that more often provide the experience you're looking to have."

Vezzetti says "popular dates in Colorado are the summer months (June-September) because of the scenic outdoor backdrops and warm weather." But she knows there are "trade-offs" like "venues and vendors" booking early, plus the chance "you might pay higher prices" even though the "gorgeous sand makes it worth it!"

The truth is that your special day should feel as seamless as possible. Something is sure not to go according to plan, but it shouldn't involve something interrupting the entire date you've chosen to have your weeding. Fay's final piece of advice, "If you want to get married in Europe, be aware of when Europeans go on holiday and try to avoid August which is the busiest time for major European countries.

But, the trade-offs are that venues and vendors book early and you might pay higher prices (but it's gorgeous sand worth it!). But, if you want to save, In Colorado late spring (April–May) and late fall (November) are excellent for the value. Plus, venues and vendors often have more availability. This concept can be applied to other destinations, but they may have seasonal variations. So, be sure to check the seasonal highs and lows in whatever area you are planning to tie the knot.

Amy Abbott Events

A tip you may not have considered is doing "a little research on when courthouses in the destination issue marriage licenses." Vezzetti suggests doing this so you're well-prepared and can "plan with enough travel time so you are not scrambling to get your legal documents."

Not sure when to go? Vezzetti says, "In most States, courthouses are only open during banking hours (Mon-Fri, generally), and while the process may quick (in Colorado, expect 15 minutes, tops), couples without a plan might find themselves in panic mode." Didn't we say we don't want you passing out before your big day even arrives? Take Vezzetti's advice and "do a little research" so you can "plan to arrive a day early!"

Before you panic, Abbott has one last thing to share. "The good news? There are nearly nine and a half months of perfect timing for wedding planning, giving couples plenty of options to make their big day truly unforgettable!"

Follow us on Pinterest for more wedding inspo!

I've been working from home since long before it became the norm. And my "office" has evolved from a spindled-back chair at the kitchen table to an airy home office with a view. Back then, my productivity took a hit without essentials like adequate storage space, comfortable seating, and a bit of privacy. While it has its perks, working from home comes with its fair share of challenges; your home office setup doesn't need to be one of them.

Here are 10 ways to redesign your home office for better productivity!

Caio

1. Bad Lighting

Dim or harsh overhead lighting can strain your eyes and limit your focus. Try to get close to a window for natural light or use daylight bulbs to mimic sunlight to boost your mood, creativity, and focus. Find a desk lamp that works for you too!

Ella Jardim

2. Clutter Everywhere

A cluttered desk equals a cluttered mind, IMO. Reduce the stress that comes with a disorganized and cluttered desk by bringing in shelves and organizers; finding sleek cable-management solutions; and removing any unnecessary items to reduce visual distractions.

Vlada Karpovich

3. Uncomfortable Furniture

If you're sitting most of the day, it's so important to invest in a good desk chair. An unsupportive chair or poorly sized desk can be uncomfortable, making it harder to stay focused for long periods of time. Your back will thank you!

Ketut Subiyanto

4. No Boundaries Between Work and Home

Distractions at home like kids and partners can kill your productivity. Avoid blurring the line between work and home life by designating a private space, separate from high-traffic spaces, for your work hours if you can. Use rugs, curtains, or acoustic panels to reduce noise too.

Mizuno K

5. Lack of Storage

I get it, they're not the best-looking pieces in your home, but without proper filing systems you’ll waste time hunting for important documents or supplies. Invest in modern storage options that look good too from Mustard Made and The Container Store.

Vlada Karpovich

6. Unoptimized Tech Setup

Slow Internet or outdated tech tools can make you feel totally frustrated and can slow down your productivity. Upgrade your Internet to a faster connection, and refresh your tech gadgets and programs to make sure you work more efficiently.

Ivan Samkov

7. Awkward Desk Placement

Placing your desk in a spot with too much noise, traffic, or distractions — like facing a TV — will guarantee to disrupt your concentration. Find a more zen spot where you can focus on the tasks of the day.

Anna Shvets

8. Ignoring Ergonomics

Check your monitor height, keyboard positioning, and add a wrist rest so you don't lead to feeling uncomfortable and fatigued, cutting your workday short.

Mikhail Nilov

9. Lack of Personalization

A sterile, uninspiring office design does your motivation and creativity no favors. Make work feel less like a chore by adding personal touches through artwork, personal photos, candles, some fresh flowers or plants. Greenery can improve air quality and actually reduce work stress. Add a little snack station for quick energy boosts and keep water handy. Also, your Zoom backgrounds should reflect your personality!

Serpstat

10. No Inspiration

No matter what you do — whether it's a creative work or something more analytical — you want to feel inspired. Personalization can help, but dive into vision boards, books, magazines, quotes that inspire your work and help you bring fresh ideas to your workday. Color psychology can help too: blues and greens encourage focus and reduce stress while pops of yellow or orange can spark creativity! Break out the paint if needed!

Subscribe to our newsletter for more home decor ideas!

Brit + Co may at times use affiliate links to promote products sold by others, but always offers genuine editorial recommendations.

Most of us fall in the middle of the introvert-extrovert spectrum, first introduced by Swiss psychologist Carl Jung in the early 1900s, but there are some who can find themselves at either extreme. My most extroverted friend is the connector of our girl group, bringing us all together and making sure we stay connected. She’s always up for an adventure, and challenges me (an ambivert who leans toward introvert) to always break out of my comfort zone. But not in a pressuring kind of way. She makes it fun and positive so that you just want to take her lead.

Extraversion is one of the Big 5 personality types that include openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism, or OCEAN. Typical traits? Extroverts are often defined as outgoing, enthusiastic, approachable, and assertive. Here are tell-tale signs you are one of them.

You Make A Good "Middle"

Photo by fauxels

Whether you're in a party of two or 200, you feel energized and recharged by spending time with other people. That makes you a great “middle” at the dinner table (reference: Curb Your Enthusiasm Bad Middling episode) as you love to engage in conversation, bring everyone into the mix, and get the party going.

You Heart Social Media

Photo by Adrienn

You're not afraid to put yourself out there, IRL and on social. You easily express your emotions and share your thoughts without hesitation. You may be an over-sharer, but that's what people love about you – you don't hold back.

Group Activities > Than Solo Activities For You

Photo by Mica Asato

Team sports and group trips are more your speed, rather than running or traveling solo.

You're Chatty

Photo by Polina Tankilevitch

You're comfortable talking to strangers and striking up a conversation on the train, plane, or anywhere in public. You also love to chit-chat on the phone to your long-distance friends. You seek out social situations of any form.

You Have A Big Circle Of Friends

Photo by Elina Fairytale

People are drawn to your energy. You have a wide circle of friends and acquaintances, and enjoy meeting new people and expanding your social network.

You Shine On Stage

Shutterstock

Public speaking is no problem for you, whether at a podium, presentation at work, or singing karaoke at a bar. You feel comfortable and confident, and actually enjoy the chance to share your ideas (or pipes) with the group.

You're Bored By Solitude

Photo by Tiana

Extended periods of alone time can make you feel restless or bored. You might end of calling friends or heading outdoors to be around people, your source of good vibes.

You Love Crowds

Photo by Wendy Wei

Whereas an introvert might feel drained, you thrive in big crowds where there's lots of action and interaction.

You Adapt Easily To Awkward Or Unfamiliar Social Settings

Photo by Maksim Goncharenok

You make a good first impression – you're friendly, warm, and social and can easily adapt to different social scenarios. You easily connect with others.

You're Spontaneous

Photo by cottonbro studio

You make decisions quickly and often go full-speed-ahead on them, whether it's booking a last-minute trip or hosting a last-minute girl hang. It's what drives you and keeps you feeling alive and invigorated.

Check out our email newsletter for more lifestyle news.

The world watched as the devastating L.A. fires swept away home after home last week — including reality TV icons Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt's. To say it was heartbreaking for the L.A. community would be a gross understatement, and these two have been very open about the toll it's taken on their family. In an interview with Good Morning America, the couple opened up to share about their experience — and share the incredible way friends and fans have come together to support them.

Looking for ways to help L.A. after the devastating fires? Here's a very helpful list of resources you can donate to!

Here's how fans are helping Spencer Pratt & Heidi Montag after the L.A. fires

www.youtube.com

- YouTube

Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt joined Good Morning Americaon January 15, 2025 to talk about how the L.A. fires continue to impact them. The couple shared what it was like having to quickly leave their home in a moment's notice. Heidi explained that Spencer told her to grab anything she wanted to keep, so she ended up grabbing her kids' teddy bears because she was so flustered.

When their $2.5 million home actually caught fire, Spencer got choked up talking about watching their kids' rooms burn on their cameras. He said, "Our son’s bed started just burning in the shape of a heart. The fire started in the shape of a heart. I was like, ‘This is like, out of body insane.’"

Outside of that, the couple detailed the loss beyond the material items of it all. Spencer opened up about the memories lost throughout it all, too. He said, “I feel like a ghost. I don’t have a single photo now from before an iPhone existed. I don’t have any of the dumb little things that are on your shelves in your parents’ they’re all gone. Not a single nothing.”

And to Heidi, their home was more than a physical place to live. She shared, “It’s a place that you love that you live, it’s a refuge from the world. And to have that be gone, it’s a really difficult concept to continue to daily deal with."

www.youtube.com

- YouTube

In the midst of the devastation, fans and friends have banded together to support Heidi and Spencer in a really unique way. After Spencer posted on TikTok that people should stream Heidi's 2010 album Superficial, so they can generate revenue to rebuild their lives with, people took that and ran with it. The song eventually hit #1 on iTunes, and Spencer even shared that there's potential for it to hit Billboard's Hot 100 Dance Chart, too.

And it's not just fans blasting this throwback song. Friends and fellow celebrities like Paris Hilton and Flava Flav both posted the song on TikTok. Plus, former The Hills co-stars shared the song as well, including Brody Jenner, Kristin Cavallari, and Audrina Patridge.

Heidi said, “The fan support has been such a light in such a darkness for us. It’s life-changing.”

We're sending love to Heidi and Spencer — and all the families impacted by the terrible L.A. fires this year.

Looking for more celebrity news? Be sure to follow us on Facebook so you never miss a thing.

Joe Goldberg (Penn Badgley) is back for another season of snooping and stalking in New York City, and thanks to the new You season 5 teaser, we know exactly when this new TV show is returning. In addition to showing us characters from the past like Guinevere Beck (Elizabeth Lail), Love Quinn (Victoria Pedretti), and Marienne Bellamy (Tati Gabrielle), Joe straight-up says goodbye to the one person who's always been there: you. Yep, Netflix went there.

“Every season they manage to find new space to make it interesting and relevant,” Penn Badgley told Tudum. “And this season, I think somehow coming back to where it started allowed for it to just become grounded in the way that it needs to also have this kind of spectacular finish.”

Here's a breakdown of that brand new You season 5 teaser.

"Hello, you. Do you remember me? Cause I remember you," Joe asks in the You season 5 teaser, over shots of New York City and Mooney's Books. "Here we are together again, back to where it began."

"A lot has happened these many years together," he continues. "Identities, cities, loves, complications." The trailer is a walk down memory lane for viewers and for Joe as he remembers Beck, Love, and Marienne — and locking them up. Plus some fights and escapes he made along the way.

"All that led me here to now, to where I as always meant to be," he says. "And the one constant, the one thing that has always been there for me, is you. You who have been there the whole time and will be there with me to the end. Goodbye, you."

Okay, this is totally giving me Black Mirror, metaverse vibes, especially since Joe's in his creepy underground bunker with all that blue lighting. I have chills down my spine just watching this!

Is season 5 of You coming out?

Yes, You season 5 is dropping on Netflix April 24, 2025.

We've been waiting for new episodes since season 4 premiered in 2023, but the writers and stars have been planning Joe's ending for much longer. "We have some ideas that we've been talking about pretty much from the beginning," Sera Gamble told EW when she was showrunner in 2023. "It's really the debate about what kind of justice would be fair and appropriate for a guy like Joe. And then do we believe that he would get that kind of punishment? My short answer is like, maybe not from the American system. But there might be other ways. So that's the stuff we're talking about."

But whatever these writers and directors have up their sleeves, Penn Badgley promises You season 5 will come to a "perfect" conclusion. “I would love for people to just be like, ‘Wow, it’s over and I feel good and I don’t want to watch it again,'" he told Harper's Bazaarin March of 2023. And honestly, a perfect ending is all TV fans can hope for these days, right?

Who's in the You season 5 cast?

The final season of You stars Penn Badgley, Madeline Brewer, Anna Camp, Charlotte Richie, and Griffin Matthews.

Are you excited for the final season of You? I cannot wait to see the way Penn Badgley and Netflix bring the show to a close. Follow us on Facebook for the latest You season 5 news — and updates on all your favorite TV shows!