Why Seeing the Bride Before the Wedding Is Bad Luck + Other Wedding Superstitions

There’s nothing like a wedding to bring out love superstitions and old wives’ tales. No doubt you’ve heard at least a few of these over the years, or maybe they’re just pouring in now since you got engaged. With so many wedding traditions and superstitions, even the most laid-back bride can start to feel stifled — especially if she hates the color blue. We’ve researched the origins of some of the most common wedding superstitions to get to the bottom of it all. Read on and decide for yourself whether you want to tempt the evil spirits (apparently they’re all over weddings!) or try to catch a little extra luck. Either way, now you’ll be able to counter anyone who insists you have to wear a veil or do the bouquet toss.

1. Something Old, New, Borrowed and Blue: This one comes from an Olde English rhyme, which originally ended with “and a sixpenny in your shoe.” Something old symbolizes the bride’s past and her family, which she carries with her into the marriage. Something new symbolizes the future: the new life the bride and groom will create together. Something borrowed symbolizes borrowed happiness; on her wedding day, the bride is supposed to wear something borrowed from a happily married friend or relative, in hopes of also having a happy marriage. Something blue comes from ancient Israeli brides who wore blue ribbons in their hair on their wedding days to show their love and fidelity to their new husbands. The sixpence in the shoe is supposed to bring a lifetime of luck to the bride.

2. Wearing a Veil:There are two origin stories for the veil, and wildly different in their purposes: The first dates back to ancient Rome and the fear that a bride who didn’t wear a veil would be plagued by evil spirits who were jealous of her happiness. So the veil was a disguise to keep them away from her. The other origin story is much less dramatic and ties in to the superstition about the groom seeing the bride before the wedding.

3. Married in Black, You’ll Wish Yourself Back:Non-white wedding dresses are hot on the runways this year, but they go completely against the old superstitious rhyme, which goes “Married in white, you have chosen all right. Married in green, ashamed to be seen. Married in red, you will wish yourself dead. Married in blue, you will always be true. Married in yellow, ashamed of your fellow. Married in Black, you will wish yourself black. Married in pink, of you he will think.” Sheesh, talk about rules! These stem from Victorian era ideas about courtship and femininity, which were highly regimented and, yes, every color had a meaning. Queen Victoria popularized the white wedding dress, and thanks to her and the Victorians’ ideas about color, it’s still the most common wedding dress color today.

4. Seeing Each Other Before the Wedding:This one is has to do with the fact that ancient marriages were arranged by the families of the bride and groom, usually without any say at all from the couple. In fact, the couple didn’t even meet until the wedding! The groom wasn’t supposed to see the bride until the last possible second — just in case he didn’t like what he saw. By the time the veil (the second reason for the veil) was lifted, it was too late for him to cut and run.

5. Jumping the Broom: A common tradition in African-American weddings, couples literally jump over a broom at the end of their marriage ceremony. This has roots in slavery, when slaves couldn’t legally marry each other, so jumping over the broom signified to the community that a couple was spiritually married, if not legally. But according to some traditions, jumping over the broom was also useful in making sure neither the bride nor groom was possessed by, you guessed it, an evil spirit! The spirit wouldn’t be able to jump over the broom — they would have to count all the bristles. So if a bride and groom could jump the broom, all was well.

6. Knives as Wedding Gifts: Knives are supposed to be bad luck, as they symbolize a broken or severed relationship — talk about a loaded gift. You may want to hold off on putting knives on your registry. Or, if you really want that fantastic set to add to your kitchen or someone gifts them to you out of the blue, pay the giver one penny for the knives. That way, it’s technically not a gift, since you paid for it.

7. Matching Bridesmaid Dresses: Consider yourself lucky that today, the bridesmaids only match each other. Back in the really old days, they matched the bride. This was to confuse anyone — those pesky evil spirits again, old lovers or disapproving family members — who may object to the marriage and try to waylay the bride. It was harder to target her when everyone around looked just like her. The same applied to the groom, which is why the groom and his groomsmen wear matching outfits too.

8. Rain on the Wedding Day Is Good Luck: Rain signifies cleansing and new life, which is why it’s considered lucky to have rain on your wedding day. Ancient marriages were all about carrying on the family line, so anything that would give the couple luck in starting a family was highly prioritized. This might also explain why the traditional “wedding season” takes place in the spring and summer — times of the year in which the world was in full bloom (and hopefully, the bride would soon be too). (Photo via Getty)

9. Throwing Rice, for Fertility: Yet another symbol of fertility! Grain was traditionally thrown over newlyweds as a symbol of the seeds of their future, which would hopefully sprout and “bear fruit.” Today you can throw anything from rice to sprinkles, but this has remained a popular wedding ritual for many cultures. It’s not so much what is thrown as the act of throwing that counts — so whether your friends and fam throw flower petals or glitter, they’re wishing you a joyful and bountiful future.

10. Crying on the Wedding Day: Invest in that waterproof mascara and let the tears flow, because tears on your wedding day are supposed to mean that you won’t have any to shed during the marriage. Ok, so any married person can tell you that deal is probably too good to be true. But many brides regard wedding day tears as a sign that all tears in the future will be happy ones — get yourself a cute handkerchief and lean in to those last single tears.

11. Carrying the Bride Over the Threshold: Carrying the bride over the threshold of her new home was yet another way of trying to keep her safe from evil spirits, which would lurk in thresholds. Women were also thought to be particularly vulnerable to being possessed through the soles of their feet. Also, no one wanted the bride to trip on her way into the house, as that also signified bad luck. Thus the solution was for the groom to carry his bride.

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I've been on the edge of my seat for Anne Hathaway and Dakota Johnson's Verity (even before I saw It Ends With Us), and after hearing about the first look that aired at CinemaCon this week, the internet is even more locked in on the “gothic, psychosexual thriller” (as the film's described by director Mike Showalter) than they've ever been.

Here's what the Verity cast, including Anne Hathaway, Dakota Johnson, and Josh Hartnett, had to say about the new movie from Colleen Hoover.

What is Verity about?

Any Colleen Hoover fan knows the Verity movie revolves around Lowen Ashleigh (Dakota Johnson), who gets hired by Jeremy Crawford (Josh Hartnett) to finish his wife's novels. Renowned author Verity Crawford (Anne Hathaway) is no longer able to write after a tragic accident, but what begins as an exciting project takes a turn for the horrifying when Lowen discovers Verity is hiding a terrible secret.

Anne Hathaway promises 'Verity' is worth "waiting for."

At Amazon MGM's CinemaCon presentation, the Verity cast, Colleen Hoover, and Mike Showalter offered attendees a new look at the movie via video message.

“My character Verity Crawford is an accomplished author with a tragic past,” Anne said, while Dakota joked, “Or is she?”

Josh added, “My character, Jeremy Crawford, is a devoted husband who’s committed to protecting his wife’s legacy.”

“Or is he?” Dakota said again.

“One thing we can say for sure is that seeing Verity in theaters will give fans the shared experience they’ve been waiting for," Anne promised.

And everyone's losing it over the "wild" footage from CinemaCon!

The presentation also included the first trailer for the movie, which showed Verity and Jeremy meeting at a bar — which explains those iconic set leaks of Anne Hathaway and Josh Hartnettrunning through the streets of New York! And when Jeremy's introduced to Lowen and brings her to their giant home, he tells her "she's the only writer who can do this"...and then they begin their own illicit affair. And as they have a hot make out sesh on the couch, Lowen realizes she's kissing Verity and not Jeremy. Wow.

"Just saw the first footage for VERITY starring Josh Hartnett, Anne Hathaway, and Dakota Johnson," @JoeySpielberg says on X. It looks like it’s gonna be good but I honestly couldn’t tell you the plot is but it’s definitely gonna be wild. Seems like a movie you just don’t know what happens next."

"The footage showcases a sexy, mind-bending thriller," @howatdk agrees.

We're sure to see many more shocks and surprises when Verity hits theaters May 15, 2026.

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A new Trader Joe’s skincare find just hit shelves, and beauty fans are already reeling about its similarities to more luxury products! The night cream features a handful of ingredients that are commonly found in pricier skincare options, but this TJ’s pick costs a fraction of its suspected competitors.

As a Versed Sweet Relief overnight cream loyalist (I use it every single day without fail), I must say I'm thoroughly convinced to try this new Trader Joe’s item after reading shoppers’ reactions!

Scroll on to discover the all-new Trader Joe’s skincare product worth adding to your routine!

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Trader Joe’s Night Cream is a brand-new addition to their collection of skincare goodies. In fact, it’s so new that it’s not listed on their website quite yet. Despite its newcomer status, tons of shoppers are already buzzing about the Trader Joe’s Night Cream.

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One TJ’s fan on Reddit surfaced the new find on the r/TraderJoe’s subreddit, and skincare lovers were super quick to chime in.

Per the post, the Trader Joe’s Night Cream is formulated with Irish sea moss extract, a fermented mushroom complex, ceramides, and sodium hyaluronate. It’s also unscented, which can be super beneficial for sensitive skin in need of moisture.

The TJ’s fan that found the night cream on shelves reported that it is “very thick but dry at the same time. I really had to work it into the skin,” they said. “Very odd consistency.”

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Another shopper that tried the Trader Joe’s Night Cream weighed in on their experience:

“Using it sparingly since I’m quite pregnant and don’t want to mess with sensitive skin but so far it’s quite nice!” they said. “Thick but not greasy in the slightest. I still feel it on my skin when I rinse my face in the AM which means it held up overnight in my dry altitude climate.”

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Several more users compared this new TJ’s formula to other products on the market, mentioning Asian beauty and even retinol for its anti-aging benefits.

“It’s interesting to see all the fermented ingredients in this!” one person commented. “I know that they have been very popular in Asian skincare for years, but I don’t see it that often in the States. I’m excited to try this! Thanks for sharing, I’m going to be on the lookout now.”

“Based on the ingredients list, I suspect this might be a Korean product,” another TJ’s shopper agreed.

“Irish Sea Moss is considered an excellent retinol alternative so if it agrees with one’s skin, not a bad option for those who can’t tolerate or don’t want harsh actives,” one more skincare fan noted.

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One Redditor confirmed that a single 2-ounce jar of the Trader Joe’s Night Cream cost just $9. Similar moisturizers that leverage sea moss in their formulas (like Wildling’s Moonbounce 2% Bioretinol Irish Sea Moss Plumping Moisturizer and MARA's SeaDream Algae Crème) average around $73, which is insane.

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This TJ’s find could be a great way to try out the sea moss skincare wave without shelling out a fortune! Per episode 87 of The Inside Trader Joe's Podcast, it’s certifiably “high-quality” and “incredibly functional.”

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Jenna Bush Hager chose Holly Gramazio's The Husbands as her book club's April pick in 2024 and it became an instant bestseller. Evidently, Apple TV took notice and decided it would be an excellent idea to adapt it into a new drama series! We're fond of adaptations here, so we're elated to this fresh storyline come to life. But, guess what else we're intrigued about?

The Husbands series has already found it's lead star in Ted Lasso and Fargo actress Juno Temple! Her characters are fan favorites, so we're sure she's going to do her lead role in this series justice.

Scroll to learn more exhilarating news about The Husbands series!

What is 'The Husbands' about?

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The Husbands chronicles one woman's journey as she explores an ever-changing life with different men she's never met before. But this isn't a tale of reckless one-night stands. On the contrary, Lauren will be as confused as readers and viewers because she's not sure what's happening.

It all begins with her return to her home and the realization that a man who's strangely familiar with her is calling himself her husband. Unbeknownst to her, she's been married to Michael for a while despite not knowing who he is. What's even more ironic is that her friends think something's wrong with her because they know who her husband is.

In the midst of trying to decipher this phenomenon, Lauren's shocked when Michael disappears into the attic and a new man returns in his place. As she watches her surroundings change to accommodate life with him, Lauren slowly realizes her attic has created a portal that allows her to live out different fantasies with a revolving door of men. But, she'll have to ask herself what she really wants and if she's willing to hang on to one reality instead of wishing for more.

Has more cast information been released?

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Holly Gramazio, Author of The Husbands

We know Juno Temple will star in The Husbands, but there haven't been more cast announcements just yet (via Variety). There's so many options for the many spouses she could have which makes us want to dream about our own casting wishlist.

Who's the executive producers of the series?

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Holly Gramazio, Author Of The Husbands

According to Apple TV+, writer Miriam Battye (Succession) will be executive producing The Husbands with Craig Gillespie (I, Tonya), and Annie Marter of Fortunate Jack Productions (The Devil All The Time), author Holly Gramazio and A24.

We love when authors are allowed to give their input in TV or film adaptations!

When will 'The Husbands' premiere on Apple TV? 

Production hasn't started on The Husbands TV series yet, but we'll share more information once it's available!

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