Oh, Etsy! The 17 Weirdest Wedding Cake Toppers Ever

Show out and stand out in this stunning hot pink dress. Not only is it a great wedding guest dress, but it’s amazing for any formal gathering.

“But what you don't know is that [this dress] is not just blue, it's not turquoise, it's not lapis, it's actually cerulean.” Excuse us as we channel our inner Miranda Priestly.

The sultry square neckline and side slit, plus the puffed shoulders and a relaxed skirt, will grab everyone’s attention.

This is THE fall dress of fall dresses. From the colors to the floral accents, this dress is perfect for a warm fall wedding.

This teal moment is *everything*. Seriously. You’ll be catching us rocking this to our next wedding later this fall.

ICYMI, green is the color of the year. Keep your love for green going with this gorgeous piece.

With so many styling opportunities, the possibilities are infinite with this fabulous dress.

If your fall wedding is going to be H-O-T, then give this bold number a try.

Teal and emerald are such fall colors, and this dress is the perfect mix of both.

Just as effortless as it is ethereal, this head-turning maxi is designed to be paired with anything from a staple stiletto to a fun flat. This gorgeous gown is sure to be a staple in your special occasions collection for many years to come.

If you’re looking for a polished, refined gown — this is the one for you.

So timeless and forever flattering, this sweet midi will turn heads from the boardwalk to your next soiree.

This deep mustard gown is stunning — from its balloon sleeves to its low back, you’ll be fielding dozens of compliments.

Stand out in this timeless maxi dress is designed to be paired with absolutely anything from a staple stiletto to a strappy sandal.

Every girl needs a LBD, and this classic piece will last a lifetime.

Add some flair to your wedding cake with this beautiful, wispy design.

For the modern bride, consider a square cake for an angular, unique take on the traditional dessert.

This one is for all of our bohemian brides.

Now THIS is the cake of your maximalist, ethereal dreams.

We love this layered cake!

This press flowered cake is a stunning way to incorporate florals into your wedding desserts.

Pearls are a timeless wedding staple. Jazz up your cake with some of these stunning embellishments.

So simple yet so elegant.

We love the unique design of this cake. Perfect for any couples looking to save a piece for their one year anniversary!

Consider this a compromise between a pop of color and traditional white.

We simply cannot fathom how the top two tiers of this cake are floating like that, but wowza!

Who said a wedding cake has to be white? Candied blood orange is so much more original — and summery.

In lieu of flowers, consider sequins, pearls, sparkles, and other embellishments.

You had us at chocolate cake, but a waterfall of macarons and flowers really sealed the deal.

A mix of square and round tiers gives this cake some pizzazz.

1. Actually Use Your Planner In 2025

We're not buying pretty planners just so they can collect dust on our desks or coffee tables anymore. Corry Frazier and Melissa Pepin want you to get serious because they feel "it starts with planning." They don't mean the kind you eventually flake on either.

"Effective planning is key to maintaining balance and reducing burnout. Whether you're mapping out tasks, meetings, or events, dedicated time for preparation ensures focus and reduces stress," they say. In other words, "the more intentional you are in planning, the more productive you'll be," according to them.

Ever since I've been blocking out my tasks by hour in planner, I've been able to get more done without feeling overwhelmed by splitting my time between writing and being in mommy mode. Frazier and Pepin suggest that you "set weekly planning sessions" that consist of "30-60 minutes each weekend to map out your upcoming week."

This eventually "reduces decision fatigue, fosters a sense of control, and helps you start Monday with clarity and purpose," they add. Yes, this is a sign that you'll be breaking up with the dreaded 'Sunday scaries' if you follow their advice. "You'll feel proactive and grounded rather than reacting to the week as it unfolds," they agree.

2. Embrace A "Fake Commute" When Working From Home

One of Kayla Baum's tips is to switch up your routine if you're a remote worker. Rolling out of the bed at the last minute before logging on for work sounds appealing until you realize you're uninspired by your days. But, what is a "fake commute?"

"It mimics the structure of a traditional commute to establish a boundary between work and personal life. This could mean taking a walk around the block, doing a 10-minute guided meditation, or even just changing clothes at the end of the day," Baum mentions.

Based on her experience, she's found that "it works because it provides a psychological buffer, helping to separate work and home life." She feels it's "crucial for positive mental health and boosting productivity at work (and at home)."

You can also create a separate work space that's not in your bedroom to get work done! That's helped me tremendously so I'm not sleeping and working in the same area.

3. Focus On High-Impact Tasks

Similar to planning your work days as best as you can, Frazier and Pepin want you to "prioritize the tasks that align with your goals." To minimize distractions, they want you to ask yourself:

• What is the most effective use of my time right now?

4. Stop Making Daily Decisions Hard

Tasks like your morning routine or figuring out what you'll eat don't have to take up a chunk of your time anymore. "Use productivity hacks, such as pre-planning meals or laying out weekly outfits," suggest Frazier and Pepin. They feel that "small routines like this eliminate unnecessary choices" to "make mornings smoother."

According to them, it's "especially helpful for families juggling multiple schedules." I couldn't agree more because I've spent so many frazzled mornings trying to make decisions about what myself and my toddler would wear or eat instead of planning them. With the help of my fiancé, we've cut so much time in half by being prepared ahead of time instead of 'winging it' before work.

5. Understand What Your Boundaries Are And Set Them

Worried that you'll be considered 'mean' if you tell your manager or coworkers what your boundaries are at work? Depending on your environment, it's 100% understandable. However, you're human and there's no reason you should be over-performing to your detriment. Frazier and Pepin say, "Set boundaries and communicate clearly. Adopt Brené Brown's mantra: 'To be clear is to be kind.'"

They encourage you to not only "be upfront about your schedule to manage others' expectations," but it's also so you can "avoid over-commitment." Say it with me: I will not make false promises just to appease others. Why?

Frazier and Pepin say, "Don't be afraid to say no to side projects or anything that doesn't align with your goals."

6. Ignore Emails Sent After Your Work Hours

I've been guilty of sending an email after work to acknowledge that I saw something, but I never expect other people to feel obligated to respond until the next business day. On the flip side, I've felt pressured to answer something that feels timely and I've gone to sleep thinking about the sender's potential follow-up email.

"Just because a coworker chooses to work late at night doesn't mean you must answer. One helpful trick is to include your working days and hours in your signature, explaining that responses may be delayed outside of those times," Frazier and Pepin say. They even have a prompt you can use if you're not sure what to type:

• "My working hours are [Your Working Hours, e.g., 9 AM - 4 PM ET]. Please note that these may differ from your local time zone. I appreciate your understanding and will respond to emails during my working hours."

I can't wait to start utilizing this...for research purposes only 👀.

7. Please, log off from work when it's time.

Unless you're scheduled to work late, take the time to log off from work and not think about it until the next day. Baum says, "Commit to fully logging off once the workday ends—no 'quick email replies' or sneaking in work over the weekend." I'm eyeing you Ms. "I just need to send a quick email" while you're on vacation or spending time with your significant other.

Baum says creating this separation works because "fully disconnecting allows your mind to reset and recharge" which ends up "making you more efficient, creative, and focused during actual work hours." According to her, you'll eventually "improve personal well-being" and "enhance long-term work performance."

As soon as my work day is over, I make a beeline for the shower so I can decompress. After that, I take my time with my skincare routine and keep my phone out of reach so I'm not tempted to look at anything work-related. I'm not always successful, but I've noticed a difference in my mood since making this shift.

8. Speak Up When You're Feeling Overwhelmed

And if you're 100% drained because you've been trying to tackle work tasks during and after hours, Frazier and Pepin want you to speak up. "If you're feeling overwhelmed with your workload, approach your manager with honesty and a focus on solutions," they suggest. Here's another prompt of theirs you can use:

• "I've been noticing that my workload has extended beyond regular hours, and maintaining balance is becoming challenging. Could we discuss prioritizing tasks or adjusting expectations to ensure I can deliver quality work without compromising my well-being?"