What to Do If You Find Out Your Friend’s S.O. Is Cheating

It’s a nightmare scenario: Somehow, you’ve found out that your friend’s partner is up to no good. Whether you saw them out with someone else, heard about it from a friend of a friend, or maybe even got wind of it directly from the source, it’s a sticky and emotional situation. It’s a no-brainer to support a friend when they’re going through something difficult, like dealing with depression or getting over a breakup, or even something exciting, like getting engaged. Cheating, on the other hand, is a tough topic to bring up, especially if you’re the one clueing in your friend. It’s hard to know whether you should give them a heads up or not, since you might not know all the nitty-gritty details of their relationship. We asked a relationship expert how to handle this less-than-ideal situation.

1. Don’t panic. The first thing you should do is resist the urge to freak out, says Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD, staff therapist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, and author of Loving Bravely: 20 Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want.“When you find out something like this, it creates a crisis. In a crisis, our knee-jerk reaction is to move fast and do something NOW!” she explains. But if you do something too hastily, like calling your friend and telling them everything ASAP, you might end up regretting it. “Therefore, the first thing to do in this situation is pause. Sit quietly. Breathe. Take your time. Slow yourself down so that you can mindfully and consciously choose your next move.”

2. Decide whether or not to tell. While there are some cases where telling your friend is the obvious choice, there are just as many where the line between okay and not okay are murkier. After all, what’s cheating in one relationship might not qualify as a betrayal in another. If you don’t know the details of your friend’s relationship with their partner, this is definitely something to consider. “Two things stand out as especially relevant,” says Dr. Solomon. “First, I would invite you to be guided by the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. What would you want if you were the one in this spot?” Putting yourself in your friend’s shoes might help you make a decision. “Second, look ahead,” she suggests. “If you do not tell, what do you imagine it’ll be like to be with your friend knowing that you are holding this secret? If you do tell, what might the impact be on your friendship? Have you guys gotten through rough patches before? How have you made repairs with each other in the past?”

3. If you’re going to say something, be absolutely sure. It would be really unfortunate to bring something of this magnitude to your friend’s attention if it’s not completely true. “If you decide to tell, I would want you to make sure you were working off of reliable information,” says Dr. Solomon. “If you saw something with your own eyes, I would suggest that you report what you saw. Just the facts. No commentary, hypotheses, analysis, or inference. Let your friend follow up with their S.O. and find out what it might mean.”

4. Practice compassion. If you’ve decided to tell your friend what you know, “Make sure that you do what you need to do to put yourself in a calm, compassionate, empathic, and open-hearted place before you begin,” says Dr. Solomon. If it’s difficult for you to have the conversation, tell them it wasn’t easy for you to share this with them. “Let them know that you went back and forth about the pros and cons of speaking versus not speaking and that it is up to them whether they want to talk with you about it or not,” she adds.

How to Talk to Your Friend

If you do decide to tell your friend what you know, here’s Dr. Solomon’s list of things to avoid doing or saying during your chat:

1. Don’t tell them what to do next.

2. Don’t use the word “should.” Research indicates that most married people who find out their partner cheated do NOT end the marriage. You have no idea what they “should” do next. That’s totally up to them.

3. Don’t look for reasons why it happened, or worse, blame them for it.

4. Don’t judge their S.O. It’s not your place to make a judgment about what happened.

When all is said and done, remember that your friend is probably going to be hurting. “It might be really hard for your friend to be mad at their S.O., so they might opt to be mad at you instead,” Dr. Solomon warns. And if they wish you hadn’t told them? “Let them know that you imagined if the tables were turned, and you did for them what you imagined that you would if you were in their shoes,” she says.

Have you ever had to tell a friend that their partner was cheating? Tell us how you handled it @BritandCo!

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Knowing when a relationship should end is incredibly challenging, especially if you saw a long-lasting, beautiful future with that person. However, stepping out of a situation that's not right for you can be incredibly empowering, as you're taking the first step to embracing the life you want for yourself. In today's Ask An Astrologist column, one Scorpio wants to know if — and how — she should break free from a long-term relationship that's not giving her what she needs. Read more to learn how our favorite astrologist, Lumi Pelinku, suggests she finally cut the cord!

Abbey Kline

Dear Lumi: Here is my challenge: I have been with a man for ten years — someone I have deeply loved and to whom I tied all my hopes and dreams. Yet, he has shown me that my hopes and dreams will never come true with him. He proposed and then changed his mind. I wanted to start a family, but he had a nervous breakdown instead. While he wants to stay together, we are only great companions, which has been a real challenge for the past three years. The fear of never having what I want if I leave overwhelms me. So, the question is: should I stay or should I go?

-Nicole, Brooklyn, NY

Supriya Bores

Dear Nicole: A woman who knows what she wants from the start, but doesn't see those promises fulfilled often falls into a repeating pattern. Love evolves, but the mind and body can play tricks if you're not aligned with your soul's desires. Observe how much energy you have left after waiting for him to change. How much effort are you putting into making him happy? As a holistic synergy coach, I see that you have given him your mind, body, and soul, yet he hasn’t delivered on his promises of family or commitment. If you’re ready to break ties, you must believe another person can grant your wishes. The Universe reflects what we embody and experience. Patterns of disappointment and false security will persist if your partner remains stuck in his reality. This situation might work for him, but is it working for you?

Your Scorpio Sun signifies a path of regeneration and self-empowerment. Your role is to rise above outdated patterns and align with your true vision. Scorpios are on a quest to confront and transform the sources of their struggles. We all create our destinies, but when we cling to wishing for someone or something to change, it won’t unless we take action. Having strong Scorpio energy in your chart, I’ve been where you are. I faced similar fears in my marriage. I realized over time that my partner wouldn’t change, and staying made me feel depleted and cut off from abundance. I feared the grief of ending the relationship, which felt like facing death. Yet, from the other side of that grief, I can tell you that you’ll emerge restored and vibrant, like a phoenix rising from the ashes. As a Pisces Sun, I can attest that leaving was incredibly hard, but I’m grateful for it.

Hannah Quist

With your Pisces rising, you have the tools to adapt to life's changes. You’re spiritually gifted and connected, and you will become stronger as you align with your intuition. Your Leo Moon gives you the fire to attract incredible opportunities or, conversely, fall into recurring patterns. Embrace your worth, and know you deserve a love story that nurtures your well-being.

Your chart’s blend of water and fire shows powerful manifestation abilities. Believe you can attract an amazing partner, but focus on clearing your energy and moving forward. Looking back should only help you avoid repeating past mistakes. If you decide to leave, commit to moving forward without second-guessing. Breaking free will allow you to attract the life and love you truly desire. For you, as a Scorpio Sun, this is an essential rite of passage. Once you move through it, you’ll be amazed at the magic that awaits you.

With Love and Stars,

Lumi

How To Cord-Cut In Relationships

Irene García

1. Prepare: Close your eyes and enter a meditative state. Ground yourself by feeling connected to the Earth and center your energy by focusing on your breath.

2. Identify Cords: With your energy senses active, scan your aura to find toxic cords of attachment. Gently trace each cord to see what it's connected to — people, places, objects, beliefs, or past experiences.

3. Cut the Cords: Visualize your dominant hand as an energetic knife. Spread your fingers and move your hand through each cord to sever it. As you do this, say silently or aloud, "I completely release you from my life." Breathe deeply between cuts to stay centered.

Destiny Buchman

4. Send Thanks: After cutting all the cords, sit quietly for a few minutes. Send gratitude and love to what you've released, acknowledging their role in your growth.

5. Finalize: Conclude the meditation and take a shower to cleanse and ground your energy.

Join Lumi live on September 15th for an insightful astrology event held remotely! She will dive into the Lunar Eclipse's impact on each zodiac sign and experience a live sound bowl healing session to help you realign and recharge. Don't miss this chance to connect with the cosmos and yourself. Click this link to learn more!

Looking for more astrological advice? Be sure to submit a question to Lumi here!

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Fall is the perfect time to cozy up with comfort food. But not every soup, stew, or casserole needs to take a ton of effort to make! These easy fall dinner recipes – from steamy pasta dishes to one-pan bakes – are designed to bring warmth and flavor to your table without spending hours in the kitchen. Savor in all of the season's best flavors with these 15 easy fall dinner recipes, perfect for weeknights when you just don't feel like cheffing too hard.

Brit + Co

Slow Cooker Mac And Cheese

Let the slow cooker do all the work for you with this easy recipe. All that's required is you throwing in all of 6 ingredients into the pot, letting it slow-cook for about 3 hours, then you've got yourself a hearty helping of deliciously cheesy mac – and plenty of leftovers to last you days! (via Brit + Co)

Brit + Co

Instant Pot Cheese-Stuffed Meatballs

These heavenly keto-friendly meatballs are filled with smooth mozzarella cheese for a surprisingly satisfying bite. They only need to be pressure-cooked for about 7 minutes to reach meaty, cheesy perfection. (via Brit + Co)

Brit + Co

Instant Pot Beef Stew

Stew is the ultimate comfort food come fall time. With a total cook time of about 35 minutes, this easy dinner recipe will hit the table super quickly, and be gone just as fast! (via Brit + Co)

Brit + Co

Pressure-Cooked Vegetarian Chili

Pressure-cook these veggie chili to enjoy on its own, atop some baked potatoes, or use it as a topping for easy homemade nachos. No matter how you serve it, you can count on this easy fall dinner idea to be absolutely delicious. (via Brit + Co)

Brit + Co

Easy Butternut Squash Salad

For a fall meal on the lighter side, this easy salad has the perfect balance of crunch and heartiness. Oven-roasted butternut squash, bacon pieces, pecans, and more are adorned by a truly addictive (and season-appropriate) apple cider dressing! (via Brit + Co)

Brit + Co

Oven-Baked BBQ Ribs

You'll need to start these ribs a bit earlier in the day since they require 3-4 hours of low-and-slow cook time. But you'll be so thankful you got a head start, because the prep is really the hardest part. After exiting the oven, these BBQ-flavored ribs will be oh-so tender and tasty. (via Brit + Co)

Brit + Co

Easy Instant Pot Tuscan White Bean Soup

Instant Pot soup recipes are our favorite thing to make in the fall. This "beginner-friendly" Tuscan soup begins with you tossing everything in the pot, letting it cook on high for 5 minutes, then voila! Dinner in a pinch.(via Brit + Co)

Crowded Kitchen

Easy Vegan Quesadillas

These eat-with-your-hands vegan quesadillas are loaded with black beans, corn, and mushrooms, so you definitely won't be left feeling hungry. (via Crowded Kitchen)

Pink Owl Kitchen

One-Pan Apple Cider Chicken

One-pan recipes are total lifesavers on nights when you don't feel like cooking and dealing with the subsequent cleaning. This chicken dish is packed with a punch of fall flavors, thanks to the apples, warm spices, and apple cider. (via Pink Owl Kitchen)

Earthly Provisions

Easy Vegan Zucchini Pasta

This quick vegan pasta is topped with roasted zucchini and toasted garlicky breadcrumbs to really take it to the next level. Enjoy with some white wine, and you're set! (via Earthly Provisions)

Forks & Foliage

One-Pan Mediterranean Baked Chicken & Potatoes

Chicken and potatoes make up some of the best easy fall dinner recipes since they're easy to track down at the store and even easier to prepare! This hearty option has plenty of spices for a refreshing Mediterranean flair! (via Forks & Foliage)

Two Peas & Their Pod

Fall Panzanella Salad

This bready salad has our cravings running wild. It includes all the good stuff: butternut squash, Brussels sprouts, apple, dried cranberries, pepitas, goat cheese, and kale. (via Two Peas & Their Pod)

Half Baked Harvest

Creamy Chicken Tortilla Soup

Some of the best fall dinners incorporate spice to really get the sinuses running and warm you from the inside out. This creamy tortilla soup has it all! (via Half Baked Harvest)

The Real Food Dietitians

One-Dish Chicken Sweet Potato Bake

You'll roast this entire dish in the oven to really get the flavors going, cooking and tenderizing the chicken and veggies all the while. Once it's done, top with toasted nuts, lemon juice, and shredded Parmesan to make it feel more complete. (via The Real Food Dietitians)

Kathryn's Kitchen

30-Minute Easy Cheese Enchiladas

The whole family is sure to love these cheesy enchiladas! You only need 6 ingredients and 30 minutes to make them. (via Kathryn's Kitchen)

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Meeting your partner's family for the first time can be nerve-wracking because you're never sure what to expect. Even the most confident person may start asking themselves, "Do I have something in my teeth?" or "What if their grandma thinks I'm a clown?" Trust me, no one wants to get on grandma's bad side.

Take it from someone who's witnessed a few 'Meet The Family' moments when I say there are embarrassing things you never want to do when the time comes. First impressions aren't always everything, but it doesn't mean your partner's family won't judge you if you do something that's awkward or inappropriate.

But, don't worry! Psychotherapist Rachel Goldberg, LMFT, PMH-C works with her own clients on preparing for these milestone moments, and she's ready to share some tips with you! As the founder of Rachel Goldberg Therapy in Los Angeles, CA, she specializes in things like eating disorders, family counseling, anxiety, and depression — so she knows what she's talking about!

To help prep you for the big day, here are 10 things you definitely want to avoid doing when you first meet your partner's family! With these tips in tow, you'll be ready for anything, be it that big annual barbecue, or an intimate family dinner.

1. Putting On A Front

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Just like no one likes when someone is rude or passive-aggressive, people also don't like when it seems like you're being overly nice or fake to win them over. Goldberg says, "When meeting a romantic partner's family for the first time, first it's important to be genuine. Putting on a front sets unrealistic expectations moving forward." No matter what you do, your true personality and characteristics are going to shine through eventually.

You may not want to hear this, but she also says it might not be a good idea to introduce your family to someone who should come with a "shock factor" warning. "If someone has a tendency toward crudeness or is passionate about controversial topics, they should keep that at bay for the time being."

2. Dressing Inappropriately 

Rachel Claire

"Dressing appropriately for the occasion, while staying true to their personal style, is important," says Goldberg. I'm one of the most open-minded people you'll ever meet, but I'm telling you now that you're going to get a ton of side eyes if you show up to a family dinner wearing something that would make someone clutch their imaginary pearls. Stay away from the deep v-necks, short skirts, and sheer materials — you'll thank me later!

3. Calling Your Partner A Suggestive Nickname

Ba Tik

Sigh. There's plenty of discourse about whether or not you should call your partner 'Daddy' in the first place, but please don't call your partner this — or any other suggestive nickname — in front of their family. Some people may offer a knowing smirk, or think it's funny, but it doesn't make it any less embarrassing. There are plenty of nicknames and cute pet names you can use, but when in doubt: be very mindful and demure.

4. Being Critical Of The Cooking

Mister Mister

If you're going to a barbecue or holiday gathering at your partner's family's home, it's possible the menu may not be your favorite. The food may even be served potluck style, so should you come across a dish that doesn't look appetizing...don't let your intrusive thoughts win by asking who made it.

Everyone knows what it means if a person asks that, and it won't make the cook in question feel very good. For all you know, your partner's mom may have been trying something new and was already nervous about it. No matter who actually prepared what, it's easier to politely decline something instead of being rude about it. "Criticism of the environment or their partner should be kept in check," says Goldberg.

Instead, she says you can offer to "help with tasks like setting up the table or cleaning up." This will leave a much better impression!

5. Purposely Bringing Up Controversial Topics

Timur Weber

Every family is different, from their religion to their political beliefs to how they play Monopoly. While you may dig into those differences further down the line in your relationship, it's probably best to keep it light the first time you meet them.

Goldbeg says, "Maintaining a positive attitude is another key component. They should avoid making underhanded comments about their partner or bringing up issues they are unhappy with. Controversial topics, especially politics or culturally sensitive matters, should be avoided till the relationships are better established or in some cases should never be brought up."

IF someone else brings up a controversial topic that makes you feel uncomfortable, you can excuse yourself from the table so you can collect your thoughts. However, don't be the one to start an awkward conversation about religion, politics, or otherwise — it'll save you from a lot of potential awkwardness later.

5. Drinking Too Much

KoolShooters

If you want to enjoy a drink or two, that's fine! Chances are someone will be doing the same, so that's not embarrassing. Getting drunk until you're slurring your speech or stumbling all over the place is a completely different story, though. All it'll do is signal that you're unable to know when you've had enough, and this could make your partner's family think you're irresponsible. You can have a good time, but just be sure to be mindful and pace yourself!

7. Refusing To Talk To Anyone Unless Your Partner Is In The Room 

Askar Abayev

I get it. Your nerves may be bad or you might hate small talk. But, you can't get to know your partner's family and vice versa unless you talk to them. People will notice if you and your partner or only comfortable talking to each other.

And if your partner does decide to join in on the conversation, make sure you don't make jokes that poke fun at them too much — it may fall flat. "They should be mindful of making jokes at their partner's expense, such as "oh now I see where they get that from." These can be fun and light, but it's always best to be more of an observer at that first meeting than taking the lead and potentially leaving a bad impression," Goldberg advises.

Want to truly make a good impression? She encourages you to talk to "as many family members as possible" instead of zoning in on one person, or no one at all.

8. Saying You Hate Kids — Especially If They're Present

Gustavo Fring

I respect anyone who chooses to be child-free, but making it a part of your personality every chance you get means you're bound to say something that rubs your partner's family the wrong way.

It's one thing to be sure you don't want to have kids, but talking about how much you hate children — especially if they're around and very much a part of the family — is beyond cringe. You're bound to not only shock your partner's family, but you'll also piss someone off. If you don't want someone to judge you for choosing not to have kids, don't judge them for choosing the opposite.

9. Looking At Your Phone The Entire Time

Anna Tarazevich

The family is definitely gonna want to chat with you or your partner, but it'll be hard if you're too focused on your phone. Goldberg says, "It's important to stay off their phone and be fully present during this first meeting."

Your partner's family will either think you're rude or too nervous to try to get to know them. Either way, it's pretty embarrassing! Instead, I'd put my phone on 'Do Not Disturb' and try to be more in the moment!

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Halloween is almost a month away, and we're doing the most to provide oodles of inspiration for you to get started on your costume planning. On this year's list? Pet Halloween costumes, of course! You've seen the funny ones, the catty ones, the doggy ones, and even the underwater ones – but now it's time to see every possibility out there. Here are 100 classy costumes for all your furry friends.

Carl From Up

Brit + Co

This pup was totally down with rocking a pair of glasses and bushy eyebrows.

Throwback Miley Cyrus

Brit + Co

Dogs dressed as Miley Cyrus might be the best thing to come out of Halloween this year. The cute little buns push us right over the edge.

Ewok

Brit + Co


Wait, that dog legit looks like an Ewok! You might just need to stealthis Leia look and recreate this cutesy pair for the holiday.

Liberace

Brit + Co

The detailed work on the piano alone is enough to make us swoon, but mostly we love that this dog parent created an entire tableau for their pup’s costume. The framed photo of Liberace’s partner is an especially solid touch.

Thanksgiving Turkey

Brit + Co

How timely is this? The whole scene is set so perfectly, we wish Thanksgiving was already here.

Chia Pet

Brit + Co

There’s just something about this photo, the fence, the painted orange legs, and the face on this dog that makes this the best Chia Pet costume we’ve ever seen.

Harry Potter

Brit + Co

Pipe cleaners as glasses and the lightning bolt scar? Genius. These well-coiffed pups would look right at home at Hogwarts.

Katy Perry Dark Horse

Brit + Co

Take your pick — just make sure your pup doesn’t think that wig is a chew toy.

What Does the Fox Say?

Brit + Co

We’re betting we know what this cute fox is saying – woof!

Mummy

Brit + Co

How crazy is this? This costume is so well done! A skeleton and a mummy are carrying a pumpkin, and looking rather stylish while doing it.

Doctor Pug

Brit + Co

Is there a doctor in the house who can sniff out solutions to patients' problems? Oh, there's Dr. Pug! This is one of the most adorable pet Halloween costumes we've seen so make sure your fur baby will be ready for their closeup if you let them wear it!

Facebook

Brit + Co

Of course, we’ve gotta give props to the tech-y dog parents out there.

Banana Split

Brit + Co

Combine this one with the pug-nana and you’re good to go.

Flying Monkeys

The Tin Man

Where’s that lion from above? These little mongrels are gonna get him, and the little dogs, too!

Captain America

Brit + Co

Pet Halloween costumes should be effortless so your dog can do things like lounge on the grass until it's time for action. Some may call that 'winning.'

Where’s Waldo

Brit + Co

The real question is, where’s Wenda?

Paddington Bear

Etsy

We just can't with this one. Also available for larger dogs, too!

Taco Kitten

Petco

This lil' taco cat is ready to trick or treat!

Postal Worker

Chewy

Dogs are known to totally love their mail person, right?

A Bunch of Grapes

F Yeah, Boston Terriers on Tumblr

We're not sure this pooch is super psyched to be a bunch of grapes, but he looks insanely cute!

Batdog and Robin

Celebrity Dachshund

Got two pups? The classic Batman and Robin duo is perfect for these dachshunds.

Bat

Etsy

If you've ever wondered why your cat's intrusive thoughts seem to win, dress them up as a bat to match their kooky personality.

Hula Dancer

Cosmopolitan

The most important thing about this costume? The props in the photo.

Rosie the Riveter

Columbia Star

Yes she can-ine!

Super Mario Cat

Costume Works

The toad charm is essential for this pet Halloween costume.

Mr. T

Buzzfeed

Mr. T’s signature flat-top mohawk is key to this costume look.

Garden Gnome

Etsy

There's no place like gnome.

Disco Ball

Chewy

Shine bright this holiday!

Cowboy

Amazon

There's a new sheriff in town, and he's adorbs.

Spider Man

Amazon

For Stan Lee fans, there's always this Spidey costume to honor Peter Parker.

Pin Cushion Pup

Daily Mail

This pooch is rocking that thimble hat!

Elephant

Amazon

This cape costume is easy to fit any and all ears.

Sherlock Holmes

Etsy

Elementary, my dear cat!

Ladybug

Etsy

A pet Halloween costume as cute as a bug in a rug.

First Down

Costume Works

We're not sure if this cat can actually walk around in the costume, but it certainly makes a good photo opp.

Pirate

Buzzfeed

On Halloween, cats are magically okay with water… right?

Miley Cyrus Wrecking Ball

Apartment Therapy

This dog came in like a wrecking ball and hit us hard with that goofy grin.

Hot Dog

Costume Works

How can you resist the hot dog pun? It's a classic!

Granny 

Chewy

Cat ladies, rejoice!

Regal Regalia

Buzzfeed

For the cat who truly acts like royalty, it's payback time.

Takeout-Carton Helmet

BuzzFeed

Alien invader… Space cadet… We’re not exactly sure what this cat’s supposed to be, but we do know we’ve never seen a Chinese food carton look quite this awesome before.

Triceratops

Pure Costumes

Make a statement with this prehistoric headpiece.

Hula Girl

Etsy

Say "aloha" to this hula-girl costume.

Titanic

Apartment Therapy

Our hearts will go on.

Werewolf

Chewy

More like werewoof! Pet owners can be Little Red Riding Hood to match!

Piñata

Refinery29

Is this pet Halloween costume made out of pup-er mache?

Bobsled Team

Costume Works

We see pride, we see power, we see a badass dachshund who don’t take no crap from nobody.

Lion

Instructables

All you need is a witch and a wardrobe to make this costume even more amazing.

Walrus

Apartment Therapy

Feel free to make this your computer wallpaper. It’s that good.

Star Wars

Dressed Up Dogs on Tumblr

We’ve seen a lot of Star Wars dog costumes in our day, including a Death Star made from a protective neck cone… but this one is even funnier than that.

Big Bad Wolf

Costume Works

Grandmother didn’t stand a chance against this sweet, cuddly wolf. (via Costume Works)

Frida Kahlo

Apartment Therapy

If this was a person dressed up as Frida Kahlo, it’d be super chic and intellectual. But this time, it’s a dog, and it’s hilarious.

Bat-Cat

BuzzFeed

To the bat-cat cave!

Elvis

Refinery29

Ain’t nothin’ but a hound dog… and we’re crying with laughter.

Tiger

Daily Mail

This dog’s costume is better than your dog’s costume. And it's not even a costume – just fur-friendly paint. (via Daily Mail)

Trick or Treating Ghost

Cosmopolitan

How can you resist that adorable little snout?

Madonna

Apartment Therapy

A nod to one of Maddona's signature looks is just what your little pup ordered.

Little Red Riding Cat

Buzzfeed

Something tells us the Big Bad Wolf wouldn’t mess with this catty little Red Riding Hood.

Dog Roast

Refinery29

This dog costume that keeps on giving throughout the year. You can use this one on Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas.

Business Dog

Pinterest

This dude means business, French cuffs included.

Pilot Pooch

Martha Stewart

The dog looks great here, but we’re more focused on that hot pink plane!

Fire Truck

BuzzFeed

This corgi’s fire truck is epic.

Sushi Cat

Laughing Squid

Okay okay, a cat can’t really cruise around town in this costume but… it’s great for a sleepy little feline.

Pumpkin Pie

Animals Tweeting as Owen Pallett on Tumblr

Sometimes, the simplest DIY costumes are the best.

The Little Mermaid

Washington Post

Those flowing locks, that clamshell bra, and that shiny green tail — we’d know Ariel anywhere!

Thriller

Cosmopolitan

Cute, but can they do the dance?

Green Dinosaur

Etsy

Whether you buy or DIY, this costume is just begging for selfies.

Pilot Costume

Etsy

Your fur baby's likely calling the shots in your life so it's only right you dress them up as a cute pilot who means business.

Doggie Ghost

Maddie on Things

If your dog loves playing hide-n-seek as much as you do, make them a ghost costume they'll never forget.

Goat Cat

Flickr

It’s a goat cat. That’s all you need to know.

Rambo

Flickr

The jungle is ruff.

Hipster Dog

BuzzFeed

I think I saw this dude at the record shop!

Lobster

Amazon

You *need* to get your claws... erm... paws on this costume.

Royal Pooch

The Guardian

Cue Royals by Lorde.

Owl

BuzzFeed

This handcrafted costume is definitely a labor of love, and the results are gorgeous.

Robin

Cosmopolitan

Or should we say… Ro-bun?

A Pile of Leaves

BuzzFeed

This costume is ridiculous. We love it.

Pumpkin Spice Latte

Imgur

Love PSLs so much, you just want to hug them?

Little Turkey

Her Campus

The headpiece on this little turkey is what takes it to the next level.

Fruit Lady

BuzzFeed

The superimposed sunset background is the best part of this costume.

Mario and Luigi

Imgur

These canine bros make the perfect pair.

Donut Dog

This Is Colossal

A donut salesman is now officially a pet Halloween costume.

Boiled Lobster

Cosmpolitan

One more lobster – this time with a fire roaring under the pot!

Frenchie Fries

Cosmopolitan

Pet puns FTW.

Mad Hatter

Apartment Therapy

Get matchy-matchy by rocking your own Mad Hatter lookalongside your pooch.

50 Shades of Grey

Imgur

Bonus points for this snarky pick if your pup happens to have gray eyes as well.

Olympic Gymnast

Cosmpolitan

We are very impressed. 5 stars!

Girl Scout

Martha Stewart

We wish we could see a pic of the doggie as a box of Thin Mints, but this costume is still a knockout.

Evita

BuzzFeed

Don’t cry for me, Halloween-ahhh.

Captain

Celebrity Dachshund

All aboard!

Zombies

Etsy

Oh, the horror!

UPS Delivery Person

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Send with puppy love.

Aviator

Etsy

Perfect for high-flying cats that refuse to wear a whole costume.

The Beast

Etsy

Get your Princess Belle gown ready, and you and your dog can have coordinating costumes.

Vampire

Etsy

Beware of bites from this spooky vampire.

Chef

Etsy

With any luck, this chef will actually cook dinner for you.

French Cat

ETsy

Sure, if you could ask your cat if she wanted to be French for Halloween, she'd say "oui."

Granny

Etsy

Perfect for larger dogs that ready to retire.

Rooster

Etsy

Let your fur baby fulfill their dream of living on a farm.

Spaghetti and Meatballs

Cosmpolitan

And finally, a hilarious pile of yarn spaghetti, styrofoam meatballs, and a cool attitude.

What's your pet go-to costume this Halloween? Share with us @BritandCo!

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This article has been updated.

Additional reporting by Theresa Gonzalezand Meredith Holser.

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A Sunscreen Stick to Add to Your Daily Routine

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Even though fall is approaching, you still need to wear your daily SPF, and we found the perfect sunscreen stick to make application a breeze. It has a roll-on formula infused with hydrating hyaluronic acid and niacinamide to give you a dewy glow.

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Wearing a tubing mascara will minimize damage to your lashes to help them grow longer and thicker throughout the season. This mascara has a brush with perfectly placed micro bristles to individually coat each lash without clumping.

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The Tatcha Dewy Skin Cream to Keep Up With Hydration

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For a luxurious, rich moisturizer, the Tatcha dewy skin cream is your go-to. It nourishes dry skin while delivering an instant glow — perfect for keeping your complexion radiant even when the weather turns chilly.

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Dual-Ended Makeup Brushes That Make Blending Effortless

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If you're looking to upgrade your makeup routine this season, this two-pack of dual-ended makeup brushes is the perfect solution. One side features an angled brush ideal for blending contour products, while the other has a foundation brush for a streak-free application.

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If you're a fan of switching up your makeup routine, this lip gloss will be one of your favorite fall beauty finds. It has an affordable price of just three dollars, and you can get in 10 different shades to mix up your routine every day of the week.

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A Primer With an Illuminating Formula

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A Foundation and Finishing Powder Duo You'll Adore

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This Patrick Ta cream foundation and finishing powder duo, has gone viral on social media for Its flawless application. The two products blend well together to complete a full glam, but could even be used for a lightweight makeup day.

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An Anti-Aging Serum for Firmer and Lifted Skin

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It's never too early or too late to add an anti-aging serum to your skincare routine. The serum is infused with vitamin C and antioxidants to brighten and tighten your skin all while keeping a moisturized complexion.

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A Lip Oil That Comes in Neutral and Deep Shades

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A Night Cream to Enhance Your Beauty Sleep

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Heavier skin care products like this night cream are perfect for treating dryness and dullness throughout the night to give you a plump and hydrated glow by morning. It will visibly improve your fine lines and wrinkles, as well as prevent new ones from forming.

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A Moisturizer Made For Sensitive Skin

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Using a high-quality daily moisturizer is absolutely essential for mastering a perfect skincare routine. This moisturizer is infused with ceramides and hyaluronic acid to nourish your skin without causing any irritation.

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The L'Oreal Lumi Glotion for a Natural Bronzed Glow

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Start your makeup routine with the L'Oreal Lumi Glotion to enhance your natural glow. It acts as an illuminator, highlighter, and bronzer all in one to maintain your summer glow throughout the year.

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A Toner That Doesn't Dry Out Your Skin

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Even your skin could use some probiotics from time to time making this pH-balanced toner a no-brainer addition to your routine. It helps balance out your complexion, soothe irritation, and refresh your skin throughout the day.

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A Three-for-One Lip Plumper Set

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Why purchase one product when you can get three for the price of one with this lip plumper set? It comes with three shades that will naturally plump your lips and give them a glossy glow. It includes a light-colored gloss, a neutral tone, and a dramatic pink that can be accentuated with your favorite lip liner.

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An Eye Gel to Enhance Your Morning Routine

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A Waterproof Eyeliner Pen for Extra Definition

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A Milky Toner That Promotes Glass-Like Skin

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A Liquid Contour Stick With a Cushion Applicator

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A Facial Spray for Extra Hydration

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A Waterproof Concealer With an Anti-Aging Formula

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Dew Drops That Will Make Your Skin Glow

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A Brow Glue That Won't Budge Throughout the Day

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A Jumbo Eye Pencil for Brighter Looking Eyes

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A Lipstick With a Gorgeous Deep Pigment

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An Eye Makeup Remover With a Rice Water Formula

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Fall is the perfect time to add heavier eye makeup to your routine, but you’ll need a makeup remover that can keep up. This eye makeup remover features an oil-free formula with rice water to melt away even the most stubborn makeup.

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A Foundation With a Flawless Finish

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A Cream Eyeshadow in the Perfect Fall Shade

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A Liquid Eyeliner You Can Get in Any Color

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A Facial Cleanser to Prevent Dry Skin

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A Hydrating Foundation With a Light and Buildable Coverage

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A Facial Cream That Will Strengthen Your Skin Barrier

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An Eyeshadow Stick With a Built-in Brush

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