Where to Go on Vacation for Each Stage of Your Relationship

Caribbean

San Juan, Puerto Rico

Beyond beautiful beaches like Condado Beach or Isla Verde, picturesque San Juan, Puerto Rico is absolutely worth a visit. Dollar Flight Club found flights from Atlanta starting at $138 and Los Angeles at $149. Budget guesthouses start at $70/night; mid-range hotels average $150 to $200/night. Walk through Old San Juan's cobblestone streets, visit the San Juan Bautista Cathedral, and explore the historic fort Castillo San Felipe del Morro (shown above) for free or under $10. Enjoy local flavors for $8–$15 per meal, with upscale options starting at just $25, including traditional foods like roast pork (lechón asado), arroz con gandules (rice with pigeon peas), pasteles (similar to tamales), and tembleque (coconut dessert) at one of the many restaurants in bustling San Juan.

Aruba

Known as "One Happy Island," Aruba is perfect for relaxing on the beach and exploring the natural beauty of this Dutch island. Snorkel in crystal-clear waters (Eagle and Palm Beaches are free) or hike through Arikok National Park's rugged landscapes (cost for entry just $10–$20). NYC to Aruba flights are as low as $280, according to Dollar Flight Club. Hostels and guesthouses start at $90 to $120/night; mid-range resorts average $200 to $250. The capital, Oranjestad, is picture-perfect with colorful Dutch architecture and delicious local food shacks offer authentic meals for just $10 to $15.

Cancún, Mexico

Free access to white sand beaches and natural swimming caverns make Cancun an adventure for the books. Explore the underwater art museum near Isla Mujeres, cultural landmarks like Chichén Itzá, and an incredible art scene in Tulum, plus Playa del Carmen for unforgettable nightlife. Denver to Cancún flights start at just $211. Budget hotels and hostels start at $40 to $70 per night, with mid-range options costing $100 to $150. The ADO buses are a cheap and convenient way to explore, with fares from $5 to $10. Local buses within Cancún are just under $1! Street food is highly affordable too, with tacos or tamales priced at $2 to $5 each.

St. Lucia

Flights from cities like New York to St. Lucia are $255 roundtrip. All-inclusive resorts like Bay Gardens Hotel, Rodney Bay Village are affordable stays near shops and restaurants with rates starting at $208 per night. Famous for its iconic Pitons, twin volcanic peaks that rise from the sea, St. Lucia is also a paradise for travelers who love hiking, zip-lining, and snorkeling in coral reefs. Soak in the therapeutic mud baths of Soufrière, or explore the island's tropical rainforests. The Tet Paul Nature Trail ($10 entry fee) offers stunning panoramic views of the island.

United States

The Florida Keys

All-inclusive resorts like Bungalows Key Largo, an adults-only resort located on the Florida Key’s Northernmost Island, Key Largo, (just 63 miles south of Miami), offer a tropical escape without the hassle of a passport. Find bougainvillea-draped verandas, oversized soaking tubs, outdoor garden showers, and Huffy beach cruisers to explore the island. Their Romance Package includes a Waterfront or Garden View Bungalow, chocolate-covered strawberries at your arrival, a bottle of sparkling wine, and rose petals to set the mood.;) You also get a $200 spa credit toward soothing treatments at Zen Garden Spa and a $200 credit for in-house water sports, like kayak races or Tiki boat cruises. For an extra fee, you can take a Valentine's Day Sunset Dinner Cruise on a luxury catamaran with food and music and fun.

Moab

Located between Arches National Park and Canyonlands National Park, Moab, Utah was listed on U.S. News & World Report's cheap places to travel in 2025 and for good reason. Hike among the iconic sandstone arches, bike rugged trails like Slickrock, or raft and kayak along the Colorado River for an affordable escape that feels like you'd landed on Mars. Towering 2,000 feet above the Colorado River, catch a breathtaking panorama of Canyonlands’ sculpted pinnacles and buttes at Dead Horse Point State Park, one of the most photographed places in the world. Downtown Moab features a waterfront, charming shops, local art, and delicious eateries. Stay in safari-like tents from Under Canopy for about $200/night in June or book a campground for a more rugged experience.

Gulf Shores, Alabama

This coastal gem is known for its white sandy beaches and warm Gulf waters, and it's an affordable destination for families, couples, and solo travelers. Sun-soak and swim along the iconic Gulf State Park Pier, explore free and affordable activities like hiking scenic trails or kayaking through serene backwaters. Savor delicious Southern seafood on the cheap at places like beachfront The Hangout and The Original Oyster House Boardwalk. Dolphin cruises, paddle boarding, and fun waterparks are also on the itinerary at this affordable hotspot.

Bar Harbor, Maine

Also on U.S. News's cheap places to visit is this charming coastal town and a gateway to Acadia National Park. Hike Cadillac Mountain to catch a stunning sunrise, bike along the scenic carriage roads, or kayak through the sparkling waters of Frenchman Bay. Stroll the Shore Path for breathtaking ocean views, and don’t missBar Island, accessible during low tide. Indulge in fresh lobster at local seafood shacks like Rose Eden Lobster or explore the quaint shops and storybook charm of downtown. Whale watching tours (running around $30-$70) are also a must!

Europe

Bratislava, Slovakia

Traveling to Bratislava, the capital of Slovakia, is ideal for budget-minded travelers. The city offers affordable accommodations, from budget-friendly hotels to cozy guesthouses for less than $150 per night. Stroll along the banks of the Danube River, and explore Old Town, which looks straight out of a Disney princess movie. Use the Bratislava Card to visit more than 20 museums and sites, including the famous Bratislava Castle for panoramic views of the city. Public transport is cheap and reliable, making it easy to explore too. Savor hearty Slovak dishes like halušky and goulash on the cheap at local eateries, and visit free attractions like St. Martin’s Cathedral.

Canary Islands, Spain

The best time to visit the Canary Islands, a Spanish archipelago off the coast of northwestern Africa, is October through March for warm weather and fewer crowds, and when average airline prices will run you about $300, according to Dollar Flight Club. (Look for midweek flights when prices often drop significantly.) Tenerife, the largest island, offers famous beaches and some of the best stargazing in the world. Explore the colonial architecture ofLa Laguna and La Orotava, or enjoy fresh seafood in the quiet fishing village of Garachico. The island’s volcanic interior provides stunning landscapes perfect for hiking, while Santa Cruz offers a taste of modern art and architecture. Whale watching in late fall can be enjoyed with tours like Whale Wise Eco Tours, which use solar-powered boats.

Madeira Island, Portugal

An emerging destination for travelers seeking an off-the-beaten-path experience, Madeira Island, often called the "Pearl of the Atlantic," is a stunning Portuguese archipelago located off the northwest coast of Africa. Best time to visit is in the spring for blooming landscapes. (Use layovers in also affordable Lisbon to save on airfare). Renowned for its year-round mild climate, namesake wine, and breathtaking landscapes, Madeira offers lush trails, dramatic cliffs, and exotic botanical gardens. Stroll charming cobblestone streets in the capital, Funchal, hike Pico Ruivo, swim in natural swimming pools, and savor fresh seafood in this affordable destination. In Lisbon, public transport, including the IG-worthy colorful trams and metro, is inexpensive and a great way to explore iconic landmarks like Belém Tower and Jerónimos Monastery, many of which have free or discounted entry on Sundays. Wander through the colorful Alfama District or relax at scenic viewpoints (miradouros) for free.

Prague, Czech Republic

Prague is a stunning medieval city that rivals most popular European destinations. Travel in March to May or September for fewer tourists and better prices, and check nearby airports like Vienna or Berlin for cheaper fares. The Prague Castle and Charles Bridge are all free and many hotels are cheaper than other European cities. People-watch in cozy cafés with a local delicacy like trdelník, a sugary cake, and take a free walking tour around this beautiful historical city.

Malta

This small island nation, located in the Mediterranean Sea between Sicily and northern Africa, is easy to explore, with affordable stays ranging from guesthouses to charming boutique hotels that cost less than $200 per night. Malta's Explore Card is about $25 for unlimited bus travel for seven days. Visit in spring or fall when prices are low but the weather is still perfect. Wander the ancient streets of Valletta, a UNESCO World Heritage site, or explore the medieval walled city of Mdina. Golden Bay beach and beautiful Spinola Bay are both free, or snorkel in the crystal-clear waters of the Blue Lagoon.

Asia

Bangkok, Thailand

Visit everything from bustling markets and glittering temples to rooftop bars and street food vendors in Bangkok. The Grand Palace is one of Bangkok’s most iconic landmarks for 500 baht (about $15). Inside, find Wat Phra Kaew, home to the Emerald Buddha, a highly revered statue. Damnoen Saduak Floating Market is the most famous floating market near Bangkok, where you can shop for traditional snacks and affordable gifts from boats. Take a boat ride on the Chao Phraya River; ride a tuk-tuk ride along the Khao San Road; and relax in Lumpini Park for a peaceful escape from the hustle and bustle of Bangkok (you can rent a paddleboat, enjoy a picnic, or simply take a stroll while watching locals practice tai chi). Keep an eye out for the giant monitor lizards that roam freely in the park! Visit iconic rooftop bars, like Sky Bar at Lebua State Tower, famous for being featured in the movie The Hangover 2, and Vertigo and Moon Bar, located at the Banyan Tree Hotel with stunning 360-degree views of the city.

Coron, Philippines

Traveling to the Philippines on a budget is both easy and rewarding, offering stunning landscapes and rich culture without breaking the bank. Coron, with its stunning lagoons, shipwreck dives, and affordable island-hopping tours, is a must-visit. Feast on delicious street food like pork skewers and halo-halo for just a few dollars. Visit budget-friendly yet breathtaking spots like El Nido’s lagoons, Siargao Island’s surf spots, and Banaue’s rice terraces too. Affordable accommodations, like hostels and beachside cottages, cater to frugal travelers. Public transport, such as jeepneys and tricycles, ensures low-cost travel between destinations.

Africa

Marrakech, Morocco

Watch for budget airlines from major hubs like Paris or Madrid and travel to this stunning destination with everything from the bustling souks of Marrakech to the serene Sahara Desert. Explore ancient medinas, swoon over the intricate architecture of mosques and palaces, or wander through the blue streets of Chefchaouen. Adventure seekers can trek the Atlas Mountains, while beach lovers can relax in coastal towns like Essaouira. Savor flavorful Moroccan cuisine, such as tagines, couscous, and mint tea. According to Dollar Flight Club, average prices are $310 and the best time to visit is March-April or October-November for ideal temperatures.

1. Questions To Ask If You're In The 'Honeymoon' Stage

Whenever we finally move from flirting with our crushes to being in a relationship with them, it's typically followed by a period of euphoria. You and your boyfriend likely can't get enough of each other right now which is probably making your friends playfully roll their eyes. Since everything is brand new, you can still keep it light though.

O'Neill suggests asking "open-ending questions that prompt curiosity and connection:"

• What's one dream you've never let me in on?
• What's one little gesture that can make you feel valued?

"These couple of queries facilitate bonding while generating enthusiasm for the goals and interests of each other," he says.

2. Questions To Ask After Your First Big Fight

Even if you and your boyfriend are super tuned in to each other, a disagreement or argument is bound to happen. In case you're worried, your relationship isn't on thin ice because you're not seeing eye-to-eye on something. O'Neill says you can ask:

• How do you think we handled the argument?
• What could we do differently next time to make our future fights more productive?

His reasoning is that these questions "promote growth and empathy" so "disagreements are transformed into stronger communication opportunities."

Note: Disagreements should never turn physical. It's not okay for you and your boyfriend to become physically aggressive with each other. If you're concerned about domestic violence, dial the National Domestic Hotline at 1(800) 799-7233.

3. Questions To Ask Before Introducing Your Boyfriend To Your Parents

Introducing your boyfriend to your parents is a huge step that can be scary and exciting. I was terrified when my parents first met my fiancé because they couldn't stand my ex. But, the conversation between them flowed and everyone always looks for him to be at family events.

If you're ready for introductions to be made, O'Neill wants you to "encourage the normality of preplanned talks" by asking:

• What is something about me that you think my parents would really love to hear about?

By doing this, he says it'll "help alleviate anxiety and ensure both spouses feel comfortable and attuned before meeting the parents."

4. Questions To Ask If You Or Your Boyfriend Have An Illness

It's never easy to experience illnesses or health scares, but it can be terrifying if you don't know how to help your partner manage if something unexpected happens. O'Neill says to "nurture insights with queries such as:"

• What is one thing I could to assist you better when ill?
• Are there any aspects concerning your healthy that haven't been discussed which make you anxious?

"The conversations provide a safe space for airing concerns while building up mutual support through health difficulties," he adds.

5. Questions To Ask If You're Worried About Boyfriend's Spending Habits

Financial red flags are always a cause for concern when dating someone — especially when it seems like your boyfriend doesn't care about his spending habits may affect your household if you live together. O'Neill suggests asking:

• What are your financial goals?
• How do you see us working towards them together?
• How do you feel about budgeting as a team?

This will "make goal alignment stronger" because "effective communication about finances can prevent misunderstandings," he says. Also, this helps "lay the foundation for a shared vision of the future."

6. Questions To Ask To Deepen Vulnerability With Each Other

Being vulnerable isn't easy for everyone, let alone two people in a relationship. It took me years to feel comfortable expressing my sadness or fears to my fiancé because I was afraid he'd think I was 'weak.' However, this can cause more harm than good because it becomes difficult for our partners to know what's going on with us if we don't open up.

O'Neill says you can ask:

• What's one fear or concern you've hesitated to share with anyone before?
• How can I help you feel safe sharing with me?

7. Questions To Help Move The Relationship Forward

If you're still wondering "what are we doing" after asking some of the above questions, you focus on asking the following "future-oriented questions," according to O'Neill:

• Where do you see us in 5 years?
• What's something you envision us doing together as a couple in the future?

What is color therapy?

Color therapy is a holistic, non-invasive modality used for the body. Historical figures such as Pythagoras (circa 2,500 years ago) applied “color light” therapeutically, while “color halls” were used as a means of treatment in ancient Egypt, China, and India. The modern medical pioneer patron of color therapy was Niels Finsen of Denmark in 1877. He discovered that visible light was how ultraviolet or red light energy could heal wounds, bacterial infections, or scars. Sounds familiar? In this present, infrared light therapy is used for pain relief, improved sleep, inflammation, facials, detoxes, and more. Knowing this, you can see why color and light restores our mind, body, and emotional needs.

There are many ways in which you can work best with color therapy. To implement physical changes, you can update your selection of colors in your clothing, nail colors, makeup palette, or home decor. For the mind and emotional system, you can work with colors through visualization practices like art, meditation, or a color therapy lamp.

How Can Color Therapy and Astrology Work Together?

Color therapy works by frequency or wavelengths of colors, which can have a physiological or psychological impact on our well-being. Using appropriate colors guided by your zodiac sign can rebalance or harmonize your body’s energy centers. How can color therapy integrate with your zodiac sign? It begins by knowing and working with your Sun sign, granting you more confidence and understanding regarding your direction. It extends our overall vitality and spreads endless radiance in our lives. It fuels our well-being and emits light wherever it touches in the birth chart. In principle, our Sun sign is our destination point, our identity. Now, the Sun Sign is where we can reach that higher level of understanding about our process and how we will experience fulfillment in this life. Incorporating color therapy guided by astrology can help you obtain confidence, and when you feel balanced, you make sound choices.

​How Colors Align With Zodiac Signs

Observing the astrological signs, they are all categorized within the elemental values. Starting with fire, the signs Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius are placed within this element. These signs hold precedence over the esoteric realm of spirit as they are meant to initiate, inspire, and teach. Fire tones are within the spectrum of golds, reds, and oranges.

The signs Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn reside within the earthy realm. They are supportive, detailed, and persevering in nature. The earth element enables humanity to take a firm stance involving patience or consistency. Deep greens, grays, and navy are colors that hold a grounded energy for these signs.

The signs Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius inhabit the air element. Those who hold this element strongly have the skill to circulate a constant flow of ideas, remain stimulated, and effectively communicate. Air energy guides humanity in the exchange of information, negotiation, and evolution. For clarity, the colors that best support these signs are yellows, pastel blues, or electric blues.

Ending with Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces, these signs embody the water element. Natives with a strong water element are receptive to others' feelings and can be intuitive. They can also conjure creativity, withstand intensity, and dive deep into the world of dreams. Colors such as purples, deep reds, or soft greens can help these signs invoke self-love and confidence.

Colors for Each Zodiac Sign

Aries (March 21 – April 20)

Personality Traits: Aries is bold, energetic, and daring, often leading the way with confidence and courage. They are natural-born leaders who take on challenges fearlessly.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Colors like red and orange help Aries channel their energy and passion. These colors promote confidence, courage, and an enhanced sense of purpose to match their bold nature.

Taurus (April 21 – May 21)

Personality Traits: Known for their patience, determination, and deep connection to nature, Taurus seeks stability and grounding. They are steady and reliable, with an appreciation for beauty and luxury.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Earthy tones like green and brown are ideal for Taurus. These colors promote relaxation, groundedness, and stability, aligning with Taurus' need for balance and connection to nature.

Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

Personality Traits: Gemini is versatile, adaptable, and intellectually curious. They thrive on communication and change, with a playful and creative side. Their dual nature makes them curious and full of ideas.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Bright yellow and light green stimulate mental agility, creativity, and versatility for Gemini. These colors foster communication and mental clarity, enhancing their natural curiosity and adaptability.

Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

Personality Traits: Compassionate, intuitive, and deeply connected to family and emotions. Cancer nurtures others and seeks emotional fulfillment. They are protectors and caretakers.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Soft white, silver, and pale blue promote emotional healing, inner peace, and nurturing energy. These colors align with Cancer’s need for emotional well-being and tranquility.

Leo (July 23 – August 22)

Personality Traits: Leo exudes warmth, creativity, and pride. With their strong sense of self, they seek recognition and joy, and they inspire others with their vitality and passion.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Gold, yellow, and orange help Leo amplify their natural creativity and vitality, enhancing their self-expression and sense of pride. These warm colors increase confidence and fuel their dynamic energy.

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Personality Traits: Virgos are known for their perfectionism, sharp intellect, and organizational skills. They are reliable, practical, and thrive on productivity and efficiency.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Soft green and blue are ideal for Virgo, promoting balance, healing, and clarity of mind. These colors assist in maintaining a calm and focused environment, supporting Virgo’s need for order and tranquility.

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

Personality Traits: Libra values harmony, beauty, and fairness. They seek balance in all aspects of life, often striving for peace and cooperation in their relationships and surroundings.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Pastel colors, particularly light blue and pink, promote peace, harmony, and emotional balance. These soft hues help Libra maintain their sense of equilibrium and enhance their diplomatic nature.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Personality Traits: Scorpio is intense, passionate, and deeply transformative. Known for their mystery and depth, they possess great inner strength and are drawn to uncover hidden truths.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Deep red, black, and maroon channel passion, power, and transformation for Scorpio. These intense colors align with their transformative nature and help them harness their strength.

Sagittarius (November 21 – December 21)

Personality Traits: Sagittarius is adventurous, optimistic, and philosophical. They love exploring new ideas, cultures, and places and often share wisdom and joy with those around them.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Purple and deep blue enhance spiritual growth, adventure, and wisdom. These colors stimulate the Sagittarian desire for exploration and wisdom while supporting their boundless optimism.

Capricorn (December 21 – January 19)

Personality Traits: Capricorn is disciplined, ambitious, and pragmatic. They take a methodical approach to life and are determined to achieve their goals through hard work and patience.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Earthy tones like gray, brown, and navy support Capricorn’s need for focus, discipline, and groundedness. These colors help them stay on course and maintain a practical mindset.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 19)

Personality Traits: Aquarius is eccentric, innovative, and idealistic. They value independence and individuality, often challenging the status quo and embracing forward-thinking ideas.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Electric blue and purple enhance mental clarity, innovation, and independence. These vibrant colors support Aquarius' need for originality and their intellectual pursuits.

Pisces (February 20 – March 21)

Personality Traits: Pisces is intuitive, empathetic, and imaginative. Known for their dreamy and artistic nature, they deeply connect to the spiritual and emotional realms.
Chromatherapy Suggestions: Soft green, seafoam blue, and lavender promote relaxation, creativity, and intuition for Pisces. These calming colors enhance their dreamlike state and encourage emotional balance and creativity.

​Color Therapy Visualization Technique

Now that you know which color vibrates with your zodiac sign, you can use this visualization technique to connect more with your Sun sign. Color therapy is a powerful tool for balancing energy, emotions, and well-being. By using the healing properties of colors, you can encourage emotional release, relaxation, and revitalization. Each color carries its frequency and vibration, which can help align and support different aspects of your life, from physical health to mental clarity.

This color therapy visualization technique will guide you through grounding, relaxation, and energetic renewal. Connecting with the colors that resonate with you will activate healing energy within your body and mind, clearing away any negative or stagnant energy. It’s a simple yet powerful practice that you can do daily to restore balance and promote a sense of calm and well-being.

Energetic Healing Visualization Technique

1. Position yourself comfortably or sit in a lotus position. Place your left hand over your heart area.
2. Take a deep breath through your nose, then exhale slowly through your mouth. With each breath, feel your body becoming more relaxed.
3. Focus on the soles of your feet and imagine an energetic pull grounding you, anchoring you in the present moment.
4. Take another deep breath, feeling a nurturing energy rising from the ground, reaching up to the soles of your feet. Allow this energy to gently move upward, relaxing and energizing your body—feet, calves, thighs, core, shoulders, arms, neck, face, and head.
5. Imagine a bright, glowing light in the sky above you. This light represents your Higher Self.
6. See the light spiraling down toward you, entering through the crown of your head and flowing through your body. As it moves, it changes into a vibrant color that resonates with you.
7. Take another deep breath and allow the colored light to fill your core center. Visualize it growing brighter and expanding with each breath, filling your entire body.
8. Imagine the light forming a dome or egg-like shape around your body, extending outward, cleansing your physical and energetic space.
9. Release any tensions, worries, or negative energy, visualizing them fading away into the ground. Trust the process of transformation.
10. Continue this visualization as long as you need. When you feel light and neutral, place your hands in a prayer position and silently offer thanks.
11. Visualize the light around you returning to its source, and when ready, gently open your eyes.

This practice can be done 1-2 times daily, ideally in the morning or before bedtime.

By integrating color therapy with your astrological sign, you can tap into a powerful tool for enhancing your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. These simple yet effective practices allow you to align with the natural flow of your energy and support your unique traits, helping you to feel more balanced and connected to yourself. Whether you choose to surround yourself with the colors that resonate with your sign or engage in visualization techniques, color therapy offers a profound way to nurture your overall health and personal growth.

Remember, your journey toward healing and balance is personal, and using the right colors can be an uplifting part of that process. Take time to explore the colors that speak to you and notice the subtle shifts they create in your life.

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