Why These Clinic Escorts Risk Their Safety to Protect Other Women

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In July, a judge in New York ruled that the behavior of a group of anti-abortion protesters outside of the Choices Women’s Medical Center in Jamaica, Queens, a women’s health clinic that provides abortion services, does not constitute harassment.

According to Judge Carol Bagley Amon, the June 2017 lawsuit filed by former New York Attorney General Eric Schneiderman “failed to show” that 13 protesters “had the intent to harass, annoy, or alarm” patients, volunteers or companions supporting them, and doctors entering the clinic — although Amon noted in her ruling that “several of the defendants’ actions came close to crossing the line.”

Amon’s ruling predictably sparked controversy among pro-choice advocates, particularly doctors, patients, and volunteers who have long experienced harassment and intimidation tactics by anti-abortion protesters firsthand. And yet, the ruling was not an anomaly. In fact, threatening or invasive behaviors by protesters outside women’s health clinics are so prevalent that they gave rise to a support system known as clinic escorting, which entails volunteers putting their own safety on the line to accompany patients as they enter clinics.

“the law of the state and protesters can almost work together against us.”

Clinic escorts provide support and a buffer zone between patients and protesters. They also stand outside clinics to de-escalate hostile situations that may arise between protesters and community members or companions of patients. Their brave work — and the forces that create the need for their work — remains too-frequently dismissed or erased altogether by court decisions and laws that often fail to adequately protect clinics from harassment, and even violence, in the first place.

It literally would take anyone coming and standing across the street from a clinic where there’s protesters to understand how psychologically and physically dangerous they make it, just to go in a place where people are trying to get health care,” says Sonya Mendoza, the volunteer coordinator of clinic escort group LA for Choice. “I’ve never been to that clinic in Queens, but the judge could certainly stand outside a Downey clinic for five minutes and see it’s harassment.”

Mendoza has volunteered as a clinic escort since 2005. At that time, she was located in Washington, DC, where the anti-abortion March for Life hosts its massive annual rallies. Since 2015, she’s worked with LA for Choice to support an abortion clinic in Downey, California, just outside Los Angeles, where every Saturday anywhere from 10 to 20 protesters show up with speakers, karaoke equipment, rosaries, and graphic signs.

The bulk of what protesters do is make noise, but Mendoza says one local pastor who protests at the clinic every week will often touch patients’ shoulders or stand over them. She also says that another regular protester has previously followed a clinic escort to their car, leading LA for Choice to instate a clinic escort buddy system, and threatened to assault patients if they weren’t accompanied by escorts.

Mendoza recalls how the loud cheering of protesters at the Downey clinic served to exacerbate a tragic incident on New Years’ Eve last year, when police officers physically prevented a patient and her family from entering the clinic because of their car’s expired license plate and subsequently towed the car that the family had been living in. Because of the encounter with police, the patient was forced to miss her appointment.

“And when protesters cheered and got loud because of that, it really drove home how the law of the state and protesters can almost work together against us,” Mendoza says.

“We were able to get them there eventually.”

Since 2005, when she first started escorting, Mendoza tells us that the aggression of protesters “ebbs and flows,” especially with new federal and state laws. But based on her own experiences and those of other escorts across the country who share their stories in private Facebook groups, she feels protesters have become more emboldened since the 2016 federal election and increase in rhetoric likening abortion to murder.

Numerous studies certainly corroborate this sentiment, and NARAL Pro-Choice America notes that there has been a dramatic uptick in clinic violence since 2015 — a year before the election — when an anti-choice group released edited, illegally obtained videos from a Planned Parenthood clinic, which were marketed as proof the organization “sells baby parts.” The video’s creators have since been charged with 15 felonies, but not before later that year, a gunman claiming to be a “warrior for the babies” shot and killed three in a Colorado Planned Parenthood clinic.

Though violence from clinic protesters remains relatively infrequent, their tactics can be intimidating. In Louisville, Kentucky, Christine, a media liaison for the Louisville Clinic Escorts, tells Brit + Co that protesters show up to Kentucky’s last abortion clinic every morning Tuesday through Saturday. Their numbers range from approximately eight to 15 on weekdays, and 20 to 100 or more on Saturdays, she tells us.

Christine, who has served as a clinic escort since 2013, recalls how on Mother’s Day 2016, Operation Save America, a prominent fundamentalist Christian group, came to town just to target the clinic, sitting in front of the doors and blockading the building.

“Patients couldn’t access the clinic for a while,” Christine recalls, “but we were able to get them there eventually.”

Nilofar Ganjaie formerly worked as a field organizer and volunteer coordinator for Planned Parenthood of the Great Northwest and Hawaii. Ganjaie recalls how many training sessions and events at Planned Parenthood clinics or offices were regularly, vocally protested. At a training she attended in Colorado, she tells us that protesters brought ladders and speakers to be able to yell at patients and volunteers over a 12-foot fence.

“That really stayed with me,” she said. “I think it spoke to how, if there are laws limiting what anti-choice people can do, they find ways to work around them anyway.”

“It’s all about the client.”

Aidan Krainock became a clinic escort in Portland, Oregon shortly after seeing a documentary about the slain Kansas abortion provider Dr. George Tiller. She recalls how some of the worst tactics by protesters often targeted women of color; some protesters would approach Black patience and use rhetoric likening their abortions with “Black genocide,” while in one case, a pastor who regularly protested the clinic harassed a nurse who wore a hijab.

On other occasions, since the clinic was in a residential area and the pastor who led protests would arrive with loudspeakers as early as 7 am on Saturday mornings, residents would often come outside to confront him. “It would lead to loud, long philosophical arguments that never really went anywhere,” Krainock says.

Those loud, hostile arguments are exactly what clinic escorts are there to help diffuse.

“A general rule of thumb is, ‘do not engage,’ especially if a protester is hostile,” Ganjaie tells us. “You’re not going to reason with that person, you’re not going to convince someone yelling obscenities at you about abortions. That’s the reality. And further, we want to avoid [agitating] that person and creating a possibly unsafe situation.”

Rather, volunteers agree that escorting is about the comfort and safety of patients.

“Some people may want to engage or debate protesters, but what [we’re aiming] to do is to walk with clients, make space for them, empower them to make their own decisions,” Christine in Louisville says. “We ask permission — ‘Would you like me to walk with you?’ — because the antis [protesters] do not ask for permission. That’s how we differentiate ourselves. It’s all about the client.”

In 2012, Rebecca L. was escorted into an abortion clinic in Austin, Texas on three separate occasions for appointments leading up to her abortion, and the abortion itself. The numbers of protesters outside during each of her visits varied, although Rebecca recalls feeling relieved when there was only one protester outside for the follow-up visit after her abortion.

“There was a lot of loud prayer, a lot of yelling, and trying to get me to come over to them since they couldn’t step on the property legally,” she said. “They had pamphlets in their hands, and Bibles, rosaries, and really disturbing images.”

Since her experience being escorted, Rebecca has launched a nationwide “virtual clinic escort” project to counter harassment and misinformation from anti-abortion groups online. The “I Need An A” website helps virtually accompany women to find information for verified abortion clinics near where they live and intends to “shield” them from fake clinic websites and anti-choice social media users.

“Showing Up for People” Is “an act of Love.”

The escorts and patients we spoke with agree that Judge Amon’s ruling last month was out of sync with their lived experiences. But clinic escorts accept harassment as a part of their role — a role that was largely created in direct response to the harassment of protesters.

Sonya Mendoza of LA for Choice identifies as a veteran of the movement for reproductive justice. She’s been acutely aware for years of the hostility, vulgarity, and, too often, the danger that can come with volunteering — and she’s also aware of the often inadequate protections of state institutions, from the courts and law enforcement to lawmakers who use legislation to stigmatize and further obstruct abortion access.

But it’s never stopped her or clinic escorts across the country from showing up.

“As a person of privilege, a lot of being a good organizer and lifting up communities in a less fortunate position is through putting your physical body out there, even if that may mean out of safety zones, to show your support,” Mendoza says. “That’s really what clinic escorting is. It can be at times unsafe, but I do believe in my heart of hearts the physical aspect of showing up for people is not only an act of love, but is an act of community organizing.”

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Yellowstone season 5B is here! Twisters might have been THE summer movie of 2024, but the western vibes aren't going away, even after the Glen Powell movie has left theaters. The second half of Yellowstone season 5 returned to Paramount November 10 and it did not disappoint. 16.4 million viewers tuned into the premiere over a variety of networks — making it the most-watched season premiere in the show's history.

And it's a major season for one very specific reason: Kevin Costner isn't returning as John Dutton. The star decided to exit the series after season 5's eighth episode premiered in January 2023, but as big of a change is this is, Costner is still an executive producer on the series, giving it a familiarity fans will appreciate.

Yellowstone has always been dramatic, but in the Yellowstone season 5 first look, you can just feel the tension from fan favorites like Beth Dutton, Monica Long, and Kayce Dutton. And no wonder: the Duttons' family drama is coming to a head, and it looks like someone might not make it out alive. Read up on everything you need to know about the new season of Yellowstone, and check out why Paramount+'s New Drama Landman Is Perfect For Yellowstone Fans.

Keep reading for everything you need to know about the final season of Yellowstone.

What happened on the finale of Yellowstone?

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Yellowstone season 5 had two major themes: save the ranch and avenge John Dutton's death. And the Yellowstone finale saw both of those things happen in their own way. Kayce sells the property to High Chief Thomas Rainwater at $1.25 an acre (the price when his ancestors took it) on two conditions: his family stays in their home, and the land will never be developed or sold to anyone else.

And after John's funeral (where Beth literally tells his casket she'll avenge him), Beth runs off to Jamie's house, gets into a brutal fight, and stabs him in the heart before moving to start a peaceful (?) new life in Dillon, Montana with Rip. I guess all's well that ends well?

Is this the last season of Yellowstone?

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It's always hard to say goodbye to a beloved show, but despite reports that Yellowstone would end with season 5, it looks like we could be getting a Yellowstone season 6 after all. Deadline confirmed that negotiations are happening for a potential continuation, which would focus on Kelly Reilly's Beth and Cole Hauser's Rip.

Reilly told Entertainment Weekly ahead of the season 5 premiere that "Beth is more like a wild animal this season than ever. When I read the scripts, it made me think [that] she is, for the first time, maybe afraid she will lose it for [her dad]."

"It's dark, brutal and desperate stuff — gaining power, losing it, defending and fighting," she continues. "It's bloody and at times beautiful in how it breaks them into their core selves." The setup for a potential season 6 will totally depend on how season 5 ends — and how it affects Beth, Rip, and the rest of the family.

Is Kevin Costner in Yellowstone season 5 part 2?

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No Kevin Costner is not in the second half of Yellowstone season 5, and we find out the fate of his character John Dutton immediately. When Beth and Kayce find John dead in the bathroom, Beth immediately suspects foul play and blames it on Jamie. Well, Kevin is finally speaking on his character's end, and told The Michael Smerconish Programon November 11 that he actually didn't know the show had premiered the night before.

“I’m going to be perfectly honest. I didn’t know it was actually airing last night,” he says. “That’s a swear-to-God moment. I’ve been seeing ads with my face all over the place and I’m thinking, ‘Gee, I’m not in that one.’ But I didn’t realize yesterday was the thing...I heard it’s a suicide, so that doesn’t make me want to rush to go see it.”

But even if Kevin isn't over the moon about watching his character die, he doesn't have any bad blood with the writers. “They’re pretty smart people,” he continues. “Maybe it’s a red herring. Who knows? They’re very good. And they’ll figure that out.”

Well, the actor told Entertainment Tonight that he STILL hasn't seen the season 5 premiere as of November 17. “I didn’t watch it, so I don’t really have any thoughts about it,” he said. Due to delays from the writer's strike, and a tug-of-war between Paramount saying Kevin couldn't film new episodes and Kevin saying creator Taylor Sheridan took too long to write the scripts, the actor chose to leave the series, reportedly in part to promote his Horizon movie franchise.

“I gave this thing five seasons,” the actor told The Hollywood Reporterthis summer. “I was really happy to do it. And I don’t need drama. So, let’s just take that drama away, let’s take the guessing [away]. The fans have been way too good to me. And my obligation is to go on and continue to make things that mean something to them.”

How many episodes are in Yellowstone season 5?

Yellowstone season 5 part 2 features 6 episodes, meaning that Yellowstone season 5 will have a total of 14 episodes. Here's each episode title and release date:

  • Episode 1: "One Hundred Years Is Nothing" on November 13, 2022
  • Episode 2: "The Sting of Wisdom" on November 13, 2022
  • Episode 3: "Tall Drink of Water" on November 20, 2022
  • Episode 4: "Horses in Heaven" on November 27, 2022
  • Episode 5: "Watch 'Em Ride Away" on December 4, 2022
  • Episode 6: "Cigarettes, Whiskey, a Meadow and You" on December 11, 2022
  • Episode 7: "The Dream Is Not Me" on December 18, 2022
  • Episode 8: "A Knife and No Coin" on January 1, 2023
  • Episode 9: "Desire Is All You Need" on November 10, 2024
  • Episode 10: "The Apocalypse of Change" on November 17, 2024
  • Episode 11: "Three Fifty-Three" on November 24, 2024
  • Episode 12: "Counting Coup" On December 1, 2024
  • Episode 13: "Give the World Away" On December 8, 2024
  • Episode 14: "Life Is A Promise" On December 15, 2024

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What is Yellowstone season 5 about?

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Yellowstone Season 5 Plot

The series introduced us to the Duttons, a powerful family in charge of America's biggest contiguous cattle ranch. Every season has been gritty and powerful, and in the fifth season, we've seen John become Montana's governor and make Beth his chief of staff. But with Jamie trying to take the power away from his dad, the Duttons are fighting each other like we've never seen — especially when Jamie and Beth start considering how to get away with murder.

Luke Grimes recently told Entertainment Weekly how pleased he is with the finale, and Kelly Reilly revealed creator Taylor Sheridan actually told her the ending to the series while they filmed season 1.

“I read the last episode the day before we started filming,” Luke says. “I couldn't be happier. I think it's a perfect ending for the show for every character. It's just a testament to what a good writer Taylor is, and it's a very, very profound, beautiful ending. I can't wait to sit down and watch it one day.”

Is Yellowstone season 5 part 2 out yet?

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Yellowstone Season 5 Part 2 Release Date

Yes, Yellowstone season 5 part 2 premiered on Paramount November 10, 2024. You can watch new episodes every Sunday.

The series filmed in Montana during the summer of 2024.

Who's in the cast of Yellowstone season 5?

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Yellowstone Season 5 Cast

The cast of Yellowstone season 5 includes Kelly Reilly, Wes Bentley, Luke Grimes, Kelsey Asbille, Brecken Merrill, Finn Little, Cole Hauser, Gil Birmingham, Wendy Moniz, Mo Brings Plenty, and Bella Hadid.

Where can I watch season 5 part 1 of Yellowstone?

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The first half of Yellowstone season 5 is now streaming on Peacock.

Are you excited for Yellowstone season 5 part 2? Read up on The First Cast Member For Yellowstone's 2024 Spinoff, The Madison for more about our new favorite universe.

This post has been updated.

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's engagement is the marquis diamond ring heard 'round the world — and Justin Bieber may have just reacted to it. Our collective jaws were already on the floor after Hailey Bieber liked the Instagram, but this has taken everything to a whole other level. The "Sorry" singer took to Instagram himself, making a post that fans couldn't help tying to the recent engagement news. Here's what he said (in not so many words).

Here's how Justin Bieber (maybe) reacted to Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's engagement!

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We all know that Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco announced their adorable Taco Bell picnic engagement on December 12, 2024. The post is chalk-full of friend, fan, and celebrity support — including a 'like' from Hailey Bieber, herself. If you're wondering why that may be a big deal, let me break it down for you.

Hailey and Selena both dated Justin Bieber in the 2010's, and there was seemingly a bit of back-and-forth between the three for a few years there. This erupted a "feud" of sorts, leaving Hailey and Selena at odds in the public eye. However, they've continued to show us that any remaining "beef" is squashed.

But now? Now, Justin is sorta stirring the pot a little bit.

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On December 16, 2024, Justin posted a selfie with Hailey kissing his cheek — innocuous enough, right? Well, fans noticed he attached "All My Ghosts" by Lizzy McAlpine to the post. The song has since been deleted, but Page Six still has the screenshot to prove it.

People attach songs to posts every day, but this tune in particular caught everyone's attention. In the very sentimental song, Lizzy McAlpine sings:

I can see it now, the wedding of the year

I can see it now, he stands up there and wipes his tears

I can see it now, when all my ghosts disappear

I can see it crystal clear.

Sensing any parallels to Justin's life? Yeah, us too. He could have truly just liked the song — it's great! — but it's pretty hard to ignore the underlying message there. All I know is, I hope these ghosts "disappearing" mean the drama between this trio is officially gone for good. We don't want the girls fighting anymore!

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Desserts make Christmas go around, but it can be hard to find time to bake with countless holiday parties to attend. If you're feeling a little oven-shy or wonder why those cookie recipes you try to bake come out looking gooey, maybe it's time for a different approach.

Because we've been there before, we put together a list of 35 stellar “no-bake" recipes that will satisfy everyone's preferences and dietary restrictions! If you're still craving something sweet after reading about these delectable treats try making our No-Bake Peanut Butter and Jelly Pie or our adorable No-Bake Grammy Bon Bons!

Half Baked Harvest

No Bake Mixed Berry Custard Tart

It's hard to believe this stunning dessert is no bake! Buttery Ritz crackers are the secret with homemade vanilla custard, mixed berries, and sweet honey. (via Half Baked Harvest)

Clean Cuisine

No Bake Key Lime Pie

Love the little something green on your holiday dessert table and this healthy twist on traditional key limes is sure to please! (via Clean Cuisine)

Vikalinka

No Bake Strawberry Meringue Cheesecake

It's all in the name and it's all absolutely delicious. (via Vikalinka)

Averie Cooks

No Bake Tiramisu

Not a lot of time? This no-bake dessert infused with espresso, Kahlua, a luscious creamy filling is decadent and so easy! (via Averie Cooks)

Hello Little Home

No Bake Pumpkin Cheesecake

Give your cheesecake a taste of fall with this delightful holiday dessert. (via Hello Little Home)

Kathryn's Kitchen

No Bake Chocolate Peppermint Graham Crackers

These no bake bars are a crowd pleaser and make great last-minute gifts! (via Kathryn's Kitchen)

Woman Scribbles

No Bake Coffee Swirl Cheesecake

Add a hint of coffee flavor to your cheesecake dessert. (via Woman Scribbles)

Chocolate No-Bake Holiday Desserts

Chocolate Oatmeal Cookies

A staple around the holidays, these cookies require one pot and a stove top. These cookies contain dangerously delicious amounts of peanut butter and chocolate, and for a different texture, try making them with Crunchy peanut butter. (via Foodista)

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Vegan No Bake Brownies

Whip up these egg-free brownies in only 20 minutes! (via The Real Food Dietitians)

Vanilla and Bean

Chocolate Peanut Butter No Bake Cookies

These bite-size desserts are gluten free and incredible delicious. Bet you can't eat just one! (via Vanilla and Bean)

Completely Delicious

Chocolate Oreo Parfaits

This three-ingredient dessert is so simple and requires no oven! (via Completely Delicious)

Scotcheroo Bar

This classic from Buns in My Ovenis always welcome at large gatherings. Added bonus, you can make a whole pan of these treats in one batch making it a low stress contribution. (via Buns in My Oven)

Triple Chocolate Brownies

The name alone makes us hungry. Anything with that much chocolate has to be delicious. (via Food 52)

Peanut Butter Bar

Another large group friendly recipe, these Peanut Butter Bars from Our Best Bitesare sure to please even the pickiest of eaters, think a giant Reese’s cup. (via Our Best Bites)

Vegan Peanut Butter Cacao Fudge Bars

Yes these amazing looking fudge bars are vegan! That means none of your friends and family have to miss out on the holiday goodies. (via Lunch Box Bunch)

Oreo Truffles

How do dense and delicious little Oreo truffles sound to you? We’re certainly excited about this finger friendly truffle. (via Bakerella)

Chocolate Mousse

No no-bake list would be complete without a mention of mousse. So here is a fabulous chocolate mousse for your palate’s pleasure. (via Food Network)

Homemade Tootsie Rolls

Looking for a sweet gift for that candy lover in your life or maybe just trying to find an easy item to contribute to that holiday party? Look no further! (via Sprinkle Bakes)

Peppermint Fudge

This super simple fudge has color in all the right places. Not to mention the sweet crushed candy cane on top that makes this dessert undeniably festive. (via Shugary Sweets)

Girl Scout No-Bake Holiday Desserts

Thin Mint Cookies

Dreaming about Girl Scout Cookies? Satisfy your crunchy, minty craving by making your own thin mints and if you’re feeling generous, give some as gifts! (via Everyday Reading )

Thin Mint Puppy Chow

What makes the delectable powdered sugary goodness of puppy chow (or muddy buddies) even better? Some mint! (via Shugary Sweets)

Samoa Bars

Okay maybe we’re a little Girl Scout focused but if Thin Mints aren’t your thing why not make Samoa Bars! (via Babble)

No-Bake Holiday Cheesecakes

White Chocolate No-Bake Cheesecake

These very red and white little cheesecakes would add the perfect festive touch to any meal and will wow friends and family! (via Sprinkle Bakes)

Easy No-Bake Cheesecake

Ready to wow the folks at your Holiday table? Knock their socks off with this stunning and simple Cheesecake! (via Just a Taste)

Gingerbread Oreo No Bake Mini Cheesecakes

Oreos, cheesecake, and gingerbread all in one? I think I just died and went to no-bake dessert heaven. (via My Baking Addiction)

No-Bake Holiday Pies

No Bake Mini Grasshopper Pies

We can’t get over how sweet these little desserts are, both visually and to eat! These individual desserts would be a perfect addition to a small dinner party. (Image via A Pretty Life in the Suburbs)

S’More Pie

If you tried our S’More pie and loved it, you’ll love this version as well! It does take longer to make but maybe you could whip up both and have a blind tasting… (via Brown Eyed Baker)

Orange and Cream Pie

To satisfy, dare we say it, the non-chocoholics in the room. This classy pie will be refreshing and sweet. (via Joy the Baker)

Peanut Butter Pie

And the peanut butter just keeps coming! This light and fluffy peanut butter pie will keep Grandpa coming back for seconds. (via One Ordinary Day)

Vegan Walnut Pumpkin Pie

A vegan take on a Holiday classic. This pie is the best of both worlds! (via Lunch Box Bunch)

Miscellaneous No-Bake Holiday Desserts

Vanilla Panna Cotta and Pomegranate Jelly

This elegant dessert requires absolutely no oven and looks amazing in a delicate glass. Make sure the glasses allow easy access for large spoons! (via Inspired Edibles)

Candy Cane Bark

Chaos is key to a gorgeous candy cane bark. Throw everything together and voila! A dessert that’s ready to be gifted. (via Babble)

Oreo Layer Dessert

Cool whip and chocolate pudding, nothings better! This low maintenance dessert is perfect for the dessert maker that prefers to keep things simple. (via Brown Eyed Baker)

Banana Pudding with Homemade Salted Caramel

Just in case you’re looking for something a tiny bit old fashioned for a family dinner, give these a try! They are a delicious new take on a sweet classic. (via Just a Taste )

Peanut Butter Banana Granola Bites

If massive amounts of sugar and butter make you squirm, there’s no need to miss out on all the dessert fun. Try these slightly sweet and healthy granola bites! (via Joy the Baker)

Which no-bake holiday dessert recipe will you try before the end of 2024?

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Just like Gilmore Girls fans, The Holiday movie lovers get very passionate about which couple they love most: Iris and Miles (Kate Winslet and Jack Black) or Amanda and Graham (Cameron Diaz and Jude Law). But despite the fact Miles composing a song for Iris makes me swoon every single time, when I watch the movie, I can't help but think about how the true love story of the movie isn't between any of the romantic couples — it's between Iris and her new BFF Arthur.

Here's why the true love story in The Holiday is actually between Kate Winslet's Iris and Eli Wallach's Arthur.

Iris life changes forever when she meets Arthur in Los Angeles.

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The premise of The Holiday movie is pretty simple: Iris and Amanda swap homes for two weeks over Christmas to avoid their disastrous love lives, unknowingly agreeing to an adventure that ultimately changes them — and their love lives — forever. (Oh what I wouldn't give to hop on a plane to Europe to avoid boys. What a dream). When she lands in Los Angeles, Iris is totally overwhelmed by Amanda's gorgeous home, the DVD setup, and gigantic bed, but the aspect of her holiday that really shines is her ability to connect with people.

We see Iris learn all of the gardeners' names (as well as the mailman's) barely a week after arriving, and when she notices Amanda's elderly neighbor Arthur walking alone, she immediately pulls over to help him find his house. (Also, sidebar: this scene always terrifies me because why is Arthur in the middle of the street?! Why aren't you on a side walk, A?!).

Iris helps Arthur home and takes a look around his living room (which boasts at least one Emmy and Academy Award each) before inviting him to have dinner with her and boom! The greatest relationship in the movie is born.

Arthur empowers Iris to be "the leading lady in her own life."

These two become fast friends, as Iris confides in him about her disastrous love life that very same night, and he offers her a beautiful piece of advice about acting like "the leading lady in your own life" (remember folks, this was decades before main character energy). Iris also reminds him just how much of a role he played in Hollywood by helping him prep for his Writers Guild of America gala with strength training so he can climb the stairs without his walker.

So though it's not romantic, Iris and Arthur's relationship is the true love story of The Holiday because of how much love and confidence they offer each other. Neither of them expect anything in return — they just enjoy being together.

And Iris gives Arthur his confidence back too!

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Soon, it's time to head off to the WGA gala, and Arthur gives Iris a corsage, apologizing if it's corny or doesn't match her outfit. Iris declares she's "looking for corny," and it's such a small moment that really illustrates that the way they've empowered each other has changed their lives forever.

Iris helps Arthur feel sure of himself again, while Arthur's encouragement helps Iris find her power...and kick her ex Jasper out of her life forever! (Plus Arthur definitely picks up on the vibes between Iris and Miles during their Hanukkah dinner party. The ultimate wingman!).

When Iris and Arthur arrive at the WGA gala, and a sold-out crowd gives Arthur a standing ovation, it's clear he wasn't expecting so many people to care about his work. And in his overwhelming shock, he has Iris to lean on. Iris and Arthur don't only care about each other, they depend on each other, and their trust, love, and understanding is just the cherry on top. And sorry Jude Law, but I'll take that over romance any day.

Do you love relationship hot takes? Check out why The Best Bridgerton Relationship Has Nothing To Do With Romance either.

Finding the perfect stocking stuffers for the style-savvy people in your life doesn’t have to be a challenge. From chic accessories to must-have gadgets, this list of stylish picks is packed with thoughtful and trendy gifts they’ll actually love. Whether you’re shopping for fashion enthusiasts, beauty gurus, or design aficionados, these small but mighty finds will impress. Prepare to fill those stockings with gifts big on style and guaranteed delight.

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These Woobles Are Perfect for Kids

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The Woobles make gifting for kids effortless and delightful! These beginner-friendly crochet kits are designed to inspire creativity and teach a lifelong skill. The Holiday Collection features festive designs perfect for seasonal fun, while the Limited Edition Barbie Collection adds a touch of iconic style. The Animal Stocking Stuffers are the perfect petite gifts that deliver big smiles.

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Revolutionize Their Life With a Wellbeing Pod

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Give the gift of tranquility with the NEOM wellbeing pod. Perfect for creating a spa-like experience at home, this chic diffuser releases natural essential oils designed to uplift, relax, or energize. Its modern design blends seamlessly into any decor, making it a thoughtful and stylish gift for anyone who could use a little calm this holiday season.

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The Best Glassware for Your Party People

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Serax glassware is the ultimate upgrade for the entertainer in your life. These stunning, artisanal glasses add a touch of sophistication to any table setting, whether for holiday parties or intimate dinners. They’re a gift that combines practicality with elegance, perfect for those who appreciate beautiful, functional design.

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Hand-Poured Luxury With Candlefish Candles

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Warm their hearts and homes with Candlefish candles. Crafted with premium ingredients and available in various seasonal and signature scents, these candles set the perfect ambiance for holiday gatherings. Their charming packaging means they’re ready to gift—ideal for stocking stuffers, hostess gifts, or a cozy treat for yourself.

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Upgrade Their Sleep With Egyptian Cotton Sheets

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Wrap someone you love in pure luxury with Pura Prima’s 100% egyptian cotton sheets. Perfectly soft and breathable, these sheets promise a restful night’s sleep, making them an exceptional gift for anyone who values comfort and quality. Elevate their bedtime routine with this indulgent and practical present.

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Gift the Perfect Smile With a Teeth Whitening Set

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Give the gift of confidence with the Luminex teeth whitening set. This easy-to-use kit brightens smiles without sensitivity thanks to its gentle and effective formula. Perfect for beauty enthusiasts or anyone preparing for holiday photos, it’s a thoughtful and practical gift that leaves a lasting impression.

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Your Bookworm Needs This Book Light

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Reviewers rave about the different lighting settings on this portable book light, which lets them read next to a partner without disturbing their sleep. Its compact size and rechargeable design also make it an ideal travel companion.

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Fashion Footwear at Home With Fuzzy Slippers

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This pair of fuzzy slippers features a soft, cross-band plush design with a fluffy fleece finish for cozy comfort. The open-toe style is perfect for year-round wear, combining warmth and a trendy touch for home lounging. Their stylish look and comfortable feel make them a thoughtful and practical gift.

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Keep Them Warm With a Rib Knit Beanie

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The Carhartt rib knit beanie combines cozy warmth with iconic style. Made with soft, durable fabric, it’s perfect for chilly days. A versatile and timeless accessory, it’s a great gift for anyone who loves functional fashion.

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Fashion-Forward Glasses for a Fashionista

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These stylish blue light-blocking glasses combine a chic, preppy rectangle design with multicolor frames. They offer stylish protection against eye strain from screens and are perfect for work or play. They make a thoughtful and trendy gift for tech-savvy individuals.

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Warm Them Up in Style With Fur Earmuffs

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Combine practicality and style with these genuine rabbits fur earmuffs, a perfect stocking stuffer for trendsetters who want to stay warm in style. The adjustable design ensures a comfortable fit, while the plush fur adds a touch of luxury to any winter outfit. Ideal for chilly mornings or après-ski chic, these earmuffs are a thoughtful gift that blends function and fashion seamlessly.

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This Lip Balm With Nourishing Ingredients

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This lip balm is a necessity when you're leaving the house. The soothing vanilla scent adds a sweet twist, while the nourishing ingredients hydrate your pout while serving as the perfect pick-me-up for the dry days of the winter.

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An Artsy Fartsy Pen Holder

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This gift will surely delight with its funky sculptural face that is not only a pen holder but also a handy eyeglasses holder on the bridge of the nose. Give the gift of easy organization while adding to their unique art collection.

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This Mask Uses Watermelon Enzymes

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Not only does watermelon smell incredible but the enzymes in this mask can work to gently exfoliate the skin, and even promote cell turnover. Reviews say the cooling sensation of the mask feels so refreshing on the skin, and it's perfect for use overnight.

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This Adorable Alarm Adds Modern Charm

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Add something a little different to your home with this home-shaped alarm. The beautiful gadget uses bright LED lights to display the time clearly across the side of the sweet house.

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The Best Journal Paper Decorating Set

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Bullet journaling has taken the stationary game by storm, and we are all about gifting this entire paper decorating set to our doodle-loving, list-making friends. This kit will give them everything they need to create gorgeous, personalized notebook spreads.

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Get Rid of Knots with a Detangler Brush

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With this detangler brush, you won't have to spend time removing knots and tangles from your hair. It is great for any hair type and uses softball tips and a soft cushion that won't tear or pull the hair.

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A Creative and Meditative Puzzle

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This is the perfect gift for the floral-print-obsessed friend in your life. This bright and colorful botanical printed puzzle includes 500 pieces for a challenging yet relaxing adult craft that makes an excellent holiday gift.

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Stay Juciy and Hydrated With Ultra-Fine Spray

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This refreshing facial mist infuses watermelon extract, hyaluronic acid, and hibiscus AHAs to hydrate, brighten, and refine the look of tired skin. This ultra-fine spray delivers a dewy, glowing finish, perfect for setting your makeup or boosting moisture throughout the day.

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Gift Your Sugar a Cocktail Mix Kit

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Just in time for the holidays, this gold-brushed stainless steel cocktail mix kit includes a glamorous version of all the basic mixology tools for impressively crafted beverages at home.

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Skincare Girlies Love Hydrogel Face Masks

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Gift the ultimate glow with these snail mucin hydrogel face masks, an ideal stocking stuffer for skincare enthusiasts. Infused with nourishing snail mucin and collagen, these masks deliver intense hydration and a radiant glass-skin finish. Compact and travel-friendly, they’re perfect for on-the-go pampering or self-care nights, making them a luxurious yet practical treat for anyone’s beauty routine.

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Everyone Will Appreciate This Lip Balm Pack

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Keep lips soft and nourished with this Burt’s Bees lip balm pack, a perfect stocking stuffer for anyone who loves natural beauty products. Featuring classic beeswax and fruity favorites like strawberry, coconut & pear, and vanilla bean, these balms deliver long-lasting moisture with natural ingredients. Compact and festive, they’re a thoughtful addition to any stocking, ensuring smooth, kissable lips all winter.

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A Neoprene Sleeve for Your Coffee Lover

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This neoprene sleeve is designed to fit 22-28oz cups and features a chic “Like Fine China” pattern, combining practicality with flair. Perfect for on-the-go sippers, it’s a gift they’ll use daily, making it a thoughtful and trendy addition to their stocking

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Ultra-Cozy Unisex Sleep Socks

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These unisex sleep socks are made from ultra-soft, cloud-like fabric and provide unmatched warmth and coziness. Perfect for chilly nights or lazy mornings, they’re a thoughtful gift that brings relaxation to the next level.

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Silky Smooth Hand Cream

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Formulated with 20% organic shea butter, this vegan hand cream provides intense hydration while leaving skin soft and smooth. Perfect for winter care, it’s a thoughtful and indulgent treat for anyone on your list.

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Instant At-Home Spa With Shower Steamers

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Compact and travel-friendly, these shower steamers release soothing aromas, transforming daily showers into moments of self-care.

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Reusable and Eco-Friendly Cotton Rounds

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Made from soft cotton and bamboo, these cotton rounds are perfect for applying toner or removing makeup while reducing waste. The set includes ten pads and a washable laundry bag for easy storage and cleaning, making them a thoughtful gift for beauty and sustainability enthusiasts.

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Portable and Compact Jewelry Box

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This compact jewelry box, personalized with a stylish letter of your choice, features a plush velvet finish that combines elegance with practicality. Ideal for storing rings, earrings, and more, it’s a thoughtful gift for Christmas, birthdays, or any occasion.

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Tighten Those Cheek Bones With a Sculpting Tool

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This jade sculpting tool is perfect for facial and jaw massages, promoting relaxation and enhancing skincare routines. Compact and elegant, it’s an ideal stocking stuffer for women and teenage girls who love wellness and beauty.

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Luxe Manicure Maintenance With a Glass Nail File

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Upgrade their nail care routine with this premium glass nail file, a sleek and practical stocking stuffer for both women and men. Its crystal diamond surface is designed for natural and acrylic nails and ensures gentle and precise buffing. Complete with a protective case, this apricot-colored file is a stylish and thoughtful gift for anyone who values polished perfection.

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Voluminous Hair is Easy With Spiral Hair Ties

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Treat her to tangle-free styling with Kitsch spiral hair ties, the perfect stocking stuffer for all hair types. These no-crease, no-damage coil hair ties are ideal for thick or thin hair, providing a secure hold without pulling or snagging. The brunette blends seamlessly with darker hair tones, making them practical and stylish for everyday use.

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A Microfiber Hair Towel for the Long Hair Girls

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Give the gift of faster, frizz-free drying with a microfiber hair towel, an ideal stocking stuffer for women. This super-absorbent, extra-large towel dries hair 50% faster while being gentle on strands, reducing frizz and breakage. It’s a thoughtful and practical gift she’ll love, perfect for everyday use or as a spa-like treat.

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A Cute and Portable Pocket Mirror

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It's ideal for touch-ups on the go, featuring 1X/3X magnification and built-in LED lighting. This sleek pocket mirror, 2-sided folding design fits easily in a purse, combining practicality with style—a thoughtful and portable gift for beauty lovers.

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Instant Glossy Lips With Glowy Balm

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Treat lips to the perfect blend of hydration and shine with the LANEIGE lip glowy balm, an excellent stocking stuffer for beauty enthusiasts. Infused with shea butter, this lightweight balm delivers a glossy finish while moisturizing and adding a hint of tint.

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Gift These Gorgeous Gel Pens

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These aesthetic gel pens are the perfect stocking stuffer for anyone who loves stylish and functional stationery. Featuring a fine 0.5mm point, they’re ideal for precise writing, whether for school, work, or journaling. Perfect as gifts for teen girls, nurses, or office enthusiasts, these cute Japanese-inspired pens are both practical and chic.

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Treat Them to a Travel-Ready Beauty Set

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This travel-ready beauty set includes body oil, scrub, balm, and butter, all housed in a chic vegan leather pouch. Clean beauty formulations are ideal for anyone who loves indulging in high-quality, skin-nourishing body care.

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Remind Them With Badass Affirmation Cards

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Empower the women in your life with these badass affirmation cards, a perfect stocking stuffer for daily motivation. Packed with uplifting and inspiring messages, these cards are designed to boost confidence and positivity. Ideal for personal growth, mindfulness, or simply a daily dose of encouragement, they make a thoughtful and empowering gift.

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This Designer Makes the Best Pendant Necklace

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Elevate her style with the Kendra Scott pendant necklace, a chic and timeless stocking stuffer. This delicate piece of fashion jewelry features a dainty design, making it versatile for everyday wear or special occasions. Perfect for adding a touch of elegance, it’s a thoughtful gift that she’ll treasure.

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An Instant Headache Relief Cap

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Soothe stress and migraines with this headache relief cap, a thoughtful stocking stuffer for the women in your life. This cooling gel mask doubles as a cold compress and head wrap, effectively relieving headaches and tension. Perfect for moms, sisters, or teachers, it’s a comforting and practical gift they’ll appreciate.

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Mini and Portable Essential Oils

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Made with 100% natural ingredients, this roll-on promotes relaxation and tranquility, making it ideal for busy days or winding down—compact and easy to use, essential oils thoughtful gift for everyday wellness.

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A Traveling Manicure Set

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This manicure set is a practical and thoughtful stocking stuffer for anyone who values self-care. Featuring nail clippers and essential grooming tools for both men and women, it’s perfect for personal care at home or on the go. The sleek travel case keeps everything organized, making it a great gift for family, friends, or spouses.

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Everyone Could Use This Multitool

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Surprise the women in your life with this handy multitool, a thoughtful and versatile stocking stuffer perfect for moms, wives, sisters, or grandmas. Compact yet practical, it’s ideal for everyday tasks or on-the-go needs. Whether for Christmas, Mother’s Day, or birthdays, this multitool is a unique and functional gift they’ll love.

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